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WordPoints Daybook Series - Volume 1
Enthusiastic Ideas
A Good Word for Each Day of the Year
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For
Phil Henry
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Contents
Preface . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
January
February
March
April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November
December
Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 380
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 384
At first, my list of “gift words” was fairly short, but it didn’t take me
long to think of a number of other qualities that I should be prepared
to give, if I got the chance. And as the list grew, it began to be clear
that these were not just things a husband should want to give his wife
— they were gifts that all of us should want to give to those we love.
After that, the list started evolving into a more general list of “posi-
tive words.” No longer looking for just “gift words,” I included other
words that might be looked at in a positive way. At the height of
this word-collecting period, I could hardly read a book or an article
without checking to see if it contained any words I hadn’t thought
of. I don’t recall ever actually going through the dictionary, but it’s
hard to imagine that many good words eluded my search. I was pretty
thorough, if not methodical. By the time things settled down, I had
over eight hundred nouns, each of which I thought was suggestive of
something worth including in a human being’s character and conduct.
I posted my list of words on a website I was maintaining back then,
and I still chuckle when I remember some of the comments I received
from readers: “Henry, what’s with this crazy list of words? What can
anybody do with just a list of . . . words?”
Well, I happen to believe that words are very special things. I love
them, I respect them, and I believe that getting “thinky” about the
words we use is a very healthy exercise.
So I’ve written a book that gives you a single positive word to think
about every twenty-four hours: a good word every day. Like my other
books, this one is a daybook. There is a short, one-page reading for
each day of the year, and what I’d like you to do is read the book at
the rate of one page per day. Sure, you can browse ahead or go back
and review. That’s fine. Just promise me you’ll really meditate on no
more than one page each day. If you’ll try this habit, you might like it.
With a few of the words, you may wonder what’s so positive about
them. I’ve written, for example, about things like abstinence, admo-
nition, and apologies. Words like these don’t belong in the “positive
mental attitude” lexicon, do they? Maybe not, but let’s give them a fair
chance. Like people, some words wear their positive qualities on the
surface, while others aren’t seen to be good without a deeper look. As
J. R. R. Tolkien liked to say, “All that is gold does not glitter.”
And, yes, since I collected over eight hundred words, I have enough
for more than one year. A second volume of these readings is not only
possible; it has already been written. Next year, More Enthusiastic Ideas
will be coming to a bookstore near you, unless God has other plans.
Over the years, I have profited as much as anyone from writers and
speakers in the “positive mental attitude” genre. We do need to think
more positively, and doing so is a great help. But the only positive
thinking that matters is the kind that results in our doing what is
right. And if better self-esteem is what we want, then we need to start
living not only with strength but also with honor. I hope you’ll agree.
Finally, may I caution you never to use the expression “mere words.”
Words are never “mere.” They are strong and beautiful. Use them
carefully, for language is both a powerful gift and a serious steward-
ship. Say nothing you will not be pleased to meet on Judgment Day.
GPH
Enthusiastic Ideas
— Helena Hjalmarsson
January 1
Beginnings
The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon,
but that we wait so long to begin it.
W. M. Lewis
Great works do not always lie in our way, but every moment
we may do little ones excellently, that is, with great love.
Francis de Sales
January 3
Principles
There are principles that govern human effectiveness — natural laws
in the human dimension that are just as real, just as unchanging and
unarguably “there” as laws such as gravity are in the physical dimension.
Stephen R . Covey
If the roots are deep, have no fear that the wind will uproot the tree.
Chinese Proverb
January 4
Awakening
A single event can awaken within us a stranger
totally unknown to us. To live is to be born slowly.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
There is but one law for all, namely, that law which governs all law,
the law of our Creator, the law of humanity, justice, equity
— the law of nature, and of nations.
E dm u n d B u r k e
January 17
Admiration
To love is to admire with the heart;
to admire is to love with the mind.
Théophile Gau tier
To be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to
play and to look up at the stars — to be satisfied with your possessions but not
contented with yourself until you have made the best of them — to despise
nothing in the world except falsehood and meanness, and to fear nothing
except cowardice — to be governed by your admirations rather than by your
disgusts . . . these are little guideposts on the footpath to peace.
Henry Van Dyke
January 18
Servanthood
They who give have all things;
they who withhold have nothing.
Hindu Proverb
O f all the fuels that can fire us up, one of the most
wonderful is spontaneity. Of necessity, we spend the
greater part of our time “taking care of business.” Things like food,
clothing, and shelter have to be provided, along with an increas-
ing number of other basic needs. But life can’t be about these things
entirely, and the desire (often a very strong one) to break out of our
routines and do something unplanned and unpredictable is not a bad
desire. It must be managed with wisdom, admittedly, but there’s no
denying that spontaneity can be a potent force for good in our lives.
It’s an unfortunate person who is so busy being “productive”
that he can’t be diverted from that once in a while. In the words of
George Santayana, “To condemn spontaneous and delightful occupa-
tions because they are useless for self-preservation shows an uncritical
prizing of life irrespective of its content.” And not only that, the truly
productive people are almost always those who know how to blend a
little humor and impulse into their recipe for living.
The benefit and the pleasure of spontaneity are two reasons to
keep up with our regular work. If we procrastinate our regular duties,
we may find that we stay in emergency mode most of the time, doing
things at the last minute that absolutely can’t be put off any longer.
In that mode, it’s almost impossible to indulge the desire to do things
spontaneously. But those who’ve kept up with their normal work have
the luxury of being able to lay it aside when a spur-of-the-moment
impulse strikes them. It’s a nice reward for having been diligent.
We need to appreciate the spontaneous people who enter our
lives. These free spirits can be exasperating at times, but the truth of
the matter is, we’re fortunate to have their influence upon us. It’s a
privilege to be “inconvenienced” by the person who drops by in the
middle of the morning to say, “Let’s go get a cup of coffee.”
As we said, spontaneity must be managed with wisdom. But true
wisdom can laugh. It can giggle. It can appreciate a change of plans.
And — believe it or not — wisdom sometimes has no plan at all!
The day is short, the labor long, the workers are idle,
the reward is great, and the Master is urgent.
Mishnah
January 27
Gladness
Life is short and we never have enough time
for gladdening the hearts of those who travel the way
with us. Oh, be swift to love! Make haste to be kind.
Henri-Frédéric Amiel
In heaven above,
And earth below, they best can serve true gladness
Who meet most feelingly the calls of sadness.
W i l l i a m W o r d s wo r t h
January 28
Laughter
Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry,
the philosophy which does not laugh, and the greatness
which does not bow before children.
Kahlil Gibran
Justice is impartiality.
G e o r g e B er na r d S h aw
February 19
Safety
Not a gift of a cow, nor a gift of land, nor yet a gift
of food, is so important as the gift of safety, which is declared
to be the great gift among all gifts in this world.
P a n c h ata n t r a
He opened us —
who was a key,
who was a man.
G w e n do l y n B r oo k s
February 29
Hands
I have met people so empty of joy that when I clasped their frosty
fingertips it seemed as if I were shaking hands with a northeast storm. Others
there are whose hands have sunbeams in them, so that their grasp warms my
heart. It may be only the clinging touch of a child’s hand, but there is as much
potential sunshine in it for me as there is in the loving glance for others.
Helen Keller
In every animal . . . a more frequent and continuous use of any organ gradually
strengthens, develops and enlarges that organ . . . while the permanent disuse
of any organ imperceptibly weakens and deteriorates it, and progressively
diminishes its functional capacity, until it finally disappears.
Jean-Baptiste Lamarck
March 12
Satisfaction
He is well paid that is well satisfied.
William Shakespeare
I not only use all the brains I have but all I can borrow.
W ood r ow W i l s o n
March 18
Quietness
True silence is the rest of the mind and is to the spirit
what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment.
William Penn
something for the better, to make its value or its beauty greater. And
that, really, is what our work in this world is all about. It’s not just
maintenance; it’s enhancement. By the work we do, we have the privi-
lege of improving the things we deal with. And it’s a fine thing to be
known as individuals who enhance whatever we touch.
Appreciation for improvement. One of our major goals for per-
sonal growth ought to be the acquiring of a character that appreci-
ates improvement. We must learn to see the value of working toward
betterment. We must gain a greater vision of what can happen when
we commit ourselves to adding value to all we deal with, little by little.
Enhancement of everything. With an appreciation for improve-
ment, we then must be active enhancers. It’s more than an attitude;
it’s an active endeavor. We might even say it’s a way of life. In this way
of life, we don’t merely walk past that piece of litter on the sidewalk;
we pick it up and place it in the nearest trash can.
Gratitude for grace. The people who are the most active enhanc-
ers are usually those who are possessed of a deep sense of gratitude
for the grace that has been shown to them personally. And that’s no
coincidence. In the end, that’s the great motive for helping others: the
realization that we ourselves have been helped beyond our merits.
Sometimes, it’s surprising what enhances life. Just as certain
herbs and spices only release their full zest when they’re crushed or
rubbed together, we may find that the flavor of life is enhanced by
events that may, at first, seem to be only irritants. When we view life
with a basically appreciative attitude and respond to those around us
with grace and respect, even our differences can make life more zest-
ful. But then, it’s not life that’s being enhanced — it’s we who are.
“All things are lawful,” but not all things are helpful.
“All things are lawful,” but not all things build up.
F i r s t L e t t e r of P a u l t o t h e C o r i n t h i a n s
April 5
Conscience
Conscience is the impulse to do right
because it is right, regardless of personal ends.
Margaret C. Graham
but the end result is much the same: people need comfort. Considering
the vastness of the need, it may be discouraging to think how little
difference for good any of us can make in alleviating the suffering
that’s in the world. But the vastness of the need may not be the thing
we need to concentrate on. Wouldn’t it be better to concentrate on
those few individuals whom we can comfort? In their lives, at least, we
can make a difference, and they deserve that we give it our best effort.
Grief. Many of those who need our comfort are those who are
grieving the loss of something valuable to them. Whether it’s a loved
one they’ve lost, or something else (such as a relationship, a hope, or a
dream), it hurts to lose things. Grieving people need our comfort.
Hardship. If there are sorrowful things in the world, there are
also difficult things that have to be dealt with. And while the need
for comfort during hardship may not be as poignant as the same need
during grief, it’s no less real. Struggling people need our comfort.
Fear. When people don’t know what’s going to happen, but they
suspect it’s not going to be good, fear is the emotion that results.
And fear, in its many forms, can be one of life’s most debilitating and
dehumanizing experiences. Frightened people need our comfort.
Our word “comfort” comes from the same root as the word “for-
tify.” Its literal meaning is “to strengthen.” I believe it does us good to
recognize the strengthening, fortifying power of comfort. To comfort
someone is a truly remarkable thing. When we comfort, we often do
no less than pull the comforted one back from the brink of despair, or
even of death. It’s a doable thing, and we need to do it more often.
Those who can sit in silence with their fellowman, not knowing
what to say but knowing that they should be there, can bring new life
in a dying heart. Those who are not afraid to hold a hand in gratitude,
to shed tears in grief, and to let a sigh of distress arise straight from
the heart can break through paralyzing boundaries and witness
the birth of a new fellowship, the fellowship of the broken.
Henri J. M. Nouwen
April 13
Affirmation
Speak the affirmative.
R a l p h W a l do E m e r s o n
lets it be known that there’s a little impish vitality in there after all.
“Humor is the sunshine of the mind” (Edward Bulwer-Lytton).
In the physical world, of course, sunshine is not the only kind of
weather that we need, but isn’t it wonderful when we happen to have
the benefit of it? Similarly, in the emotional world, we take a special
delight in the “sunshine of the mind.” Isn’t it pleasing when humor
breaks through the clouds of a “rainy” set of circumstances? Isn’t it
agreeable when something funny is said, when something hilarious
happens, or when something comical catches us by surprise?
It would be hard to overestimate the value of the gift we give
when we show others “a gleam of humor.” For most people, life can be
a bit difficult, and without a dash of funniness once in a while, it can
be almost impossible. So it doesn’t matter who the folks are who have
to deal with us regularly; they would enjoy, if not some laughter, at
least a little pleasantness coming from our side of the relationship.
It might be a mistake, however, to suddenly decide that we’re
going to start being “humorous.” If that hasn’t been our habit in the
past, it might be more beneficial simply to start being more obser-
vant of the things that happen around us that are comical. Genuine
humor can rarely be planned or programmed. As Erma Bombeck
said, “Humor is a spontaneous, wonderful bit of an outburst that just
comes. It’s unbridled, it’s unplanned, it’s full of surprises.”
Ordinary life contains all the humorous sunshine that any of us
needs, if only we have eyes and ears to receive it. Indeed, professional
humorists get their best material by just watching and listening as the
“mad, mad, mad, mad world” goes by. And I’m guessing, if something
funny didn’t happen to you today, you just weren’t paying attention.
What in me is dark
Illumine, what is low raise and support.
J o h n M i lt o n
May 20
Confession
It is not wrong actions which require courage to confess,
so much as those which are ridiculous and foolish.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
three times in our entire lives, we find ourselves meeting the biggest
tests of all, the ones where our characters are assayed in the hottest
fires they’ll ever experience. Do we resent life’s tests and resist them?
Wouldn’t it be better if we welcomed the feedback they give us?
One of the interesting aspects of our lives is that we can’t always
tell which tests are the biggest ones. Many of the most significant tri-
als of our character don’t seem like any big deal at the time. It may be
years before we can see that the way in which we made a certain choice
(or failed to make it) was the passing or failing of an important test.
The school of life is no ordinary school: we often don’t know which are
the minor quizzes and which are the major exams . . . until later.
Could I give you a little friendly advice? Pay big attention to the
little tests! You’ll do better on the big ones later if, up until then, you’ve
been doing right by the little ones. Don’t save up your willpower for
the conspicuous occasions when you think everything is on the line;
spend it freely on the daily choices that, in their cumulative effect, will
either make or break your character. For most of us, the first test of
the day arrives when the alarm clock goes off. Pass that test, and you’ll
be well on your way to handling the rest of the day’s decisions, what-
ever they may be. Fail it, and you’ll find your bigger choices being
harder than they have to be. So take the little tests seriously.
What tests demonstrate, of course, is whether we’re strong or
weak. One good thing about them is that in the very act of being
tested we can grow stronger. But we ought to be careful about the
kind of strength we aspire to. The strength to serve, more than the
strength to get our own way, ought to be our aim. That’s the real test.
Those who are the happiest are not necessarily those for whom life
has been easiest. Emotional stability is an attitude. It is refusing to yield to
depression and fear, even when black clouds float overhead. It is improving
that which can be improved and accepting that which is inevitable.
James C. Dobson
June 10
Momentum
Hope is an adventure, a going forward
— a confident search for a rewarding life.
Karl Menninger
To be social is to be forgiving.
Robert Frost
June 12
Exploration
Originality is unexplored territory.
You get there by carrying a canoe
— you can’t take a taxi.
Alan Alda
In those vernal seasons of the year, when the air is calm and pleasant,
it were an injury and sullenness against Nature not to go out, and
see her riches, and partake in her rejoicing with heaven and earth.
J o h n M i lt o n
June 22
Meditation
Only in quiet waters things mirror themselves undistorted.
Only in a quiet mind is adequate perception of the world.
Hans Margolius
I believe effective leaders are, first and foremost, good teachers. We are in the
education business. Whether in class or on the court, my job was the same: to
effectively teach those under my supervision how they could perform to the
best of their ability in ways that best served the goals of our team. I believe
the same is true for productive leaders in any organization.
C o a c h J o h n W ood e n
June 28
Benevolence
That best portion of a good man’s life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts,
Of kindness and of love.
W i l l i a m W o r d s wo r t h
You don’t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think
they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become
as the result of being married to you.
Richard Needham
July 9
Stories
God made man because he loves stories.
Elie Wiesel
I embrace the common, I explore and sit at the feet of the familiar, the low.
Give me insight into today, and you may have the antique and future worlds.
What would we really know the meaning of? The meal in the firkin; the milk
in the pan; the ballad in the street; the news of the boat.
R a l p h W a l do E m e r s o n
July 12
Wholeness
Not only is there but one way of doing things rightly,
but there is only one way of seeing them, and that is,
seeing the whole of them.
John Ruskin
There are two sorts of constancy in love: the one comes from the
constant discovery in our beloved of new grounds for love, and the other
comes from making it a point of honor to be constant.
F r a n ç o i s d e l a R o c h e fo u c a u l d
August 1
Concern
It is your concern when your neighbor’s wall is on fire.
Horace
You don’t get harmony when everybody sings the same note.
Doug Floyd
August 8
Tenderness
Tenderness is passion in repose.
Joseph Joubert
The last, best fruit which comes to late perfection, even in the kindliest soul,
is tenderness toward the hard, forbearance toward the unforbearing, warmth
of heart toward the cold, philanthropy toward the misanthropic.
Jean Paul Richter
August 9
Conversion
The whole secret of the teacher’s force
lies in the conviction that men are convertible.
R a l p h W a l do E m e r s o n
The great man is he who does not lose his child’s heart.
Mencius
August 20
Chivalry
The age of chivalry has gone. That of sophisters,
economists, and calculators has succeeded, and the
glory of Europe is extinguished forever.
E dm u n d B u r k e
Some say that the age of chivalry is past, that the spirit
of romance is dead. The age of chivalry is never past, so long as
there is a wrong left unredressed on earth, or a man or woman left
to say, I will redress that wrong, or spend my life in the attempt.
Charles Kingsley
August 21
Reason
Reason may be a small force, but it is constant,
and works always in one direction, while the forces
of unreason destroy one another in futile strife.
Bertrand Russell
The question should be, is it worth trying to do, not can it be done.
A l l a r d K . L ow e n s t e i n
September 3
Reserves
Live full today, and let no pleasure pass untasted —
And no transient beauty scorn;
Fill well the storehouse of the soul’s delight
With the light of memory —
Who knows? Tomorrow may be —
Night
A n o n y mo u s
Raised voices lower esteem. Hot tempers cool friendships. Loose tongues
stretch truth. Swelled heads shrink influence. Sharp words dull respect.
William Arthur Ward
September 6
Fervency
The effectual fervent prayer
of a righteous man availeth much.
T h e E p i s t l e of J a m e s
There is only one ethics, one set of rules of morality, one code:
that of individual behavior in which the same rules apply to everyone alike.
Peter Drucker
September 27
Rejoicing
Gladness of heart is the life of man,
and the rejoicing of a man is length of days.
Ecclesiasticus
You don’t really understand human nature unless you know why
a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time around
— and why his parents will always wave back.
W i l l i a m D . T a mm e u s
October 1
Experience
The value of experience is not in seeing much, but in seeing wisely.
Sir William Osler
Pathfinder. A person who goes ahead and discovers or shows others a way.
O x fo r d E n g l i s h D i c t i o n a r y
October 4
Worth
Nothing worthwhile comes easily. Half effort does not
produce half results; it produces no results. Work, continuous work
and hard work, is the only way to accomplish results that last.
H a m i lt o n H o lt
To live is to function.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
October 12
Penitence
To repent is to alter one’s way of looking at life;
it is to take God’s point of view instead of one’s own.
A n o n y mo u s
In solitude, our heart can slowly take off its many protective devices
and can grow so wide and deep that nothing human is strange to it. Then we
can become contrite, crushed, and broken, not just by our own sins and
failings, but also by the pain of our fellow human beings.
Henri J. M. Nouwen
October 13
Soundness
You should pray for a sound mind in a sound body.
Juvenal
To meet the great tasks that are before us, we require all
our intelligence, and we must be sound and wholesome in mind.
We must proceed in order. The price of anger is failure.
E l wood H e n d r i c k s
October 14
Forbearance
Give us grace and strength to forbear and to persevere
. . . Give us courage and gaiety and the quiet mind,
spare us to our friends, soften us to our enemies.
Robert Louis Stevenson
such a way that others would be helped, rather than hurt, if they did
things the way we do them. Exemplary conduct comes from asking
and honestly answering the question, “What kind of world would it
be if everybody conducted their affairs just as I conduct mine?”
When we are trying to have an influence on someone else, it is
tempting to rely solely on words. Obviously, advice is an easier thing
to give than a good example, and that’s why most of us end up saying
so often to our friends and family, “Do as I say, not as I do.”
But if exemplariness is difficult and costly, there can be no doubt
that it’s worth the cost. As Aristotle observed long ago, ethos (our
manner of living) is a more powerful persuader than logos (our words)
alone. Influence almost always requires the use of words, but it can
rarely be limited to words. Real impact requires more — it comes from
modeling the principles and practices we wish others to adopt.
So all things considered, the most powerful and influential
people in the world aren’t the eloquent orators or the motivational
masterminds, nor are they the celebrities or the front-page newsmak-
ers. More often than not, they’re just the ordinary, everyday folks who
quietly go about the business of living high-quality lives each day.
We have it within our power to give many gifts to those around
us, but no gift is more valuable than the living of an exemplary life. In
fact, nothing else will mean much if our manner of life is not what it
ought to be. If our lives are out of sync with the principles of good-
ness, no other gifts (least of all those bought with money) can make
up for the damage that we do. So why not improve our exemplariness?
Why not give our fellow human beings the benefit of an example that
can be honorably followed? Whether they ever say so or not, others
will appreciate it. Maybe not now, but eventually they’ll appreciate it.
If a cause be good, the most violent attack of its enemies will not
injure it so much as an injudicious defense of it by its friends.
C h a r l e s C a l e b C o lt o n
November 2
Affability
[Sir Thomas] More is a man of angel’s wit and singular learning;
I know not his fellow. For where is the man of that gentleness, lowliness,
and affability? And as time requireth, a man of marvelous mirth and
pastimes; and sometimes of as sad a gravity; a man for all seasons.
Robert Whittinton
Practice the art of aloneness and you will discover the treasure of tranquility.
Develop the art of solitude and you will unearth the gift of serenity.
William Arthur Ward
November 7
Proactiveness
I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable
ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor.
H e n r y D av i d T h o r e a u
It’s not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us
that hurts us. Of course, things can hurt us physically or economically and can
cause sorrow. But our character, our basic identity, does not have to be hurt at
all. In fact, our most difficult experiences become the crucibles that forge our
character and develop internal powers, the freedom to handle difficult
circumstances in the future and to inspire others to do so as well.
Stephen R . Covey
November 8
Equality
If this is God’s world, there are no unimportant people.
G e o r g e T h om a s
too far? As Pascal said, “It is not certain that everything is uncertain.”
Postmodernism has rightly criticized the unwarranted optimism
of modernism, the assumption that we can understand everything,
figure out every problem, and fix everything that is wrong with the
world. And obviously, the more we know, the more we realize we
don’t know. But as George Iles said, “Doubt is the beginning, not
the end, of wisdom.” Humility about what we know, and even what
we can know, is the starting point in our quest, but at the end of the
quest, there are some great things that can be known with certainty.
Open-mindedness is thought to be an admirable quality, but I’ve
always liked G. K. Chesterton’s observation: “Merely having an open
mind is nothing. The object of opening the mind, as of opening the
mouth, is to shut it again on something solid.” Having an open mind
serves little purpose if it does not result in some dependable learning.
Life does not always proceed smoothly. There will be times when
uncertainty seems to overwhelm us. But at such times we should not
make the mistake of believing that the foundations of life no longer
exist. Darkness can play tricks on our thinking, and I greatly appreci-
ate the fatherly advice that a favorite teacher gave me at a time when
I was very confused and discouraged. “Gary,” he said, “when the dark-
ness closes in, don’t forget the assurances that were given to you while
the sun was still shining.” During tough times, we have to hang on to
the certainties that our reason has previously found to be trustworthy.
All of us have our uncertainties, and that is only to be expected
in a world as perplexing as ours. But our friends and loved ones need
more from us than the constant raising of questions; they need us to
have some certainty and to shine a little light on the path they must
tread. If we can’t do that, then perhaps we should just do the courte-
ous thing and remain silent. After all, people don’t need our doubts
and confusions — they already have enough of their own.
Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others.
Robert Louis Stevenson
November 13
Uniqueness
Every man is more than just himself; he also represents the unique,
the very special and always significant and remarkable point at which the
world’s phenomena intersect, only once in this way and never again.
Hermann Hesse
No two men are alike, and both of them are happy for it.
Morris Mandel
November 14
Maintenance
‘Tis nothing for a man to hold up his head in a calm; but to maintain
his post when all others have quitted their ground and there to stand
upright when other men are beaten down is divine.
Seneca
When you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced
courses of action you should take — choose the bolder.
W. J. Slim
November 17
Joyfulness
There are joys which long to be ours. God sends ten thousand truths, which
come about us like birds seeking inlet; but we are shut up to them, and so they
bring us nothing, but sit and sing awhile upon the roof, and then fly away.
Henry Ward Beecher
If travel has taught me nothing more, and it certainly has, it’s this: you can
never know when some trifling incident, utterly without any significance, may
pitchfork you into adventure or, by the same token, may not.
S. J. Perelman
November 25
Eternity
We feel and know that we are eternal.
S p i n oz a
Let not a man guard his dignity, but let his dignity guard him.
R a l p h W a l do E m e r s o n
November 28
Wisdom
Keep me from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does
not laugh, and the greatness which does not bow before children.
Kahlil Gibran
The excellence of a gift lies in its appropriateness rather than its value.
Charles Dudley Warner
November 30
Help
At bottom, and just in the deepest and most important things,
we are unutterably alone, and for one person to be able to advise or even help
another, a lot must happen, a lot must go well, a whole constellation of
things must come right in order once to succeed.
Rainer Maria Rilke
T here are far too many wonders in the world for any
of us to quit exploring. Even if we’re advanced in age and
reputed to be wise, there are still many good things left to be learned
— and some of these may be facts that will hurt us not to know. If
we’re truly wise, we’ll make a commitment to lifelong learning.
One thing that I’ve learned so far is that learning things can be
scary! New truths force us to reorganize our lives. They may require us
to part company with some thoughts and deeds that have previously
been a part of our security system. As George Bernard Shaw wrote to
someone once, “You have learned something. That always feels at first
as if you had lost something.” Our “comfort zones,” as we call them,
are good and we all need to have them, but we can’t stay inside them
all the time. On the inside of our comfort zones there may be a good
deal of coziness, but there’s very little learning, and learning is an
unavoidable necessity if there’s going to be any progress in our lives.
Actually, however, if we can learn to launch out into the realm
of new discovery, whatever comfort may be lost is often replaced
by a new kind of joy: “I find my joy of living in the fierce and ruth-
less battles of life, and my pleasure comes from learning something”
(August Strindberg). Those who’ve tried it report that an ounce of
new discovery is worth a pound of old, ill-informed comfort.
Learning is particularly important in our personal relationships.
It’s not too much to say that most of the relationship difficulties we
have stem from a failure to be open to new knowledge about other
people. We know each other so poorly, and relate to one another so
inadequately, because we’re content with what we already “know”
about others and are afraid to open our hearts to deeper learnings.
So to be learners we must humble ourselves before others, being
willing to ask and willing to be contradicted. Adopting these mental
postures is not easy, and it doesn’t happen by accident. Being a learner
calls for a commitment and a bravery that are nothing short of noble.
Our prayers are answered not when we are given what we ask,
but when we are challenged to be what we can be.
Morris Adler
December 11
Love
Take away love and our earth is a tomb.
R o b e r t B r ow n i n g
Bad will be the day for every man when he becomes absolutely content with
the life that he is living, with the thoughts that he is thinking, with the deeds
that he is doing, when there is not forever beating at the doors of his soul
some great desire to do something larger, which he knows that he was meant
and made to do because he is still, in spite of all, the child of God.
P h i l l i p s B r oo k s
December 16
Openness
Sincerity is an openness of heart; we find it in very few people.
F r a n ç o i s d e l a R o c h e fo u c a u l d
God does not ask for the dull, weak, sleepy acquiescence
of indolence. He asks for something vivid and strong.
Amy Carmichael
December 18
Tolerance
The test of courage comes when we are in the minority.
The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.
Ralph W. Sockman
Whoever wishes to assert his will as a member of a community must not only
consent to obey the will of the community but bear his share in serving it.
As he is to profit by the safety and prosperity the community provides,
so he must seek its good and place his personal will at its disposal.
James Bryce
December 23
Felicity
How small, of all that human hearts endure,
That part which laws or kings can cause or cure!
Still to ourselves in every place consign’d,
Our own felicity we make or find.
Samuel Johnson
— Michel de Montaigne
Index
I = Enthusiastic Ideas II = More Enthusiastic Ideas
Ability . . . . . . . . . . Jul 28 (II) Belief . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 12 (I) Connections . . . . . Mar 24 (II)
Absolutes . . . . . . . . Nov 19 (I) Belonging . . . . . . . Dec 11 (II) Conquering . . . . . . . . Jul 7 (II)
Abstinence . . . . . . . Apr 26 (I) Benefit . . . . . . . . . . Sep 2 (II) Conscience . . . . . . . . Apr 5 (I)
Abundance . . . . . . . Jan 27 (II) Benevolence . . . . . . . Jun 28 (I) Conscientiousness . . . Jan 8 (I)
Acceptance . . . . . . . Nov 8 (II) Betterment . . . . . . Dec 12 (II) Consequences . . . . . Oct 30 (I)
Accessibility . . . . . Mar 22 (II) Birth . . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 24 (I) Consideration . . . . . . . Jul 3 (I)
Accomplishment . . . . Jul 1 (II) Blessing . . . . . . . . . Feb 17 (II) Consistency . . . . . May 31 (II)
Accord . . . . . . . . . . Sep 19 (I) Boldness . . . . . . . . . Nov 16 (I) Constancy . . . . . . . . . Jul 31 (I)
Accountability . . . . . Dec 3 (I) Bountifulness . . . . . . Sep 3 (II) Constitution . . . . . . . Apr 6 (I)
Accuracy . . . . . . . . . Mar 7 (II) Bravery . . . . . . . . . . Nov 11 (I) Constructiveness . . . . Jun 9 (II)
Achievement . . . . . Oct 14 (II) Breakthroughs . . . . . Feb 13 (I) Consultation . . . . . . Aug 9 (II)
Acknowledgment . . Apr 29 (II) Building . . . . . . . . . Jun 16 (I) Contemplation . . . . Dec 8 (II)
Action . . . . . . . . . . Oct 29 (I) Calmness . . . . . . . . . . Jul 5 (I) Contentment . . . . . . Sep 5 (II)
Adaptability . . . . . . . Oct 8 (II) Camaraderie . . . . . . . Jan 23 (I) Continuity . . . . . . . Sep 28 (I)
Admiration . . . . . . . Jan 17 (I) Candor . . . . . . . . . Mar 11 (II) Contribution . . . . . . Nov 3 (II)
Admonition . . . . . . . Feb 24 (I) Capability . . . . . . . . Sep 6 (II) Conversation . . . . . . Jul 23 (II)
Adventure . . . . . . . . Feb 17 (I) Carefulness . . . . . . Aug 31 (II) Conversion . . . . . . . . Aug 9 (I)
Advice . . . . . . . . . . Mar 17 (I) Caring . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 1 (I) Conviction . . . . . . . . Feb 1 (I)
Affability . . . . . . . . . Nov 2 (I) Causes . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 1 (I) Cooperation . . . . . . Sep 12 (II)
Affection . . . . . . . . . Feb 7 (II) Caution . . . . . . . . . . Feb 9 (I) Coping . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 2 (I)
Affirmation . . . . . . . Apr 13 (I) Celebration . . . . . . . Dec 25 (I) Correction . . . . . . . Aug 6 (II)
Age . . . . . . . . . . . May 26 (II) Certainty . . . . . . . . Nov 12 (I) Counsel . . . . . . . . . . Jul 29 (II)
Agreement . . . . . . . . Oct 7 (II) Challenges . . . . . . . Dec 10 (I) Courage . . . . . . . . . Feb 12 (I)
Aid . . . . . . . . . . . . Apr 11 (II) Change . . . . . . . . . . Sep 20 (I) Courtesy . . . . . . . . Aug 23 (II)
Aim . . . . . . . . . . . May 15 (II) Character . . . . . . . . . Jan 10 (I) Craftsmanship . . . . . Jan 24 (I)
Alertness . . . . . . . . Nov 29 (II) Charity . . . . . . . . . . Aug 22 (I) Creativity . . . . . . . . . Mar 8 (I)
Allowance . . . . . . . . Jun 13 (I) Charm . . . . . . . . . . Sep 11 (II) Credibility . . . . . . . Apr 12 (II)
Almsgiving . . . . . . . Jul 18 (II) Chastity . . . . . . . . Mar 25 (II) Criteria . . . . . . . . . May 13 (II)
Alternatives . . . . . . Oct 27 (II) Cheerfulness . . . . . . Dec 26 (I) Culture . . . . . . . . . . Apr 3 (II)
Altruism . . . . . . . . May 21 (I) Childlikeness . . . . . Dec 20 (II) Curiosity . . . . . . . . Aug 11 (I)
Amazement . . . . . . . Mar 2 (I) Chivalry . . . . . . . . . Aug 20 (I) Cycles . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 21 (I)
Ambition . . . . . . . May 17 (II) Choice . . . . . . . . . . Mar 24 (I) Daring . . . . . . . . . Dec 15 (II)
Amends . . . . . . . . . Apr 28 (I) Circumspection . . . Apr 21 (II) Decency . . . . . . . . . Nov 1 (II)
Amiability . . . . . . May 21 (II) Civility . . . . . . . . . . Sep 14 (I) Decisiveness . . . . . . . Jun 7 (II)
Amusement . . . . . . . Apr 1 (I) Clarity . . . . . . . . . . . Mar 5 (I) Dedication . . . . . . Aug 25 (II)
Anchorage . . . . . . . . Jan 29 (I) Cleanliness . . . . . . Apr 23 (II) Definitions . . . . . . Mar 28 (II)
Answers . . . . . . . . Mar 13 (II) Closeness . . . . . . . Aug 16 (II) Delegation . . . . . . . . Apr 5 (II)
Anticipation . . . . . . . Apr 2 (I) Closure . . . . . . . . . Feb 24 (II) Deliberation . . . . . . Aug 29 (I)
Apologies . . . . . . . . Oct 23 (I) Coaching . . . . . . . . . Jun 27 (I) Democracy . . . . . . . . . Jul 4 (I)
Appointments . . . . Oct 12 (II) Collaboration . . . . . Apr 21 (I) Dependability . . . . . Jun 25 (II)
Appreciation . . . . . . Mar 28 (I) Comfort . . . . . . . . . Apr 12 (I) Depth . . . . . . . . . . Aug 23 (I)
Approachableness . . . Jun 11 (I) Commendation . . . Mar 31 (II) Design . . . . . . . . . . Apr 20 (I)
Appropriateness . . . Nov 29 (I) Commitment . . . . . . Jul 8 (II) Desire . . . . . . . . . . Dec 15 (I)
Approval . . . . . . . . . . Jun 8 (I) Commonwealth . . . Dec 22 (I) Destinations . . . . . Dec 31 (II)
Artistry . . . . . . . . . Aug 29 (II) Communication . . . Sep 20 (II) Destiny . . . . . . . . . . Aug 5 (I)
Asking . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 9 (I) Community . . . . . . Dec 22 (II) Determination . . . . . Oct 1 (II)
Aspiration . . . . . . . . . Jan 5 (I) Companionship . . . . . Feb 6 (I) Development . . . . . Mar 11 (I)
Assurance . . . . . . . . Aug 4 (II) Compassion . . . . . Aug 22 (II) Devotion . . . . . . . . . . Jun 5 (I)
Attentiveness . . . . . Mar 27 (II) Compensation . . . . . . Jul 10 (I) Dignity . . . . . . . . . . Oct 5 (II)
Attitudes . . . . . . . . Sep 27 (II) Competence . . . . . . Jun 30 (II) Diligence . . . . . . . Nov 12 (II)
Authenticity . . . . . . Jan 26 (II) Completeness . . . . . Sep 15 (II) Direction . . . . . . . . May 6 (II)
Authority . . . . . . . Aug 24 (II) Compliments . . . . . . Jul 25 (I) Discernment . . . . . . Sep 16 (I)
Awakening . . . . . . . . . Jan 4 (I) Comprehension . . . . Jul 19 (II) Discipleship . . . . . . Aug 7 (II)
Awareness . . . . . . . . Apr 6 (II) Concentration . . . . Sep 18 (II) Discipline . . . . . . . . Jan 15 (I)
Balance . . . . . . . . . Oct 21 (II) Concern . . . . . . . . . . Aug 1 (I) Discovery . . . . . . . . Jan 28 (II)
Beauty . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 7 (I) Confession . . . . . . . May 20 (I) Discretion . . . . . . . Oct 15 (II)
Becoming . . . . . . . Sep 24 (II) Confidence . . . . . . . Jun 26 (II) Discrimination . . . . Nov 6 (II)
Beginnings . . . . . . . . . Jan 1 (I) Confidentiality . . . . Sep 29 (II) Discussion . . . . . . . Mar 15 (I)
Diversity . . . . . . . . . Feb 23 (I) Family . . . . . . . . . . Jun 15 (II) Havens . . . . . . . . . . Jun 19 (I)
Doing . . . . . . . . . . . May 6 (I) Fantasy . . . . . . . . . May 15 (I) Healing . . . . . . . . . Jun 18 (II)
Doors . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 12 (I) Farsightedness . . . . May 28 (I) Healthfulness . . . . . Jan 17 (II)
Dreams . . . . . . . . . . Dec 6 (II) Fascination . . . . . . . Mar 26 (I) Hearing . . . . . . . . . . Jul 2 (II)
Drive . . . . . . . . . . Aug 18 (II) Fatherliness . . . . . . . Jun 15 (I) Heart . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 16 (I)
Duty . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 15 (I) Favor . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 25 (I) Help . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 30 (I)
Eagerness . . . . . . . . Mar 30 (I) Favorites . . . . . . . . . . Jul 28 (I) Helpfulness . . . . . . . Mar 2 (II)
Earnestness . . . . . . . Aug 5 (II) Fearlessness . . . . . . Aug 12 (II) Heritage . . . . . . . . . Dec 9 (II)
Ease . . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 15 (I) Feedback . . . . . . . . . Jan 21 (I) Heroism . . . . . . . . Nov 11 (II)
Economy . . . . . . . . Oct 26 (I) Feelings . . . . . . . . . Aug 15 (I) History . . . . . . . . . . Jun 14 (I)
Edification . . . . . . . Feb 25 (II) Felicity . . . . . . . . . . Dec 23 (I) Holiness . . . . . . . . . Sep 4 (II)
Education . . . . . . . . Sep 18 (I) Fellowship . . . . . . . Jun 12 (II) Home . . . . . . . . . . May 8 (II)
Effectiveness . . . . . Sep 17 (II) Fervency . . . . . . . . . . Sep 6 (I) Honesty . . . . . . . . . Feb 28 (II)
Efficiency . . . . . . . . Mar 25 (I) Festivity . . . . . . . . . Dec 24 (I) Honor . . . . . . . . . . Feb 11 (II)
Effort . . . . . . . . . . Aug 27 (II) Fidelity . . . . . . . . . . Jan 20 (II) Hope . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 15 (II)
Elements . . . . . . . . Jun 13 (II) Finality . . . . . . . . . May 23 (I) Hospitality . . . . . . . May 31 (I)
Eloquence . . . . . . . . Feb 16 (I) Fire . . . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 3 (I) Humaneness . . . . . . Jan 16 (I)
Emotion . . . . . . . . . Jun 27 (II) Firmness . . . . . . . . . Jun 4 (II) Humility . . . . . . . . Nov 25 (II)
Empathy . . . . . . . . Aug 17 (I) Fitness . . . . . . . . . . Jul 30 (II) Humor . . . . . . . . . May 17 (I)
Empowerment . . . . Aug 10 (I) Focus . . . . . . . . . . Apr 10 (II) Ideals . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 20 (II)
Encouragement . . . Dec 14 (II) Food . . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 9 (II) Ideas . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 19 (II)
Endearment . . . . . . . Dec 5 (I) Forbearance . . . . . . . Oct 14 (I) Identity . . . . . . . . . Mar 1 (II)
Endeavor . . . . . . . May 19 (II) Foresight . . . . . . . . . Oct 10 (I) Illumination . . . . . . May 19 (I)
Endings . . . . . . . . . Dec 31 (I) Forgiveness . . . . . . . Mar 4 (II) Imagination . . . . . . . Jan 22 (I)
Endowments . . . . . May 30 (II) Fortitude . . . . . . . . Oct 10 (II) Immediacy . . . . . . . . Aug 3 (I)
Ends . . . . . . . . . . . Apr 25 (II) Foundations . . . . . . . Jan 1 (II) Immunity . . . . . . . . Jul 12 (II)
Endurance . . . . . . . . Aug 6 (I) Frankness . . . . . . . . Apr 19 (I) Impact . . . . . . . . . . Aug 26 (I)
Energy . . . . . . . . . . Oct 21 (I) Freedom . . . . . . . . Feb 12 (II) Impartiality . . . . . . . Feb 18 (I)
Enhancement . . . . . Mar 19 (I) Freshness . . . . . . . . Dec 4 (II) Importance . . . . . . . Apr 9 (II)
Enjoyment . . . . . . Nov 28 (II) Friendliness . . . . . . Feb 14 (II) Improvement . . . . . Aug 24 (I)
Enlightenment . . . . . Oct 3 (II) Friendship . . . . . . . Jan 10 (II) Inclusiveness . . . . . . Jun 23 (II)
Enterprise . . . . . . . May 29 (II) Frugality . . . . . . . . Feb 21 (II) Independence . . . . . May 13 (I)
Enthusiasm . . . . . . Mar 30 (II) Fulfillment . . . . . . . Jun 16 (II) Individuality . . . . . . May 9 (II)
Equality . . . . . . . . . . Nov 8 (I) Fun . . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 31 (II) Industriousness . . . . . Dec 6 (I)
Equilibrium . . . . . Aug 15 (II) Functionality . . . . . . Oct 11 (I) Influence . . . . . . . . . Sep 23 (I)
Equity . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 17 (II) Fundamentals . . . . . Sep 13 (I) Ingenuity . . . . . . . . Jun 19 (II)
Essentials . . . . . . . . . Jun 24 (I) Gallantry . . . . . . . . . Sep 29 (I) Initiative . . . . . . . . . . Jun 6 (I)
Establishment . . . . . . Oct 6 (I) Generosity . . . . . . May 18 (II) Innocence . . . . . . . . Aug 19 (I)
Esteem . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 5 (I) Gentleness . . . . . . . . Feb 5 (II) Innovation . . . . . . . . Mar 6 (I)
Eternity . . . . . . . . . Nov 25 (I) Genuineness . . . . . . Nov 23 (I) Inquiry . . . . . . . . . May 18 (I)
Ethicalness . . . . . . . Sep 26 (I) Gifts . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 24 (I) Insight . . . . . . . . . Nov 27 (II)
Evidence . . . . . . . . Aug 17 (II) Giving . . . . . . . . . . May 1 (II) Inspiration . . . . . . . . Sep 8 (I)
Exactitude . . . . . . . Nov 20 (II) Gladness . . . . . . . . . Jan 27 (I) Instancy . . . . . . . . . . Jun 20 (I)
Examination . . . . . . Mar 22 (I) Glory . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 21 (I) Instruction . . . . . . . . Apr 9 (I)
Excellence . . . . . . . . . Jan 2 (I) Goals . . . . . . . . . . . May 3 (II) Insurance . . . . . . . . Oct 28 (I)
Exchange . . . . . . . . Jan 15 (II) Godliness . . . . . . . . . Apr 8 (I) Integration . . . . . . . Jun 22 (II)
Excitement . . . . . . Sep 23 (II) Goodness . . . . . . . Oct 13 (II) Integrity . . . . . . . . Apr 13 (II)
Execution . . . . . . . . Jul 11 (II) Goodwill . . . . . . . . Apr 16 (I) Intelligence . . . . . . . Sep 10 (I)
Exemplariness . . . . . Oct 27 (I) Government . . . . . . Jun 14 (II) Intensity . . . . . . . . Sep 13 (II)
Exercise . . . . . . . . . Feb 15 (II) Grace . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 2 (II) Intentions . . . . . . . Sep 25 (II)
Exhilaration . . . . . . . Jan 14 (I) Graciousness . . . . . . Apr 8 (II) Interactiveness . . . . . Oct 6 (II)
Expectation . . . . . . Mar 27 (I) Grandeur . . . . . . . Nov 19 (II) Interdependence . . . May 14 (I)
Expediency . . . . . . . . Apr 4 (I) Gratitude . . . . . . . . Nov 22 (I) Interest . . . . . . . . . . Mar 3 (II)
Experience . . . . . . . . Oct 1 (I) Gravity . . . . . . . . . . Nov 27 (I) Intimacy . . . . . . . . . . Jul 30 (I)
Exploration . . . . . . . Jun 12 (I) Greatness . . . . . . . . Nov 4 (II) Introspection . . . . . . Apr 25 (I)
Expressiveness . . . . . Dec 1 (II) Growth . . . . . . . . . Jun 21 (II) Intuition . . . . . . . . . Sep 1 (II)
Facility . . . . . . . . . . May 27 (I) Guidance . . . . . . . May 10 (II) Inventiveness . . . . . . Mar 7 (I)
Factualness . . . . . . Oct 11 (II) Habits . . . . . . . . . . Jan 12 (II) Investment . . . . . . . Jan 22 (II)
Fairness . . . . . . . . . . Apr 7 (I) Hands . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 29 (I) Invitations . . . . . . . Aug 21 (II)
Faith . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 24 (II) Happiness . . . . . . . Nov 15 (II) Involvement . . . . . . . Feb 6 (II)
Faithfulness . . . . . . . . Sep 4 (I) Harmony . . . . . . . . Aug 30 (I) Inwardness . . . . . . . Jul 10 (II)
Familiarity . . . . . . . . Jul 11 (I) Harvests . . . . . . . . . Sep 21 (I) Journeys . . . . . . . . . Dec 2 (II)
Joviality . . . . . . . . . Dec 17 (II) Movement . . . . . . . Apr 19 (II) Practice . . . . . . . . . Nov 21 (II)
Joy . . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 13 (II) Music . . . . . . . . . . Feb 29 (II) Praise . . . . . . . . . . . Apr 24 (I)
Joyfulness . . . . . . . . Nov 17 (I) Naturalness . . . . . . May 16 (II) Prayerfulness . . . . . Nov 17 (II)
Judgment . . . . . . . . . Jun 8 (II) Necessity . . . . . . . . Aug 31 (I) Precision . . . . . . . . Oct 28 (II)
Justice . . . . . . . . . . Mar 31 (I) Needs . . . . . . . . . . Oct 26 (II) Predictability . . . . . . Feb 15 (I)
Keeping . . . . . . . . . Jun 29 (II) Neighborliness . . . . . Jun 29 (I) Preparation . . . . . . May 23 (II)
Keys . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 28 (I) Newness . . . . . . . . . Jun 30 (I) Presence . . . . . . . . . Feb 20 (I)
Kindness . . . . . . . . Apr 27 (II) Nobility . . . . . . . . . . Oct 9 (I) Preservation . . . . . . . Jul 29 (I)
Kinship . . . . . . . . . . Jun 5 (II) Nostalgia . . . . . . . . Nov 26 (II) Prevention . . . . . . May 11 (II)
Knowledge . . . . . . . May 5 (II) Nourishment . . . . . . Jun 25 (I) Principles . . . . . . . . . . Jan 3 (I)
Labor . . . . . . . . . . Apr 15 (II) Nurturing . . . . . . . . . Aug 2 (I) Priorities . . . . . . . . . Jan 18 (II)
Ladders . . . . . . . . . Dec 10 (II) Obedience . . . . . . Mar 17 (II) Privacy . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 5 (I)
Laughter . . . . . . . . . Jan 28 (I) Objectives . . . . . . . . . Sep 2 (I) Proactiveness . . . . . . Nov 7 (I)
Lawfulness . . . . . . . Apr 15 (I) Objectivity . . . . . . . Oct 30 (II) Productiveness . . . . . Nov 4 (I)
Leadership . . . . . . . Feb 22 (I) Observation . . . . . . Jun 11 (II) Professionalism . . . . . Jul 26 (I)
Learning . . . . . . . . . Dec 4 (I) Oneness . . . . . . . . . Apr 4 (II) Profitability . . . . . . . . Oct 5 (I)
Legacy . . . . . . . . . Dec 28 (II) Openness . . . . . . . . Dec 16 (I) Profoundness . . . . . . Nov 5 (I)
Liberality . . . . . . . . Feb 16 (II) Opportunities . . . . . Sep 22 (II) Progress . . . . . . . . . Apr 17 (I)
Liberty . . . . . . . . . Feb 22 (II) Optimism . . . . . . . . . Sep 9 (I) Progressiveness . . . . Feb 23 (II)
Life . . . . . . . . . . . . Mar 14 (I) Orderliness . . . . . . . Jun 17 (I) Promises . . . . . . . . Apr 26 (II)
Light . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 16 (II) Organization . . . . . Jun 10 (II) Promptness . . . . . . . Aug 14 (I)
Likableness . . . . . . Nov 23 (II) Originality . . . . . . . . Aug 7 (I) Propriety . . . . . . . . . Aug 2 (II)
Limits . . . . . . . . . . Sep 26 (II) Overcoming . . . . . . Aug 25 (I) Prosperity . . . . . . . Sep 14 (II)
Listening . . . . . . . . Aug 13 (I) Paradigms . . . . . . . . May 5 (I) Protection . . . . . . . . Aug 12 (I)
Living . . . . . . . . . . Mar 16 (II) Parenting . . . . . . . . Sep 30 (I) Providing . . . . . . . . . May 7 (I)
Longevity . . . . . . . . Sep 25 (I) Participation . . . . . . Feb 10 (I) Prudence . . . . . . . . . . Jul 7 (I)
Longings . . . . . . . . May 10 (I) Partnership . . . . . . Mar 14 (II) Punctuality . . . . . . Oct 22 (II)
Longsuffering . . . . . Oct 24 (I) Passion . . . . . . . . . Dec 18 (II) Purity . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 3 (II)
Love . . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 11 (I) Pathways . . . . . . . . . Oct 3 (I) Purpose . . . . . . . . Mar 19 (II)
Loving . . . . . . . . . . Dec 5 (II) Patience . . . . . . . . . Sep 22 (I) Purposefulness . . . . . May 4 (I)
Lovingkindness . . . . Nov 18 (I) Patriotism . . . . . . . . . Jul 4 (II) Pursuit . . . . . . . . . . May 11 (I)
Loyalty . . . . . . . . . . Jan 23 (II) Peace . . . . . . . . . . May 25 (II) Quality . . . . . . . . . . Dec 28 (I)
Maintenance . . . . . . Nov 14 (I) Peacefulness . . . . . . . Apr 3 (I) Questions . . . . . . . . . Dec 7 (I)
Making . . . . . . . . . May 7 (II) Penitence . . . . . . . . Oct 12 (I) Quests . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 2 (II)
Management . . . . . Mar 23 (II) Perceptiveness . . . . . Nov 21 (I) Quickness . . . . . . . Apr 30 (II)
Mannerliness . . . . . . . Jun 1 (I) Perfection . . . . . . . May 14 (II) Quietness . . . . . . . . Mar 18 (I)
Maps . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 1 (II) Performance . . . . . . . Sep 7 (I) Rationality . . . . . . . Jul 16 (II)
Marriage . . . . . . . . . . Jul 8 (I) Perseverance . . . . . . Jul 14 (II) Reach . . . . . . . . . . Oct 20 (II)
Mastery . . . . . . . . . . May 9 (I) Persistence . . . . . . . Feb 18 (II) Realism . . . . . . . . . . Jan 20 (I)
Maturity . . . . . . . . . May 2 (II) Personality . . . . . . . Oct 18 (I) Reality . . . . . . . . . May 12 (II)
Mediation . . . . . . . . Oct 2 (II) Perspective . . . . . . . . Jan 12 (I) Reaping . . . . . . . . . Sep 21 (II)
Meditation . . . . . . . Jun 22 (I) Perspicacity . . . . . . . Aug 8 (II) Reason . . . . . . . . . . Aug 21 (I)
Meekness . . . . . . . . Nov 9 (II) Persuasiveness . . . . . Apr 30 (I) Reasonableness . . . Aug 11 (II)
Mementos . . . . . . . . Jul 13 (II) Philanthropy . . . . . Apr 16 (II) Rebirth . . . . . . . . . . Jan 2 (II)
Memory . . . . . . . . Sep 30 (II) Philosophy . . . . . . . Nov 5 (II) Rebuilding . . . . . . . Jan 31 (II)
Mercy . . . . . . . . . . Jan 21 (II) Piety . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 18 (II) Receptiveness . . . . . . Jul 3 (II)
Merit . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 4 (II) Pity . . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 18 (I) Recognition . . . . . . Apr 10 (I)
Merriment . . . . . . Dec 24 (II) Planning . . . . . . . . . . Jul 23 (I) Recommendation . . Sep 19 (II)
Methodicalness . . . . Apr 22 (I) Planting . . . . . . . . . . Jun 4 (I) Recreation . . . . . . . Apr 23 (I)
Meticulousness . . . Mar 10 (II) Playfulness . . . . . . . Apr 1 (II) Rectitude . . . . . . . . Sep 15 (I)
Mindfulness . . . . . . Sep 16 (II) Pleasantness . . . . . . Jul 27 (II) Redemption . . . . . . . Jan 31 (I)
Mirth . . . . . . . . . . Dec 23 (II) Pleasure . . . . . . . . . Mar 9 (II) Reflection . . . . . . . Dec 21 (II)
Mission . . . . . . . . . . Oct 22 (I) Poetry . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 17 (I) Reformation . . . . . . . . Jul 1 (I)
Moderation . . . . . . May 24 (I) Poise . . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 10 (I) Refreshment . . . . . Dec 19 (II)
Modesty . . . . . . . . . Jul 31 (II) Politeness . . . . . . . . Mar 23 (I) Refuge . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 3 (II)
Moments . . . . . . . . . Jul 13 (I) Pondering . . . . . . . . Mar 16 (I) Regard . . . . . . . . . Nov 24 (II)
Momentum . . . . . . . Jun 10 (I) Positiveness . . . . . . . Jan 16 (II) Regeneration . . . . . . Nov 7 (II)
Morale . . . . . . . . . . Mar 29 (I) Possibilities . . . . . . . Jul 21 (II) Reinforcement . . . . . Mar 3 (I)
Morality . . . . . . . . . Oct 4 (II) Posterity . . . . . . . . . Dec 13 (I) Rejoicing . . . . . . . . . Sep 27 (I)
Motherliness . . . . . . May 8 (I) Potential . . . . . . . . . Mar 20 (I) Rejuvenation . . . . . . Feb 2 (II)
Motivation . . . . . . . Dec 19 (I) Power . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 22 (I) Relationships . . . . . . Oct 20 (I)
Motives . . . . . . . . . Apr 24 (II) Practicality . . . . . . . Aug 3 (II) Relaxation . . . . . . . . Apr 14 (I)
Release . . . . . . . . . . May 3 (I) Simplicity . . . . . . . . Dec 27 (I) Tradition . . . . . . . . Dec 25 (II)
Relevance . . . . . . . May 28 (II) Sincerity . . . . . . . . Mar 20 (II) Training . . . . . . . . . . Jun 3 (I)
Reliability . . . . . . . . . Jul 16 (I) Singing . . . . . . . . . Aug 28 (I) Tranquility . . . . . . . . Feb 8 (I)
Reliance . . . . . . . . . . Jul 19 (I) Skill . . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 17 (I) Transcendence . . . . Nov 26 (I)
Relief . . . . . . . . . . Apr 17 (II) Smiles . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 6 (II) Transformation . . . . . Jul 21 (I)
Religion . . . . . . . . . May 26 (I) Sobriety . . . . . . . . . Oct 23 (II) Travel . . . . . . . . . . . Nov 24 (I)
Remembering . . . . Dec 13 (II) Sociability . . . . . . . Oct 18 (II) Treasure . . . . . . . . . Dec 30 (I)
Remembrances . . . Dec 26 (II) Softness . . . . . . . . . Feb 10 (II) Triumph . . . . . . . . . Jan 29 (II)
Reminders . . . . . . . . May 1 (I) Solace . . . . . . . . . . May 24 (II) Trust . . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 3 (I)
Renewal . . . . . . . . . . Jan 11 (I) Solitude . . . . . . . . . . Nov 6 (I) Trustfulness . . . . . . . Jan 8 (II)
Repairs . . . . . . . . . . Aug 1 (II) Solutions . . . . . . . . . Oct 7 (I) Trustworthiness . . . . . Feb 4 (I)
Reputation . . . . . . May 27 (II) Soundness . . . . . . . . Oct 13 (I) Truth . . . . . . . . . . . Mar 13 (I)
Reserves . . . . . . . . . . Sep 3 (I) Sources . . . . . . . . . . Apr 29 (I) Truthfulness . . . . . . Sep 10 (II)
Resolve . . . . . . . . . . Oct 15 (I) Spirituality . . . . . . . May 25 (I) Turnings . . . . . . . . . . Jan 9 (II)
Resonance . . . . . . . Jun 17 (II) Spontaneity . . . . . . . Jan 19 (I) Ultimacy . . . . . . . . Dec 30 (II)
Resourcefulness . . . Aug 26 (II) Sportsmanship . . . . . Mar 1 (I) Understanding . . . . May 4 (II)
Respect . . . . . . . . . . Apr 11 (I) Stability . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 9 (I) Uniqueness . . . . . . . Nov 13 (I)
Respectfulness . . . . . Jan 14 (II) Standards . . . . . . . . Feb 11 (I) Unity . . . . . . . . . . . Apr 18 (I)
Responsibility . . . . . . Jan 13 (I) Stature . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 2 (I) Unselfishness . . . . . . Feb 8 (II)
Responsiveness . . . Aug 14 (II) Steadfastness . . . . . . Jul 20 (II) Uprightness . . . . . . . Sep 8 (II)
Rest . . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 21 (I) Steadiness . . . . . . . . . Jul 17 (I) Urgency . . . . . . . . . . Jan 26 (I)
Restfulness . . . . . . . Jun 20 (II) Steps . . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 30 (I) Usefulness . . . . . . . . Feb 26 (I)
Restoration . . . . . . . Mar 6 (II) Stewardship . . . . . . Dec 7 (II) Validation . . . . . . . Aug 28 (II)
Restraint . . . . . . . . Mar 10 (I) Stillness . . . . . . . . . . Jul 25 (II) Values . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 29 (I)
Results . . . . . . . . . . May 29 (I) Stories . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 9 (I) Variety . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 7 (II)
Resurrection . . . . . Mar 21 (II) Straightforwardness . . Jan 9 (I) Versatility . . . . . . . Mar 18 (II)
Reverence . . . . . . . . Jun 23 (I) Strategy . . . . . . . . . . Jun 1 (II) Verve . . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 27 (I)
Richness . . . . . . . . . . Dec 2 (I) Strength . . . . . . . . Mar 29 (II) Vibrancy . . . . . . . . . Jan 11 (II)
Righteousness . . . . . . Jul 20 (I) Striving . . . . . . . . . Jan 30 (II) Victory . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 7 (I)
Rightness . . . . . . . . . Jul 6 (II) Study . . . . . . . . . . . Mar 5 (II) Viewpoint . . . . . . . Jun 28 (II)
Rights . . . . . . . . . . Nov 30 (II) Subordination . . . . . Jun 18 (I) Vigilance . . . . . . . . Aug 27 (I)
Ritual . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 9 (II) Success . . . . . . . . . Nov 13 (II) Vigor . . . . . . . . . . . . May 2 (I)
Roads . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 14 (I) Sufficiency . . . . . . . . Feb 27 (I) Virtue . . . . . . . . . . Nov 14 (II)
Roles . . . . . . . . . . Nov 16 (II) Supportiveness . . . . Mar 8 (II) Vision . . . . . . . . . . Dec 27 (II)
Romanticism . . . . . . Feb 14 (I) Surprises . . . . . . . . . Apr 2 (II) Vitality . . . . . . . . . . Oct 19 (I)
Roots . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 27 (II) Survival . . . . . . . . . . . Jul 2 (I) Vividness . . . . . . . . Dec 17 (I)
Sacrifice . . . . . . . . Mar 26 (II) Sustenance . . . . . . Aug 30 (II) Voice . . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 7 (II)
Safety . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 19 (I) Sweetness . . . . . . . May 20 (II) Vulnerability . . . . . Apr 20 (II)
Sagacity . . . . . . . . . Oct 25 (II) Sympathy . . . . . . . . Aug 18 (I) Waiting . . . . . . . . . Aug 13 (II)
Sanctuary . . . . . . . Dec 16 (II) Synergy . . . . . . . . . Aug 10 (II) Warmth . . . . . . . . . Nov 20 (I)
Satisfaction . . . . . . . Mar 12 (I) Tactfulness . . . . . . . . Jul 5 (II) Welcome . . . . . . . . . Dec 3 (II)
Saving . . . . . . . . . . Oct 29 (II) Talent . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 6 (II) Welfare . . . . . . . . . Mar 15 (II)
Scholarship . . . . . . . Aug 16 (I) Tasks . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 24 (II) Wholeheartedness . . . Jan 7 (I)
Searching . . . . . . . . Oct 19 (II) Tastefulness . . . . . . . Aug 4 (I) Wholeness . . . . . . . . Jul 12 (I)
Seasons . . . . . . . . . Mar 21 (I) Teachability . . . . . . Jan 25 (II) Wholesomeness . . . Mar 12 (II)
Security . . . . . . . . . Apr 14 (II) Teamwork . . . . . . . May 22 (I) Will . . . . . . . . . . . . May 16 (I)
Seeing . . . . . . . . . . May 12 (I) Tears . . . . . . . . . . . . Feb 9 (II) Willingness . . . . . . . Dec 8 (I)
Seeking . . . . . . . . . Aug 19 (II) Temperance . . . . . . . Jul 26 (II) Willpower . . . . . . . . . Jul 9 (II)
Self-control . . . . . . May 22 (II) Tenderheartedness . . . Jan 6 (I) Wings . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 5 (II)
Self-reliance . . . . . Nov 10 (II) Tenderness . . . . . . . . Aug 8 (I) Winsomeness . . . . . . Jan 25 (I)
Self-respect . . . . . . Oct 17 (II) Tests . . . . . . . . . . . . . Jun 2 (I) Wisdom . . . . . . . . . Nov 28 (I)
Selflessness . . . . . . . . Mar 4 (I) Thanksgiving . . . . Nov 22 (II) Wishes . . . . . . . . . . Oct 25 (I)
Senses . . . . . . . . . . Aug 20 (II) Therapy . . . . . . . . . . Jul 14 (I) Wit . . . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 8 (I)
Sensibility . . . . . . . . Jul 24 (II) Thinking . . . . . . . . . Jun 26 (I) Wonder . . . . . . . . . Jan 13 (II)
Sensitivity . . . . . . . Apr 28 (II) Thoughtfulness . . . Apr 18 (II) Words . . . . . . . . . . Dec 20 (I)
Serenity . . . . . . . . . Feb 26 (II) Thrift . . . . . . . . . . . Apr 27 (I) Work . . . . . . . . . . . . Mar 9 (I)
Seriousness . . . . . . Apr 22 (II) Time . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 29 (II) Workmanship . . . . . . Dec 9 (I)
Servanthood . . . . . . . Jan 18 (I) Timeliness . . . . . . . . . Jul 6 (I) Worth . . . . . . . . . . . Oct 4 (I)
Service . . . . . . . . . . Apr 7 (II) Togetherness . . . . . May 30 (I) Worthiness . . . . . . . . Jun 3 (II)
Sharing . . . . . . . . . Sep 28 (II) Tolerance . . . . . . . . Dec 18 (I) Youthfulness . . . . . . Oct 31 (I)
Significance . . . . . . . Jul 22 (II) Tools . . . . . . . . . . . Sep 11 (I) Zeal . . . . . . . . . . . . . Dec 1 (I)
Silence . . . . . . . . . . Jan 24 (II) Touch . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 4 (II) Zest . . . . . . . . . . . . Jan 19 (II)
Acknowledgments