believe that that was possible for him and so he made a conservative choice instead he got a safe job as an accountant and when I was 12 years old he was let go from that safe job and our family had to do whatever we could to survive I learned many great lessons from my father not the least of which was that you can fail at what you don't want so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love it's not the only thing he taught me though you know I watched the effect of my father's love and humor and how it altered the world around me and I thought that's something to do that's something worth my time it wasn't long before I started acting up you know people would come over to the house and they'd be greeted by a seven-year-old throwing himself down a large flight of stairs they would say what happened and I would say I don't know let's check the replay I'd go back to the top of the stairs and come back down in slow motion it was a very strange household my father used to brag that I wasn't a ham I was the whole pig and he treated my talent as if it was his second chance when I was about 28 after a decade as a professional comedian I realized one night in LA that the purpose of my life had always been to free people from concern just like my dad and when I realized this I dubbed my new devotion the Church of freedom from concern the Church of FFC and I dedicated myself to that ministry what's yours how will you serve the world what do they need that your talent can provide that's all you have to figure out as someone who's done what you're about to go and do I can tell you from experience the effect you have on others is the most valuable currency there is because everything you gain in life will rot and fall apart and all that will be left of you is what was in your heart am i choosing to free people am i choosing to free people from concern got me to the top of a mountain look where I am look what I get to do everywhere I go look this I'm gonna get emotional because when I tap into this it really is extraordinary to me I did something that made people present their best selves to me wherever I go I've often said that I wished people could realize all their dreams and wealth and fame and so that they could see that it's not where you're gonna find your sense of completion like many of you I was concerned about going out into the world and doing something bigger than myself until someone smarter than myself made me realize that there is nothing bigger than myself because life doesn't happen to you it happens for you how do I know this I don't but I'm making sound and that's the important thing that's what I'm here to do sometimes I think that's the only thing that's important really you know it's just letting each other know we're here reminding each other that we're part of a larger self your job is not to figure out how it's gonna happen for you but to open the door in your head and when the door opens in real life just walk through it and don't worry if you miss your cue because there's always doors opening they keep opening and when I say life doesn't happen to you it happens for you I really don't know if that's true I'm just making a conscious choice to perceive challenges as something beneficial so that I can deal with them in the most productive way you'll come up with your own style that's part of the fun oh and why not take a chance on faith as well not religion but faith not hope but faith I don't believe in hope hope is the beggar hope walks through the fire and faith leaps over it I used to believe that who I was ended at the answer my skin that I had been given this little vehicle called a body from which to experience creation and though I couldn't have asked for a sporty or model it was after all a loner and would have to be returned then I learned that everything outside the vehicle was part of me too and now I Drive a convertible top down win to my hair I am elated and truly truly truly excited to be present and fully connected to you at this important moment in your journey I hope you're ready to open the roof and take it all in you are the vanguard of knowledge and consciousness a new wave in a vast ocean of possibilities on the other side of that door there's a world starving for new ideas new leadership I've been out there for thirty years she's a wildcat she'll rub up against your leg and purr until you pick her up and start petting her and then out of nowhere she'll swatch on the face it can be rough out there but that's okay because there's soft-serve ice cream with sprinkles I guess that's what I'm really trying to say here today sometimes it's okay to eat your feelings now fear is going to be a player in your life but you get to decide how much you can spend your whole life imagining ghosts worrying about the pathway to the future but all there will ever be is what's happening here in the decisions we make in this moment which are based in either love or fear so many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality what we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect so we never dare to ask the universe for it I'm saying I'm the proof that you can ask the universe for it [Applause] [Music] I am at the top of the mountain and I was and I the only the only one I hadn't freed was myself and that's when my search for identity deepened I wondered who might be without my fame who would I be if I said things that people didn't want to hear or if I defied their expectations of me and that piece that piece that we're after lies somewhere beyond personality beyond the perception of others beyond invention and disguise even beyond effort itself you can join the game fight the wars play with form all you want but to find real peace you have to let the armor go your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world don't let anything stand in the way of the light that shines through this form risk being seen in all of your glory my soul is not contained within the limits of my body my body is contained within the limitlessness of my soul now I'm always at the beginning I have a reset button and I ride that button constantly once that button is functioning in your life there's no story that the mind could create that will be as compelling the imagination is always manufacturing scenarios both good and bad and the ego tries to keep you trapped in the multiplex of the mind our eyes are not viewers they are also projectors that are running a second story over the picture that we see in front of us all the time fear is writing that script and the working title is I'll never be enough I had a substitute teacher from Ireland in the second grade they told my class during morning prayer that when she wants something anything at all she prays for it and promises something in return and she always gets what she wants before I'm sitting in the back of classroom you know thinking wow my family can't afford a bike you know so I went home and I pray for and I promised I would recite the Rosary every night in exchange broke it broke that promise but two weeks later I got home from school to find a brand-new Mustang bike with a banana seat and Easy Rider handlebars yeah from fool to cool my family informed me that I had won the bike in a raffle that a friend of mine had entered my name in without any of my knowledge whatsoever so that type of thing has been happening to me ever since as far as I can tell it's just about letting the universe know what you want and working toward it while letting go of how it comes to pass no matter what you gain ego will not let you rest it will tell you that you cannot stop until you've left an indelible mark on the earth until you've achieved immortality how tricky is this ego that it would tempt us with the promise of something we already possess relax and dream up a good life [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] you.