Psicoanálisis
Psicoanálisis
Psicoanálisis
CONSIDERATIONS :
IN THE TREATMENT :
: 01-1-0
F. KERNBERG,
M.D.
OF BORDERLINE :
PERSONALITY
ORGANIZATION :
795
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Case 2
receiving my fee, and she had been angry at her parents and
embarrassed about this lateness. She said she felt completely
hopeless about herself, and didn’t know how this psycho-
therapy could help her. I said I thought she was not so much
worried about whether the psychotherapy would help her, but
whether I was genuinely interested in her, or just concerned
about getting paid for the sessions. I also said that I wondered
whether she felt that the only way of obtaining anything from
me was by forcing it from me, extracting it, so to speak, by
presenting herself as if she were a completely helpless human
wreck. I added that, under the circumstances, any help from
me would be like the irritated, angry reaction of a parent who
would prefer not to be bothered, but had no alternative but to
take care of an unwanted child.
The patient burst into tears, said how desolate she felt
because her boy friend was leaving her, adding with real
feeling that she felt she had no right to be helped by me, there
were many people like her, and only because of the fortunate
circumstance that her parents had money was she able to
afford treatment that would otherwise be unavailable. Why
should she be treated, when there was so much suffering in the
world? It was better to give up . ..
At this moment, I felt that a change had occurred in the
hour: now her verbal communications and her behavior
coincided, she had become open in telling me about what had
actually happened during the last two days, there was an
awareness of and worry over her sense of failure, mixed with a
strange sense of relief for failing because she felt she did not
deserve better. I felt that the patient was becoming concerned
for herself in the process of this interchange, that the pressure
on me for taking over was decreasing, and that she was
beginning to feel guilty for having failed to keep her part of
our agreement, while beginning to understand that this
failure was an expression of her sense that she did not deserve
to be helped.
What I wish to stress is that the situation now became a
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case is so limited and frail that the question has been raised, to
what extent there is a need to focus attention strongly,
consistently on the therapeutic alliance: Are there times when
the analyst needs to take active measures to strengthen the
therapeutic alliance by reality-oriented, supportive comments
or by providing the patient with information regarding the
analyst’s reality aspects?
In my opinion, to focus on the defensive use or nature of
the distortions of the patient’s perceptions, and, particularly,
on his distortions of the analyst’s interpretations, are the best
means of strengthening the patient’s observing ego without
shifting from an essentially analytic model. The various
aspects of the real relation between analyst and patient are, it
seems to me, a nonspecific, potentially therapeutic aspect of
the treatment in all cases. However, this aspect of the total
treatment relationship is rather limited in the ordinary
psychoanalytic case, and the systematic analysis of all
transference paradigms in the unfolding transference neurosis
should lead to a systematic working through of the patient’s
efforts to use the therapeutic relationship as a parental
function in the transference. In other words, the nonspecific
supportive implications of the real aspects of the relationship
in terms of the patient’s unfolding transference will auto-
matically become part of the analytic work and remain in the
background. In borderline patients, on the other hand, the
nonspecific, “real” human relationship reflected in the thcra-
peutic alliance may constitute an important corrective
emotional experience, not in the sense of the therapist’s
adopting an active, manipulative stance, but in the sense of
the normally gratifying nature of such a positive human and
working relation, which often goes far beyond anything the
patient had previously experienced. Insofar as chronically
traumatizing or frustrating circumstances of early develop-
ment and, therefore, of the patient’s former relations with the
real parents, are an important aspect of the genetic and
historical background of borderline patients, the real relation
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with the therapist may carry out parental functions the patient
has never had before.
In addition, the therapist’s being available to absorb,
organize, and transform the patient’s chaotic intrapsychic
experience (which the therapist first attempts to clarify in his
own mind and then reflects back to the patient as part of his
interpretive comments) does provide cognitive functions which
the ordinary neurotic patient undergoing a standard
psychoanalysis is expected to carry out for himself. In other
words, the therapist does provide auxiliary cognitive ego
functions for the borderline patient in addition to the implicit
reassurance given by his ability to withstand and not be
destroyed by the patient’s aggression, to the therapist’s
neither falling apart nor retaliating, to his maintaining a
general attitude of concern and being emotionally available to
the patient. Others have .stressed the importance of the
therapist’s “mothering” functions with borderline patients
(Little, 1958, 1960; Winnicott, 1958). These aspects of the
therapeutic relationship undoubtedly play an important role
in the psychoanalytic psychotherapy of borderline patients,
and, as long as they occur within a setting of technical
neutrality, constitute a legitimate use of the psychotherapeutic
relationship. This use has to be differentiated from the
patient’s intense transference demands that the analyst gratify
those needs that were previously frustrated, and carry out
active parental functions, thus abandoning the position of
technical neutrality and increasing the supportive aspects of
the therapeutic relationship. I cannot emphasize strongly
enough the need for the psychoanalyst working with
borderline patients to carefully analyze all these attempts on
the patient’s part. What really strengthens the patient’s ego is
not the gratification of needs in the “here and now” that were
denied in the “there and then,” but a coming to terms with
past frustrations and limitations in the context of an
understanding of the pathological reactions, impulses, and
defenses that were activated under those past traumatic
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