SDR Shy Bladder
SDR Shy Bladder
SDR Shy Bladder
Introduction
• A person with paruresis finds it difficult or impossible to urinate
(wee) when other people are around. Paruresis is believed to be a
common type of social phobia, ranking second only to the fear of
public speaking. Paruresis is often first experienced at school.
The condition affects men and women of all races. In mild cases,
paruresis is an occasional event, like a form of performance anxiety.
For example, a man at a public urinal may find that he is unable to
urinate when flanked by other men. In severe cases, a person with
paruresis can only urinate when alone at home.
• Keep practising, with your pee partner getting closer and closer
to the toilet. This may take several sessions over a period of time.
• Try to make as much noise as possible while urinating.
Deliberately splash your urine into the toilet water. Do this with
your pee partner nearby.
• Pick a quiet public rest room (once you are comfortable with
urinating at home) and then, with your pee partner standing
outside the toilet door, practise the same way you did at home.
• Use your pee partner and work your way up the ranked scale of
difficult locations until you can successfully urinate in a crowded
and noisy public toilet.
Graduated exposure therapy explained (3)