Talking With Your Older Patient A Clinician S Handbook
Talking With Your Older Patient A Clinician S Handbook
Talking With Your Older Patient A Clinician S Handbook
Talking
With
Your
Older
Patient
In the exam room, greet everyone and apologize for any delays. With new
patients, try a few comments to promote rapport: “Are you from this area?”
or “Do you have family nearby?” With established patients, friendly questions
about their families or activities can relieve stress.
Feeling rushed leads people to believe that they are not being heard or
understood. Be aware of the patient’s own tendency to minimize complaints
or to worry that he or she is taking too much of your time.
Avoid Interrupting
One study found that doctors, on average, interrupt patients within the first
18 seconds of the initial interview. Once interrupted, a patient is less likely
to reveal all of his or her concerns. This means finding out what you need to
know may require another visit or some follow-up phone calls.
Demonstrate Empathy
Watch for opportunities to respond to patients’ emotions, using phrases
such as “That sounds difficult” or “I’m sorry you’re facing this problem; I think
we can work on it together.” Studies show that empathy can be learned and
practiced and that it adds less than a minute to the patient interview. It also
has rewards in terms of patient satisfaction, understanding, and adherence
to treatment.
Avoid Jargon
Try not to assume that patients know medical terminology or a lot about
their disease. Introduce necessary information by first asking patients what
they know about their condition and building on that. Although some terms
seem commonplace—MRIs, CAT scans, stress tests, and so on—some older
patients may be unfamiliar with what each test really is. Check often to be
sure that your patient understands what you are saying. You may want to
spell or write down diagnoses or important terms to remember.
Age-related hearing loss is common. About one-third of people between the ages of
65 and 75, and nearly half of those over the age of 75, have a hearing impairment.
Here are a few tips to make it easier to communicate with a person who has lost
some hearing:
l Make sure your patient can hear you. Ask if the patient has a working hearing
aid. Look at the auditory canal for the presence of excess earwax.
l Talk slowly and clearly in a normal tone. Shouting or speaking in a raised voice
actually distorts language sounds and can give the impression of anger.
l Face the person directly, at eye level, so that he or she can lip-read or pick up
visual clues.
l Keep your hands away from your face while talking, as this can hinder lip-
reading ability.
l If your patient has difficulty with letters and numbers, give a context for them.
For instance, say, “‘m’ as in Mary, ‘two’ as in twins, or ‘b’ as in boy.” Say each
number separately (e.g., “five, six” instead of “fifty-six”). Be especially careful
with letters that sound alike (e.g., m and n, and b, c, d, e, t, and v).
l Keep a note pad handy so you can write what you are saying. Write out
diagnoses and other important terms.
l Tell your patient when you are changing the subject. Give clues such as pausing
briefly, speaking a bit more loudly, gesturing toward what will be discussed,
gently touching the patient, or asking a question.
Visual disorders become more common as people age. Here are some things you
can do to help manage the difficulties caused by visual deficits:
l Make sure there is adequate lighting, including sufficient light on your face. Try
to minimize glare.
l Check that your patient has brought and is wearing eyeglasses, if needed.
l When using printed materials, make sure the type is large enough and the
typeface is easy to read. The following print size works well:
Ensure Understanding
Conclude the visit by making sure the patient understands:
l what the main health issue is
l what he or she needs to do about it
l why it is important to do it
In Summary
✔ Address the patient by last name, using the title the patient prefers
(Mr., Ms., Mrs., etc.).
✔ Begin the interview with a few friendly questions not directly related
to health.
✔ Don’t rush, and try not to interrupt; speak slowly, and give older
patients a few extra minutes to talk about their concerns.
✔ Ask the patient to say what he or she understands about the problem
and what needs to be done.