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情感社会学emotions matter a relational approach to emotions
Emotions Matter
A Relational Approach to Emotions
Acknowledgments vii
Contributors ix
Introduction 3
k e v i n w a l b y , d a l e s p e nce r , and a l a n h un t
2 Emotion’s Crucible 15
j ac k k at z
3 Sociable Happiness 40
sa r a a h m e d
4 ‘Feeling a Feeling’ in Emotion Management 63
c at h e r i n e t h e od os i u s
References 281
Index 321
Acknowledgments
theories and methodologies that take into account the relational genesis
of the experience of emotion as physical, phenomenal, and structurally
located (see Barbalet 1998). Some of the chapters engage in studies of
emotions in situ, using a variety of methodological techniques.
A relational approach to emotions: (1) cannot reduce emotions either
to the self or social structure but must analyse the interface between
these two levels of analysis; (2) is more concerned with overlapping
emotions in a milieu than with singular states; (3) is more concerned with
what emotions do than what they are; (4) must borrow from sociological
or related theory in order to guide the analysis; and (5) ought to borrow
from methodological traditions in sociology and anthropology to inves-
tigate emotions in situ as they occur during sequences of interaction.
Our main purpose here is to forward an argument for a relational
approach to emotions in sociology and related disciplines. To avoid
reducing emotion, affect, and feeling to one another, and to keep our
focus on the interface between the self and structural shaping, we must
turn to sociological literature and other relational approaches to emo-
tions. In addition, this volume addresses the question of emotions in
relation to power. Though Barbalet’s (2002) edited volume did empha-
size the importance of thinking about emotions as relational, it did not
include a consideration of post-structural theorization of power and its
influence on the sociology of emotions. There is a small literature con-
cerning emotions and power. For instance, Kemper and Collins (1990)
argue that more ‘micro’ emotional processes are the basis of social dif-
ferentiation and stratification. Clark (1990) contends that emotions are
gendered and mark inequality in the workplace. Furedi (2004) has ar-
gued that a therapeutic culture, which encourages people to think of
themselves as emotionally ‘at risk,’ has created new platforms for gov-
ernance of the self and of others. The volume by Clay-Warner and Rob-
inson (2008) pulls the emotions literature away from social psychology
towards structural analysis. Yet there are more ways for the sociology
of emotions to focus on how the governance of human conduct is at-
tempted by agencies that hone in on emotions as pathological. The fol-
lowing chapters try to extend this argument about the link between
power and the politics of emotions.
There has been a call in the emotions literature to consider the histo-
ries of particular emotions (see Dixon 2003), and this volume includes
chapters that draw attention to the socio-historical basis of emotions.
Drawing on the texts of Williams (1977) and Elias (1978), in chapter 8
Alan Hunt considers the tendency in the history of emotions for spe-
cific epochs to be associated with specific emotions. As with other
key thinkers in the historical sociology of emotions (see Stearns 2000),
Hunt is not interested in periodizing emotions. Instead, he offers an
analysis of the contemporary emotional climate of advanced capitalist
societies, which he characterizes as exhibiting a tension between two
distinct processes: one that manifests an intensification of emotional-
ity, and another which yields an emotional climate that is distinctively
hollowed out.
Part II of Emotions Matter is called Emotions and Empirical Investiga-
tions. The discussion of emotions, reflexivity, and research methods,
contributed by Andrea Doucet and Natasha Mauthner in chapter 9,
marks the transition in the volume from the discussion of conceptual is-
sues to research on emotions in action. Drawing from feminist debates
concerning the epistemological issues that arise in friendships and rela-
tions with research participants, Doucet and Mauthner call for social
scientists to focus on how emotions matter to issues such as fieldwork,
data analysis, and writing. Some chapters in this volume examine par-
ticular settings of interaction that tend to be overlooked in mainstream
approaches to emotions. Based on a case study of an earth sciences
department, in chapter 10 Kevin Walby and Dale Spencer argue that
consideration of emotions as the experience of relations with humans
and objects supplements understandings of how work is organized.
Drawing on narratives of earth scientists regarding their relationship
to a mass spectrometer named ‘Shiri,’ Walby and Spencer’s analysis
of emotions and organizations illuminates how humans experience re-
lations together but also the experience of emotions in object-centred
sociality. In chapter 11 Peggy Thoits further develops her concept of
‘emotional deviance’ to examine a subset of mental disorders that are
viewed as deviations from emotional norms. Thoits argues that emo-
tion norms are shaped by ideology, and, leading from this assertion,
shows that disagreements among clinicians about the presence of dis-
order may be traceable to ideological differences among them.
While concepts are necessary to understand the relational genesis
of emotions, this volume includes chapters that reflect on individual
8 Stickhandling
Kevin Walby, Dale
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Spencer,
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and Alan Hunt
This section maps out major theoretical trends in the sociology of emo-
tions and also situates our contributors in relation to these trends. Just
as the contributions to Emotions Matter follow a relational approach to
emotions whilst drawing from different conceptual resources, the ori-
gins of this field of study are diverse.
It is possible to claim that emotions have been salient to sociology
since the beginning. In the fourteenth century, Ibn Khaldun, the re-
puted father of sociology, placed great importance on group cohesion
and affection. Khaldun (1989) argued that group cohesion was a result
of desire to avoid shame.1 His attention to emotions was only a small
part of his broad focus on social organization, which rejected natural
and theological explanations of human development.
Sentiments and emotions were also imperative for Scottish moral
philosophers. Adam Smith’s ([1759] 2006) Theory of Moral Sentiments
is an enduring account of self and subjectivity. Smith argues that sen-
timents such as sympathy play a principal role in maintaining social
order. He contends that there exists a moral duty to guard against what
he calls the ‘selfish passions,’ which undermine the propriety of indi-
viduals and the laws of nations. Given what he writes about emotions
and good governance, it becomes clear that Smith’s Theory of Moral
Sentiments was the groundwork for his widely read Wealth of Nations.
Though Karl Marx’s writings on alienation are not an explicit explana-
tion of emotions, Marx’s inversion of Smith’s comments on propriety
and wealth does account for how the capitalist mode of production
creates particular subject positions. The chapters by Hunt and Suski
follow this line of argument concerning the historical context of moral
emotions.
10 Part I: Conceptual Issues in the Sociology of Emotions
labour’ (see Brook 2009; Bolton 2009) confirm how pivotal Hochschild’s
contributions have been to sociological understandings of emotion,
gender, and work.
Collins’s (1975, 1981, 2004) theory of interaction ritual chains argues
that co-presence, mutual awareness, common focus, rhythmic synchro-
nization, and symbolization of the group arouse emotions. Interac-
tion rituals are created when individuals become engaged in common
actions or involved in the same event. Collins is concerned with the
build-up of emotional energy that compels them to engage in interac-
tion rituals (or not). As emotional energy is built up, rituals take on
greater value. For Collins (2004), emotional energy gives the partici-
pants ‘confidence, elation, strength, enthusiasm and initiative in taking
action’ (48–9). Emotional entrainment results in the intensification of
mutual focus and shared mood.
The work of Hochschild and Collins speaks to the pervasive influ-
ence of Durkheim (filtered through Goffman) on the sociology of emo-
tions today, insofar as interaction rituals and effervescence remain
the starting point. Yet Hochschild and Collins move beyond classical
works. Specifically, the writings of Collins link micro-level experiences
of emotions with macro-processes, insofar as interaction ritual chains
serve as the basis of organizations. Drawing from Marx, Hochschild
accounts more for alienation than a Durkheimian perspective allows.
Hochschild and Collins represent American sociology. A great deal
of scholarly interest in the sociology of emotions emanates from the
United Kingdom as well. The sociology of emotions in the UK is more
influenced by continental sociological theory as well as the phenom-
enological tradition. For instance, both Barbalet (1998) and Ahmed
(2004) offer relational approaches to emotions, the former situating his
work in classical sociological theory and the latter positioning her work
as phenomenological. Barbalet (1998) stresses the emotional basis of
action. Emotions are not experienced as idiosyncratic feelings, but are
part of a social transaction. Barbalet’s key contribution is his notion of
collective emotion. An ’emotional climate’ does not require all to expe-
rience the same emotion, and emotions differ in a group depending on
the social positions of those people. His work displaces the contagion
model of emotions (found in Durkheim and Collins) while arguing that
group emotions are experienced in varying intensities.
Borrowing from the phenomenological tradition, Ahmed (2004) pres-
ents a less structuralist model of emotion. She suggests that emotions
move between bodies, aligning subjects with some and against others.
Part I: Conceptual Issues in the Sociology of Emotions 13
The more emotions circulate, the more affective they become. Through
the circulation of emotions, bodies and worlds materialize and take
shape. Emotions are crucial to the way bodies become problematized
in relation to other bodies, producing the effect of collectivities (39).
The contribution that Ahmed makes is moving beyond outside-in and
inside-out ontologies of emotions (a problem which is prevalent in exist-
ing sociological and psychological theories of emotion). Emotions circu-
late in an affective economy and it is through emotions that boundaries
between the ‘I,’ the ‘we,’ and the ‘other’ are shaped (also see Ahmed as
well as Kenney and Craig, this volume).
There are numerous conceptual models in the sociology of emotions,
past and present. One commonality in the history of the sociology of
emotions is an emphasis on emotions as part of social relations, and
Emotions Matter continues in this direction. We are not implying that the
scholars mentioned above constitute the only noteworthy contributors
to this field. Numerous other sociologists have made eminent contribu-
tions that are oft cited in the following chapters (e.g., Wouters 2001;
Scheff 2000; Katz 1999; Clark 1990; Kemper 1978). We also do not mean
to suggest that sociology as a discipline has a stronghold over the study
of emotions, or that disciplinary boundaries are always useful. For in-
stance, numerous important contributions to understanding emotions
have also been made in organizational studies (see Fineman 2004, 1993;
Fineman and Sturdy 1999), criminology (see O’Malley and Mugford
1994; the 2002 special issue of Theoretical Criminology), and geography
(see Bondi 2005; Thien 2004; as well as the new journal Emotion, Space
and Society). Many of our contributors do not locate themselves in so-
ciology. Davidson and Smith are geographers, while Bookman and
Deri are aligned closely with cultural studies. These different bodies of
thought feed into one another, further developing a relational under-
standing of emotions.
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Introduction
emotions take shape. Emotions and feelings are ways of grasping, ap-
preciating, and corporeally reflecting on the very structuring of life
into social forms. Lecturers’ emotions emerge as they realize aspects
of the in-class situated structuring of their behaviour that the audi-
ence cannot know. And over time, lecturers’ transform the sensate
substrata of their professional lives – we might say, depending on the
subject’s mood and the analyst’s political perspective, that lecturers
control, tame, discipline, manage, or civilize their emotions – by de-
veloping aesthetics for structuring their working behaviour at each of
these three levels.
With few exceptions, from the time an adult in the contemporary West
awakens until the time for bedding down to sleep, he or she is in an
unbroken continuum of situations. The situation, a subjectively under-
stood, narratively framed sequencing of physically mobilized action, is
the basic unit, the most universal, ubiquitous, and simplest whole unit
of social life. Situations are sometimes encountered, as occurs when a
student enters a class in progress, or they may be constructed in solitary
phases of living, as when a lecturer prepares class notes. Whether col-
laboratively or individually shaped, situated action makes up the stuff
of social life.
Each situation is a strip of sequential actions, coherent moment-to-
moment as what the actor understands to be narratively interrelated
behaviours. Action is narratively meaningful when in its execution
it references former and subsequent behaviour as occurring within a
course of terminable conduct, which it may do at any given moment by
heralding, initiating, continuing, or advancing; pausing in, departing
from, or abandoning; restarting, reviewing, or finishing some kind of
colloquially recognizable ‘doing.’
As a rough test of the claim that in our wide-awake life we are almost
always in one or another situation, we may ask about any moment of
our daily life: ‘What am I doing?’ There is usually a gerund-like answer
that will fit the moment. Each moment’s doing is shaped with refer-
ence to an overarching course that is substantively known. Each ‘ing’
is at least a mini narrative. The narrative structuring usually goes on
without announcement, but should anyone ask, it will seem natural to
answer with phrases such as ‘putting on my shoes.’5
Emotion’s Crucible 19
One reason for working with the example of putting on shoes is that
for most readers, putting on shoes will come early in the day’s situ-
ations. What comes before is a transition from repose to motility and
then often a trip to the bathroom for eliminations and ablutions, the
latter being routines that are culturally recognized, elaborately com-
mented upon strips of activity that are often learned through emotion-
ally charged, close supervision. That urination, defecation, bathing, or
‘washing up’ are so obviously socially structured for the individual
makes them too robust as examples for focusing on the prior question
of how, by shaping behaviour according to situated narratives, the in-
dividual structures social character into his or her life. Putting on shoes
is a more innocent, stripped down, usefully unimportant example. And
unlike ‘getting up’ from a sleeping position and bodily eliminations,
putting on shoes is a social construction, not a physical imperative.
We can briefly note several ways that sequential narrative meaning
is used by the person to constitute the situation of putting on shoes.
There is the matter of recipe and the effect of dramatic result. Putting on
shoes requires the ordering of constituent actions. For example, in most
cases the shoe should be put on the foot before laces are tied. Multiple,
sequenced actions are required to get to the end of the process, at which
point an effect is achieved, a qualitative change on the order of an onto-
logical transformation. With shoes on, a new being emerges, a life form
with a bundle of capacities for simultaneously probing and getting en-
ergy from the world. If not quite winged sandals, shoes gird the wearer
with a new competency to carry on the journey ahead, altering traction,
often enhancing endurance. Of course not always: shoes may make
balance exceptionally precarious and rapid travel dangerous, in which
case their use incidentally demonstrates a certain talent. In either case
shoes affect the physics of the body’s movements through space, chang-
ing the muscles engaged in transportation and creating a new posture,
in the process revealing self in the form of capacities to self, even as the
world is revealed in different angles and rates of passing landscape.
We are looking for the grounding of feeling in behaviour. The routine
of putting on shoes is marked by corporeal changes at its onset and at
its terminal boundaries, and also in the shaping of its constituent stages
as they are produced within the social logic of accomplishing the proj-
ect. Thought or self-reflection in an abstracted sense is not necessarily
involved. Feelings arise in the physical practicalities of structuring per-
sonal life into social form.
20 Jack Katz
This is not to say that all situations have recipes leading to transfor-
mations that change one’s practical competency for being in the world.
Making the bed, for example, is a ritualization of the ending of sleep, a
sentimental resource for starting the day but not a preparation that in
some other, practical sense will facilitate later actions. Indeed, making
the bed routinely will require additional work, the work of unmaking
the bed, before the bed is again treated as practically useful for sleep.
This practice, a making that requires an unmaking, is doubly ritualis-
tic. It guides people to move on to the next situations, whether in the
world of wide-awake practical action or into a drowsier routine, in the
way that prayers do; it allies one with patterns and presumed forces
of order.6
The recipe metaphor, which promises a corporeally significant pay-
off, is too strong for much of social life, which has more meandering
and less transformative results. But a core idea in recipes of action, that
of progressing towards an ending, captures a defining feature of all sit-
uated action. Whenever one is engaged in a kind of doing, one operates
in anticipation of completion. Pre-visioning an ending to the doing at
hand is not promise, much less reliable commitment. But it is a mean-
ingful foundation for structuring each moment’s behaviour.
The progression through behavioural recipes that constitutes social
life can be delayed or aborted by any number of tangential involve-
ments and emergent contingencies. Fascinations may be discovered
in matters intrinsic to a given phase. Progressions towards comple-
tion may be put in pause through meditations, reveries, intoxications,
sleep, or other losses of consciousness that will take the structuring of
experience out of the bounds of situated social life. A phone call can
get you out of the shower before you have finished that routine; still,
the phone’s ring is answered with an understanding that lifting the re-
ceiver is not embarking on a rest-of-life engagement. All doings fore-
shadow endings in the minimal respect of anticipating eventual, and
event-occasioned, moments of moving on to other situations, even if
the mode and timing of departure is as yet unspecified, and even if
departure when it comes is not in fact marked as a departure.
An anticipation of moving on, literally of moving the body in space,
is the basis for the temporal foundations of situations as units of so-
cial life.7 The bodily changes in moving on create the dimly sensed but
most universal feeling substructure of social life, the tenor that un-
derlies what Schutz (1962) referred to as wide awake everyday life.
Relative immobility of the body, dialectically related to an absence of
Emotion’s Crucible 21
‘putting in the first foot,’ knowing that the other foot is next in turn. The
‘certain order’ that is requisite is not left first, then right, nor vice versa,
but first one, then the other. With one pair of shoes, the tongue may be
pulled up before the foot is put in; with another pair the order may be
reversed. But the sense of an obdurate world, of the need for strategy
based on an understanding that action must be materially pragmatic,
is acknowledged in the glosses of directionality given to various steps
in the project. It ‘matters’ which order one follows because one acts in
a physical world. Here is a first bit of resonance or sensual reflexivity, a
first analytic step towards an understanding of how feelings arise and
are patterned in social life.
We may note that here is a ‘babushka’ or nested quality to the se-
quential structure that makes action into behavioural units of social life.
If putting on shoes is a project with several stages, each stage is itself
a mini-narrative, for example, tying the laces. Tying laces is itself an
ordered sequence. Each end of the lace is grabbed; the grabbing mo-
tion has a start and a finish. The tying of a knot requires following an
ordered sequence: this end goes over and then around the other end of
the lace, which then is pulled around the first, and so on.
Should a problem arise or should a special examination be engaged,
any step may be broken into subunits. Still, a description of the typical
experience of putting on shoes does not lead to infinite regress. In the
routine of putting on shoes, commonly nothing structural intervenes to
create internal stages between an attentive start to grasp and the grasp-
ing of the lace. If the lace is not found where an eye-guided hand’s
trajectory expects to find it, a corrective subunit will be devised. But
commonly the move is a flow, requiring no sub-molecular unit of at-
tention.
Narrative is meaningful as a concept for describing the social struc-
turing character of action because it is empirically differentiating. At
some point of deconstruction we reach the smallest narrative doll; the
actor’s production of demarcations typically is no more microscopic.
We inspire and exhale; inspiration has a beginning and an ending; but
between the start of inspiration at the end of the prior exhale, and be-
fore the ending of inspiration in the beginning of the next exhale, we
commonly note no intermediary stages. There are flows in our action,
smooth passages within stages that may be broken down into smaller
units by biologists, or by oneself if for some reason one decides to pause
to create a clear end of one phase before the beginning of the next. But
the undifferentiated flows in behaviour are as natural and as vulner-
Emotion’s Crucible 23
sub-narratives, and related to other parts in what is, despite the part-
markings, a constant flow. Few people live to make music, but all social
life is lived in musical ways. And as music gives rise to feelings, so
does the prosody of each social situation. Perhaps in this morning’s
putting on shoes, the move from one step to the next is especially even
and smooth; perhaps tomorrow it will be balky and awkward. There is
feeling here, although we are reluctant to call it ’emotion.’ An aesthetic
feeling, perhaps: a matter of sensually experienced style that is part and
parcel of the very doing of social life. A person putting on shoes is at
once producing a colloquially recognizable identity and a sensate self.
We can now quickly move the analysis to appreciate the emergence
of what will be more familiar as ’emotion.’ Say the laces seem to be too
short for a customary bow. Or maybe, even though the shoe is new,
the laces break. ‘Shit!’ one might exclaim, referring to the breakdown
of order and the messy release of the negative powers for which ev-
eryday rituals are prophylaxes. More interestingly for our purpose,
one might also blurt out ‘Stupid!’ Stupid is a characteristic of a per-
son, not a shoe. Falling out of involvement with the practical project,
the person turns to recognize, emphatically if indirectly, that the shoe
already is a social object. Someone, most likely some corporate set of
people, made it. And in the design process they anticipated how peo-
ple would put the things on. The user is enacting a version of a role
that complements the manufacturer’s script as presented to the user in
the material of the shoe. ‘Stupid!’ is about the people who made and
sold this thing.
It is more difficult, but for our objective more important, to appreci-
ate the positive feelings that shoes can give rise to. Through practi-
cally using shoes the shoe buyer ties him or herself to the designer
and manufacturer. As social analysts we are used to focusing on the
status qualities laid on marketed objects, so that when they are satis-
fying to users, it may seem to us that the users are preoccupied with
the artificialities of prestige structures. But putting on shoes requires
craft; some high fashion boots require exceptional effort and trained
dexterity. Accomplishing putting them on can confirm oneself as suc-
cessfully connected to the others who made the shoes. Children know
thisand adults do not forget it. Those others may be inaccessible –
anonymous, not present now or ever in one’s life, collective, never en-
visioned as flesh and blood individuals – but even as the shoe is ‘mine’
it never exhausts its being in my possession. It connects me to ‘them,’
and even if I don’t care about their prestige, even if I begrudge them
Emotion’s Crucible 25
fault in design, delighted in the totemic fit between self and world
that is implied in proficient use, or caught up in self-recrimination as
the process is taken to exemplify a general state of personal disorga-
nization.
Note that interaction is already involved even though no one else
is present. When putting shoes on another person – call the latter the
‘wearer,’ the former the ‘aide’ – the interaction in the project becomes
more obvious. Think of putting shoes on a child, an invalid, or a cus-
tomer in a store. Will the wearer remain passive, the aide active through-
out? If not, who will do each of the necessary practical acts? Who will
pick and pick up the pair of shoes? Who will guide each foot into each
shoe? Who will do the buckling or lacing up? Who will adjust sock or
stocking, if any is worn, to shoe? Will one or both define errors in the
process, such as uneven lengths to lace ends, wrong match of left/right
shoe and foot, tongue not pulled out, degree of fastening too loose or
tight? Who will finalize the adjustment of foot and shoe? Perhaps the
wearer in the initial steps of walking in the shoes, perhaps the aide by
judging that the size or style is off and triggering a return to the start of
the process with another pair.
Each of the two, wearer and aide, come to the process with narra-
tives more or less in mind. And each will find that the pair of shoes
applied this time requires some innovation of an unprecedented nar-
rative structure, if only because each operates from an historically
unique physical position. Theoretical differences may get implicated,
as when the aide presumes that shoes should be tied but the wearer
does not. The two must work out which narrative to use, who will
do each part, and when each will do what. The aide may lift the shoe
towards a foot, the wearer may then take over the stage of getting foot
into shoe.
A coordinated single narrative will usually be worked out. We may
gloss the action as ‘the work of putting shoes on another,’ or ‘having
another put on one’s shoes,’ but either formulation is a bit off because
the process inevitably is collaborative. Each will give off and perceive
the other as giving off expressions that indicate offer and acceptance of
contributions to the collaborative process.
It is tempting to refer to the interaction, now occurring between two
co-present individuals, as a ‘conversation,’ and then to rethink the ac-
tion of putting on one’s shoes alone as a silent conversation. Some claim
that conversation is the fundamental or primordial form of social inter-
action. But children learn to negotiate patterned interactions with the
Emotion’s Crucible 27
world before and as a way into language use. For understanding the
rise of emotions, ‘conversation’ must be appreciated as metaphor: it can
mislead in a way that loses the phenomenon it would illuminate. Talk,
or descriptions of expressive gestures, can be reduced to transcriptions,
but transcriptions are irreducibly static and disembodied; the transcrip-
tion process inevitably loses much of the corporeal reality that makes
lived experience a three-dimensional reality.
If we are to understand the rise and fall of emotions in social life, we
need to keep the moving line of intertwining between self and other (or
world) at the centre of our investigation. If the wearer remains passive
throughout, the aide will repeatedly cross a gap in touching the other
through touching the shoe and foot. Conversely, if the aide supervises
without laying on a hand, two worlds of experience remain at a dis-
tance. But as soon as the two actively interact, their movements enter
an area of ambiguous overlap. The aide pushes the shoe on the wearer;
the wearer moves foot into shoe. Interaction has become intercourse, a
temporally meshed form of interaction that creates existential ambigui-
ties about who leads, who follows, who owns the project.
In putting shoes on a child, the area of ambiguous overlap may be
revealed to the adult aide in an unexpected protest: ‘Let me!’ In watch-
ing a clerk put on a pair of shoes, a customer may take over the lacing
up in a way that may be defined as abrupt by the clerk even while it is
appreciated by the wearer as considerate. These are not simply differ-
ences in the ‘vocabularies’ or ‘scripts’ engaged by each. In the practice
of social life, emotions emerge in the inherently ambiguous overlap be-
tween his action and her reaction, which sequence is itself ambiguously
preceded by her invitation, indifference, or alienation, and his response
to that prior phase.
We have now specified two levels of analysis necessary to the de-
scription of how emotions arise in moments of social life. First we
traced the practical social narrative of the wearer, as he or she interacts
with the shoes. We find that shoes are not ‘just put on,’ they are put
on through following a sequential logic of one sort or another, a recipe
with discrete stages and transition strategies. The process entails fol-
lowing and editing a logic encountered as built into the shoes. Engaged
in this little project of everyday life, feelings arise, usually more in a
sensate, perhaps aesthetic, but not clearly emotional form.
When we examine a situation of co-present interaction such as put-
ting shoes on another, a second level of sociological work appears.
Now in addition to finding and following the social logic of the objects,
28 Jack Katz
one must collaboratively work out a meshing with the social logic per-
ceived in the other’s practices. The two must produce an effectively
single narrative train through emitting and observing signs of who will
do the next move.
For understanding how emotions arise in immediate interaction
with another, the metaphoric vocabularies that are common in social
interaction studies today are inadequate and misleading. The pro-
cesses that give rise to emotions are not grasped by looking at the
‘symbolic’ aspects of the interaction. It is specifically the embodied
interwinings that matter, the physically registered intercourse that oc-
curs when one touches the other and when the two collaboratively
produce trajectories of motion in which actions by one, say in push-
ing on a shoe, are met with a simultaneous reciprocating action such
as pushing the foot in. What we call emotions are reflections on these
embodied intertwinings.
From one to the other side of the transaction, and in ways that the
participants may not themselves appreciate, the emotions being expe-
rienced may diverge. The wearer may think that both are experiencing
the project as done crudely or rudely; the aide may imagine that both
are appreciating a clockwork, mutually respectful collaboration in the
event. The embodied, interactive coordination of individual contribu-
tions to the project is one thing. The emotional upshot of the process
entails individual disengagement from the other and it may be quite
different for each.
Interaction with another is inevitably three-dimensional. From mo-
ment to moment, in finely shaded degrees, each more or less gets trac-
tion from the other’s actions. The phenomenon of traction is not a figure
of speech or thought; it refers to the practical grounding of action. Your
pulling up and tightening the laces makes it a more immediately acces-
sible task for me to tie the bow.
We see that to get the science of emotions right, we have to go beyond
received interaction vocabularies and we have to go beyond the notion
of a mind/body binary. Emotions are not an alternative to or an enemy
of thought. They arise and are perfected in thought-like reflections. In
the shoe example, emotions may arise in a positive form, in recognition
of the other’s sympathetic consideration for what one can and cannot
readily do, or in a negative form, perhaps as a perception of ‘too much’
passivity, or, conversely, as an arrogation of the narrative course. In
any case, emotions will arise as the individual, in his or her existential
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Using the shoe-dressing example, we have traced two ways that feel-
ings arise out of making behaviour social by producing coherent nar-
rative sequences. There is the recipe-like sequential coherence required
to accomplish the project, a requirement that applies whether acting
alone or with a co-present other. The structure of the sequence is cre-
ated through changes in the embodiment of action. Pauses, transitions,
problems, and shortcut solutions for getting from one stage to the next
are all experienced corporeally.
When acting with another to put shoes on, the process requires that
each work out an understanding with the other as to the relevance to
a jointly executed recipe of one and the other’s actions. The narrative
of practical action must now be narrated: I have to indicate where
I am in the process, my narration has to be monitored for effective
comprehension, I have to register the other’s indications of the other’s
offers to execute steps in the other’s version of an effective narrative,
and on these grounds each stage in the project is subject to misunder-
standing, adjustment, repetition, and so on. I have to signal and moni-
tor the reception of signals as to when the process begins, which foot
I am first trying to fit, who pushes the foot in, when a sub-strip of in-
cidental inspection of the foot’s anatomy has begun and ended, what
is and is not meant as a tickle, and so on. Not uncommonly the other
will volunteer to complete parts of the recipe, perhaps grabbing for
the second shoe, completing the tying of laces, or standing up to press
a resistant foot into a possibly too-small shoe. If we are to collaborate
in putting on the shoes, I must follow the other’s mobilization of the
sequential structure of the process, as the other may idiosyncratically
understand it.
Now my actions and inactions are doubly embodied, in my own and
the other’s responsive/non-responsive body. At some moments, the
other lends his/her body to complete my actions; the other’s body be-
comes an extension of mine, and mine an extension of the other’s. The
line of action is now carried on by the integration of two bodies.
We must note another way that the social actions entailed in collab-
oratively putting shoes on another person differ from the solo project.
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I should push the shoe on, or means that she has abandoned the pro-
cess of putting on this pair in favour of trying another, or indicates
that her attentions have moved to some other area of concern, and so
on. I attend to signs of a certain tension of consciousness – signs of an
at-tention – that are consistent with a presumption that she is negat-
ing orientations that transcend the launched project of putting on the
shoes at hand.
The contrast should not be overdrawn. While I do not need to be con-
cerned to perceive signs that the shoes remain in the situation, when
putting on my own shoes in private I will at a certain stage in the project
need to be concerned to show to the shoes, in a manner of speaking,
that I remain in the project. Shoes are social objects, made in ways that
anticipate how they will be used. Once engaged, material objects differ
in the demands on persistent attentions that they require. Shoes impose
a notable if minimal constraint. Once engaged in the project to the point
that one shoe is on, there are consequences for not continuing; one is in a
more awkward position for walking than before the project began. If my
mind wanders, the shoes will in effect call me back to finish or to reverse
the project. As objects aiding motility, shoes make matters worse before
they make them better. Shoes have not yet been designed to facilitate a
thoroughgoing disrespect for their ontology. I must respect them in the
sense that, once I introduce myself to the shoes and accept the willing-
ness of one shoe to be put on, I will suffer if I do not negate concerns that
transcend the dressing project until my feet are in both of the shoes.11
In effect, I have to show the shoes that I respect their ontology by
limiting my transcending concerns until the project is complete. But
I need not monitor whether the shoes are respecting my ontology; they
will not go away on their own. In the co-present collaborative version
of the project, there is a distinguishing symmetrical obligation for ne-
gating transcending concerns. When putting on shoes with another, the
project requires that I manifestly negate my transcending concerns and
also that I monitor whether the other is doing the same.12 This doubly
negative structure of co-present social action is the foundation for a rich
array of emotions as they arise in the practice of everyday life.
Now we can return to the opening examples of lecturing in a col-
lege class. As when putting on shoes alone, there is a narrative logic
that the lecturer presumes imposes demands on him or herself. The lec-
turer’s talk is constrained to be arranged sequentially on a number of
simultaneously sustained levels: any moment’s utterances are to begin,
complete, or advance the progress of sentence-like phrasings; such
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The Crucible
NOTES
1 This chapter has benefited from comments received when earlier versions
were delivered at the Centre for Advanced Study in Behavioral and Social
Sciences in 2001; the Emotions Matter workshop at Carleton University in
2009; and a conference of Italian ethnographers held in Bergamo, Italy, in
2009.
2 There are exceptions for ritual occasions. When ‘prize’ lectures are read, a
lack of spontaneity sustains a double impression, of extraordinarily careful
preparation and of the preciousness of each word. The former conveys
reciprocation for the respect shown by the award committee; the latter
affirms that the audience’s deference is well deserved.
3 As objects of expression, emotions become flattened out. Paul Ekman (1982)
has shown that people universally can identify several different emotions
by looking at two-dimensional photographs. We can name emotions,
but to characterize feelings as ‘anger’ or ‘happiness’ is to reduce a three
dimensional experience to a metaphor-stripped semiotics that applies
equally well to non-emotional self-descriptors. We can enact emotions
so that others, correctly or not, infer what we are feeling. But as we feel,
within our emotional experiences, we resonate with implications of what
we perceive in ways that language always struggles to grasp, in ways
that metaphors and audiovisual representations often convey better than
does flatprose, and in ways that our enacted emotions may turn into two-
dimensional masks. The study of how emotions are presented, dramatized,
or shaped as managed performances leaves the experience of emotion off
the research agenda.
4 Defence of the claim that the dialectic is ontogenetic requires examination of
fetal and neonate behaviour and must await another writing.
5 Blumer (1969) persistently argued that social interaction is at the foundation
of all behaviour. By social interaction he meant taking into account the
response of others in the formation of one’s own action. Following Mead,
Blumer would understand that the narrative structuring of action is part of
social action, whether others are present or not. Action is interactively formed
when the actor, acting in solitary situations or in the presence of others, takes
account of his/her own action from the standpoint of what he/she assumes
is a collectively recognizable kind of doing. In picking up my shoe I am at the
beginning of what I take for granted that others, were they present, would,
were they to see the ensuing stages of the sequence I am launching, see as
putting on my shoes (or cleaning my room, or swatting a fly . . . ). But there
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is social action even when one’s solitary action, if observed by others, would
be incomprehensible as narrative construction. Thus to a peeping Tom I
may seem to be wandering aimlessly around my garden when I am in deed
systematically structuring my gaze in discrete strips, each strip of attentive
gaze internally structured to gauge the progress of previously noted pest
damage, to follow trajectories of plant growth that may be progressing
towards crowding, to witness novel light patterns as they emerge across
the landscape, and so on. In such solo experiences there is interaction, in
that each moment’s observation implicates the meaning of the person’s past
action (prior observations of pest damage, plant growth, and light patterns
set up the meaning of the current observation as disturbing, intriguing,
etc.) and next actions (time now to act or not, reason or not to continue the
exploration); but to call this ‘social’ interaction is tendentious or redundant
with the concept of interaction. More clearly the activity has narrative
structure.
6 There is no clear line between ritualistic and pragmatically required recipes.
Indeed, one youthful recipe for being antisocial is ritualistically rejecting
steps that others take for granted as practically necessary. Thus adolescents
who do not tie shoes create magically powerful ways of resisting the
embrace of the social; their untied shoes will drive some onlookers to mad
fantasies of tying them.
7 Adam Kendon’s (1990, 2004) studies come the closest to theorizing the
relationship between body movements and the situated structuring
of social life. Body movement may consist of walking off, turning the
page, changing gaze, and so on; no particular region of the body need
be engaged, although in the responsive actions of others, the further
down the corpus the alteration occurs (compare eye gaze to head turn to
torso turn to walking away), the more effective it will be in shaping the
understanding of a co-present other than that the situation is ending. Much
of McNeil’s (1992, 2005) work approaches the relationship from a direction
opposite to that taken in most interaction analysis, which, following
Blumer, sees body deployed in service of mind (anticipating how one will
be seen, one gives a movement a certain flair). McNeil finds that gesture
commonly precedes and shapes the thought to which it is related; body
gives rise to mind. I would add that it does so through the intermediary
step of invoking a situation.
8 See Schutz (1962) on multiple realities.
9 Someone who has never seen a shower might turn a handle, bringing the
water on, without anticipating or understanding that a counter-directional
turn will shut it off, but whatever that person is doing – perhaps turning an
obviously designed object to see why it was made – he or she is not ‘turning
on a shower.’ The nouns we use to designate objects in the social world are
shorthand references to narratives.
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10 The pun is not simply rhetorical. Learning to walk is aided if one already
knows how to interrelate moments of life as connected steps, and vice
versa. For the young child, walking is initially a series of discrete narratives.
The concept of steps, with which we populate the social world with
differentiated doings, is laboriously and spontaneously, delightedly and
painfully acquired.
11 The example of putting on shoes raises in a useful way the question
of whether or to what extent the social world is all embracing. Is there
escape? If we avoid commodity objects like shoes, can we declare our
independence from social control? Not so easily. If one goes barefoot,
it matters all the more the nature and condition of the materials on the
ground one walks upon. Walking on paths will be a different experience
than walking off-path. The very phenomenon of a path is a creation by
others. How many have come before and moved over this space, with what
weight, leaving what depressions and ridges, scattering what detritus –
all that will matter even more. Walking on paths barefoot is an especially
intimate way of being with anonymous others (Solnit 2000).
12 A caveat is necessary here. The contrast I have made between the
interaction requirements that obtain when collaborating with co-present
others and that constrain one when using material objects in private
requires complex and historically changing qualifications. Over time,
the material environment of work changes in its negative demands on
users. Computers, for example, are evolving to minimize the constraining
pressure of a given task to monopolize the user’s attention. A few years
ago, ‘multi-tasking’ was unknown; then for some years operating systems
were at a state in which multi-tasking would risk ‘crashing’ the computer.
Computer users were constrained not to be flaky. Now, working alone
on a computer is a robust environment for jumping in focus from here to
there, from work obligations to private indulgence, and among tasks at
different stages of their evolution, whether the tasks are pursued on or off
the computer. One can more reliably take for granted that the computer will
hold as-yet-incomplete projections of the user’s virtual self – where the user
is in a digitally expressed task – in a steady state until he or she is ready
to return. ‘Ticklers,’ alarms, and various reminders can be programmed in
to minimize the scattering of attention. These strategies understand and
respond to the increasingly flexible, costless ability to depart attention from
and return at will to a situated project that has begun.But the progression
towards a computer that can be thoroughly treated with disrespect is not
complete. Even if, given the low level demands I make on my computer,
Imay not have to limit my task-transcending concerns out of fear that the
computer may ‘freeze up.’ I still must treat the computer like a flesh-
and-blood work partner, as having a life of its own. The contemporary
computer has a biography beyond my project that it might divert or
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sar a a hmed
Introduction
Happy Objects
way of addressing this question, given its concern with ‘what’s what.’
Take the work of John Locke (1997). He argues that what is good is
what is ‘apt to cause or increase pleasure, or diminish pain in us’ (216).
So we judge something to be good or bad according to how it affects
us, whether it gives us pleasure or pain. Locke suggests that ‘he loves
grapes, it is no more but that the taste of the grapes delights him’
(216). So we could say that an object becomes happy if it affects us in
a good way.
Note the doubling of positive affect in Locke’s example: we love the
grapes if they taste delightful. If the object affects us in a good way, then
we have an orientation towards that object as being good. Orientations
register the proximity of objects, as well as shape what is proximate
to the body. Happiness can thus be described as intentional in the phe-
nomenological sense (directed towards objects), as well as being affec-
tive (contact with objects). To bring these arguments together we might
say that happiness is an orientation towards the objects we come into
contact with. We move towards and away from objects according to
how we are affected by them.
To describe happiness as intentional does not mean there is always
a simple correspondence between objects and feelings. I think Robin
Barrow (1980) is right to argue that happiness does not ‘have an object’
the way that some other emotions do (89). We have probably all expe-
rienced what I call ‘unattributed happiness’: you feel happy, not quite
knowing why, and the feeling can be catchy, as a kind of brimming over
that exceeds what you encounter. The feeling can lift or elevate any
proximate object, which is not to say that the feeling will survive an
encounter with anything. It has always interested me that when we be-
come conscious of feeling happy or of a happy feeling (when the feeling
becomes an object of thought), happiness can often recede or become
anxious. Happiness can arrive in a moment, and be lost by virtue of its
recognition.
I would suggest that happiness involves a specific kind of intention-
ality, which I would describe as ‘end oriented.’ It is not just that we
can be happy about something, as a feeling in the present, but some
things become happy for us, if we imagine they will bring happiness to
us. Happiness is often described as ‘what’ we aim for, as an end-point,
or even an end-in-itself. Classically, happiness has been considered as
an end rather than as a means. In Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle (1998)
describes happiness as the Chief Good, as ‘that which all things aim at’
(1). Happiness is what we ‘choose always for its own sake’ (8).
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We don’t have to agree with the argument that happiness is the per-
fect end to understand the implications of what it means for happiness
to be thought of in these terms. If happiness is the end of all ends,
then other things (including other goods) become means to happiness.
As Aristotle describes, we choose other things ‘with a view to happi-
ness, conceiving that through their instrumentality we shall be happy’
(8). Aristotle is not referring here to material things or physical ob-
jects, but is differentiating between different kinds of goods, between
instrumental goods and independent goods. So honour, pleasure, or
intellect we choose ‘with a view to happiness’ as being instrumental
to happiness, and the realization of the possibility of living a good or
virtuous life.
If we think of instrumental goods as objects of happiness then impor-
tant consequences follow. Things become good, or acquire their value
as goods, insofar as they point towards happiness. Objects become
‘happiness means.’ Or we could say they become happiness pointers,
as if to follow their point would be to find happiness. If objects pro-
vide a means for making us happy, then in directing ourselves towards
this or that object, we are aiming somewhere else: towards a happiness
that is presumed to follow. The temporality of this following matters.
Happiness is what would come after. Given this, happiness is directed
towards certain objects, which point towards that which is not yet pres-
ent. When we follow things, we aim for happiness, as if happiness is
what you get if you reach certain points.
The very possibility of being pointed towards happiness suggests
that objects can be associated with affects before they are even encoun-
tered. Happy objects thus need to be re-thought beyond a sequential
logic of causality. In The Will to Power, Nietzsche (1968) suggests that
the attribution of causality is retrospective (294–5). We might assume
that the experience of pain is caused by a nail near our foot. But we only
notice the nail if we experience an affect. We search for the object, or, as
Nietzsche describes it, ‘a reason is sought in persons, experiences, etc.
for why one feels this way or that’ (354).
Once an object is a feeling-cause, it can cause feeling, so that when
we feel the feeling we expect to feel, we are affirmed. The retrospective
causality of affect that Nietzsche describes quickly converts into what
we can call an anticipatory causality. We can even anticipate an affect
without being retrospective insofar as objects can acquire the value of
proximities that are not derived from our own experience. For exam-
ple, with fear-causes, a child might be told not to go near an object in
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advance of its arrival. Some things more than others are encountered
as ‘to-be-feared’ in the event of proximity, which is exactly how we can
understand the anticipatory logic of the discourse of stranger danger.
As I argued in Strange Encounters (2000), even if the stranger is conven-
tionally understood as anybody we do not know, the stranger is also
somebody we recognize as a stranger, as a ‘body out of place.’ Some more
than others are recognized as strangers: the stranger as a figure is thus
painfully familiar. We recognize strangers as the cause of danger in ad-
vance of their arrival.
We can also anticipate that an object will cause happiness in advance
of its arrival; the object might enter our near sphere with a positive af-
fective value already in place. Objects can become ‘happiness-causes’
before we even encounter them. This argument is different from John
Locke’s account of loving grapes because they taste delightful: I am sug-
gesting that the judgment that some things are good not only precedes
our encounter with things, but can direct us towards certain things. For
example, the child might be asked to imagine happy events in the fu-
ture, such as the wedding day, the ‘happiest day of your life.’ The very
expectation of happiness might be what gives us a specific image of the
future. To share happy objects is to pass certain things around, as if you
are passing the cause of happiness.
The more happy objects circulate, the more they accumulate affec-
tive value, as signs of the good life. What happens when happy objects
circulate? How do happy objects sustain their promise in the absence
of happiness being given? Consider that the word ‘promise’ derives
from the Latin verb promittere, suggesting ‘to let go or send forth, to
put forth,’ as well as ‘to promise, guarantee, or predict.’ The promise
of happiness might be what sends happiness forth. When objects are
promising, they are sent out or sent forth; to promise can mean to pass
around a promise.
Is happiness sent forth? Does the promise of happiness mean that
happiness is passed around? If we were to say that the promise of
happiness means that happiness is sent forth, we might also suggest
that happiness is contagious. David Hume’s (1975) approach to moral
emotions rests on a contagious model of happiness. He suggests that
‘others enter into the same humour, and catch the sentiment, by a con-
tagion or natural sympathy’ and that cheerfulness is the most com-
municative of emotions: ‘the flame spreads through the whole circle;
and the most sullenly and remorse are often caught by it’ (250–1; see
also Blackman 2008). A number of scholars have recently taken up the
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Killing Joy
If happy objects are passed around it is not necessarily the feeling that
passes. So what are we sharing when we share happy objects? To an-
swer this question, I will take as an example Rousseau’s Émile, first
published in 1762, which was crucial for how it redefined education
and for the role it gave to happiness. This book is written in the first
person by a narrator whose duty is to instruct a young orphan named
Émile. Within this book, happiness plays a crucial role: the good man
does not seek happiness but achieves happiness as a consequence of
virtue. Rousseau offers a model of what a good education would do
for his Émile, but also for Émile’s would-be wife, Sophy, whom he in-
troduces in the fifth book. In this book, happiness provides a script for
her becoming. As Rousseau (1993) describes: ‘She loves virtue because
there is nothing fairer in itself. She loves it because it is a woman’s glory
and because a virtuous woman is little lower than the angels; she loves
virtue as the only road to real happiness, because she sees nothing but
poverty, neglect, unhappiness, shame and disgrace in the life of the bad
woman; she loves virtue because it is dear to her revered father, and to
her tender and worthy mother; they are not content to be happy in their
own virtue, they desire hers; and she finds her chief happiness in the
hope of just making them happy!’ (431). The complexity of this state-
ment should not be underestimated. She loves virtue, as it is the road to
happiness; unhappiness and disgrace are what follow from being bad.
The good woman loves what is good because this is what is loved by
her parents. Her parents desire not only what is good; they desire their
daughter to be good. So for the daughter to be happy, she must be good,
as being good is what makes them happy, and she can only be happy
if they are happy.
It might seem that what we can call ‘conditional happiness,’ where
one person’s happiness is made conditional upon another person’s, in-
volves a relationship of care and reciprocity as if to say, I will not have
a share in a happiness that cannot be shared. And yet, the terms of con-
ditionality are unequal. If certain people come first, we might say those
who are already in place (such as parents, hosts, or citizens), then their
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happiness comes first. For those who are positioned as coming after,
happiness means following somebody else’s goods.
The concept of conditional happiness allows me to be more precise
in thinking about what we share when we share an orientation. If my
happiness is made conditional on your happiness, such that your hap-
piness comes first, then your happiness becomes a shared object. Max Sche-
ler’s (2008) differentiation between communities of feeling and fellow
feeling might help explain the significance of this argument. In commu-
nities of feeling, we share feelings because we share the object of feeling.
We might share sadness, for example, if someone died whom we both
loved. Fellow feeling does not depend on a shared object: it ‘involves
intentional reference of the feeling to the other person’s experience’
(12, emphasis added). I would be saddened by your loss because I love
you, even if I did not share your loss. In the case of happiness, then,
we would have a community of feeling if we were both made happy
by the same thing (for example, we might both be happy as supporters
of a football team if they won). In the case of fellow feeling, I would
share your happiness, but my happiness would refer simply to yours,
such that your happiness was the object of my happiness. (I might be
happy when your football team wins, because their winning makes you
happy, even if I don’t support the team.)
I suspect that in everyday life these different forms of shared feeling
can be confused because the object of feeling is sometimes, but not al-
ways, exterior to the feeling that is shared. Say I am happy about your
happiness. Your happiness is with x. If I share x, then your happiness
and my happiness is not only shared, but can accumulate through being
returned. Or I can simply disregard x: if my happiness is directed ‘just’
towards your happiness, and you are happy about x, the exteriority
of x can disappear or cease to matter. In cases where I am also affected
by x, and I do not share your happiness with x, I might become un-
easy and ambivalent, as I am made happy by your happiness but I am not
made happy by what makes you happy. The exteriority of x would then an-
nounce itself as a point of crisis. In order to preserve the happiness of
all, we might even conceal from ourselves our unhappiness with x, or
try and persuade ourselves that x matters less than the happiness of the
other who is made happy by x.
We have a hint of the rather uneasy dynamics of conditional happi-
ness in Rousseau’s (1993) Émile. For Sophy wanting to make her parents
happy commits her in a certain direction. In one episode, the father
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though they pass each other, but whose worlds are connected by the
very jolt of unhappiness. We have the imminence of the shock of how
one person’s suffering can impact the lifeworld of another. Septimus
suffers from shell shock. We feel his feelings with him, the panic and
sadness as the horror of war intrudes as memory. His suffering brings
the past into the time of the present, the long time of war, its persis-
tence on the skin as aftermath, its refusal of an after. To those who ob-
serve him from a distance, those who share the street on this day, he
appears as a madman, at the edge of respectable sociality, a spectacle.
To encounter him on the street, you would not know the story behind
his suffering. To be near to suffering does not necessarily bring suf-
fering near.
Clarissa and Septimus, as characters who do not meet, thus achieve
an odd intimacy: the not-just-private suffering of the housewife and
the not-quite-public suffering of the returned soldier are interwoven.
Importantly, their sadness is proximate but not contagious. They do
not catch sadness from each other; their sadness is what keeps alive
histories that are not shared, that cannot be shared, as they pass by on
the street. And yet something is shared, perhaps those very things that
cannot simply be revealed. It is Clarissa thinking of her ‘odd infinities’
with strangers ‘she had never spoken to,’ as she sits on the bus, who
wonders whether the ‘unseen part of us’ might provide a point of at-
tachment to others, and might even be how we survive through others,
‘perhaps – perhaps’ (Woolf 1953: 231–2).
Much of the book is about an event that will happen. For Mrs Dal-
loway is planning a party. To some feminist readers, it is the preoccu-
pation with the party that makes the book disappointing. For Simone
de Beauvoir (1997), Mrs Dalloway’s enjoyment of parties is a sign that
she is trying to turn her ‘prison into glory,’ as if as a hostess she can
be ‘the bestower of happiness and gaiety’ (554). For de Beauvoir the
gift of the party turns quickly into duty, such that Mrs Dalloway, ‘who
loved these triumphs, these semblances,’ still ‘felt their hollowness’
(554). For Kate Millett (1970), Mrs Dalloway is a rather disappointing
figure; she exposes Woolf ’s failure to turn her own unhappiness into a
politics: ‘Virginia glorified two housewives, Mrs. Dalloway and Mrs.
Ramsey, recorded the suicidal misery of Rhoda in The Waves withoute-
ver explaining its causes’ (37). We might say that it is because Mrs Dal-
loway is planning a party that we do not have much revealed about her
unhappiness, other than the sadness of recalling lost intimacies: with
Peter and with Sally, who both turn up unexpectedly during her day,
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in a way, it is implied, that does not just happen but bears some rela-
tion to Mrs Dalloway’s own thoughts, ‘all day she had been thinking of
Bourton, of Peter, of Sally’ (280). Such lost intimacies become lost pos-
sibilities, hints of a life she might have lived, if things had not turned
out the way they did.
If Mrs Dalloway is distracted from the causes of unhappiness by the
party (and we can have some sympathy with the necessity of distrac-
tions), the party is also the event at which unhappiness comes to life.
For Mrs Dalloway, her party is life; it is how she can make things hap-
pen; it is a gift, a happening (Woolf 1953:185). What happens? That this
question is a question is a preservation of the gift. And something does
happen. For it is in the party that Septimus’s life ‘touches’ Mrs Dallo-
way most directly:
What business had the Bradshaws to talk of death at her party? A young
man had killed himself. And they talked of it at her party – the Brad-
shaws talked of death. He had killed himself – but how? Always her body
went through it first, when she was told, suddenly, of an accident; her
dress flamed, her body burnt. He had thrown himself from a window.
Up had flashed the ground; through him, blundering, bruising, went the
rusty spikes. There he lay with the thud, thud, thud in his brain, and then
a suffocation of blackness. So she saw it. But why had he done it? And
the Bradshaws talked of it at her party! She had once thrown a shilling
into the Serpentine, never anything more. But he had flung it away. They
went on living (she would have to go back; the rooms were still crowded;
people kept on coming). They (all day she has been thinking of Bourton,
of Pete, of Sally), they would grow old. A thing there was that mattered;
a thing, wreathed about with chatter, defaced, obscured in her own life,
let drop everyday in corruption, lies, chatter. This he had preserved. Death
was defiance. Death was an attempt to communicate, people feeling the
impossibility of reaching the centre which, mystically, evaded them; close-
ness drew apart; rapture faded; one was alone. There was an embrace in
death. (280–81)
only that sadness can be unbearable but that we don’t have to bear it,
that you can fling it away. And in this moment, when death intervenes
in the life of the party, life becomes chatter, becomes what goes on –
‘they went on living’ – what comes and goes – ‘people kept on coming.’
Death comes to embody the suffering that persists when life becomes
chatter.
What is striking about Mrs Dalloway is how suffering has to enter
her consciousness from the edges, through the arrival of another, an-
other who is an intruder, who has not been invited to the party. It is
the suffering of an intruder that exposes the emptiness of life’s chat-
ter. Suffering enters not as self-consciousness – as a consciousness of
one’s own suffering – but as a heightening of consciousness, a world-
consciousness in which the suffering of those who do not belong is al-
lowed to disturb an atmosphere. Even when unhappiness is a familiar
feeling, it can arrive like a stranger to disturb the familiar or to reveal
what is disturbing in the familiar.
I want to think of consciousness of the ‘un’ in unhappy, as conscious-
ness of being not. Consciousness of being ‘not’ or ‘un’ can be con-
sciousness of being estranged from happiness, as lacking the qualities
or attributes required for a happy state of existence. Consciousness of
being not involves self-estrangement, you recognize yourself as the
stranger. Note here that self-estrangement is already worldly if you are
the one whose arrival disturbs an atmosphere. Audre Lorde (1982) dra-
matizes how becoming conscious of being a stranger involves a retro-
spective renaming of apparently random events as racism:
Tensions on the street were high, as they always are in racially mixed
zones of transition. As a very little girl, I remember shrinking from a
particular sound, a hoarsely sharp, guttural rasp, because it often meant
a nasty glob of grey spittle upon my coat or shoe an instant later. My
mother wiped it off with the little pieces of newspaper she always car-
ried in her purse. Sometimes she fussed about low-class people who
had no better sense nor manners than to spit into the wind no matter
where they went, impressing upon me that this humiliation was totally
random. It never occurred to me to doubt her. It was not until years
later once in conversation I said to her: ‘Have you noticed people don’t
spit into the wind so much the way they used to?’ And the look on my
mother’s face told me that I had blundered into one of those secret
places of pain that must never be spoken of again. But it was so typical
of my mother when I was young that if she couldn’t stop white people
Sociable Happiness 59
spitting on her children because they were Black, she would insist it was
something else. (17–18)
right in front of us. It is not that an individual person suffers from false
consciousness, but that we inherit a certain false consciousness when
we learn to not notice certain things, or not to apprehend them in a
certain way.
The familiar is that which is not revealed to those who inhabit it.
I am suggesting that happiness is one of the ways in which the famil-
iar recedes. Those who are strangers are thus estranged from happi-
ness; and those who are estranged from happiness might be the ones
to whom happiness is revealed. Of course, it has effects to do the work
of witnessing (and for some, as we have seen, simply to arrive into a
room is a kind of witnessing of a history that others prefer to forget).
The sociability of happiness has costs that are revealed in such mo-
ments of witnessing but are not caused in such moments. In a way,
the ‘happiness’ of happiness is protected by locating its costs in those
who refuse its promise. Political struggles are often struggles against
happiness, as struggles to reveal its costs. To struggle against happi-
ness often means being framed as antisocial; to challenge who and
what gathers under the sign of happiness is to trouble the very form of
social gathering. You can cause unhappiness by revealing the causes
of unhappiness. And you can become the cause of the unhappiness
you reveal.
People often say that the struggle against racism is like banging your
head against a brick wall. The wall keeps its place so it is you that gets
sore. We might need to stay as sore as our points. Of course that’s not
all we say or we do. We can recognize not only that we are not the cause
of the unhappiness that has been attributed to us, but also the effects
of being attributed as the cause. We can talk about being angry black
women or feminist killjoys; we can claim those figures back; we can
laugh in recognition of the familiarity of inhabiting that place. There is
solidarity in recognizing our alienation from happiness, even if we do
not inhabit the same place (and we do not). There can be joy in killing
joy. And kill joy we must, and we do.
NOTES
1 We can see the problems with such an approach when feelings become
measures of rights and wrongs. Richard Layard (2006), for example, argues
that what makes something wrong is that it makes people unhappy, or even
offends people’s feelings. For Layard, the science of happiness is ‘inherently’
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c atherine theo d o s i u s
Introduction
the mechanistic processes through which the body and mind physi-
ologically and anatomically work to produce and make sense of them.
Emotion is expressed and experienced within both mind and body, and
it is both the mind and body that enables and constrains that experi-
ence. In acknowledging this, it can be seen that individual embodiment
of mind and body cannot be separated from its material and socio-
cultural environment. Thus emotions are social and part of social in-
teraction. To understand emotion management it is necessary to know
what is happening within the individual and between individuals, as
well as understanding the social context (see also Thoits, this volume).
For example, how does a nurse manage her emotions of frustration in
dealing with a patient with dementia caught up in a continuous loop
of anxiety due to short-term memory loss? To understand this emotion
interaction it is necessary to consider the physiological limitations of
emotion for the nurse who is healthy and the patient who is mentally
unwell, as well as the interaction that is occurring between them and
the social context in which it happens.
Damasio’s hypothesis on emotion, feeling, and consciousness at-
tempts to link internal body function with its external environment by
suggesting that emotion results in the evolution of consciousness so that
human beings might better communicate, develop, and express social
intelligence. Rather than emotions being the antithesis of reason, they
are fundamental and necessary to it. Damasio sees emotion as being
a bodily internal manifestation that feeds into homeostatic processes.
As such, emotion is unconscious. However, he suggests that human
consciousness is feeling the experience of self. He argues that neuro-
scientific evidence reveals that human consciousness has arisen from
the development of emotion, and claims that consciousness cannot
exist without emotion whereas emotion can be present without con-
sciousness. The brain achieves this due to there being different levels of
conscious awareness of feeling. Thus, Damasio’s hypothesis offers both
insights and challenges to current sociological understanding of the na-
ture of embodied emotion and how it might be managed. This chapter
critically considers the significance of his hypothesis to Hochschild’s
(1983) notion of surface and deep acting and Archer’s (2000) notion of
the inner dialogue – each being concerned with emotion management.
Understanding how individuals carry out emotion management is
important to understanding its significance in social interaction, espe-
cially in the workplace. Hochschild, who first developed the term emo-
tion management/work (see Hochschild 1975, 1979, 1983), suggests that
‘Feeling a Feeling’ in Emotion Management 65
Damasio’s Hypothesis
states. Archer (2000) does not distinguish between emotion and feel-
ing, whereas Hochschild (1983) considers feelings to be a milder form
of emotion and uses the terms interchangeably (244). For Damasio, the
distinction is fundamental, for it is only when an individual comes to
feel a feeling that emotion begins to emerge into conscious awareness.
Human consciousness is the conscious feeling of feeling the experience
of self. The central tenet of his hypothesis is that human conscious-
ness developed and extended from feeling emotion. Understanding
how he conceptualizes the relationship between emotion, feeling, and
consciousness is vital when critically assessing the significance of his
hypothesis to Hochschild’s and Archer’s representations of emotion
management.
Damasio (2000) suggests that emotion’s primary function is con-
cerned with ‘survival-orientated behaviours,’ sensing emotions, the
having of feelings that ‘impact on the mind as they occur in the here
and now.’ Thus ‘consciousness allows feelings to be known’ and pro-
motes the impact of emotion internally, allowing ‘emotion to permeate
thought process through agency of feeling.’ Consciousness essentially
‘allows the “object” of emotion and any other object’ to be known (56).
This enables individuals to respond adaptively, thus both emotion and
consciousness are ultimately concerned with survival. This representa-
tion of the relationship between emotion and consciousness echoes that
of Archer’s (2000) in the emphasis she gives towards emotion reflexiv-
ity and cognitive process.
Damasio (2000) suggests that there are different levels/types of
emotions: background emotions, primary and secondary emotions
(all unconscious), and feelings (conscious awareness of emotions).
Background emotions are constant and represent the internal condi-
tion ofthe body that arises from physiological processes and responses
tothe body’s interaction with its environment. ‘These emotions allow
us to have background feelings of tension or relaxation, of fatigue or
energy, of well-being or malaise, of anticipation or dread’ (52). Nei-
ther Hochschild (1983) nor Archer (2000) includes this definition of
emotion, because they do not conceptualize the internal physiologi-
cal significance of emotion to the maintenance/awareness of bodily
function – a significant omission to developing understanding of the
embodiment of emotion. Primary emotions refer to the six univer-
sal emotions of fear, anger, surprise, disgust, happiness, and sadness
(Darwin 1872; Ekman 1973, 1982, 1984, 1992); and secondary emotions
to social emotions such as embarrassment, shame, guilt, jealousy, and
‘Feeling a Feeling’ in Emotion Management 69
pride (Kemper 1987; Scheff 1990; Barbalet 1998). Unlike Archer (2000),
Damasio (2000) does not include emotions elicited in response to the
material world. Damasio claims that all emotions are concerned with
‘the life of the organism and their role in assisting that organism to
maintain life’ (51). They constitute ‘complicated collections of chemi-
cal and neural responses’ that are ‘biologically determined processes,
depending on innately set brain devices, laid down by a long evolu-
tionary history’ that ‘regulate and represent body states.’ Emotions
can be ‘engaged automatically without conscious deliberation’ and
impact on the whole body system causing changes within the ‘inter-
nal milieu, visceral, vestibular and musculoskeletal systems, [and]
numerous brain circuits.’ They ‘occupy a fairly restricted ensemble of
subcortical regions, beginning at the brain stem and moving up to the
higher brain’ (51). An emotion occurs and sends commands to other
parts ofthe brain and throughout the body via the vascular system and
through neural pathways. These commands either act on other neu-
rons, muscular fibres, or on organs (such as the adrenal gland), which
then release their own chemicals into the blood stream (67). This un-
conscious process affects a global change in the body with muscles, for
example, in the face and elsewhere in the body immediately chang-
ing. ‘These changes constitute the substrate for neural patterns which
eventually become feelings of emotion’ (67), which represent conscious
awareness of them. Until conscious awareness occurs, when knowing
an emotion by feeling a feeling takes place, the emotion remains un-
conscious. However, awareness of the minute changes that take place
in the body is something that can be detected by others, and is more
commonly termed non-verbal communication. The impact of the physi-
ological manifestation of emotion has ramifications for Hochschild’s
(1983) notion of surface acting.
How does unconscious emotion emerge into a conscious awareness
of self that is ‘knowing’ of its feeling state in a way that separates the
brain’s capacity to distinguish between something that simply belongs
to itself, and mind, which has a complex consciousness and awarenes-
sof self? Damasio (2000:25) argues that the brain can distinguish be-
tween stimuli and organic responses that relate to objects and those
that relate to the body. This is important to how the brain differentiates
between its internal processes and things that are happening externally
to it, but are equally relevant. Because the brain can respond to itself
as an object, detecting the significance of its own internal mechanisms,
this allows for ‘thought’ or ‘emotion’ to also be perceived as an object.
70 Catherine Theodosius
Surface Acting
Deep Acting
therefore, between the continuous reflexive self, and one that can feel
without having a conscious awareness of the significance of that or be
able to reflect upon it.
Damasio (2000:217) argues that ‘the seemingly changing self and the
seemingly permanent self, although closely related are not one entity
but two.’ The changing self is ‘transient and ephemeral’ and is based on
core consciousness. He suggests that it is not so much that it changes,
but ‘that it needs to be remade and reborn continuously’ because work-
ing memory is concerned with the connections between each instance of
experience. The permanent self, however, draws on long-term working
memory, also supported by core consciousness, but based on extended
consciousness and the autobiographical self where the connections
between experiences have already been established into an under-
standable narrative. Here, the working memory is based on long-term
repository of both implicit and explicit memory (LeDoux 1998). These
memories, however, come initially from core consciousness; they re-
quire sorting, the development of a narrative, such as that which the
inner dialogue provides. Thus, the autobiographical self is influenced
consciously and unconsciously by other factors such as personality
traits, knowledge, and cultural and social experience in the working
and reworking of memory. Effectively, an individual has the capacity
to experience emotion she/he is not knowledgeable about yet is aware
of, through feeling a feeling – and can manage, using surface acting,
that feeling. At the same time, the individual’s ongoing inner dialogue
can be unsuccessfully attempting to make sense of that feeling, in a
continuous negative feedback loop, and at the same time manage suc-
cessfully other emotions emerging in response to ongoing interactions
as they occur.
Essentially, an individual can experience an emotion and be aware by
feeling a feeling in the proto-self that that feeling belongs to them. Core
consciousness develops an ‘image’ through the senses or/and somato-
sensory modalities, that pulse the feeling into conscious awareness in
an instant. This process can keep reoccurring, with the emotion that
is felt but not known also impacting through an embodied awareness
(through physiological changes which occur in the body in response to
its release) and with the brain’s conscious (but unknowledgeable) rec-
ognition of it. Until extended consciousness can, through the working
memory, develop a narrative (made up of consecutive and connecting
sensory and somatosensory modalities), which links to the autobio-
graphical self (connecting the past self to the present and anticipating
78 Catherine Theodosius
the future), the emotion remains unknown, but felt. Thus, ‘feeling a
feeling’ impacts the inner dialogue that attempts to make sense of it.
That the brain has this capacity is essential, or it would not be possible
for emotions to become known; they would either remain unconscious
or automatically be consciously known. At the same time, because the
brain has the capacity to distinguish between different objects, core
consciousness can pulse in images representing the actual instant being
experienced that make sense to working memory in the extended con-
sciousness and to the autobiographical self (consciously and uncon-
sciously) in the carrying out of everyday working life. Thus, the inner
dialogue’s ongoing commentary reflexively monitors emergent emo-
tions, thoughts, and other sensory modalities in response to what is
currently being experienced and require managing in the presentation
of self in everyday life.
Kate (audio diary): I could quite happily have left yesterday because I am not part
of the crowd that are there, and I most of all don’t wish to be part of it. I don’t find
it very nice; I don’t find it very professional. I don’t find it professional sitting on the
nurses’ station trying to get the loudest fart to ripple along and to make the loudest
noises. If anybody did that in a shop they would be sacked. Because it’s a hospital
these people think that they can get away with it and I think that it is disgusting.
emotion has really been elicited. Thus, Kate carries out effective CEL
through surface acting, and displays in a non-conscious way her real
emotion state that represents unknown ‘hidden’ feelings of shame and
anger induced through deep acting. That Kate can be experiencing and
managing different sets of emotions (or as Archer would term them,
‘clusters of emotions’) is significant for interpreting the social interac-
tion. If Kate was not able to simultaneously do this, then the bullying
would not have been successful, because the bullies would not be able
to see the impact that they were having. Thus, being able to express
their ‘different interactional rights,’ by evaluating Kate’s work, point-
ing out her flaws, having their opinions count, and in doing ‘something
more important’ in their games, the bullies exclude Kate and demon-
strate their higher status (Clark 1990:306). Kate’s CEL actively embod-
ies her subordinate place amongst her colleagues.
The ability to simultaneously induce, express, and suppress emotion
is essential to this act of CEL. The non-conscious physical expression of
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I can do my job. And a little while ago I doubted myself, I wasn’t sure
that I could do it. I think that it was because I was feeling less confi-
dent myself for obvious reasons already mentioned before this, and
I know I can do this job because I have been doing it and I do, do it,
and I know that I am not perfect and I’m a human being and I have
times when some days I do the job better than others depending on
how I feel.’
It would appear that Kate’s extended consciousness has made a nar-
rative link, allowing her to acknowledge the impact the bullying had on
her, making sense of the feelings this produced. Several months later,
this emotion trajectory has resulted in a stronger narrative that links
these events to her maturing personal identity (autobiographical self).
Kate then goes on to recognize the significance of her emotions to her
physical well-being. In her interview, she states:
kate: I felt physically sick before I went into work, I felt very emotional
all the time. Very sort of wobbly as well, you know where you feel like
you have got butterflies in your stomach all the time. It was like I was
the new girl every single day for about two and half months. I shouldn’t
be feeling like this! I was questioning myself all the time. But physically
I felt sick and it wasn’t until I burst out crying in the middle of a hand-
over, which embarrassed me quite a lot, that it actually came to a head. I
was getting unhealthy as well. I was getting quite bad skin and my eyes
were really dark all the time; I had permanent bags under my eyes. I was
sleeping like there was no tomorrow. I was sleeping, sleeping, and sleep-
ing, and I was struggling to get up in the morning, which is a sign of
depression actually, isn’t it, if you don’t want to get up and all you want
to do is go to sleep? And I was just walking around knackered all the
time. And I think that was due to the fact that I was having such a hard
time at work.
catherine: And that was mostly due to relationships with colleagues?
kate: Yes. Definitely, and the way they were condescending and just imply-
ing that I wasn’t doing my job properly um, sideways, bang on, head on,
they were at it all the time . . .
Conclusion
NOTES
Introduction
While the literature makes clear there is space for further analysis of
suffering that is not legitimated, simply pointing out the existence of
this form of suffering is insufficient for the creation of a theoretical
concept that can more incisively understand the relations between the
lived, phenomenological aspects of unrecognized pain and the social
relations and structures that shape its existence and experience.
Drawing upon the above, and the examples that follow, we define
illegitimate pain as pain that involves suffering: (1) that is unrecog-
nized and/or socially neglected by society, one’s social group, one’s
significant others, or by the self; (2) that may be stigmatized as devi-
antor deserved, or involve cultural misunderstandings either about
appropriate ways to respond to it or its etiology; and (3) that can be
understood as existing on a continuum of legitimation. Generally, il-
legitimate pain is related to broader interpretive standards and struc-
tured power relations in society, yet mediated through one’s social
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sex marriage in Canada as well as active lesbian and gay rights cam-
paigns that extend the argument beyond that of access to the institution
of marriage, have helped to alter what was once largely considered il-
legitimate, even ‘deserved’ pain. Rather than same-sex desire being
deemed punishable, it is now more often seen as part of human sexual
diversity, and acknowledgement of the ‘pain of the closet’ is more likely
than has been in the recent past – at least in some circles. Indeed, the
LGBTQ rights movement in North America has helped build an insti-
tutionally complete subculture capable of providing participants with
a deep sense of moral self-worth vis-à-vis heterosexist culture. In the
personal and social questioning this movement has encouraged, it has
enabled a movement that works to replace heterosexist moralism with
affirmation of sexual diversity. This changing historical and political
situation is part of the context within which people ‘come out’ – a pro-
cess often understood as one of identity formation where the shackles
of shame are dropped and acceptance of or pride in one’s sexual iden-
tity is taken up – though conscious politicization is not mandatory to
the process.
Much work3 has been done on the process and experiences of lesbian
and gay identity formation (i.e., ‘coming out’). There have been models
suggested to help better understand this life transition,4 and studies of
how the process and experience of coming out differ according to race,
gender, age, ability, class, historical period, and nation.5 Research has
also examined the effect coming out has on the families of lesbians and
gay men,6 as well as the effects it may have in the workplace or class-
room.7 Additionally, research has examined the role of the Internet or
the importance of place in the coming out process.8
What connects much of the research on coming out is its individ-
ual-level focus. Coming out is most often seen as a deeply personal
transition that individuals can experience as self-discovery, realization,
confession, or life-changing choice. Alongside the individual process of
coming out is the process of telling others. This is shown in the many
narratives that make a distinction between ‘coming out to myself ’ and
‘coming out to the world’ (Wolfe and Stanley 1980). Indeed, there are
many people who are involved in same-sex relationships, but do not di-
vulge their sexuality to those outside of an LBGTQ context. Also, there
are those who do not hide their sexuality, but choose not to politicize
that aspect of their lives. This highlights the fact that coming out is not
always a politicization of LGBTQ identities. Yet even when lesbians and
gay men do not come out in a public or political way, the transition of
94 J. Scott Kenney and Ailsa Craig
coming out is still central to LGBTQ experience. Given the personal na-
ture of this transition, as well as individuals’ choices regarding public
expression of orientation, it is unsurprising that much of the literature
has concentrated on an individual level of analysis.
Interestingly, individuals in the process of coming out react and make
choices that fit well into the options we suggest are possible for those
experiencing illegitimate pain: they may (1) choose to stay closeted,
‘pass’ as straight, suffer in silence, and in so doing nurture a negative
self concept; (2) rely on heteronormative accommodative actions that
preserve the appearance of conventional heterosexual interaction for all
concerned; (3) engage in rationalizations for homosexuality that do not
question the dominance of heteronormativity (e.g., ‘I can’t help who I
love’ – with the unspoken message being that if one could, one would
not be lesbian or gay); (4) get involved in an LGBTQ subculture that
helps nurture self-esteem and positive identity through recognition –
yet which still may not challenge the dominance of heterosexism out-
side the bounds of the subculture; and/or (5) become politically active
by making claims for legitimizing and acknowledging the pain of the
closet, thereby working to challenge heterosexism and homophobia.
The continuum of legitimacy concerning the pain of the closet is not,
however, solely a matter of an individual progressing through stages
of ‘development’ to a more positive sense of self or to being someone
more likely to engage in activism. As Sedgewick has noted, the closet
is a metaphor that has wide-ranging effects (Sedgewick 1990), and one
therefore does not need to be ‘in the closet’ to experience unacknowl-
edged suffering that results from the social and cultural dynamics of
the closet. Violating the norms of heterosexism through being identifi-
ably lesbian or gay – through being ‘out’ – can be the impetus for pain-
ful acts of homophobia. That is, one can be ‘out,’ and have a positive
self-image, and that very openness can result in heterosexist assump-
tions or homophobic attack. Indeed, no matter how ‘well-adjusted’ an
individual may be, that will not assure the recognition and legitimacy
of their pain.
While the individual focus in research on coming out has led to work
that ‘gives voice’ to the pain of the closet, by being rooted in social devel-
opmental models, the connections between institutions, structures, and
social contexts are not sufficiently highlighted. One notable exception
is Evans’s (2002) work on negotiating sexual identity in the classroom,
and the emotional work required by teachers negotiating disclosure or
nondisclosure of sexuality. Here, Evans highlights the connection be-
Illegitimate Pain 95
Conclusion
NOTES
5 See Parks, Hughes, and Matthews 2004; Li and Orleans 2001; Bhugra 1997;
Bohan 1996; Jackson and Brown 1996; Savin-Williams and Diamond 2000;
Lynch 2004; Jones and Nystrom 2002; Sherry 2004; Samuels 2003; Appleby
2001a, b; Mallon 2001; Watzlawik 2004; Ryan 2003.
6 See Cohler 2004; Herdt and Koff 2000; Lynch and Murray 2000; Oswald
2000.
7 See Ward and Winstanley 2003; Taylor and Raeburn 1995; Schneider 1986;
Raissiguier 1997.
8 See Heinz et al. 2002; Munt, Bassett, and O’Riordan 2002; McKenna and
Bargh 1998; Holt and Griffin 2003; Valentine and Skelton 2003.
9 See Little (2003) for one examination of how heterosexuality is affected by
gendered and sexualized understanding of space and place.
10 This example helps clarify the relation between affect, feeling, and sense.
If emotion may be seen as a physical sense that transmits information to
the self (Hochschild 1983), then emotionally sensing potential claims to
the illegitimacy of one’s sexual orientation in rural areas, including the
probable stigmatization of one’s significant yet hidden desires should
they become known, results in an evaluative response in relation to self,
a devaluing of who one is. In a slightly different way, this could operate
through the ‘somatic sensation of society’ at the heart of Shilling’s (1997)
discussion of Durkheim. This devaluation is manifested both cognitively
and in embodied affect. Indeed, given the need to wall oneself off and
engage in dramaturgical displays discussed by Freund (1998), it may
manifest unpleasantly in the various modes of feeling relative to the lived
body discussed in Denzin’s (1985) phenomenological account.
11 The methods employed by Theodosius in this volume could prove
particularly helpful as an example of how to better capture subjective
experience in relation to social contexts.
6 Religion within the Bounds of Emotion
Alone: Bergson and Kant
Religion, being coextensive with our species, must pertain to our structure.
– Henri Bergson, The Two Sources of Morality and Religion
Introduction
the other position claims that religion will endure if faith asserts its
autonomy from reason.
Kant and Bergson are valuable to a sociological study of emotion pre-
cisely because they criticize and avoid this antinomy.1 As we shall see,
Kant argues that far from opposing emotional excess, extravagant use
of reason solicits it.2 And Bergson argues that the purpose of emotion
is to check the demoralizing and dissolvent tendencies of reason. It is
this shared refusal to oppose reason to emotion and to instead explore
their entanglement that informs the purpose of this essay: to use Kant
and Bergson’s discussion of religion to assess the nature, function, and
source of emotion and its relationship to reason.
We propose to cut into Kant and Bergson’s treatment of religion, hence
their treatment of emotion and reason, through their respective visions
of the potential fanaticism internal to reason. To make this shared vi-
sion clearer, we begin with a remarkable passage in which Stanley
Cavell (1979) comments on Kant’s major work regarding religion, Reli-
gion within the Bounds of Bare Reason: ‘Here, as is typical of Kant’s pro-
cedures, he goes beyond an expected Enlightenment battle that takes
up the cause of reason against irrationality on the most famous field
of the irrational [i.e., religion]. The collection of sections called General
Observations, one of which concludes each of the four parts of Kant’s
volume on religion, together constitute what I think amounts to a gen-
eral theory of irrationality, a systematic account of what turns out, on
this theory, to be a whole class of phenomena, each of them involving a
particular distortion of human reason. Kant calls the four members of
this class fanaticism, superstition, delusion, and sorcery’ (455).
Cavell frames his praise on this ground: Kant is remarkable for hav-
ing shown us the specific deformations reason threatens to impose
upon itself. We propose to extend the spirit of Cavell’s remark. In the
first section we elaborate how, for Kant, reason can elicit reckless emo-
tion which can take the form of passion (Leidenschaft) or enthusiasm
(Schwärmerei).3 In the second section we turn to Bergson’s discussion
of ‘static religion,’ in which instinct and emotion counteract the de-
moralizing and dissolvent power of the intellect. In the third, and last,
section we turn to Bergson’s difficult discussion of love in ‘dynamic
religion.’ Love is of fundamental importance to Two Sources of Morality
and Religion. It is the emotion that not only saves us from our instinctive
tendency to wage war, but it also serves as a counter to our intellec-
tual tendency to separate us from both God and the world. As we seek
to define a concept of creative emotion in Bergson, one constitutively
104 Alexandre Lefebvre and Melanie White
In the preface to the first edition of Religion within the Bounds of Bare
Reason [1793], Kant makes clear that religion is the product of morality,
not the other way around. Indeed, he maintains, ‘morality in no way
needs religion . . . rather, through the power [vermöge] of pure practical
reason [morality] is sufficient to itself ’ (2009:3). Absolute and uncondi-
tioned, pure practical reason commands our will without needing an
external (religious) purpose to learn one’s duty or to impel its perfor-
mance. Nevertheless, Kant does establish a direct and necessary rela-
tionship between morality and religion. This relationship is rooted in
the fact that morality is not indifferent to its realization in the world.
Indeed, it is a duty to bring about a union between morality and its
empirical existence. Kant calls this union the highest good. But see-
ing as the realization of the highest good depends on circumstances
beyond the control of finite individuals, we are led to presuppose – but
merely as a principle or idea of reason (Kant will say a ‘reflective’ pre-
supposition [52]) – ‘a higher, moral, holiest, and all-powerful being that
alone can unite the two elements of this good’ (5). Religion, therefore,
is a natural and necessary product of pure practical reason. In short,
Kant stresses two points: first, morality is the foundation for religion;
and second, religion is not an accidental or contingent phenomenon
but arises to meet an inherent moral need, that is, the realization of the
highest good. In a word, ‘morality leads inevitably to religion’ (8).
The point can be rephrased in language evocative of Bergson: rea-
son alone should be the source of both our conduct and the content of
religion. It is, however, a standing possibility that reason should fail
to determine either of these. In other words, conduct and religion are
free to adopt sources besides reason. This possibility is crucial for Kant.
It represents nothing less than the condition for the two kinds of grief
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specific to human beings: evil and fanaticism. On the one hand, the
source of evil lies in the adoption of a maxim that determines the will
by sensuous nature and not by the moral law. On the other hand, the
source of fanaticism lies in the creation of ecclesiastical rules and prac-
tices unsupported by pure practical reason. We take each in turn.
Evil
Fanaticism
While the problem of evil opens Religion within the Bounds of Bare Rea-
son, it becomes clear that Kant is equally preoccupied with a more in-
sidious danger. This danger is taken up in the General Remarks that
conclude each of the four parts of the book. Here, Kant addresses ideas
that, while not constitutive elements of rational religion, arise in order
to resolve moral problems raised by our evil nature: ‘Reason, conscious
of its incapacity to deal adequately with its moral need, extends itself
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and can contradict the form of the moral law, Bergson insists that even
if intelligence denies any specific obligation, it is impossible for intel-
ligence to challenge the form of obligation. Third, obligation and duty
are fundamentally passive for Bergson. To be moral, all we must do is
ease ourselves into the grooves of habit that society has worn for us.
Indeed, according to Bergson, it takes much more effort and activity
to resist habit and morality than to submit to them. Inverting Kant, we
might say that for Bergson humans are ineradicably good, a fact that
testifies not to their rectitude but to their indolence.
Let us summarize the foregoing. The origin of obligation is not rea-
son but biology. Obligation, in both animals and humans, responds to
the vital need to integrate the individual into the group. Humans stand
out because they are endowed with intelligence. This endowment
poses unique risks: intelligence threatens the social order by dissolving
bonds of duty. Habits may mitigate this threat by serving as a proxy
for instinct; nevertheless, it is a standing possibility that intelligent be-
ings break obligations as it suits them. It is at this juncture that Bergson
introduces religion. In a word, religion is a quasi-instinctive function
that protects human beings from their own intellect. Bergson (1977) be-
gins his analysis of religion on a decidedly Kantian note: ‘The spectacle
of what religions have been in the past, of what certain religions still
are today, is indeed humiliating for human intelligence . . . But there
is nothing for it, facts must be faced. Homo Sapiens, the only creature
endowed with reason, is also the only creature to pin its existence to
things unreasonable’ (102).
In addition to the experience of humiliation, a decidedly Kantian
emotion, Bergson agrees that the very condition for superstition and
error is the existence of a rational being. That animals are not super-
stitious is a fact that marks humans out as the irrational (not the ara-
tional) animal. The problem for Bergson (1977), therefore, becomes to
explain ‘how beliefs and practices which are anything but reasonable
could have been, and still are, accepted by reasonable beings (103). A
further point of agreement between Bergson and Kant is their vision of
religion (and religious error) as a ‘general structure of human thought,’
one that they refuse to confine to a distant or primitive past (104). Writ-
ing against Lucien Lévy-Bruhl, who postulated a difference in kind be-
tween primitive and Western minds (1923), Bergson insists that if we
look inward – especially in moments of shock or distress – we may re-
cover insight into original and enduring superstitions that accompany
intelligence as such.
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Because for Bergson religion is a feature of the mind as such, these emo-
tions are characteristic of human existence in all times and places. In
short, religion engenders vast regions of our emotional life.
Egoism
Death
Humans know we will die because we alone have an intellect that en-
ables us to reflect on the death of others and to generalize it to our
own case. For Bergson (1977), such knowledge is an obstacle to sur-
vival. It is demoralizing and paralyzes action; nothing is more useless
to an animal than the awareness it will die (130). Once again, fabulation
comes to the rescue: ‘To the idea of an inevitable death [nature] op-
poses the image of a continuation of life after death; this image, flung
by her into the field of intelligence, where the idea of death has just
become installed, straightens everything out again. This neutralizing of
the idea by the image simply expresses the equilibrium of nature, sav-
ing herself from slipping’ (131). Religion, therefore, furnishes a defen-
sive reaction against the intelligence. And with the notion of an afterlife
comes feelings of assurance, calm, hope, fear, zeal, uncertainty, doubt,
and disbelief. These are specific and direct contributions of religion to
our psychic life.
Uncertainty
the future, we are made aware of how uncertain it is. This is an acute
case of the more you learn the less you know: ‘There can be no reflec-
tion without foreknowledge, no foreknowledge without inquietude, no
inquietude without a momentary slackening of the attachment to life’
(Bergson 1977:210). Whereas knowledge of death is certain, knowledge
of the future is uncertain. And yet, both grip us with anxiety and dis-
courage action. Here, fabulation steps in to imagine a supersensible or
tutelary causality (call it theism) that guides our actions and watches
over the future: ‘A representation will accordingly arise, that of favor-
able powers overriding or occupying the place of the natural causes’
(140). In this case, it is less that religion comes to check intelligence, and
more that it allows us to be in the world with intelligence. It relieves
us of paralyzing incertitude and replaces it with confidence, gratitude,
and peace.
We have just claimed that fabulation creates emotions that define the
human. But while fabulation produces emotions, Bergson reserves
the name of ‘dynamic religion’ to a phenomenon that is emotion.
This emotion – and so too this religion – is love. Of course, to equate
religion with love ties Bergson to a Christian identification (see
Marion 2007:221–2). But to appreciate Bergson’s (1977) interpretation of
thisidentification, it is perhaps best to begin with the famous (and fa-
mously difficult) concluding lines of Two Sources: ‘Whether we choose
small measures or great, a decision is forced upon us. Humanity lies
groaning, half crushed beneath the weight of its own progress. Men do
not sufficiently realize that their future is in their own hands. Theirs is
the task of determining first of all whether they want to go on living or
not. Theirs the responsibility, then, for deciding if they want merely to
live, or intend to make just the extra effort required for fulfilling, even
on their refractory planet, the essential function of the universe, which
is a machine for the making of gods’ (317, translation modified).
We can work backwards. It would be accurate to say that fabulation is
a machine for the making of gods: its purpose is to create precisely those
representations that thwart the intellect. But Bergson’s sense in this pas-
sage is very different. The gods he is talking about are us, that is, human
beings. This astonishing claim is bound up with Bergson’s (1977) cos-
mology and philosophy of time and evolution. We will try to put it as
simply as we can. The essence of life for Bergson is creativity. As we have
seen in our discussion of obligation in insects and humans, different spe-
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Objectless
Embodiment
Call
appel, which in French means both appeal and call (34, 84, 100, passim).
And, as he puts it in another context, ‘it is to these [mystics] that men
have always turned for that complete morality’ (34, emphasis added).
This language is obviously theologically loaded: our relation to the
mystic is one of conversion (i.e., to turn) and of a calling. But we must
be attuned to what is being called: to follow a mystic is not to reproduce
his example, but is instead the means to access one’s own love and joy.
In another context, Ralph Waldo Emerson ([1849] 2000) will say that the
value of another great individual is utterly and only to discover one’s
own genius (132–3). Relationship to a mystic, whether lived or indi-
rect, is at once impersonal and intimate: on the one hand, the mystic
is merely an occasion to discover one’s own singular capacity; but on
the other hand, an encounter with a mystic redirects our love to a ten-
dency everywhere present but exemplified by the mystic, with whom
we share special fellowship.
Attraction
Bergson (1977) is fond of calling the mystic a new species: ‘The ap-
pearance of each one of them was like the creation of a new species,
composed of one single individual [d’un individu unique], the élan vital
culminating at long intervals in one particular [individual] (95, transla-
tion modified). No doubt, Bergson intends an irony: the most germinal
individuals are evolutionary dead ends, a species of one unable to pro-
create.8 It is not that mystics constitute a unique species (which could
breed); rather, each mystic is him/herself a species. How then do they
reproduce? Bergson’s answer is that mystics exert attraction over us,
an ‘irresistible attraction’ in fact (96). And so here, as in his concept of
the call, Bergson at once preserves and modifies the ordinary criteria
of love: attraction and procreation. With the call, we attach ourselves
to the mystic only to discover ourselves. With attraction, we fall for the
mystic’s irresistible example, and, in so doing, we are reborn.
Transformation
Divine
NOTES
1 This chapter is dedicated to Beatrice, who did not exactly help but definitely
made everything more fun.
2 For a useful study of Kant and emotion, specifically his concern with the
similarities between extravagant reason and the passions as a pathology
of will, see Caygill (2006). And for a sociological discussion of Bergson’s
attempt to upset the conventional opposition between reason and emotion,
see Game’s (1997) use of Bergson’s creative emotion to contribute to a
‘passionate sociology’ that cultivates wonder, love, and joy in knowledge
practices (398). See also Power’s (2003) discussion of creative emotion as a
qualitative multiplicity that affirms new ways of living and being together in
freedom (70).
3 The delicate distinctions between emotion, affect, passion, and enthusiasm
in Kant are complicated by issues of translation. For example, affect [Affekt]
is often indiscriminately rendered as passion, emotion, and affection
(for a discussion, see Caygill 1995:56–9, 313–14). Schematically put, we
use passion to designate an emotion that has become pathological and
potentially destructive in its disfigurement by the overextension of reason.
This usage is particular to Kant. For an interesting discussion of the
emergence of the concept of emotion as a secularization of passion and
affect, see Dixon (2003).
4 For a discussion of Kant’s positive appreciation of enthusiasm and
Schwärmerei, which appears mostly in Critique of Judgment and Conflict of
the Faculties, see Gailus (2006:28–73) and Lyotard (2009).
5 Better put, it does not arise in this way. In theoretical reason, dialectical
illusions arise when we leave the limits of possible experience. In pure
practical reason, delusions arise when we substitute sensible examples for
the ideas they are intended to represent.
6 In our usage, affect is a higher order term that includes dispositions such
as laziness, passivity, and indolence, which are not adequately termed
’emotions.’
7 Bergson provides a vivid example of fabulation in recounting William
James’ reaction to the San Francisco earthquake of 1906. James’ immediate
impulse was to characterize the earthquake as an intentional, personal, and
irascible force. Bergson (1977) comments: ‘Intelligence, impelled by instinct,
transform[s] the situation [and] evokes the reassuring image [i.e., of an
intentional rather than mechanical force]. It lends to the Event a unity and
an individuality which make of it a mischievous, maybe a malignant, being,
but still one of ourselves, with something sociable and human about it’
(158). This picture indeed thwarts judgment and reason, but it does so in the
service of a rational end: to overcome fear and paralysis.
8 See also Deleuze (1990), who speaks of the need to make ourselves worthy
of the event (149).
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Introduction
Humanitarian Emotions
of social cruelty (Todd 1986:132). Mee (2000) notes that sad, sentimental
stories of the eighteenth century spoke of real social concerns such as
child labour, but they often merely offered the opportunity for polite
readers to ‘exercise their sensibility’ (404). However, some work, like
William Blake’s late-eighteenth-century Songs of Innocence and Songs of
Experience, demonstrated a keen awareness of the fact that pity could
be empty and shallow if it did not incite active sympathy. Thus, while
sentimental literature can be characterized by its indulgence of emo-
tion, this characterization did not preclude attention to the analysis of a
more active human sympathy.
Some scholars note a heightened sense of ambivalence in the senti-
mental literature of the period. Audrey Jaffe’s (2000) work on sympa-
thy gives a particularity to the way in which sympathy is intricately
aligned with middle-class identity. She argues that many of the visual-
ized narratives of the Victorian novel serve to create ‘primal scenes’
where the middle class is precariously poised between ‘dread’ and
‘fantasy.’ For Jaffe, ‘the objects of Victorian sympathy are inseparable
from Victorian middle-class self-representation precisely because they
embody, to a middle-class spectator, his/her own potential narrative of
social decline’ (9). The core of the sensibility that informs ‘vicarious suf-
fering,’ notes Julie Ellison (1999), is ‘alienated and guilty from the start’
(122). In reference to colonial history, she argues that the ‘real politics
of colonialism’ exhibits a powerfully ambivalent wish: that it was ‘ac-
tually possible to conquer and to spare’ (147). Kennedy’s (2004) more
recent work on international humanitarianism entitled The Dark Sides
of Virtue uses a similar vocabulary to describe the possibilities of a new
humanitarianism. Imagine a humanitarianism, he asks, that ‘exercised
power not as humanitarian knowledge imprinting itself on the real, but
with all the ambivalence and ignorance and uncertainty we know as
the human’ (354).
Humanitarian emotions, however, also work to ‘constitute some oth-
ers as legitimate objects of emotion’ (Ahmed 2004:191). The power of
any humanitarian appeal relies on some assessment of how important
or worthy we deem the suffering of those who appeal for our help. Hu-
manitarianism has strong narrative and representational dimensions. It
compels action through the ways that social and political actors witness
or read literal testimonies and visual images of human suffering (Brown
and Wilson 2009). The abolition of British slavery is often cited as one
of the first and most important international humanitarian movements
because it required political action to end a form of suffering that was
distant and out of view. The suffering of slaves, however, is constructed
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still has difficulty with the meaning of suffering.2 There remains an ‘un-
resolved problem of theodicy’ when ‘suffering confronts the limits of ra-
tionality’ and ‘impresses upon us the need for other-worldly (magical,
religious, ecstatic) meanings for experiences which cannot be explained
pragmatically’ (204). How can the idea of rationality and progress, ask
Morgan and Wilkinson, be sustained against the historical record of the
twentieth century? They argue that sociology can offer a ‘sociodicy’ for
our times if it is able to study its pain. While articulating experiences
of pain and ‘thinking with suffering’ is difficult, it is absolutely neces-
sary to what they see as a project of exploring the ‘decivilizing tensions
within modernity’ and breaking down the distance between ‘rationally
ordered structures of economic and social progress’ and apparently ir-
rational violence and suffering (Morgan and Wilkinson 2001:210).
Clearly, the shift to modernity is a critical part of the analysis of emo-
tion and its regulation. We need to analyse our social relationship to the
suffering of others by examining the movement away from traditional,
community relationships towards de-personalized, industrial ones.
Still, we should not assume that such a shift necessarily represents a
reduction in an overall humanitarian ‘other-orientation.’ Some sociolo-
gists read this shift as positive because it ushers in a kind of morality
which is better able to deal with difference and the forms ofsuffering
that are not ‘community’ based. In Turner’s (2002) model of ‘cosmo-
politan virtue,’ for example, the contemporary moment of sociological
inquiry is one of discomfort. Images of the modern intellectual as the
‘revolutionary hero’ who is ‘passionately committed to social and po-
litical causes’ are no longer appropriate to a ‘fragmented and diverse
global culture’ (59).
One of the moral implications of ‘feeling for’ distant others in the
contemporary space of the global continues to be the selective nature
of the humanitarian emotions. Our reactions to global suffering must
also be set in relation to the selective presentations of human suffering
in both the popular media and international development campaigns
(see Butt 2002; Lidchi 1999; Tester 2001). Even if driven by claims touni-
versal humanism, not every humanitarian impulse is acted upon. The
humanitarian impulse seems to be strengthened when we encounter
the testaments of individual suffering (Wilson and Brown 2009), but
rarely so profoundly invoked by stories of large-scale suffering. Using
the example of the Gulf War, Hendrickson (1999) speaks to this selectiv-
ity when he explains that ‘something odd happens to the humanitar-
ian sentiments’ when they are delivered through military intervention:
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Conclusions
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Introduction
Raymond Williams
Norbert Elias
The question that I raise in connection with Elias is: How are we to
understand the transformations in the structure of personality in the
civilizing process that made it possible to relax controls over emotions
without at the same time giving rein to spontaneous and dangerous
surges of impulse? Elias’s key contribution can best be character-
ized as proposing a ‘controlled decontrolling of emotions,’ in which
the civilizing process is manifest in a generalized way such that an
internalized self-control has been firmly established in a way that
emotional spontaneity no longer poses any risk to civilized conduct.
Such a controlled decontrolling of emotions characterizes contempo-
rary heterosexual relations, which permit a considerable degree of
familiarity between the sexes, while, at the same time, the reality of
sexual aggression and harassment reminds us that the decontrolling
of emotional constraints is always unstable. A key feature in this trans-
formation is a change in the balance between externally imposed con-
straints on the individual’s impulses and constraints that spring from
a constant and rigorous self-control. But Elias resists the idea that the
civilizing process simply involves an even extension of self-control.
It is important to a comprehension of his life work to recognize that
he was preoccupied with understanding the dynamic spurts of both
civilizing and decivilizing processes. This was central to his engage-
ment with the history of Germany, which grappled with an attempt to
understand the rise of Nazism (Elias 1996). It is now time to harness
these resources to explore the development of the emotional history of
contemporary society.
around anger and violence. The most prominent fields of action have
been with regard to ‘equity’ issues that began with matters of race, but
have grown to incorporate other arenas of ‘difference.’ Prominent have
been the disciplinary engagement with gender relations encompassing
issues of harassment and discrimination.
At the same time as the workplace imposed emotional restraint, the
twentieth century saw a rising current of informalism. Hierarchical dis-
tance was weakened. Often this was unplanned, as in the spread of
the use of familiar names between differently located people; but there
are usually well-understood rules about how far hierarchical formality
can be displaced. While it has become increasingly common to use fa-
miliar names for immediate superiors, this has not granted permission
for such informality with higher-ranking persons. There have also been
planned moves towards informality at work that seek to stimulate co-
operation, as exemplified by the gradual disappearance of segregated
dining rooms and the introduction of activities promoting sociability
that range from wilderness adventures to trips to the bowling alley.
The informalizing tendencies are not in contradiction with the pro-
cesses of intensification, but rather should be understood as facilitat-
ing the dominant emotional paradigm in such a way as to yield an
ever more complex framing of everyday life that calls upon individu-
als to acquire levels of self-regulation, making these more intensified
emotional demands liveable. Informalization does not abolish or even
weaken hierarchies. It manifests itself in displacing the requirements of
formal acknowledgment of social hierarchy and social difference. It is
most evident in informal modes of address and practices between dif-
ferently situated individuals: between students and teachers; between
generations; between the sexes. These shifts have taken place with few,
if any, articulated rules. It is no longer compulsory for males to open
doors for females; but the question of when it is appropriate to do so
is now much more unclear and creates endless possibilities for making
mistakes. To live as we all do within these shifting relations requires a
subtle balance between a variety of opposing motives and behaviours
such as directness and tactfulness, simplicity and sophistication.
Difficult though it is to intuit these unarticulated norms, most peo-
ple succeed in doing so with great skill and have internalized the new
forms of emotional expressivity and restraint. As Elias (1994) observed,
‘as more and more people must attune their conduct to that of others,
the web of actions must be organized more and more strictly and ac-
curately’ (445). We should add, this has to be achieved without there
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Collective Emotions
Gusfield (1963), in dissecting prohibition did not use the concept of res-
sentiment, but it fits perfectly with his account of the declining status
of rural Protestantism in the USA pitted against the less self-controlled
manners and habits of immigrants from Southern Europe. It is the de-
monstrable evidence of an inability to exercise self-control that today
fuels resentment against smokers and justifies imposing restrictions
on smokers while at the same time displaying the self-control and re-
spectability of the non-smoker (Brandt 2007). It is interesting that Peter
Stearns (1999), having stressed the importance of the struggle for self-
control, misses its other side: the ressentiment at those who either fail
to, or, even worse, celebrate their lack of self-control.
An emergent form of ressentiment has recently targeted obesity. Pre-
viously, individuals varied in size and weight; but now that we have
‘obesity’ as a medico-moral category (and we should also factorin
class), we have a collective, ‘the obese,’ who can be resented because
of their ‘life-style’ with its palpable lack of self-control. A general form
manifests itself in distress that is occasioned by the belief that some
third party has gained an undeserved advantage (for example, the al-
location of a second seat to an obese passenger). It is important to dis-
tinguish this from envy, which is the desire for benefits that others are
believed to possess (Barbalet 1998:137). Ressentiment may also focus on
the shame that arises from a failure to succeed in a legitimate distribu-
tional system, as a result of which collective anger is directed against
those who benefit unfairly without following the rules. This is a very
common form of current ressentiment against immigrants. The emo-
tion of ressentiment is significant in that it reveals a more general fea-
ture of emotion as the unintended and generally unreflexive response
of people to structural features of their social circumstances; in brief,
emotions provide a link between subjective experience and objective
circumstances. It is worth noting that new forms of ressentiment con-
tinue to emerge. Of particular interest is what may be called the ‘new
ressentiment,’ which is exhibited by the socially marginalized (often
referred to as ‘the underclass’), who display extreme forms of aggres-
sive and unrestrained hostility that is closely linked to the antisocial
behaviour discussed above. Another new form of ressentiment is found
in the significant role of media figures, typified by Rush Limbaugh,
who articulate widely dispersed sentiments of ressentiment which may
stimulate forms of collective political action.
It is instructive to compare the emotions of hate and ressentiment. There
is much overlap between ressentiment and hatred in that ressentiment
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The other realm of social life in which there has been an expansion
of emotionalization is that of personal relations. This development is
closely connected to the major changes in the position of women in
society. The nineteenth-century marriage was conceived in terms of a
contractual, gendered division of labour with the male as breadwinner
and the female as homemaker. The twentieth-century marriage was in-
creasingly conceived in terms of the ‘companionate marriage’ (Lindsey
1927; Collins 2003), in which both parties were enjoined to aspire to
emotional closeness and mutual sexual satisfaction. In the early part of
the century there occurred a major expansion in the various forms of
advice literature – literature that was influenced by the concern with
rising divorce rates that created widespread professional and personal
anxiety. Perhaps most significant was the expansion of marital advice
literature; but there was also the beginnings of marital expertise dis-
pensed by a variety of therapeutic counselling methods. At the same
time, discourses that constructed marriage as problematic were widely
diffused throughout popular culture.
There were considerable tensions and controversies surrounding
the place of emotions within marriage. On the one hand, there was
concern that the weakening of paternal authority should not unleash
uncontrolled emotions in which wives rejected the injunction to wifely
obedience enshrined in the promise to ‘love, honor and obey’ (Stea-
rns and Stearns 1986). The problem was posed in terms of promot-
ing ‘restraint’ rather than obedience. Yet, at the same time, the new
emotionalism within the companionate marriage had to create spaces
for emotional expression. Some of the advice literature came to permit
the expression of marital anger; Cancian and Gordon’s (1988) study of
twentieth-century women’s magazines reveals the permission given
to wives to express anger while being warned against lapsing into
hysteria and tears. A major innovation in the new discourses on the
companionate marriage was the valorization of ‘communication,’ in
which the controlled expression of emotions was encouraged. The new
therapeutic expertise granted couples permission to acknowledge con-
flicts in which anger arose from lack of communication. To achieve
communication, individuals needed to learn to express their emotions,
but at the same time to maintain emotional control. This focus created
a new opportunity for marriage counsellors to formalize their role as
mediators between spouses. Hochschild (1990) astutely notes that the
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permission for emotional display gave rise to the need for ‘expression
rules.’ The implication of this quest for communication in marriage
makes it more necessary that the parties develop the skills necessary
to discharge this unveiling of ‘feelings.’ To have feelings as the lived
experience of emotions has become a fundamental manifestation of
subjectivity.
There is an elusive but significant slippage from ’emotions’ to ‘feel-
ings’; it is not a sharp break, but it is characteristic of the contemporary
discourses of the emotions. Nietzsche ([1887] 1989) was characteris-
tically blunt: ‘I am opposed to the pernicious modern effeminacy of
feeling’ (20). Emotions generally take the form of distinguishable and
categorized forms; they are ordered into positive and negative emo-
tions. There are a few ambiguous emotions that do not fall neatly into
a simple positive and negative classification, such as nostalgia, suspi-
cion, and possibly boredom, although this tends to fall on the negative
side. Emotions carry names, and even though their meanings are not
necessarily precise, it is generally possible for there to be some agree-
ment about what they designate; there is a common sense intuition that
‘we’ know what we are talking about when we refer to jealousy, hate,
or loneliness. In contrast, ‘feelings’ lack the same degree of definition.
I can report feeling sad or happy and these feelings are considered
equivalent to the same named emotions; but I can also have feelings
that I cannot put names to. The result is that a culture of feelings is
one in which individuals are expected to have feelings, and there is a
certain sense in which any and all feelings are legitimate expressions of
our self-identity.
aimed at, but is the very condition of the survival of the relationship.
Eva Illouz (2008) is correct to pose the problem as being ‘the tyranny of
intimacy’ (105).
Intimacy has been extended to wider familial relations, in particular
between parents and children. The quest for familial intimacy is inter-
estingly captured in the phrase ‘quality time.’ It is not so much the con-
tent of the relation, but the fact that sufficient time should be set aside
from the busy lives of modern parents to devote to their children. At
the same time ‘love’ is no longer an adult emotion grounded in sexual
attraction, but rather plays a significant role in the parent-child relation
with both parents and children regularly needing to confirm their love.
Here there is evidence of the paradox of emotions; love stands at the
emotional apex and yet it has become an everyday ritual to be displayed
whenever parent and child part for even a short time. Thus, there is a
routinization of love that can detract from its emotional import.
Meštrovicÿaa (1997) seeks to capture this trajectory by means of his
concept of the ‘post-emotional.’ I don’t like the term post-emotional
since ‘post’ suggests that society is no longer emotional. But what
he succeeds in capturing is the coexistence of a hyper-emotionality,
a quest for emotional intensity, with a routinization of emotions that
strip them of any real content. This is the emotional configuration that
I seek to capture with the idea that today emotions are increasingly
‘hollowed out.’ By this I mean that while modern social life requires
that emotional practices play a more pronounced part in personal life,
the emotions deployed tend to have less depth or intensity. This is
most evident in the expectation today that everyone should ‘be nice’ at
the expense of real emotions. In the new etiquette books, ‘being nice’
becomes ritualized and routinized, and is a primary form of the de-
mand for emotional self-command, such that the emotions are no lon-
ger policed by the injunction for ’emotional control’; rather, emotional
display is to be modulated in such a way that no possibility arises of
giving offence or of raising the emotional temperature of social inter-
actions. The devaluation of emotions is epitomized in the rise of the
greeting card industry that makes possible a quasi-emotional act whose
content is sentimental and conventional; and more significantly, send-
ing a card frees the purchaser from any need to express an active or
personalized emotion. This devaluation of emotions is also manifest
in the infantalization of Valentine’s Day – no longer an expression of
young love, the occasion has moved into a children’s realm in which
it is compulsory to send a card to everyone in the class. This is part of
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Conclusion
Introduction
Drawing on her interviews with mothers, she maintained that her own
identity as a mother came to act as a leveller against a power hierar-
chy in the interviewee-interviewer relationship: ‘Where both share the
same gender socialization and critical life-experiences, social distance
can be minimal’ (55; see also Finch 1984; Rheinharz 1992). Although
Oakley did not explicitly use the term emotions in her work, the tenor
of what she was expressing relates explicitly to how particular types
of methods promote emotional connections and conversely enhance a
research relationship where ‘social distance can be minimal.’
While Oakley’s work was celebrated and embraced by many feminist
researchers, her argument about connectivity and shared emotions on
the basis of gender soon came to be viewed as overly naïve and essen-
tialist. A decade later, such perspectives were being criticized and de-
constructed by many feminist researchers who argued that emotional
connections in research relations are also fraught with inevitable rela-
tional distances and barriers between researchers and the researched.
Sociologists were particularly vocal on this issue of the potential dan-
gers associated with trying to be ‘friendly’ in interviews. Pamela Cot-
terill (1992), for example, drew attention to the ‘potentially damaging
effects of a research technique which encourages friendship in order
to focus on very private and personal aspects of people’s lives’ (597;
see also Stacey 1991). Ironically, in what could be seen as a 360-degree
turn, many feminist researchers began to note that striving for greater
emotional connection did not always have straightforwardly positive
results. As noted more recently by Gesa Kirsch (2005): ‘It is perhaps
ironic, then, that scholars are discovering that methodological changes
intended to achieve feminist ends – increased collaboration, greater in-
teraction, and more open communication with research participants –
may have inadvertently reintroduced some of the ethical dilemmas
feminist researchers had hoped to eliminate: participants’ sense of dis-
appointment, alienation, and potential exploitation’ (2163).
Along with these discussions on how emotions should be invested
in research, researchers have simultaneously recognized the potential
dangers of such investments, and developed other lines of investiga-
tion on the subject of emotions in fieldwork. For example, there is a
large body of research on the emotional exhaustion of fieldwork (Wolf
1996; Hubbard, Backett-Milburn, and Kemmer 2001) as well as on
managing one’s own emotions in interviews and/or fieldwork (Chong
2008; Coffey 1999; Kleinman and Copp 1993). In relation to the lat-
ter, researchers have pointed to how they have engaged in ’emotion
164 Andrea Doucet and Natasha S. Mauthner
Over the past two decades many researchers have found ways of grap-
pling with, managing, and writing about emotions in fieldwork. Psy-
chosocial researchers, for example, draw on psychoanalytic concepts,
such as transference and counter-transference (see Bondi 2005) and the
‘defended subject’ (Hollway and Jefferson 2000; Hollway 2008a) to con-
ceptualize ways of working with emotions in research (Lucey, Meldody,
and Walkerdine 2003; Walkerdine, Lucey, and Melody 2001, 2002; Hol-
lway and Jefferson 2000). Another prominent group of scholars seeking
to incorporate emotional ways of knowing into research practice are
relational researchers, who have been developing and using the Lis-
tening Guide, an approach to fieldwork and data analysis that focuses
detailed attention on emotional inter-subjectivity (Brown and Gilligan
1992; Mauthner and Doucet, 2012). This approach is useful for socio-
logical and other scholars seeking to work with emotions in research in
Emotions In/and Knowing 165
Field Notes
There were many times when I found sitting in the classrooms or driving
many miles to call on Indian mothers so tiring and time-consuming that I
was tempted to stay home and busy myself with ‘analyzing my materials’
and letting the younger research assistants do the hard, dirty, and some-
times very depressing legwork. But circumstances forced me to do much
of the observation and quasi participation myself. When the time came
to write our report, I was intensely grateful that I had done this, for there
were all manner of statements and remarks in our field notes (and the fill-
in interviews) that we would otherwise have been unable to understand.
Somehow, by sitting in so many Indian homes . . . I, consciously or uncon-
sciously, had picked up the cues that helped us to ‘understand.’ And we
picked up these cues, not through introspection or by extrapolation from
someone else’s notes, but by remembering what we saw and listening to what
we heard. (266–7, emphasis added)
Group Analysis
Narcissistic Reflexivity
childhood home was, in fact, the instigating point for her sympathetic
openness to the narratives of lives of fathers who were primary caregiv-
ers of children.
Did Doucet fall into the trap, which Bourdieu (2003) clearly scorns,
of shamelessly promoting ‘the biographical particularities of the re-
searcher or the Zeitgeist that inspires his (her) work’ (282)? While this
danger is, indeed, a possibility, we would argue that it does not neces-
sarily emerge from this rather intimate approach to reflexive thinking.
As argued by Amanda Coffey (1999), ‘[t]he boundaries between self
indulgence and reflexivity are fragile and blurred’ so that there ‘will
always be the question of how much of ourselves to reveal’ (133). Our
view is that any attention to memories, emotions, and dreams as insti-
gators or critical parts of our research must always hold a sustained
focus of inquiry towards why and how they matter to the knowledge
being produced. What is thus required is detailed attention to how
these emotions, memories, or dreams – whether analysed individually
or within a group – lead us down a particular avenue of analysis, expla-
nation, and knowledge construction (see also Gordon 1996; McMahon
1996). If they alter the general direction or tenor of the knowledge being
produced, then they may indeed be useful to reflect on and to possibly
write up as part of our ‘audit trail’ (Seale 1999).
We also want to point out that Bourdieu himself, in his last published
work (2008), quietly argued that there is a way to turn the ‘private
person of the sociologist’ and their ‘intuition’ into a form of research
‘capital’:
This admission of Bourdieu that a ‘banal remark’ from his mother ‘trig-
gered’ an important theoretical line of inquiry strikes us as both radical
and somewhat contradictory to his earlier remarks on the dangers of
narcissistic reflexivity. This admission is not the only one in which he
174 Andrea Doucet and Natasha S. Mauthner
Conclusions
NOTES
proach concerned with context. Katz and Hochschild are key amongst
the scholars contributing to this trend. Second, there has been a quan-
titative and predictive trend using formal modelling techniques. The
volume by Clay-Warner and Robinson (2008) puts these two method-
ological trends into dialogue. While several of the chapters in Emotions
Matter dwell on structural issues, our volume does not follow the trend
towards quantitative and predictive methodologies, for two reasons.
First, a relational approach to emotions is skeptical of attempts to pre-
dict understandings of emotions or outcomes of interaction. A relational
approach to emotions studies emotions in action, assuming that there is
a creativity or contingency in action that cannot be predicted. Second,
we question the objective of trying to predict understandings of emo-
tions or outcomes of interaction as well as the use that such predictive
knowledge might be put to. For instance, in the field of criminal justice,
the goal of trying to predict understandings of emotions is tied to pre-
ventative policing of so-called ‘antisocial behaviour’ and an extension
of the authority of criminal justice institutions.
Of note here is that the trend towards quantitative and predictive
methodologies is not one that has been followed by Canadian sociolo-
gists. In Canada, sociologists and related scholars have a tendency to
draw more from social and cultural theory coming from the United
Kingdom as well as the qualitative and descriptive research trend in
America.
Several of the following chapters engage in studies of emotions in
situ, using numerous methodological techniques. Studying emotions
in situ implies particular methodological and epistemological com-
mitments that are contrary to structuralist but also psychological ap-
proaches to emotions. On the one hand, structuralist accounts ignore
phenomenological, interactionist, and corporeal elements of emotions
as the experience of social relations. For instance, despite his critical
focus on stratification and power, the model of emotions proposed by
Turner (2010) tends towards a structuralism that ignores interaction and
corporeality. Yet psychological approaches to emotions often abstract
emotions from interaction and phenomenal and corporeal experience
(and from other emotions as well) in order to treat them asindicators or
variables in (primarily) quantitative studies. We are critical of experi-
mental approaches to research on emotions, where interaction is cut out
from naturalistic settings and reduced to static behaviourism in a labo-
ratory setting. Psychological theories of emotions can be reductionist
in separating the analysis of emotions from a larger gestalt of the self
Part II: Emotions and Empirical Investigations 179
Introduction
If something goes wrong with her the whole department shuts down. We
can still crush rock or make samples or clean the lab, but can only go for
so long. A month ago there was something wrong with Shiri. For three
weeks her findings were way off, and everyone’s research was coming out
190 Kevin Walby and Dale Spencer
The slowing up of work is not Shiri’s fault per se for all members of the
lab. Blame is attributed to ancillary mechanical parts inside to spare
Shiri of culpability, as if blaming Shiri would encourage another con-
tribution to the frustrating scene. Indicative of the scientists’ orienta-
tion towards the spectrometer, Shiri is anthropomorphized while the
component parts that can be swapped out and upgraded retain a status
as mere bits. Made up of multiple other objects (casing, vacuum cham-
bers, filaments, fiber optic cables, sediment), Shiri is subject to various
interpretations, since if the object is unpredictable ‘so too is what makes
it work’ (Law 2002:98; see also Whitley and Darking 2006). The way
that the earth scientists work with one another is influenced by the
affiliative feeling between them and their mutual dependency on the
spectrometer. Objects affiliate humans to each other in organizations
in ways that are binding (Suchman 2005; Collins 2004). The affiliative
feeling also extends to the object at the centre of sociality in this context.
Objects do not have minds of their own, but they do not always perform
in the way we want them to. Sometimes objects do things we think they
are incapable of. Objects are thus ‘fluid’ insofar as objects can physically
change and the meanings we impute to objects also change (de Laet
and Mol 2000). To be a relationally situated object in an organization is
to be subject to what we call ‘capacity stabilization attempts.’ Humans
try to get the object to work the way they want them to. The object is
changing conceptually and materially, but the humans wish it not to
do so. Human reaction to failures during capacity stabilization contrib-
utes to the attribution of a persona to the object. Narratives regarding
Shiri’s persona vary depending on how one is situated in the milieu
of the lab. The narrative of Suzie, a graduate student, demonstrates
that some scientists have a closer relationship with the spectrometer
than others: ‘She knows when her master [Quimbanda] is in the room
How Emotions Matter 191
because as soon as he leaves the room, Shiri will conk out. I have to call
Quimbanda at home and say “something is wrong with Shiri.” ’ Suzie
relies on Quimbanda to manage the aleatory capacities of the object, to
keep the spectrometer running. Quimbanda is the ‘laboratory leader’
(Knorr-Cetina 1999:221), who selects personnel and has a significant re-
lationship with the central lab object. Quimbanda’s narrative regarding
Shiri’s persona reflects his status in the lab and orientation towards the
object: ‘We get into this silly business: people think the mass spectrom-
eter is possessed by a spirit. There are jokes about if things did not work
probably it was a new moon or a full moon. This is interesting in the
context of an instrument called Shiri, referring to the moon. We have a
good atmosphere down here and there is a lot of joking that goes on.’
Meisiek and Yao (2005) argue that ‘silly business’ makes sense in or-
ganizations as much as humour in the social sharing of emotion is bind-
ing, relieves tension, and creates meaning for group members. When
testing procedures do not go as planned, the scientists sometimes point
to contingencies outside the laboratory to explain Shiri’s defiance, be
it supernatural possession or astronomical forces. Quimbanda is never
bored with Shiri, and says, ‘Sometimes you wish it was a little more
boring, you wish there was not as many problems to deal with.’ These
‘problems’ are the capacity of the fluid object to act in an aleatory man-
ner. Objects with an aleatory character are bestowed a persona by hu-
mans but also have the capacity to contribute to their own persona.
The name of the object stays the same, but the object signified by
invoking Shiri is in constant flux. Every time a repair is made, parts are
being swapped in. Software is upgraded. New samples are constantly
being loaded on to the filament. Shiri is one of only a handful of spec-
trometers in Canada, and this makes the object especially important
to scientists involved in spectrometry. When we asked if people go to
other laboratories when Shiri’s circuits or software act up, Quimbanda
responded:
They just have to wait until she gets fixed. So far we have not had any seri-
ous problems. Knock on wood. We had one outside the warranty period,
last summer. It was not Shiri herself but an auxiliary unit . . . Everything
was fine, except the current was running but not all the way to the fila-
ment. We would put the samples in, pump it down, and a couple hours
later we would have results, except the results were all off . . . We could not
figure out what it was. It was going though the motions but not doing the
real job . . . I spent the first month of my sabbatical thinking it was a severe
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As de Laet and Mol (2000) put it, objects need a community to keep
up and running. The object is part of the community, since the orga-
nizational practices of the community are formed in relation to the
object. In the words of Knorr-Cetina (1997), ‘object worlds . . . make
up the embedding environments in which expert work is carried out,
thus constituting something like an emotional home for expert selves’
(9). Relations with Shiri generate an emotional home or climate for the
earth scientists in the lab. However, the relationship of Quimbanda is
the most important here, because, according to everyone in the lab, he
has the ‘golden touch’ (Knorr-Cetina 1999:229) that keeps Shiri running
the way the lab needs if the lab is to be operational.
The talk of earth scientists about emotions oscillates between narra-
tives of joy and narratives of frustration. Earth scientists report that the
most joyful part of their work, the part where they consider themselves
successful, is when they get some publications out. For Quimbanda, the
most enjoyable part of his work with Shiri is ‘getting good results for
a project. Having results that make some sense.’ Success here can only
be a matter of degrees since capacity stabilization attempts are often
How Emotions Matter 193
Nell, the lab manager – evinces this connection between emotions, sta-
tus, and gender in organizations.
Quimbanda does most of his work directly with the spectrometer.
Nell, the lab manager, does most of her work with the numerous other
scientists interested in Shiri. Nell has worked in spectrometry labs all
over Europe as well as with supply companies, but is an ‘incipient sci-
entist’ (Knorr-Cetina 1999) insofar as she has not experienced upward
mobility in the hierarchies of science organizations. There is resentment
on Nell’s part when she says, ‘I used to be right at the front of my re-
search area,’ but is now unable to chase her passion (despite her qualifi-
cations) due to a gendered division of labour both in her own home and
her second home with the Shiri group. Nell must not only carry on her
position in the lab, but also take care of her newborn child, often having
to bring the child into the lab. Nell’s job is to stock the lab with sup-
plies, complete the bookings, and manage the finances. ‘I do all the little
things that need to be coordinated by a person,’ she said, and, though it
can be hectic, ‘two days a week is right for me. I cannot be right at the
front of my research area here because I do not have a faculty position
and I do not have the emotional energy, I am overloaded with family
responsibility.’
Nell’s position in the lab is as crucial as Quimbanda’s though it is
attributed less status. Nell takes pride in her job as scientist-administra-
tor, finding some parts joyful: ‘There is satisfaction for me in knowing
the lab is speeding along. Everything is smooth, ordered, samples are
not getting held up, the accounts are in order, the feeling that the work
I have to do is all done, so the lab appears to run itself, so Shiri is sing-
ing . . . I help people and meet their needs, I anticipate peoples’ needs,
helping them get the work done, making peoples’ life easier because
they are all stressed and busy . . . plus times when I am running the
machine and we make a breakthrough or make her work really well or
we overcome problems. That feels really good.’
The ‘singing’ of Shiri is a euphemism for optimal performance of the
lab. When there is a sense of order and Shiri is ‘singing,’ Nell experi-
ences the joy of helping other members of the emotional climate. Care
for others, aiding others in completing their tasks, gives a sense of sat-
isfaction to Nell. Such a characterization of the lab challenges quotidian
conceptions of the uncaring, impersonal pursuit of truth and reveals
the emotional effervescence integral to the relational milieu of the labo-
ratory (Gherardi, Nicolini, and Strati 2007).
How Emotions Matter 195
I have tried to set up a smooth system, for instance with booking the ma-
chine. They have to put the request in by 9 a.m. Thursday morning to use
Shiri the next week. But there are two people in the lab who are completely
incapable of meeting the deadline. And then they wonder why there is
no time for them or they go and ask Quimbanda, but Quimbanda does
not know the schedule . . . that is my job, it is not his job. It makes life im-
mensely complicated. I send out a form at the end of the month for people
to pay for usage. The same person will never pay on time, she never has
the money, I spend my time chasing her on stupid things. It is a job that
should get done quickly. Yet one or two people always come in and screw
it up. It gets difficult and frustrating. She wants a lot of time because she
has a lot of samples to run, but she does not play by the rules.
. . . the more users we get, it is like a thoroughbred, and if you get people
treating her badly, even if they do not realize they are doing it or it is the
way they were doing it in another lab or elsewhere with an older machine,
you end up breaking it. The samples have to be run very consistently. Each
time we run a magazine of samples we run a standard. We know what
the number should be. You should try to use the same conditions, so you
know you are getting reproducibility. I was looking at the log of standard
data and the way some people are running it and thought, ‘Oh my God.’
The status of the reproducibility of the lab becomes questionable if peo-
ple do what they like or do not follow the guide. It screws up everyone
when the lab’s reproducibility is off, because people ask what the standard
results are and I show them this mishmash of dirty printouts, which is
no good. And then their data does not stand up to scrutiny when they
publish.
When you publish data you want to make sure it is comparable to the data
of others. You say I have these numbers from this area and I will plot this
data over here and you want to put them all on the same diagram and if
they are different those differences are real, not just because analysis was
wrong and just 10ppm off in one direction. Standards are how we keep
our lab reproducible and know we have the right numbers. You have to
know your data is real and you only do that by running standards and
measuring things correctly, and running duplicates to ensure you get the
same results. You cannot generate any old number to six decimal places.
You have to say how you crushed things, leached them, dissolved them,
measured them, what the standard reproducibility of the lab is, so people
can judge whether they can believe your results.
prevent the detrimental effects that deviancy could have for relations
with the broader earth sciences community. It is crucial that the emo-
tional experience of inter- and intra-lab relations be of confidence, so
that scientists will be continually enrolled in the lab’s projects. Again,
when Nell took a medical leave, lab relations broke down and very
little research was carried out. As Quimbanda stated, ‘since her ab-
sence there has been basically no one in the lab . . . the machine is
sitting down there most of the time not being used.’ In the absence of
Nell, no one can manage the site, leaving the future of the laboratory-
cum-organization more open-ended than the scientists, especially
Quimbanda, would like.
Discussion
Conclusion
Using the example of laboratory work, this chapter has considered the
relationship between emotions and objects within organizations. The
organizational studies literature has hitherto ignored how emotions
are generated in relation to objects and how these emotions matter to
the work conducted in organizations, which has been our rationale for
this research. The work of lab science is accomplished through relations
between objects and human scientists as well as larger research com-
munities. We have sought to show that emotions concerning objects are
integral to the work done in science organizations as far as they influ-
ence the formation and maintenance of emotional climates. The emo-
tional climate of the spectrometry group is shaped by Shiri’s capacities
and Quimbanda’s attempts at stabilizing them. The process of capacity
stabilization attempts is frustrating due to persistent failure. Small joys
emerge when success is achieved in any degree. Object-centred social-
ity in lab work is riddled with failure and so brings with it the same
vacillating emotional experience as human-centred sociality (Suchman
2005; Orr 1996). Not everyone in the lab shares the same level of emo-
tional involvement with Shiri as does Quimbanda, nor do all the group
members experience the emotions of joy and frustration in the same
way. Overall, the group feeling generated in the dynamic interaction of
different objects and humans leads to a collective effervescence. Main-
tenance of the emotional climate, however, involves a frustrating set of
tasks, such as time managing other scientists who disregard the orga-
nizational practices and protocol of the lab. The emotional climate can
dissipate, and organizational practices can come to a halt when group
members integral to maintaining these lab relations are absent.
We have told a story about the relationship between emotions and
objects in organizations using scientists’ narratives as it regards their
work. Storytelling and use of metaphors are a rich source of creating
meaning as it concerns work in organizations. Consideration of the
stories and metaphors that workers share about their work also al-
lows organizational studies scholars a method of analysing workplace
gender subordination (Czarniawska 2004). ‘Shiri’ is a fluid object,
an object that is always changing in terms of how people relate to it.
Even the scientists’ narratives concerning Shiri oscillate in and out of
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NOTES
1 We thank Seantel Anaïs, Mike Mopas, Chris Hurl, and Robyn Smith for
their comments.
2 Our position, that emotions are the experience of relations with objects
and humans, is contrary to depictions that describe relations with objects
as perverse. Williams (1998) argues that being lost in relations with cyber
objects is ‘the depth of emotional experience, warmth and understanding
which comes from embodied gestures such as being “touched” by another
human being through face-to-face contact and physical co-presence in the
real world’ (128). Setting up a false dichotomy between humans and the
technological, Williams eschews how humans relate with objects, and the
emotions experienced therein.
3 Field notes were gathered by shadowing the earth scientists at work
(McDonald 2005; Bruni 2005). Fineman and Sturdy (1999) argue that
shadowing is a solid method of researching emotions in action. Going
through the various earth science labs gave us insight into organizational
practices we otherwise may have not adequately understood.
11 Emotional Deviance and
Mental Disorder
peg gy a. tho it s
Introduction
vary from culture to culture (Kleinman and Good 1985; Shweder 1994)
and over time within cultures (e.g., Jutel 2009; Kirk and Kutchins 1992;
Kleinman and Kleinman 1985). Second, sociologists emphasize that as-
sessments of disorder are often far less reliable than measures of many
physical conditions, and psychiatrists frequently disagree substantially
about which diagnoses apply to patients depicted in standardized case
histories or videotaped interviews (Aboraya et al. 2006; Garb 1997;
Kirk and Kutchins 1992). Third, sociologists are aware that the inclu-
sion, exclusion, and reclassification of disorders is done by experts in
committees, who frequently are lobbied about proposed alterations
by powerful interest groups such as insurance companies, gay rights
groups, military veterans groups, and feminists, among others (Figert
1995; Kirk and Kutchins 1992; Mayes and Horwitz 2005). In short, so-
cial scientists return repeatedly to the idea that mental disorders are
shaped, negotiated, or constructed through social or political processes.
These negotiation and construction processes are most obvious when
one reads through successive versions of the Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSMs, published by the American Psy-
chiatric Association in 1952, 1968, 1980, 1987, 1994, and 2000 (1987 and
2000 are revisions of DSM-III and DSM-IV, respectively). Many changes
are of note: neuroses have been dropped from the manuals’ terminol-
ogy; numerous disorders have been renamed; the diagnostic criteria for
all disorders have been much more carefully delineated; multiple sub-
types of major disorders have been distinguished; homosexuality has
been eliminated as a form of psychopathology; many disorders have
been added, including Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), caffeine-
and nicotine-related and pathological gambling disorders; contributing
committees and their members are now listed in the manuals; and tenta-
tive new diagnoses are described at the backs of recent editions. Mean-
while, contentious debates go on in both the popular and professional
press regarding the pros and cons of proposed changes. Due to the fact
that the DSM is the clinician’s ‘Bible,’ it is clear that what are consid-
ered mental disorders are periodically being refined, re-conceptualized,
and reconstructed over time. To repeat, I am not arguing that psycho-
pathologies are ‘only’ social constructions. Yes, the boundary around
the broader concept of mental disorder can expand or shrink and the
boundaries around various disorders are renegotiated (Jutel 2009). But
most sociologists accept that there is something inside those boundaries
that is real and problematic and cannot be dismissed as a mere social
construction (see also Williams 2000).
204 Peggy A. Thoits
The essential features of Bulimia Nervosa are binge eating and inappropri-
ate compensatory methods to prevent weight gain. In addition, the self-
evaluation of individuals with Bulimia Nervosa is excessively influenced
by body shape and weight . . . A binge is defined as eating in a discrete
206 Peggy A. Thoits
period of time an amount of food that is definitely larger than most individuals
would eat under similar circumstances. (APA 2000:589)
The point here is not that these judgments are subjective and prone to
possible errors or wide interpretive variations, although one certainly
can see why inter-subjective agreement among clinicians is often far
from perfect. Instead, the point is a normative one: professionals di-
agnose mental disorders on the basis of shared cultural standards or
norms. When individuals behave in normatively ‘unexpected,’ ‘in-
appropriate,’ ‘excessive,’ or ‘unreasonable’ ways that are distressing,
impairing, or harmful, they are exhibiting symptoms of psychiatric
disorder.
Emotional Deviance
The intensity, duration, or frequency of the anxiety and worry [an essential
feature of Generalized Anxiety Disorder] is far out of proportion to the ac-
tual likelihood or impact of the feared event. (473)
Once again the normative bases of these judgments are clear. A lack
of appropriate guilt, excessive smiling or laughing, disproportionate
anxiety, and excessive distress are violations of emotion norms. In these
examples, the emotions are outside the acceptable range or the accept-
able intensity of emotions that a person is culturally expected to feel
or display. A skeptic, however, might point out that these excerpts are
descriptions that are found in the explanatory text of the manuals. To
what extent are deviant feelings or expressive behaviours used as es-
sential defining criteria for psychiatric diagnoses?
Table 1
Types of Disorders in DSM-IV-TR (APA 2000)a
Table 2
Among Those with Any Psychiatric Disorder in the Past Year (Ages 15–55)a
those of depression and anxiety (e.g., feeling sad, feeling blue, feeling
no interest in things, feeling tense, feeling nervous for no obvious rea-
son, worrying constantly). Symptoms of depression and anxiety are
highly correlated, and, when assessed together in the same instrument,
indicate a state of generalized psychological distress (Mirowsky and
Ross 2003). Depression, anxiety, and distress scales ask how often over
the past week, month, or six months the respondent has experienced
each symptom. Responses (e.g., never, sometimes, often, very often)
are then summed into total symptom scores, running from lowdepres-
sion/anxiety/distress scores to high. Prolonged feelings of depression,
anxiety, or distress represent moods, that is, emotional states that in-
creasingly become unrelated to their initiating situational stimuli over
time. Emotional states that appear unrelated to the person’s present cir-
cumstances will be perceived by others as deviant. In essence, commu-
nity mental health researchers are measuring emotional deviance when
they estimate the prevalence of non-specific mental health problems in
community samples.
Table 3
Percentages of General Social Survey Respondents Who Believed the Vignette
Character Was Experiencing Mental Illnessa
1996 2006
Vignette Character:
Schizophrenia 88.1 93.7
Alcohol Dependence 48.7 50.9
Cocaine Dependence 43.5 n.a.
Major Depression 69.1 75.2
Ordinary Troubles 21.5 29.9
Total N 1356 1373
a
Percents summarize respondents who thought it was ‘somewhat likely’ or ‘very likely’
that the vignette character was experiencing mental illness.
her what to do) and behavioural deviance (he/she retreated from work
and family, spending most days in his room) for a prolonged period
of time (six months). It is also clear in Table 3 that survey participants
were uncertain whether alcohol and cocaine addictions should be clas-
sified as mental illness. Of central importance, the percentages show
that respondents distinguished sharply between the depressed and the
troubled vignette characters.
The depressed character felt down for two weeks, had a flat, heavy
feeling all day, felt no pleasure even when good things happened,
could not concentrate, was constantly tired, could not sleep at night,
felt worthless and discouraged, and had pulled away from his family
for the past month. The troubled character sometimes felt worried, a
little sad, and had trouble sleeping at night, believed things bothered
him/her more than they do other people, was sometimes nervous or
annoyed when things went wrong but, in general, enjoyed being with
other people and was getting along with his/her family. Clearly, the
negative affect of the depressed character was prolonged and unre-
sponsive to positive changes in his/her life while the troubled charac-
ter was only intermittently worried, annoyed, or sad in response to life
changes.
Despite the fact that survey respondents heard the description
of only one vignette character (so they could not make comparisons
among characters’ symptoms), they recognized the persistent negative
214 Peggy A. Thoits
Assuming that emotional deviance does play a central role in the rec-
ognition of psychological disturbance by professionals and laypersons,
there is a further point to be made: what is viewed as emotional de-
viance depends on individuals’ underlying ideological orientations or
frames. As noted earlier, norms vary across societies and across sub-
groups within a society. This is because social groups differ in their cul-
tures, or more specifically, in their cultural ideologies. Ideologies can be
viewed as systems of ideas (assumptions, beliefs, values, and attitudes)
that are shared by collectivities or interest groups (Purvis and Hunt
1993; Hall 1986; Swidler 1986). Drawing from Gramsci, Hall (1986:22)
points out, ‘There is never any one, single, unified and coherent “domi-
nant ideology” that pervades everything,’ but instead there are many
systems of thought promoted by political, religious, economic, class, ra-
cial, ethnic, and other interest groups within societies. Ideologies guide
practical activities and are manifest in individual and collective life
(Hall 1986:20). Social norms are integral aspects of ideologies because
norms are beliefs about what is valuable and appropriate for individuals
to think, feel, or do in everyday life. It follows that emotion norms, and
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Table 4
Mean Emotional Deviance Scores by Gender and Gender-Role Ideology
Men Women
Men Women
both socially and politically. The political ideology of the era framed
the meaning of patients’ symptoms.
Studies of gender, race, and social class biases in clinicians’ judgments
also hint at the influence of ideological beliefs. A careful literature re-
view by Garb (1997) showed that symptomatic individuals’ status char-
acteristics do not sway clinicians’ judgments when they are assessing
the patient’s need for hospitalization, the need for involuntary commit-
ment, or the severity of illness (see also Thoits 2005; Thoits and Evenson
2008). Social status biases become evident, however, when clinicians
assign specific diagnoses (Garb 1997; Loring and Powell 1988; Dixon,
Gordon, and Khomusi 1995). For example, histrionic personality dis-
order (characterized by ‘a pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality
and attention seeking’ [APA 2000:714]) is more often attributed to fe-
male patients, while antisocial personality disorder (characterized by
indifference to the rights of others, repeated physical fights or assaults,
deceitfulness, and unlawful behaviour) is more frequently assigned to
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Table 5
Diagnoses Selected by Psychiatrists, Cross-Classified by the Gender and Race of the
Psychiatrist and the Described Patient
Psychiatrist
WM BM WF BF
male patients with the same symptoms (Garb 1997), patterns consistent
with gender stereotypes.
Perhaps the most compelling example of systematic errors in clini-
cians’ judgments can be found in a now-classic study by Loring and
Powell (1988). They drew a random sample of psychiatrists from the
members of the American Psychiatric Association, sent them actual case
studies of patients who were displaying DSM-III symptoms of undif-
ferentiated schizophrenia, and asked the psychiatrists to identify the
proper diagnosis for each case from a list of possible diagnoses. The
case descriptions differed in only one respect across respondents:
the patients in the case studies were randomly described as a white
male, a white female, a black male, a black female, or no information
about the race and sex of the patient was provided. Table 5 (above) sum-
marizes the results from the Loring and Powell study. The cells of the
table list the diagnosis that was chosen by the majority of psychiatrists
who read each case.
When no information was given about the sex or race of the patient
(the row labelled ‘NI’), the majority of psychiatrists correctly identi-
fied the patient as suffering from undifferentiated schizophrenia. How-
ever, when psychiatrists misclassified patients, they did so in directions
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Conclusions
NOTES
jillia n deri
Introduction
(often called poly by its practitioners) differs from swinging in its em-
phasis on emotional intimacy and longer-term commitments. Poly-
amory differs from polygamy (wherein a husband can have several
wives) in its emphasis on gender equality. In polyamory both men
and women are free to have multiple partners. Polyamory also dif-
fers from adultery in its focus on honesty, consent, and full disclo-
sure by all parties involved (Sheff 2005). The word polyamory (coined
from within the community) is used to describe a sexual identity,
sexual preference, practice, and/or philosophy. Unlike many sexual
minorities who were named by scientific ‘experts,’ polyamorists con-
tinually work to have polyamory recognized as a sexual category and
to educate psychological institutions about care for the community
(Weitzman 1999, 2006).
Polyamorists resist the intersecting regulation of emotion and sexual-
ity and create alternatives that better meet their needs. First, polyamor-
ists critique the institution of monogamy and its accompanying norms
of emotions, sexism, and heterosexism. Second, polyamorists re-craft
their understanding of love, relationships, sexuality, and emotions in
ways that minimize instances of jealousy. They strive to replace jeal-
ousy with compersion, a term used by polyamorous people to describe
feelings of pleasure in response to a lover’s romantic and/or sexual en-
counters outside the relationship. Polyamorists question how the dom-
inance of monogamy shapes our emotion world (i.e., the encompassing
way in which a culture’s words and concepts shape people’s emotional
responses (see Plummer 2001)). This includes the idea that sexual ex-
clusivity is the epitome of love and commitment and that any diversion
from this path should be met with distrust and jealousy. In response,
polyamory offers alternate values and ideas about emotions. Jealousy
is not inevitable or intolerable and the parameters of relationships are
flexible. Polyamorists re-imagine and re-craft their preferred guidelines
of sexuality by creating norms and strategies that steer their practice as
a culture. These rules include ways to initiate communication, nego-
tiate boundaries, and structure disclosure. By doing so, polyamorists
create a lifestyle where compersion is not only possible, but actually
common. While not always successful in practice, these ideas inform
the culture of polyamory and shape polyamorists’ embodied experi-
ence of jealousy.
For this chapter, I begin with an overview of the sociological re-
search on jealousy and polyamory. Then I discuss how polyamorists
Polyamory or Polyagony? 225
The use of the term jealousy varies both in academia and lay discourse.
People differ in their description of how it feels, the events that ‘cause’
it, and the behaviours associated with it. Guerrero (Guerrero, Trost,
and Yoshimura 2005) defines romantic jealousy as ‘a multi-faceted set
of affective, behavioural, and cognitive responses that occur when the
existence and/or quality of a person’s primary relationship is threat-
ened by a third party’ (233). While this definition is based on primary
relationships, I argue that any relationship can be subject to jealousy.
Also, Guerrero’s definition does not make the distinction between real
or imagined threats. My study looks at how people manage jealousy in
relationships where the inclusion of a ‘third party’ is openly negotiated
and thus the absence of other lovers is not the preferred strategy to
mitigate jealousy. Jealousy is a complex emotional experience that com-
bines many primary emotions, including fear, anger, sadness, betrayal,
and hurt (Turner and Stets 2005; Stearns 1989), and it is for this reason
that some theorists are reluctant to call it an emotion on its own (Hupka
1984). Hence for many theorists, jealousy refers to the emotion, feeling,
character trait, and/or ’emotional episode’ of a situation, a multitude of
feelings related to the situation, actions, and often a resolution (Parrott
1991:4). Polyamorists recognize jealousy as part of a spectrum of emo-
tions, ranging from polyagony to tolerance or indifference.
It is useful to distinguish between two types of jealousy: suspicious
and fait accompli jealousy (Parrott 1991) that follows the division be-
tween real and imagined threats. Suspicious jealousy is the feeling of
distrust or doubt in relation to a partner’s unfaithfulness and/or com-
mitment to the relationship. Fait accompli jealousy is where the threat
or ‘rival’ is known and/or the relationship is in real jeopardy, such as
when a lover has left one person for another. Envy can also be subdi-
vided into two groups: malicious versus non-malicious envy (Parrott
1991). Non-malicious envy is the feeling of wanting something that
someone else has (such as a relationship with a certain person). Mali-
cious envy is the feeling of wanting someone not to have the object/
subject that you desire and wanting bad things to occur to this person in
relation to the desired object/subject. Malicious envy is reminiscent of
the German term schadenfreude, which is the feeling of taking pleasure
in another’s misfortune. To want an object is simply desire, but mali-
cious envy is the adverse feeling in relation to this desire. Fait accompli
jealousy frequently accompanies malicious envy when a person wishes
Polyamory or Polyagony? 227
bad fortune upon their romantic rival, which might explain why some
people’s jealous anger is directed towards the rival rather than towards
the lover (Yates 2007).
Georg Simmel (1955) notes that jealousy and envy require a feeling
of entitlement regarding the possession of an object/subject. Similarly,
Candida Yates (2007) argues that sometimes envy is about possession
for ‘possession’s sake’ as opposed to actually wanting the object/sub-
ject. This urge towards possession may reveal one’s own ‘narcissistic
fragility, something that provokes envy of the other’s apparent com-
pleteness’ (25). Simmel (1955) also notes a third distinction within the
family of envy and jealousy – begrudging, which he defines as ‘the en-
vious desire of an object, not because it is especially desirable but be-
cause the other has it [and it is] accompanied by the utter unbearability
of the thought that the other possesses it’ (51).
Jealousy is manifested on/in the body with physical and psycho-
logical symptoms. Culture plays a role in how jealousy is experienced,
how one appraises the situation in which it arises, and how jealousy
is expressed. Jealousy is a social emotion in that it is experienced in
relation to another person (real or imagined) (Parkinson 2005). Conse-
quently, I ground my theory in work that links sociological, cultural,
and biological processes in the formation, experience, and expression
of emotion (William and Bendelow 1996). Ahmed (2004) argues that
‘rather than seeing emotions as psychological dispositions, we need
to consider how they work, in concrete and particular ways, to medi-
ate the relationship between the psychic and the social, and between
the individual and collective’ (27). Additionally, Harding and Pribram
(2004) argue that even though emotions tend to be understood as indi-
vidual and private affairs, ’emotions are formed and function as part
of the historical, cultural, and political contexts in which they are prac-
ticed to reproduce, and potentially resist, hegemonic relations’ (865).
I investigate how polyamorists’ cultural beliefs (not solely individual
beliefs) translate into embodied feelings, for instance both enabling and
preventing the experiences of jealousy and compersion. Ahmed sug-
gests that collective sensations are transformed into ‘an act of reading
and recognition’ (2004:29), so that internalized cultural practices and
embodied ideas reveal themselves narratively. Through this academic
and narrative research, the emotion of jealousy is revealed to be at once
a function of social ideas about love, monogamy, and polyamory, and
is experienced as bodily sensations that are interpreted by conscious
understandings of those feelings.
228 Jillian Deri
reasons for its cause, and instead of acting jealous, one must calmly use
psychological vocabulary (Zembylas and Fendler 2007). When emo-
tions are expressed this way, it is assumed that people are speaking
their truth and are taking care of themselves (Zembylas and Fendler
2007). Most other expressions of jealousy are seen as ’emotional’ or ‘ex-
cessive.’ An understanding of that which is labelled emotional requires
an analysis of gender, race, class, and ability, since women, people of
colour, the working class, and people with disabilities are dispropor-
tionally thought to be over-reacting or ‘over the top’ (Harding and Pri-
bram 2002, 2004; Parkinson 2005). Kleese (2006) argues that ‘jealousy is
constructed in a way that justifies the control of women’s bodies and
sexuality and has the potential to legitimize all kinds of male violence
and atrocities’ (647). Relatively, there is more room for women to ex-
press their emotions, as a man who is emotive is more likely to have
his masculinity called into question (Jackson 1993). However, women
who act on, rather than verbalize their jealousy-inspired emotions that
do not fit conventional gender roles, such as anger, are seen as inap-
propriate. Crying may be seen as a feminine expression of an emotion,
but too much crying is deemed hysterical. ‘Normal’ jealousy can be
expressed in flirtatious jest, but excessive jealousy is seen as a sign of
character weakness, low self-esteem, or even insanity (Clanton 2001).
Jealousy is further complicated by the way some people take pleasure
in knowing that someone is jealous of them, and might even try to elicit
this response in others.
Prior to 1970, jealousy was usually described as a ‘proof of love,’ co-
inciding with that period’s emphasis on commitment in relationships.
Since the Sexual Revolution, with its emphasis on personal freedom,
jealousy has been understood as a defective characteristic of a person
who is unable to trust, ‘unduly possessive, insecure, and suffering from
low self-esteem’ (Clanton 2001: 160). Clanton (1996) evinces that ‘jeal-
ousy is a socially-constructed emotion that changes to reflect changes
in marriage rules, the adultery taboo, and gender roles’ (173). I argue
that polyamorous discourse has the potential to further shift our un-
derstanding of jealousy. If polyamorous discourse increases in cultural
representation, compersion may become more common. Not all poly-
amorous people are good at alleviating jealousy, and at times they rein-
force or repeat conventional manifestations of jealousy. The discourse
on polyamory challenges hegemonic structures of emotion by exposing
the cultural ideologies of jealousy while concurrently developing its
230 Jillian Deri
own set of norms about jealousy. Polyamorous people are not the only
ones who experience compersion; they are, however, actively dissemi-
nating this concept.
A popular view within polyamorous (poly) culture is that jealousy is
an emotion over which people have a great deal of control. Easton and
Liszt (1997) argue that jealousy is not something that is caused by one’s
partner and therefore cannot be blamed on her/him. Instead, jealousy
originates within oneself and thus is one’s own responsibility. By this
argument, the feeling of jealousy or behaving jealously will not change
a partner’s actions. The one who suffers most is the one feeling jealous.
Easton and Liszt (1997) describe jealousy as an emotion that cannot be
experienced in isolation, but rather is representative of other feelings,
such as low self-esteem, insecurity, or dissatisfaction with the relation-
ship. They argue that because jealousy is related to these unfavourable
emotions, it is also linked to a feeling of shame, which can prevent
acknowledgment and mitigation of jealousy. Similarly, in his popu-
lar online essay, Veaux (2009) argues that within open relationships,
jealousy needs to be addressed by looking at underlying emotional is-
sues rather than changing the actions that are the surface triggers of
jealousy, otherwise patterns will repeat themselves. Taormino (2008)
argues that it is important to let yourself feel any remaining jealousy
and validate whatever feelings you have, instead of ‘criticiz(ing) your-
self or pil(ing) shame and judgment on top of it – that will just make
you feel worse’ (162). Additionally, Taormino argues that one must be-
lieve that loving multiple people is possible in order to be successful
in open relationships. She contends, ‘If you don’t, you will always see
other people and other relationships as infringing on and threatening
to yours’ (158).
Easton notes that the dominant model for dealing with negative emo-
tions is to deny and avoid them. She argues instead for a socio-political
analysis of personal experiences of jealousy that encourages full expres-
sion of all emotions (Easton, in Kleese 2006:646). In her popular online
essay, Labriola suggests that polyamorous people need to rewrite pop-
ular myths about love and relationships.1 For example, there is a core
myth that ‘if a partner really loved me, (s)he wouldn’t have any desire
for a sexual relationship with anyone else.’ She re-writes this myth into,
‘My partner loves me so much that (s)he trusts our relationship to ex-
pand and be enriched by experiencing even more love from others.’ My
research looks at how these polyamorous ideas are actualized in a way
that makes embodied experiences of compersion possible.
Polyamory or Polyagony? 231
actively polyamorous, and thus they easily trusted their partner’s out-
side sexual and emotional actions. Strategic trusters, on the other hand,
depend on accumulated information. They approached polyamory
with skepticism and hoped to overcome distrustfulness once people
proved themselves. While their core reasons for practising polyamory
were strong (i.e., philosophically based or towards a more realistic por-
trayal of their love), they had to work hard to trust the intentions of
their partners and cohearts. Moralistic trusters had an easier time with
compersion. Some participants straddled both sides of the fence, such
as Coraline, who stated, ‘You trust what you know,’ and thus she ap-
proached her relationships not with a lack of trust but with an optimis-
tic lack of expectations.
The above polyamorous narratives lead one to ask why polyamor-
ists continue to practise polyamory through such difficult emotions.
My research indicates that the answer is manifold. First, while jealousy
within polyamory can be hard, there is jealousy in monogamous prac-
tice as well. Second, once tools are in place to manage difficult emo-
tions like jealousy, it is experienced less negatively. Most polyamorists
stated that jealousy was more common in their early experiences of
polyamory and became increasingly rare. Third, the tools in place to
mitigate jealousy in polyamorists’ relationships could be applied to
other difficult emotions. Fourth, my participants described polyamory
as a much more realistic and freeing expression of their love than mo-
nogamy would be, and thus welcomed the full package. They see poly-
amory as no less normal than monogamy, just less common. Fifth, the
benefits of polyamory outweigh the difficult feelings, and the pleasure
found in compersion was particularly satisfying. Sixth, the challenge of
polyamory and its ensuing opportunity for growth was highly gratify-
ing. And lastly, the sexual enjoyment was a significant benefit to poly-
amorous practice.
Studies have shown that open relationships correlate to increased
self-esteem and self-knowledge (Wolfe 2003), personal empowerment
(Sheff 2005; Weitzman 1999), and ‘boosts in sexual self-confidence . . .
and [the] dissolution of jealousy’ (De Visser and McDonald 2007:69).
My study reveals similar results. One participant, Cheyenne, talked
about polyamory as empowering, and felt a great deal of pride and
satisfaction in bringing her jealousy to a place of solid compersion: ‘You
know those moments when you feel really proud of yourself about the
way you live and what you do. Like, “Look at us!” And I do, I feel so
attached to that word [compersion], really excited that I do receive so
238 Jillian Deri
much pleasure from my partner being off with someone else and hav-
ing a great night. I want to hear about it the next day in whatever degree
of detail they want to give me. And that’s fun.’ Another participant,
Nora, responded: ‘It is all worthwhile for me to do it. It’s a beautiful
thing. It’s like getting your cake and eating it too. Even if it means the
making of the cake is six times longer, it’s worth it. It’s the most difficult
cake in the universe to make.’
While most polyamorists maintain ‘It’s not all about the sex,’3 the
sexual benefits of polyamory were frequently mentioned in the in-
terviews. Several polyamorists talked about eroticizing what may
have otherwise triggered jealousy (such as a partner having sex with
someone else), thus converting a potentially painful event into one
of pleasure. Research on swinging has also demonstrated that certain
situations that are ripe for jealousy had an erotically stimulating effect
on swingers (De Visser and McDonald 2007; Gould 2000). Similarly,
Stearns (1989:15) notes that a certain amount of jealousy can ‘provide
some enjoyable spice.’ Many polyamorists report that having outside
sexual experiences increases their overall libido and that this increase
transfers to their other partners. One participant expressed a strong
sense of sexual compersion: ‘If my lover has a lover who I am friends
with or who I like, and this is about 98 per cent of the time, watching
them hug, kiss, snuggle, love, have sex with that person is so hot I could
almost die from it. It’s not even a vague pleasure. It’s like Oh my God,
right. It’s the hottest thing ever. Ever. And the better I like the person
that my lover is having sex with, the hotter it is.’ Heloise described an-
other aspect of compersion: ‘It’s funny because if you look at the “How
do you know if your spouse is cheating” [article in a magazine] and
some of the big signs are, he’s suddenly bringing you gifts, they’re tell-
ing you they love you more, and you are having more sex. And I’m like
“Right, what’s wrong with that?” Okay, so find out who they are cheat-
ing with so they stop doing all those wonderful things for you. I mean
the concept is that they are doing it out of guilt, but it could be that they
are feeling more sexual and more loving and more gregarious.’
Even though it is often neglected in sociological research, love is cen-
tral to Western culture (Jackson 1993). Love, of course, is also a central
organizing principle within polyamory. Love’s shadow is jealousy –
and jealousy plays a significant role in the polyamorous experience,
either by its presence or its absence. The more people open their hearts
to truly open relationships, the more vulnerable they are to the expe-
rience of jealousy, or, alternatively, the more they can conquer love’s
Polyamory or Polyagony? 239
Conclusion
NOTES
1 http://www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef/Poly/Labriola/jealousy.html.
2 All names are pseudonyms.
3 A polyamorous slogan made popular by CunningMinx’s podcast
Polyamory Weekly.
13 Feeling Cosmopolitan: Experiential
Brands and Urban Cosmopolitan
Sensibilities
sonia boo km a n
Introduction
Approaching Emotion
these feelings . . .’ (154). At the same time, feelings are never fully ex-
hausted through the ’emotional vocabularies’ used to identify and ex-
press them. Delineated in this way, Burkitt’s notion of feeling is akin
to Thrift’s view of affect, both of which are closely associated with, yet
exceed emotion, involve embodied, practical consciousness, shape dis-
positions, and give rise to action. However, I prefer Thrift’s somewhat
more mobile view of affect as a set of flows that moves through bodies,
which constantly receive, transmit, and interpret affects or feelings. In
this chapter I use both terms at different times to discuss processes re-
lated to emotional branding.
To elaborate on feeling in the context of social relations, Burkitt refers
to Williams’s (1977) idea of ‘structures of feeling.’ Williams is attempt-
ing to understand the processual, emergent dimension of cultural and
social forms – how they are lived and experienced in the present as
unarticulated, unfixed, and in the process of becoming. He is interested
in general changes with social life, and defines such change in terms of
‘style,’ referring to a ‘particular quality of social experience and rela-
tionship’ (131). Williams uses the notion of structures of feeling to indi-
cate how such changes in social meanings and values ‘are actively lived
and felt’ in terms of a ‘practical consciousness of a present kind, in a
living and interrelating continuity’ (132). Williams suggests that struc-
tures of feeling enable us to understand ‘our present cultural process,’
and can be especially discerned in forms of art – ‘social formations of
a specific kind’ – where social content tends to be ‘of this present and
affective kind’ (133).
This notion is used by Nava (2002) in her work on the emergence
of a popular cosmopolitan consciousness in the commercial culture of
early twentieth-century England. In her study, she traces how women
in particular, through the consumption of global fashion and décor, ex-
pressed and contributed to the formation of a cosmopolitan ‘structure
of feeling’ in which ‘cultural difference and the foreign constituted a
source of interest, pleasure and counter-identification that existed in
tension with more conservative outlooks’ in that particular time and
place (86). Drawing attention to the affective dimension of cosmopol-
itanism, which is largely understood as an intellectual and aesthetic
stance, Nava’s work provides a useful way of thinking about cosmo-
politanism as a particular way of feeling; an emotional disposition
(Nava 2002, 2007). She also indicates that it is mediated through inter-
actions with consumerist objects, and is generated in specific practices
and performances.
244 Sonia Bookman
Emotional Branding
Now the advertising is not what’s important, it’s more about the experi-
ence. The building of the brand is really about your experience, the way
you build a brand is one experience at a time, fulfilling the expectations of
each consumer every time.
– Greg, VP Operations, Second Cup
Starbucks and Second Cup have been at the vanguard of the trend
towards emotional branding. Starting out in the form of a retail store
selling high-quality coffee beans to a small target market of discerning
middle-class consumers in the 1970s, both brands quickly evolved in
the 1980s to their current predominant form as a streetfront café. Ex-
panding tremendously throughout the 1990s and into the next decade,
these branded cafés are a prominent feature of Canadian cityscapes,
and the café culture they promote is now an integral aspect of everyday
life for many middle-class urbanites.
Premised on the provision of customized, gourmet coffee in a styl-
ized, social, café setting, both Starbucks and Second Cup can be de-
fined as experiential brands, a term used to designate those brands
Feeling Cosmopolitan 247
‘I like to think of the cafés as the third place, so customers have their home
and their work, and Starbucks is, and for a lot of people, the third place that
they go to. So when you go in you’ll see warm colours making you relax,
the music is generally jazzy, which is also relaxing, it’s not invasive, it’s just
there . . . um, we always put in every store we possibly can a space for couches,
chairs, in some stores we have a fireplace . . . the ambiance and atmosphere is
all about creating a very comfortable space where you can come, have your
cup of coffee, read a paper if you want, or visit with a friend.’
Of particular interest for this chapter, and thus elaborated in more depth,
is the romance of coffee drinking, which is linked to a ‘cosmopolitan
Feeling Cosmopolitan 249
chris: Just being exposed to the fact that there’s lots of different variet-
ies from all over the world; I didn’t think about that too much before
Starbucks culture came about . . . I guess that’s where the gourmet, that’s
where it comes in, when people start becoming attuned to the various
tastes of the various countries and regions, it’s almost become like a
wine, to some degree. Um, but the environment itself tends to lend to
that as well, right, they have that sort of, now I can’t say that this one
has that, but um, yeah at various points throughout their décor, through-
out the year, they tend to sort of have that travel theme happening
Feeling Cosmopolitan 253
I think. Almost like, I don’t know if this is accurate, but it’s almost that
travel-stamps-on-the-side-of-a-suitcase type of feel.
interviewer: Where do you get that from?
chris: From the décor. Not this particular décor, but in general that’s a com-
mon theme in Starbucks.
interviewer: So, do you get a sense of travel and adventure, being here?
chris: Hmmm, I don’t know if it’s travel and adventure, or if it’s more of a
sort of cosmopolitan feel. That’s more accurate.
Um, okay, North American cosmopolitan cool is jazz, Miles Davis, Ameri-
can Indie movies, more like modern. I tend to associate North Americans
who adhere or latch onto European things as, I guess there’s people that
seem to consume things that have greater legitimacy as a result of their
classical old status, or ballet, opera, Shakespeare . . . These guys give
greater legitimacy to things that are older. So in contrast to that, North
American urban cool would be much more avant-garde in the sense that
it’s looking at things that are very recent . . . European cool would be like
the Stratford Festival or Shaw Festival, whereas North American cosmo-
politan cool would be like the newest plays.
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I think it [Second Cup] is trying to project that image [as being cosmo-
politan], and the people who are going there are also trying to project that
image. Um, here on this street corner it is relatively multicultural, but a
Second Cup in North York is going to be all white, and yet the people in
there are somehow in some sense thinking of themselves as taking part in
the world culture or something like that . . . I know there’s tons of Star-
bucks in suburbs and in smallish towns, and that’s one of the things that’s
attractive about them, is that you can be in a strip mall in an utterly homo-
geneous area and you can think of yourself as taking part in; it’s project-
ing itself as being urban and as being worldwide, so you get to think of
yourselves as a big city person who knows about the world.
Conclusion
NOTES
joyc e davids o n a nd m i ck s m i th 1
Introduction
or even a place, than they feel like other people. What would that even
mean, and what are the implications of asking such questions?
between autistic people and animals: autistic people have mostly simple
emotions, too. That’s why normal people describe us as innocent. An au-
tistic person’s feelings are direct and open, just like animal feelings. We
don’t hide our feelings, and we aren’t ambivalent. (Grandin 2005:89)
Autistic people can think the way animals think. Of course, we also think
the way people think – we aren’t that different from normal humans. Au-
tism is a kind of way station on the road from animals to humans, which
puts autistic people like me in a perfect position to translate ‘animal talk’
into English. (6–7)
might be taken to render those with ASD ‘less than fully human,’ her
account, like those of other ASD authors, actually offers an interpreta-
tive opening on autistic emotional geographies that would otherwise
be unavailable.
Grandin explicitly situates autism as a ‘way station’ between abili-
ties to understand animals and (non-ASD) humans, and explains this
position as one of ‘translation.’ Miller, too, claims to speak cat before
English, to have an ability to understand animals that non-ASD people
tend to lack themselves and thus fail to understand in others. Lawson
writes of understanding her dog despite (or because of) a lack of words
between them. The feelings of closeness these authors express between
themselves and other animals – the ‘love,’ ‘intimacy,’ and ‘delight’ felt
in touching the worm; the relations of ‘trust’ and ‘friendship’ with the
dog; the maternal relation posited with the cat – are all directly corre-
lated with degrees of hermeneutic intimacy; that is, in terms of the ASD
authors’ self-described experience of understanding animals, of an abil-
ity to translate between the animal’s world and their own. This claimed
fusion of horizons of understanding reflects the emotional geography
of their lives, their daily practices and behaviour; it provides and de-
limits a comfort zone.
This (hermeneutic) situation, this ability to translate, is presented as
both an explanation of (i.e., a phenomenal account) and an explana-
tion for (i.e., the cause underlying) the different feelings and relations
experienced by those with ASDs. In other words, their hermeneutic sit-
uation is inseparable from the phenomenological experience of an em-
pathic association that supposedly goes beyond the hermeneutic limits
of human language. In most cases (although again Grandin tends to be
more explicit than usual about this) the translation taking place with
those who lack (human) words is described in terms of a shared feel-
ing, an understanding of how the animals, whether cow, cat, worm, or
dog, themselves are supposed to feel. Dominant humanist approaches
would undoubtedly find such a claim implausible, regarding it as just
an example of misunderstanding the interpretative indeterminacy of
nature, of self-projection and/or wishful thinking. However, the phe-
nomenological point is not whether such understandings are actually
possible – whether Grandin, for example, does understand cows better
than any non-ASD person – but that such experiences, and such a self-
understanding, define the contours of her world. Once we bracket out
the question of how such experiences relate to ‘reality,’ we can concen-
trate on their ‘reality effects’ in terms of how they affect the emotional
More-than-Human Emotional Geographies 273
and rarely pass judgment: after all, ‘[n]o animal can be a snob’ (Ko-
jève, in Agamben 2004:11). The animal gaze can be felt to affirm rather
than weaken a sense of self and self-worth. Their gentle recognition
and (almost unconditional) acceptance seems to extend to natural envi-
ronments and ‘objects,’ experienced by some ASD authors as ‘genuine
others’ in relation to themselves. Williams (2003), for example, states: ‘I
felt in company with trees. I couldn’t distinguish between the sense of
company in being friends with a tree versus a person except the com-
pany with a tree was easier. I didn’t just climb a tree, I was in company
with it like two friends sharing beingness together [. . .] My experience
with trees is social’ (40).
This is actually very close to the kind of experience that many envi-
ronmentalists trying to defend old-growth forests from clear-cut log-
ging or road developments identify (Merrick 1996). Williams (2003)
goes on to elaborate this sense of being at ease in a style that is, in places,
strikingly reminiscent of Heidegger’s phenomenological writings:
‘I used to cry and stroke our old palm tree in my front yard, telling it in
silence all my feelings of despair and rage, but also sitting at its elephant-
like trunk-feet and jointly appreciating the day and good feelings too.
The tree, unlike people, lived a self-in-relation-to-self world. Unlike the
self-in-relation-to-other world of people, the tree was by nature indi-
rectly confrontational and good “simply being” ’ (40).
This similarity in style of expression with certain phenomenological
writings may be accidental, but the attention to phenomenal detail and
the sense of connective rather than separative ‘sociality’ does speak to
an experiential openness to the world, a kind of be-holding, that is often
lost in the hustle and bustle of social life, in what Heidegger (1988) re-
fers to as a ‘lostness in the everydayness of the they-self ’ (307), an in-
volved attitude of reciprocation that allows us to feel part of the world
rather than standing apart from it. In taking up such a stance, we cease
to be spectators, and become open to affective (emotional) contagion.
Moreover, and in terms that resonate with ASD narratives, ‘nothing is
more contagious than genuine tranquility’ (Jacoby, in Behnke 1999:109).
Many ASD accounts illustrate something of this sense of openness to
contagion, to otherness: ‘All around me I could feel the personalities of
the rocks, the trees, the grass, the hills’ (Prince-Hughes 2004:50); ‘I seem
to be able to feel the trees, the rocks, the water and voices from the past
of a land’ (MM, in Miller 2003:49).
This animistic presence and sense of agency, and even personal-
ity in nature, is not only strongly felt, but also highly valued and
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from the gorillas . . . and I began to have some success. I actually made
some friends’ (117).
The notion that nonhuman others have the capacity to teach us about
emotion is not exclusive to the writings of those with autism. However,
theorists of emotion who press beyond the anthropocentrically drawn
bounds of typical life-worlds are few and far between. Phenomenolo-
gist Alphonso Lingis (1999) is among those who do, and his questions
illuminate much that is often considered beneath us, in more ways than
one: ‘Is it not animal emotions that make our feelings intelligible? [. . .]
Is not the force of our emotions that of the other animals?’ (44). Illustrat-
ing our early affective interconnections, Lingis writes of human infants:
‘[their] first heavy toddling shifts into tripping vivacity with the robins
hopping across the lawn. They come to feel buoyancy in the midst of
the park pigeons shifting so effortlessly from ground to layers of sun-
drenched air. They come to feel sullenness from the arthritic old dog
the retired cop was walking in the park and that they try to pet. They
contract righteousness and indignation from the mother hen suddenly
ruffled up, her beak stabbing when they try to remove a chick. They
pick up feelings of smoldering wrath from the snarling chained dog in
the neighbor’s yard, and try out those feelings by snarling when they
are put under restraints or confined’ (44–5).
The dominant modern Western worldview fails to see the emotional
power and potential of our relations with non-human others. Draw-
ing lessons from ASD and other boundary-breaking perspectives, we
might begin to question the extent to which typical lives are, therefore,
restricted, emotionally impoverished, and ‘alienated’ in oddly unrec-
ognized ways, just as we might reconsider the view that people with
autism live as if ‘in a world of their own.’ ASD authors themselves ex-
plicitly challenge this view, drawing on their personal experience with
the non-human world to argue that, in fact, it is non-autistic life-worlds
that are narrowly drawn, self- (or at least human-) centred, and thus
closed to interactions with others. Turning once more to Grandin (2005)
for illustration: ‘I always find it kind of funny that normal people are
always saying autistic children “live in their own little world.” When
you work with animals for a while you start to realize you can say the
same thing about normal people. There’s a great big, beautiful world
out there that a lot of normal folks are just barely taking in. It’s like dogs
hearing a whole register of sound we can’t. Autistic people and animals
are seeing a whole register of the visual world normal people can’t, or
don’t’ (24).
More-than-Human Emotional Geographies 277
Conclusion
who shelter the development of ASD personalities and even open edu-
cative insights into human culture that later come to facilitate social
(human) contact (even if such contact remains difficult and never be-
comes ‘second nature’). Since this chapter focuses on those texts that
emphasize this most heavily, and given the necessarily selective nature
of the texts studied, it is clearly impossible to use this material to gen-
eralize about the nature of ASD experiences as a whole. Nonetheless,
it does provide important insights into many ASD lives, and the depth
and breadth of feelings associated with these non-human environments
is truly extraordinary. Recognising this also offers those without ASDs
a possibility of bringing to mind what is often lacking in ‘our’ own
taken-for-granted everyday encounters, a chance to recognize the lim-
its of the effective (and affective) history of modern Western societies.
NOTES
4 The Empty Fortress was the title given to Bettelheim’s (1967) controversial
account of what he described as the protective autistic shell.
5 While Canadian composer Glenn Gould’s candidacy for an ASD diagnosis
is a matter of some dispute, his behaviour has certainly led commentators
to reflect on this possibility. Interestingly, one biographer recounts his
penchant for spending time with and singing to cows (Ostwald 1997:93).
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Community, 10, 25, 48, 51, 90, 95, Earth sciences, 181 – 98
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Comte, A., 10 Elias, N., 138 – 59
Confidence, 12, 83, 115, 150, 193, 198, Empiricism, 43
237 Emile, 50 – 4
Consciousness, 20, 25, 31, 33, 54 – 62, Emotion culture, 11, 221
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265 – 6 153, 201, 206
Consumerism, 143 Emotion work, 65, 95, 99, 148, 201,
Control, of emotions, 38, 65, 71, 84, 206
91, 139 – 56, 202, 230 Emotional branding, 240 – 59
Cooley, C., 10 Emotional climate, 7, 12, 137 – 53,
Cosmopolitanism, 241 – 59 181 – 200
Creativity, 10, 25, 92, 103 – 22 Emotional deviance, 7, 87, 98 – 100,
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Cultural Revolution, 216 Emotional energy, 12, 194
Cultural studies, 3, 13, 41 Emotional labour, 4, 11, 65 – 6, 78, 85,
Czarniawska, B., 186 – 7 129, 248
Emotions Module, 215
Davidson, A., 105 Envy, 149, 151, 221, 226 – 39
Davidson, J., 8, 13, 260 – 78 Ethnography, 166, 174
Damasio, A., 6, 63 – 84 Evil, 105, 107, 111, 116
Death, 21, 57 – 8, 90, 114 – 15, 126, 152,
158, 205 Family, 34, 52 – 3, 92, 111, 121, 194,
De Beauvoir, S., 42, 56 213, 235, 270 – 1
De Laet, 192 Fanaticism, 103 – 9
Deleuze, G., 109, 116 – 17, 120, 122 Feeling, 5, 11
Deep acting, 6, 63 – 84, 87, 164 Feeling rules, 11, 16 – 36, 40 – 62,
Denzin, N., 87, 98, 101, 139 63 – 84, 86 – 91, 101, 108, 109, 117,
Depression, 82, 85, 208 – 20 119, 121, 126 – 35, 138 – 9, 145,
Disappointment, 49, 163, 148 – 55, 159, 164, 167, 169, 171,
Discrimination, 146, 219 175, 190, 199, 201 – 9, 212, 215 – 16,
Disorder, 85, 208 – 20 220 – 1, 225 – 38, 241 – 7, 251 – 2,
Display rules, 11, 206 254 – 5, 257 – 8, 262, 267 – 8,
Donovan, 231 271 – 8
Dramaturgy, 11 Feminism, 52 – 4
DSM-IV-TR, 203 – 20 Fineman, S., 200
Durkheim, E., 10 – 12, 148, 153, 172 Foucault, M., 129, 231
Index 323