Emotional Intelligence Training SLIDE
Emotional Intelligence Training SLIDE
Emotional Intelligence Training SLIDE
Emotional Intelligence
Suriapragaseam.
Learning and Development Executive
Agenda (1 Day Session )
Penang
Day 1
Education:
University
Experience:
SURIAPRAGASEAM and improve their skills and knowledge through soft skills
Learning & Development Executive
training and coaching as part of their learning process in the
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corporate world and as well facilitating employees to achieve
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excellence, integrity, professionalism in the workplace.
Learning Outcome
Terminology
Terminology
Emotional intelligence is a range of abilities, self-awareness, emotional self-management, empathy, social skills. Women tend to be better than men on average
at empathy, particularly emotional empathy, sensing in the moment how the other person is feeling and also, at social skills, at keeping things feeling good
between people in a group. Men, on the other hand, tend to be better on average at self-confidence, particularly in groups, and at managing distressing
emotions.
DANIEL GOLEMAN:
Daniel Goleman is a psychologist, lecturer, and science journalist who has reported on the brain and behavioral
sciences for The New York Times for many years. His 1995 book, Emotional Intelligence (Bantam Books) was on
The New York Times bestseller list for a year and a half.
brain.
01 Did you know that
● Found within all 3 layers of the brain.
02 Did you know that understand their own emotions, others and
act appropriately.
To understand more in a simple manner about developing Emotional Intelligence. Let’s vibe through the Animation of Emotional Intelligence.
What is Emotional Intelligence?
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Is a term used to describe the various Being intelligent in identifying our own Being intelligent in identifying the
competencies that are essential for thoughts and feelings (self-awareness) thoughts and feelings of others and
building, developing, and managing and being effective at dealing with those between others (other awareness) and
appropriately(relationship
management).
Emotional Intelligence
“Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the
right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.”
Aristotle
The good news is: Emotional Intelligence can be developed. (Let’s Discuss)
Brainstorming Activity.
effect on others.
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Developing self-awareness can help
or under pressure.
Are you aware of your emotions and feelings as they arise?
● Be mindful of the present moment - what’s going on in your mind and body.
● Keep a journal - write about and analyse the emotional situations you experience from day to day.
Remember, no matter what the situation, you can always choose how you react to it.
Self Awareness Activities
● Think about a feeling or emotion you have had recently. Choose one that is somewhat disruptive or challenging. Perhaps you have been feeling
● Watch a movie or a television show. Notice the emotions you experience in the course of your viewing. Notice if these emotions change during the
program and if they stay with you after the program is over. Think about why you felt the way you did.
● If people remark on your appearance, saying that you look angry, upset or sad, don’t dismiss their comments. Could they be right? What are you
● When you walk by a mirror, catch a glimpse of your facial expression. What might a person who saw that expression assume you were feeling? Does
❏ Awareness of our own emotional states is the foundation of all the Emotional Intelligence skills.
❏ Learn to “tune-in” to your emotions – they can give you valid information about your responses to stressful situations.
● A heartwarming family film sharing themes of love, acceptance, and having a positive self-image.
How Self Awareness Solve Problems
situation.
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● Self-control is Strength.
● Calmness is mastery.
● You have to divert to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Self-regulation is all about staying in control. Always Think Before You Act. You’re the Master of your Mind.
Master Your Mind and Emotions
Self Regulation Activities
● Describe what motivates you at work. What do you find exciting? Fulfilling?
● Imagine you are in verbal argument with a person who is cursing you with bad words and inappropriate verbal behavior. What
● Think of the responses you make to events and situations. Select ones that are challenging or troublesome for you. For example,
something you did that made you think “Why did I do that?
Practicing Self Regulation
Self Management : Ability to use awareness of your emotions to stay flexible and positively direct your behavior.
Emotional Triggers
What are the triggers that that make you want to blow an emotional gasket (seal) ?
Motivation
3) Motivation
“A passion to work for internal reasons that go beyond money and status which are external rewards, such as an inner vision of what
is important in life, a joy in doing something, curiosity in learning, a flow that comes with being immersed in an activity. A propensity
to pursue goals with energy and persistence.” Peter Salovey and John Mayer in 1990. Later in 1995, Daniel Goleman
Hallmarks include a strong drive to achieve, optimism even in the face of failure, and organizational commitment.
Motivation is Vital
all about the experience what causes you to act, whether it is getting a
Instill Self-Discipline.
Self-Discipline.
Motivation is all about our internal desire to accomplish something that is important to us. This motivation (desire) makes us take action. Motivation is an unmet
need that we want to satisfy; it’s about a goal that we want to fulfill.
Believe
In
“YOU”
Identify your “explanatory style.” When a setback strikes, resist asking “what’s wrong with me?” Instead, ask “what can I fix?”
Work to achieve your “flow state,”(a state of mind in a person fully immersed) being in the moment with work tasks.
The Power Of True Motivation- Its Built for the Better.
Let's watch the most Inspirational value of True Motivation and How Its Built for the Better.
The Power Of True Motivation- Its Built for the Better.
Let's watch the most Inspirational value of True Motivation and How Its Built for the Better.
Empathy
4) Empathy
EMPATHY
Respond to feelings.
Empathy is the ability to identify with and understand the wants, needs, and viewpoints of those around you.
Developing Empathy
2. Your boss was mad at you for something you didn’t do. How would you react?
4. Your colleague has no cash to purchase his/her food for lunch, during financial crisis.
6. You notice a homeless person as you walk through the office main tower.
8. You notice a person on crutches struggling to open a door while entering the office.
9. A friend of yours had their pet dog die while he was in the office working.
Social Skills
5) Social Skills
“Being able to interact well with others is another important aspect of emotional
intelligence. Having strong social skills allows people to build meaningful relationships
with other people and develop a stronger understanding of themselves and others.”
This area deals with your ability to steer your relationships and navigate social
Social Skills
situations. It doesn’t mean controlling others, but understanding how to get where you
want to be with other people. That might mean conveying your ideas to co-workers,
They can manage disputes, are excellent communicators, and are masters at building and maintaining relationships.
How to Improve Social Skills
Ask open ended Practice good eye Show interest in others and
Find icebreakers that will Practice your social Watch your body language
social skills.
Social Skills Team Building Game
This is a great way of looking back on an experience and helping participants connect the learning whilst playing a fun and familiar game.
The purpose of this game to observe and assist participants in a game where they need to bond,communicate and understand different type of issues while
Equipment Required: Snake and Ladders board game (or any other similar game).
Group Size: 6-8 (for groups with more than 8 people, split into smaller sub-groups of 2-3 people).
If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy
and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.
1. “There are certain emotions that will kill your drive; frustration and confusion. You can change these to a positive force. Frustration
means you are on the verge of a breakthrough. Confusion can mean you are about to learn something. Expect the breakthrough and
2. “There is no separation of mind and emotions; emotions, thinking, and learning are all linked.” — Eric Jensen
4. “We are dangerous when we are not conscious of our responsibility for how we behave, think, and feel.” -— Marshall B. Rosenberg
Terminology 3
Think of an experience that was particularly stressful for you in your life.
● What were you feeling? Were you aware of how you were feeling at the time?
● How did you feel about yourself? Did you have courage and faith in your abilities?
● Did your emotions influence the way you thought about yourself? others involved?
● What do you think the other person was feeling? Is it uncertain or did they state their feelings to you?
● Was there open dialogue? Did you, respectfully, speak up for yourself while allowing the other to contribute to the conversation? Did you and the other
As Emotional Intelligence paces through the track in innumerable Terminologies, let’s grasp, acknowledge and apply the method/ techniques to deal with :
❏ Stress Management
❏ 6 Seconds Modal
In everyday life and situations, we are all dealing with different characters and personalities.
You can’t bring your best to work if others are bringing you down.
1. The person who is out to get you - deliberately causing another person problems.
2. The gossip - “Gossips and busybodies love to talk about others behind their backs, put them down, and spread harmful rumors”.
3. The introvert- shy, reticent person who are comfortable focusing on their inner thoughts and ideas, rather than what's happening externally.
4. The egomaniac- Narcissistic people value control and power, and they lack empathy.
5. The highly opinionated- the one with all types of Positive and Negative feedback personality.
How to work with anyone? 5 Tips
Of course, difficult co-workers and situations take many different forms. If none of these personas match up with the specific person who’s pushing your buttons
As humans we pace by our daily life dealing with all types of situation and difficult people and handling stress is another base of obligation.
Dealing with People and different Personalities can be Stressful right. So, let’s Understand What is Stress?
Stress management means learning about the triggers of distress and establishing healthy ways to counter those triggers. Many stress factors (see below) are
emotional, and so developing more emotional intelligence is a key aspect of stress management.
● Dysfunctional workplaces.
nature.
● List of all the things that makes you Stressful and Agitated.
● Rate your Level of Stress from 1 to 10 from Before Visualizing and After Visualizing the stressful situation.
● Participants can spend some time to visualize moments where one of the stressful triggers happened and reverse the situation by using Emotional
These 2 balloons will be categorized into 2 categories which are Positive and Negative.
1. Participants will have to blow their balloons according to the categories stated which is/are Positive (happy/peaceful moments) and Negative
(stressful moments).
2. Participants need to mark their balloons, which is/are Positive and Negative with a marker pen and list down those moments specifically on each
3. The Positive balloons will be with the participants till end of the training session and explanation will be given.
4. Participants need to Pop their Negative Balloons as instructed by the trainer and explanation will be given.
5. Then Trainer can ask how they feel, and engage in a discussion about the different anxieties that build up before a person actually feels “stressed”.
Stress Management- Sound Healing
Sound healing is an ancient practice that uses instruments to create a vibration that releases energy to ease the brain and bring harmony into the soul. It tends
to revive you to a state of mental, physical, and spiritual balance which brings peace.
Sound healing is a technique to reduce stress or tension. It aids the brain waves to the state of mindfulness.
● Reduces absenteeism
Neuro is the brain and the central nervous system along with the 5 senses which are responsible to capture the subjective experience.
Linguistics is about how we code our thoughts in the form of a language. Your success in life depends on how well you communicate using your verbal and
non-verbal language.
Programming is about how we program the brain to enhance its potential to achieve one’s goals.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
“Emotional intelligence is being able to recognise a wide range of nuanced emotions, and recognising them, being able to regulate them and put them in
perspective in a way that helps the individual move through life more easily”. – Elisabeth Stitt, Author, Parent Educator and Coach.
“Without [emotional intelligence] a person can have the best training in the world, an incisive, analytical mind, and an endless supply of smart ideas, but
In other words, Neuro-linguistic programming is a way of changing someone’s thoughts and behaviors to help achieve desired outcomes for them.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
Building Empathy
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Techniques and Tools
6 Seconds Modal
6 Seconds Modal
6 Seconds Modal
10 Ways to Master your Emotions with Emotional Intelligence
Brainstorm and List 10 ways to Master your emotions with Emotional Intelligence.
● Form a group of 4 to 5.
● Discuss about the techniques and ways that would assist and enhance your area of expertise to master your emotions with Emotional Intelligence.
Psych Test Of Emotional Intelligence- The technique of Nicholas Hall
Terminology 4
● What did you think first when you were told to share a difficult experience with another person?
● How did you feel when you shared it with someone else?
● How did you feel after acknowledging and accepting your emotions?
● Does this exercise help with accepting how certain experiences make us feel and that it is okay to feel a certain way after negative experiences?
● Did you feel more at peace after accepting your emotions generated by your experience?
Terminology 5
Perceiving emotions: The first step in understanding emotions is to perceive them accurately. In
many cases, this might involve understanding nonverbal signals such as body language and
facial expressions.
Reasoning with emotions: The next step involves using emotions to promote thinking and
cognitive activity. Emotions help prioritize what we pay attention and react to; we respond
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emotionally to things that garner our attention.
Branches
Understanding emotions: The emotions that we perceive can carry a wide variety of meanings.
If someone is expressing angry emotions, the observer must interpret the cause of the person's
Managing emotions: The ability to manage emotions effectively is a crucial part of emotional
● People who are aware of what they’re feeling and why they’re feeling it have a clear understanding of what they need to get out of a certain situation.
This is why it’s easy for them to communicate in an assertive manner while not coming across as aggressive.
● If you want to become a better friend, colleague, partner, parent, and even leader, you should learn more about the traits of emotionally intelligent
people.
This test asks a series of straightforward questions to assess your emotional intelligence.
It will prompt you to examine yourself with a new eye, and it offers approachable yet sophisticated feedback – explanation and guidance to help you evolve
Short summary.
Summary- Emotional Intelligence
Emotional intelligence - the capacity to identify, evaluate, and manage emotions in one’s self as well as in other people.
Explains the importance of emotions in your life, how they help and hurt your
Self-awareness
Self-regulation
Motivation
Empathy
Social Skills
Q & A Session
Short Film on Emotional
Intelligence
Movie Time
A Short Film with a message that relates on Emotional Intelligence. The Pursuit of Happiness : Job Interview. Watch, Observe and Identify.
Movie Time
A Short Film with a message that relates on Emotional Intelligence. The Pursuit of Happiness : Job Hire. Watch, Observe and Identify.
Emotional Intelligence Depth of Definition
It is not the triumph of Heart over Head. It is the Unique Intersection of Both.
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