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I want you to know how much I sincerely love the countless hours we spend chating.
It means so much to me. It truly seems like I've known you forever, and I honestly
can't imagine life without you. There will be no looking back, no second thoughts,
and no regrets. I love you and only you, and that love will only grow stronger.
I sit here, thinking of you, and how I love you, and how you make my heart beat. I
could never have thought that I would feel this way about anybody. I just love you
so much. I don't know how it happened, and frankly I don't even care. I just want
to have you in my arms again, to love you, and to have you love me. I promise I'll
love you forever and never leave you. I think of you all the time. You are so far
away, yet so close in my heart. My heart and my body yearn for you.
It's so much of an understatement to say I'm glad that you are mine! Since we've
been together, an appreciation for the possibilities and joys of living have arisen
in me, and I can never really thank you enough for that. You have refreshed my most
precious possession--my heart. Through your love, you have opened my eyes to the
wonders all around me. I can't truly thank you enough for this gift, but please
know that I will never give you a reason to say that I don't care about you. There
is not a second that you're not in my mind. I will always be there for you, and I
will always love you.
Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise.
All I can say is that you're the best surprise life has ever given me, and your
capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I've truly
been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go.
I love you with all my heart, body, and soul. I will never stop loving you. You are
my life, my world, and everything to me. Distance may keep us apart, but you will
always and forever be embedded deep within my heart.
Anyway, I just felt like letting you know that I am thinking of you
How are you, my dear, are you tired, are you ok? I always ask you lots of
questions, not because I just am curious, but because every question comes from
inside my heart. We are so far apart from each other, and I try so much to be with
you. This is difficult, but nothing on earth can make me lose my true love for you.
Having your love has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have never
loved anyone as much as I love you. Every day, when I awake from a dream of us
together, I thank God I found you and wonder what I have done to deserve such a
loving, caring, wonderful man.
My love, you are so far and yet so nearby. You are many miles and many moons away,
and I get lonely just thinking of the distance between us, yet in my heart you are
just a beat away. When I feel blue, I picture you with me on a moon-lit night,
holding hands and planning our great future together. I think of the good times to
come when I will be embraced by your love. I will be patient, my love, because I
know good things come to those who wait. Until then, I will love you, anticipating
when I will be with you.
I love you so much, and can't wait to be with you. I want to give you my heart and
soul. I don't care about anything else in the world because I am only in love with
you. Thank you for making all of my dreams come true. I could not ask for anything
more. I am the luckiest girl in the world to be called yours. I'm truly honored.
Thank you. I love you.
You are the most intelligent, handsome man I have ever met and I have been so
blessed to have you in my life. We have had our share of drama, I know, but you
will always mean the world to me.
I can't wait until I have the chance to hold you in my arms. You're the most
wonderful man in the world. I know I sometimes frustrate you but I long for nothing
else than to keep you happy. You're always in my thoughts and in my heart.
I do not like to be so far away from you. It is lonely, and I miss you so much that
I cannot sleep. I want you near me at night so that I can feel your warmth. I feel
safe and peaceful in your arms, and that is where I want to be.
Did you know that I think about you at night wishing you were here? I love you, my
beautiful Purple King. I want you to know how I feel. My heart bleeds blood for you
and I can't see. My stomach hurts and my head is throbbing but I want you to know
more than anything that I miss
FOR MAGA'S
Nice meeting you on here, its my pleasure to be chatting with you at the moment..
1. How old are you and where exactly do you reside now?... Well am Currently in
Ghana after going through a deceitful act called Relationship from a man up there
in New Jersey,Orange.. I never knew he was married and he lured me to come over and
be with him after we met right here in ghana when he came over for a Business Tour
here. He was married and I never knew so he asked me to spend some time with a
friend there so he can handle some problem he was having with his relatives over
his house. I later found out that he was lieing to me and all he wanted was to use
me for his selfish and lustful sexual desire.. After getting the information, I
came down here... I really went through hell and I hope this wont scare you away
from me.. I have been out of this Love scene for a while but I want to give it a
try since I cant remain single for the rest of my life...
Have you ever been married and do you have any kids?. I have never been married
neither do I have children..
For how long have you been single?.. I have been single for 2years and just tired
of being alone..
If I may ask, what went wrong in your past relationship?.. My ex was a real jerk,
he prefers drugs to me, he isalways drunk and on drug... He treats me like a piece
of rag he bought from the market, I tried to talk to him to chance his attitude or
I will one pack my Baggage and leave but he wont listen to me till I finally took
my decision and break-up that hell called relationship with him.
How long have you been a single dad?... I have been a single mum for the past 3yrs,
am tired of being a single mum and lonely..
Does your kids live with you and how often do you see your kids?
What is your idea of a perfect date if you people have both falling in love with
each?.... I will like to entertain you at my house if we are ready to feel each
other's pain, I will make you some delicious food, we will also have some nice
wine.. When it gets dark, I will light up my candles and will want to talk and gaze
at you in the flickering lights. I will want to gradually rub and caress you.Yes,
you and I to make that passion ignite where two of our spirit soar and collide
throughout the horizon and universe together,where two souls shall become one.. We
will also go out to the movies and go to night beach where we can have some real
fun and enjoy the breeze as well.
What are the Qualities you want in a new partner?... Thats nice and my desire is to
meet a man who has a sense of humor,sensitive,caring,easygoing,sincere,single
man who wants a true woman to be with, who will treat a woman with Love and
respect. I am looking for a man who is special with romance, loving relationship,a
unique man who is affectionate, with interests and characteristics similar to mine.
Someone who wants a meaningful,serious, long-term relationship,who will spend all
the good and the bad times with me and grow old together with me.. lol
How many brothers and sisters you have and how about your parent, are they both
alive?.. I had an Elder brother called Johnny whom I lost this January,2008 when he
left for a Peace Keeping Operation in Iraq,he was in the Ghana Army.. My mum is
alive but she lives 6hrs drive from me.. She is a retired Mid-wife and am so proud
of her and so she is too..
Are your siblings in the same State with you, how often do you also communicate
with them or see them in person?
What are your hobbies, I mean what do you do for fun at your leisure times?... My
hobbies are watching movies, cooking, going for walks, listening to music (almost
all types of music), singing, reading, surfing the internet to learn more
knowledge, camping, love shopping and I also love to swim..
11. Would you like to meet someone who is ugly or pretty,lol ?.... My ground rule
is look for the love within the person and not the outside though thats also
important, I do not look much for a person's built such as being fat, slim,
muscular, butt, hard or tough individual, though this are also Important.
Appearance do not matter but the most important is how honest,caring and loving he
is.. I want a man with humble character.
12. What are the top 10 gifts your would like to receive in your life?
1.To meet my dream man,(Maybe that's you).. lol
2. Our happiness is my first core
3. both of us working toward our goals
4. Completing our desire level of education
5. Financially secured
6. A nice comfortable home
7. Desired cars
8. Ability to travel the world at our lesiure
9.Good health & strong living for my us especially my man and the kids
10. The dream to make him proud to have me as his woman...
13. What kind of attitude/qualities do you want all human beings should have?...
For me as an Idle woman, I prefer all human beings should be Caring,show love to
Afection to the less Privilege,Thoughtful, loving,goal oriented,along with sense of
humor and also love one another so that war would come to an end.
14.What attitude do you dislike most? I dislikes attitudes such as gossips, lairs,
polygamous acts, cheats and dishonesty people and others who like to take
advantages on their fellows when given a little chance.
15. What do you do for a Living?. I just Graduated as an Interior and Exterior
Decorator but currently working as a Secretary for a Non Governmental Organization
(NGO).I am also into Event Organzing and good at Floral and Cakes.
17. Do you have a favourite Colour/s?.... Yes my favourite Colours are Pink and
Blue
18. Do you like pets and do you own pets at home ?... Oh I see, I'm a animal lover
but I dont have non at the moment and am sure I will when that right time comes...
lol
19. What types of music or movies or TV Shows you like?... I like to listen to
Gospel Music, Jazz, Hip Hop, Old Blues in 90's, Cools, Rock & Roll, R&B.(almost all
types of music). My favorite movies are romantic movies, adventure movies, scary
movies and comedian movies that will make me laugh till my tears drop off. For TV
shows, I like CSI, American Idol, Animal Planet and also the Local Movies.
20. Who are your favourite Musicians. Do you have some in mind,example you have
heard he/she wants to perform you wont hesitate to pay and watch him/her
perform ??..... rt Kelly,John Cash,Luther Vandross,James Bryant,Beyounce Knowles
and many others..
21. What's your favorite foods & drinks?... I like all kinds of sea
foods,Pizza,Steaks,Hamburgers,Sandwiches,Egg Salad and all kinds of fruit,Coke,Ice
Tea, juices and water mostly..
22. Do you know how to drive a vehicle and how old were you when you started
driving and who taught you how to drive?... Yes and I started driving when I was
14yrs and my mum taught me how to drive.
23. What's your religion and do you have any religious views??.... Yes I am a
Christian Catholic and I had my first communion when I was 10yrs and had my
Comfirmation when I was 13yrs.. I do not have any religious believe since I believe
in one supreme God and most religions believe in this God so do not know the
perfect religion.
24. What languages do you speak apart from the English Language, do you have any
accent ?. Yes I also do speak English and have an African accent.. lol
25. Dear, are you left or right handed?... I am a right handed person but mostly
use the left as well especially when cooking and doing some other chores...
27. Do you remember the funniest and embarrassing point in your life?. When I went
to school late and I was being canned then my beads on my waist scattered in the
class and the teacher asked me to pick them one after the other... lol
28. Do you have any tattoos and body piercings?.. I have pierced my belly but I
dont have a tattoo and do dream of acquiring one.. Maybe when you and I become
soulmates I will have to tattoo your name or face of my left and right arms or
somewhere the whole world can see and know I really belongs to you... lol
30. What are your views about an afterlife?.... According to the son of God and
also God's doctrine do know that there will be a life after death.Which is a
special place where God lives with his Angel and His son who died on the cross for
our sins
31. Do you believe in love at first sight?... Sure Pam believes in ''Love at First
Sight''
32. Do you believe in marriage?.. Yes I do believe in Marriage so does every human
believes in Marriage...
33. What do you hope to gain from a marriage?.. Love,Respect,Affection and Lots of
Care and Romance in my Marriage..
34. When do you think is the best time to have sex?before or after marriage?...
Well for me,It doesnt matter sex before Marriage or after Marriage,provided the
pure and true love is there,sex can be enjoyed by partners... lol
35. How will the feeling be to you when your marriage is of low or high class?...
Anything my Husband wish and he feels he can afford.. Here in African Marriage
isn't expensive.. So I will also prefer it should be simple and less expensive as
well...
36. Which place will you like to have your honeymoon when it's possible?...
Anywhere that comes in mind when that time comes..
37.What would you expect from that partner?... Love and out most concern for me and
the kids.. lol
39. What do you do on weekends when you normally home or when you have a day off at
work Dear ?... On weekends here, I like to watch all kinds of Sporting activities
on TV but I enjoy playing Chess most..
40. What sports do you play or like or watch mostly on TV ?.. I dont really involve
myself in most outdoor sporting activities but I like to watch almost all on the
tv... lol
41. Have you ever been to a College Dear ?... Yes I went to a Vocational College
thats where I graduated as an Interior Decorator..
42. Where did you go to school/college?... I was born and raised in Ghana (Ashanti
Region), thats where my dad comes from but moved to Greater Accra (Capital of
Ghana) due to the College I attended here..
45. Where did you live most of their childhood life?... I lived most of their
childhood life in the Kumasi (Ashanti Region).
46. What was your most memorable childhood moment?... My most memorable childhood
moment was when I was given the Overall best Student on a Speech and Prize giving
Day..
47. What was your big childhood fear? (i.e.-the dark, monsters, etc.)... Monsters
and also I dream bad whenever I watch an horror movie so I stopped till i grew up..
48. What did you always want to be when you "grew up"?... I wanted to be a Nurse so
I can take care of the sick but it changed when I was growing up and wanted to be
an Interior Decorator when I was in the High School and am proud to have graduated
as one.. lol
51. What things do you feel passionate about?... When am being Complimented for who
I am, buying gifts to me when you go out and also,surprising me,wearing my favorite
T-shirts to draw my attention..
52. How would you handle arguments if you were my love?... Talk with you so that we
can come to a perfect understanding cause in every institution there must be a
perfect understanding
53.If you're having problems with your partner would you talk it out or keep it
inside?.... For me i will like to talk it over with him so we can solve it
amicably.
TRUST
All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn’t be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn’t likely to grow, and become something that you desire.
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.
When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be
things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization
with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with
your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If
someone isn’t willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants
and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.
Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship..
There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open
and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with
your partner.
You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love
someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart
and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't
do this.Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should
be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of
love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can
weather any storm.. Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring
you to true love and happiness.It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding
love and finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be
taken for granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing.
Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you
love someone if you don’t have these ingredients you will never succeed.To be in
love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can
never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will
never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special
someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in
someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize
that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you
are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone,
but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for
her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and
most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her.Distance doesn't
matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust
for that relationship to work out..Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect,
love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets
unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in
it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and
again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice
comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be
trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but
without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream
of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people
that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign
of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one
important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It
means trusting and being honest with each otherSomeone can be as beautiful on the
outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they
become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not
envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in
evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love
takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even
when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting
stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people..
Topic:Money
Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or
money.Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you
have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return.Love doesn't cost money,
but it does require the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money
from his parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife.Love is when money
and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're holding the hand of the
woman you love and you feel like the richest man in the world - you have
everything.With money, we can buy all things, but with love, we find everything
that really matters.It isn't money, fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in
life is love.Power is one thing; money and power are two things, but love is
everything
Sex
Sex is important. Love is outside and inside the bedroom. New things in bed help
strengthen and renew the relationship. You make me feel your sexual desire with
your eyes, and it usually takes only a few seconds. I love when you look at me in
the right way, when you gently put your hand in my hair. I like those kisses with
closed mouth, like in the movies. They are like a preliminary, and make me thirsty
for what is going to follow.
Roles, Commitment
I do not want to be a role such as mother, wife, cook, or dishwasher. Even after
many years of marriage, I want you to see me as the person I am, the woman I was
when we first met, not the wife or mother or some kind of role. I do not like when
you do things that you "must" do. I do not feel them as sincere. I do not like your
flowers when you ask me for some kind of excuse, it is as if you want to give me
something to "cover your ass". The same for cheap compliments, they sound like
stereotypes.
When I have a problem the first thing I do is to call you, and I expect your
comments and suggestions. You must always be there when I need you to support me,
it's indispensable. I do not want to feel alone when I need help, and I know it can
be difficult for you to realize that I need you, but I send an SOS just like our
daughter or any other person. Sometimes you realize I need you and it's too late,
and I feel you do not understand me, you are not there when I need you. Do not be
casual when you commit to something for me.
Love
To love me is to accept me as I am. I do not want to be judged for the things I do.
I want you to trust me and let me do what I feel is right. We women are always
"right" — it is a matter of love. When I feel alone, empty, a stranger, I want your
eyes to tell me I am the person you love and you want me for what I am. Do not do
or say things because you think you are "honest", do them because of your love for
me, and trust me even though you think I am wrong. Just as we do not judge our
children because they are our children and we love them.