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Indigenous Parenting and Childrearing Muir et al.

, 2018

Indigenous Parenting and Childrearing

Nicole M. Muir, Yvonne Bohr, Matthew Shepherd, Gwen Healey and Donald Warne

in M. H. Bornstein (Ed.). Handbook of parenting (3rd ed.). Routledge

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INTRODUCTION

Parenting and childrearing are central to all cultures due to their essential role in

the physical, cognitive, and emotional development of the next generation. Much progress

has been made in recent years in the documentation and study of parenting across cultures

(Bornstein, 1991, 2012, 2015). However, there is scant information available on

Indigenous parenting and child development, despite the fact that close to 370 million

Indigenous people occupy 20% of the planet’s territory and represent as many as 5,000

different cultural groups across all continents (United Nations, 2013). We use the term

Indigenous to represent all international individuals and communities related to, and/or

who have continuity historically with, the First Peoples in Canada, the United States, the

Americas, Pacific Islands, New Zealand, Australia, Asia, and Africa and those who

preceded colonizing populations (Allan and Smylie, 2015). It is important to consider that

Indigenous parenting, while affected by universal historical features, is subject to both

intracultural and intercultural differences, depending on, among other things, the

Indigenous cultural group or assimilation policies of governments.

The number of Indigenous families is increasing in many regions of the world, yet

the study of parenting and child development in these communities has not received much

attention, or methodical study, and often appears to be based on retrospective narratives

and anthropological observations (Biggs, 1998; Cheah and Chirkov, 2011; Dalla and

Gamble, 1997; Lefley, 1976; Little Soldier, 1985). This lack of attention belies that fact

that Indigenous parenting is a topic riddled with contradictions and controversy.

Indigenous cultures greatly value children; for example, in Anishnawbe belief systems

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children are “gifts from the Creator,” while at the same time, children in Indigenous

communities face inordinate challenges when compared with their non-Indigenous peers

because of colonization. Indeed, Canadian Indigenous children suffer disproportionally

from health problems, such as obesity, diabetes, and Fetal Alcohol disorders, as well as

mental health problems including suicide (Public Health Agency of Canada, 2013). Māori

children in New Zealand (NZ) are also overrepresented in an array of negative education,

health and well-being statistics (Ministry of Social Development, 2010). Māori youth

experience worse health, and well-being outcomes than Pākehā (NZ European) young

people (Crengle et al., 2013; Helu, Robinson, Grant, Herd, and Denny, 2009; Ministry of

Social Development, 2010). For example, Māori youth have higher obesity rates, report

greater mental health concerns and substance use, reduced access to health services,

experience greater exposure to violence, and are more likely to leave secondary school with

lower educational qualifications than their non-Māori counterparts (Crengle et al., 2013;

Helu et al., 2008, Ministry of Social Development, 2010).

The health problems of Indigenous young people are primarily attributable to sub-

standard conditions for housing and basic municipal infrastructure, forced assimilation and

colonization, and historical and contemporary policies that further injustices of the past.

Yet Indigenous communities are often portrayed as showing maladaptive and neglectful

parenting practices that provide insufficient support for positive child development. These

portrayals are largely based on the disproportionate number of Indigenous children who

are apprehended by child protection systems in North America and New Zealand

(Cochrane, 1992; Harris et al., 2007; Litwin, Bohr, and Muir, under review; Office of

Children’s Commissioner, 2015; Pauktuutit, 2012; Trocmé, Knoke and Blackwell, 2004).

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Negative perceptions of Indigenous people have likely been exacerbated by the fact that

little attention has typically been paid to historical context. Similarly, researchers have

shown negligible interest in culturally sanctioned ethnotheories of Indigenous childrearing,

the cultural strengths that beget parental ethnotheories, and these strengths’ effects on

resilience. Norms that are used to assess Indigenous parenting are undeniably still grounded

in mainstream Western parenting styles, a bias that needs to be corrected before quality of

parenting can be studied in an objective manner across Indigenous cultures (Litwin, Bohr,

and Muir, under review).

Many Indigenous communities across the globe are challenged by higher than

average social and economic adversities. Socioeconomic contextual factors, such as

education level and employment opportunities, are known to affect child development but

are not typically included in Western childhood development norms (Simard and Blight,

2011). Socioeconomic adversities have been attributed to intrusions and injustices brought

about by colonization, cultural genocide in many forms, and the ensuing collective trauma

that continues to have intergenerational repercussions (Evans-Campbell, 2008; Muir and

Bohr, 2014; Trocmé et al., 2004; United Nations, 2013). Indigenous family life and

parenting resources are profoundly affected by historical trauma. Forced parent-child

separations in Australia and North America, for example, had a devastating effect on

attachment relationships and the transmission of parenting in successive generations,

resulting in a transgenerational rupture in traditional Indigenous cultural knowledge and

childrearing patterns (Cheah and Chirkov, 2011; Ing, 1991). Similarly, in New Zealand,

even though the Treaty of Waitangi had been established between the crown and the

majority of Māori in 1840 (which guaranteed Māori sovereignty of New Zealand), the

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following decades from 1840 onwards were a testimony to unbridled hegemony by the

crown as there was a large percentage of land transfer from Māori ownership to crown

ownership (Orange, 2015). Much of this land transfer occurred through the use of newly

created laws enforced by the might and overwhelming numbers of British colonial soldiers.

Māori lost connection to their land, language, culture and the support of their tribe (Walker,

1990). Nonetheless, there is much resilience to be found in the practices and experience of

Indigenous families and communities.

This chapter is intended as an introduction to Indigenous parenting values,

practices, and challenges. We aim to contextualize Indigenous parenting customs by 1)

discussing the historical trauma context which affects many diverse Indigenous cultures

worldwide whose parenting practices have been, and continue to be, affected by

colonization and the ensuing traumatization of entire communities; 2) past and current

discriminatory government policies and practices that shaped (and continue to shape) the

relationships between Indigenous parents and their children; and 3) and most importantly,

Indigenous parenting beliefs, values, and practices, or ethnotheories that are shared by

diverse communities and that are understood to build resiliency in children.

When possible, we present examples of unique issues and practices for specific

Indigenous Nations from Canada, the United States, Australia, New Zealand, and

Scandinavia. Finally, we will offer recommendations for future research using

decolonizing Indigenous research methodologies.

HISTORICAL CONTEXT: THE TRAUMA OF SYSTEMATIC FAMILY

SEPARATION AND PURPOSEFUL ANNIHILATION OF CULTURE

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Historical trauma, defined as the effects of purposeful injurious events that were

experienced by many Indigenous communities in the past, continues to cause high levels

of distress and grieving for groups that were victimized. Such events were deliberately

inflicted over time by non-Indigenous people and have been recently recognized as a form

of genocide (Evans-Campbell, 2008; Warne and Lajimodiere, 2015). Historical trauma

continues to interact with current stressors, cumulatively affecting the well being of

Indigenous people over generations (Evans-Campbell, 2008). In New Zealand for example,

the Māori people had significant expanses of land taken from them and lost a large portion

of their population due to contagious diseases throughout the mid to late 1800s (Ellison-

Loschmann and Pearce, 2006). Indigenous people reflect on the losses linked to

colonialism, assigning them feelings of bereavement and anger (Whitbeck, Adams, Hoyt,

and Chen, 2004). Other common reactions to historical trauma include depression, drug

and alcohol use, identifying with ancestors’ pain, somatic symptoms, anxiety, and chronic

grief (Brave Heart-Jordan, 1995). The residential school experience in particular represents

a salient example of historical trauma that had direct repercussions for parenting over many

generations. Residential Schools played a defining, highly problematic, and insidious role

in shaping many aspects of modern day Indigenous parenting.

Residential schools were implemented by governments in Canada, Australia (but

not New Zealand), and the United States (where they were called boarding schools) as a

system of compulsory assimilation (Smith, Varcoe, and Edwards, 2005; Warne and

Lajimodiere, 2015). In Canada, for example, it is estimated that at least 150,000 First

Nations, Métis and Inuit children attended residential schools, between the mid-1800s to

1996, when the last school was closed (Aboriginal Affairs and Northern Development

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Canada [AANDC], 2010; Health Canada, 2012; Pauktuuti, 2012). Attendance at these

schools required a forced separation of children and adolescents from their families during

prime developmental periods. These schools were designed to assimilate Indigenous

children to mainstream European ideologies and social norms. Children were required to

speak English, were prohibited from speaking their native languages, and were frequently

subjected to abusive discipline (King, 2006). Students were not allowed to practice any

form of their cultural or spiritual traditions and beliefs (Smith et al., 2005; King, 2006;

AANDC, 2010). The main focus of residential schools was the assimilation of Indigenous

children by means of breaking the link to their culture (Truth and Reconciliation

Commission of Canada, 2015a). Residential schools also dismantled the relationship

between Indigenous children and their parents, which disrupted the transmission of

culturally based parenting skills (Bombay, Matheson, and Anisman, 2011; Warne and

Lajimodiere, 2015). Survivors of residential schools often found it difficult to become

loving parents because of their exposure to the strict institutionalized discipline and many

forms of abuse that they had experienced in residential schools (Truth and Reconciliation

Commission of Canada, 2015a) and the damage to a positive parenting experience and the

attachment relationship (Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada, 2015b).

Caregivers who had attended residential schools have reported feeling inadequate and

overwhelmed when parenting their own children (Brave Heart and DeBruyn, 1998).

Furthermore, the children of residential school survivors often reported traumatic

childhoods that included abuse. When these children became parents themselves, they

described being confused about how to rear their children in a healthy way (Brave Heart-

Jordan, 1995).

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In Cree and Metis cultures, it is taught that “…Female Elders, also known as

Grandmothers, carry the childrearing bundle for the people” (Dorion, 2010, p.7).

Grandmothers are seen as the holders of parenting and child development teachings and

are held in high esteem by their communities (Fasoli and Johns, 2007). The term

Grandmother in Anishnawbe communities can denote both a related family member and

an unrelated family member who is instead an older Indigenous woman who carries

childrearing teachings, and in this case, “Grandmother” is capitalized. In the words of an

Anishnawbe Grandmother:

… a lot of the problems started with Indigenous history and a lot of that stuff that

went on, especially the residential schools. When you think of a whole town… and

you take all the children or 80% of the children away and you just leave the adults...

[That is] a big impact on everyone, on all the grandparents, mothers, fathers,

aunties, uncles, cousins. You just have all these adults with no children there. And

some of them never even know what happened to their children. They never came

home. They just, one day were taken… You [cannot] even begin to imagine the

impact it has on the future generations which is probably my mother and her

mother. ... [that is] where that big gap comes in, that parenting, the skills and the

skills that they would have learned, were not passed on, … and because there was

always that sense of chaos and that loss and trauma of all that never got to a point

where it can heal and re-begin. (Grandmother Dorothy, as cited in Muir, Litwin and

Bohr, unpublished manuscript).

The damage to culturally sanctioned parenting skills that is reported in many

narrative accounts is likely based in the absence of traditional role models, as future parents

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were taken from their families. In addition, mental health problems among survivors

affected parenting behaviors, and family belief systems and capacity, resulting in

dysfunctional parent-child relationships (Bombay, Matheson, and Anisman, 2009; Dorion,

2010). In addition, childhood trauma may have induced changes to bio-physiological

systems, potentially affecting parents’ ability to cope with stressors (McGowan et al.,

2009). When individuals live through traumatic experiences as children, they are often

more vulnerable to experiencing trauma in adulthood (Bombay, Matheson, and Anisman,

2014; Horwitz, Widom, McLaughlin, and White, 2001). Trauma in a family context in turn

can significantly affect parenting, often resulting in the replication of a traumatic childhood

environment (Levendosky and Graham-Bermann, 2000; Roberts et al., 2004). Children of

residential school survivors report experiencing more childhood trauma than Indigenous

children whose caregivers did not attend Residential schools (Bombay et al., 2011). As a

result of not having traditional parental role models, and because of the abuse that occurred

in residential Schools, it is possible that many survivors have lost the ability to engage in

nurturing social interactions with children that promote healthy connections (Wesley-

Esquimaux and Smolewski, 2004). In Inuit communities in Canada, a series of events

including a widespread Tuberculosis outbreak, and the implementation of forced

settlement and residential school attendance policies, caused profound changes in the

family life of Northern communities due to family separation and displacement, language

suppression, disrupted attachments, and loss of lands and self-determinism (McShane,

Hastings, Smylie, Prince, and The Tungasuvvingat Inuit Resource Centre, 2009; Healey,

2016). Clearly, the disruption of parent-child attachment, subsequent lack of experience

with healthy attachment relationships, and lack of models for the latter would also have

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significant repercussions for family interactions and development. The impact of the

systematically inhumane treatment of Indigenous families, which affected entire

generations of parents and now grandparents, is likely still evident today in the parenting

practices of Indigenous families (Litwin et al., under review; Smith et al., 2005).

PAST AND CURRENT DISCRIMINATORY GOVERNMENT POLICIES AND

PRACTICES

Over the past two centuries, governments have made it a goal to eradicate

Indigenous culture and thought, and they have succeeded as demonstrated by the negative

self-image and dissociation from cultural identity shown by generations of Indigenous

individuals and families (King, 2006; Smith et al., 2005). As stated by a Canadian victim

of these practices: “When I was younger I used to talk about how my family had lost that

culture, but the reality is that my identity was stolen, it didn’t just come spontaneously from

my family. That stuff was instilled, and it’s been instilled in many Aboriginal people in

Canada. It was a systematic attempt to whitewash Aboriginal families. It’s really sad” (Best

Start Resource Centre, 2012, pg. 18). The ensuing effects of these traumas, including their

intergenerational transmission, resulting in mental health and substance abuse sequelae

have been extensively discussed and studied (AANDC, 2010).

In Canada, where 4.3% of the population are Indigenous, depending on the province

and the year, between 40% and 80% of children in the child welfare system are of

Indigenous descent (StatsCan, 2011; Trocmé et al., 2004). In New Zealand, Māori make

up approximately 15% of the general population, and yet in 2015, 58% of children and

youth were recorded as being in government care (Office of Children’s Commissioner,

2015). The view that Indigenous children are disproportionately neglected by their

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caregivers and kin is particularly disturbing as these negative views pertain to a culture in

which offspring are highly valued, and entire communities are expected to be actively

involved in childrearing (Pauktuutit, 2012; Wilson, 2016). A greater attention to historical

trauma in understanding presumed neglect could change the focus from individual blame

of parents and families to acknowledging how colonialism continues to impact Indigenous

peoples’ lives. As well, a Western focus on the reputed dysfunction of individual nuclear

families, without acknowledging or addressing the contextual social issues in Indigenous

communities, “perpetuates notions of pathology” (Coleman, Unrau, and Manyfingers,

2001, p. 66). It is very likely that mainstream parenting research has significantly

contributed to viewing Indigenous childrearing practices through a deficit lens (Pooyak

and Gomez, 2009).

However, it would be a mistake to emphasize historical injustices exclusively as

the only causal factors for the current problems that Indigenous people face. Indeed,

contemporary colonial practices further perpetuate the victimization of Indigenous people,

creating challenging conditions for optimal parenting. It is important to consider whether

one is “…dealing with actual historical issues or more proximate grief and trauma from the

daily lives of often economically disadvantaged people who live with constant overt and

institutionalized discrimination, severe health issues, and high mortality rates. The current

conditions may be attributed to historical causes, however, the origins of the symptoms

may be contemporary experiences” (Whitbeck, Adams, Hoyt, and Chen, 2004, p.119).

Grandmother Dorothy noted that:

… The world is so different for us here and the times, I mean, in that [it is] difficult

to practice [our culture] especially if [you are] engaging with addictions or if you

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[do not] know your culture or if [you are] just kind of struggling with poverty. You

know those things are hard to practice because [you are] so engaged in trying to

survive. … I think a lot of our energies get wasted on just being, just surviving in a

world [that is] not really nice to us (as cited in Muir, Litwin and Bohr, unpublished

manuscript).

There are many examples of contemporary government policies that have

significant repercussions for Indigenous parenting. In Canada, the federal government

changed the Indian Act in the early 1950s as it began to become clear that Residential

schools were failures, and the federal government began to close them (Union of B.C.

Indian Chiefs, 2002). After this change, the federal government began to pay the provinces

to provide child welfare services to Indigenous people and Indigenous children began to

increasingly move from residential schools into the child welfare system (Union of B.C.

Indian Chiefs, 2002). In British Columbia, a Ministry of Human Resources staff termed

this process “the Sixties Scoop”, as social workers employed by the province would, “quite

literally, scoop children from the reserves on the slightest pretext” (Johnson, 2002, p. 23).

Johnson (2002) speculated that this was done for two reasons: The social workers thought

they were saving these children from poverty, unsanitary conditions, and malnutrition, but

it is more likely that this was simply a new form of colonization. From the 1960s to the

1980s, thousands of Indigenous children (16,000 in Ontario, Canada alone) were taken

from their families and adopted into mostly non-Indigenous families in Canada or sent to

the United States and the United Kingdom, without parental consent (Russell, 2016).

Present-day foster care systems in some ways took over from the residential school system.

For example, Blackstock (2003) noted that the number of Indigenous children in child

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welfare today has surpassed the numbers boarded at the height of the residential school

system. As of 2011 in Canada, Indigenous children accounted for 7% of all Canadian

children, yet 14,000 were in foster care, representing 48% of all Canadian foster children

(Turner, 2016).

For the Inuit, in the first 60 years of the twentieth century, attempts by outsiders to

teach Inuit children reading, writing, and arithmetic were scattered and inconsistent

(McGregor, 2010). Following the Second World War, this began to change as informal

networks of education were replaced by a new government program which aimed to make

Inuit into full Canadian “citizens” (Qikiqtani Inuit Association, QIA, 2010). In 1951, the

first government-regulated school for Inuit was opened in Chesterfield Inlet (Pauktuutit,

2007). For some communities, up to three generations of Inuit children were sent away

from their families to attend day schools in the larger communities (Pauktuutit, 2007).

Some children were sent much farther away than the nearest settlement, to residential

schools in other provinces and territories. Others were sent to live with Qallunaat families

in southern cities, such as Ottawa, Edmonton and Halifax. Qallunaat is the Inuktitut word

that is commonly used for ‘white person’ or ‘non-Inuk’. This caused great anguish for both

the parents and the children (Pauktuutit, 2007; QIA, 2010). Residential schools for Inuit

continued to open into the 1960s and by 1963, 3,997 Inuit children were attending these

schools (King, 2006). In June 1964, 75% of 6 to15 year old Inuit children and youth were

enrolled in the schools (King, 2006). These students are the parents, grandparents, uncles,

and aunts of today.

In Canada, for children and youth who live on reserves, living conditions, such as

access to adequate, uncrowded housing and clean safe drinking water, are frequently

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subpar because of treaty agreements that are not honoured which require the federal

government to provide adequate funding for such infrastructure. Reserves are parcels of

land, which have been set aside by the Queen for an Indigenous Band’s use (Abbot, 2003).

In actuality, reserves, which are federally controlled under the Indian Act, “had a

devastating impact on Indigenous ways of knowing” (Allan and Smylie, 2015, p. 10) as

the Indian Act controlled most of the activities on reserve (for example, in the past,

Indigenous people were not allowed to leave the reserve without asking permission from

the government appointed Non-Indigenous Indian agent). Reserves are often isolated and

because of this isolation, have few services (such as doctors or grocery stores) that

Indigenous people can access. There are, for example, no high schools on many northern

Ontario reserves in Canada, and often the schools that do exist are in disrepair. To obtain

a high school education, many youth must travel hundreds of kilometres to a larger urban

centre and board with non-Indigenous families (Blackstock, 2008; Chown Oved, 2015).

Separation of Indigenous parents from their children, which began with residential schools

continues today, with the disregard for treaty obligations at the federal government level

and systems-level policies that continue to perpetuate the structural violence of the past.

Contemporary government policies in the United States that have had a detrimental

impact on children and families is the long-standing and significant underfunding of health

and social programs for American Indians and Alaska Natives through the Indian Health

Service and the Bureau of Indian Affairs. The tribal nations in the U. S. signed hundreds

of treaties with the federal government in which the tribes exchanged land and natural

resources for various social services, including housing, education, and healthcare.

Therefore, the tribal nations have a legal right to health and social services in the U. S.

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Unfortunately, the dearth of resources that have been allocated to implement health and

social services has led to decreased access to prenatal care, maternal and child health,

family services, and educational programs. These under-resourced programs, combined

with poverty and discrimination, are at the root of the many of the parenting and family

supports disparities in the Indigenous population (see Warne and Frizzell, 2014).

Much available research has examined Indigenous families primarily through a

deficit lens by focusing on what researchers perceive to be Indigenous parents’

incompetent, non-mainstream parenting that has been deemed inferior to practices based

on Western ideas of family. Such research often fails to acknowledge systemic injustices

or highlight strengths in Indigenous parenting (Bertsch and Bidgood, 2010; Red Horse,

1997). Cultural chauvinism, or the perception that only the values of the dominant culture

reflect human nature, may play a role in these negative depictions (The Royal Commission

on Indigenous Peoples, 1996). There has been virtually no understanding or recognition

that Indigenous people have their own epistemology about how they understand

themselves, others, and the world in which they live. Many facets of Indigenous parenting

and child development, such as the role of extended family and community in childrearing,

child autonomy and exploration of their environment and holistic perspectives which

encompass spiritual, mental, emotional and physical well-being of the child, are not

adequately addressed in mainstream parenting and child development research (Sarche and

Whitesell, 2012). Using non-Indigenous (i.e., Western, Caucasian, middle class family-

focused) theoretical frameworks with Indigenous families, frameworks that are not

adequately contextualized in a comprehensive understanding of the intergenerational basis

for disrupted Indigenous parenting, likely provides an incomplete and inexact assessment

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of Indigenous parenting and child development and insufficiently highlights the strengths

of Indigenous communities (Gerlach, 2008; Simard and Blight, 2011). Figure 1 displays a

more balanced perspective on disrupted Indigenous parenting. Figure 1 provides a visual

summary of intergenerational risk factors (Warne and Lajimodiere, 2015).

Figure 1. Adapted with permission from Warne and Lajimodiere, 2015

In the following section, we provide a glimpse into some features of resilient

Indigenous parenting that merit research attention and should be incorporated into

examinations of Indigenous parenting and child development. These parenting practices

include: continued differences between Indigenous parenting practices from that of

Western parenting and differences between Nations; attachment and parental sensitivity;

competency, autonomy and discipline; cultural values and the transmission of these values;

and who holds and teaches this knowledge. Then, specific Indigenous childrearing features

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will be addressed which include: extended family and community, spirit, ceremonies, the

bond with parents, disciplining/setting boundaries, intergenerational and community

transmission, and the role of fathers. Finally, current day obstacles to Indigenous parenting

will be examined.

ETHNOTHEORIES THAT INFORM INDIGENOUS PARENTING AND CHILD

REARING: CONTENT AND TRANSMISSION

There have been significant interference, disruption, and, in effect, efforts to

eradicate the practice and transmission of culturally specific childrearing in Indigenous

communities worldwide. It is thus remarkable that, although many traditions have

vanished, some childrearing traditions live and thrive in modern Indigenous families (Javo,

Alapack, Heyerdahl, and Ronning, 2003; Muir and Bohr, 2014). Ryan (2011) showed that

Australian Indigenous parents from both urban and remote communities retained unique

traditional parenting practices pertaining to sensitivity towards their child’s needs and the

promotion of emotional self-regulation, self-expression, and competence. In Canada,

Cheah and Chirkov (2008) showed that Indigenous mothers differed from their Euro-

Canadian counterparts in their focus on family, respect for Elders, and the maintenance of

cultural values. Similarly, van de Sande and Menzies’ (2003) evaluation of Anishnawbe

parenting programs proposed that there continues to be significant distinctiveness in the

principles for rearing Anishnawbe children such as higher Elder and extended family

involvement in spite of decades of influence by mainstream culture. For the Māori, there

is more involvement of extended family members and grandparents in the rearing young

children when compared to NZ European families, which can assist with the

intergenerational transmission of parenting knowledge (Ritchie, 2017). Eni and Phillips-

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Beck (2013) noted that despite colonialism and cultural and geographic marginalization,

tradition and essential family values have endured in the ways that Indigenous parents rear

their children. A Norwegian team studying Sami parenting norms also identified

differences between these parents’ customs and those of the dominant Norwegian culture,

even after years of assimilation (Javo, Ronning, and Heyerdahl’s, 2004). Simard and Blight

(2011) noted the importance of cultural identity formation, including an attachment to

cultural values and ancestral territories or lands, an attachment that is typically conveyed

to Indigenous children through language and teaching traditional practices. These authors

highlight the importance of Indigenous childrearing goals that pre-date colonialism for

health promotion for Indigenous peoples, and contextualize them in the cultural losses such

as loss of lands and languages attributed to colonialism.

One Meta-culture, Many Variations

There is no such thing as one Indigenous culture, no universal “Aboriginal

paradigm” (Loppie, 2007) but rather, each Indigenous culture reflects the lands and waters

to which they are connected. In Canada for example, Indigenous people who belong to up

to 617 First Nations or bands and 80 Nations, and live in over 1000 settlement

communities, make up about 4.3% of the Canadian population (Statistics Canada, 2011).

In the United States, there are over 560 federally recognized tribes located in 35 states.

Distinct Nations sport diverse cultures and languages, beliefs and practices, and many

differences can also be found between Indigenous peoples in urban locations and on

reserves (Cheah and Sheperd, 2011). Residing on different continents like the Anishnawbe

in eastern Canada or the Maori in New Zealand, in diverse countries, and belonging to

distinct communities and Nations, Indigenous people do not all raise children in the same

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way. Still, some commonalities are evident in the childrearing practices of Indigenous

cultures (Neckoway, 2011). Loppie (2007) suggested that, despite geographical, language

and social structure differences, shared Indigenous parenting values exist that are

philosophically different from European North American cultural norms. For example,

historically, Indigenous communities in North America appear to have been more

egalitarian than European Americans, with shared responsibility for the entire

community’s wellness (Cheah and Chirkov, 2008). In the following section, we describe

some of these practices in terms of both Content (the principles and practices involved)

and Transmission (how practices are transmitted).

Attachment and Parental Sensitivity

A secure attachment relationship with a responsive, reliable caregiver, as first

described by Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, and Wall (1978), is considered by many to be the

cornerstone of healthy social emotional development in children. However, the methods

used to assess the quality of attachment, and the parental behaviors that allegedly foster a

good attachment, have been criticized for not adequately capturing cultural variations of

attachment practices, for example in Indigenous cultures. Carriere and Richardson (2009)

proposed that in cultures in which dyadic caregiving relationships are not as central as

whole family and community-based caregiving the term “connectedness” may better

describe children’s attachment to a caregiving system (Atwool, 2006). For example, an

Australian study found that Indigenous children from the Central and Western regions were

often cared for by siblings (Ryan, 2011). Inuit attachment perspective is described by

Karetak as ‘the egg, the rock, and the human being’ (Qaujigiartiit Health Research Centre

(QHRC), 2015). Attachments are developed and fostered through the Inuit’s collective

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responsibility to teach children, develop their skills, and show them love. The child in this

environment will thrive and become a capable human being. The child who has been

mistreated and neglected displays ‘rock-like’ characteristics, hardened to the outside world

and unable to express emotions or develop relationships to others in a healthy way. The

child who has been over-indulged, spoiled and protected displays ‘egg-like’ characteristics,

unable to cope with challenging or distressing circumstances and cracking under pressure.

It is important to note that, in this worldview, rock-like and egg-like individuals can be

made into capable human beings, they do not have to stay that way, and that with love,

support, compassion, and the investment of time in developing an individual’s strengths,

an individual can change (QHRC, 2015).

An Australian study found that all members of Indigenous extended family circles

of caregivers were expected to respond to infants’ vocalizations and that letting a baby

become distressed and cry was considered by the family to be cruel and was frowned on

(Kruske, Belton, Wardaguga, and Narjic, 2012). More research is needed to better

understand the cultural strengths, and possible advantages, inherent in the anticipation and

prevention of infant distress, as contrasted with sensitive responding once a child is already

distressed, if indeed this practice is found to be characteristic of and adaptive in Indigenous

communities.

Child Competency and Non-Interference, and Use of Boundaries or Discipline

Much emphasis is placed on promoting child competency and skill development in

Indigenous cultures’ childrearing practices. This prevalent focus on child autonomy is

based on concepts of exploration of the environment and non-interference in all aspects of

an individual’s life which is expressed by many communities as a reluctance to give

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instructions, correct, coerce, or persuade others (Neckoway, 2010). Corporal punishment

was not used traditionally with Indigenous children (Salmond, 1997) but was introduced

in residential schools (Benzies, 2014). Children are typically seen as competent, equal

contributors to their communities (Benzies, 2014). Indigenous children are commonly

respected as autonomous persons who belong to a collective and are encouraged to make

their own decisions when it comes to exploring their environment (McPherson and Rabb,

2001 as cited in Neckoway et al., 2007; Sheperd, 2008). For example both Inuit and Sami

families aimed to promote child independence through risk taking, as an essential building

block for hardship endurance and ultimately survival (QHRC, 2015). Australian

Indigenous research further supports the notion of unassisted risk taking; for example,

climbing trees and handling knives are seen as important steps toward competence and

autonomy (Kruske et al., 2012). Alaskan Yup’ik (MacDonald-Clark and Boffman, 1995)

and Sami children were also encouraged to engage in daily activities based on their own

internal rhythm. At the same time, Sami parents are expected to balance the push to

autonomy with much affectionate responsiveness to their children’s emotional needs (Javo

et al., 2003, 2004). The value of physical autonomy and risk-taking is seen across

Indigenous cultures in Australia, Norway and United States.

In line with the described childrearing goals, cultural variations exist, but common

Indigenous family values that pertain to disciplining children differ somewhat from those

of mainstream Western parenting (Muir and Bohr, 2014). American Indian informants in

Dionne and colleagues’ study (2009) in southern California specified that strict disciplining

was “very strong medicine” in contrast to the “good medicine” inherent in positive

attention, mutual play, and affection. Even when children display aggression, Indigenous

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mothers responded with patience and teaching life lessons, values, and community rules.

Cheah and Sheperd (2011) found that Indigenous participants were less likely to insist their

aggressive child behave, or threaten negative consequences, than European Canadian

parents. Similarly, McShane et al. (2009) reported that, rather than disciplining, Inuit

parents made use of interpersonal games and benevolent teasing to support their children’s

emotion regulation during times of upset.

Anishnawbe people in Ontario, Canada also actively strive for physical, emotional,

mental, and spiritual competence in their children. Grandmother Dorothy emphasized the

importance of empowering a child, and guiding the child to make up own mind, to stand

by own decisions, and to manage own emotions. She emphasized that a sense of self is

obtained by “feeling safe in the home, knowing you are loved and cared for regardless of

circumstances”, and through “expressing emotions in a healthy fashion” (Muir, Litwin and

Bohr, unpublished manuscript). According to Dorothy, children should be supported

through difficult times, as support fosters respect for parents and other community

members, including Elders. Developing respect helps children to accept their

responsibilities and account for their actions. According to the Grandmothers in Muir and

colleagues’ study, Anishnawbe childrearing goals differ most dramatically from

mainstream Western parenting goals in that they emphasize the four holistic domains of

spiritual, mental, physical and emotional competence, which together make up the

traditional Medicine Wheel of the Anishnawbe and other Nations. Only when these four

domains are balanced in a child, is that child deemed healthy (Muir et al., unpublished

manuscript; Warne, 2005).

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In the Inuit Inunnguiniq perspective, which describes ‘the making of a capable

human being’, there are 3 components to a child’s development: Inuusiq (life and health

matters), Pilimmaqsarniq (acquisition of skills through effort and practice), and Silativut

(responding to our lands and environment) (Qaujigiartiit Health Research Centre, [QHRC]

2015). In Inuit communities, Elders describe childrearing in terms of teaching to the heart,

teaching children to be of sound moral character, to help others from a young age, and to

develop their strengths (QHRC, 2015). They say that when we teach to a child’s heart, the

head or mind will follow and children will learn to become capable human beings that are

able to take care of themselves and others, defend themselves from danger, and persevere

through difficult emotional, mental, and physical situations. Atuat Akittirq stated that

setting boundaries for children begins the moment they are able to pick up an object and

try to put it in their mouth. That is the time that we really begin to pay attention, to observe,

and to teach children respect for others and their property, and to lead by example (Karetak,

Tester, and Tagalik 2017).

Transmission of Cultural Values

Transmission of cultural values is an important aspect of childrearing in Indigenous

cultures. Transmission is accomplished through implicit and explicit instruction. There is

intergenerational and bidirectional transmission, and transmission through bonds with

parents, with grandparents, and with the community. Transmission of spirituality and

culture is carried out through ceremony, teachings, storytelling and example. For Inuit, the

following four Maligait (foundational Inuit societal laws) are woven into ancient stories

that have been passed down for generations and continued to be shared with children and

families today: 1) To respect all living creatures; 2) To maintain balance and harmony; 3)

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Working for the common good; and 4) Continually planning and preparing for the future.

When this guidance is followed, relationships with others, and the lands and waters that

sustain humans, support the latter in the learning journey over the life course. Teachings of

culture involve not just the parents, or primary caregivers, but the extended family and

community (Muir and Bohr, 2015).

In Anishnawbe childrearing, according to Grandmother Dorothy (as cited in Muir

et. al., unpublished manuscript), values that are considered the most important to pass on

are those relating to the Seven Grandfather Teachings: wisdom, love, respect, bravery,

honesty, humility and truth. Respect is deemed to be “cyclical”: Respecting other people,

especially the elderly, leads to self-respect, which further enables respect from others,

which leads back to self-respect and integrity, and so on. Respect is often taught at

ceremonies, and helps the child to become a healthy and capable adult. Such teaching also

occurs with the Māori. One example of a value that is developed from within Māori society

is whānaungatanga. This is where Māori, through growing up in a whānau or working and

learning together, develop a sense of kinship. It is through this sense of learned

interdependency that obligations to one another and the wider whānau unit, tribe and the

environment develop (Biggs, 2012). In Māori culture, transmission of cultural values can

occur through learning the Māori language (te reo). There has been a renaissance in New

Zealand where pre-school Māori children have the opportunity to attend a kohanga reo

(early childhood centre) and learn te reo (Rau and Ritchie, 2011). Kohanga have become

central places where parents, grandparents, and caregivers of children meet and learn te reo

and tikanga (Māori culture) together. Adults who missed these learning opportunities when

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they were children now have the chance to learn this important knowledge (Cooper, Arago-

Kemp, Wylie, and Hodgen, 2004).

The intergenerational transmission of cultural values is especially important for the

members of cultures that have been traumatized by malevolent external forces, most

notably colonialism. Cultural transmission in those groups may be more meaningful and

essential than for cultures that have not experienced colonialism. Research with urban

Indigenous women from Canada concluded that having a strong affiliation with the

Indigenous culture can act as a protective factor with regard to effects of trauma, and may

engender resilience (Litwin et al., under review). In that study, greater connection to culture

was associated with lower levels of stress, higher levels of perceived social support, and

increased positive parenting practices for participating mothers. Maternal cultural

affiliation was also strongly associated with more optimal childhood outcomes for

offspring.

Keepers of Childrearing Knowledge

Cultural knowledge about parenting, family wellness, and other aspects of

Indigenous family and community life have historically been held by Elders and passed on

orally to subsequent generations. An example of this is the Berry Fast in Anishnawbe

culture. In Muir et al.’s interviews, Kokomis Jacqui highlighted a ceremony, the Berry

Fast, which begins when a young woman experiences menarche and continues for an entire

year during which she does not eat any berries. Grandmother Jacqui commented that the

Berry Fast helps young girls to better understand the Seven Grandfathers Teachings. Jacqui

spoke of the feast that was prepared for her at the end of her Berry Fast and how the older

women, “…came and they cupped my face and looked in my eyes and told me that I would

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always be “Obiday Anishnaabe Kwe kwee dow”. You will always be Anishnawbe Kwe

[Earth Woman]”. When Jacqui’s older sister explained this interaction to her, Jacqui

understood the immense gift the Elders and Grandmothers had given her: They were giving

Jacqui their own power and helping her understand the person she would always be. Here

the Grandmothers and Elders passed on their teachings through ceremony.

Indigenous people believe that traditional knowledge and oral histories about

children and families have retained their relevancy over many generations (Blackstock,

2007). Traditional knowledge is the culmination of the teachings of multiple generations

(Canadian Institutes of Health Research, 2010). Elders maintained their status as sources

of wisdom, pride, and inspiration in their communities even through colonization (Fasoli

and Johns, 2007). In Indigenous communities, the role of an Elder is both extensive and

highly respected (Mooradian, Cross, and Stutzky, 2006), and being held in high regard by

a community indicates the Elder’s authority. Highly respected Elders have spent a great

deal of time learning and disseminating traditional knowledge (Canadian Institutes of

Health Research, 2010). In Māori culture, Elders and parents would use oriori (chant) to

pass on traditional knowledge and oral histories to young children, such as where children

come from, where they are going, and traditional teachings (Mead and Mead, 2003) which

would guide them on the pathway of life (Penehira and Doherty, 2013).

The following features of Indigenous parenting are appear to be shared by many

communities, and are believed by some Elders to be central to childrearing.

Extended family and community. The importance of extended family and

community in Indigenous cultures cannot be over-emphasized. Indeed, many scholars have

highlighted the differences between Western cultures and Indigenous cultures, focusing on

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the multi-layered versus dyadic human bonds that exist between children and their

caregiving system (Neckoway et al., 2007). In Anishnawbe communities, the concept of

family encompasses the nuclear family and the extended family, and also the treaty-linked

community, a Nationhood family (all Anishnawbe people, regardless of province or

country), a Clan family (deer or turtle clan, the spiritual aspect of family), and a cultural

family (linked to Anishnawbe ceremonial practices) (Simard and Blight, 2011). In Lakota

and other Northern Plains cultures, it was the responsibility of one generation to actively

participate in raising the next generation. Aunts and uncles in had just as much parental

authority and responsibility as the biological parents. In this way, the children grew up with

numerous mothers and fathers with significant social support as opposed to the nuclear

family framework introduced by colonizing cultures.

Indigenous children, be they from Australia, Navajo territory, Nunavut, or New

Zealand, are described as highly valued members of extended family networks, who are

provided with much attention and affection by whole communities, including siblings,

Elders, also known as Grandmothers and aunts, other allo-parents (for example, Koori

mothering women from Australia who are not biologically related to the child). Surrogate

parents have traditionally held well-defined roles in the rearing the youngest members of

their community (Atkinson and Swain, 1999; Hossain et al., 1999; Kruske et al., 2012;

Fuller-Thomson, 2005; Nelson and Allison, 2000). Māori children may be given to an

extended family member at birth or as an older child, and this custom is known as whangai

(Pitama, 1997). This process was one where the young child was seen as being highly

prized and valued and much would be given to this child. The child was not seen to be the

sole responsibility of two parents but of the whole hapu (tribe) (Pitama, 1997).

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Spirit. Spirit is considered to reside in every Anishnawbe person. Spirit is perhaps

the most important concept to instil and nurture in a child. It gives children the strength

and direction necessary to cope with life. Spirit nurtures self-awareness and vice versa, and

children are believed to know their bodies and spirits right from birth. Kokomis Jacqui (in

Muir et al., unpublished manuscript) commented:

… [Children] will always be aware … where spirit lives, in your navel area…

Spirit is trying to tell us something and it’s our own spirit, soul spirit that is

doing that, creating that awareness within ourselves.

It is important for caregivers to help their children believe in themselves and help

them to understand that they are spirit and have spirit within themselves. Spirit can be

nurtured by allowing children to express themselves freely without interference from

adults. If a child is urged to express and listen to herself or himself, she or he will have the

tools to become an emotionally healthy adult. Not only does one have to nurture spirit, one

has to trust that the child can feel her own spirit. To achieve this, Anishnawbe parents:

…let [children] eat when they’re hungry because that’s their schedule.

[Children] know when they’re hungry. They know when they’re thirsty.

They’ll tell you. So sometimes, people force-feed their kids, ‘you finish all

your dinner or there’s no tv’. That’s kind of not a good thing to do because …

that child knows already its’ body, right from the time that it is born. [The

child] knows its body so well; [the child] knows its’ spirit so well that [child]

knows how to take care of [itself] (Grandmother Dorothy, in Muir et al.,

unpublished manuscript).

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When Anishnawbe children join mainstream society (daycare, schools), their

“knowing” of their own spirits should ideally be continuously reinforced by external

authority figures. Instead, by inhibiting children from listening to their spirit, it is believed

that these outside influences often desensitize the child’s spirit. Spirit is fostered in children

through such modes of transmission as culture, spirituality, stories, and nurturance from

adults. The Anishnawbe Grandmothers interviewed for Muir et al.’s study agreed that the

fundamental goal of traditional Indigenous childrearing is to rear a child with a strong

spirit, which is believed to provide the child with the tools to deal with life, and to take on

responsibility for themselves and for others. Even when life presents significant stressors,

and an individual errs, or loses the way (by becoming addicted for example), a strong spirit

is believed to have the power to bring an Indigenous person back to the “right” path, often

with the help of the entire community.

Implicit and Explicit Bidirectional Intergenerational Transmission

Elders report that both implicit (modeling or action) and explicit (verbal teachings)

cultural instruction should be given to children. Kokomis Jacqui (Muir et al., unpublished

manuscript) described implicit instruction:

If you see [a] child going to the fire, then nobody makes a loud noise to get him

away, they go over there and physically move him back. Then [the child] goes there

again, physically move him back. No sounds are made. There is no tut-tutting or

thck thck, none of that…., a big person will go there and move the baby back. …

Once that happens, one time, every woman’s focus is on that baby, and they watch

him … go over to the fire and somebody else will go move him back.

Kinship. From a relational knowledge and Inuit epistemological perspective, kinship

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is the foundation of Inuit social organization and life (Briggs et al,. 2000; Kral, 2011).

Kinship extends beyond familial and biological connection to other non-biological

affiliations including adoption, friendship, marriage or partnership, and namesake (Emdal-

Navne, 2008; Kral et al., 2011; Nuttall, 1992). In one of the few oral histories of Nunavut,

which shares the voices of Inuit elders, it is said that Inuit believe that three essential parts

made a human: body, soul, and name (Bennet and Rowley, 2004).

A nameless child was not fully human; giving it a name, whether before or after birth,

made it whole. Inuit did not have family surnames. Instead, each person’s name linked him

or her to a deceased relative or family friend, and the spirit of the person who has passed

on lived on in the child (Bennet and Rowley, 2004). Often the children will carry the spirit

and the traits of their namesake or avvrainnuk, such as hunting or sewing skills, and will

be protected by the name-soul connection. The relationship between the child and the

family of the namesake strengthened family bonds and created extended family networks

that would support the child and its character development throughout life (Karetak, 2013;

Tagalik, 2011). The name bestowed upon the child was the first step in establishing a

community around an individual beyond the immediate family and provided connections

to others (Bennet and Rowley, 2004; QHRC, 2012). This tradition is still prominent in Inuit

communities today and the naming tradition has been part of a process of reclaiming Inuit

family relationships after the separation events of the settlement period.

Ceremonies. Ceremonies provide opportunities for passing on knowledge, wisdom,

self-esteem, self-expression, respect, protection, strength, responsibility, and feelings of

connection. Kokomis Jacqui described specific Anishnawbe ceremonies performed after a

baby is born, such as putting the baby in warm cedar water immediately after birth (cited

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in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript). Jacqui remembered how she, as an 8- or 9-year-

old was asked to assist with birthing traditions after her baby brother was born:

… [My mom] was having a hard time [getting the afterbirth from the nurses]. So

she looked at me and said, “You go ask about that”… And I [brought the afterbirth]

to my mom …and she said you bury it at the bottom of the tree…I was in charge

of that so when we got home, I toured the bush looking for the right tree to bury

this in so I found a really nice tree, a hemlock tree. … That’s the kind I was looking

for. … So I buried [the afterbirth] in there… I smudged the tree and talked to it. I

told the tree …”You’re supposed to be looking after this [baby] boy forever, as long

as he’s alive”.

Through the described ritual, Jacqui’s mother taught her about traditional

responsibility for others and how to protect and keep her brother safe. A similar teaching

exists for Māori, where the word whenua is used to describe the land and placenta (Mead

and Mead, 2003). After a child is born, the placenta is taken and buried in a place of

ancestral significance such as somewhere near the child’s tribal marae (land surrounding a

significant grouping of buildings used for everyday living, this area of land was where

Māori traditionally met and currently meet to engage in everyday life) (Mead and Mead,

2003).

The power of the ceremonies is affected by the extent to which the parents and other

community adults emphasize teachings and support and nurture the child (Dorothy, in Muir

et al., unpublished manuscript). Grandmother Dorothy, for example, spoke of the effect of

ceremony on her own granddaughter:

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She’s been to ceremony since she was little. She knows how to behave in those

ceremonies, when to be quiet, when to start helping... And [there are] ceremonies

where she can’t go so I’ll explain to her why she can’t go. And we do our own

smudging and I explain to her why those medicines are so important to use. [I

explain about] some of the ceremonies that I do and why I do them. So …you’re

always talking to them and teaching them about those things. And taking her to

see… an Elder that came to do some drumming for the women and it’s all women,

they all brought their drums and I thought, what an important event for her to see.

So I brought her to see all those women and hear their voices just drumming away.

[It] was like a whole new experience for her. Events like that really have a powerful

impact in their little lives because …you see all these Native women, drumming,

singing their songs and, it’s for her, like ‘Wow, I can do that’.

According to Elders, the power of ceremonies expands a child’s experiences. Ceremonies

teach children what is expected of them, help children to see their capabilities, and foster

their self-esteem. Ceremonies, for example powwow dancing, transmit values and

teachings in an accessible and concrete format for children.

Transmission of cultural teachings through the bond with parents and community

and disciplining with respect. Cultural teachings and spirituality are transmitted through

the bond between parents, extended family members, the community and children.

Mainstream attachment theory focuses on fostering the maternal-infant relationship

through maternal responsiveness to children’s cues (Blum, 2004; Cummings and Warmuth,

2019). It appears that, contrary to contemporary Western parenting literature, the bond

between an Indigenous child and parents may be nurtured differently. Traditionally,

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Indigenous peoples in Canada, for example, focused on creating “a nurturing environment

for child development utilizing multiple relationships with extended family and other

community members … [Indigenous mothers] believe that other caregivers are capable and

will be attentive and responsive to the child’s needs” (Benzies, 2014, p. 381). Indigenous

people in Australia view children as “bridges between generations and growing them up is

the responsibility of the whole community” (Cheater, 2014, p. 1). Prior to the influence of

colonialism, Indigenous childrearing involved the entire community, all members of which

were responsible for watching children, ensuring children’s safety, disciplining, and

providing teachings.

In Inuit communities, for example, Inunnguiniq is the term used to describe the

making of an able human being. This term is often used to describe childrearing in English,

but in fact, Inunnguiniq is a concept that applies across the life course. In a discussion about

the concept of inunnguiniq, family relationships and child rearing from an Inuit

perspective, Elders in Nunavut, Canada have described a puuq, a pouch, which

metaphorically hangs around a child’s neck near the child’s heart (EAC, 2010; Tagalik,

2011). As a child grows and develops, the puuq must be filled with positive articles such

as good words, values, love, safety, support, skills, practice, understanding, and knowledge

(Elders Advisory Committee 2010; Tagalik, 2011). These values and tools contribute to

the formation of the child’s personality and equip the child with the skills and support they

need to engage in positive relationships with others and cope successfully in life whether

it be in times of celebration, or through hardship or illness. Parents, caregivers, and

extended family kin make positive contributions to the child’s life and the puuq by

developing relationships, showing affection, caregiving, teaching, and supporting the child

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(Tagalik, 2011). When a child experiences neglect, anger, hurt, abuse, or mistrust, the puuq

remains empty; thus, the child is not a whole person and, consequently, not able to develop

trusting relationships or cope well with life events (Tagalik, 2011). When viewed through

this explanation, one can see how the disruption of residential school and settlement events

in the history of colonized Indigenous peoples has had a significant impact on the children

who are now the parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents of children in care today.

Contemporary Western attachment theory also maintains that a bond needs to be

created and supported through reflective mutuality (Blum, 2004). Kokomis Jacqui noted

that Indigenous infants are thought to be already born strongly bonded with their mother

from the outset, and to have an immediate desire for closeness with their father (Muir et

al., unpublished manuscript). Indigenous infants who live with extended family members

can develop close bonds within kin relationships as well (Atwool, 2006). The

Grandmothers relayed that the bond children have with their parents is strong and cannot

be easily severed:

A child will always have that bond with their parents; [whether she or he is] being

raised by their mother alone … or their dad or both... The child will always look at

their parents as the ultimate people in the world… You can see that through your

child’s eyes that [you are] ‘it’. (Dorothy, in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript)

A baby, at birth, is believed to know her mother intimately because of the time the child

spent in the womb experiencing the mother’s emotions. This closeness to the mother

continues after the birth:

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… [The baby] knows [his mother’s] sound, [the baby] knows when [his mother]

comes into the room, he [does not] even have to look over there. [He will] feel her.

(Jacqui, in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript)

Both Grandmothers spoke of disciplining children with respect. Respect during

discipline was maintained by disciplining in private; by giving guidance for dealing with

negative emotions; by explaining actions; and by using positive language without

intimidation. Kokomis Jacqui also described how her parents disciplined her by using

explanation and humour. Jacqui realized that:

There was some things I guess I [was not] supposed to open but I did and I know

[my mom] was kind of upset because I did that. And when I asked my dad, my dad

just looked at me and laughed and said, “It was probably someone’s spirit [and]

you let it go”. And I said, “Oh, do they live in there?” He said “Yeah”. So I never

touched them after that. But I [had] opened and smelled it and my mom said, “It

could have gone right into your whole body and possessed you”. And I said, “What

if it possessed me?” And she said, “You would be him”. And I said, “Oh, was it a

guy?” She said, “Yes it was”. So these kinds of things, it was funny but it was

instructions, [to] learn not to touch stuff. (cited in Muir et al., unpublished

manuscript)

Discipline often took the form of teaching, with the discipliner providing

explanations as to why a behavior was inappropriate. Discipline also could involve

community members. Kokomis Jacqui illustrated this:

…the whole community [was] raising up that child, so when that child is 7 or 8

running like crazy down the village, one adult will … take them by the arm, bring them

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into the house and give them a glass of water, that has broken that spell of that child running

around like crazy, giving him a different thing to focus on- that water going down his

throat. Water is a blessing, so if the medicinal power of that water is that act of putting that

glass up to his lips has already broken that stuff that [the child] was involved [with]. (cited

in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript)

Intergenerational and bidirectional transmission. Another way of strengthening

culture is through bidirectional transmission of knowledge. Lessons are transferred from

parent to child and from grandparent to grandchild, and in Indigenous cultures the idea that

the child can also teach the adult is common and respected. Parents model values such as

respect and humility by allowing themselves to learn from their children.

Because we’re not just grandparents or parents … we’re also learning from [our

children] so it’s a two-way thing … your children teach you, and you’re also

teaching them. So it’s that respect and honour and love and kindness that you show

one another…. (Dorothy, in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript).

Transmission of culture may be seen as attached to DNA, when an Indigenous

person hears or sees their culture, their spirit remembers.

If we [do not] feel that, we hear somebody saying those words, we begin to think

about it, awareness has been awakened, that little bit of something different. And

that’s how Anishnawbe life is developed; it’s all those instincts that [are] that

seventh sense. It is that we already know certain things, those things that we know

are imparted to us from our dad’s seed and our mother’s egg and we make that

connection (Kokomis Jacqui, as quoted in Muir et al., unpublished manuscript).

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Elders emphasize that it is important for adults to recognize the bi-directional nature of

parenting, and that they can learn from children as much as children learn from them:

[Children] try [to] keep you on that path right from the very beginning when they

start voicing their needs and their concerns. But as adults we have such a big head

that we think we know everything and we forget to incorporate all of senses when

[we are] dealing with our children. We close off our hearing; we

close off our sight, and our touch and all those things. And it creates a complicated

relationship with our young people and we say, “oh [there is] something wrong

here”. But you never look at yourself, how [you are] actually parenting. When you

ignore, or [you are] so shut off [then] that difficulty could be from you and not

from your child. I think [that is] really important that you always have to be aware

of all those senses and get back to where [the children] are at, like at what level

are they. (Dorothy, as cited by Muir et al., unpublished manuscript).

Importance of fathers. Kokomis Jacqui noted that every newborn baby knows

that he or she has a father and desires closeness to the father (Muir et al., unpublished

manuscript). This belief belies Western attachment theory which maintains that a parental

bond needs to be developed gradually through responsive and sensitive caregiving (Blum,

2004), Colonization has affected fathers’ lives with their children. For example in

interviews with Australian Indigenous fathers who were currently in prison, it was found

that nearly half of these inmates had grown up without their father present, and a quarter

reported abusive parenting. Still, 41% of these men made an effort to parent from prison

(Dennison, Smallbone, Stewart, Frieberg, and Teaque, 2014). In Australia, New Zealand,

and Canada, Indigenous fathers (and mothers) are overrepresented in the justice system

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(Muir and Roesch, 2017, unpublished manuscript; Marchetti and Anthony, n.d.). Indeed,

disproportionate criminalization is yet another way in which colonialism has affected and

disrupted parenting, particularly for Indigenous men who tend not to be as involved in the

conducted interviews with Indigenous mothers in Canada, who suggested that fathers have

been absent for at least two generations; that they themselves were reared without their

fathers, and that the fathers of their children were also not involved in parenting.

In spite of cultural values and expectations that support the importance of fathers

in their children’s lives, contemporary fathers in many Indigenous communities have been

largely absent from their children’s lives. Many explanations for this absence lead back to

colonialism, which has disrupted and impaired fathers’ traditional roles in their families

and their communities. Despite a growing awareness of the effects of multi-generational

trauma on father-child relationships, in Canada and other nations, funding that supports

parenting and family counselling programs is still directed primarily to Indigenous women

and children (Ball and Moselle, 2015).

Obstacles to Keeping Indigenous Cultural Values Alive in Childrearing

Indigenous cultures have suffered assaults of many types over several generations,

making it extremely challenging to keep cultural values alive and to ensure their

transmission to offspring. In addition to the lingering malignant effects of colonialism,

Indigenous cultures also have to cope with the effects of fast moving, unrelenting cultural

changes, for example technological environments that are more directed to serving

individualism than community-oriented life. So-called progress in developed countries

may not always be very compatible with traditional Indigenous beliefs and practices

designed to support resilience in children and youth.

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Obstacles to realizing the goals of Indigenous childrearing may be linked to gaps

in the transmission of cultural values, gaps that are due to historical interference, and the

nefarious influences of contemporary Western societies. Residential schools had a

profound impact on families, communities, and Indigenous traditions, including

childrearing, and strongly dampened spirit. Removed from their families, Indigenous

children were no longer the center of a large and loving family and community that allowed

them autonomy and access to teachings, language, and ceremonies. Intergenerational

trauma has been noted in communities that were traumatized by the removal of children

first in the era of Residential schooling, and next, ironically, following that era, when

parents who had endured residential schools as children began to have their own, and were

wholly unprepared for the experience. Even though many Indigenous peoples choose to

live in contemporary urban settings, these communities often feel foreign and unkind,

resulting in poverty and addictions that make it difficult for traditional cultural and spiritual

parenting values to thrive (Litwin et al., in under review). In contemporary times, it may

be difficult for Indigenous parents to access cultural teachings, depending on where they

live. Indigenous parents may need to make an increased effort to connect with other

families that they see as role models, to attend ceremonies or to receive teachings from

Elders, particularly with Elders from the parents’ particular Nation. The challenge with

integrating traditional practices into life in contemporary society brings both joy and

creates stress for Indigenous peoples who aim to return to culture-specific childrearing

practices. It is hoped that, in future, Indigenous researchers will be able to assist with this

return to culturally congruent childrearing.

CONSIDERATIONS FOR INDIGENOUS CHILDREARING RESEARCH

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Indigenous people in many communities are beginning to demand that research that

pertains to them utilize more appropriate, “decolonized” methodologies (see for example

Smith, 2012). Some countries, for example Canada, have taken steps to ensure a shift in

the way that research is conducted with Indigenous populations. Canadian Institutes of

Health Research (CIHR), the Natural Sciences and Engineering Research Council

(NSERC), and the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council (SSHRC) are the

three primary research-funding councils in Canada, known as “Tri-Council”. As a

condition of receiving funding from one of these councils for research involving

Indigenous peoples, all researchers must agree to adhere to specific guidelines that conform

to a Tri-Council Policy Statement (TCPS 2; 2015). TCPS 2 notes that the history of

research with Indigenous people has been “defined and carried out primarily by non-

[Indigenous] researchers. The approaches used in the past have not generally reflected

[Indigenous] worldviews, and the research has not necessarily benefited [Indigenous]

peoples or communities. As a result, [Indigenous] peoples continue to regard research,

particularly research originating outside their communities, with a certain apprehension or

mistrust” (TCPS, Chapter 9, n.p.). The purpose of the guidelines is to direct ethical conduct

for research involving Indigenous people, as the significant social, cultural, and linguistic

differences that exist between Indigenous people and Non-Indigenous researchers increase

the risk for misunderstanding (TCPS, Chapter 9, 2015). The TCPS Policy requires different

engagement protocols depending on characteristics of the Indigenous participants in the

study. If the participants are from a specific Indigenous community, then the community

must be engaged. For example, this community engagement entails engagement with the

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Tribal Council in a community or with an Indigenous service agency if the Indigenous

participants are from an urban centre (TCPS, Chapter 9, 2015).

Below we illustrate principles and frameworks that should be incorporated in

research conducted with Indigenous parents. The Respect, Relevance, Reciprocal

relationships, and Responsibility framework (4 Rs; Kirkness and Barnhardt, 1991) the

Ownership, Control, Access and Possession (OCAP; Schnarch, 2003) and Participatory

Action Research (PAR) are three models that are recommended for use in childrearing

research.

The Ownership, Control, Access and Possession (OCAP) research protocol was

developed at the National Steering Committee of the First Nations Regional Longitudinal

Health Survey (Schnarch, 2004). The principle of Ownership denotes that participant

Indigenous communities or organizations own any data collected from themselves, and

must be consulted whenever these data are used (Schnarch, 2004). Control indicates that

Indigenous people have the right to control all aspects of the research, from the very

beginning of the project to its completion. Access denotes the absolute right of Indigenous

people to have access to all of their proprietary data and information about themselves and

their communities. Finally, Possession is more literal that Ownership, meaning that

possession is a means of protecting the data from misuse or for monetary gain, for example,

to ensure that Indigenous participants maintain power (Schnarch, 2004).

The Respect, Relevance, Reciprocal relationships, and Responsibility framework

(4 Rs; Kirkness and Barnhardt, 1991) was first developed as a framework for academic

institutions with the goal of more fully supporting and retaining Indigenous university

students and was later adapted for use in research. The value Respect suggests the need to

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have respect for Indigenous individuals, families, communities, and the traditions,

traditional knowledge, and values they hold. Relevance indicates that Indigenous

knowledge, traditions, and values should be incorporated into Western institutional values,

and goes beyond respect. A reciprocal relationship implies that both Indigenous and

Western knowledge are useful and necessary. Responsibility incorporates that Indigenous

people have the right to be involved in the research that pertains to them to have control

over their own lives (Kirkness and Barnhardt, 1991).

Participatory Action Research (PAR) is a research framework that any research

participants should be defining and studying solutions for their own communities in a way

that is culturally relevant and ensures their control (Maar et al., 2011). Researchers who

employ PAR share, or give up their control over their research to the Indigenous

communities they study, so as to better serve these communities (Jacklin and Kinoshameg,

2008). Jacklin and Kinoshameg (2008) described PAR as a framework in which the

Indigenous community develops the research project including the research questions,

plans and develops the project itself, and is highly involved every step of the way in the

implementation and evaluation of the project. PAR includes research negotiation and

planning (doing a community needs assessment); developing the research materials

(developing a survey or interview guide); advertising/community communication (letting

the community know about the project and what it entails); hiring and training community-

based research assistants (to strengthen community capacity); ensuring that even hard to

reach community members are included; and dissemination (ensuring that the community

gets the results of the research in plain language and to assist that the results can be used

to better the community; Jacklin and Kinoshameg, 2008). With research that is not directly

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associated with an Indigenous community or agency (a research sample that happens to

include 25% Indigenous parents), PAR directs that still, a Non-Indigenous institution

should either form an Indigenous advisory committee or partner with an Indigenous agency

to consult and to ensure that pragmatic and respectful research is done.

Inuit Community Research Approach

Increasing attention on the Arctic has led to an increase in research in these northern

lands and communities. The development of research and evaluation frameworks that

originate from Inuit epistemologies and methodologies has been an area of focus for the

Qaujigiartiit Health Research Centre in Iqaluit, Nunavut, Canada. Over a multi-year

process, which involved community engagement and dialogue throughout the territory, the

Piliriqatigiiniiq Community Health Research Model was developed and later published to

share the voices of communities with academia. The model weaves Inuit concepts of

Inuuqatigiittiarniq (“being respectful of all people”), Unikkaaqatigiinniq (“storytelling and

the power of story”), Pittiarniq (“being kind and good”), and Iqqaumaqatigiinniq (“all

things coming into one”) and Piliriqatigiinniq (“working together for the common good”)

into a responsive community health research model grounded in Inuit ways of knowing

(Healey and Tagak Sr., 2014). The model serves as a reminder to look beyond the scope of

what is commonly defined as ‘health’ and ‘research’ to include knowledge holders and

stakeholders from other disciplines and walks of life. This model was developed to provide

practical organizational and methodological guidance, however the foundations run much

deeper. While the model originated from a health perspective, the underlying principle is

cross cutting and interdisciplinary. The model is structured on the relational aspects of life

in Indigenous communities – the relationships that are shared are the foundation from

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which we move forward to achieve wellness. Those relationships can be with anyone from

any walk of life and with any thing from any environment. The knowledge that is shared

and created in this space is helpful for everyone. The motivations with which one engages

in the project are the same – coming together for the common good and the betterment of

health and wellness. The research group is accountable to each other, to the relationships

they have formed and/or will form together, and the relationships they have with others in

their community. From this epistemological perspective, ethics, accountability,

methodology, knowledge, understanding, and our relationships with each other as human

beings and our environments are part of the same space.

Kaupapa Māori Research

Over the past two decades there has been an increasing awareness from academia

to acknowledge Māori epistemology coupled with Māori ways of conducting research.

This body of knowledge has come to be known as Kaupapa Māori research (Health

Research Council, 2008). Kaupapa Māori research includes methodology, epistemology,

theory, Māori tikanga (cultural practices) and the implementation of research that benefits

Māori whilst at the same time being produced by Māori (Health Research Council, 2008).

Kaupapa Māori research also encompasses an analytical approach that is about thinking

critically, which includes critiquing western definitions and constructions of Māori people

and their worldview. It is also about valuing Māori self-determination and encouraging

participation in the research process (Smith, 1999). Kaupapa Māori research does not

exclude the use of other methods but it seeks to integrate them in a culturally sensitive way

that is beneficial for Māori (Smith, 1999).

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In order to conduct research that is beneficial to Māori it is important to reflect first

on how Māori have understood research that has been conducted on them rather than for

them. Research that has been conducted in the past has often been detrimental to Māori

communities (Smith, 1999) as the history of research within New Zealand has often

reflected a distinct patriarchal process in which Māori have been further marginalised in

every domain of society (Edwards, McManus, and McCreanor, 2005). The challenge for

researchers is to work in partnership with Māori so that the outcomes can benefit both

Māori and researcher.

Currently there are many models within New Zealand that are used to highlight best

practice with Māori families. Most seek to employ a holistic focus; Durie was first to

publish a model known as Te Whare Tapa Whā (1994). This model seeks to take into

account the holistic approach for researchers and clinicians when working with Māori

whanau. Te Whare Tapa Whā utilises the metaphor of the four walls of a house when

thinking about what is needed for a healthy individual. The individual needs to be

connected to their family (whānau), have good physical health (tinana), be well

psychologically and emotionally (Hinengaro) and be aware and connected spiritually

(wairua). This model is the cornerstone of other Māori health and well-being models that

such as Te Wheke (Pere, 1991). A current school of thought that has gained traction of late

in New Zealand is called He Awa Whiria (Braided Rivers approach). This model combines

western empirical western paradigms with Kaupapa Māori knowledge (MacFarland,

2012).

The New Zealand government has an agency that assists researchers and social

service agencies to evaluate what they do for families, this agency is called Superu. They

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have developed the Whānau Rangatiratanga Conceptual Framework-Hikoi Ngatahi, which

draws on Māori principles to measure and understand outcomes of whānau wellbeing. This

framework describes 20 Māori-specific wellbeing domains that can be measured. These

well-being domains are centred on five key prinicples such as: Whakapapa (Māori are

aware of who their ancestors, whānau and iwi are), Manaakitanga (the practice of

reciprocity and support, acknowledging the mana, status and obligations that Māori have

to others), Rangatiratanga (the practice of governance and leadership, how whānau are

connected to developing knowledge of their own culture, education and economic

security), Kotahitanga (a sense of unity, whānau developing a connection to institutions

that can empower them), and Wairuatanga (whānau are able to connect and embrace

spirituality, develop resilience and access and express their culture). This approach is

considered to be an example of the He Awa Whiria (Braided Rivers approach).

Future Research

It is hoped that future parenting and child development research conducted in

Indigenous communities will always be culturally respectful: one way to safeguard this

principle is to ensure that the research methodologies originate from Indigenous

worldviews. Drawing on some of the frameworks discussed above would be a good start.

Indigenous childrearing practices continue to be understudied and are discussed

primarily in the context of child protection and welfare. The challenge for future

researchers will be to contextualize the study of risk within a deep understanding of

Indigenous childrearing values and the ensuing practices. A study of urban Indigenous

women found that having a strong affiliation with their culture acted as a protective factor

for Indigenous mothers of infants, and was associated with lower levels of stress, higher

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levels of perceived social support, and increased positive parenting practices (Litwin et al.,

under review). In that study, maternal cultural affiliation was strongly associated with more

optimal childhood outcomes. In an evaluation of an Inunnguiniq revitalization program for

caregivers, parents, and extended family in Inuit communities in Nunavut, caregivers

reported feeling more grounded and competent in Inuit cultural teachings, and most

importantly, reported observing positive changes in their children in the home environment

after implementing the Inunnguiniq teachings within the family (Healey, 2015). The results

of such studies lend credence to a call for culturally competent research of the goals,

principles, and instrumental aspects of Indigenous parenting.

Western norms and methodologies may not satisfactorily assess diverse and unique

socioeconomic and contextual factors that affect Indigenous parents and their children’s

development (Simard and Blight, 2011). Trauma experienced by Indigenous peoples,

which has resulted from government policies, is intensified by a general denial about the

trauma and loss that resulted (Haskell and Randall, 2009). However, there is scant

acknowledgment of present-day colonial practices and how they continue to affect

Indigenous parenting.

CONCLUSIONS

Indigenous parenting values and practices, like all cultures’ parenting norms, aim

to support healthy development and resilience in offspring. Despite the disruptions and

trauma caused by decades of assault on their culture, Indigenous childrearing traditions

have survived in many communities and are experiencing resurgence. Many aspects of

Indigenous parenting continue to govern how Indigenous families organize their family

life; indeed, identifiable differences exist between parenting norms in Indigenous

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communities and those of Western groups. The values that differ between Indigenous and

non-Indigenous childrearing include a focus on strong spirit and how to build it, a focus on

non-interference and autonomy, discipline methods, extended family and community

member involvement in childrearing, the use of ceremony to teach values, and differing

attachments/connectivity. A better understanding of the differences is hampered by the

dearth of research on Indigenous childrearing, especially when considering the diversity of

Indigenous cultures. Indeed, teachings vary greatly from nation to nation, and it would be

a mistake to suggest that there is such a thing as “pan-Indigenousness” (i.e., one Indigenous

culture): There are many different Nations and many different parenting and childrearing

teachings and approaches.

It is imperative that more culturally respectful and comprehensive examinations of

parenting and child development in diverse Indigenous cultures be undertaken, so as to

more usefully inform decisions made by professionals such as parenting educators and

social workers in the areas of child welfare and child and family mental health.

Professionals who have a thorough understanding of cultural and systemic factors that

characterize Indigenous family life will be better equipped to make decisions that result in

the safety and well-being of Indigenous children and families, while tending to their

cultural needs and avoiding unnecessary family separations that could result in re-

traumatization. Efforts to Indigenize and decolonize research methodologies, alongside

initiatives to develop culturally embedded parenting programs have resulted in promising

curricula that are sure to support Indigenous family resilience, for example, the

Inunnguiniq Parenting/Childrearing Program (Healey, 2015). It is our hope that similar

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culture-specific, respectful and strength-focused offerings will soon become accessible to

Indigenous parents everywhere.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

We would like to acknowledge the teachings of Grandmother Dorothy and Kokomis Jacqui

as well as Rhoda Karetak and Atuat Akittirg.

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