- The document is the February 2012 newsletter of the Akron and Cleveland chapters of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).
- It provides information on upcoming chapter meetings and events in Akron and Cleveland, including guest speakers at the Akron chapter's February and March meetings.
- It also provides information on advocacy opportunities like a Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network training for school facilitators, volunteering for the 2014 Gay Games in Northeast Ohio, and contacting legislators to advocate for LGBT rights.
- The document is the February 2012 newsletter of the Akron and Cleveland chapters of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).
- It provides information on upcoming chapter meetings and events in Akron and Cleveland, including guest speakers at the Akron chapter's February and March meetings.
- It also provides information on advocacy opportunities like a Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network training for school facilitators, volunteering for the 2014 Gay Games in Northeast Ohio, and contacting legislators to advocate for LGBT rights.
- The document is the February 2012 newsletter of the Akron and Cleveland chapters of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).
- It provides information on upcoming chapter meetings and events in Akron and Cleveland, including guest speakers at the Akron chapter's February and March meetings.
- It also provides information on advocacy opportunities like a Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network training for school facilitators, volunteering for the 2014 Gay Games in Northeast Ohio, and contacting legislators to advocate for LGBT rights.
- The document is the February 2012 newsletter of the Akron and Cleveland chapters of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).
- It provides information on upcoming chapter meetings and events in Akron and Cleveland, including guest speakers at the Akron chapter's February and March meetings.
- It also provides information on advocacy opportunities like a Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network training for school facilitators, volunteering for the 2014 Gay Games in Northeast Ohio, and contacting legislators to advocate for LGBT rights.
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Northeast Ohio
February 2012 Vol. 43 No. 2
Parents,
Families
and
Friends
of
Lesbians
and
Gays
A joint publication of the Akron and Cleveland chapters
Inside this issue:
Chapter Info & News 2 3 4 5 6
By Ed Kancler, Akron chapter president
Events
n January, I always look back on the prior year, which then creates a bunch of random thoughts. Why do people tell me, with absolute certainty, what the Founding Fathers of our
country intended? Where did they get their knowledge? Not at the schools I attended. Why do people say confidently that this country was created on Christian values and beliefs, when many of our Founding Fathers were deists, who did not exactly believe all that is in the Bible? To name a few: Ben Franklin, George Washington, John Adams and Thomas Jefferson. We hear time and again that a particular idea is right and all others wrong. We see it in politics, as nauseum. But it
seems that no idea is perfect. And that, boys and girls in Washington, D.C., is why compromise is necessary in governing. Why the constant attempt by some to put religion into government, when it is clear that was not what the Founding Fathers had in mind? And, that gets us to LGBT (and Q, if necessary). There are legal rights that apply to everyone. Those rights are protected by the Constitution and are separate and apart from religious beliefs. When are more people going to get it? When are more people of reason going to say legal rights are one thing and are not to be confused with religious beliefs? This past year saw many steps forward for equality and some not. And so, 2012, here we are. In this regard, as we heard at the PFLAG National convention, if people believe in the Golden Rule, then more progress will be made, more understanding will occur and equality will be recognized. Here we go again! More work. More effort. And, ultimately, more equality for all.
Advocacy Marriage equality News
CHAPTER MTGS. Akron PFLAG Feb. 16, Mar. 15 - 7 pm N. Springfield Presbyt. 671 N. Canton Rd.
Opt to go green We are compiling an email list for our members and affiliates to receive the monthly newsletter electronically in PDF format (in lieu of a paper mailing). If you would like to subscribe, please send an email with your name and zip code to our managing editor at [email protected]. And thanks for helping us save paper and postage!
Wooster PFLAG Feb. 16, Mar. 15 - 7 pm Universalist Fellowship 3186 Burbank Rd. Please call ahead to confirm.
PFLAG Our Mission PFLAG promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons, their families and friends through SUPPORT to cope with an adverse society; EDUCATION to enlighten an ill-informed public; and ADVOCACY to end discrimination and to secure equal civil rights. PFLAG provides opportunity for dialogue about sexual orientation and gender identity and acts to create a society that is healthy and respectful of human diversity.
February program speaker
Just a reminder that Ohio Senator Frank LaRose will speak at our February chapter meeting (Thur., Feb. 16 at 7:00 p.m.). Senator LaRose has represented the 27th District since 2008. A decorated veteran of both the Kosovo conflict and the Iraq war, he will cover current issues facing the Ohio Senate, as well as issues facing Ohio.
be fired because they are gay. Shari Hutchinson, a longtime friend of Akron PFLAGers, Jean, Verle, and Joe Gardner, will speak at the March 15 meeting (7:00 p.m.). She will share some firsthand experiences involving job discrimination and discuss options in dealing with these unfair practices.
Scholarship recipient
We congratulate Brian Wakely, the first recipient of the Akron PFLAG-LGBT StudOur March program should be an interest- ies Scholarship at Kent State. We hope to visit with Brian in the next few weeks ing one for anyone concerned with the and will share information on his major fact that Ohio has no law preventing job and studies in next months newsletter. discrimination based on sexual orientation. In fact, in Ohio a person can even
March program speaker
AKRON CHAPTER PO Box 5471 Akron, OH 44334 W W W . P F LA G A K RO N . O RG
Cleveland chapter news
Spring business meeting times, film festival City Cinemas. Our chapters sponsored film will be announced in the March newsOur chapters annual business meeting letter. For festival information, call 216will be held March 13 at 5:30 p.m., prior to 623-3456 or visit www.clevelandfilm.org. the support group meeting at 7:30 p.m.. A light supper will be served and elections Save the dateRegional meeting for president and vice-president will be PFLAG Cleveland will host the regional held. meeting of PFLAG September 7-9. The meeting includes PFLAG members and Cleveland Intl. Film friends from Ohio, Indiana, Illinois, MichiFestival gan, Western Pennsylvania, and Northern The 36th Cleveland InterKentucky. More information on programnational Film Festival is ming and registration coming soon. March 22-April 1 at Tower
Executive Board President-Ed Kancler; VP-Bill Libby; Secretary-Joe Gardner; Treasurer-Sue Magilavy; At Large-Chris Goldthorpe, Bob and Valerie Hempel, David Horowitz, Marie Libby, Audrey Kancler, Jim Lake, Chuck Magilavy, Bob Menapace, Kim and Joe Mosyjowski, Joy Watts
The State PFLAG meeting is being scheduled for Saturday, April 14. The Lima chapter, a fairly new but very active group, will host the event. More details and registration information will be in next months newsletter.
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PFLAG National scholarship
Applications for the 2012 PFLAG National Scholarship are now available. Visit pflag.org and click on Education & Programs for info and online form.
Advocating for safe schools
GLSEN NEO offers training class, names co-chairs chair of the LGBT Caucus for the American Federation of Teachers. The Gay, Lesbian & After 30 years in the Cincinnati Straight Education Network of Northschools, he has retired to Akron and east Ohio will host a 3-day training has served on the board of CANAPI, March 23-25 at Case Western Reserve Community AIDS Network & Akron University for new school facilitators Pride Initiative. interested in assuring that all K-12 GLSEN anti-bullying message schools are safe for all students.
Facilitator training class
CANAPI events Community AIDS Network and Akron Pride Initiative
Drag Bingo February 26 & April 29 5:00 p.m. @ Greystone Hall 103 S. High St., Akron $20 tickets include fabulous drag show after bingo, as well as heavy hors doeuvres, coffee, tea, and cash bar, plus 9 cards per bingo game for 5 games. Minimum payout $50. Jackpot round $250. Advance reservations are highly recommended. Call 330-252-1559 and leave a message for a call back.
The training will provide information on resources such as GLSENs Safe Space Kit (www.safespacekit.com). For class info or to register: [email protected].
reaches Super Bowl audience
Football fans at the Super Bowl on were greeted by a message against antigay bullying on huge video billboards, thanks to a generous donation by Grazie Media to GLSEN. The Think Before You Speak ad campaign features Hilary Duff, Wanda Sykes and Grant Hill speaking out against bullying and slurs.
Akron advocate new co-chair
GLSEN NEO also named two new cochairs: Jeff Bixby and Gary DiBianca. Bixby is the former co-chair and founder of GLSEN Cincinnati and the co-
Cuyahoga Comm. College events
LGBTs in television Author and lecturer Steven Capsuto will present a whirlwind tour of LGBT television history on Tuesday, Feb. 28,7:008:00 p.m. on Tri-Cs western campus, 11000 Pleasant Valley Rd., Parma. Video clips, backstage stories, and more. LGBT Art Therapy Group The Hospice of Western Reserve The Elisabeth Prentiss Bereavement Center, 300 E. 1885th St., Cleveland, will host an on-going group for members of the LGBT community who have lost a loved one. Participants need not have had a hospice experience. Suggested $5 donation for supplies. Meets Tuesday, Mar. 27, 6:30-8:30 p.m. To register: 216-486-6544 or email [email protected].
Reverse Raffle/Day at Races
A very entertaining fundraising event, the annual reverse raffle and day at the races will be held Saturday, Mar. 24 from 6:30-10:00 p.m. at St. Josephs Center, 610 W. Exchange St., Akron. Tickets are $75 if purchased by March 16 or $100 at the door. Includes raffle ticket, open bar, buffet, and admission to the races. For tickets visit www.canapi.org or call 330-252-1648.
Gay Games seeks PR volunteers
GG9 needs skilled volunteers to help promote the Gay Games, which are being hosted in Northeast Ohio in 2014. They need graphics/web designers, copywriters, video producers, editors, PR and social media wizards, to target local, national, and international audiences. For more information, contact Jennifer Downey [email protected] or Michael Varvaro [email protected].
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Make your voice heard today
By Pat Brandt, Cleveland chapter
We, as Americans are both blessed with the right and saddled with the responsibility of democracy. It is our right and our responsibility to go to the polls and vote for our legislators. That is our power.
Last November, several of us Northeast Ohio PFLAG members traveled to Washington for Lobby Day and had our voices heard by our senators and representatives in Congress. It was a good experience that I wish everyone could have. We It is also our right and responsibility to made sure that our stories were told and let our legislators know how they should our voices were heard. be voting for us, the constituents who put them into office. Perhaps your can- But you dont have to drive for hours to didate of choice is not in that chair in inform your elected officials. Write or phone or tweet or e-mail themsome of Washington, D.C., this term, but that them may be on Facebook. The safe doesnt mean your voice should be schools legislation is being considered tuned out. He still represents you and the guy who voted for him equally. at both the state and federal levels. It should be important to all of us for a And who is to say that if he does not myriad of reasons, not just because we hear your voice that he will still be sitting are LGBT friendly. This is an issue in that chair in D.C. down the road? about children. That is our responsibility.
The PFLAG Cleveland website has a variety of tools for your use to contact your legislators and let them know how important this is to you and your family. Please utilize the tools todayeverything is there for you: a sample letter, contact info for some legislators, website for legislation information and contact information if your district information is not listed. It shouldnt take more than five minutes of your time. Visit www.pflagcleveland.org to make your voice heard. Please do it. If we do not use our power, if we do not act on our responsibility, how can we expect change?
Just one voice can be heard
By Deb Kimble, newsletter managing editor
CWRU LGBT Center art competition
Case Western Reserve Universitys LGBT Center is sponsoring an art competition for students enrolled at CWRU, the Cleveland Institute of Music, and the Cleveland Institute of Art. Graduate, professional and undergraduate students are invited to submit pieces of art that resonate with the Centers purpose to provide a safe and welcoming space for all LGBT people and their allies. All forms of visual art are encouraged, including photography, painting, sculpture, and drawing. The artist does not need to be LGBT. Entries must be submitted, with application form, to the Center by February 29. For details and application, contact Liz at [email protected] or 216-368-LGBT.
Sometimes we feel that a single voice isnt enough to change anything. I want to tell you that sometimes it can. My family and I have a membership to a fitness center in our area. We love it and have bragged about it to many of our friends, including a lesbian couple weve known for years. In November, they attempted to get a family membership, only to be told that since Ohio did not recognize them as being married, they would need to purchase a family membership plus an individual onebasically paying double what I pay for the same membership. I was embarrassed and angry when I learned of this. After stewing on it for much too long, I wrote a letter to the vice president of the company. I explained as calmly and as reasonably as I could that I felt partly responsible for subjecting my friends to a humiliating act of discrimination in front of
their children. I reminded him that governments rarely legislate equality until individuals and private corporations press it upon them. And I politely asked him to consider making a positive change for the community the company served. I tried to be informative and civil, and thanked him for his consideration. I got a call and an email from the VP that same week, who mentioned their policy was 15 years old and probably in need of updating. The following week I was notified that the company had added a same-sex domestic partner option to their membership policy, effective immediately. I realize the overall fight for LGBT equality will require protests, lawsuits, and tireless advocacy. But I wanted you to also know that sometimes one change can be made with just one voice.
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Ohio mayors join Freedom to Marry campaign pledge
Six Ohio mayors are among a growing list of local officials who have joined Freedom to Marrys Mayors for the Freedom to Marry campaign, which supports marriage equality for same-sex couples. Ohio Mayors who have signed the pledge to date are: Frank Jackson of Cleveland, Mark Mallory of Cincinnati, Don Plusquellic of Akron, Edward Kelly of Cleveland Heights, David Berger of Lima, and Sara Drew of Stow. Mayors Michael Bloomberg of New York, Antonio Villaraigosa of Los Angeles, Rahm Emanuel of Chicago and Annise Parker of Houston were some of the big city mayors from around the country supporting the initiative.
Marriage equality news updates
Maine The Advocate reported last week that marriage equality advocates in Maine say they have enough signatures to put the issue back on the ballot. They have received support from Rep. Chelllie Pingree (D-Maine), who called for an end to discrimination against same-sex families. They share homes and they raise children together, they remain committed to each other through the ups and downs of life, she said in the brief speech. But because they are samesex couples, they are denied the right to honor their love and commitment to each other through marriage. The state legislature had passed a promarriage equality measure in 2009, but it was repealed by a voter referendum. In an analysis of 2010 census date, the Williams Institute estimated that there are nearly 4,000 same-sex couples living in Maine, the Advocate reported in the article.
cities who are in committed, loving relationships, who are active participants in civic life, and who deserve to be able to marry the person with whom they share their life...Our cities derive great strength from their diversity, and gay and lesbian families are a crucial part. Studies have shown what we know through our hands-on experiencethat cities that celebrate and cultivate diversity are the places where creativity and ideas thrive. To encourage your mayor to sign on to the Freedom to Marry campaign (or to sign on yourself) go to freedomtomarry.org. Equality Ohio is also sponsoring public events, like a rally planned for March 24 in Cleveland (see below), to bring attention to the rights denied to same-sex couples and families in Ohio.
Washington The state Senate this week passed a bill to allow gay marriage in Washington. The bill now goes to the House where it is expected to pass. Gov. Chris Gregoire, a Democrat, has said she will sign the bill if it makes it to her desk, according to news reports. According to USA Today, opponents are expected to make a push to have the same-sex marriage issue put on the ballot for voters in November if the bill is signed into law. Washingtons so-called everything but marriage law survived a similar referendum challenge in 2009. Six states currently allow same-sex couples to wed are Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, New Hampshire, and New York. The District of Columbia also allows it.
The group released the following statement that read in part: As mayors of great American cities, we proudly stand together in support of the freedom of same-sex couples to marry. We personally know many gay and lesbian people living in our
SAVE this DATE too!
Join the Ohio street protest for marriage equality on Saturday, Mar. 24 at 11:00 a.m. on Public Square in downtown Cleveland (intersection of Ontario St. and Superior Ave.). For more info visit www.facebook.com/MarriageEqualityOhio.
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Ending housing discrimination against LGBT Americans
By Shaun Donovan, U.S. Secretary of Housing and Urban Development
Editors note: This blog appears on the HUD blog site blog.hud.gov. On January 28, I was proud to speak before the 24th National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Creating Change Conference, where I announced the publication of a new Equal Access to Housing Rules that says clearly and unequivocally that Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and couples have the right to live where they choose. The need for this rule is clear, particularly when it comes to housing. According to one recent report, not only are 40 percent of homeless youth LGBT, half of them report experiencing homelessness as a result of their gender identity or expression. Even more troubling, the majority of them report harassment, difficulty, or even sexual assault when trying to access homeless shelters. Thats not just wrong its not who we are as Americans. And as the Injustice at Every Turn report put out by the Task Force
First, an equal access provision making clear that housing that is financed or insured by HUD must be made available without regard to actual or perceived sexual orientation, gender identity, or marital status. Second, by prohibiting owners and operators of HUD-funded housing, or housing whose financing we insure, from inquiring about an applicants sexual orientation or gender identity or denying housing on that basis. Third, the new rule makes clear that the term family includes LGBT individuals and couples as eligible beneficiaries of HUDs public housing and voucher programs programs that collectively serve 5.5 million people. Finally, the rule makes clear that sexual orientation and gender identity should not and cannot be part of any lending decision when it comes to getting an FHA-insured mortgage. Particularly with FHA playing an elevated role in the housing market today, this represents a critical step in ensuring that LGBT Americans have fair access to the dream of responsible, sustainable homeownership. Of course, publishing HUDs new rule wont be the end of the process. HUD and its fair housing partners will work to provide guidance and training, to ensure that communities across the country are following the rules. Its clear that as critical as this new rule is, this work is just beginning. But with the rules publication, the Obama Administration is reaffirming that the state of our union is strongest when everyone gets a fair shot, everyone does their fair share, and everyone plays by the same rules. And by ensuring that all Americans have the opportunity to live where they choose, raise their families, and contribute to their communities, thats the commitment I was so proud to represent on Saturday.
and the National Center for Transgender Equality last year found, these challenges are all too common. Thats why HUD is working to ensure that our housing programs are open to all the rule will open access to housing for LGBT individuals and families in four important ways:
UN Secretary General calls for end to homophobia in Africa
United Nations Secretary General Ban Ki-Moon called upon African nations to end governmentsanctioned discrimination and violence against LGBT people during a speech at the African Union summit in January. According to news reports, he called such policies a violation of the UNs declaration of human rights. One form of discrimination ignored or even sanctioned by many states for too long has been discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity, he said, according to Agence France Press. In December, the UN issued its first ever report on LGBT human rights, detailing how around the world people are killed or endure hate-motivated violence, torture, detention, criminalization, and discrimination in jobs, health care and education because of sexual orientation or gender identity.
