Mentalization, and The Development of The Self. Psychoanalysis
Mentalization, and The Development of The Self. Psychoanalysis
Mentalization, and The Development of The Self. Psychoanalysis
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Bion, W.R. (1991). A Memoir of the Future. London: Karnac Books.
Fonagy, P., Gergely, G., Jurist, E., & Target, M. (2002). Affect Regulation,
Mentalization, and the Development of the Self. New York: Other Press.
Rand, H. (2000). Who was Rumpelstiltskin? International Journal of
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Siobhan O’Connor
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London NW10 5JU, UK
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Coasting in the Countertransference: Conflicts of Self Interest
between Analyst and Patient. By Irwin Hirsch. New York: The
Analytic Press, 2008, 240 pp., $34.95.
DOI: 10.1177/0003065109336662
Irwin Hirsch’s book explores a group of analytic impasses that are well
captured by his title, Coasting in the Countertransference. Coasting takes
place when the analyst chooses “comfort or equilibrium over creating
useful destabilization . . . at some cost to patients” (p. 2). Hirsch is candid
to a fault as he delves into several categories of such analytic pitfalls. His
observations will be challenging and thought-provoking for all readers. I
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came away with great respect for his analytic acumen and his capacity for
relentless self-scrutiny.
In his second chapter he examines “situational factors” that may
limit the analyst’s optimal emotional availability to the patient. Illustrating
his point with one of his early cases, he shows that the analyst’s personal
loneliness may help create “dependent and crisis-oriented patients”
(p. 34). He suggests that we can extricate ourselves from clinical impasses
once we are willing to “abandon preferred relational states that have cre-
ated comfortable mutual equilibrium” (p. 38), and then “introduce a
somewhat different mode of relatedness” (p. 192). He wonders “how
much sexual transferences to us are stimulated by our efforts to develop
these desires” in the patient (p. 42). All too often, I suspect.
Another astute insight is Hirsch’s point that an impasse may arise
when the analyst’s theory has an all-too-comfortable fit with the analyst’s
personality. Ernst Ticho noted, by contrast, that analysts may conversely
select a theory to restrain troubling elements in their personalities. For
example, Anna Ornstein once quipped, “If anyone needed a theory of
empathy, it was Heinz [Kohut].” Hirsch usefully reminds us that “Ferenczi
and Rank sharply criticized clinical psychoanalysis for becoming exces-
sively dominated by theory” (p. 109). Although he is a respected relational
analyst, Hirsch argues that relational theory may lead analysts to discour-
age exploration of the patient’s anger. Lest this appear to be an anomalous
lapse in his group loyalty, note that Hirsch also tells of a colleague who felt
profoundly disappointed in his relational institute and training analysis, but
later felt “liberated” (p. 124) by a second, classical personal analysis.
Hirsch’s openness won me over, after his summary of a case he felt he
handled poorly, with the candid admission “I think this is about the worst
I’ve done in an extended treatment” (p. 62). I also value his advice that,
when we realize we are “coasting” with a patient, we may get things back
on track by addressing the patient’s interactions with us in the here and now.
I wish he had connected his insights on coasting with Strachey’s classic
work on the therapeutic action of psychoanalysis. Strachey (1934) wrote
brilliantly about analysts’ avoidance of making transference interpretations
because “the analyst is exposing himself to great danger in doing so”
(p. 158), making himself the target of the patient’s now released impulses.
Hirsch’s ruthless candor and introspection naturally encourage the
reader to speculate about his possible blind spots. A prominent theme
in the book is envy and competition. Throughout the book, Hirsch fre-
quently draws attention to his enviably full practice. He acknowledges his
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competitive feelings toward patients who surpass him in wealth and life-
style. However, the only time I noticed that he admits he envies fellow
analysts was when he was abroad and envied German colleagues for their
generous insurance coverage for analysis. All this makes me wonder if
Hirsch tries to contend with some of his envious feelings by inducing
them in us, his readers and colleagues. This might help explain why he
keeps reminding the reader how busy his practice is. He discloses that he
is an only child. I wonder if his lack of sibling experiences might contrib-
ute to his implication that patients must vie with their analytic “siblings”
for the analyst’s all-too-limited emotional resources, in a game of musical
chairs that dooms some to failure (Waugaman 2003).
Hirsch seems idiosyncratic in his condemnation of clinical practices
by his colleagues that, according to him, “fall closer to ethical borders”
(p. 173). Unless he means closer to being ethical—which I doubt—I am
surprised that he is so judgmental about seeing patients less than once a
week; seeing patients for ninety-minute sessions; and having telephone
sessions with patients. To his credit, he admits that his motives in criticiz-
ing such practices might be “to shade my own selfish behaviors”
(p. 173)—that is, “coasting in the countertransference.” And I strongly
agree with him that phone sessions are best avoided, since they “represent
golden invitations for withdrawal” (p. 63).
When Hirsch lists analysts whose writings have inspired him, Harold
Searles comes first. Searles’s work indeed offers many commonalities
with Hirsch. For example, Hirsch notes that “there is always a danger that
we [therapists] accent our patient’s problems in order to enhance our own
comparative sense of esteem” (p. 147). Searles went still further, arguing
that therapists have an unconscious need to keep their patients ill, in order
to project their own disavowed psychopathology onto their patients.
Hirsch focuses so exclusively on the danger of emotional withdrawal
from the patient that the reader will naturally wonder about the opposite
risk of overidentification. Hirsch briefly discusses some “pitfalls” (p. 74)
of the analyst’s excessive emotional availability—e.g., it may be infan-
tilizing and create excessive dependence in the patient; it may increase
patients’ guilt about their selfishness and “darker sides”; and it may inter-
fere with a patient’s preference to be more remote from the analyst. I
would add that, as analysts increasingly recognize and work with post-
traumatic psychopathology, overidentification with the patient may also
lead to vicarious traumatization in the countertransference.
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has the same opportunity or luxury” (p. 21). I am surely not the only
reader who has decided to limit his practice, precisely to avoid the dan-
gers of overwork that Hirsch so persuasively describes. I take a five- to
fifteen-minute break between sessions. I find that routinely taking notes
after each session is an excellent opportunity for self-supervision, and it
gives me time to be more emotionally prepared for the next patient.
This excellent book suffers from some minor but distracting editorial
shortcomings. Several paragraphs run on for more than a page. Sentences
are sometimes interrupted by up to six lines of references. In one case, a
sentence (on p. 178) is thus interrupted four times, with a total of twenty-
one references. Inconsistently, but much more readably, some pages put
the voluminous references in a less distracting footnote.
In his final paragraph, Hirsch re-creates the dark tone of his first
chapter, admitting that “the picture I have painted . . . may appear bleak
and cynical” (p. 199). Despite that, his book is full of clinical gems, and
all analysts will benefit from reading it—especially if it encourages them
to emulate Hirsch’s exemplary self-scrutiny.
REFERENCES
Greenson, R. (1974). The decline and fall of the fifty-minute hour. Journal
of the American Psychoanalytic Association 22:785–791.
Strachey, J. (1934). The nature of the therapeutic action of psychoanalysis.
International Journal of Psychoanalysis 15:127–159.
Waugaman, R.M. (2003). The analyst’s caseload as a family: Transferences
to fellow patients. Psychoanalytic Quarterly 72:575–614.
Richard M. Waugaman
4701 Willard Avenue #204
Chevy Chase, MD 20815
E-mail: [email protected]
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Hurry Down Sunshine. By Michael Greenberg. New York: Other Press,
2008, 234 pp., $22.00.
DOI: 10.1177/0003065109336008
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