Psychology
Psychology
Psychology
2. Self- Esteem: A number of factors can impact self-esteem, including how we compare
ourselves to others and how others respond to us. When people respond positively to our
behavior, we are more likely to develop positive self-esteem. When we compare
ourselves to others and find ourselves lacking, it can have a negative impact on our self-
esteem.
3. Ideal Self: How you wish you could be. In many cases, the way we see ourselves and
how we would like to see ourselves do not quite match up.
Development:
The self-concept is an important term for both social and humanistic psychology. Lewis (1990)
suggests that the development of a concept of self has two aspects:
(1) The Existential Self
This is 'the most basic part of the self-scheme or self-concept; the sense of being separate and
distinct from others and the awareness of the constancy of the self' (Bee, 1992).
The child realizes that they exist as a separate entity from others and that they continue to exist
over time and space.
According to Lewis awareness of the existential self begins as young as two to three months old
and arises in part due to the relation the child has with the world. For example, the child smiles
and someone smiles back, or the child touches a mobile and sees it move.
Stage 1: 0 to 2 years-old
a. Babies need consistent, loving relationships to develop a positive sense of self.
b. Babies form preferences that align with their innate sense of self.
c. Toddlers feel secure with gentle but firm limits
d. At age two, language skill develops and toddlers have a sense of “me.”
Stage 2: 3 to 4 years-old
a. Three and four-year-olds begin to see themselves as separate and unique individuals.
b. Their self-images tend to be descriptive rather than prescriptive or judgmental.
c. Preschoolers are increasingly independent and curious about what they can do.
Stage 3: 5 to 6 years-old
a. They are transitioning from the “me” stage to the “us” stage, where they are more aware of the
needs and interests of the larger group.
b. Kindergarteners can use their words to communicate their wants, needs, and feelings.
2. Self-Concept in Middle Childhood
During middle childhood (about 7 to 11 years old), children are beginning to develop a sense of
their social selves and figuring out how they fit in with everyone else. They reference social
groups and make social comparisons more often, and begin to think about how others see them.
Other characteristics of their self-concept at this stage include:
More balanced, less all-or-none descriptions
Development of the ideal and real self
Descriptions of the self by competencies instead of specific behaviors
Development of a personal sense of self (Berk, 2004)