STANDARD 7 LIFE SKILLS
STANDARD 7 LIFE SKILLS
STANDARD 7 LIFE SKILLS
FOR
STANDARD 7
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Written by Zikomo Masese Banda
TABLE OF CONTENTS
UNIT PAGE
UNIT 1 BASIC FACTS ABOUT STIS INCLUDING HIV AND AIDS 3
UNIT 16 PLANNING 22
REFERENCES 24
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UNIT 1 BASIC FACTS ABOUT SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS (STIs) INCLUDING HIV AND AIDS
WRITTEN BY ZIKOMO MASESE BANDA
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Seeking early treatment
Introducing home based care units
Sensitising people on income generating activities
Sensitising people on showing love and care to the patient
Forming HIV and AIDS groups for easy access to basic needs and support
Providing guidance and counselling
Establishing orphanage centres
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- A person who is tested negative for HIV still undergoes counselling to maintain his or her negative
status
- The one who is tested positive also receives counselling and is encouraged to protect himself or
herself.
- The one tested positive is also advised to seek medical, social and psychological support from
health practitioners, religious leaders and others around.
To the family
- Knowing the status of the infected and affected member helps care givers to play a supportive role.
To the community
- Knowing the status of the infected and affected member helps care givers to play a supportive role.
BARRIERS TO HTC
Scarce testing facilities
The stigma of HIV infection
Lack of information
Perception of low risk
Lack of confidentiality
Transportation problems
Fear of test results
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WAYS OF OVERCOMING BARRIERS TO HTC
Encouraging people to be open and take AIDS as any other disease
Sensitising people on the importance of HTC
Publicising all the HTC centres in the area
Establishing more HTC centres throughout the country
Seeking counselling
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REASONS WHY MORE FEMALES THAN MALES ARE INFECTED WITH AND AFFECTED BY HIV AND AIDS
Some females do not have reliable sources of income and depend on males for their financial
support
More females do not negotiate for safer sex
Females take care of the sick and orphans
They maintain the home
They participate in community work
Their biological make up makes them more vulnerable to contracting HIV which leads to AIDS
These reasons increase their chances of contracting HIV which leads to AIDS.
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lack of conducive environment for the patient
lack of follow up by medical personnel
stigmatisation
inadequate psychological, emotional and spiritual support by the community
WAYS OF MANAGING PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH HOME BASED CARE AND SUPPORT
training the care providers on how to take care of the patient
lobbying for financial support from well-wishers
mobilising the community for help in establishing drug revolving fund
providing a conducive environment by cleaning the surrounding and digging pit latrines
persuading medical personnel to visit the patients as frequently as possible
intensifying psychological, emotional and spiritual support for the patient
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II. Mediation
Mediation is a process where two persons who are in conflict involve a third person to help them
come up with the solution to the problem. This person is called a mediator.
III. Arbitration
Arbitration a process similar to mediation, however, the third person that is involved is called an
arbitrator. The arbitrator acts like a judge as he or she gives the final judgement as to who is right
and who is wrong.
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d) Relationships between males and females
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UNIT 7 EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ON HIV AND AIDS
FACTORS THAT ENHANCE EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ON HIV AND AIDS
choice of channel of communication
choice of language
audience to be communicated
SKILLS THAT PLAY AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION ON HIV AND AIDS
tolerance
patience
empathy
negotiation
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UNIT 8 SUPPORTING THE LESS PRIVILEGED
THE LESS PRIVILEGED
The less privileged are people who lack opportunities or advantages enjoyed by other members in
communities.
These include
orphans
the aged
the physically and mentally challenged
street children
widows
the sick Needs of the less privileged
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UNIT 9 DRUG AND SUBSTANCE USE AND ABUSE
MISCONCEPTIONS ASSOCIATED WITH THE USE AND ABUSE OF DRUGS AND SUBSTANCES
Drugs and substances make a person intelligent
Drugs make person forget his or her problems
Drugs are fashionable and that it is primitive not to use drugs and substances
Drugs make a person feel energetic when doing work or studying
Culture
Some cultures tolerate the use of substances such as alcohol and chamba during ceremonies such as
weddings and funerals.
Loneliness
Sometimes loneliness can influence some people to start taking drugs and substances.
HOW ABUSE OF DRUGS AND SUBSTANCES CAN EXPOSE THE YOUTH TO HIV AND AIDS
engaging themselves in an unprotected sexual intercourse because of loss of self control
using unsterilized needles to inject each other
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UNIT 10 PEER GUIDANCE AND COUNSELLING
Peer guidance and counselling is where members of the same age group come together to help one
another solve their problems.
The youth who are empowered have high self esteem and are able to stand for their rights.
While they may empowered by their parents and teachers, it is necessary that youths of the same age,
class, group or school listen to and help each other on how to address the everyday challenges.
Youths must assist one another by finding solutions to their own problems by sharing experiences on how
some of them addressed similar challenges.
This can be done through narrating the stories, sharing health talks, one-to-one talks, debates, songs,
poems and drama
Sexual abuse
It is very common these days to hear that young people are sexually abused by adults. These adults may
take advantage of the youth by offering them rewards such as money and gifts.
In schools, some teachers who are not responsible enough may promise girls and boys high grades in
exchange for sexual favours.
This puts the youth at risk of contracting STIs including HIV and AIDS. It is therefore important that the
youth resist and report such incidences.
Orphanhood
Orphans usually suffer grief and confusion. This is worsened by prejudice and social exclusion which may
lead to dropping out of school and lack of health care. The resulting poverty and lack of support can
expose them to risks such as contracting HIV and AIDS.
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By training the youth to have a sense of belonging
By training the youth to stand firm for their rights
By accepting situations in which they are
By finding positive ways of improving their situations
Adolescence
This is the time when youths undergo physical, emotional and psychological changes. They begin to search
for their identity.
Sexual relationships
Due to physical and psychological changes, youths become curious to know the physical changes of the
opposite sex. In addition to this, they become sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex.
Peer pressure
This is the influence by members of the same age group to behave in a particular way. Peer pressure may
have both positive and negative effects.
Culture practices
Some cultural practices can lead to the spread of STIs including HIV and AIDS because they encourage
young people to indulge themselves in risky behaviours such as early sex and drug and substance abuse.
Such cultural practices are initiation ceremonies, chokolo, fisi, kusasa fumbi and mbirigha.
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EFFECTS OF WRONG DECISION MAKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING
Situation Effects on the youth
Adolescence Youth indulge themselves in immoral behaviours leading to
contraction of STIs including HIV and AIDS.
Sexual relationship Unwanted pregnancies
Abortion
Drop out of school
Contraction of STIs including HLV and AIDS
Negative peer pressure Leading to drug and substance abuse
Crime
Suicide
Contraction of STIs including HIV and AIDS
Unwanted pregnancies
Culture practice Forced marriages
Early marriages
Contraction of STIs including HIV and AIDS.
THE IMPORTANCE OF DECISION MAKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING WHEN RESOLVING CONFLICTS AMONG
THE YOUTHS AND PARENTS
Decision making helps a person to analyse an issue and think critically about it in order to solve a
given problem
Promoting the ability to resist situations that may lead to problems
Helping one to avoid delinquency
Helping individuals to concentrate on productive activities
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death of a loved one
adolescence
academic failure
divorce
teenage pregnancy
poverty
bullying
teasing
unfaithfulness
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awareness of oneself
avoiding gender stereotyping
avoiding religion stereotyping
avoiding tribal stereotyping
avoiding disability stereotyping
rewards
success in one’s plans
supportive school and home environment
IMPORTANCE OF ASSERTIVENESS
avoiding social problem
avoiding health problem such as STIs including HIV and ALDS
achieving set goals
promoting one’s identity
getting more of what one wants
feeling good about oneself
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UNIT 14 PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL CHANGES DURING ADOLESCENCE
MEANING OF PUBERTY AND ADOLESCENT AND ADOLESCENT
Puberty
Puberty is a period when boys and girls reach the age when their physical features begin to change from
the body of a child to that of an adult.
Adolescence
Adolescence is a period in a person’s life between childhood and adulthood.
Adolescent
Adolescent is a young person between childhood and adulthood.
Changes in boys
Physical changes Psychological changes
Growing taller and heavier. The hands and They prefer to be treated like adults and
shoulders become bigger and stronger. want to make their own decisions
The penis and testes increase in size They develop more self confidence. They
The penis becomes erect more often and there do not like to be forced to do things they
may be wet dreams do not want to do
The skin becomes oily and pimples grow on the They develop sexual feelings and start
face getting excited on seeing a girl
Hairs grows around pubic area, in the armpits Interest in girls increases and start to taking
and eventually on the face and chest extra care on how they look
Producing sperm There are frequent changes in their mood
The voice becomes deeper and sensitive to their appearance
They develop increased sensitivity to failure
They become more sensitive to remarks
from adults and peers about the changes
Changes in girls
Physical changes Psychological changes
Grow faster. The hips get wider and the breasts They develop sexual feelings and start
start to grow getting excited on seeing a boy
The skin becomes oily and pimples develop on the Interest in boys increases and start to
face taking extra care on how they look
Hair grows around vagina and the armpits
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They experience first menstruation period They develop more self confidence and do
Enlargement of the labia and clitoris not like to do things they do not want
Ovaries get bigger and developed They prefer to be treated like adults and
voice becomes soft want to make their own decisions
They become sensitive to remarks from
adults and peers about the changes
Frequent changes in their mood occur
They become increasingly sensitive to
failure
Sexual curiosity – desire to know more
about sexual organs especially of opposite
sex
Keen on reading books concerning sex and
other social activities
Desire for independence from parents and
other adults
Feeling of love and hate
The physical changes in boys and girls during adolescence tend to influence their psychological changes.
This is because at this stage the sex hormones called testosterone in boys and oestrogen in girls are being
produced. These hormones influence their emotional behaviour.
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Parents
Parents are an important source of information from which children learn about sex and sexuality. As
parents teach children about accepted codes of conduct and behaviour, they learn about sex and sexuality
Mass media
Mass media such as television, radios, newspapers and magazines contribute a lot to information on sex
and sexuality.
Peers
Peers is another important source of information from which children learn about sex and sexuality. They
acquire knowledge about males and females. In addition, they learn about their roles as they play and
work together at school and home.
Community
Children learn a lot about sex and sexuality by observing what goes on in their community. They also learn
through interaction with the members of the community during initiation ceremonies.
Religion
Religion is another source of information to children on sex and sexuality. It teaches different principles of
moral behaviour. As children learn about these moral principles they also acquire information about sex
and sexuality.
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UNIT 16 PLANNING
Planning is the process of setting guidelines for oneself to achieve intended goals or objectives.
A plan in a self disciplining guideline to ensure that activities are carried out efficiently.
1
Identifying
goals
2
Organising
resources
6
Evaluation
3
Choosing
course of
5 action
Monitoring
4
Implementing
the plan
1. Identifying goals
Outlining activities one wants to do
2. Organising resources
After the goals have been identified, you think of the resources that you need to achieve your
goals. These may include human, material, time, monetary resources. This needs skills such as
decision making, creative thinking and critical thinking.
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4. Implementing the plan
Translating the plan into action or doing the activity using the resources available.
5. Monitoring
This is making a follow up to see the progress of the activity to do
6. Evaluation
Assessing what has been done. You actually judge whether the activity is being done according to
your plan.
REFERENCES
MIE (2008) Life Skills Teacher’s Guide for Standard 7, Domasi; MIE.
MIE (2008) Life Skills Learner’s Book for Standard 7, Domasi; MIE.
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