Emotional Intelligence

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You’re Energy in Motion

Which of the big 4 emotions do you lean toward, Shame, Grief, Fear &/or Anger. The temperaments amplify certain
emotions to suppress other emotions. The aim is to know yourself in the fullest sense by connecting and empathizing
with all 4 emotions evenly. The big 4 must be experienced, harnessed and transmuted from lead into gold; Joy depends
on this process. The wizard of Oz characters transmute these emotions to find joy by uniting together; Dorothy
(Stabilizer), Tin Man (Unifier), Scarecrow (Clarifier) & Lion (Activator).

Primary Unresolved shame- Unresolved fear- Unresolved grief-loss- Unresolved anger-


emotion persecution anxiety abandonment impatience
_ Clarifier (insensitive) Stabilizer (depressive) Unifier (over-sensitive) Activator (manic)
Archetype & Unifier (over-sensitive) & Activator (manic) & Stabilizer (depressive) & Clarifier (insensitive)
Can you give me freedom?
Can I accept you? Can you trust me? Can you love me?
Can I give you freedom?
Question Can you accept me? Can I trust you? Can I love you?
Can we give each-other
Can we accept each-other? Can we trust each-other? Can we love each-other?
freedom?
Expressing passion,
Transmute Understanding, humility & Exploring courage, Feeling more connected
invigoration, distance &
via loving-kindness. confidence and taking risks. and close.
autonomy with care.
Secondary
Unresolved shame & fear = guilt Unresolved grief & anger = betrayal
emotion

Exercise: Take it in turns


1. Identify which emotion/s needs resolution.
2. Identify which question needs an answer.
3. Discuss a strategy to transmute an emotion and whether this involves your partners help.

Shame

20
18
Unifier 16
Clarifier
14
Resolving Resolving
12
Shame & Grief 10 Anger & Shame
8
------% 6 ------%
4
2

Grief Anger
Joy

Stabilizer Activator
Resolving Resolving
Grief & Fear Fear & Anger
------% ------%

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