SDR Shy Bladder

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“Shy bladder sindrom”

Introduction
• A person with paruresis finds it difficult or impossible to urinate
(wee) when other people are around. Paruresis is believed to be a
common type of social phobia, ranking second only to the fear of
public speaking. Paruresis is often first experienced at school.

The condition affects men and women of all races. In mild cases,
paruresis is an occasional event, like a form of performance anxiety.
For example, a man at a public urinal may find that he is unable to
urinate when flanked by other men. In severe cases, a person with
paruresis can only urinate when alone at home. 

The condition is also known as ‘avoidant paruresis’, ‘shy bladder


syndrome’, ‘psychogenic urinary retention’ and ‘pee-phobia’
Simptoms
A person with paruresis typically has a sensitive, shy, conscientious personality and
is fearful of being judged or criticised by others. Paruresis can be mild, moderate or
severe. Signs and symptoms of severe paruresis can include:
• The need for complete privacy when going to the toilet
• Fear of other people hearing the urine hit the toilet water
• Fear of other people smelling the urine
• Negative self-talk while trying to urinate: for example: ‘I can’t do it. I’m never
going to pee. I’m such an idiot.’
• Inability to urinate in public toilets or at other people’s homes
• Inability to urinate at home when guests are present
• Inability to urinate at home if someone is waiting outside the toilet
• Feeling anxious about needing to go to the toilet
• Restricting drinks to reduce the need for urination
• Avoiding travel and social events
Similarities to agoraphobia
• Severe paruresis can affect a person’s life in a
similar way to agoraphobia, which is anxiety about
being in places or situations from which escape
seems difficult (typically, fear of crowds or being
outside the home). 

If a person can only successfully urinate when home


alone, they may avoid leaving the house. This can
reduce quality of life and curtail job opportunities.
The cause is psychological
• Paruresis is not a physical condition because nothing is wrong with
the person’s urinary tract. The urinary sphincter must be relaxed in
order for urine to flow from the bladder down the urethra. Anxiety
about urinating overstimulates the person’s nervous system and
‘clamps’ the sphincter shut. Failure to urinate heightens the
person’s anxiety, particularly if the bladder is uncomfortably full. 

For some people, an embarrassing incident starts the social


phobia: for example, the inability to urinate into a cup in front of a
doctor or nurse. Worrying about the embarrassing incident makes
the person feel anxious about urinating in the presence of others.
Diagnosis methods
• Various physiological conditions can hamper urination.
Prostatitis, for example, can make urination difficult for affected
men. The doctor will usually perform a series of tests to make
sure that nothing is physically wrong with your urinary tract. 

Generally, the diagnosis is paruresis if you can urinate


successfully when alone at home. The doctor may suggest the
short-term use of drugs such as tranquillisers or
antidepressants. However, these drugs will only reduce anxiety,
not cure the condition. In severe cases, the doctor may suggest
that you learn self-catheterisation. A catheter is a slender tube
inserted up the urethra and into the bladder to drain urine.
Treatment options
• You may like to consider joining a paruresis support group. In severe
cases, it may be helpful to see a psychologist. Treatment may include:
• Relaxation techniques – to learn a range of strategies to help reduce
anxiety.
• Psychotherapy – a type of counselling that helps you deal with the
here and now, and teaches problem solving.
• Cognitive behaviour therapy – changing the way you think and
behave.
• Graduated exposure therapy – a step-by-step program that involves
deliberately trying to urinate in increasingly more difficult places.
About eight people out of every 10 with paruresis are helped by
graduated exposure therapy.
Graduated exposure therapy explained (1)
• Make a ranked list of urination locations from easiest to most difficult.
For example, most people with paruresis find it easiest to urinate at
home alone. The hardest location is usually a crowded and noisy
public toilet. The idea is to start with the easiest locations and work
your way up in degrees to the most difficult.
• Have a ‘pee partner’ to support you. This could be a family member or
trusted friend.
• Ask your pee partner to stand as close to your home toilet as you feel
comfortable while you are trying to urinate. Urinate for a few seconds
then stop for a few minutes.

Have your pee partner stand a little closer to the toilet. Go back into
the toilet and urinate again for a few seconds, then stop.
Graduated exposure therapy explained (2)

• Keep practising, with your pee partner getting closer and closer
to the toilet. This may take several sessions over a period of time.
• Try to make as much noise as possible while urinating.
Deliberately splash your urine into the toilet water. Do this with
your pee partner nearby.
• Pick a quiet public rest room (once you are comfortable with
urinating at home) and then, with your pee partner standing
outside the toilet door, practise the same way you did at home.
• Use your pee partner and work your way up the ranked scale of
difficult locations until you can successfully urinate in a crowded
and noisy public toilet.
Graduated exposure therapy explained (3)

• Graduated exposure therapy is more successful if it is


practised often, perhaps three or four times per week.
• Drink plenty of water before your practice session to
make sure that your bladder is full.
• Avoid any negative self-talk while trying to urinate.
Remember that paruresis is a common social phobia.
You are not abnormal or ‘the only one’.
• Take it slowly, step by step. Don’t pressure yourself.
You should see considerable improvement after about
12 sessions or so.

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