Personal Development

Quarter 2 – Module 23:

Family Structures and Legacies
Personal Development
Alternative Delivery Mode
Quarter 2 – Module 23: Family Structures and Legacies
First Edition, 2020

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Personal Development
Quarter 2 – Module 23:
Family Structures and Legacies
Introductory Message
For the facilitator:

Welcome to the Personal Development- Grade 11 Alternative Delivery Mode

(ADM) Module on Family Structures and Legacies!

This module was collaboratively designed, developed and reviewed by

educators both from public and private institutions to assist you, the teacher or
facilitator in helping the learners meet the standards set by the K to 12 Curriculum
while overcoming their personal, social, and economic constraints in schooling.

This learning resource hopes to engage the learners into guided and
independent learning activities at their own pace and time. Furthermore, this also
aims to help learners acquire the needed 21st century skills while taking into
consideration their needs and circumstances.

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will help you in guiding the learners.

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module. You also need to keep track of the learners' progress while allowing them
to manage their own learning. Furthermore, you are expected to encourage and
assist the learners as they do the tasks included in the module.

For the learner:

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 Welcome to the Personal Development 11 Alternative Delivery Mode (ADM)
Module on Family Structures and Legacies!

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answers correct (100%), you may decide to skip this module.

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in various ways such as a
story, a song, a poem, a problem opener, an
activity or a situation.

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This aims to help you discover and understand new concepts and
skills.

What’s More This comprises activities for independent practice to

solidify your understanding and skills of the topic. You may check the
answers to the exercises using the Answer Key at the end of the module.

What I Have Learned This includes questions or

blank sentence/paragraph to be filled in to process what you
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What I Can Do This section provides an activity which will help you
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into real life situations or concerns.
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mastery in achieving the learning competency.

Additional Activities In this portion, another activity will be given to

you to enrich your knowledge or skill of the

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 lesson learned. This also tends retention of
learned concepts.

Answer Key This contains answers to all activities in the

module.

At the end of this module you will also find:

References This is a list of all sources used in developing

this module.

The following are some reminders in using this module:

1. Use the module with care. Do not put unnecessary mark/s on any part of
the module. Use a separate sheet of paper in answering the exercises.
2. Don’t forget to answer What I Know before moving on to the other activities
included in the module.
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4. Observe honesty and integrity in doing the tasks and checking your
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6. Return this module to your teacher/facilitator once you are through with it.
If you encounter any difficulty in answering the tasks in this module,
do not hesitate to consult your teacher or facilitator. Always bear in mind that
you are not alone.

We hope that through this material, you will experience meaningful learning
and gain deep understanding of the relevant competencies. You can do it!

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 What I Need to Know

This module was designed and written with you in mind. It is here to help
you understand and identify Family Structures and Legacies. The scope of this
module allows you to understand how your family affects you as a developing
individual. The language used recognizes the diverse vocabulary level of students.
The lessons are arranged to follow the standard sequence of the course. But the
order in which you read them can be changed to correspond with the textbook you
are now using.

The module discusses one lesson, namely:

 Lesson 23 – Family Structures

After going through this module, you are expected to:

1. Identify the different types of family structures;

2. Appraise your family structure and the type of care you give and receive,
which may help in understanding yourself better.

What I Know

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TEST I. Choose the letter of the best answer. Write the chosen letter on a separate
sheet of paper.

1. A family where one or more of the children has been adopted

a. Foster family
b. Nuclear family
c. Extended family
d. Adoptive family

2. Two families brought together due to divorce, separation or remarriage

a. Step family
b. Extended family
c. Adoptive family
d. Single parent family

3. A group of people related to one another by blood, marriage or adoption, a.

Family
b. Mom and dad
c. Relatives
d. Friends

4. This can be either a father or mother who is singly responsible for raising a
child.
a. Step family
b. Extended family
c. Adoptive family
d. Single parent family

5. A couple or single parent decides to raise another person’s child as their own
a. Single parent family
b. Adoptive family
c. Nuclear family
d. Extended family

6. A family where the parents are members of different racial groups

a. Bi racial or multi-racial family
b. Nuclear family
c. Extended family
d. Adoptive family

7. Chosen by a family to take responsibility for a child if the parents are no

longer able to provide
a. Grandparents
b. Adoptive parents
c. Siblings
d. Guardian
8. What does good parenting require?

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 a. Providing a positive role model
b. Encouraging productive behavior
c. Engaging in adequate supervision
d. All of the above

9. A family that cares for children who are not related to other children
a. Adoptive family
b. Guardian family
c. Foster family
d. Stepfamily

10.Which of the following is not a benefit of extended family?

a. Potentially increased emotional support
b. Learning from the combined experiences of more family members
c. Improved intellectual development resulting from exposure to more
knowledge
d. More opportunities for travel as a result of having more family to visit

TEST II. Read the following statements below, write the word TRUE if the
statement is correct and FALSE if the statement is incorrect.

1. Adoptive family is also known as “blended” family which is a combination of

two families.
2. Immigrant family is a family that transferred together from one place to
another because of the employment status or the job of the head of the
family.
3. Foster family is a type of family wherein one member of the family is a
temporary member of a household whether related by blood or not.
4. A family is considered gay or lesbian family if both parents are members of
the LGBT community.
5. A nuclear family consists of mother, father, children, grandparents, aunts,
uncles, and cousins living together in one household.

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 Lesson

23 Family Structures
One Filipino family trait that is known across different races is establishing
and having strong family ties. Family, as defined by Merriam-Webster dictionary, is
the basic unit of society. It is composed of individuals living together in one
household either connected by marriage, blood, or by legal arrangement.

One of the family structures and the most common kind of structure
dominated the Philippines is the “extended family” on which, we are fond of being
in the same roof together with our mother, father, aunts, uncles, grandfather,
grandmother, and cousins. In a typical Filipino family, though an adult female
member gets married, the groom will bring her to their house to live in. However, as
time goes by, this culture changes and varies, family by family across generations.

In this module, we will study the different family structures, how they differ
from one another, family legacies and how family affects you as a developing
individual.

How does your family contribute in your middle and late adolescents?

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 What’s In

Activity 1.1 Being a Leader

In the previous module, you’ve learned that your community contributes a
lot in the development of your social relationships. One of the key factors that
develops your social skills is your involvement in the community. Another is how to
be a servant leader. What does being a servant leader mean to you? What do you
think are the traits that a servant leader must possess? (NOTE: One trait was given
as a sample to this activity.)
Responsible

Notes to the Teacher

You may answer the activity by writing the characteristics of a
servant leader on the lines provided below. Traits can be based from
your own experience as a leader at home, in class or in your community,
you can also ask other people suchr elder
as you
brother or sister about
.
the traits of a servant leader

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 Now that you know the traits of a servant leader, let us try looking at a
human figure inside a house. The house symbolizes a place where you live together.
At home, who do you think is the leader? Who leads your household?

What’s New

Activity 1.2 Model

In this activity, you will show your creativity by making a model of a house.
You can use materials that can be found in your surroundings. You can use sticks,
leaves, candy wrappers etc.
After making a house, relate the part of your house to your family members
and write down why that person represents the part of the house you’ve chosen.
Paste your house model on a short bond paper. Below your model, write your
explanation.

Activity 1.3 My Family Song

Each of us have different family structure, different family orientation, and
culture. As we grow older, we adapt things and behaviors from our parents. Some

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of us follow certain family beliefs. When we are younger, our parents guide and
mold us into a better individual by instilling values on us. These values may be
brought by us from time to time on our workplace, school, and other places, but
somehow also change.
There are songs that describe family and the roles of each member of the
family. Identify songs that show such. At the back of the bond paper, make a table
as shown below. Write the title of the song, below it, write your own interpretation
of the song based on the lyrics. How does the song describe family?

Title of the song

Lyrics of the song

Interpretation

All families have sets of beliefs, values, and attitudes that are passed down
from generation to generation. These become part of the growing child’s worldview.
Although most obvious during the holidays, the transmission of family
legacies occurs all year long through the small events and interactions of daily
living. Many of these legacies, therefore, can be passed along without a lot of
reflection on the part of the parent.

What is It

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Family defined
Family came from the Latin word familia which means group of people
living in the household. Family could be related by blood, or birth or by other
relationship.
Family is the basic unit of society. It is the smallest organization in the
community. It is said to be a group of individual living together in one household.
Family comes in different forms. It could vary from one family to another. It
is usually composed of mother, father and children, some other includes
grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and other relatives.

Types of Family Structures

Family structures differ from one family to another, that’s why, we should
not compare our family with that of others. The following table lists the different
family structures.

Table 1. Family Structures

Family Definition Example
Structure
Nuclear Family It is also known as “conjugal” or Mother, father, and
“traditional” family, consisting of children
married couples and their
offspring.
Extended This type of family includes all A family living together
Family relatives in proximity, such as mother, father,
grandparents, aunts, uncles, and children,
cousins. these relatives typically grandparents, aunts,
live together, and all share daily uncles, and other
household duties. relatives in one roof
Single Parent This family type includes one Father with his
Family parent and their children only. A children or a mother
single parent family could be the with her children
result of a divorce, the death of living in one
one parent, or even a single household.
parent adoption.
Step Family A family where the parents have Mother, children,
divorced and remarried, bringing stepfather. and his
children from other unions kids
together to form a new nuclear Father, children,
family. stepmother, and her
kids
It is also known as “blended”
family, because two families
were combined.
Foster Family A family includes parent who Parents, children,
serves as a temporary guardian foster child

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 for one or more children to
whom they may or may not be
biologically related.
Adopted/Adopt A family wherein parents may Parents (mother and
ive Family adopt a child to whom they father), adopted child
share no blood relationship, or
one parent may adopt the child
of the other parent.
Bi-racial or A family wherein parents are Filipina mother,
multi-racial from different races American father,
Family children
Trans-racial A family wherein parents adopted American parents,
Adoptive a child with a different race adopted Filipino
Family children
Conditionally A family wherein one of the Family members
separated family members is conditionally are together except
Family separated from the others. This for the father
separation may be due to their working abroad.
job or employment or could be Family are living
due to hospitalization.
together, except the
eldest child who is
serving on the
military
Childless Married couple without children Mother and father
Family only
Gay or Lesbian A family wherein one or both A lesbian mother and
Family parents has a different sexual her children with a
orientation and is part of the gay father
LGBT community
Migrant Family It is a family who settles together A family who
in a different place; it could be migrated from a
from one place to another due to place because the
some circumstances such as the father is a military
father’s job. officer
Immigrant A family wherein one or both A family whose mom
Family parents are already an is already an
immigrant of other country. immigrant of
Their children may be or may not Canada. Their
be an immigrant. mother is already a
Canadian citizen but
the rest of the family
members are not.

Family

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 The most important people in the lives of young children are their parents.
From birth, children depend on their mothers and fathers. There are also people
that act parent roles in caring and protecting children’s overall well-being. They are
known as “guardians”.
While parents are filled with expectation about their children’s personalities,
many also lack knowledge about how best to provide for them. Becoming
a parent is usually a welcomed event, but in some cases, parents are worried with
problems regarding their ability to ensure their child’s physical, emotional,
or economic well-being.
Parents utilize resources which they think guarantee positive experiences
for their children.
Each of us have legacies passed from our ancestors, from generation to
generation such as culture, traditions, and customs. No matter who we are, where
we live, we have one thing in common-- heritage.
This heritage is transferred to us by our parents whether good, bad.
This heritage is also called legacy, and this could be passed to us socially,
emotionally or spiritually.
Transferring positive legacy to children is a delicate and important task of
adults in the family. It helps dictate the future progress and development of a child.
It is important to remember that passing on a spiritual, emotional, and
social legacy is a process, not an event. If parents do not intentionally pass a legacy
consistent to their beliefs, culture will pass along its own, often leading to a
negative end. Parents are responsible on the process; God is responsible for the
product.
The Emotional Legacy
In order to prosper, children need an enduring sense of security and stability
nurtured in an environment of safety and love.
Unfortunately, many people struggle to overcome a negative emotional legacy
that hinder their ability to cope with the inevitable struggles of life. This is where a
family’s important role takes its place. A family can create an atmosphere that
provides a child’s fragile spirit with the nourishment and support needed for
healthy emotional growth. It will require time and consistency to develop a sense of
emotional wholeness, but the rewards are great.
A strong emotional legacy:

• provides a safe environment in which deep emotional roots can grow

• fosters confidence through stability
• conveys a tone of trusting support
• nurtures a strong sense of positive identity
• creates a “resting place” for the soul
• demonstrates unconditional love

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 Which characteristics or emotional legacy did your parents pass on to you?
Which characteristics would you like to build into the legacy that you may pass to
your future children?

The Social Legacy

To really succeed in life, children need to learn more than management
strategies, accounting, reading, writing, and geometry. They need to learn the art of
relating to people-- the art of socialization. If they learn how to relate well to others,
they’ll have advantage in living life.
Children need to gain the insights and social skills necessary to cultivate
healthy and stable relationships. As children mature, they must learn to relate to
family members, teachers, peers, friends, and community. Eventually, they must
learn to relate to coworkers and many other types of people in their surroundings.
Nowhere can appropriate social interaction and relationships be
demonstrated more effectively than in the home. At home, children can learn
lessons about respect, courtesy, love, and involvement. Parents play a key role in
modelling and passing social legacy.
Key building blocks of children’s social legacy include:

• respect, beginning with themselves and working out to other people

• responsibility, fostered by respect for themselves, that is cultivated by
assigning children duties within the family, making them accountable for
their actions, and giving them room to make wrong choices once in a while
• unconditional love and acceptance by their parents, combined with
conditional acceptance when the parents discipline for bad behavior or
actions
• the setting of social boundaries concerning how to relate to god, authority,
peers, the environment and siblings
• rules that are given within a loving relationship

The Spiritual Legacy

The Spiritual Legacy is the least in priority, but that’s a mistake. As spiritual
beings, we adopt attitudes and beliefs about spiritual matters from one person or
another. Parents need to take the initiative and present faith to their children.
Parents who successfully pass along a spiritual legacy to their children
model and reinforce the unseen realities of the godly life. We must recognize that
passing a spiritual legacy means more than encouraging our children to attend
church, as important as that is. The church is there to support parents in raising
their children but it cannot do the raising; only parents can. Parents are primary in
spiritual upbringing. Children, perceive God the way they perceive their parents. If
parents are loving, affirming, forgiving and yet strong in what they believe, children
will think of God that way.
Here are five things you do that predict whether your children will receive
the spiritual legacy a Christian parent desires. Do you:

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 • Acknowledge and reinforce spiritual realities? Do your children know,
for example, that Jesus loves everyone? That God is personal, loving
and will forgive us?
• View God as a personal, caring being who is to be loved and respected?
• Make spiritual activities a routine part of life?
• Clarify timeless truth — what’s right and wrong?
• Incorporate spiritual principles into everyday living.
(SOURCE: Your Heritage, by J. Otis Ledbetter and Kurt
Bruner.)
What’s More
The following are some situations that describe a family. On the blank
provided, write what structure of family is indicated.

George and Mirriam were already married for 17 years. Their eldest
is 10 yrs old named Nathan and their youngest is 7 years old named
Hannah. They are living in Palawan together with their witty dog,
Bantay. While the couple are working, George’s father, Lolo Berting is
the one who fetches the two kids at school, while Lola Pasing does the
household chores and the cooking. Since Nathan was born, both Lolo
Berting and Lola Pasing lived together with George’s family to assist
the couple in parenting Hannah and Nathan.

Lita was 12 yrs old when she knew that she was adopted. Mr.

Benjamin and Mrs. Linda had three kids and all of them were boys.
Since the couple wanted to have a baby girl, they decided to adopt,
because they were too old to have another baby. It was Lina’s

birthday when the couple talked to her and told her the truth. Lina
wholeheartedly accepted the truth and embraced Mr. and Mrs. Santos.
Lina’s biological parents died on a car accident, that’s why

the couple adopted Lina.

Major Mark Delos Reyes of the Philippines Army was assigned in the province
of Tuguegarao. In the call of duty and service, Maj. Delos Reyes and his wife
decided that the whole family will transfer to Tuguegarao where Maj. Delos
Reyes was assigned. The next day, they packed all their things and left their
home.

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 Joyce is fifth among the 13 children of Mr. and Mrs. Aquino. She
was 16 yrs. old and will be a grade 11 student next year. Because
of poverty, her parents cannot support her studies anymore. Her
father is a farmer and he is the only one who provides for their
living. Her aunt was living in Manila and offered her father to
support Joyce’s study until she finishes her college. A condition
was given to them, though. Joyce will have to stay in Manila and
will live with her aunt Tessie and her family.

What I Have Learned

Directions: Fill in the blanks with the correct answers.

1. is the basic unit of the society

2. Family came from the “familia”.
3. There are different family structures, and one of them is Nuclear
family which is also known as family.
4. family consists of father, mother, children, grandparents, aunts,
uncle, and other family relatives living together in one
household.
5. Step families are also known as family, because two families
are brought together.
6. Single parent family is a family wherein a single parent is
responsible of taking care of members of the family, this could
either be because of divorced, or .
7. Foster family parent who serves as a guardian for one
or more children to whom they may or may not be biologically
related with.
8. Bi-racial or multi-racial family is a family wherein parents are
from different
.
9. Adoptive family is a family wherein parents may a child to
whom they share no blood relationship, or one parent may adopt
the child of the other parent.
10. Conditionally separated family is a family where one of the
family members is conditionally separated from the others. This
separation may be due to their or could be due
to hospitalization.
11. A family wherein one or both parents has a
different sexual orientation.
12. A family consists of only married couple.

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 13. A transracial family is a family where parents adopt a child from
a different
.
14. It is migrant family which together on different place, it could
be from one place to another due to some circumstances.
15. A/an family is a family where one or both parents are already
an immigrant of other country.

What I Can Do

Activity: Understanding My Own Family Structure

In this activity, you will need a family picture. Paste it on your notebook. If
you do not have a recent family picture, you can cut out pictures from the
magazines and just put name of your family member on each picture. You may also
draw your family picture.
Identify what family structure you have at home. Write the names of each
member of your family below the picture. In a short paragraph, describe your
family. Explain your family’s social, emotional and spiritual legacies.

My Family

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 Additional Activities

Family contributes to the development of an individual. Most of the youth

nowadays are very considerate about their future. At this time, most of you are
imagining your ideal partner, and what your future life will be.
Looking forward to your future, seven to ten years from now, many of you
might be married or are getting married. After our discussion with regard family,
write down what family structure do you like to have. Describe what your future
family would be. You can adopt rules from your parents on how you want to train
your future child. You can do this activity either through a poem, a short story, or
through illustration.

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References

https://www.etymonline.com/word/family
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1B4Y2EEp7HoECRBh_vXP3BCrg84QYOnjD/view
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/family-legacies/

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