Praying For Unsaved Loved Ones
Praying For Unsaved Loved Ones
Praying For Unsaved Loved Ones
The softened heart, understanding mind, and seeing eyes, simply pave the way for ears to
receive the gift of grace found in Jesus Christ. Romans 10:17 reaffirms that faith can only come
in this way, through hearing the gospel.
For it is by the generous grace of God any man is saved. And we certainly aren't helpless either,
for there is continued mercy by way of a gospel message that contains the power for salvation
(Romans 1:16).
Therefore, let us come boldly to the throne of our King (Hebrews 4:16), in petition for the souls
of our loved ones. Knowing He hears our prayer (1 Peter 3:12), and equips us for such a time
as this (2 Timothy 3:17).
If this isn't enough to get us praying for our unsaved loved ones, 1 John 5:14-15 says we can
approach God with confidence, especially when our prayers are in accordance to His will —
found within the pages of the Bible.
It is on these pages there are truths like 2 Peter 3:9 that give us a glimpse into God’s heart for
the lost. Our prayers, therefore, come from knowing God is patient, not wanting any to perish
but for all to come into repentance.
We also know there is a Father in Heaven who willingly gives the Holy Spirit to those who ask
(Luke 11:13). Unfortunately, we live in a fallen world, where none are naturally seeking God
(Romans 3:11). It is a work of His Spirit that God draws us (John 6:44) and reveals His Son
(Matthew 16:17).
With these Scriptures in mind, along with many others, supplication and intercession can be
made for those who are lost in the world. But by faith and trust, accepting that God always
responds according to His plan, purpose, and timing. Not ours.
Still, we're encouraged to make our requests known to God (Philippians 4:6). All of them, which
includes specific requests for unsaved loved ones. They can be specific because the Bible is
actually very clear on what prevents any person from a redeemed life with God — the perfect
place to be in prayer.
Here are five such areas, along with prayers, for an unsaved loved one.
Please replace their heart of stone with a humble heart, a clean heart, a pure heart, a believing
heart. The kind of heart that can accept God and the truth of the gospel. Above all, may they
have a repentant heart, Lord. In Jesus' saving name, I pray, Amen.
So, whenever you are unsure how to pray for unsaved loved ones, remember it's the gospel
they need most. A gospel that is not shared merely in word, but in Spirit, with power, and
conviction (1 Thessalonians 1:5).
Today I lift up to You my loved one, (name). Lord, it is not Your desire that they shall perish,
therefore I make this request, that You would remove all the stumbling blocks, placed by the
enemy that are covering their eyes, ears, minds, and hearts.
Yes, Lord, please give them eyes to see, a mind to understand, and a receptive heart, all to
hear the gospel that saves. May Your Spirit make a way for their acceptance of this gift, in
repentance and humility. I ask for You to send godly influences into my loved one’s life that
seeds of truth may be planted and watered, producing a fertile soil.
Oh, that the gospel would simply come into their life, with great conviction and power, Lord. All
for the glory of God! In the saving name of Jesus, I pray for (name)'s salvation. Amen.
To be a light that shines among others (Matthew 5:16).
To never cease in prayer (1 Thessalonians 5:17).
To not grow weary in any season (Galatians 6:9).
To always speak the Truth in Love (Ephesians 4:15).
Heavenly Father, thank You for being a Good Shepherd and Great Redeemer, in my life and in
the lives of those who are still lost. I ask that my life would glorify Your name and this precious
gift. May I be a warming light to those around me, not one that is harsh or abrasive.
Lord, please guide my words, my deeds, my attitudes, that I can respond to my unsaved loved
ones with patience and love. Your Word says that disagreements and arguments about the
things of God are unprofitable and worthless, only doing damage to the hearer (Titus 3:9; 2
Timothy 2:14).
Let me know when to speak and when to stop and listen. And may I always be ready to share
my faith when asked, never missing an opportunity to plant or water seeds of Truth. In Jesus'
name, I pray, Amen