Person-Centred Approach in Counselling and Psychotherapy
Person-Centred Approach in Counselling and Psychotherapy
Person-Centred Approach in Counselling and Psychotherapy
humanistic approach.
the human spirit that has so often been implied in the image of
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phenomenology suggests that the human condition must be
understanding of humanity.
being.
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Becoming means to be constantly striving to be more effective
argued that 6 conditions were necessary and sufficient for the therapist to
encourage positive therapeutic change. Rogers focused on the client being ‘fully
Other humanist theorists: Abraham Maslow; Rollo May; James Bugental; Eugene
Organismic self:
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Actual self: human organism generally provides the individual with trustworthy
Children are often completely congruent with the organismic selves ( child falls
Self-concept:
attributes to himself’.
Configurations of self:
The self-concept is not a unified entity in fact, the individual may hold many
different concepts of the self. For example, we might feel that we can be both
spontaneous and cautious or loving and angry. Different configurations of the self
may result in different and possibly conflicting thoughts, feelings and behaviours.
It is important to note that these configurations are different parts of the same
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*Mearns et al. (2000): ‘ configuration is a hypothetical construct denoting a
Self’. Mearns et al. (2000) note that this notion of pluralism’ in the self-concept
Perception of self:
Social experiences will teach us about the person we ‘should’ be. In fact, many of
social influence.
Children learn how they ‘should’ act, feel and think through interaction with
others in their environment. For example: child falls over=child feels pain=child
begins to cry=child is told that boys don’t cry=child learns that pain should be
Children eventually internalize these values and these values impact on their
perception of the self. For example: Child learns that crying is a sign of
weakness= child believes that people he is weak for wanting to cry= part of the
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OR
Child learns that crying is a sign of weakness= child believes that people who cry
are weak= part of the self-concept of the child involves being a person who ‘never
interaction not fitting with the perception of self (self-concept) will be ignored or
strong person= individual believes that the person giving the compliment does not
Self-concept involves being a strong person who never cries= individual is hurt and
wants to cry= feelings of sadness are changed into feelings of anger (information
is distorted.
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IMPACT OF CONDITIONS OF WORTH ON THE SELF-CONCEPT
POSITIVE REGARD
The organismic self has a natural desire to receive positive regard from others
positive regard (parents imply that they love us if we are good, spouses implythat
they love us if we are faithful, friends imply that they love us if we are nice, etc.
Conditions of worth are the evaluations made by significant others about the
correct way to act, think and feel in order to receive conditional positive regard.
In the absence of blocks and restrictions, all humans will naturally move towards
towards realization, autonomy, perfection, acceptance, etc. All humans have this
natural drive towards positivity but they are often confounded in their attempts .
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To be described as ‘self-actualising’, an individual must be moving towards his or
her true potential. The actualizing tendency is a state of movement, rather than a
state of being.
In the presence of unconditional positive regard, you will become your ‘real self’
organismic self (true self). This is known as congruence. In the case that your self-
concept is not the same as your organismic self, this is known as incongruence.
HIERARCHY OF NEEDS
actualisation is the highest need for the individual to achieve, but it can be sought
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HIERARCHY OF NEEDS
Self-Actualisation
Esteem needs
Love needs
Safety needs
Physiological needs
achieve, but it can only be sought when all the other needs are being met.
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Esteem needs: self-respect, respect of others, confidence and
achievements
man can be, he must be’ and states that self-actualisation involves the
happy’.
*Peak experiences:
the individual will feel happy with his or her life and enjoy peak
satisfaction and give a meaning ort a purpose to life. For example, a woman
might have a peak experience after the birth of her child when she feels
intense joy and feels that her life has a purpose. Frankl (1946) argues that
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How can we explain the man who risks his life (safety need) for the woman
he loves (love need)? How can we explain the woman who does not eat for
of a need met at a chronic and extreme level. Modern western society has
adapted to ensure that physiological and safety needs are rarely neglected
sheer life-and -death hunger only by accident and then only a few times
through his entire life (Maslow, 1943). Those living in this culturemay
underestimate the value of these lower needs to the extent that they can
afford to risk losing them. Those people who experience true deprivation of
a basic need will be dominated by the desire to fulfil that need to the
exclusion of all other factors. ‘For our chronically and extremely hungry
man, Utopia can be defined very simply as a place where there is plenty of
food. Life itself tends to be defined in terms of eating. Anything else will be
philosophy, may all be waved aside as fripperies which are useless since
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they fail to fill the stomach. Such a man may fairly be said to live by bread
Once basic needs (physiological, safety, love, esteem) are being met, the
‘This process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-
hearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more
oneself fully into the stream of life. Yet the deeply exciting thing about
human beings is that when the individual is inwardly free, he chooses as the
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CHARACTERISTICS OF A FULLY FUNCTIONING PERSON (ROGERS, 1962).
good life’.
‘This process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-
hearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more
oneself fully in the stream of life. Yet the deeply exciting thing about human
beings is that when the individual is inwardly free, he chooses as the good
An individual who is fully open to experience will allow every single event in
life to pass through his or her body and mind without being distorted by
likely to accept his poor grades in an exam rather than distort them into
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Rogers (1961) argues that one aspect of ‘the good life’ is a ‘movement away
experience internal events so that he can fully accept negative feelings and
positive feelings.
living is able to live fully in each moment. For example, many young
happen in the future, but simply enjoy living in the present. Rogers
(1961) argues that each moment in life is new for an individual who is
An individual who places trust in his own self could evaluate each
situation and experience based on the available data, rather than relying
individual would have ‘access to all of the available data in the situation,
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on which to base his behaviour; the social demands, his own complex
the basis of all this complex information, this individual could then
each stimulus, need and demand, its relative intensity and importance,
and out of this complex weighing and balancing, discover the course of
action which would come closest to satisfying all his needs in the
we sit at the centre of this world because we are the main person of our
own history. For each of us, our experiences (what we consciously feel,
see, hear, etc). combine to create an internal private world. Note that
not all stimuli contribute to the private world- many senses are
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experiential field or phenomenal field. Only you can truly understand
your own phenomenal field because you are the only person who has
This perceptual field is, for the individual, ‘reality’’. We do not react to
reality based on our own phenomenal field. This is why two people can
fields.
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6. ‘ Emotion accompanies and in general facilitates goal-directed
behaviour, the kind of emotion being related to the seeking versus the
behaviours are those that you believe will help you survive or move
closer to self-actualization.
internal frame of reference of the individual himself’. You are the only
person who has had all of the unique experiences from your position in
the world- this means that you are an expert about you. If someone
would like too truly understand you as an individual, she/he would need
to view your behaviour while attempting to take into account your own
private world. They would need to stand in your shoes. Our attempt at
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realise that some parts of the world belong to us (things under our
control) and other parts of the world are external to us (things not
10. ‘The values attached to experiences, and the values which are part
over from others, but perceived in distorted fashion, as if they had been
experienced directly’.
11. ‘As experiences occur in the life of the individual, they are either, a)
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12. ‘ Most of the ways of behaving which are adopted by the organism
experiences and needs which have not been yet symbolized. Such
behaviour may be inconsistent with the structure of the self but in such
consequently are not symbolized and organized into the Gestalt of the
15. ‘ Psychological adjustment exists when the concept of the self is such
that all the sensory and visceral experiences of the organism are, or may
structure of the self may be perceived as a threat, and the more of these
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perceptions there are, the more rigidly the self structure is organized to
maintain itself’.
18. ‘When the individual perceives and accepts into one consistent and
19. ‘As the individual perceives and accepts into his self-structure more
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Relationship is the most important part of the therapy. Techniques,
relationship with the client under the assumption that this will give the
period of time.
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6. The communication to the client of the therapist’s empathic
achieved.
some extent.
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Congruency is known otherwise known as genuineness as it refers to the
*Rogers (1957) suggests that the therapist need only be congruent and
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regarded the human condition as inherently worthy, although he did
that a person is doing the best that they are able to do at that time and
directed towards the actions rather than the character of the individual.
of reference
Rogers (1957) states that the fifth condition for successful therapeutic
the world of the client from the client’s frame of reference. The
perspective, yet far enough away from the client to remain objective.
world of the client without a loss of the self. Many clients have never
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had the experience of being truly understood by another person and the
responses, such as ‘yes, that’s it….I can’t believe how well you
understand me’. True empathy can enhance rapport, thus opening the
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Unconditional positive regard, congruency and empathy are all
therapist.
Rogers wrote about the six conditions in 1957, but it was not until 1961
Rogers identified seven stages in the client’s process. All stages can be
awareness of self, their views of the world are fixed and rigid, they are
out of touch with their feelings, and they take no responsibility for their
actions.
touch with feelings (through being ‘fully received’ by another), then they
may engage in therapy. Most therapy takes place with clients in stages
two to six. If stage six is achieved, then stage seven will inevitably follow
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- Incongruence to congruence.
ABSENCE OF TECHNIQUES
therapy involves simply being with the client/No use of games, exercises,
regard and empathy. But these are simply interpersonal skills , rather than
As noted by Thorne (1996), Rogers was horrified to find that the focus on the
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responses of the therapist became a list of techniques- the whole purpose of
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