Body Shaming

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1. Have you ever been body shamed? How?

2. How did you feel?


3. Have you ever body shamed someone?
4. Why did you do that?
5. How do you like your body?
HOW TO DEAL WITH BODY-SHAMING?

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Nov 5, 2021
INTRODUCTION
Body shaming is rampant nowadays; both men and women experience body shaming. No matter
the body size, looks, skin color, and body shape individuals can experience this form of bullying.
Even just having stretch marks or a scar can be used to body shame a person. It can be because
of a person’s height, skin color, the way they dress, and sadly even a disability.
It happens online and offline; it’s too toxic and can negatively affect a person’s mental health.
Body shaming is a form of bullying where someone is judged based on the way they look.
Typically, a person is body-shamed by being overweight or underweight or by not fitting in with
society’s expectations of being “thin and beautiful”.
Hearing these cruel comments can be devastating and humiliating, which can affect a person’s
self-esteem. It can lead to depression and eating disorders. And you know what? Negative
comments of others can lead you to body shame yourself too. No one deserves to be judged
based on their appearance. What should you do? How do you deal with body shaming?
HOW TO RECOGNIZE BODY SHAMING
To deal with body shaming, the first step is to recognize if it’s
happening to you. So it can be easier for your to overcome,
recognize, avoid and deal with body shaming. Obviously,
someone saying “You’ve gained too much weight” or “You’re so
skinny, you need to eat some more” are upfront and hurtful
forms of body shaming.
But there are subtle forms of body shaming that are covered
with sarcasm you should recognize. This is a tricky spot that can
make you uncomfortable. Here are some examples:
Subtle comments like: “You’re too tall for a girl”, “Should you
be eating that cake?”, “You’re never going to find a boyfriend
looking like that”, “That outfit doesn’t fit you well”, “You need
to join the gym soon”, “Honey, you need to eat some more.”
HOW TO DEAL WITH BODY SHAMING
Whether it’s called body shaming or fat-shaming, one
thing is clear: nobody should be judged or feel ashamed
by the way they look. You only have one body, and you
should love yourself. Other people will always have
something to say, and you can’t definitely please
everyone.

You can’t live by what society expects of you, live by


your own terms, and love yourself. You should learn how
to feel good about yourself because you are worthy. Here
are valuable tips on how to deal with body shaming.
BODY POSITIVITY IS IMPORTANT
Your first step in dealing with body-shaming is body positivity. Body
positivity is about accepting and understanding that feeling good about
your appearance is important for your mental health. No matter what
shape or skin you have, you should love it. Be thankful for your good
health. Be grateful for what you have, not what you’re missing.
No amount of therapy can help you if you don’t feel confident about
yourself. Be free of worries about what your friends of the world think
of what you look like. Appreciate your body despite your flaws. You are
human, no one is perfect, and you should feel confident about your body.
If you want to improve your appearance, don’t do it because of what you
hear from other people. Do it because you want to become healthy or
want to feel good about yourself. The moment that you embrace body
positivity is the moment you can overcome body shaming.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY AND
ACCOUNTABILITY
Yes, you have to accept your body and be proud no matter what. But you also have to be open to
the possibility that there’s something wrong with your body. It’s about finding the balance. Some,
not all, may drop comments that are coming from a good heart, with no ill intentions, but may
come off as mean comments.
But you have to ask yourself too, maybe they’re coming from a place of concern and would want
the best for you, especially your parents. For example, gaining weight is a really sensitive topic.
It’s offensive to be called fat, and yes, that’s body shaming. But what if it’s a genuine concern?
Because as we all know, this can lead to obesity. And obesity increases a person’s risk of
developing diseases like diabetes or heart ailments.
For this, you should consider taking responsibility and accountability. After all, it’s your health
we’re talking about. So if you take action, do it for yourself and your health. After all, looking
good equates to feeling good too. You don’t need to be skinny; you just need to be healthy.
SELF-LOVE: BE KIND TO YOURSELF
There are many bullies in the world, and the last bully you
want to deal with is yourself. So it’s important to be kind to
yourself. You need to treat yourself with respect, self-love,
and kindness. Practice self-love, have positive self-talk and
love your body.

Stand in front of the mirror naked, look at yourself and learn


to love your body. Do not be self-deprecating because your
inner bully is the most worrying thing that can bring you
down. Take care of yourself, remind yourself of your good
qualities, and stop aiming for perfection. Aim to be a good
person, not the perfect person.
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR SOCIAL
MEDIA PLATFORMS
Social media is filled with a lot of things. Informational stuff, keeping in touch with friends and
sometimes cyberbullying. If body-shaming comments on social media cause you stress, take
control of it. Try to cut out toxic persons in your life, or unfollow those who make you feel bad
about yourself.
Instead, have a body-positive feed. Follow pages of influencers that promote messages of body
positivity. If your goal is to improve yourself physically, you can follow pages of fitness
inspirations or promotes health. But if your goal is to be positive, follow pages that encourage
self-acceptance.
Remember that even celebrities have flaws. Photos posted on social media can be deceiving,
filtered, or edited, so don’t believe everything you see on social media. Just be thankful for what
you have and for the chance of being alive.
WHAT TO SAY TO SOMEONE WHO IS
BODY SHAMING?
Instead of getting into an argument with someone
who body-shamed you, react with kindness. For
example, you can say, “Thank you for your concern.
For now, I’m trying to focus on loving myself and
being positive about my body. I’d appreciate it if you
don’t say things like this in the future”. Don’t argue
further and walk away from the conversation so it
won’t get worse.
Never spark an argument or fight back with body-
shaming them too, as this could cause you stress. You
should promote positive support, not comment mean
things.
HOW CAN BODY-SHAMING AFFECT A
PERSON?
Body shaming can negatively affect a person in many ways.

Body shaming may lead to:


• Low self-esteem
• Eating disorders
• Anxiety
• Depression
• Body image disturbance
• Body dysmorphic disorder
WHY DO WE NEED TO STOP BODY-
SHAMING?
You might not be aware of your actions or choose the right words, but you may body shame other
people too. Make sure to choose the right words and be extra sensitive to others. We all need to
stop body-shaming because this can cause trauma and have low self-esteem.

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