Just As Beautiful - Aug 08
Just As Beautiful - Aug 08
Just As Beautiful - Aug 08
AUGUST 2008
Issue 19
a
What NOT BIG
To Wear Business
What makes
a Woman?
Eternal
Summer
Ms Plus NY
“I was shot and
left for dead!”
‘Britain's Next Plus Model’!!
Do you have what it takes to be the definitive plus-size face of the UK?
Are you a model that has never been given a chance because the industry
thinks you are too big?
If the answer is yes, then you would be happy to know that Just As Beautiful
Magazine (The UK's First Free Lifestyle Magazine Dedicated To The Plus-Size
Woman) is looking to give a lucky plus-size fashionable lady a break into the
glamorous world of modelling!
If you have what it takes to be 'Britain's Next Plus Model', send an email with 2 good
pictures of yourself to [email protected], putting 'Britain's Next Plus
Model' in the subject header to request for an application form.
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Hello readers,
F
or those of you who were London. Somehow it helped me to Without a doubt, our appearance
expecting a follow up article embrace some of the issues can definitely make us feel more or
regarding the weight loss relating to the relationship less of a woman. “When I'm this size,
surgery debate – apologies. I between my femininity and the I feel depressed. I don't feel sexy I
would like to give those of you who demands of being an independent don't feel feminine. I just feel like I'll
still haven't sent in your views a bit career woman in the metropolis. always be alone”, said Tina, a size
more time to do so. Therefore the 30 woman from a plus-size women's
concluding article on this issue will Often, as is usual in life, it begged of support group. She continued:
appear in next month's issue. me more questions than it provided “When I've done my hair and
answers! And, just like thousands of treated myself to something nice to
Women have many responses to women all over the country and wear, I feel confident and alive. I
the question of what makes a beyond, when I heard the film get men stopping me on the street
woman 'a woman'. We know from which would seek to tie up all the and commenting on how beautiful I
various bodies that it is not simply loose ends etc was due to hit our look and how they like my size” [4]
biological. To be a woman and feel shores, I whipped up into a frenzy as Tina was more typical than not of
like a woman is much more than the to how this would be possible the women I've worked with of size
body you were born into. I'm without turning into a Walt Disney all and/or women struggling to gain
reminded of Aretha Franklin's song lived happily ever after control of their lives with regard to
“Natural Woman” [1]. She speaks of bluhhhhrrr!!!(I wanted Carey and eating disorders, drug and alcohol
how a particular love makes her feel Big to get together actually and I issues and survivors of physical,
the wholeness of her female self. It's did shed a tear and gasp at all the mental and sexual abuse.
a subject well explored in the works bits the film set me up to respond to
of Shakespeare and other writers of – unashamedly!!). I just didn't want Our 'womanhood' can be
love, courtship and unbridled the female strength of their identity interrupted by events that were out
passion. Indeed, many of us were to be diluted, and thankfully it of our control.
tuned in religiously to each and wasn't. Last year I supported a friend who
every episode of “Sex And The had to have a mastectomy,
City”[2] liberated by their For transgender individuals the reconstructive and breast
uncompromising conversations mindset plays a huge role, and reduction surgery when lumps in
about how they, as single women in drives many to risk their lives in one of her breast were found to be
the big apple, related to their pursuit of matching how they look precancerous. Suddenly she was
environment and the men within it. on the outside to how they think faced with facing her mortality;
Like many, I was often doubled over and feel - so they can “finally be scars and a greatly reduced bust
with laughter at the comparisons I normal” [3]. size which, for her large frame was
was able to make between them very noticeable. I remember her
over there, and me over here in going through several weeks of post
surgery, wondering whether she'd behaviour and completely ignored from us – but we can give it away if
ever feel “like a real woman ever the victim…ME!!! Don't worry, he we allow others to define what it is –
again”. I'm happy to say one year didn't manage to hit me as others in be that shiny magazines, ignorant
on and not only has she been the room provided a human shield. small minded men (and for every
cleared by the hospital, she has also It was the lack of support I was one of them there are the lovely
learned to embrace her new smaller shown post incident and the ones often hiding in the wings!) and
cup size and get her sexy groove language that was used by the unfortunately, those who are very
back!!! Yay to the resilience of the man in charge of the project that close to us.
we…who are woman! made me see that even in this day Ladies, write to me with your
and age there are those that will thoughts and feelings about what
I was driven to write this in all honesty see my size first and judge my makes you feel like a woman or
from a very negative incident that physical and emotional abilities what makes you struggle to be in
recently happened to me that and vulnerabilities by that. touch with your femininity!
brought home to me that as plus-
size women we are not always Don't worry folks, I do not intend to Now, get out there and strut your
treated with the feminine respect leave it there as I would never want beautiful stuff!
NG
that appears bestowed much someone else to go through that…I
easier to our smaller sized sisters. In am pursuing the matter. But during
short, I was physically attacked by a the journey of writing this article I
man and another man flew to the have once again realised that our
aggressor's girlfriend's side as she femininity cannot be taken away
showed shock at her partner's
References
[1] Natural Woman (Motown)
[2] Sex and the City (Paramount
comedy channel)
[3] Sex change hospital (series on
the Discovery Home and Health
channel) Nile Graham is a life coach and
[4] Tina – name has been changed, personal development expert and
but I thank you for giving your can be reached by sending an
permission to use both quotes email to her at:
Coming Soon!!
for futher info or to apply
W
hen Birmingham size fancy dress that we have. Our What separates Frisky69.com from
couple Paul Boston customer feed back has been very others is that the plus-size costumes
and Nicole Eaton positive showing that our customers that offered are all hand made
decided to set up a are extremely happy with the here in the UK. “They are great
shop on Ebay catering for made-to- quality of our costumes, along with quality and range in size from 18-
measure plus-size costumes, little did the service that they have 40+. The costumes are made to
they know how much of a stir they received. We have had customer order and although we sell the
would create. Unsatisfied by low comments such as “fab fab fab range in specific sizes they can be
quality and badly fitting fancy dress now I can't wait for the fancy dress I made to your measurements,
costumes, they decided to start usually dred other plus size longer or shorter if required and
selling theirs – the difference being costumes. Fab fab”. The costumes they can also be altered to add
that their costumes are cheaper, we sell offer our customers style and extra features. The costume can
higher in quality and made in the UK. comfort. The costume in turn helps basically be made exactly as you
The result was the birth of them feel confident about going to want it and will be delivered to your
www.frisky69.com. Despite being a fancy dress party and having a door. The great thing about these
based in the UK, Paul says that they great time. costumes is they are made for real
have customers all over the world. people, a fabulous costume that
will fit and flatter your figure. There
“We are a rapidly growing family are costumes to suit all occasions
business and have been trading for be it a fancy dress party or just for a
three years as a web based fun and frisky night in! Our range of
business. We started off selling adult costumes can be posted
products similar to those sold by Ann worldwide. The costumes are great
Summers, until we noticed that our value for money and you are
best selling products seemed to be guaranteed to turn heads in your
the few costumes that we stocked. fabulous fancy dress outfit that has
We started looking into the been made to fit you. We also sell a
costume/fancy dress industry a bit range of accessories to
further and started to sell some c om p l i m ent a nd f i ni s h y our
different costumes to see if they costume and offer a high standard
would be as popular. All of the “The plus size industry is a rapidly of customer service with a
costumes were doing well but we growing one. The demand for plus dedicated member of our team on
were getting lots of enquiries size clothing has increased hand to answer any queries and
regarding larger sizes as we only sold significantly over the past few years assist you to help you find exactly
costumes from size 8-16. What our and retailers are finally making what you want,” says Paul.
customers want our customers get, fashionable and stylish clothes to fit
so we did our research and found a and flatter the fuller figure. Our “We are continually adding new
UK based company who fancy dress costumes are made to costumes and new ranges to our
specialised in hand made plus size meet the growing demands of the plus size collection. Keep an eye out
fancy dress costumes.” plus size industry offering a high for our festive costumes for
quality costume that will fit and Halloween and Christmas. In future
According to Paul, they “have had flatter any body shape.”
a great response to the range of plus
EXCLUSIVE!!
SHE WAS SHOT IN THE FACE AND LEFT FOR DEAD
BY AN ABUSIVE PARTNER BUT IS NOW A REIGNING
BEAUTY QUEEN…
I
sabel Garcia is the current Ms Life began to change for Isabel as
New York Plus America 2008 she recovered from her physical
and Ms New York American injuries and gained the emotional
Beauties Plus 2009. She is a strength to tell her story. As part of a
native New Yorker, born and raised universal ministry, she has travelled
in Brooklyn. As Ms New York around the world telling her story of
American Beauties Plus she has survival to hundreds of women in El
chosen domestic violence as her Salvador, Guatemala, Mexico,
platform because of her personal Cuba and Israel.
and compelling story of survival,
and the prevalence of the problem “Before I became s New York Plus
worldwide. When she was 23-years- America 2008 and Ms New York
old, her boyfriend shot her in the American Beauties Plus 2009 I had
face with a .38 magnum handgun struggled a lot with my life. I had
during an argument and left her to been abused by my ex-boyfriend
die. Prior to this incident he to the point in which he shot me in
repeatedly abused her. the face and left me to die. For a
my eyes. I read the entire site and several magazines as well as on
Isabel's motto is now, "be proud of decided 'this is it'. Just what I was television and radio. I have done
who you are", and this is something hoping for. Could my dream modelling, photo shoots,
she communicates to audiences of actually become a reality? And the promotions and runway. I have
women: "No matter if you are a size 2 answer was yes. I now have two been invited to many special
or 20, we are all beautiful and you tittles; me, the plus-size girl, the one events and have judged beauty
need to love yourself first then that was too big to be considered a pageants and travelled extensively
everything else will fall into place." 'Beauty Queen'.” and have also become a
Her message to battered women is: Spokeswoman for several domestic
"Stay strong and don't dismiss your Isabel is also an enthusiastic violence organizations. My story has
dreams. To be without dreams is to supporter, promoter and also been published in a book and I
be without hope. To be without Spokeswoman of the One in have met many celebrities as well. I
hope is to be without purpose." Her Three© campaign. She is helping to just recently had the honour of
professional experience includes spread the word about the being the August Calendar Girl for a
working in a non-profit organisation important work the organization is 2009 print calendar.”
serving youth and low-income doing globally to raise awareness
families, and special education. of violence against women and the Despite currently working towards a
trauma women suffer when Degree in Special Education, Isabel
“I had always dreamed of being in a domestic violence is part of their Garcia is also the Regional Director
pageant, but, as we all know, lives. She is also an international for X'Change Modelling's New York
society has its own perceptions on spokesperson for the Voices Love Tristate Chapter. X'Change
what a beauty queen should look Music tour for victims of Abuse and Modelling is a non profit social
like. So I thought this was just a 1Voice2gether, “which helps empowerment movement with a
dream that would never become a others find their 'beautiful wonder' global ambition to change the
reality. One day when I arrived from within - to break the silence!” world's perception of the plus-size
work I was doing some online surfing woman (and men) in modelling
and typed in plus-size pageants in Feeling quite elated she said: “This and media by making a difference.
the search engine. Much to my experience has changed my life X'Change models are individuals
surprise, there it was -a plus-size tremendously in so many different taking an individual stance apart
beauty pageant! I could not believe ways. I have been featured in from their associates. “We are an
organization encouraging positive
body image, character,
competence, and charisma for
the plus-size woman. It was
created in 2007 by Myisha Hill in
Chicago, IL, with the
determination to change the
world's view on the plus-size
image,” she said. Thus X'Change
Modelling was born and currently
has over five state directors
carrying on the X'Change mission
and models in areas including
Illinois, Indiana, New York,
California, Florida, North Carolina,
Atlanta, Maryland, Boston, and is
continually growing. “We are
currently seeking more women to
carry on the X'Change Mission in
other states and around the
world,” Isabel points out.
I
get fed up with the the milker” on the farm. If they were could quite easily have stood as
assumption that people of a then that would be a big cause for well, even if they had sat on their
larger stature than the usual concern! guardians lap. I was so angry about
are lazy, smelly or have no self this; it wasn't as if it was a long trip
control. (I have come across this We saw all we wanted to see and and it wasn't as if the people sitting
over the last, well, let's say few went to the bus stop to get back to down were youths. They were all
decades). You are perceived as the car. We queued for a while middle aged or children whose
having no self control because you which is fine -as it was very busy by parents should have known better.
obviously sit and eat chocolate and then. We got on the bus nearly last Now, I'm large (obviously) and I'm
cakes for breakfast, lunch and, of which meant standing but never also disabled but in a way you
course, dinner. It is also assumed mind, it was better than walking so cannot see. It just involves a lot of
that you are obviously smelly as you far in the sweltering heat (in pain and was I sitting, I would have
puff and pant and sweat a little Scotland that's above 68f!). Just given up my seat for either of these
more than your slender counterpart. after us the driver helped an elderly elderly people who quite possibly
Of course you have no access to lady on board (she was very frail fought for our freedom to enjoy a
grooming facilities like a shower, and very old) we were standing lovely day out in a free country.
soap and water, or come to think of there expecting someone to stand
it, deodorant. How silly? But the one up and let her have a seat but
thing that really gets my goat is the nothing happened. The only Even if they didn't, common good
fat = lazy equation. I think its time we person who offered her a seat was manners should have been
were noticed for leaving a good another lady who was at least 8 involved for someone obviously frail
impression on someone. months pregnant. and elderly. I know it's a tenuous link,
but I'm pretty sure these 'normal'
At the weekend my partner and I This shamed the lady next to her sized people would be the first to be
(hmm, I sound like the queen there) into giving up her seat. Then an pointing the finger at us 'lazy' plus-
went to a country show up in a big elderly man got on, he had a sized people (when they just sat on
park in Glasgow. The layout of the hearing aid and was also very their backsides ignoring good
park meant that there was a fragile looking and not one person manners and chivalry and a little
courtesy mini-bus to transport you offered him a seat. The pregnant sprinkling of decency).
from one end to the other. We lady tried but he wouldn't have
arrived fairly early and got on the that. I said loudly to my partner 'I The next day I was in a leading plus-
bus to where they were shoeing can't believe someone isn't size retailer's shop when the lady in
shire horses and demonstrating how standing up for him'. Obviously front of me queried a price for a
to bath a shaggy coo (that's everyone around us was deaf as damaged item. It had been
Highland Cow in English), which I well as nobody batted an eyelid. reduced for the damage but
had to see as I love the hairy beasts. We said several other things as well subsequently the un-damaged
Bless, it isn't an easy job. It involves a and nobody offered him a seat. I goods had been put down to that
gallon of shampoo, pressure hose, was disgusted as there was a price in the sale. The assistant asked
gallon of conditioner and a cow middle aged woman one side of us her boss and they took off another
hairdryer! Of course this is to show sitting with a child of about 8 and a couple of pounds. The customer did
Highland Cows in the show ring; they man the other side with another not even say thank you, she just
aren't that meticulous with “Daisy child of around 11 years old who paid and left.
What has happened to our society? positive. It can make someone's lonely can have their faith restored
I am really hoping these are isolated day if you hold a door open for in others with just a smile and a
incidents and not the way we are them, or offer them a seat on a bus thank you.
going in this country. Come on and the best thing is that it doesn't
everyone, lets all cry out for an cost a penny. I believe in “pay it
increase in basic good manners. Let forward”, the more we are polite julia Thomas is the owner
us be noticed for being kind, and helpful and smile at someone, of leading website:
courteous and larger than life in a the more they are likely to “pay it
positive way. Let us face it. We are forward” to someone else and www.curvychicks.co.uk
noticed so turn that into something before long someone very sad and
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In our quest to open up about our there and very few of them have Oversized shirts and dresses do not
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what is important to us as USA big their customers is increasing. Of the and accentuates your curves. You
girls it occurs to us that we probably ones that do offer plus sizes, we are only adding the illusion of extra
aren't all that different. We all must noticed some very blatant no no's weight when you wear loose-fitting
share similar struggles in dealing with for the plus size consumer to watch clothing
fat bias, figuring out what looks out for. Just because a designer
good on our curves and being makes it in our size, please
bombarded with the images of remember to think for yourself. Not
what we are supposed to look like. everything looks cute on our curves
You can't turn on the television or no matter how much we wish it did.
open up a newspaper here in the Oh and if you are shopping online,
USA, without hearing about the and the skinny model they are
great Obesity epidemic in America. showing their styles on, looks fat in
Every day it seems there is a new that outfit, chances are it won't look
advancement in the war on Fat! great on us either. A bad design
Whether it be a new wonder drug will look bad on any size!
that keeps your body from
absorbing the fat in what you eat, or Here are our top 5 “What Not to
keeps you full so you don't eat at all Wear” guidelines for your next
or the ever popular weight loss shopping trip.
surgery that is all the rage. Subway
sandwich shops make fun of fast Prints are very popular this season.
food restaurants by having actors Avoid small prints and opt instead
drive up and order thunder thighs for larger prints as the smaller ones
and flabby arms with a side of tend to make you look larger than
blubber and a double chin. Now I you are and do not flatter you at all.
know as silly as that sounds, it's
bound to mess with our self-esteem
a little bit to be the fodder of
advertising jokes. It's not like big girls
don't look in the mirror and have a
hard enough time accepting who
they are, without images like these.
We read today that over 64% of
Americans are now overweight?
Does that mean that shopping is
getting easier for us big girls out
there? We'd like to tell you that our
shopping experience has now
become one of joy and ease but
alas, we would be lying to you.
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Are you a model that has never been given a chance because the industry
thinks you are too big?
If the answer is yes, then you would be happy to know that Just As Beautiful
Magazine (The UK's First Free Lifestyle Magazine Dedicated To The Plus-Size
Woman) is looking to give a lucky plus-size fashionable lady a break into the
glamorous world of modelling!
If you have what it takes to be 'Britain's Next Plus Model', send an email with 2 good
pictures of yourself to [email protected], putting 'Britain's Next Plus
Model' in the subject header to request for an application form.
Look out for details in Just As Beautiful Magazine. To subscribe for your free monthly
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