成功的关键不是智商,而是毅力
成功的关键不是智商,而是毅力
成功的关键不是智商,而是毅力
在我27岁的时候,我辞去了⼀份⾮常有挑战性的职业⼀企业管理咨询,转
⽽投⼊了⼀份更加具有挑战性的职业:教育。我来到纽约的⼀ 些公⽴学校
教7年级的学⽣的数学。和别的⽼师⼀样,我会给学⽣们做⼩测验和考试,
我会给他们布置家庭作业。当这些试卷和作业收 上来之后,我计算了他
们的成绩。
What struck me was that IQ was not the only difference between stratospheric
my best and my worst students. Some of my strongest performers adj.最⾼层的
did not have stratospheric IQ scores. Some of my smartest kids
weren't doing so well. And that got me thinking. The kinds of decimal
things you need to learn in seventh grade math, sure, they're hard: adj.⼩数的
ratios, decimals, the area of a parallelogram. But these concepts
are not impossible, and I was firmly convinced that every one of parallelogram
my students could learn the material if they worked hard and long n.平⾏四边
enough.
形
让我震惊的是,IQ的⾼低并不是我最好的和最差的学⽣之间唯⼀的差
别。⼀些在课业上表现很好的学⽣并不具有⾮常⾼的IQ分数。⼀些⾮常
聪明的孩⼦反⽽在课业上表现的不那么尽如⼈意。这引起了我的思考。当
然,学⽣们在7年级需要学习的东西是有难度的,像⽐率,⼩数,平⾏四
边形的⾯积计算。但是这些概念是完全可以被掌握的, 我坚信我的每⼀
位学⽣都可以学会教材内容,只要他们肯花时间和精⼒的话。
After several more years of teaching, I came to the conclusion that
what we need in education is a much better understanding of motivational
students and learning from a motivational perspective, from a adj.动机的
psychological perspective. In education, the one thing we know
how to measure best is IQ. But what if doing well in school and in
life depends on much more than your ability to learn quickly and
easily?
经过⼏年教学之后,我得出⼀个结论,我们在教育⽅⾯所需要的是从学习
动⼒的⾓度和⼼理学的⾓度,对学⽣和学习⾏为进⾏⼀次更为深刻的理
解。在教育体系中,我们都知道评价优秀学⽣的标准就是IQ,但如果在学
校和⽣活中的优秀表现远不仅仅依赖于你轻松⾼效学习的能⼒呢?
Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals. Grit is stamina
having stamina. Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out, n.耐⼒,持
not just for the week, not just for the month, but for years, and 久⼒
working really hard to make that future a reality. Grit is living life
like it's a marathon, not a sprint. sprint
毅⼒是对长远⽬标的激情和坚持,毅⼒是拥有持久的恒劲, 毅⼒是你对 n.短跑
未来的坚持,⽇复⼀⽇不是仅仅持续⼀个星期或者⼀个⽉, ⽽是⼏年甚
⾄⼏⼗年努⼒奋⽃着让⾃⼰的梦想变为现实。毅⼒是把⽣活当成⼀场马
拉松⽽不是⼀次短跑。
To me, the most shocking thing about grit is how little we know,
how little science knows, about building it. Every day, parents and
teachers ask me, "How do I build grit in kids? What do I do to ethic
teach kids a solid work ethic? How do I keep them motivated for n.道德规范
the long run?" The honest answer is, I don't know.
对于我⾃⼰来说,关于毅⼒最让我震惊的事情莫过于对于毅⼒,我们知
之甚少,在培养毅⼒上, 科学对理解的认识又是何等贫乏。每天都有家长
和⽼师来问我,”我怎样做才 能培养孩⼦的毅⼒呢?该做些什么才能教授
给孩⼦们真正的职业道德?又 该怎样调动他们长期的积极性呢?”⽼实说,我
不知道。
commitment
What I do know is that talent doesn't make you gritty. Our data
n.忠诚,承诺
show very clearly that there are many talented individuals who
simply do not follow through on their commitments. In fact, in unrelated
our data, grit is usually unrelated or even inversely related to
adj.⽆关的
measures of talent.
我所知道的是,才华并不能使你坚韧不拔。我们的数据 ⼗分清楚地表明, inversely
有许多才华横溢的⼈,他们都⽆法坚持兑现⾃⼰的承诺。事实上, 根据 adv.相反地
我们的数据来看,毅⼒通常与其他因素⽆关,甚⾄与才华的衡量标准背道
⽽驰。
So far, the best idea I've heard about building grit in kids is growth
something called "growth mindset." This is an idea developed at mindset
Stanford University by Carol Dweck, and it is the belief that the 成⻓型思维
ability to learn is not fixed, that it can change with your effort.
模式
Dr. Dweck has shown that when kids read and learn about the
brain and how it changes and grows in response to challenge,
they're much more likely to persevere when they fail, because
they don't believe that failure is a permanent condition.
到⽬前为⽌,我所听说过的在孩⼦⾝上培养坚韧品质最有效的⽅法叫”成
长型思维模式。”斯坦福⼤学卡洛杜威克提出过⼀个观点,他相信⼈的学
习能⼒是可变的,它随着 你的努⼒程度⽽变化。杜威克教授表⽰, 当
孩⼦们阅读和学习有关⼤脑的知识以及它在⾯对挑战时所发⽣的变化和
成长情况,他们失败之后更容易坚持下去,因为他们不相信会⼀直失败
下去。