Latest Studies and Trends in Teaching EPP With Emphasis On The Following (Valuable Intrapersonal Skills)
Latest Studies and Trends in Teaching EPP With Emphasis On The Following (Valuable Intrapersonal Skills)
Latest Studies and Trends in Teaching EPP With Emphasis On The Following (Valuable Intrapersonal Skills)
You may have noticed these skills all have something to do with
your ability to self-regulate.
People with strong self-regulation abilities often have an easier
time:
• managing behavior and emotions
• weathering challenges
• working toward goals in spite of distractions
Unlike interpersonal skills like active listening, intrapersonal skills
may have less of an immediate impact on your interactions with others.
But they’re still essential.
Don’t worry if these skills don’t come to you naturally. It’s
absolutely possible to cultivate intrapersonal intelligence. The 10 tips
below can help.
Make (and keep) a schedule
Do responsibilities and to-do lists overwhelm you?
Maybe you frequently forget about commitments or let chores you dislike
pile up because you never feel like doing them.
It’s hard to get started when you have no idea where to begin. You
keep putting things off, but of course that leaves you with less time to
handle all those (potentially unpleasant) tasks.
If you tend to stray off task when you have a lot to do, try creating
a schedule that includes work commitments and appointments along
with social activities, household chores, and self-care, like exercise and
relaxation.
This can help because:
having reminders of everything you need to complete can help keep you
on track despite distractions
scheduling enjoyable activities reminds you there’s more to look forward
to than that mountain of laundry
After a few weeks, you might notice a change in how you
manage your time— even without the help of a schedule.
Redirect your natural talents
Very few people are naturally good at everything, and that’s OK!
But you probably have some specific strengths, even if you don’t
recognize them yet.
Maybe you have a knack for patience with small children or rude
co-workers, but you’re less patient with yourself when you make
mistakes.
Or perhaps you’re a fantastic problem-solver at work but have a
hard time addressing difficulties in your personal life.
It’s common to direct emotional skills outward in ways that benefit
others and fail to apply those same skills to your own experiences.
This can make it seem like you lack those skills, when really you
just find it easier to help other people. But you deserve that same
support.
Start practicing these strengths by considering what you’d do for
someone else in your situation.
If you’d encourage a friend to stick with something challenging, for
example, direct that persistence toward yourself instead of giving up.
Give meditation a try
Meditation can help you learn to mindfully recognize and accept what
you’re thinking and feeling without getting trapped in
negative thought spirals or self-judgment.
It’s a go-to practice for many people looking to increase emotional
awareness.
Its key benefits include:
• relaxation
• stress reliefTrusted Source
• improved sleepTrusted Source
Maybe these effects don’t directly help you reconnect with yourself.
But they can contribute to improved physical and emotional wellness.
Feeling mentally and physically strong can help boost your internal
resolve, making it easier to work through tough situations.
Meditation also has other benefits more relevant to increased self-
awareness:
It can help you focus your attention more effectively, which may lead to
improved concentrationTrusted Source in all areas of life.
Increased mindfulness may factor intoTrusted Source your
willingness to consider new ways to solve problems.
Make time for self-reflection
Self-reflection might seem like a pretty big undertaking. And yes,
it can cover a lot of ground.
But it really just involves thinking over your actions, choices, and
the things important in your life, including personal values and loved
ones.
When you self-reflect, you might pay attention to what habits work
well for you and where you experience challenges.
Maybe you:
avoid friends instead of leaning on them when struggling
procrastinate on tasks at work when you don’t understand them
The process can also help reinforce your knowledge of the people
and things that really matter.
This gives you the chance to explore new ways to achieve or hold
on to those things.
For example, your friends mean a lot to you, so you decide you
need to find a coping method that doesn’t involve shutting them out.
Keep a journal
Journaling can help you connect with yourself on a deep emotional level
by providing a tangible record of thoughts and feelings to look back on
later Your journal is a written record of you. It provides
a great space to keep track of important goals, emotions, and your
overall daily experience.
It also helps you pinpoint things you want to address, like low self-
confidence or lack of motivation.
Keeping a journal can also demonstrate growth over time.
When you doubt your internal abilities or feel as if you haven’t
accomplished much, glancing back through months or years past can
show you where your skills shone through.
Maybe you handled a crisis well or had the resilience to bounce
back from a painful breakup, for example.
Cultivate compassion
Increasing compassion for others can help you get more in tune
with your own emotional experience and help your self-compassion
flourish.
Compassion doesn’t always come easily. It’s often especially
difficult to have compassion for people who treat others badly and
demonstrate unkind, uncaring behavior.
But the saying “Put yourself in their shoes” is always a good place
to start. Considering another person’s perspective often provides
insight on why they might act in a certain way.
Performing a random act of kindness can also help promote
positive feelings toward others and yourself.
It also helps to remember everyone makes mistakes.
If you feel shame or guilt about something you regret doing,
remember we all do things we wish we could erase. Life doesn’t grant
do-overs, but you can always try again.
The second (or third) time around, you’ll have more knowledge
and experience, increasing your chances of getting it right.
Compassion and other self-awareness skills make it easier
to:recognize where you went wrong
accept that underlying factors and personal difficulties often make it
tough to make the best choice in every situation believe that most
people (including yourself) are trying to do the best they can with what
they have
Practice positive self-talk
The way you talk to yourself and think about yourself can have a
big impact on your internal experience.
Negative thought patterns and harsh self-criticism may seem like a
good way to motivate yourself and hold yourself accountable for
mistakes, but more often than not, these have the opposite effect.
Instead of mentally chewing yourself out when you mess up, try
taking a look at where you succeeded instead. What went right for you?
It’s still wise to note where you might have room to grow. But
praising yourself for strengths and achievements can help you
approach these weaker points with more confidence and determination.
Doing so can help it become easier to try again later.
Take chances
Trying something new can be scary. It often seems safer to stick with what
you know already works.
But sometimes a little risk can pay off, whether you’re:
trying to help a relationship thrive
launching into a new career
picking up a new hobby
Following the same routines can hold you back and keep you from
exploring alternatives that could fulfill your needs even more
effectively.