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5 ABOUT THE AUTHOR

6 SESSION ONE: Introduction—Anxious to Be Here

S E S S IO N TWO: Anxious David

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44 S E S S IO N TH REE: A nxio us Jo na h

68 S E S S IO N FOUR: A nxio us M o ses

92 S E S S IO N FIVE: A nxio us E sther

114 S E S S IO N SIX : A nxio us Pra yer

136 S E S S IO N SEVEN : A nxio us R ea der

160 S E S S IO N EIGH T: A nxio us To gether

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DEDICATION
For Kaye Geiger, who led me through Bible studies
on her living room floor, who discipled me without
me knowing it by letting me come through the
unlocked garage door, and who helped me laugh
and cry and pray and learn.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author
of Afraid of All the Things and
He Numbered the Pores on My
Face. She writes regular columns
for ParentLife Magazine and
devotionals for She Reads Truth and
enjoys speaking to women around
the country about the freedom and
rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has
a degree in biblical counseling and
taught elementary school before
she started writing. She and her
husband live in Southern California
where she loves signing with her
three daughters, eating nachos by
herself, writing for her friends, and
studying stand-up comedy with
a passion that should be reserved
for more important pursuits.

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One
 I HAVE TOLD YOU
THESE THINGS SO THAT
IN ME YOU MAY HAVE
PEACE. YOU WILL HAVE
SUFFERING IN THIS WORLD.
BE COURAGEOUS! I HAVE
CONQUERED THE WORLD.
John 16:33

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 INTRODUCTION
We live in a broken, sad, scary place. There is plenty to be anxious about:

• dying;
• black holes;
• cancer;
• the fact that our phones have cameras on them that just sort of turn on
sometimes;
• hurricanes;
• failing as a mom/friend/wife/employee/intermittent faster.

And the world is full of insufficient solutions for our anxiety:

• food;
• clothes;
• friends;
• medicine;
• hobbies;
• achievements;
• .

Here’s the thing. Nothing really works every-moment-all-the-time-perfectly-

and-forever, right? Have you gotten to that point? That point where the
counselor’s advice just doesn’t seem to stop the mind spiral quickly enough?
Your closet is full of clothes, but your heart is still full of worry? You get the
promotion, win the award, and achieve the goal, but instead of the peace it
promises, you only find more fears? The bottom of the queso cup appears
alarmingly fast, and you’re left asking yourself, maybe out loud, AM I JUST
MORE MESSED UP THAN EVERYONE ELSE?

I’ve been in that place so many times. I’ve been a slave to my panic,
planning and avoiding and doing everything I could to insulate myself from
pain and discomfort. But none of it worked.

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So I made my life quiet. Isolated. “Under control.”

I thought that would make me peaceful.

It didn’t. Isolation and “control” might produce a quieter life, but peace isn’t
a quiet life; peace is a quiet soul. Peace is the gift of Jesus through the work
of Jesus that we can have no matter what is going on in our living rooms or
our in-boxes or our Instagram® feeds. The loudest of lives can’t overwhelm
the quiet that comes from Christ.

True peace comes when we learn to hold God’s Word up to what worries us.
There, we learn we can’t fix ourselves; we can’t protect ourselves. Instead,
the Bible tells us we can rest, knowing Jesus walked into the broken, sad,
scary place to rescue us and love us. He is the One who fixes. His is the only
protection that matters.

When we fear the Lord rather than fearing the brokenness in our world, we
can take hold of the perfect peace that is only available in Him.

The peace we are looking for is found in the already finished work of Christ
(more on that later) revealed to us over and over again in God’s Word,
through prayer, and with our Christian community. When those of us who live
with tornado awareness and constant cancer concern see the power of Jesus
in the pages of the Bible, we can say with certainty, “The LORD is on my side;
I will not fear. What can man do to me?” (Ps. 118:6, ESV).

W HERE AR E WE HE AD ED?
In this study, we’ll look at different people in the Bible and what we can learn
from them about anxiety. We’ll discover how to live in freedom by clinging to
God’s Word and God’s gospel in community and in prayer. This Bible study
book will challenge you to study Scripture as you fight your worries. It will

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 help you put some spiritual disciplines in place that will aid you in keeping
your eyes on the cross of Christ (even if you’ve just seen an article show up
on your Facebook® feed about the real-life dangers of black holes).

HOW DO I USE THIS STU DY ?

This study is meant to be used in a small group setting. You are welcome to
do this book on your own, but the study is designed to be done with others.
Fighting anxiety alone is a lot like fighting an army alone. Imagine walking
onto a battlefield by yourself while surrounded by enemies with bigger guns
and stronger muscles. Actually, don’t imagine that. This is supposed to help
you with your anxiety, not add to it.

Every person should have her own Bible study book, a Bible, a pen, and
some snacks.1 In this book, you’ll find personal study that you can do
individually and a memory verse that you can learn on your own (and review
together as a group). Also, flip to pages 186–187 in the Appendix to keep
some of my favorite on-the-go, anxiety-blasting Scriptures handy! Then,
when you come together, you’ll watch a video and discuss your answers
from the week’s work as a group. I hope this study helps you as you engage
with Scripture personally, and I hope you can use your personal study and
experiences to encourage the other people in your group when you meet
together.

During the final session of this study, we’ll dive into what God’s Word says
about fighting anxiety together—why it is important and how the body of
Christ is so vital in our approach to combating the lies anxiety tells us.

So grab your five nearest neighbors. Or text your twelve closest coworkers.
As a last resort, call your grandma and your sister and the lady that knows
your order at the local Starbucks® and ask them to join you.

1. Snacks are not required but strongly

recommended.
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WHAT IF I NEED MORE THAN A BIBLE STUDY?
This study probably won’t fix all your problems.

In 2004, Tim Keller preached a sermon called, “The Wounded Spirit.” It had
such an effect on me that I shared a good portion of it in the book I wrote
about my personal fight with fear—Afraid of All the Things.

The thing is, I’ve been on anxiety pills. I’ve sat across from Christian
psychiatrists while they offered big-word diagnoses to explain my particular
version of anxiety.

I lived years feeling shame and fear over my mental weaknesses. I thought if
my friends really knew how I struggled in my mind, they would reject me.

This sermon changed that for me. In it, Keller talked about different sources
that might contribute to our woundedness and weakness. He didn’t say,
“Why are you so messed up? Just pray more!” He said, “. . . you know what
the biblical answer is? It’s complicated.”2

That’s what I want you to hear from me as you walk into this study. Your brain
is complicated. Your anxiety could be rooted in an existential issue, or maybe
for you, it’s mostly physical. Maybe you have a bum thyroid. (I had mine
taken out last year and the hormonal imbalance it causes can absolutely lead
to anxiety and depression.) Maybe, as Proverbs 28:1 says, you flee “when no
one pursues” (ESV) because you are intentionally walking in wickedness. In
that case, a pill or a therapy session won’t fix you like repentance will.

That’s the driving message of Keller’s sermon. There are many contributing
factors. We must rely on prayer and God’s Word, but we can do so while
knowing that we might be dealing with physical sources or sin sources or
emotional sources or existential (the BIG questions, like What is life?) sources.
It’s important to recognize these things as you fight your personal battle in
your own personal way.

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 This study will not replace thyroid hormone medication or any other
prescribed and necessary medication or weekly meetings with a Christian
counselor or taking care of your health and well-being. Pursuing those
outside resources, if and when needed, is wise and wonderful. Rather, this
study is designed to help you, wherever you’re at and whyever you’re at it,
to pursue Jesus in His Word, give you a better understanding of who He is,
and learn how to set your mind on the things above (see Col. 3:2) and how
to live your life consumed by the ultimate peace and joy of walking with
Christ. If you find yourself needing a bit more support than this study offers,
I encourage you to reach out to your local church or some trusted friends.
I can look back on so many times in my own life that I needed help, and my
Christian community, friends, and counselors definitely held me together
during those times.

WILL IT ALWAYS BE THIS WAY?

About that “ultimate peace.” I’ve never written from the stance of “I’ve
overcome anxiety and so can you.” If you’re looking for ten easy steps, you
won’t find that here. In our broken world, it’s a constant temptation to find
a final fix. We hope to check the box and expect smooth sailing from then
on. We will absolutely have smooth sailing someday. Just not in this world.
The seas of this world have hurricanes. But the Lord has reminded me again
and again, through His Word and His Spirit, that ultimate peace is our hope
someday, but abundant life is available today.

Forever peace is coming, but present peace must be pursued.

We must learn to expect and accept the suffering Jesus promised us—“In
this world you will have trouble . . .” (John 16:33, NIV)—all the while straining
to see through all the sad and scary to the second half of the verse. There is
Jesus, who tells us, “. . . take heart! I have overcome the world” (v. 33, NIV).

My hope is you’ll walk into this study not looking for magic words that
make fear disappear from your life forever but rather looking to and leaning
on Jesus, who has already overcome everything that makes you anxious.

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VIEWER GUIDE  |  SESSION ONE

As you begin, give each member a Bible study book. Make sure to watch the
video and go through the introductory material so everyone knows what to
expect from this study. This week, you will complete the personal study for
“Session Two: Anxious David.” When you get back together next week, you
will watch a video on Session Two and discuss your answers. As for this week,
just watch the Session One video and use the discussion guide below to get
to know one another.

WATCH

Write down any thoughts, verses, or things you want to remember as you watch
the video for Session One of Anxious.

DISCUSS
Share names, family information, favorite restaurants, educational/vocational
backgrounds, and current favorite things.

Do you struggle with anxiety? What does that battle look like in your life today?

Have you seen anxiety affect others in your community? Explain.

What are some ways you have tried to fight anxiety in the past? What helped?
What didn’t?

What are you hoping to take away from this study at the end of the eight weeks?

PRAY
As a group, take turns sharing prayer requests and figuring out how you want
to pray for one another throughout the week. Maybe someone wants to take
notes and send out a weekly email. Maybe you could all write your requests in
a notebook. Find out what works for your group and make sure you have a way
to touch base throughout the week. Close in prayer.

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Two

ANXIOUS
DAVID
JESUS IS OUR SHIELD IN
THE FIGHT AGAINST ANXIETY
 MANY SAY ABOUT ME,
“THERE IS NO HELP FOR
HIM IN GOD.” SELAH .
BUT YOU, L ORD , ARE
A SHIELD AROUND ME,
MY GLORY, AND THE ONE
WHO LIFTS UP MY HEAD.
Psalm 3:2- 3

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 DAY ONE

PRETEND INSANITY
1 Samuel 21:10-15 and Psalm 34

I have a lot of great conversations with myself while boiling water. When I’m
doing tedious household things, my mind tends to wander to hypothetical
relational problems. What if there’s assigned seating at my step cousin’s baby
shower in two months, and what if her former roommate/friend is there and
we’re seated right next to each other, and what if she asks if our kids can get
together for a playdate, which should be no big deal, and I guess the normal
answer is “Sure!,” but last time our kids got together, her kids taught my kids
how to break into a car and start it with a bobby pin. So what am I going to say
if she asks about that playdate? Maybe I just shouldn’t go to the baby shower.

I’m exaggerating, but please tell me I’m not the only one who practices
conversations for uncomfortable scenarios that don’t actually exist yet.

Check one.
¡ You’re the only one who does this.
¡ You too? This is exactly why I don’t boil water.

It sounds crazy when I think about it, but that’s what my brain does.
Sometimes I’m afraid of people and the potential problems that come with
people, and I think I can conversation-practice my way to peace. Let’s see
what David did when he was worried about potential relational conflict.

Read 1 Samuel 21:10-15. How did David act in the face of a threat to his
safety? Write any observations in the space below.

Today, in 1 Samuel, we read about when David was so afraid of how King
Achish might treat him that he pretended to be a crazy person. Pretty brilliant,
right? It is amazing how our worries can lead us to behave. Maybe you tend

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to get tense and angry when you feel anxious about how others think about
you or what they might say or do to you. Maybe you get defensive. Maybe
you, like David, behave in ways that will scare people away. I mean, lion- and
giant-slaying King David, of God’s own heart, literally scribbled and drooled.
Or maybe you isolate and put your phone on airplane mode so the texts and
expectations can just stop for one minute, please!

How do you tend to struggle when it comes to relational anxiety?

Read Psalm 34.

Psalm 34 was actually written by David about this very time in his life—when
he pretended to be a crazy person in the presence of Abimelech (probably
the same guy mentioned earlier as “King Achish” in 1 Sam. 21:10-15).1 David
clearly knew what it was like to be anxious when he wrote this psalm.

Now let’s focus on verses 1-4 of Psalm 34 for a second. How would you
describe David’s posture as he shared this message?

Sometimes, when I’m afraid, I forget how to pray. I forget how to think like
a daughter of God. I panic and don’t know what to say.

What do your prayers to the Lord sound like when you’re stuck in a panic?

In verse 4, David said he “sought the LORD.” Read the verse again and
write what the Lord did as a result.

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 What do you think it means to seek the Lord?

What does verse 5 say is a result of looking to God?

When was the last time you felt joyful and void of shame? What was
your relationship with God like at that time?

Read verse 8 from the CSB translation online. What emotion does the
Bible say people who take refuge in God have?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how “happy” does your heart feel right now? (If
you looked it up in a different translation, you may have seen the word
blessed.) What do you think would move you closer to a 10?

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Not too happy. The happiest.

Take the next few minutes to think about what it means to take refuge
in the Lord. What are some things you find refuge in, apart from the
Lord? What do you need to cut from your life or add to it to help you
seek Him when you feel anxious?

In verse 11, David talked about teaching “the fear of the LORD.” Fear is not
a bad thing when it is focused on our Father. It’s when we fear the wrong
things that we feel anxiety.

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 What does God’s Word say the fear of the Lord leads to? Look up the
following verses and write the answer beside them.

Psalm 25:14

Psalm 33:8

Proverbs 9:10

Proverbs 14:26

Proverbs 14:27

Proverbs 19:23

Proverbs 22:4

Luke 1:50

When we fear the Lord, we gain. When we fear the Lord, it is easier not to
worry about the things the Lord has already defeated. When we fear the
Lord, we remember He is our shield and protector.

Read Psalm 34:9.

When we fear the Lord, what do we lack?

What are some misplaced fears you have right now? How does the work
of Jesus impact those worries?

I’m not into war movies or battle-y things in general, but the idea of being
shielded sounds awesome to me. If I could just be shielded, at all times, from
danger, from conflict, from sadness—my heart longs for that. When I’m doing
the boiling-water-conversing thing I told you about, what I’m really doing
is trying to prepare and protect myself. David’s interpersonal conflicts were
much more murder-y than mine tend to be, but it’s convicting and inspiring
to me that he sought protection and refuge in the Lord.

Close out this time asking God to help you rest in the reality that He is
eternally shielding you from the things that would harm your soul.

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 DAY TWO

DOEG IS NOT COOL

1 Samuel 22 and Psalm 27

I sat in a therapist’s office last week and used my fifty allotted minutes to
detail every relational conflict I could recall being involved in for the past
fifteen years. My counselor wanted to know what my goal was—why I was
seeking counseling and why I wanted to talk about closed-door conflicts
from years past.

I said, “I feel haunted by my relational failures. I feel shame over the times
I felt misunderstood. I just want to feel peace even though there are people
from my past who might not think happy thoughts when they think of me.”

Sometimes, I feel trapped by anxieties, stuck with thoughts of those I’ve

been at odds with at one point or another. Maybe I’ve not had the same
kinds of enemies, who carried swords and sought to kill, that David had,
but I’ve had people who weren’t for me. To one degree or another, we’ve
all experienced enemies. It sure can feel like you have an enemy when
you lose a friend. It sure can feel like an enemy when things don’t go as
planned and you’re walking through a divorce you never thought would
happen, or when, yet again, an attempt to reconcile with an estranged
family member ends in tears.

Enemies. No matter what form of conflict they bring to our lives, what do
we do with them, and how can we find peace?

I’m really encouraged when I read about how David responded in prayer
over his enemies. We’re going to take a look at a psalm he wrote that
theologian Charles Spurgeon thought was likely about a particular enemy
of his named Doeg.2 But first, let’s get a little background on Doeg and how
his life intersected with David’s.

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Read 1 Samuel 22 and answer the following:

What did Doeg tell Saul about what he witnessed between David and
Ahimelech?

What did Saul command be done to Ahimelech and his priests for
protecting David? Who carried out Saul’s command?

Psalm 52 was written by David about the whole Doeg ordeal. It’s definitely
worth a read. But the Psalm I want you to open up to and focus on is
Psalm 27. Though uncertain, Spurgeon believed David wrote this Psalm
about Doeg as well.3 And regardless of the motive, it is a powerful song for
those of us who struggle with anxieties about enemies.

Read Psalm 27.

Write out the first phrase of each sentence in Psalm 27:1. Also, write out
the two questions David posed in this verse.

David asked whom he should fear and whom he should dread, but he
answered those questions even while asking them. What is the answer?

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 When the LORD is your light, salvation and stronghold, there is nothing else
to fear. “LORD,” or Jehovah, is the proper name of the one and only God of
the universe. LORD means “The Existing One.”4 That means God doesn’t just
exist, but that He must exist. The LORD is the One from whom everything
else that exists gets its existence. We may have enemies, but we also have
the LORD. The ENT office receptionist who said you talked too fast, or the
hurricane headed toward your coast, or even the hotdog you are scared to
eat because your esophagus seems to be hotdog-shaped—everything and
everyone is at the mercy of The Existing One. Your enemies are never more
powerful than your LORD.

He is the stronghold of our lives. He is our light and our salvation. He is our
source of true protection. We don’t get to finish reading this page in this
book without Him giving us the breath in our lungs, the sight in our eyes,
and the clarity of our minds to do it.

What are some things/people/situations you sometimes fear rather than

fearing the Lord?

Now back to Psalm 27. Reread verses 1-4. How do these verses help you
get your mind off of your enemies and onto Jesus?

The Bible, the Old and New Testaments alike, are about the work of Jesus.
When we read the first four verses of this psalm, as Christians living after the
resurrection, we can see Jesus as the ultimate fulfillment of David’s hope
and the ultimate reason our enemies shouldn’t cause anxieties. Through the
work of Christ on the cross, we have received salvation forever. At the cross,

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our greatest enemies stumbled and fell. We can be confident, as David was,
because we have a Jehovah who is also our Rescuer and proves our enemies
are no match for Him. See “Becoming a Christian” on page 184 in the
Appendix for more information about the Christian faith and how to commit
to being a Christ-follower.

What was David wanting and asking of the Lord in verse 4?

What other verses can you think of that remind you that the God whose
power dwarfs enemies like Doeg and Satan and everyone else is also
whom we should most desire and whom we can most be satisfied in?

Our Lord, the conqueror of enemies, isn’t just “The Existing One.” He is our
good Father and the giver of joy.

Copy the following verses below each of them:

For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall

back into fear. Instead, you received the Spirit of
adoption, by whom we cry out, “ Abba, Father!”

ROMANS 8:15

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 You reveal the path of life to me; in your presence is
abundant joy; at your right hand are eternal pleasures.

PSALM 16:11

When you’re stuck worrying about your enemies, are you able to worship?
If you can, get alone in this moment and sing God one of your favorite
songs of praise.

If you don’t feel like you can worship, and I know sometimes this
happens to us, would you consider taking a moment to write an honest
prayer to God below? Or reaching out to a trusted Christian friend with
your struggle? God wants to know the truth of what’s happening in your
heart and mind and so does your faith family.

The last verse in Psalm 27 says, “Wait for the LORD; be strong, and let your
heart be courageous. Wait for the LORD” (v. 14). The word wait, in the
original Hebrew, means “to wait, look for, hope, expect.”5 When we look for,
hope in, and expect our God to come through, we can be people of courage,
even those of us (Hi!) who tend to lean more into worry.

What are some ways you can “Wait for the LORD” as you battle your fear
of people?

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God is able to shield us from pain because He went to the cross and took the
pain. There is now no barrier between us. In Christ, there is a shield for us who
trust Him. He is on our side. He is our defender. We don’t need every human in
the world to understand us when the God who made us and knows us—our best
parts and the very worst ones—loves us that much.

At the end of the therapy session I mentioned earlier, my counselor helped me

realize I was longing to tie up a bunch of loose, frayed ends in a world where not
everything can have beauty and closure. Some things remain unfinished, unsaid,
unheard, untied, unraveled. But see, we have a Shield. Not to protect us from
all pain, but to protect us from pain that lasts forever. God is the only relational
being who can love us perfectly and forgive us fully, and He does. The more
I meditate on that, I know my eternity ends finished, tied, heard, and beautifully
held together. Then it is easier for me to make peace with today’s loose ends.

Close out this time asking the Lord to help you feel forever peace in
a world that’s lacking it.

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 DAY THREE

WHEN PRAYER TIME

WAS THE WORST
Psalm 61

When I was nineteen, I was a hostess at a local restaurant known for its great salads.
I started dating my husband who was a church planter/worship pastor and quickly
left the great salad place to join the small church staff as the administrative assistant.

I’m embarrassed to admit this, but my least favorite part of our staff meetings
was the prayer time.

Once a week, we’d all sit on the floor in our pastor’s office and take turns
praying. I’d listen to our pastor pray, then my husband, then the youth pastor,
and, at that point, my heart would be beating out of my chest.

I hated prayer time.

Of course I understood the value of staff prayer. And of course I wanted to talk
to God. But all I could think about while sitting in that little warehouse office
space was what my words would show the other people in that office about
how unspiritual I was. I wasn’t in the prayer time to worship and to seek the
Lord on behalf of the people we were serving together. I just hoped to say
something that would garner a “Yes, Lord” or a nice, dramatic “Mmmm” from
someone else in the room. I worried my prayers wouldn’t seem potent enough
for the people listening. But David modeled for us that prayer isn’t something
to worry about; rather, it is a weapon we can use against our worries.

Psalm 61 records one of David’s prayers. It was definitely not the kind of prayer
that might be said under duress in a church warehouse office space. David’s
prayer is earnest and needy and beautiful.

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Scholars believe this psalm was written after David had come to the throne
and was likely when his son, Absalom, was rebelling against him (which you
can read about in 2 Sam. 15–18).6 It was certainly a time when anxiety would
be understandable.

Read Psalm 61:1-4 and reflect on David’s tone with the Lord. Do you
approach the Lord similarly?

When I read those first two verses, it struck me that David was pretty direct. He
was so serious. He didn’t say a bunch of words out of tradition or compulsion,
as I did in the church office and still sometimes do today, but rather, he talked
to God like he was talking to a real person.

Spurgeon noted that David’s tone “was in terrible earnest.” Then he said,
“Pharisees may rest in their prayers; true believers are eager for an answer to
them: ritualists may be satisfied when they have, ‘said or sung’ their litanies . . .
but living children of God will never rest till their supplications have entered
the ears of the Lord God of Sabaoth.”7

Take a minute to read that over again. That convicted me so hard. I don’t want
to be a person who worriedly chants religious phrases in order to feel satisfied
or make other people think I’m holy. I want to know and speak to the living
God. Don’t you?

Verse 2 says, “I call to you from the ends of the earth when my heart is
without strength.”

During seasons of anxiety or fear, we can approach the Lord in prayer and
find Him to be a “refuge” and “rock” and “strong tower” as David described
Him in verses 2-3. But anxiety often keeps us from that. It keeps us stuck in
our own loop of fears—whether they are, What will this church staff think of

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 my prayer? or What will happen if my husband loses his job? or What is this
lump under my arm?

What’s your first course of action when feeling anxious? Is it prayer? Is it

TikTok®? Is it chips and queso?

Reread Psalm 61:4.

How do you think it helped David to pray this while dealing with exile?

Have you ever found comfort in your eternal destination while dealing
with right-now suffering? What made that possible for you?

I just love verse 4. In fact, I think it is worthy of a nice “Mmmmmm.” In that

verse, we witness David doing the most wonderful and biblical thing, which
I imagine crushed the anxiety he was facing. He, as Colossians 3:2 tells us to
do, “set [his mind] on things above, not on earthly things.”

In the following space, write down some right-now anxiety-inducing

things in your life. And beside each one, find a Bible verse that helps
you “Set your mind on things above” in regard to that struggle.

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Now, read Psalm 61:5-8. Notice the change of tone.

Commentary writer Matthew Henry said, “David, in this psalm, as in many

others, begins with a sad heart, but concludes with an air of pleasantness—
begins with prayers and tears, but ends with songs of praise.”8

That is so beautiful to me because I’ve experienced it. We can look at David’s

prayer in Psalm 61 and model our own anxious prayers after it. We can speak
to the Lord directly and earnestly without pretense. We can set our minds on
the eternal hope He offers, and we can conclude our prayers experiencing
real peace, real hope, and real communion with the Father who loves us.

Below, write a prayer from your own heart and try to model it after
Psalm 61. Be honest, reflect on eternity, and praise the Lord who
is bigger than your worries!

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CHASED AND HECKLED

2 Samuel 16:5-14 and Psalm 3

The heading for Psalm 3 in the CSB translation says, “Confidence in

Troubled Times.” When do you feel confident? Do you usually feel
confident in “troubled times”?

My answer is certainly NO. When we lost our first baby in an ectopic

pregnancy, I barely left my bed for months. When we adopted our middle
daughter, who appeared to have significant physical and cognitive
developmental delays, I barely left my bed for days. I’ve often buried myself
under blankets in troubled times.

How do you usually react when times are troublesome?

Before we get any further, I want to say that making space to grieve is
important. And we can turn toward God, even in our grief. He wants to sit
with us in it, to carry us in it. All clear? Great. Back to Psalm 3.

The Bible tells us this was “A psalm of David when he fled from his son
Absalom.” You may remember from yesterday’s study that this is the same
time period scholars believe David penned Psalm 61.9

The events that led to the writing of this psalm are found in 2 Samuel 15–18
when David was betrayed by Absalom and others in his life. Absalom was
leading a rebellion against his dad, the king. People who were at one time

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his friends turned against him. It was an undoubtedly troubled time in the life
of David. It was, what some theologians might call, a “where’s my blanket”
moment.

Read 2 Samuel 16:5-14. Now, let’s look more closely at verses 5-8. Who
was Shimei, and what was he doing?

Read verses 11 and 12 again. What emotion do you pick up on from

David? How did his response reflect a trust in the God of justice?

In verses 13 and 14, David moved on down the road, going his way
while Shimei went on cursing him. Then it says, David “refreshed himself”
(v. 14, ESV). It’s really crazy to me that David was able to experience peace
given his circumstances. Remember—he was on the run from his own son!
His son, who should have been in his corner. And then, he was being heckled
by this Shimei guy. And somehow, “he refreshed himself.” There’s no way
unless God was helping him, right?

Now, flip to Psalm 3 and read the whole chapter. Take

a closer look at verses 1 and 2.

I wonder if his “refreshing himself” was similar to the prayer we find in

Psalm 3?

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 In Psalm 3:3, David called God his shield, his glory, and the lifter of his
head. Below, next to these powerful names for God, explain how these
terms were refreshing for David in his time of trouble and how they might
be of help to you.

SHIELD

GLORY

LIFTER OF
MY HEAD

God is our protector (shield). Nothing can get to us without first getting
through God. God is our source of significance (glory). We can fight anxiety
knowing the things we worry about could never truly jeopardize the value we
have because we are approved by God through Jesus. God is the lifter of our
heads. God is the one who leads us to look up from our sorrows and worries
and reminds us we can have joy and hope through our friendship with Him.

Which of these three descriptions of God’s work in our lives means the
most to you right now? Why?

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Take another look at verses 5-6.

In these verses, David slept. It can be hard to sleep when you feel anxious
(even if you rarely leave your bed). I love the idea of praying psalms like this
one when your mind and body aren’t cooperating.

Revisiting verses 7-8, what words or phrases show that God is for you in
these verses?

How do you need God to fight for you right now as you battle anxiety
and troubled times?

Close your time today thanking God for saving you and blessing
you. Thank Him for rising up, in Jesus, to strike the enemies of
sin and death and failure and fear. You belong to Him, and He has
overcome. Ask Him to help you see Him as your shield, glory, and
hope. Ask Him to help you sleep and not be afraid.

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 DAY FIVE

SHEPHERD AND SHIELD

Psalm 23

In Psalm 23:1, David wrote, “The LORD is my shepherd; I have what I need.”

I have what I need. What if we really believed that?

Oftentimes when I’m anxious, my worry is rooted in feeling like I’m lacking
something. My mind tells me, If I just had this . . . or If that circumstance would
just line up the right way . . . THEN, I’d have what I need.

What is it, right now, that your mind is telling you that you need to
have peace?

Read Psalm 23.

Look at verse 2 and highlight the phrase “he leads.”

I heard an illustration from Elisabeth Elliot about Psalm 23 in which she

talked about getting lost in the car and needing directions. Updating her
example a little, imagine using your iPhone GPS to get somewhere, but then,
while you are traveling, your phone dies, and you don’t have your charger.

Maybe you pull over and ask someone how to get to where you’re going,
and he/she starts giving you a long, detailed, confusing explanation. But
then imagine how you would exhale if someone were to simply drive ahead
of you and lead the way. Elliot said, “. . . isn’t it a relief if somebody just says,
‘Follow me.’”10

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There’s no doubt that an anxious mind complicates a simple thing. Sure,
we’ve all got complicated, painful relationships. Sure, we’re juggling lots of
responsibilities and wearing lots of hats and dealing with lots of incoming
problems. And of course, you, if you were really smart, might be building
a tornado shelter right now. But let’s just remember this truest of true things.
We are sheep, and we have a Good Shepherd who loves us and who leads us.

Read the following verses and write down the phrase Jesus kept saying
to His people: Matthew 16:24; Mark 1:17; Mark 10:21; Luke 5:27.

When we think about the role of a shepherd, we remember that a shepherd

takes care of his sheep, provides for them, leads them, and protects them.

What are some examples from your own life of when your Good
Shepherd has taken care of, provided, led, and/or protected you?

Psalm 23:4 in the CSB translation uses the phrase, “darkest valley,” but I love
the imagery used in the ESV translation—“valley of the shadow of death.”
I used to think of that phrase as reflective of the very worst horrors life has to
offer—things like disease and abuse. But, truly, this whole life is the “valley
of the shadow of death,” right? We are all dying every day. Some days are
filled with pleasantries, and some days are filled with pain, but we live every
moment in the shadow of death.

Even though we are all walking toward death, we can “fear no evil”
(v. 4, ESV). Why?

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 Verse 6 refers to the day we will dwell in the house of the Lord. Is there
a home you love to visit? Maybe it is your childhood home? Or maybe your
own childhood home was filled with dysfunction, but every time you visited
that one aunt or grandma or that one friend, you were met with warmth and
food and comfort and love?

Describe that setting in the space below.

All week, we’ve been looking at David. There’s so much of his life we didn’t have
time to cover. Have you ever heard about the time he was a scrawny young boy
who slayed the giant, Goliath, with a sling, some stones, and without physical
armor (1 Sam. 17)? Or, you know, that time he sinned against Bathsheba and
then had her husband killed (2 Sam. 11–12)? I mean . . . David lived a life.

He had lots of great days and lots of bad ones. Based on his life events, he
likely experienced the anxiety of being the victim and the anxiety of being
the bad guy. But he was a bad guy with faith in a good God. He was often
a bad guy whose prayer life demonstrated that he sought forgiveness and
protection, not through an earthly shield (not even when fighting a giant) but
an eternal One. God protected David from his fears and from following his
sin to destruction. God guarded and guided His child through all kinds of
circumstances we can hardly imagine.

Now skip over to the New Testament and read about when God, the
Good Shepherd, was walking the earth in flesh. Read John 10:1-11.
What did Jesus call Himself in verse 7?

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 What did Jesus call Himself in verse 11?

Look at Psalm 23 and read through it again, but every time you see the
phrases “the LORD” or “He,” say, “Jesus.”

Jesus is my shepherd;
I have what I need.
Jesus lets me lie down in green pastures;
Jesus leads me beside quiet waters.
Jesus renews my life;
Jesus leads me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
Even when I go through the darkest valley,
I fear no danger,
for Jesus is with me;
Jesus’ rod and his staff—they comfort me.

Jesus prepares a table before me

in the presence of my enemies;
Jesus anoints my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
Only goodness and faithful love will pursue me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of Jesus
as long as I live.

Here’s the thing. Because of Jesus, we have access to the Shepherd. Because
of Jesus, we have access to safety and satisfaction. Because of Jesus, we are
sheep who don’t need to be afraid of the lingering wolves in our lives. He
leads us. He loves us. He is with us.

We are like David in that we fail, but Jesus doesn’t. We worry, but Jesus
understands. Jesus knows this world is broken, sad, and scary. But when we
hold up what we are anxious about next to the good news of the gospel, we

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 see that we actually can rest because He has already handled everything on
our behalf. We are His, and He has won, is winning, and will win forever. It’s
not a onetime thing. It’s an everyday opportunity to sit at His feet and in His
Word, to claim His promises, think on His help, and believe in His power.

What can you do this week to remember the truth—that Jesus, your
Shepherd, is with you—loving you, comforting you, leading you, holding
you, and protecting you?

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VIEWER GUIDE  |  SESSION TWO

This past week, you completed the Session Two personal

study in your books. If you weren't able to do so, no big
deal! You can still follow along with the questions, be
involved in the discussion, and watch the video. When
you are ready to begin, open up your time in prayer and
push play on Video Two for Session Two.

WATCH

Write down any thoughts, verses, or things you want to

remember as you watch the video for Session Two of
Anxious.

FROM THIS REVIEW SESSION TWO PERSONAL STUDY

W E E K ’S S T U D Y From Day One: In Psalm 34:11, David talked about
As a group, review this teaching “the fear of the LORD.” What are some things
week’s memory verse. we learned that the fear of the Lord leads to (include your
favorite references from the chart on p. 21)?
Many say about me,
“There is no help for From Day Two: Which Bible verses remind you that the
him in God.” Selah . God whose power dwarfs enemies like Doeg and Satan
But you, L ORD, are and everyone else is also whom we should most desire and
a shield around me, whom we can be most satisfied in?
my glory, and the one
From Day Three: Do you approach the Lord similarly to the
who lifts up my head.
way David did in Psalm 61:1-4?
PSALM 3:2-3
What’s your first course of action when feeling anxious? Is it
prayer? Is it TikTok®? Is it chips and queso?

From Day Four: Which of these three descriptions of God’s

work in our lives means the most to you right now? Why?

From Day Five: What are some examples from your own life
of when your Good Shepherd has taken care of, provided,
led, and/or protected you?

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 DISCUSS PRAY
What is the most interesting thing you worried about this Take turns sharing
week? e anxieties you’re dealing
with right now and have
What have we learned about who God is through our look your group talk about
at some of the anxiety-inducing events in David’s life? how the gospel speaks to
those worries. Spend the
How have David’s prayers helped you? remainder of your time in
prayer for each other.
When David was fleeing from Absalom, he prayed, “But
you, LORD, are a shield around me” (Ps. 3:3a). Share about
a time in your life when the Lord was your shield.

Back in Day One, we looked at verses all over the Bible that
show us what happens when we fear the Lord. Which of these
benefits resonates with you? If you’re comfortable doing so,
share a testimony of that experience in your group.

To access the teaching sessions, use the

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