Pastoral Letter

Monsignor Fernando Ocáriz

Prelate of Opus Dei
Rome, 28 October 2020
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I. The gift of vocation

A sovereign grace
One same spirit
One same apostolic mission
The same means
Unity and diversity
With all our life
II. The vocation to the Work as a numerary
An available heart
A group nailed to the Cross
III. The vocation to the Work as an assistant numerary
The priority of the person and the family
From all environments
Apostolate of apostolates
IV. The vocation to the Work as an associate
With its own character
The fragrance of Christ
V. Priests of the Prelature
At the service of others
VI. On the apostolic celibacy of the numeraries
and associates
VII. The vocation to the Work as a supernumerary
It is a great grace from God
Marriage and family
Having a Christian influence on our own environment
VIII. The vocation to the Work as an associate
and supernumerary of the Priestly Society of
the Holy Cross

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 Rome, 28th October 2020

Dearly beloved, may Jesus watch over my daughters and sons for me!
1 With the centenary of the Work’s birth on the horizon, and thinking of the vast apostolic
panorama that our Lord is placing before our eyes, I would like us to meditate, slowly and
deeply, on St Josemaría’s teaching about how the universal Christian vocation to holiness is to
become a reality for each one of us. From the beginning, our Father understood that the
universality of this call implied that the fullness of love for God and others was possible also in
the middle of the world – in our real world, with its lights and shadows.

I. The gift of vocation

A sovereign grace
2 God chooses and calls everyone: He chose us in Christ, that we should be holy and
blameless in his presence through love (Eph 1:4). Our awareness of this gift and of our
responsibility in the face of it, nurtured with a youthful soul, will lead us to cooperate in
sanctifying the world. In communion with everyone in the Church, let us try to respond
generously to that Christian vocation as it is made specific for each one of us in Opus Dei.
Let us see the greatness of this call, which fills our journey in this world with an air of
eternity, in spite of our limitations and mistakes and the difficulties we encounter along the
way: “in spite of the in-spite-ofs,” as our Father used to say.
St Josemaría spoke of “the sovereign grace of our vocation.” It is not something
temporary, but a permanent grace. “It is a new vision of life (…) as though a light had been lit
within us;” and it is, at the same time, “a mysterious impulse, a vital force which is somewhat
like a sweeping avalanche.”1 In short, it is a grace that embraces our whole life and that shows
itself as light and as strength: light, so that we can see the way, see what God wants of us; and
strength, so as to be able to respond to the call, to say yes and to go forward on the path.
In one of his letters, our Father writes that “in a vocation, the only things that count are the
grace of God – which is its cause – and the generosity of the person concerned, moved by this
grace.”2 God always wants our freedom to have a decisive role in the response and, therefore,
in the very configuration of the vocation – together with grace, which does not take away our
freedom but perfects it. It is a freedom that, during the prior stage of discernment, also counts
on the light shed by the advice of those who can and should give it.
One same spirit
3 Everyone in the Work, each in his or her personal circumstances, has the same vocation.
We are called to be and to do Opus Dei, with the same spirit, with the same apostolic mission,

1
Letter 9 January 1932, 9.
2
Letter 12 December 1952, 35.

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with the same means.
We all have the same spirit, which moves us to sanctify ordinary life and, in a special way,
our work. “There is no noble human work on earth that cannot be divinized, cannot be
sanctified. There is no work that we should not sanctify and make holy and sanctifying for us
and for others.”3 This spirit leads us to seek union with God in whatever we face, at every
moment of our lives. And so the sanctification of our work is the axis on which our search for
holiness, for identification with Jesus Christ turns, through our correspondence to grace.
This brings with it a positive view of earthly realities, which are those God has given us.
We love this world, without ignoring what is opposed to the good in it (see 1 Jn 2:15). Its
concerns are also our concerns, and if its joys usually make it easier for us to love it, its
sorrows should lead us to love it even more. What a comfort and what a sense of responsibility
those words of St Paul should arouse in us: All things are yours, and you are Christ’s, and
Christ is God’s (1 Cor 3:23).
And if the sanctification of our work is the axis of our holiness, our sense of divine
filiation has to be the foundation. Filiation which, through sanctifying grace, “introduces” us
into the divine life of the Holy Trinity, as children of the Father, in the Son, through the Holy
Spirit. “By the grace of baptism, we have been made children of God. With this free divine
decision, man’s natural dignity has been incomparably exalted. And while sin destroyed this
marvellous reality, the Redemption has restored it yet more admirably (see Missale Romanum,
Ordo Missæ), by bringing us to share even more closely in the divine filiation of the Word.”4
As it is the foundation, our divine filiation shapes our whole life. It leads us to pray with
the trust of God’s children, to pass through life with the poise of God’s children, to reason and
decide with the freedom of God’s children, to face pain and suffering with the serenity of God’s
children, to appreciate beautiful things as a child of God does. In short, divine filiation “is there
in every thought, every desire, every affection.”5 And it necessarily expands into fraternity. The
Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God (Rom 8:16). This
witness is our filial love for God,6 which brings with it fraternal love. “Others drink from other
sources. For us, the wellspring of human dignity and fraternity is in the Gospel of Jesus
Christ.”7
In short, the centre and root of our spiritual life is the Eucharistic Sacrifice. It is the root
objectively, because “as often as the sacrifice of the Cross, in which ‘Christ, our Passover, has
been sacrificed’ (1 Cor 5:7), is celebrated on the altar, the work of our redemption is
accomplished.”8
But whether our life is really subjectively centred on the Eucharist depends also on our
personal correspondence to grace: “Keep struggling, so that the Holy Sacrifice of the Altar

3
Letter 31 May 1954, 17.
4
Letter 19 March 1967, 93.
5
Friends of God, 146.
6
See St Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on the Epistle to the Romans, ch. 8, lec. 3.
7
Pope Francis, Encyclical Fratelli tutti, 277.
8
Second Vatican Council, Constitution Lumen Gentium, 3.

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 really becomes the centre and root of your interior life, and so your whole day will turn into an
act of worship – an extension of the Mass you have attended and a preparation for the next.
Your whole day will then be an act of worship that overflows in aspirations, visits to the
Blessed Sacrament and the offering up of your professional work and your family life…”9
From the Eucharistic centre of our Christian life there arises also the development and
effectiveness of our apostolic mission: “If the centre around which your thoughts and hopes
turn is the Tabernacle, then, my child, how abundant the fruits of your sanctity and apostolate
will be!”10
One same apostolic mission
4 We have the same apostolic mission. We are all equally called to sanctify ourselves and to
collaborate with the Church’s mission to transform the world in a Christian way; in our case, by
living the spirit of Opus Dei. The mission of the Work can only be properly understood within
the great mission of the Church, in which “all of us are called to offer others an explicit witness
to the saving love of the Lord, who despite our imperfections offers us his closeness, his word
and his strength, and gives meaning to our lives.”11
Only in the Church, Christ’s Mystical Body, do we receive the strength to serve the world
of our time fruitfully. That is why, even with all our limitations, we share the concerns, worries
and sufferings of the Church in every age and in every place. Each one of us can make our own
that attitude of St Paul: Who is weak, and I am not weak? Who is made to fall, and I am not
indignant? (2 Cor 11:29).
5 Our apostolic mission is not limited to certain activities, because with the love of Jesus
Christ we can transform everything into a Christian service to others. Each one fully carries out
the mission of the Work with our own lives: in our families, in our workplace, in the society in
which we live, among our friends and acquaintances. This is why we understand St Josemaría's
insistence that in the Work, “we give primary and fundamental importance to the spontaneity of
the individual, to free and responsible initiative guided by the action of the Spirit, and not to
organisational structures.”12 This is also why the main apostolate of the Work is the apostolate
of friendship and trust that each one of us carries out personally.
In the light of all this, we can better understand in what sense “all our apostolic tasks and
the instruments we use to carry them out are onus et honor – a burden and an honour – for all:
for the numeraries, the associates and the supernumeraries, and also for the cooperators.”13
Through the communion of saints, we carry out our apostolic mission all together, wherever we
are. And so St Josemaría reminds us, referring to everyone in the Church, that “if we use the
means available to us, we will become salt and light and leaven for the world; we will be the

9
The Forge, 69.
10
Ibid., 835.
11
Pope Francis, Apostolic Exhortation Evangelii gaudium, 121.
12
Conversations, 19.
13
Letter 31 May 1954, 34.

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 consolation of God.”14
The same means
6 In order to accomplish our mission, Christ is the way. And to follow him as disciples and
apostles, all of us in Opus Dei have the same means: the same norms and customs of Christian
life, the same means of spiritual and doctrinal formation. They are lived in different ways
according to our personal circumstances, but the whole is always basically the same.
It is good not to lose sight of the fact that they are means (not ends) that lead us, by God’s
grace, to grow in our contemplative life in the midst of our human concerns, nourished by the
superabundance of life in Christ given to us by the Sacraments, especially the Holy Eucharist.
These practices of piety are part of a loving dialogue that embraces our whole life and
leads us to a personal encounter with Christ. They are moments in which God awaits us, in
order to share his life with ours. The effort to fulfil them is something we find liberating,
because “sanctity has the flexibility of supple muscles (…). Sanctity is not rigid like cardboard;
it knows how to smile, to give way to others and to hope. It is life – supernatural life.”15
In this way, trusting in God’s mercy, we will try to live always seeking the perfection of
charity, according to the spirit God has given us. Being holy does not mean doing more and
more things, or fulfilling the task of meeting certain criteria we have set ourselves. The way to
holiness, as St Paul explains, consists in corresponding to the action of the Holy Spirit, until
Christ is formed in us (see Gal 4:19).
Unity and diversity
7 Our Father saw the Work’s functioning as “one single fabric,” made up of the different
ways we live out the same vocation. That is why he insisted that in the Work there are no
classes, no first or second-class members: not on account of the different ways in which our
vocation is lived out, nor because of the type of professional work we do. As in any reality of a
supernatural character, the essential thing – something that cannot be judged on this earth – is
how we correspond to God’s love.
St Josemaría expressed this unity of vocation by saying that ours is “only one divine
vocation, only one spiritual reality, which adapts flexibly to the personal circumstances of each
individual and to his or her state in life. This identical vocation entails an equality of
dedication, within the natural limits that differing situations impose.’16
Naturally, unity and diversity in the Work includes what corresponds to men and women:
there is a unity of spirit, of apostolic mission, and of means, together with the separation of the
activities proper to each. Furthermore, in matters common to the whole Work, there is a unity
of direction between men and women at the central and regional levels. The governing bodies
of the men and the women have equal initiative and responsibility. In specific important cases
established by law, they have the same competence to accept or reject the proposals of the

14
Christ is Passing By, 74.
15
The Forge, 156.
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Letter 24 December 1951, 137.

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 Prelate or, in the regions, those of the Regional Vicar.
With all our life
8 It might seem that some are more dedicated to the mission of the Work than others. This is
not the case. All live with equal dedication, because being and doing Opus Dei does not consist
only, or even mainly, in taking part in certain tasks or in corporate apostolic activities. Our
vocation, and the mission that corresponds to it, encompasses our whole life, not just a part of
it; our whole life is an opportunity and a means to meet Christ and to do apostolate.
St Josemaría wrote that our call presupposes a “full vocational encounter, because
whatever a person’s marital status, he or she lives a full dedication to their work and to the
faithful fulfilment of the duties of their state, according to the spirit of Opus Dei. Hence, to
dedicate oneself to God in Opus Dei does not imply a selection of activities; it does not mean
dedicating more or less time in our life to doing some good works, while abandoning others.
Opus Dei is grafted onto our whole life.”17 A full vocational encounter, embracing the whole of
my own life, with full dedication, because everything contains a call from God to love him and
to serve others, with a love that is inner freedom. As Don Alvaro commented, “the Work
demands a great elasticity: a minimum of rules, because they are necessary; but a minimum, so
that the letter does not kill the spirit: Littera enim occidit, spiritus autem vivificat (2 Cor
3:6).”18
9 In these pages I would also like to invite you to renew your gratitude to God for the gift of
your vocation. A joyful gratitude, not only for the beauty of the Work, when we see how God
wants it to be in its fullness, but also when each one of us sees how that beauty is made fully
present in the way in which each of the faithful of the Prelature personally lives out this single
vocation: as numeraries (in the case of women, also as assistant numeraries), as associates, as
supernumeraries, or as members of the Priestly Society of the Holy Cross.
In this context, I would like to emphasize what I wrote to you a few months ago: we
cannot let ourselves be disheartened by the experience of our own personal weakness and that
of others, compared to the wonderful vista that the Christian faith and the spirit of the Work
place before us. In the face of the discouragement that can arise in us when we see the
disproportion between the ideal and the poor reality of our lives, let us have the security that
we can begin again every day with the strength of the grace of the Holy Spirit.19

II. The vocation to the Work as a numerary

10 “At the heart of the Work, the numeraries place themselves at the feet of all their brothers
and sisters, in a special mission of service to make their way of holiness pleasant. They look
after them in all their needs of soul and body, they help them in their difficulties, and they make
it possible for everyone’s apostolate to be fruitful, through their selfless sacrifice.”20 In this way
the numeraries “give life” to their brothers and sisters. Their work, “by keeping everyone
17
Letter 25 January 1961, 11.
18
Bl. Alvaro del Portillo, note 135 to the Instruction on St Michael’s work.
19
See Message, 20 July 2020.
20
Letter 29 September 1957, 8.

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 spiritually active and awake, brings about an extraordinary reality of fraternity and unity.”21
In the numeraries, the vocation to Opus Dei is determined by the gift of apostolic celibacy
and by their full availability for tasks of formation and apostolic activities. This availability,
understood and carried out as a special mission of service to others, is facilitated by the fact
that, in principle, numeraries live in centres of the Work. However, many circumstances may
arise that could make it better not to do so. This does not affect their identity or their mission,
since they will always know that they are there to serve all the others, wherever they live.
An available heart
11 The readiness of numeraries to serve others consists in a genuine availability of heart: the
effective freedom to live only for God and, through him, for others, coupled with a willingness
to take on the tasks required in the Work.
For some, this availability will involve taking part in tasks of formation and apostolic
work, while they also dedicate themselves to some professional work that corresponds to their
talents, studies and preferences, in order to bring the joy of the Gospel there. For others, it will
be a matter of dedicating themselves professionally to the administration of the centres of the
Work, or to tasks of formation, government, direction or cooperation in apostolic activities.
On the other hand, our availability cannot be limited to a passive attitude of doing what
I’ve been asked to do, but shows itself fully when we think about what talents we have received
from God, so as to put them at the service of the apostolic mission. And we “make the first
move”: we offer ourselves, with initiative. Therefore, availability is not immobility but, on the
contrary, the habitual desire to move at God’s pace.
We have to understand and live out our full availability as freedom, in the sense of being
tied down only by love (that is, not tied down as a necessity to a job, the place where we reside,
etc., while also being well rooted where we are). What makes us free is not the external
circumstances, but the love we carry in our hearts.
As a specific expression of this particular task of service, our Father foresaw that the work
of government in Opus Dei would fall to the numeraries. We need some people to dedicate
themselves to this work, since it sustains the life of the whole. But it would be a mistake to
think that those who have this dedication to the tasks of government or formation are more
available or are doing Opus Dei more. This is what Don Javier meant when he wrote in one of
his letters: “There is no other option than for some of my daughters and sons to cut back on
their professional activity – or even to leave it completely, at least for a while – in order to
devote themselves to helping their brothers and sisters in the spiritual life and directing the
apostolic work.”22
Our Father expresses this full interior disposition in many places. For example: “all have a
divine vocation, but the numeraries have to offer themselves directly and immediately to God
in a holocaust, giving everything, their whole heart, their activities without limitation, their

21
Ibid., 76.
22
Javier Echevarría, Pastoral Letter, 28 November 1995, 16.

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 property, their reputation.”23 It is precisely a matter of freely giving up all their activities,
whatever they may be, without setting limits, in order to do the Work. Obviously, there are
sometimes circumstances which objectively limit the possibility of their taking on certain
assignments or tasks at a given time. So I say again that what is important is their interior
disposition of full availability to serve others, for the love of Christ.
A group nailed to the Cross
12 Let us also remember those other words of St Josemaría: “Our Lord does not want his
Work to be something merely transient. He wants it to be immortal: he wants there to be in the
Work a group nailed to the Cross. The Holy Cross will make us enduring, always with the spirit
of the Gospel itself, producing the apostolate of action as the sweet-tasting fruit of prayer and
sacrifice.”24 Our Father does not indicate who make up this group nailed to the Cross. But Don
Alvaro, in his note commenting on this paragraph, points out that the different ways of living
one’s vocation in the Work are already announced or alluded to here. From the context we can
think that, in this case, it refers above all to the numeraries.
In some other places, St Josemaría also refers to priests as especially nailed to the Cross. In
reality all of us, including the associates and the supernumeraries, must be nailed to the Cross,
because that is where we find our Lord – as our Father says in words that express a profound
personal experience of his: “To have the Cross is to identify oneself with Christ, it is to be
Christ and, therefore, to be children of God.’25
Although it may sometimes be hard, from a human point of view, for numeraries to leave
their previous profession for a time in order to dedicate themselves professionally to other
types of activities (administration of centres of the Work, government, formation, direction or
cooperation in apostolic activities), it is a fruitful encounter with the Cross, the place of the
most profound identification with Christ and the source of great – and often unexpected –
supernatural joy.
13 When we ask for admission to the Work, we understand and freely adopt – out of love! –
this attitude of availability, which leads us to plunge into a divine project. At the same time,
like everything else in the spiritual life, the effective maturing of our self-giving grows over
time. This growth occurs through our formation, through our interior life and through our
various experiences of self-giving – in small changes of plan, tasks, etc. – which prepare our
souls for larger changes, if necessary. Naturally, when it comes to major assignments or
changes, the directors always seek first the opinion of the ones concerned; though the latter,
while pointing out with simplicity any difficulties they may see, at the same time try to
maintain a willingness to be available for whatever is needed, out of love for God and souls.
What is decisive, I insist, is that each one should have this habitual interior disposition of
dedication to our brothers and sisters and to so many other people who are waiting for our
Christian service: Lift up your eyes and see how the fields are already white for harvest (Jn

23
Instruction on St Gabriel’s work, 113.
24
Instruction on the supernatural spirit of the Work, 28.
25
Notes from a meditation, 28 April 1963.

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 4:35).
This attitude is perfectly compatible with a healthy professional ambition and with a
natural and responsible concern to support ourselves economically and to attend to the needs of
our supernatural family. Our willingness to change professional tasks, if the Work requires it,
precisely in order to dedicate ourselves to the formation of others, goes hand in hand with the
conviction that we are women and men who want to take part in the challenges of the world,
like our peers, because our mission is to help transform the world and bring it to God. And this
is also done in a very effective way from the positions of direction and formation in the Work.
You, the numeraries, live the gift of apostolic celibacy as the fullness of love in Christ,
which opens up a spiritual fatherhood and motherhood. You are called to be living witnesses of
total dedication to God, in the middle of the world, being fully available to serve everyone: in
love with Jesus, with those around you, and with the world. You have received a special call to
watch over a supernatural family and to care for your brothers and sisters.
You have a very broad horizon: with your committed life, at times perhaps hidden and
without any human brilliance, you reach every corner of the world with your fruitfulness.

III. The vocation to the Work as an assistant numerary

14 You, the assistant numeraries, have a special function of serving, which you carry out by
creating and maintaining the atmosphere of a Christian home in the centres of the Work. You
make this task a reality through your professional work, which in your case is the
Administration. As you know, it is not just a question of carrying out a series of material tasks
which between us we can do and must do in one way or another, but of planning, organising
and coordinating them in such a way that the result is precisely a home where everyone feels at
home, welcomed, affirmed, cared for, and at the same time responsible. This task, which is of
great importance for every human person, has repercussions on the physiognomy and
spirituality of the whole Work, of each and every one of its members. You women thus become
“an irreplaceable support and a source of spiritual strength for others, who perceive the great
energy”26 of your spirit.
The priority of the person and the family
15 By your work you care for and serve our life in the Work, making each person the focus
and priority of your task. This is a very palpable expression of the fact that the Work is a
family; a family in the true sense, not the metaphorical. You remember how our Father so often
told us that the bonds in the Work are stronger than those of blood, something which also has
consequences in terms of affection and mutual love.
St Josemaría often reflected on the fact that the work of the Administration is the same as
the one Our Lady did. Thus the “family air” of the Work must be like a duplicate, a
continuation of the atmosphere (although we have not seen it, we can imagine it) of the home
in Nazareth.

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St John Paul II, Apostolic Letter Mulieris dignitatem, 30.

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 Although the work of the Administration of our centres is called by different names in
different cultures, in reality you assistant numeraries are sisters, mothers, an integral part of the
family, just like the Father and the other children. Because of the grace you have received from
God to take care of everyone in the Work, St Josemaría used to say that if he had been able, he
would have become an assistant numerary. He called you his “little daughters” because you
were the last to arrive in the Work, not because he considered you to be minors: on the
contrary, he relied in a special way on your mature and firm faithfulness in order to carry out
the great plans of the Work.
From all environments
16 It is a wonderful reality that you, the assistant numeraries, come from all walks of life. In
fact, people are sometimes unsure whether God is asking them to be a numerary or an assistant
numerary. One element (among others) to keep in mind is the person’s inclination towards
tasks more directly oriented to serving and caring for people. Of course, discernment depends
ultimately on each individual, with the guidance received in spiritual direction and from the
directors.
In any case, we understand that the work of the Administration takes on a great dignity:
that of imparting and maintaining the warmth of the home in a family. Furthermore, those who
work in the Administration, “through this profession – because it is a true and noble one – have
a positive influence not only on the family but also on a multitude of friends and acquaintances,
on people with whom they relate in one way or another, sometimes fulfilling a much more
extensive task than other professionals.”27
Apostolate of apostolates
17 St Josemaría valued the work of the Administration to the point of considering it the
apostolate of the apostolates: without it, the Work could not move forward.
It is the apostolate of the apostolates, in the first place because it is in itself a very direct
apostolate. I repeat that it is not limited to providing material services, although these are
necessary and important in themselves. Above all, this task – transformed into prayer – has a
very direct influence on the human and spiritual formation of the people in the centre being
administered. The environment you create is formative, very formative.
In fact, your well-done work makes our spirit something palpable and communicates it
effectively by way of deeds, in a tangible and constant way. That is why you try to give the
greatest possible professionalism to your housework, just as each one of my children does with
their own task. And by raising it to the ambit of sanctified work, you put your professional
competence directly at the service of persons, making it a factor to humanise and inspire the
professional work of all.
In the second place, the work of the Administration is the apostolate of apostolates because
it makes the other apostolates possible, acting like the sap and stimulus for each of them,
especially to the extent that you try to transform your work into a dialogue with God. “When

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Conversations, 88.

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 you work in the Administration,” St Josemaría wrote, “you take part in all the apostolates, you
cooperate in all the work we do. The good progress of your work is a necessary condition, the
greatest impulse for the whole Work, if you do it with love for God.”28 It is very noticeable
when, at the beginning of the apostolic work in a country or a city, there is no Administration
yet; it is also noticeable that, when there is one, the Work becomes more alive and more
dynamic. In addition, it is logical that the assistant numeraries should take part in many other
apostolic activities, as far as it is possible for each one.
We also say that the Administration is the “backbone” of the Work because it supports the
whole body, which otherwise could not stand upright. And this is the truth, thank God; it is
something we must always remember and value. Naturally, you other numeraries who work in
the Administration also make up this backbone and this apostolate of apostolates.
You, my assistant numerary daughters, have an exciting mission: to transform this world –
so full of individualism and indifference today – into a real home. Your task, when it is carried
out with love, can reach all environments. You are building a more human and a more divine
world, because you are dignifying it with your work turned into prayer, with your love, and
with the professionalism you put into looking after people in their entirety.

IV. The vocation to the Work as an associate

With its own character
18 You, the associates, carry out Opus Dei mainly through a deep personal apostolate in your
own professional and family environment, and by working with the numeraries in caring for
the other faithful of the Work. By your lives you show the completely free nature of the
apostolic activity of every baptized person, carrying it out with all the energy of a celibate
heart. That is why St Josemaría could say to you: “I am envious of you: your dedication to God
is total and complete just like mine, but you can reach further.”29 What did he mean by this? He
meant that the key thing is to be in the middle of the world, in the middle of its activities, its
work, its families, in order to lead a Christian life there.
You find yourselves in quite varied circumstances and you move in all kinds of
professional environments. Your life is open to an unlimited field of possibilities in which to
embody and spread the spirit of Opus Dei. Because your origins are so varied, you reach out
into the whole social fabric; because you stay longer in each place, you make it much easier to
implant the apostolates in the area; your way of life allows you to cultivate a great multiplicity
of relationships, and to do so in a very stable way: in your family and your profession, in your
neighbourhood, in the town, city or country where you live. “You reach further,” as St
Josemaría said, not only in terms of the breadth of your apostolate, but also in its depth,
because you show in your own lives what it means to give yourself to God in the middle of the
world, with an undivided heart.
So we can understand very well why our Father wanted there to be twice as many

28
Letter 29 July 1965, 11.
29
Notes from a get-together, 15 September 1962.

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 associates as numeraries: because the key thing is our work in the middle of ordinary
circumstances, the work that belongs to each one of us.
If someone, when considering their possible vocation to the Work, were to hesitate
between becoming a numerary or an associate, we might have to make them see that it would
be a mistake to think that being a numerary is better than being an associate. This is very
important in discerning a vocation. There are cases where the way in which the vocation to the
Work is specified is obvious: for example, a married man can be a supernumerary, but not an
associate or a numerary. But there are other cases which are less obvious, and the final
discernment must be made by the person concerned: he or she is the one who experiences what
God is asking specifically of them, within a single and common vocation. Logically, as a
matter of prudence, it is very good to seek advice in spiritual direction, and also to speak to the
directors, who know the person and wish to discern with him or her what God’s will is.
The fragrance of Christ
19 Referring specifically to the associates, St Josemaría wrote: “Through their work, in all
walks of life, in all places (at times in corporate apostolates), in the most diverse corners of the
world, they bear with them everywhere, among their companions, the fragrance of Christ; and
they strive to give a Christian meaning to the social, professional and financial undertakings,
both public and private, of those who come from the same background and have the same
social position. And all this is normally done without having to change their work or place of
residence.”30 I myself have heard Don Javier say – picking up a teaching of St Josemaría’s –
that you associates express what Opus Dei is in a particularly clear way, through the
sanctification of your ordinary life, your professional work and your family life, without
changing your place.
You, the associates, sometimes work in corporate educational establishments or other
apostolic activities. But that is not the main way you participate in the mission of the Work, for
the whole of it is in your hands. Sometimes you have to take on these tasks, but your main way
is to sanctify your ordinary life, treating people with friendship and trust and, when
appropriate, accompanying your friends to the means of formation of St Raphael’s and St
Gabriel’s work… In a word, God is calling you to be leaven within the dough. The important
thing for you, I repeat, is your apostolic work in the middle of your ordinary circumstances and
the professional work that belongs to each of you.

V. Priests of the Prelature

20 From among the numeraries and associates come the vocations to the priesthood in the
Work, which are as essential as the laity in the theological and juridical reality of the Prelature.
This call is not a crowning of the vocation to the Work, but a new way of living it, with “a
greater obligation than the others ‘to put their hearts on the floor like a carpet, so that their
brothers and sisters can tread softly’.”31

30
Letter 29 September 1957, 13.
31
Letter 8 August 1956, 7.

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 Together with the tasks belonging to their priestly ministry in the Church, which is centred
on the Eucharist, the priests of the Prelature dedicate themselves chiefly to their ministerial
service to the other faithful and to the priestly care of their apostolic activities. Specifically, in
accord with the particular pastoral mission of the Prelature, they are concerned above all with
celebrating the sacraments of the Eucharist and Penance; preaching the Word of God; spiritual
direction; and an extensive task of doctrinal formation.
The fact that the priests of the Prelature live the spirit of the Work, just like everyone else,
implies a certain priestly style. They necessarily reflect a secular tone in their ministry; they are
very careful to respect and promote the responsibility and initiative of the lay faithful; they act
in a supernatural way in order to bring people closer to God; they foster in those around them
that freedom of spirit which is love; they use their initiative to build up an abundant priestly
work. Naturally, as far as possible, they also cooperate in the activities of the diocese where
they live.
At the service of others
21 At the beginning of one of his letters, which was addressed especially to his priestly sons,
St Josemaría wrote: “My priest sons, you have been ordained to serve. Let me begin by
reminding you that your priestly ministry is a mission of service. Since I know you well, I am
aware that this word ‘service’ expresses all that you wish and all that you are. This good and
sincere desire of yours to be forever occupied in doing good to others, just like your brothers
and sisters, is for me a source of great pride and consolation, and is why I can say that you are
gaudium meum et corona mea (Phil 4:1): my joy and my crown.”32
As priests, your spirit of service moves you to feel – and to be, in practice – just one more
among your brothers, aware that in the Work there is “only one class, although it is made up of
both clergy and laity.”33 At the same time, with your example and your word you try to be like
alarm clocks to awaken the desire for holiness in others, and to be instruments of unity in the
Work. While staying very close to everyone, try to maintain a proper human level, a priestly
seriousness in your appearance, your conversations, etc.
My children, if St Josemaría said to everyone that “it is Christ we must talk about, not
ourselves,”34 you priests must make a special effort not to shine, not to take the lead role, trying
to ensure that the lead role and the brightness in your life are those of Christ, and that in any
case it is your sisters and brothers who shine. To do this – you know it very well and are
already trying to live it – you have a special need for union with God, prayer and joyful
sacrifice, in a unity of life.

VI. On the apostolic celibacy of the numeraries and associates

22 In the numeraries and associates, the vocation to the Work involves apostolic celibacy,
which is a gift from God and a response to that gift through a correspondence of love for Love.

32
Ibid., 1.
33
Ibid., 5.
34
Christ is Passing By, 163.

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 “Always bear in mind that Love is the reason for our celibacy – the Love of all loves.”35 Hence
we should not think of celibacy only or mainly as a functional choice: that is, as something that
enables us to dedicate ourselves more to the tasks of the Work or go from one place to another.
It is true that celibacy makes this possible, or easier, but its fundamental motive is that it is a
special gift that identifies us with Christ’s life. “Celibacy must be a witness of faith: faith in
God becomes palpable in this form of life, which can only draw meaning from God. To base
our life on this, renouncing marriage and the family, means to welcome and experience God as
a reality, so as to be able to bring him to others.”36
Apostolic celibacy does not separate us from others. But because it means making a
commitment to God with an undivided heart, it has to be noticed in the tenor of our dedicated
life, analogous to that of a married person, who cannot behave as if they had not made a
commitment of faithfulness to their spouse.
A vocation, when lived radically, will sometimes clash with the standards of the world.
Here, too, we can apply those more general words of St Josemaría: “‘And in a paganised or
pagan environment, when my life clashes with its surroundings, won’t my naturalness seem
artificial?’ you ask me. And I reply: Undoubtedly your life will clash with theirs; and that
contrast – faith confirmed by works! – is exactly the naturalness I ask of you.”37
Let us renew, once and again, our conviction that the gift of apostolic celibacy is a special
sign of divine love, a call to a particular identification with Jesus Christ, which also brings with
it a greater capacity to love everyone – even humanly speaking, but above all supernaturally.
Thus it is that celibacy, in forgoing physical paternity and maternity, makes a much greater
spiritual motherhood or fatherhood possible. But in any case, it is those who love God more,
whether they are celibate or married, who will in fact be more identified with Christ, for
marriage is also a “divine path on earth.”38

VII. The vocation to the Work as supernumerary

It is a great grace from God
23 The majority of the faithful of Opus Dei is made up of you, the supernumeraries, who
strive to sanctify all the dimensions of your lives, especially your married and family life,
since you are usually married. In 1947, in response to some reflections he had received about
supernumeraries, St Josemaría wrote to his children in Spain: “I read your notes on
supernumeraries. (…) I’ll give your notes back to you next week with some specific
comments. Anyway, I’ll say now that we cannot lose sight of the fact that we are not talking
about the inscription of some gentlemen in a particular association (…) To be a
supernumerary is a great grace from God!”39 It is God who gives the grace, “a great grace,”
says St Josemaría: that of the vocation to the Work. For supernumeraries, this vocation is a

35
Instruction on St Michael’s work, 84.
36
Pope Benedict XVI, Address, 22 December 2006.
37
The Way, 380.
38
Conversations, 92.
39
Letter to the General Council of Opus Dei, 18 December 1947.

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 special help for them to travel along their own path of sanctification: the path marked out by
baptism and, in most cases, by the reception of the sacrament of matrimony and the
formation of a family.
The call presupposes a choice and, as I wrote earlier, it is directed to a mission: to be and
to do Opus Dei in the Church. In the Instruction on St Gabriel’s work, referring to
supernumeraries, St Josemaría wrote: “I see now this great team of men and women in action
(…) each one, conscious of having been chosen by God to achieve holiness in the middle of
society, precisely where he or she is, with a solid and learned piety, striving to fulfil joyfully
the duty of every moment – although it requires an effort.”40 So let us never see our vocation
as a set of demands, of obligations (although it has them, of course), but above all as a choice
made by God, a great gift from God.
The horizon that gives meaning to your mission is to be “a leaven that will divinise men
and, in making them divine, will make them at the same time truly human.”41 Like Aquila
and Priscilla, who welcomed St Paul in Corinth (see Acts 18:2) and who proclaimed the
Gospel to Apollos and many others (see Acts 18:26; Rom 16:3; 1 Cor 16:19); like so many of
those first Christians who led a life as normal as that of their contemporaries and who, at the
same time, were salt of the earth and light of a world that was in darkness.
“Among the Supernumeraries there is the full range of social backgrounds, professions
and jobs. All kinds of circumstances and situations are sanctified by my children, men and
women who within their own state in life and situation in the world dedicate themselves to
seeking Christian perfection with a ‘fullness of vocation’.”42 Note how our Father insists on
the “fullness of vocation.” As far as variety is concerned, this clearly follows from the fact
that the Work is a path of sanctification and apostolate in ordinary life; an ordinary life that
admits all the variety of whatever is honest and human.
Marriage and family
24 The vocation as a supernumerary in the Work develops in the first place in the family
sphere. “Your first apostolate is in the home.”43 St Josemaría dreamed that the homes of
supernumeraries would be “bright and cheerful, centres for the spreading of the Gospel and
its message.”44 This is the heritage you leave to society. That is why he also wrote to you:
“The formation that Opus Dei gives you leads you to appreciate the beauty of the family, the
supernatural work entailed in forming a home and the fount of sanctification that lies hidden
in your conjugal duties.”45
Moreover, you are called upon to influence other families positively: in particular, by
helping them to make their family life more Christian and by preparing the youth for
marriage, so that many young people will be enthused and will be able to form other

40
Instruction on St Gabriel’s work, 9.
41
Letter 9 January 1959, 7.
42
Ibid., 10.
43
Ibid., 53.
44
Christ is Passing By, 30.
45
Letter 9 January 1959, 53.

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 Christian homes, from which the many vocations to apostolic celibacy that God desires will
also arise.
Even if you are single or widowed – or, of course, couples without children – you can
see in the family your first apostolate, because you will always have, in one way or another, a
family environment to nourish.
Having a Christian influence on our own environment
25 St Josemaría saw in you a great mobilization of Christians, who would radiate the love
of Christ in their work and in their social surroundings, principally through their apostolate of
friendship and trust; and who, in doing so, would also contribute to improving the structures
of society, making them ever more human and suited to the life of God’s children, taking an
active part in solving the problems of our time. “You are doing a most fruitful apostolate
when you strive to orient in a Christian way the professions, institutions and human
structures in which you move and work.”46
So it is clear that the vocation of the supernumeraries, and the mission it entails, cannot
be limited to living some practices of piety, attending some means of formation and
participating in some apostolic activity. Rather, it encompasses your whole life, because
everything in your life can be an encounter with God and a form of apostolate. To do Opus
Dei is to do it in our own lives and, through the communion of saints, to cooperate in
carrying it out throughout the world. Or, as our founder reminded us in a graphic phrase, to
do Opus Dei by each one being Opus Dei.
When you feel the Work as your own, you will have a lively interest in forming
yourselves, in bringing Christ to others, and in giving an account of your faith. In fact, “the
formation you receive in Opus Dei is flexible; it adapts to your personal and social situation
like a glove to the hand. (…) While we have only one spirit and only one set of ascetic
means, these can and should become a reality in each situation without being rigid.”47
This flexibility that avoids rigidity does not mean that being a supernumerary entails a
lesser demand to be heroic or radical in our following of Christ. Hence we should not focus
so much on the diversity of your circumstances as on the real essence of what, in those
circumstances, is your call from God, your God-given mission. In any situation, it is a
question of being with Christ, loving Christ, working with Christ and taking him everywhere.
When St Josemaría wrote that “the supernumeraries dedicate themselves partially to the
service of the Work,”48 he was referring to your actual availability for specific apostolic
undertakings, and not to your doing the Work partially, since – I repeat again – we carry out
this task of doing the Work with our whole life. This is why our Father also wrote, when
speaking about the apostolic mission of supernumeraries: “This apostolate is not carried out
in a sporadic or fortuitous way, but habitually and by vocation, such that it becomes a life-

46
Ibid., 17.
47
Ibid., 33.
48
Instruction on St Gabriel’s work, 23.

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 long ideal.”49
God is counting on you to fan out, spontaneously and with initiative, and to bring the joy
of the Gospel to all kinds of people. “In your apostolic action you have to take the initiative,
within the very wide margin indicated by our spirit, to find the activities that best suit the
circumstances – whatever the place, the environment and the time.”50
This is the great mission of my supernumerary sons and daughters, a mission that has no
limits. “There should not be a single village without some Supernumerary there radiating our
spirit.”51

VIII. The vocation to the Work as an associate and supernumerary of the Priestly
Society of the Holy Cross
26 “You are as much a part of Opus Dei as I am,” said St Josemaría to the priests and
deacons, associates and supernumeraries of the Priestly Society of the Holy Cross, who are not
incardinated in the Prelature.
Naturally, the call to holiness in the middle of the world also includes secular priests
incardinated in their dioceses. The vocation to the Work is the same: the divine call to seek
holiness and to exercise apostolate in each one’s circumstances and in the fulfilment of the
duties proper to each one, with the same spirit and the same ascetic means, and forming part of
the family of Opus Dei.
The juridical manner of belonging to the Work is certainly different for the faithful of the
Prelature and for the members of the Priestly Society of the Holy Cross who are not
incardinated in the Prelature. However, the difference in the juridical bond (respectively, of
jurisdiction or association) does not detract in any way from the fact that the call is identical, to
pursue holiness with the same spirit and the specific means of Opus Dei.
This juridical difference allows you to receive the call to the Work without being taken out
of your place, as you remain incardinated in your respective dioceses without the slightest
change in your relationship with your bishop and your fellow-priests. By providing the
appropriate means, your vocation strengthens and facilitates the faithful and generous
fulfilment of your priestly commitments and ministerial tasks, making your path to holiness
more lovable. Moreover, you are especially concerned to promote priestly vocations; and you
are called to be a leaven of unity with the bishops, and of fraternity within the presbyterate of
your diocese.
How our Father encouraged you in this! “Try to accompany each other, even materially.
You have to have a heart of flesh, because the heart with which we love Jesus and the Father
and the Holy Spirit is a heart of flesh. If you see one of your brothers in difficulties, go, go to

49
Ibid., 15.
50
Letter 24 October 1942, 46.
51
Letter 9 January 1959, 13.

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 him: don’t wait for him to call you.”52
It should give us joy to consider that the sanctification of work (which is the axis of our
spiritual life) fundamentally means, for the members of the Priestly Society of the Holy Cross,
sanctifying their priestly activity. In its main aspects it is already, objectively, a sacred activity;
but at the same time, like any work, it can also be a place and a means of personal
sanctification and apostolate.
** *
27 We are approaching the centenary of that 2nd October 1928 when God showed the Work
to St Josemaría. Since then, in the world and in the Church, and therefore also in the Work,
there have been and continue to be so many joys and so many sorrows.
On 27th March 1975, as he preached a meditation, our Father recalled in prayer the
relatively brief history of Opus Dei: “An immense panorama: so many sufferings, so many
joys! And now, all is joy, all is joy… Because we have experienced the truth that suffering is
the hammering of the sculptor who wants to make each one of us, of that shapeless mass that
we are, a crucifix, a Christ, the alter Christus that we have to be. Lord, thank you for
everything. Thank you so much!”53
The beauty of the Christian vocation, as God has determined it in the Work for every one
of us, must fill us with joy: on the one hand, a healthy human joy when we see so many good
people and good things; on the other hand, that very special supernatural joy which, as our
Father assured us, has “roots in the form of the Cross.” It fills us with joy to know (let us
reflect on it again) that “the Holy Cross will make us enduring, always with the spirit of the
Gospel itself, producing the apostolate of action as the sweet-tasting fruit of prayer and
sacrifice.”54
We ask our Lady to bless us and to remind us in her motherly way that we all have the
Work in our hands. Thus, if we follow God’s will and correspond to his grace, the story that
began on 2nd October 1928 will continue, despite our weakness and our mistakes, until the end
of time. We will continue to work with joy, seeking to put Christ at the summit of all human
activities, for God’s glory.
With all my love, I bless you
your Father

52
Notes from a family meeting with priests, 26 October 1972, in the General Archives of the Prelature, Section
P04 1972, II, p. 767.
53
Words taken from his preaching, in the General Archives of the Prelature, Section P01 1975, p. 809.
54
Instruction on the supernatural spirit of the Work, 28.

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