FPT UNIVERSITY- CAMPUS CAN THO

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Group Assignment [SSL101c]

Group: 3 (THREE)

Topic: Unconfident

Percentage of
Student Name Parts in-charge
contribution

Nguyen Van Long find content about conclusions 20%/20%

or recommendations

Lam Tran Bao Tran do about the lack of confidence 20%/20%

introduction and edit the report

Nguyen Thanh Luan do procedural content and look 20%/20%

for illustrations

Tran Binh Nguyen do content analysis and be 20%/20%

responsible for compiling a list
of references

Bui Thi Kim Yen make content of the results 20%/20%

section and edit the report

Total: 100%

Can Tho, 26/11/2022

 Contents
1.Preliminary Section:....................................................3
2.Body:...........................................................................6
Introduction about unconfident:...................................6
Procedures for lack of confidence:...............................7
The Procedure:.............................................................7
3.Analysis & Findings:...................................................8
Analysis:.......................................................................8
Findings:.......................................................................9
4.Conclusions:..............................................................11
5.Recommendations:....................................................11
5.Supplementary Section:.............................................12
 Unconfident

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1.Preliminary Section:
Table of Contents:

 Introduction about unconfident.

 Procedure for lack of confidence.
 Analysis & Findings of lack of confidence
 Conclusions
 Recommendations

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2.Body:
Introduction about unconfident:

Lack of confidence can be seen as a poison that kills your life. If you are not
self-aware and quick to change yourself, you are more likely to lose valuable
opportunities, even making your quality of life worse.
Lack of confidence, also known as lack of confidence, is a term for people with
low self-esteem who do not have enough confidence to show their abilities.
Strictly speaking, it is self-deprecating behavior, belittling oneself, always
thinking that one is inferior to everyone around.

If self-confidence is a state in which people feel confident and have high

expectations about their own abilities, lack of confidence is quite the opposite.
People who lack confidence always feel they are inferior and inferior to others.
They do not want to talk about their private life, are afraid to speak in public and
always feel confused and insecure when people around them focus a lot on them.
Research scope of the problem of lack of confidence is almost everyone in
general and students in particular.
As a practical example of this lack of confidence, most university students
in general and FPT students in particular, some students have low self-esteem. In
which, it is most evident that in classes or in seminars organized by the school to
 exchange, students need to contribute ideas, there will be students who do not dare
to express their opinions. own and showed signs of timidity.
The lack of confidence is something that we need to overcome now. The purpose
of this study is to help us realize what a lack of confidence can do to us and to
make it easier for us to overcome our lack of confidence.

Procedures for lack of confidence:

Expression:
Do not like to face or look into other people's eyes.
They rarely give their opinion, especially in crowded places where got a lot of
people.
Will feel like your heart is racing, you will sweat, and your voice and limbs will
tremble.
Blink quickly when feeling nervous
The answer will be interrupted, incoherent voice
In times of anxiety, tremors can forget everything they want to say.
Always try to keep yourself as little attention as possible.
Avoiding compliments, you are often shy or embarrassed when listening to others.
Usually think that other people are talking about you, which also makes them feel
shy and scared.
Consider themselves inferior, lower themselves compared to others.
Do not dare to participate in new experiences.
Give importance to the words or opinions of others.
Easy to give up.

The Procedure:
1. Maybe from psychological effects from family such as lack of care, feeling
disrespected, abused -> Unconfident.
2. As an adult, due to lack of orientation, many of you may fall into
misconceptions. -> Unconfident.
 3. Easy to misunderstand about their own weakness, think that they have no
self-worth, ugly appearance, poor academic performance, family with difficult
economic conditions, ... -> Unconfident.
4. The development of social networks also makes us spend more time in
virtual life than in real life -> Unconfident.
5. No goals, no striving -> Unconfident.

3.Analysis & Findings:

Analysis:

As noted above
We can analyze it as follows.
Common causes of people who are shy about communication can be
related to such as: Personality, genetic problems or parenting activities
make them shy about talking, even not confident due to body problems
like Body shaming.
Findings:
a. Unable to show their own capacity:
For those who are confident, it boldly expresses their views and
opinions. Confident people, although their ability is not so
excellent, are still appreciated for their enthusiasm, dynamism
and progressive attitude. For those who lack confidence, it will
be difficult to show their ability as confident and brave people.
There are many capable people but lack confidence in
themselves, so they don't dare to express it. Therefore, they
choose stable, low-impact jobs with a stable salary instead of
jobs that have the ability to promote and match their abilities.
b. Missed many valuable opportunities:
Denying every opportunity in life will cause us to miss valuable
opportunities to assert ourselves and have a more stable source of
income. Outside of work, it also affects academic relationships
and emotional relationships.
c. Difficulty getting promoted at work:
People who lack confidence often do not receive the trust of their
superiors and colleagues. Meanwhile, people with a confident
personality always stand out in any situation. With their
 progressive personality and constant efforts, they will achieve
much success and gain the trust of their colleagues.
d. Difficulty making friends:
People who lack confidence often have very few friends.
Meanwhile, confidence is like a magnet that helps you stand out
and attract people's eyes. To be fair, confident people have a
special charm. Therefore, they have a lot of friends and easily
expand relationships.
e. Do not dare to pursue passion:
People who lack confidence often do not dare to follow their
passions, but often study and work according to the direction and
arrangement of the family. In other words, they choose a safe
life. Contrary to confident people, they dare to live to follow their
passion. Whether they succeed or fail, they feel light because
they didn't give up and tried their best.
f. Lack of confidence causes us to limit ourselves:
Instead of accepting difficult tasks to look for opportunities to
learn, explore and improve themselves, many people refuse
because of lack of confidence and think they will fail. If we don't
give ourselves a chance to try, we won't know how hard we've
worked.
g. Boring life:
People who lack confidence and shyness do not dare to change
themselves, their work, their friends and even their lovers. They
are afraid of losing what they have and not being able to have
better things.
h. Influencing the development of society:
If all people lack confidence and shyness, society will be able to
develop backward. Therefore, families should change their
 children's education methods, building good character such as
confidence, strength, bravery, optimism, etc… is very important
besides improving knowledge.

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4.Conclusions:
Lack of confidence will affect a lot in your life and confidence is an
indispensable thing in any individual. In fact, confidence can make you more
attractive than your physical appearance. Because appearance is only an external
thing and ability, personality is what can help you connect you for a long time
with all issues, from work, people or love affairs. Sometimes even if your ability is
not really good, but your confident demeanor can attract others, you will still have
more opportunities for growth.

5.Recommendations:
 -Each of us should cultivate more knowledge for ourselves, you will not be
confident with an empty head without knowing anything about knowledge.
Therefore, try to strive, constantly learn and practice more new knowledge and
skills. Confidence can be gradually improved if you are determined and persistent
in practice. Instead of always worrying that you can't do it, afraid of being wrong,
afraid of being laughed at by others, always tell yourself that you can do it, you
can do it.
-Don't pay attention to the eyes of others, turn the gaze of others to you from
doubt to surprise then trust. If you just hide in the dark, no one can know who you
are. You need to know where you went wrong to be able to correct it, you can't
"hide your ignorance" forever. Don't pay too much attention to others laughing or
judging you because what you are doing is for yourself, not for anyone else.
-Take care of yourself more, better understand your own shortcomings and
overcome it, in the era of technology development, nothing is irreversible. Let's
start changing from dress style to hairstyle. And always make sure to be as neat as
possible in all situations to gain as much confidence as possible.
-Finally, set a goal to improve self-confidence, find yourself an ideal role model
and pursue it to learn and try to develop yourself more.

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