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INTRODUCTION
Parenting and childrearing are central to all cultures due to their essential role in
the physical, cognitive, and emotional development of the next generation. Much progress
has been made in recent years in the documentation and study of parenting across cultures
Indigenous parenting and child development, despite the fact that close to 370 million
Indigenous people occupy 20% of the planet’s territory and represent as many as 5,000
different cultural groups across all continents (United Nations, 2013). We use the term
Indigenous to represent all international individuals and communities related to, and/or
who have continuity historically with, the First Peoples in Canada, the United States, the
Americas, Pacific Islands, New Zealand, Australia, Asia, and Africa and those who
preceded colonizing populations (Allan and Smylie, 2015). It is important to consider that
intracultural and intercultural differences, depending on, among other things, the
The number of Indigenous families is increasing in many regions of the world, yet
the study of parenting and child development in these communities has not received much
and anthropological observations (Biggs, 1998; Cheah and Chirkov, 2011; Dalla and
Gamble, 1997; Lefley, 1976; Little Soldier, 1985). This lack of attention belies that fact
Indigenous cultures greatly value children; for example, in Anishnawbe belief systems
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children are “gifts from the Creator,” while at the same time, children in Indigenous
communities face inordinate challenges when compared with their non-Indigenous peers
from health problems, such as obesity, diabetes, and Fetal Alcohol disorders, as well as
mental health problems including suicide (Public Health Agency of Canada, 2013). Māori
children in New Zealand (NZ) are also overrepresented in an array of negative education,
health and well-being statistics (Ministry of Social Development, 2010). Māori youth
experience worse health, and well-being outcomes than Pākehā (NZ European) young
people (Crengle et al., 2013; Helu, Robinson, Grant, Herd, and Denny, 2009; Ministry of
Social Development, 2010). For example, Māori youth have higher obesity rates, report
greater mental health concerns and substance use, reduced access to health services,
experience greater exposure to violence, and are more likely to leave secondary school with
lower educational qualifications than their non-Māori counterparts (Crengle et al., 2013;
The health problems of Indigenous young people are primarily attributable to sub-
standard conditions for housing and basic municipal infrastructure, forced assimilation and
colonization, and historical and contemporary policies that further injustices of the past.
Yet Indigenous communities are often portrayed as showing maladaptive and neglectful
parenting practices that provide insufficient support for positive child development. These
portrayals are largely based on the disproportionate number of Indigenous children who
are apprehended by child protection systems in North America and New Zealand
(Cochrane, 1992; Harris et al., 2007; Litwin, Bohr, and Muir, under review; Office of
Children’s Commissioner, 2015; Pauktuutit, 2012; Trocmé, Knoke and Blackwell, 2004).
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Negative perceptions of Indigenous people have likely been exacerbated by the fact that
little attention has typically been paid to historical context. Similarly, researchers have
the cultural strengths that beget parental ethnotheories, and these strengths’ effects on
resilience. Norms that are used to assess Indigenous parenting are undeniably still grounded
in mainstream Western parenting styles, a bias that needs to be corrected before quality of
parenting can be studied in an objective manner across Indigenous cultures (Litwin, Bohr,
Many Indigenous communities across the globe are challenged by higher than
education level and employment opportunities, are known to affect child development but
are not typically included in Western childhood development norms (Simard and Blight,
2011). Socioeconomic adversities have been attributed to intrusions and injustices brought
about by colonization, cultural genocide in many forms, and the ensuing collective trauma
Bohr, 2014; Trocmé et al., 2004; United Nations, 2013). Indigenous family life and
separations in Australia and North America, for example, had a devastating effect on
childrearing patterns (Cheah and Chirkov, 2011; Ing, 1991). Similarly, in New Zealand,
even though the Treaty of Waitangi had been established between the crown and the
majority of Māori in 1840 (which guaranteed Māori sovereignty of New Zealand), the
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following decades from 1840 onwards were a testimony to unbridled hegemony by the
crown as there was a large percentage of land transfer from Māori ownership to crown
ownership (Orange, 2015). Much of this land transfer occurred through the use of newly
created laws enforced by the might and overwhelming numbers of British colonial soldiers.
Māori lost connection to their land, language, culture and the support of their tribe (Walker,
1990). Nonetheless, there is much resilience to be found in the practices and experience of
discussing the historical trauma context which affects many diverse Indigenous cultures
worldwide whose parenting practices have been, and continue to be, affected by
colonization and the ensuing traumatization of entire communities; 2) past and current
discriminatory government policies and practices that shaped (and continue to shape) the
relationships between Indigenous parents and their children; and 3) and most importantly,
Indigenous parenting beliefs, values, and practices, or ethnotheories that are shared by
When possible, we present examples of unique issues and practices for specific
Indigenous Nations from Canada, the United States, Australia, New Zealand, and
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Historical trauma, defined as the effects of purposeful injurious events that were
experienced by many Indigenous communities in the past, continues to cause high levels
of distress and grieving for groups that were victimized. Such events were deliberately
inflicted over time by non-Indigenous people and have been recently recognized as a form
continues to interact with current stressors, cumulatively affecting the well being of
Indigenous people over generations (Evans-Campbell, 2008). In New Zealand for example,
the Māori people had significant expanses of land taken from them and lost a large portion
of their population due to contagious diseases throughout the mid to late 1800s (Ellison-
Loschmann and Pearce, 2006). Indigenous people reflect on the losses linked to
colonialism, assigning them feelings of bereavement and anger (Whitbeck, Adams, Hoyt,
and Chen, 2004). Other common reactions to historical trauma include depression, drug
and alcohol use, identifying with ancestors’ pain, somatic symptoms, anxiety, and chronic
grief (Brave Heart-Jordan, 1995). The residential school experience in particular represents
a salient example of historical trauma that had direct repercussions for parenting over many
generations. Residential Schools played a defining, highly problematic, and insidious role
not New Zealand), and the United States (where they were called boarding schools) as a
system of compulsory assimilation (Smith, Varcoe, and Edwards, 2005; Warne and
Lajimodiere, 2015). In Canada, for example, it is estimated that at least 150,000 First
Nations, Métis and Inuit children attended residential schools, between the mid-1800s to
1996, when the last school was closed (Aboriginal Affairs and Northern Development
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Canada [AANDC], 2010; Health Canada, 2012; Pauktuuti, 2012). Attendance at these
schools required a forced separation of children and adolescents from their families during
children to mainstream European ideologies and social norms. Children were required to
speak English, were prohibited from speaking their native languages, and were frequently
subjected to abusive discipline (King, 2006). Students were not allowed to practice any
form of their cultural or spiritual traditions and beliefs (Smith et al., 2005; King, 2006;
AANDC, 2010). The main focus of residential schools was the assimilation of Indigenous
children by means of breaking the link to their culture (Truth and Reconciliation
between Indigenous children and their parents, which disrupted the transmission of
culturally based parenting skills (Bombay, Matheson, and Anisman, 2011; Warne and
loving parents because of their exposure to the strict institutionalized discipline and many
forms of abuse that they had experienced in residential schools (Truth and Reconciliation
Commission of Canada, 2015a) and the damage to a positive parenting experience and the
Caregivers who had attended residential schools have reported feeling inadequate and
overwhelmed when parenting their own children (Brave Heart and DeBruyn, 1998).
childhoods that included abuse. When these children became parents themselves, they
described being confused about how to rear their children in a healthy way (Brave Heart-
Jordan, 1995).
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In Cree and Metis cultures, it is taught that “…Female Elders, also known as
Grandmothers, carry the childrearing bundle for the people” (Dorion, 2010, p.7).
Grandmothers are seen as the holders of parenting and child development teachings and
are held in high esteem by their communities (Fasoli and Johns, 2007). The term
Grandmother in Anishnawbe communities can denote both a related family member and
an unrelated family member who is instead an older Indigenous woman who carries
Anishnawbe Grandmother:
… a lot of the problems started with Indigenous history and a lot of that stuff that
went on, especially the residential schools. When you think of a whole town… and
you take all the children or 80% of the children away and you just leave the adults...
[That is] a big impact on everyone, on all the grandparents, mothers, fathers,
aunties, uncles, cousins. You just have all these adults with no children there. And
some of them never even know what happened to their children. They never came
home. They just, one day were taken… You [cannot] even begin to imagine the
impact it has on the future generations which is probably my mother and her
mother. ... [that is] where that big gap comes in, that parenting, the skills and the
skills that they would have learned, were not passed on, … and because there was
always that sense of chaos and that loss and trauma of all that never got to a point
where it can heal and re-begin. (Grandmother Dorothy, as cited in Muir, Litwin and
narrative accounts is likely based in the absence of traditional role models, as future parents
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were taken from their families. In addition, mental health problems among survivors
affected parenting behaviors, and family belief systems and capacity, resulting in
systems, potentially affecting parents’ ability to cope with stressors (McGowan et al.,
2009). When individuals live through traumatic experiences as children, they are often
2014; Horwitz, Widom, McLaughlin, and White, 2001). Trauma in a family context in turn
can significantly affect parenting, often resulting in the replication of a traumatic childhood
residential school survivors report experiencing more childhood trauma than Indigenous
children whose caregivers did not attend Residential schools (Bombay et al., 2011). As a
result of not having traditional parental role models, and because of the abuse that occurred
in residential Schools, it is possible that many survivors have lost the ability to engage in
nurturing social interactions with children that promote healthy connections (Wesley-
settlement and residential school attendance policies, caused profound changes in the
family life of Northern communities due to family separation and displacement, language
Hastings, Smylie, Prince, and The Tungasuvvingat Inuit Resource Centre, 2009; Healey,
with healthy attachment relationships, and lack of models for the latter would also have
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significant repercussions for family interactions and development. The impact of the
generations of parents and now grandparents, is likely still evident today in the parenting
practices of Indigenous families (Litwin et al., under review; Smith et al., 2005).
PRACTICES
Over the past two centuries, governments have made it a goal to eradicate
Indigenous culture and thought, and they have succeeded as demonstrated by the negative
individuals and families (King, 2006; Smith et al., 2005). As stated by a Canadian victim
of these practices: “When I was younger I used to talk about how my family had lost that
culture, but the reality is that my identity was stolen, it didn’t just come spontaneously from
my family. That stuff was instilled, and it’s been instilled in many Aboriginal people in
Canada. It was a systematic attempt to whitewash Aboriginal families. It’s really sad” (Best
Start Resource Centre, 2012, pg. 18). The ensuing effects of these traumas, including their
In Canada, where 4.3% of the population are Indigenous, depending on the province
and the year, between 40% and 80% of children in the child welfare system are of
Indigenous descent (StatsCan, 2011; Trocmé et al., 2004). In New Zealand, Māori make
up approximately 15% of the general population, and yet in 2015, 58% of children and
2015). The view that Indigenous children are disproportionately neglected by their
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caregivers and kin is particularly disturbing as these negative views pertain to a culture in
which offspring are highly valued, and entire communities are expected to be actively
trauma in understanding presumed neglect could change the focus from individual blame
peoples’ lives. As well, a Western focus on the reputed dysfunction of individual nuclear
2001, p. 66). It is very likely that mainstream parenting research has significantly
the only causal factors for the current problems that Indigenous people face. Indeed,
one is “…dealing with actual historical issues or more proximate grief and trauma from the
daily lives of often economically disadvantaged people who live with constant overt and
institutionalized discrimination, severe health issues, and high mortality rates. The current
conditions may be attributed to historical causes, however, the origins of the symptoms
may be contemporary experiences” (Whitbeck, Adams, Hoyt, and Chen, 2004, p.119).
… The world is so different for us here and the times, I mean, in that [it is] difficult
to practice [our culture] especially if [you are] engaging with addictions or if you
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[do not] know your culture or if [you are] just kind of struggling with poverty. You
know those things are hard to practice because [you are] so engaged in trying to
survive. … I think a lot of our energies get wasted on just being, just surviving in a
world [that is] not really nice to us (as cited in Muir, Litwin and Bohr, unpublished
manuscript).
changed the Indian Act in the early 1950s as it began to become clear that Residential
schools were failures, and the federal government began to close them (Union of B.C.
Indian Chiefs, 2002). After this change, the federal government began to pay the provinces
to provide child welfare services to Indigenous people and Indigenous children began to
increasingly move from residential schools into the child welfare system (Union of B.C.
Indian Chiefs, 2002). In British Columbia, a Ministry of Human Resources staff termed
this process “the Sixties Scoop”, as social workers employed by the province would, “quite
literally, scoop children from the reserves on the slightest pretext” (Johnson, 2002, p. 23).
Johnson (2002) speculated that this was done for two reasons: The social workers thought
they were saving these children from poverty, unsanitary conditions, and malnutrition, but
it is more likely that this was simply a new form of colonization. From the 1960s to the
1980s, thousands of Indigenous children (16,000 in Ontario, Canada alone) were taken
from their families and adopted into mostly non-Indigenous families in Canada or sent to
the United States and the United Kingdom, without parental consent (Russell, 2016).
Present-day foster care systems in some ways took over from the residential school system.
For example, Blackstock (2003) noted that the number of Indigenous children in child
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welfare today has surpassed the numbers boarded at the height of the residential school
children, yet 14,000 were in foster care, representing 48% of all Canadian foster children
(Turner, 2016).
For the Inuit, in the first 60 years of the twentieth century, attempts by outsiders to
teach Inuit children reading, writing, and arithmetic were scattered and inconsistent
(McGregor, 2010). Following the Second World War, this began to change as informal
networks of education were replaced by a new government program which aimed to make
Inuit into full Canadian “citizens” (Qikiqtani Inuit Association, QIA, 2010). In 1951, the
first government-regulated school for Inuit was opened in Chesterfield Inlet (Pauktuutit,
2007). For some communities, up to three generations of Inuit children were sent away
from their families to attend day schools in the larger communities (Pauktuutit, 2007).
Some children were sent much farther away than the nearest settlement, to residential
schools in other provinces and territories. Others were sent to live with Qallunaat families
in southern cities, such as Ottawa, Edmonton and Halifax. Qallunaat is the Inuktitut word
that is commonly used for ‘white person’ or ‘non-Inuk’. This caused great anguish for both
the parents and the children (Pauktuutit, 2007; QIA, 2010). Residential schools for Inuit
continued to open into the 1960s and by 1963, 3,997 Inuit children were attending these
schools (King, 2006). In June 1964, 75% of 6 to15 year old Inuit children and youth were
enrolled in the schools (King, 2006). These students are the parents, grandparents, uncles,
In Canada, for children and youth who live on reserves, living conditions, such as
access to adequate, uncrowded housing and clean safe drinking water, are frequently
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subpar because of treaty agreements that are not honoured which require the federal
government to provide adequate funding for such infrastructure. Reserves are parcels of
land, which have been set aside by the Queen for an Indigenous Band’s use (Abbot, 2003).
In actuality, reserves, which are federally controlled under the Indian Act, “had a
devastating impact on Indigenous ways of knowing” (Allan and Smylie, 2015, p. 10) as
the Indian Act controlled most of the activities on reserve (for example, in the past,
Indigenous people were not allowed to leave the reserve without asking permission from
the government appointed Non-Indigenous Indian agent). Reserves are often isolated and
because of this isolation, have few services (such as doctors or grocery stores) that
Indigenous people can access. There are, for example, no high schools on many northern
Ontario reserves in Canada, and often the schools that do exist are in disrepair. To obtain
a high school education, many youth must travel hundreds of kilometres to a larger urban
centre and board with non-Indigenous families (Blackstock, 2008; Chown Oved, 2015).
Separation of Indigenous parents from their children, which began with residential schools
continues today, with the disregard for treaty obligations at the federal government level
and systems-level policies that continue to perpetuate the structural violence of the past.
Contemporary government policies in the United States that have had a detrimental
impact on children and families is the long-standing and significant underfunding of health
and social programs for American Indians and Alaska Natives through the Indian Health
Service and the Bureau of Indian Affairs. The tribal nations in the U. S. signed hundreds
of treaties with the federal government in which the tribes exchanged land and natural
resources for various social services, including housing, education, and healthcare.
Therefore, the tribal nations have a legal right to health and social services in the U. S.
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Unfortunately, the dearth of resources that have been allocated to implement health and
social services has led to decreased access to prenatal care, maternal and child health,
with poverty and discrimination, are at the root of the many of the parenting and family
supports disparities in the Indigenous population (see Warne and Frizzell, 2014).
incompetent, non-mainstream parenting that has been deemed inferior to practices based
on Western ideas of family. Such research often fails to acknowledge systemic injustices
or highlight strengths in Indigenous parenting (Bertsch and Bidgood, 2010; Red Horse,
1997). Cultural chauvinism, or the perception that only the values of the dominant culture
reflect human nature, may play a role in these negative depictions (The Royal Commission
that Indigenous people have their own epistemology about how they understand
themselves, others, and the world in which they live. Many facets of Indigenous parenting
and child development, such as the role of extended family and community in childrearing,
child autonomy and exploration of their environment and holistic perspectives which
encompass spiritual, mental, emotional and physical well-being of the child, are not
adequately addressed in mainstream parenting and child development research (Sarche and
Whitesell, 2012). Using non-Indigenous (i.e., Western, Caucasian, middle class family-
focused) theoretical frameworks with Indigenous families, frameworks that are not
for disrupted Indigenous parenting, likely provides an incomplete and inexact assessment
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of Indigenous parenting and child development and insufficiently highlights the strengths
of Indigenous communities (Gerlach, 2008; Simard and Blight, 2011). Figure 1 displays a
Indigenous parenting that merit research attention and should be incorporated into
Western parenting and differences between Nations; attachment and parental sensitivity;
competency, autonomy and discipline; cultural values and the transmission of these values;
and who holds and teaches this knowledge. Then, specific Indigenous childrearing features
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will be addressed which include: extended family and community, spirit, ceremonies, the
transmission, and the role of fathers. Finally, current day obstacles to Indigenous parenting
will be examined.
vanished, some childrearing traditions live and thrive in modern Indigenous families (Javo,
Alapack, Heyerdahl, and Ronning, 2003; Muir and Bohr, 2014). Ryan (2011) showed that
Australian Indigenous parents from both urban and remote communities retained unique
traditional parenting practices pertaining to sensitivity towards their child’s needs and the
Cheah and Chirkov (2008) showed that Indigenous mothers differed from their Euro-
Canadian counterparts in their focus on family, respect for Elders, and the maintenance of
cultural values. Similarly, van de Sande and Menzies’ (2003) evaluation of Anishnawbe
principles for rearing Anishnawbe children such as higher Elder and extended family
involvement in spite of decades of influence by mainstream culture. For the Māori, there
is more involvement of extended family members and grandparents in the rearing young
children when compared to NZ European families, which can assist with the
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Beck (2013) noted that despite colonialism and cultural and geographic marginalization,
tradition and essential family values have endured in the ways that Indigenous parents rear
their children. A Norwegian team studying Sami parenting norms also identified
differences between these parents’ customs and those of the dominant Norwegian culture,
even after years of assimilation (Javo, Ronning, and Heyerdahl’s, 2004). Simard and Blight
cultural values and ancestral territories or lands, an attachment that is typically conveyed
to Indigenous children through language and teaching traditional practices. These authors
highlight the importance of Indigenous childrearing goals that pre-date colonialism for
health promotion for Indigenous peoples, and contextualize them in the cultural losses such
paradigm” (Loppie, 2007) but rather, each Indigenous culture reflects the lands and waters
to which they are connected. In Canada for example, Indigenous people who belong to up
to 617 First Nations or bands and 80 Nations, and live in over 1000 settlement
communities, make up about 4.3% of the Canadian population (Statistics Canada, 2011).
In the United States, there are over 560 federally recognized tribes located in 35 states.
Distinct Nations sport diverse cultures and languages, beliefs and practices, and many
differences can also be found between Indigenous peoples in urban locations and on
reserves (Cheah and Sheperd, 2011). Residing on different continents like the Anishnawbe
in eastern Canada or the Maori in New Zealand, in diverse countries, and belonging to
distinct communities and Nations, Indigenous people do not all raise children in the same
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way. Still, some commonalities are evident in the childrearing practices of Indigenous
cultures (Neckoway, 2011). Loppie (2007) suggested that, despite geographical, language
and social structure differences, shared Indigenous parenting values exist that are
philosophically different from European North American cultural norms. For example,
egalitarian than European Americans, with shared responsibility for the entire
community’s wellness (Cheah and Chirkov, 2008). In the following section, we describe
some of these practices in terms of both Content (the principles and practices involved)
described by Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, and Wall (1978), is considered by many to be the
used to assess the quality of attachment, and the parental behaviors that allegedly foster a
good attachment, have been criticized for not adequately capturing cultural variations of
attachment practices, for example in Indigenous cultures. Carriere and Richardson (2009)
proposed that in cultures in which dyadic caregiving relationships are not as central as
whole family and community-based caregiving the term “connectedness” may better
Australian study found that Indigenous children from the Central and Western regions were
often cared for by siblings (Ryan, 2011). Inuit attachment perspective is described by
Karetak as ‘the egg, the rock, and the human being’ (Qaujigiartiit Health Research Centre
(QHRC), 2015). Attachments are developed and fostered through the Inuit’s collective
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responsibility to teach children, develop their skills, and show them love. The child in this
environment will thrive and become a capable human being. The child who has been
mistreated and neglected displays ‘rock-like’ characteristics, hardened to the outside world
and unable to express emotions or develop relationships to others in a healthy way. The
child who has been over-indulged, spoiled and protected displays ‘egg-like’ characteristics,
unable to cope with challenging or distressing circumstances and cracking under pressure.
It is important to note that, in this worldview, rock-like and egg-like individuals can be
made into capable human beings, they do not have to stay that way, and that with love,
An Australian study found that all members of Indigenous extended family circles
of caregivers were expected to respond to infants’ vocalizations and that letting a baby
become distressed and cry was considered by the family to be cruel and was frowned on
(Kruske, Belton, Wardaguga, and Narjic, 2012). More research is needed to better
understand the cultural strengths, and possible advantages, inherent in the anticipation and
prevention of infant distress, as contrasted with sensitive responding once a child is already
communities.
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was not used traditionally with Indigenous children (Salmond, 1997) but was introduced
in residential schools (Benzies, 2014). Children are typically seen as competent, equal
respected as autonomous persons who belong to a collective and are encouraged to make
their own decisions when it comes to exploring their environment (McPherson and Rabb,
2001 as cited in Neckoway et al., 2007; Sheperd, 2008). For example both Inuit and Sami
families aimed to promote child independence through risk taking, as an essential building
block for hardship endurance and ultimately survival (QHRC, 2015). Australian
Indigenous research further supports the notion of unassisted risk taking; for example,
climbing trees and handling knives are seen as important steps toward competence and
autonomy (Kruske et al., 2012). Alaskan Yup’ik (MacDonald-Clark and Boffman, 1995)
and Sami children were also encouraged to engage in daily activities based on their own
internal rhythm. At the same time, Sami parents are expected to balance the push to
autonomy with much affectionate responsiveness to their children’s emotional needs (Javo
et al., 2003, 2004). The value of physical autonomy and risk-taking is seen across
In line with the described childrearing goals, cultural variations exist, but common
Indigenous family values that pertain to disciplining children differ somewhat from those
of mainstream Western parenting (Muir and Bohr, 2014). American Indian informants in
Dionne and colleagues’ study (2009) in southern California specified that strict disciplining
was “very strong medicine” in contrast to the “good medicine” inherent in positive
attention, mutual play, and affection. Even when children display aggression, Indigenous
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mothers responded with patience and teaching life lessons, values, and community rules.
Cheah and Sheperd (2011) found that Indigenous participants were less likely to insist their
parents. Similarly, McShane et al. (2009) reported that, rather than disciplining, Inuit
parents made use of interpersonal games and benevolent teasing to support their children’s
Anishnawbe people in Ontario, Canada also actively strive for physical, emotional,
mental, and spiritual competence in their children. Grandmother Dorothy emphasized the
importance of empowering a child, and guiding the child to make up own mind, to stand
by own decisions, and to manage own emotions. She emphasized that a sense of self is
obtained by “feeling safe in the home, knowing you are loved and cared for regardless of
circumstances”, and through “expressing emotions in a healthy fashion” (Muir, Litwin and
through difficult times, as support fosters respect for parents and other community
responsibilities and account for their actions. According to the Grandmothers in Muir and
mainstream Western parenting goals in that they emphasize the four holistic domains of
spiritual, mental, physical and emotional competence, which together make up the
traditional Medicine Wheel of the Anishnawbe and other Nations. Only when these four
domains are balanced in a child, is that child deemed healthy (Muir et al., unpublished
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human being’, there are 3 components to a child’s development: Inuusiq (life and health
matters), Pilimmaqsarniq (acquisition of skills through effort and practice), and Silativut
(responding to our lands and environment) (Qaujigiartiit Health Research Centre, [QHRC]
2015). In Inuit communities, Elders describe childrearing in terms of teaching to the heart,
teaching children to be of sound moral character, to help others from a young age, and to
develop their strengths (QHRC, 2015). They say that when we teach to a child’s heart, the
head or mind will follow and children will learn to become capable human beings that are
able to take care of themselves and others, defend themselves from danger, and persevere
through difficult emotional, mental, and physical situations. Atuat Akittirq stated that
setting boundaries for children begins the moment they are able to pick up an object and
try to put it in their mouth. That is the time that we really begin to pay attention, to observe,
and to teach children respect for others and their property, and to lead by example (Karetak,
parents, with grandparents, and with the community. Transmission of spirituality and
culture is carried out through ceremony, teachings, storytelling and example. For Inuit, the
following four Maligait (foundational Inuit societal laws) are woven into ancient stories
that have been passed down for generations and continued to be shared with children and
families today: 1) To respect all living creatures; 2) To maintain balance and harmony; 3)
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Working for the common good; and 4) Continually planning and preparing for the future.
When this guidance is followed, relationships with others, and the lands and waters that
sustain humans, support the latter in the learning journey over the life course. Teachings of
culture involve not just the parents, or primary caregivers, but the extended family and
et. al., unpublished manuscript), values that are considered the most important to pass on
are those relating to the Seven Grandfather Teachings: wisdom, love, respect, bravery,
honesty, humility and truth. Respect is deemed to be “cyclical”: Respecting other people,
especially the elderly, leads to self-respect, which further enables respect from others,
which leads back to self-respect and integrity, and so on. Respect is often taught at
ceremonies, and helps the child to become a healthy and capable adult. Such teaching also
occurs with the Māori. One example of a value that is developed from within Māori society
interdependency that obligations to one another and the wider whānau unit, tribe and the
environment develop (Biggs, 2012). In Māori culture, transmission of cultural values can
occur through learning the Māori language (te reo). There has been a renaissance in New
Zealand where pre-school Māori children have the opportunity to attend a kohanga reo
(early childhood centre) and learn te reo (Rau and Ritchie, 2011). Kohanga have become
central places where parents, grandparents, and caregivers of children meet and learn te reo
and tikanga (Māori culture) together. Adults who missed these learning opportunities when
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they were children now have the chance to learn this important knowledge (Cooper, Arago-
members of cultures that have been traumatized by malevolent external forces, most
notably colonialism. Cultural transmission in those groups may be more meaningful and
essential than for cultures that have not experienced colonialism. Research with urban
Indigenous women from Canada concluded that having a strong affiliation with the
Indigenous culture can act as a protective factor with regard to effects of trauma, and may
engender resilience (Litwin et al., under review). In that study, greater connection to culture
was associated with lower levels of stress, higher levels of perceived social support, and
affiliation was also strongly associated with more optimal childhood outcomes for
offspring.
Indigenous family and community life have historically been held by Elders and passed on
culture. In Muir et al.’s interviews, Kokomis Jacqui highlighted a ceremony, the Berry
Fast, which begins when a young woman experiences menarche and continues for an entire
year during which she does not eat any berries. Grandmother Jacqui commented that the
Berry Fast helps young girls to better understand the Seven Grandfathers Teachings. Jacqui
spoke of the feast that was prepared for her at the end of her Berry Fast and how the older
women, “…came and they cupped my face and looked in my eyes and told me that I would
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always be “Obiday Anishnaabe Kwe kwee dow”. You will always be Anishnawbe Kwe
[Earth Woman]”. When Jacqui’s older sister explained this interaction to her, Jacqui
understood the immense gift the Elders and Grandmothers had given her: They were giving
Jacqui their own power and helping her understand the person she would always be. Here
Indigenous people believe that traditional knowledge and oral histories about
children and families have retained their relevancy over many generations (Blackstock,
(Canadian Institutes of Health Research, 2010). Elders maintained their status as sources
of wisdom, pride, and inspiration in their communities even through colonization (Fasoli
and Johns, 2007). In Indigenous communities, the role of an Elder is both extensive and
highly respected (Mooradian, Cross, and Stutzky, 2006), and being held in high regard by
a community indicates the Elder’s authority. Highly respected Elders have spent a great
Health Research, 2010). In Māori culture, Elders and parents would use oriori (chant) to
pass on traditional knowledge and oral histories to young children, such as where children
come from, where they are going, and traditional teachings (Mead and Mead, 2003) which
would guide them on the pathway of life (Penehira and Doherty, 2013).
highlighted the differences between Western cultures and Indigenous cultures, focusing on
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the multi-layered versus dyadic human bonds that exist between children and their
family encompasses the nuclear family and the extended family, and also the treaty-linked
country), a Clan family (deer or turtle clan, the spiritual aspect of family), and a cultural
family (linked to Anishnawbe ceremonial practices) (Simard and Blight, 2011). In Lakota
and other Northern Plains cultures, it was the responsibility of one generation to actively
participate in raising the next generation. Aunts and uncles in had just as much parental
authority and responsibility as the biological parents. In this way, the children grew up with
numerous mothers and fathers with significant social support as opposed to the nuclear
Zealand, are described as highly valued members of extended family networks, who are
provided with much attention and affection by whole communities, including siblings,
Elders, also known as Grandmothers and aunts, other allo-parents (for example, Koori
mothering women from Australia who are not biologically related to the child). Surrogate
parents have traditionally held well-defined roles in the rearing the youngest members of
their community (Atkinson and Swain, 1999; Hossain et al., 1999; Kruske et al., 2012;
Fuller-Thomson, 2005; Nelson and Allison, 2000). Māori children may be given to an
extended family member at birth or as an older child, and this custom is known as whangai
(Pitama, 1997). This process was one where the young child was seen as being highly
prized and valued and much would be given to this child. The child was not seen to be the
sole responsibility of two parents but of the whole hapu (tribe) (Pitama, 1997).
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the most important concept to instil and nurture in a child. It gives children the strength
and direction necessary to cope with life. Spirit nurtures self-awareness and vice versa, and
children are believed to know their bodies and spirits right from birth. Kokomis Jacqui (in
… [Children] will always be aware … where spirit lives, in your navel area…
Spirit is trying to tell us something and it’s our own spirit, soul spirit that is
It is important for caregivers to help their children believe in themselves and help
them to understand that they are spirit and have spirit within themselves. Spirit can be
adults. If a child is urged to express and listen to herself or himself, she or he will have the
tools to become an emotionally healthy adult. Not only does one have to nurture spirit, one
has to trust that the child can feel her own spirit. To achieve this, Anishnawbe parents:
…let [children] eat when they’re hungry because that’s their schedule.
[Children] know when they’re hungry. They know when they’re thirsty.
They’ll tell you. So sometimes, people force-feed their kids, ‘you finish all
your dinner or there’s no tv’. That’s kind of not a good thing to do because …
that child knows already its’ body, right from the time that it is born. [The
child] knows its body so well; [the child] knows its’ spirit so well that [child]
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authority figures. Instead, by inhibiting children from listening to their spirit, it is believed
that these outside influences often desensitize the child’s spirit. Spirit is fostered in children
through such modes of transmission as culture, spirituality, stories, and nurturance from
adults. The Anishnawbe Grandmothers interviewed for Muir et al.’s study agreed that the
spirit, which is believed to provide the child with the tools to deal with life, and to take on
responsibility for themselves and for others. Even when life presents significant stressors,
and an individual errs, or loses the way (by becoming addicted for example), a strong spirit
is believed to have the power to bring an Indigenous person back to the “right” path, often
Elders report that both implicit (modeling or action) and explicit (verbal teachings)
cultural instruction should be given to children. Kokomis Jacqui (Muir et al., unpublished
If you see [a] child going to the fire, then nobody makes a loud noise to get him
away, they go over there and physically move him back. Then [the child] goes there
again, physically move him back. No sounds are made. There is no tut-tutting or
thck thck, none of that…., a big person will go there and move the baby back. …
Once that happens, one time, every woman’s focus is on that baby, and they watch
him … go over to the fire and somebody else will go move him back.
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is the foundation of Inuit social organization and life (Briggs et al,. 2000; Kral, 2011).
Navne, 2008; Kral et al., 2011; Nuttall, 1992). In one of the few oral histories of Nunavut,
which shares the voices of Inuit elders, it is said that Inuit believe that three essential parts
made a human: body, soul, and name (Bennet and Rowley, 2004).
A nameless child was not fully human; giving it a name, whether before or after birth,
made it whole. Inuit did not have family surnames. Instead, each person’s name linked him
or her to a deceased relative or family friend, and the spirit of the person who has passed
on lived on in the child (Bennet and Rowley, 2004). Often the children will carry the spirit
and the traits of their namesake or avvrainnuk, such as hunting or sewing skills, and will
be protected by the name-soul connection. The relationship between the child and the
family of the namesake strengthened family bonds and created extended family networks
that would support the child and its character development throughout life (Karetak, 2013;
Tagalik, 2011). The name bestowed upon the child was the first step in establishing a
community around an individual beyond the immediate family and provided connections
to others (Bennet and Rowley, 2004; QHRC, 2012). This tradition is still prominent in Inuit
communities today and the naming tradition has been part of a process of reclaiming Inuit
baby is born, such as putting the baby in warm cedar water immediately after birth (cited
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old was asked to assist with birthing traditions after her baby brother was born:
… [My mom] was having a hard time [getting the afterbirth from the nurses]. So
she looked at me and said, “You go ask about that”… And I [brought the afterbirth]
to my mom …and she said you bury it at the bottom of the tree…I was in charge
of that so when we got home, I toured the bush looking for the right tree to bury
this in so I found a really nice tree, a hemlock tree. … That’s the kind I was looking
for. … So I buried [the afterbirth] in there… I smudged the tree and talked to it. I
told the tree …”You’re supposed to be looking after this [baby] boy forever, as long
as he’s alive”.
Through the described ritual, Jacqui’s mother taught her about traditional
responsibility for others and how to protect and keep her brother safe. A similar teaching
exists for Māori, where the word whenua is used to describe the land and placenta (Mead
and Mead, 2003). After a child is born, the placenta is taken and buried in a place of
ancestral significance such as somewhere near the child’s tribal marae (land surrounding a
significant grouping of buildings used for everyday living, this area of land was where
Māori traditionally met and currently meet to engage in everyday life) (Mead and Mead,
2003).
The power of the ceremonies is affected by the extent to which the parents and other
community adults emphasize teachings and support and nurture the child (Dorothy, in Muir
et al., unpublished manuscript). Grandmother Dorothy, for example, spoke of the effect of
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She’s been to ceremony since she was little. She knows how to behave in those
ceremonies, when to be quiet, when to start helping... And [there are] ceremonies
where she can’t go so I’ll explain to her why she can’t go. And we do our own
smudging and I explain to her why those medicines are so important to use. [I
explain about] some of the ceremonies that I do and why I do them. So …you’re
always talking to them and teaching them about those things. And taking her to
see… an Elder that came to do some drumming for the women and it’s all women,
they all brought their drums and I thought, what an important event for her to see.
So I brought her to see all those women and hear their voices just drumming away.
[It] was like a whole new experience for her. Events like that really have a powerful
impact in their little lives because …you see all these Native women, drumming,
singing their songs and, it’s for her, like ‘Wow, I can do that’.
teach children what is expected of them, help children to see their capabilities, and foster
their self-esteem. Ceremonies, for example powwow dancing, transmit values and
Transmission of cultural teachings through the bond with parents and community
and disciplining with respect. Cultural teachings and spirituality are transmitted through
the bond between parents, extended family members, the community and children.
through maternal responsiveness to children’s cues (Blum, 2004; Cummings and Warmuth,
2019). It appears that, contrary to contemporary Western parenting literature, the bond
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for child development utilizing multiple relationships with extended family and other
community members … [Indigenous mothers] believe that other caregivers are capable and
will be attentive and responsive to the child’s needs” (Benzies, 2014, p. 381). Indigenous
people in Australia view children as “bridges between generations and growing them up is
the responsibility of the whole community” (Cheater, 2014, p. 1). Prior to the influence of
colonialism, Indigenous childrearing involved the entire community, all members of which
were responsible for watching children, ensuring children’s safety, disciplining, and
providing teachings.
In Inuit communities, for example, Inunnguiniq is the term used to describe the
making of an able human being. This term is often used to describe childrearing in English,
but in fact, Inunnguiniq is a concept that applies across the life course. In a discussion about
the concept of inunnguiniq, family relationships and child rearing from an Inuit
metaphorically hangs around a child’s neck near the child’s heart (EAC, 2010; Tagalik,
2011). As a child grows and develops, the puuq must be filled with positive articles such
as good words, values, love, safety, support, skills, practice, understanding, and knowledge
(Elders Advisory Committee 2010; Tagalik, 2011). These values and tools contribute to
the formation of the child’s personality and equip the child with the skills and support they
need to engage in positive relationships with others and cope successfully in life whether
extended family kin make positive contributions to the child’s life and the puuq by
developing relationships, showing affection, caregiving, teaching, and supporting the child
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(Tagalik, 2011). When a child experiences neglect, anger, hurt, abuse, or mistrust, the puuq
remains empty; thus, the child is not a whole person and, consequently, not able to develop
trusting relationships or cope well with life events (Tagalik, 2011). When viewed through
this explanation, one can see how the disruption of residential school and settlement events
in the history of colonized Indigenous peoples has had a significant impact on the children
who are now the parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents of children in care today.
created and supported through reflective mutuality (Blum, 2004). Kokomis Jacqui noted
that Indigenous infants are thought to be already born strongly bonded with their mother
from the outset, and to have an immediate desire for closeness with their father (Muir et
al., unpublished manuscript). Indigenous infants who live with extended family members
can develop close bonds within kin relationships as well (Atwool, 2006). The
Grandmothers relayed that the bond children have with their parents is strong and cannot
be easily severed:
A child will always have that bond with their parents; [whether she or he is] being
raised by their mother alone … or their dad or both... The child will always look at
their parents as the ultimate people in the world… You can see that through your
child’s eyes that [you are] ‘it’. (Dorothy, in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript)
A baby, at birth, is believed to know her mother intimately because of the time the child
spent in the womb experiencing the mother’s emotions. This closeness to the mother
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… [The baby] knows [his mother’s] sound, [the baby] knows when [his mother]
comes into the room, he [does not] even have to look over there. [He will] feel her.
discipline was maintained by disciplining in private; by giving guidance for dealing with
intimidation. Kokomis Jacqui also described how her parents disciplined her by using
There was some things I guess I [was not] supposed to open but I did and I know
[my mom] was kind of upset because I did that. And when I asked my dad, my dad
just looked at me and laughed and said, “It was probably someone’s spirit [and]
you let it go”. And I said, “Oh, do they live in there?” He said “Yeah”. So I never
touched them after that. But I [had] opened and smelled it and my mom said, “It
could have gone right into your whole body and possessed you”. And I said, “What
if it possessed me?” And she said, “You would be him”. And I said, “Oh, was it a
guy?” She said, “Yes it was”. So these kinds of things, it was funny but it was
instructions, [to] learn not to touch stuff. (cited in Muir et al., unpublished
manuscript)
Discipline often took the form of teaching, with the discipliner providing
…the whole community [was] raising up that child, so when that child is 7 or 8
running like crazy down the village, one adult will … take them by the arm, bring them
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into the house and give them a glass of water, that has broken that spell of that child running
around like crazy, giving him a different thing to focus on- that water going down his
throat. Water is a blessing, so if the medicinal power of that water is that act of putting that
glass up to his lips has already broken that stuff that [the child] was involved [with]. (cited
parent to child and from grandparent to grandchild, and in Indigenous cultures the idea that
the child can also teach the adult is common and respected. Parents model values such as
Because we’re not just grandparents or parents … we’re also learning from [our
children] so it’s a two-way thing … your children teach you, and you’re also
teaching them. So it’s that respect and honour and love and kindness that you show
If we [do not] feel that, we hear somebody saying those words, we begin to think
about it, awareness has been awakened, that little bit of something different. And
that’s how Anishnawbe life is developed; it’s all those instincts that [are] that
seventh sense. It is that we already know certain things, those things that we know
are imparted to us from our dad’s seed and our mother’s egg and we make that
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Elders emphasize that it is important for adults to recognize the bi-directional nature of
parenting, and that they can learn from children as much as children learn from them:
[Children] try [to] keep you on that path right from the very beginning when they
start voicing their needs and their concerns. But as adults we have such a big head
that we think we know everything and we forget to incorporate all of senses when
[we are] dealing with our children. We close off our hearing; we
close off our sight, and our touch and all those things. And it creates a complicated
relationship with our young people and we say, “oh [there is] something wrong
here”. But you never look at yourself, how [you are] actually parenting. When you
ignore, or [you are] so shut off [then] that difficulty could be from you and not
from your child. I think [that is] really important that you always have to be aware
of all those senses and get back to where [the children] are at, like at what level
Importance of fathers. Kokomis Jacqui noted that every newborn baby knows
that he or she has a father and desires closeness to the father (Muir et al., unpublished
manuscript). This belief belies Western attachment theory which maintains that a parental
bond needs to be developed gradually through responsive and sensitive caregiving (Blum,
2004), Colonization has affected fathers’ lives with their children. For example in
interviews with Australian Indigenous fathers who were currently in prison, it was found
that nearly half of these inmates had grown up without their father present, and a quarter
reported abusive parenting. Still, 41% of these men made an effort to parent from prison
(Dennison, Smallbone, Stewart, Frieberg, and Teaque, 2014). In Australia, New Zealand,
and Canada, Indigenous fathers (and mothers) are overrepresented in the justice system
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(Muir and Roesch, 2017, unpublished manuscript; Marchetti and Anthony, n.d.). Indeed,
disproportionate criminalization is yet another way in which colonialism has affected and
disrupted parenting, particularly for Indigenous men who tend not to be as involved in the
conducted interviews with Indigenous mothers in Canada, who suggested that fathers have
been absent for at least two generations; that they themselves were reared without their
fathers, and that the fathers of their children were also not involved in parenting.
In spite of cultural values and expectations that support the importance of fathers
in their children’s lives, contemporary fathers in many Indigenous communities have been
largely absent from their children’s lives. Many explanations for this absence lead back to
colonialism, which has disrupted and impaired fathers’ traditional roles in their families
trauma on father-child relationships, in Canada and other nations, funding that supports
parenting and family counselling programs is still directed primarily to Indigenous women
Indigenous cultures have suffered assaults of many types over several generations,
making it extremely challenging to keep cultural values alive and to ensure their
Indigenous cultures also have to cope with the effects of fast moving, unrelenting cultural
changes, for example technological environments that are more directed to serving
may not always be very compatible with traditional Indigenous beliefs and practices
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in the transmission of cultural values, gaps that are due to historical interference, and the
childrearing, and strongly dampened spirit. Removed from their families, Indigenous
children were no longer the center of a large and loving family and community that allowed
trauma has been noted in communities that were traumatized by the removal of children
first in the era of Residential schooling, and next, ironically, following that era, when
parents who had endured residential schools as children began to have their own, and were
wholly unprepared for the experience. Even though many Indigenous peoples choose to
live in contemporary urban settings, these communities often feel foreign and unkind,
resulting in poverty and addictions that make it difficult for traditional cultural and spiritual
parenting values to thrive (Litwin et al., in under review). In contemporary times, it may
be difficult for Indigenous parents to access cultural teachings, depending on where they
live. Indigenous parents may need to make an increased effort to connect with other
families that they see as role models, to attend ceremonies or to receive teachings from
Elders, particularly with Elders from the parents’ particular Nation. The challenge with
integrating traditional practices into life in contemporary society brings both joy and
creates stress for Indigenous peoples who aim to return to culture-specific childrearing
practices. It is hoped that, in future, Indigenous researchers will be able to assist with this
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Indigenous people in many communities are beginning to demand that research that
pertains to them utilize more appropriate, “decolonized” methodologies (see for example
Smith, 2012). Some countries, for example Canada, have taken steps to ensure a shift in
the way that research is conducted with Indigenous populations. Canadian Institutes of
Health Research (CIHR), the Natural Sciences and Engineering Research Council
(NSERC), and the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council (SSHRC) are the
condition of receiving funding from one of these councils for research involving
Indigenous peoples, all researchers must agree to adhere to specific guidelines that conform
to a Tri-Council Policy Statement (TCPS 2; 2015). TCPS 2 notes that the history of
research with Indigenous people has been “defined and carried out primarily by non-
[Indigenous] researchers. The approaches used in the past have not generally reflected
[Indigenous] worldviews, and the research has not necessarily benefited [Indigenous]
mistrust” (TCPS, Chapter 9, n.p.). The purpose of the guidelines is to direct ethical conduct
for research involving Indigenous people, as the significant social, cultural, and linguistic
differences that exist between Indigenous people and Non-Indigenous researchers increase
the risk for misunderstanding (TCPS, Chapter 9, 2015). The TCPS Policy requires different
study. If the participants are from a specific Indigenous community, then the community
must be engaged. For example, this community engagement entails engagement with the
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relationships, and Responsibility framework (4 Rs; Kirkness and Barnhardt, 1991) the
Ownership, Control, Access and Possession (OCAP; Schnarch, 2003) and Participatory
Action Research (PAR) are three models that are recommended for use in childrearing
research.
The Ownership, Control, Access and Possession (OCAP) research protocol was
developed at the National Steering Committee of the First Nations Regional Longitudinal
Health Survey (Schnarch, 2004). The principle of Ownership denotes that participant
Indigenous communities or organizations own any data collected from themselves, and
must be consulted whenever these data are used (Schnarch, 2004). Control indicates that
Indigenous people have the right to control all aspects of the research, from the very
beginning of the project to its completion. Access denotes the absolute right of Indigenous
people to have access to all of their proprietary data and information about themselves and
their communities. Finally, Possession is more literal that Ownership, meaning that
possession is a means of protecting the data from misuse or for monetary gain, for example,
(4 Rs; Kirkness and Barnhardt, 1991) was first developed as a framework for academic
institutions with the goal of more fully supporting and retaining Indigenous university
students and was later adapted for use in research. The value Respect suggests the need to
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have respect for Indigenous individuals, families, communities, and the traditions,
traditional knowledge, and values they hold. Relevance indicates that Indigenous
knowledge, traditions, and values should be incorporated into Western institutional values,
and goes beyond respect. A reciprocal relationship implies that both Indigenous and
Western knowledge are useful and necessary. Responsibility incorporates that Indigenous
people have the right to be involved in the research that pertains to them to have control
participants should be defining and studying solutions for their own communities in a way
that is culturally relevant and ensures their control (Maar et al., 2011). Researchers who
employ PAR share, or give up their control over their research to the Indigenous
communities they study, so as to better serve these communities (Jacklin and Kinoshameg,
2008). Jacklin and Kinoshameg (2008) described PAR as a framework in which the
Indigenous community develops the research project including the research questions,
plans and develops the project itself, and is highly involved every step of the way in the
implementation and evaluation of the project. PAR includes research negotiation and
the community know about the project and what it entails); hiring and training community-
based research assistants (to strengthen community capacity); ensuring that even hard to
reach community members are included; and dissemination (ensuring that the community
gets the results of the research in plain language and to assist that the results can be used
to better the community; Jacklin and Kinoshameg, 2008). With research that is not directly
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include 25% Indigenous parents), PAR directs that still, a Non-Indigenous institution
should either form an Indigenous advisory committee or partner with an Indigenous agency
Increasing attention on the Arctic has led to an increase in research in these northern
lands and communities. The development of research and evaluation frameworks that
originate from Inuit epistemologies and methodologies has been an area of focus for the
process, which involved community engagement and dialogue throughout the territory, the
Piliriqatigiiniiq Community Health Research Model was developed and later published to
share the voices of communities with academia. The model weaves Inuit concepts of
the power of story”), Pittiarniq (“being kind and good”), and Iqqaumaqatigiinniq (“all
things coming into one”) and Piliriqatigiinniq (“working together for the common good”)
into a responsive community health research model grounded in Inuit ways of knowing
(Healey and Tagak Sr., 2014). The model serves as a reminder to look beyond the scope of
what is commonly defined as ‘health’ and ‘research’ to include knowledge holders and
stakeholders from other disciplines and walks of life. This model was developed to provide
practical organizational and methodological guidance, however the foundations run much
deeper. While the model originated from a health perspective, the underlying principle is
cross cutting and interdisciplinary. The model is structured on the relational aspects of life
in Indigenous communities – the relationships that are shared are the foundation from
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which we move forward to achieve wellness. Those relationships can be with anyone from
any walk of life and with any thing from any environment. The knowledge that is shared
and created in this space is helpful for everyone. The motivations with which one engages
in the project are the same – coming together for the common good and the betterment of
health and wellness. The research group is accountable to each other, to the relationships
they have formed and/or will form together, and the relationships they have with others in
methodology, knowledge, understanding, and our relationships with each other as human
Over the past two decades there has been an increasing awareness from academia
This body of knowledge has come to be known as Kaupapa Māori research (Health
theory, Māori tikanga (cultural practices) and the implementation of research that benefits
Māori whilst at the same time being produced by Māori (Health Research Council, 2008).
Kaupapa Māori research also encompasses an analytical approach that is about thinking
critically, which includes critiquing western definitions and constructions of Māori people
and their worldview. It is also about valuing Māori self-determination and encouraging
participation in the research process (Smith, 1999). Kaupapa Māori research does not
exclude the use of other methods but it seeks to integrate them in a culturally sensitive way
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on how Māori have understood research that has been conducted on them rather than for
them. Research that has been conducted in the past has often been detrimental to Māori
communities (Smith, 1999) as the history of research within New Zealand has often
reflected a distinct patriarchal process in which Māori have been further marginalised in
every domain of society (Edwards, McManus, and McCreanor, 2005). The challenge for
researchers is to work in partnership with Māori so that the outcomes can benefit both
Currently there are many models within New Zealand that are used to highlight best
practice with Māori families. Most seek to employ a holistic focus; Durie was first to
publish a model known as Te Whare Tapa Whā (1994). This model seeks to take into
account the holistic approach for researchers and clinicians when working with Māori
whanau. Te Whare Tapa Whā utilises the metaphor of the four walls of a house when
thinking about what is needed for a healthy individual. The individual needs to be
connected to their family (whānau), have good physical health (tinana), be well
(wairua). This model is the cornerstone of other Māori health and well-being models that
such as Te Wheke (Pere, 1991). A current school of thought that has gained traction of late
in New Zealand is called He Awa Whiria (Braided Rivers approach). This model combines
2012).
The New Zealand government has an agency that assists researchers and social
service agencies to evaluate what they do for families, this agency is called Superu. They
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draws on Māori principles to measure and understand outcomes of whānau wellbeing. This
well-being domains are centred on five key prinicples such as: Whakapapa (Māori are
aware of who their ancestors, whānau and iwi are), Manaakitanga (the practice of
reciprocity and support, acknowledging the mana, status and obligations that Māori have
to others), Rangatiratanga (the practice of governance and leadership, how whānau are
that can empower them), and Wairuatanga (whānau are able to connect and embrace
spirituality, develop resilience and access and express their culture). This approach is
Future Research
Indigenous communities will always be culturally respectful: one way to safeguard this
worldviews. Drawing on some of the frameworks discussed above would be a good start.
primarily in the context of child protection and welfare. The challenge for future
Indigenous childrearing values and the ensuing practices. A study of urban Indigenous
women found that having a strong affiliation with their culture acted as a protective factor
for Indigenous mothers of infants, and was associated with lower levels of stress, higher
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levels of perceived social support, and increased positive parenting practices (Litwin et al.,
under review). In that study, maternal cultural affiliation was strongly associated with more
reported feeling more grounded and competent in Inuit cultural teachings, and most
importantly, reported observing positive changes in their children in the home environment
after implementing the Inunnguiniq teachings within the family (Healey, 2015). The results
of such studies lend credence to a call for culturally competent research of the goals,
Western norms and methodologies may not satisfactorily assess diverse and unique
socioeconomic and contextual factors that affect Indigenous parents and their children’s
which has resulted from government policies, is intensified by a general denial about the
trauma and loss that resulted (Haskell and Randall, 2009). However, there is scant
Indigenous parenting.
CONCLUSIONS
Indigenous parenting values and practices, like all cultures’ parenting norms, aim
to support healthy development and resilience in offspring. Despite the disruptions and
have survived in many communities and are experiencing resurgence. Many aspects of
Indigenous parenting continue to govern how Indigenous families organize their family
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communities and those of Western groups. The values that differ between Indigenous and
non-Indigenous childrearing include a focus on strong spirit and how to build it, a focus on
member involvement in childrearing, the use of ceremony to teach values, and differing
Indigenous cultures. Indeed, teachings vary greatly from nation to nation, and it would be
a mistake to suggest that there is such a thing as “pan-Indigenousness” (i.e., one Indigenous
culture): There are many different Nations and many different parenting and childrearing
more usefully inform decisions made by professionals such as parenting educators and
social workers in the areas of child welfare and child and family mental health.
Professionals who have a thorough understanding of cultural and systemic factors that
characterize Indigenous family life will be better equipped to make decisions that result in
the safety and well-being of Indigenous children and families, while tending to their
cultural needs and avoiding unnecessary family separations that could result in re-
curricula that are sure to support Indigenous family resilience, for example, the
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
We would like to acknowledge the teachings of Grandmother Dorothy and Kokomis Jacqui
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