The Church and The Second Sex - Mary Daly
The Church and The Second Sex - Mary Daly
The Church and The Second Sex - Mary Daly
MARY DALY
MARY DALY
Chapter One
The Case Against the Church 53
Chapter Two
History: A Record of Contradictions 74
Chapter Three
Winds of Change 118
Chapter Four
The Pedestal Peddlars 147
Chapter Five
The Demon of Sexual Prejudice: An Exercise in Exorcism 166
Chapter Six
Theological Roots of the Problem: Radical Surgery
Required 179
Chapter Seven
Toward Partnership: Some Modest Proposals 192
Conclusion
The Second Sex and the Seeds of Transcendence 220
Index 225
Acknowledgement
The Church and the Second Sex was published in 1968, before
the cresting of the second wave of feminism. The writing began in
1965 in a small medieval city, Fribourg, Switzerland, where I lived
for seven years. It was completed in 1967 in Boston. Not counting
doctoral dissertations, it was my first book. It was written with a
great sense of pride, anger, and hope.
In 1971, after a brief, turbulent history, The Church and the
Second Sex went out of print. It formally died. I tried to "reason”
with the publisher that there was a demand for it, pointing out that
I had received many letters and telephone calls, especially from
women taking or teaching Feminist Studies, asking why the book
wasn’t available. But reason, as I had always understood the term,
had no effect upon the publishing house patriarchs, who refused to
move. So I moved on to other things, including a dramatic/trau¬
matic change of consciousness from "radical Catholic” to post-
christian feminist. My graduation from the Catholic church was
formalized by a self-conferred diploma, my second feminist book,
Beyond God the Bather: Toward a Philosophy of Women’s Libera¬
tion, which appeared in 1973.1 The journey in time/space that took
place between the publication dates of the two books could not be
described adequately by terrestrial calendars and maps. Experien-
tially, it was hardly even a mere trip to the moon, but more like
leap-frogging galaxies in a mind voyage to further and further stars.
Several woman-light years had separated me from The Church and
the Second Sex, whose author I sometimes have trouble recalling.
Then, in 1974, with the imponderable logic that characterizes the
Divinities of the Publishing World, its publishers informed me of
their celestial desire that the book appear on earth once again. O
Goddess: a Second Coming? Startled, I contemplated this new
revelation. The Divine Word had been spoken. Now, what response
should I give about this strange book and its strange author who
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2 The question naturally arose: why not begin renumbering the years, in¬
stead of merely using a numbering system which coincides with the A.D.
system? But the fact is that women have not entered feminist postchristian time/
space "all at once" en bloc with military precision. This is an important differ¬
ence between our time and the linear patriarchal time of "A.D.” I cannot assume
that there was one single or supreme moment of revelation in the past upon
which we must forever fix a backward gaze. Rather, since the women’s move¬
ment moves, its revelation moves. Women enter it freely, as unique selves. In¬
deed, some who are lodged in 1975 A.D. can be expected to move into 1975
A.F. Feminist time/space is on the boundary of patriarchal time and space. As
we are living now, the matter of numbering our time does not seem of central
significance, and so for the sake of convenience, and in order to communicate
AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL.PREFACE TO COLOPHON EDITION 7
our boundary-living situation, I have retained the old numbers. It may be that
at some point in our future, women will think that this transitional dating is
no longer appropriate and adopt a new expression, such as "Amazon Infinity"
(A.I.), which was suggested by Emily Culpepper during a conversation in
June, 1974 A.F.
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We also rejoiced over the fact that the Statue of Liberty was still far
away. Tired and poor, we had escaped that stifling embrace for yet
a little while. Fribourg meant learning the intense intellectual dis¬
cipline of a culture that even then had long ago disappeared from
most places on the planet earth, but which retained its fascination
for me, at least. A seven years’ ecstatic experience interspersed with
brief periods of gloom, it was a sort of lengthy spiritual-intellectual
chess game, interrupted by side trips to less ethereal realms such as
London, Dublin, Paris, Vienna, Madrid, Athens, Damascus, Cairo.
Most significantly, it was interrupted by one very special side trip
to Rome.
The Church and the Second Sex might never have happened if
there had not been one great carnival of an event, the Second
Vatican Council of the Roman Catholic Church, and if I had not
managed to go to that carnival in the fall of 1965. In some ways it
was the opposite of the experience of Fribourg. While the latter was
an internationally populated island of isolation, the Rome of
Vatican II was a sea of international communication—the place/
time where the Catholic church came bursting into open confronta¬
tion with the twentieth century. It seemed to everyone, except to
the strangely foreseeing "conservatives,” prophets of doom who in
some perverse way knew what was really going on, that the greatest
breakthrough of nearly two thousand years was happening. We met
—theologians, students, journalists, lobbyists for every imaginable
cause—and found that our most secret thoughts about "the church”
were not solitary aberrations. They were shared, spoken out loud,
allowed credibility. There was an ebullient sense of hope. Most of
us thought then that this meant there was hope for the church.
Years later, some would manage to understand that the hope was
real even though its focus was misplaced. Some would learn to
transfer the primary force of that hope away from the church and
to ourselves and each other. We would even learn to stop misnam¬
ing ourselves as "the church.” But then all eyes were turned to the
church.
For the species "Catholic Feminist,” this misplaced hope was
comparable to the euphoria experienced in a slightly later period by
the species "New Left Feminist.” To both groups, which were
distinct but partly overlapping, it appeared that a door had opened
within patriarchy which could admit an endless variety of human
possibilities. The gradual extinction of both groups was inevitable
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and desirable, although not yet desired, at least, not by their mem¬
bers. It would take time to learn that all male-controlled "revolu¬
tions” are essentially movements in circles within the same senescent
patriarchal system.
Every day during that month-long visit in Rome was fascinating,
but one day in particular was important. I borrowed a journalist’s
identification card and went into St. Peter’s for one of the major
sessions. Sitting in the section reserved for the press, I saw in the
distance a multitude of cardinals and bishops—old men in crimson
dresses. In another section of the basilica were the "auditors”: a
group which included a few Catholic women, mostly nuns in long
black dresses with heads veiled. The contrast between the arrogant
bearing and colorful attire of the "princes of the church” and the
humble, self-deprecating manner and somber clothing of the very
few women was appalling. Watching the veiled nuns shuffle to the
altar rail to receive Holy Communion from the hands of a priest was
like observing a string of lowly ants at some bizarre picnic. (In
retrospect it seems to have been an ant-poisonous picnic.) Speeches
were read at the session, but the voices were all male, the senile,
cracking whines of the men in red. The few women, the nuns, sat
docilely and listened to the reading of documents in Latin, which
neither they nor the readers apparently understood. When ques¬
tioned by the press afterward, the female "auditors” repeatedly ex¬
pressed their gratitude for the privilege of being present. Although
there were one or two exceptions, for the most part they were
cautious about expressing any opinion at all. Although I did not
grasp the full meaning of the scene all at once, its multileveled
message burned its way deep into my consciousness. No Fellini
movie could have outdone this unintended self-satire of Catholicism.
When I returned home to Fribourg, I really began to work on
The Church and the Second Sex. But it was not only the experience
of the Vatican Council in Rome that made this written expression
of anger and hope possible. Another important catalyst had been an
article by Rosemary Lauer, a Catholic philosopher, which had ap¬
peared two years earlier in Commonweal (December, 1963). That
piece had been only moderately critical of the church’s treatment of
women, but the fact that a woman vfflo retained her identity as
"Catholic” had said these things was an astounding breakthrough.
It somehow bestowed upon me the psychological freedom to "write
out loud” my own thoughts. That article functioned in a special way
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CHAPTER ONE
wrote: "Remember the good things you hear, and do not consider
who says them” (p. 57). So much for our author’s use of Aquinas’s
"authority” to legitimize de Beauvoir’s attack on Christianity.
With considerable skill, Daly brings together in this chapter the
most significant texts of de Beauvoir relevant to Christianity, ar¬
ranging them according to a few dominant themes and adding ap¬
propriate commentary. In general, she agrees with the French
feminist, and for the most part rightly so. However, when she comes
to the question of "transcendence through religion?” (pp. 66ff),
Daly is not critical enough of the lyrical passages on Saint Teresa of
Avila, whose situation de Beauvoir likens to that of great queens,
"exalted by the power of social institutions above all sexual dif¬
ferentiation.” Once again there is a curious ambivalence (to use one
of her own favorite expressions) in the attitude of our author, who
was fully aware of Teresa’s sufferings from the church. In fact, in
her second chapter she herself cites several poignant passages from
Teresa’s writings in which the saint expressed her anguish over the
(church-imposed) chains that dragged her down because of her sex.
How, then, could she so exuberantly echo de Beauvoir’s unrealistic
notion that "there is hardly any woman other than Saint Teresa w7ho
in total abandonment has herself lived out the situation of hu¬
manity” (p. 68) ?
The final section of Chapter One, under the heading "Facing the
problems,” could be perplexing because of its self-contradicting
combination of astuteness and "holding back.” This syndrome is
characteristic of the author in her last-ditch struggle to salvage
Christianity in the face of her own evidence. She gives a concise
summary <of some relevant main points in de Beauvoir’s existentialist
philosophy, indicating substantial agreement with most of these. In
my opinion, Daly was right to challenge the French existentialist’s
assumption that belief in God is inseparably linked with the idea of
an immutable human nature. Today, in the light of feminist philo¬
sophy of Be-ing, we are aware of the deep connection between
women’s becoming and the unfolding of cosmic process—a process
which some would still call "God.”1 But Daly’s rebuttal of de
Beauvoir’s atheism is not vigorous enough, precisely because the
only real alternative that she (and probably also de Beauvoir)
could see to atheism was Christian faith. The author of The Church
and the Second Sex, in my opinion, had not managed to move
1 See Beyond God the Father, first chapter.
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its use was not consciously political. But that is precisely the point.
Moreover, Daly writes of the "seminal” elements in Christian
doctrine as distinguished from its "oppressive” ideas (p. 73). Given
the totally patriarchal character of Christianity, the use of the term
"seminal” could have been used very appropriately, had it been
employed to express the phallocentric nature of Christian doctrine.
However, regretfully I must point out that this is not the sense of
the text. "Seminal” is not used to mean male-centered, and indeed
it is used in contrast with the word "oppressive.”
Some of these symptoms of nonconsciousness of the politics of
language reappear in later chapters. I shall try to refrain from over¬
stressing them. Since I am attempting an in-depth study of this
document in its historical context, it would be a serious failure on
my part if I were to slip into mere carping pedantry that would
betray the intentions of the author and discredit myself as a com¬
petent Dalyan scholar.
CHAPTER TWO
some unearthly place, then certainly Daly could never have been
there since the symbol says "for men only.”
The section on the patristic period obviously was painstakingly
researched. Our author searched out the Latin texts and carefully
verified her translations. One of her contemporary critics argued
that she had been selective in exhuming only misogynistic texts
from the so-called Fathers of the Church. His assumption was that
there were some philogynistic texts to be found. Clearly, Daly wins
hands down since no scholar of her time nor of any period since has
been able to find such texts to refute her position.
When we come to the section on the Middle Ages, it becomes
immediately evident that Daly is on very familiar territory. Her
biographical data, found with the book, indicates that she had
studied medieval philosophy and theology for some years. Perhaps
this explains the peculiar zest and fascination with detail which
characterizes her analysis of Thomas Aquinas. Having exposed the
abysmal views on the subject of women held by the "Angelic
Doctor” (as he was called in the Catholic tradition), she still main¬
tains that the deep roots of his thought could have been liberating
for women if their dynamics had not been blocked off by "outdated”
biblical exegesis and biology and by the prevailing views of the
culture. She did not acknowledge, of course, that "biblical exegesis”
is inevitably "outdated.” Moreover, her critique of medieval biology
is, it seems to me, too restrained. Modestly, she affirms that the
mother is "equally” active in the production of the child, instead of
simply pointing out that the female is more active—a fact which
patriarchal ideology simply reversed.
I think that I can detect in Daly’s defense of Aquinas’s "radically
liberating principles” a quality different from her lip service to the
single "liberating” Pauline text and even quite different from her
general defense of "basic Christian doctrine.” In the latter case, as I
have pointed out, she seems to be avoiding the threat of a radical
break from Christianity. But in her plea for Aquinas there is, it
seems to me, a kind of positive passion (p. 95). It is my guess that
what she adhered to in his thought—Thomistic scholar that she was
—was his ontological sense, his intuition of being. Looking back
from the vantage point of our present stage in history, I think it fair
to say that she was struggling to find ontological roots for what we
know today as feminist philosophy of Be-ing. In the better parts of
Aquinas’s work she found hints of what a philosophy of be-ing/be-
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CHAPTER THREE
Winds of Change
I found this chapter both puzzling and poignant. The author be¬
gins with a continued discussion of Popes, but this time the main
subject is a personage named "Pope John.” It amazes me that she
speaks with unbridled enthusiasm about the writings attributed to
this dignitary, using such expressions as "startling breakthrough”
to describe them (p. 118). Indeed, the texts she cites seem to convey
little more than some vague and grudging awareness that women
are human. The enthusiasm of our author snatching at these crumbs
tossed from on high speaks volumes about the desolation of the
culture in which she struggled to survive. Combining these texts
with a few more, garnered from the documents issued by the Second
Vatican Council, she builds a case in support of the church’s "grow¬
ing recognition ... of the equal rights of men and women” (p.
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i i9ff.). She seems to become exuberant over things that the Vatican
documents do not do. For example, this document "does not speak
disparagingly of working mothers” (p. 120). Yet even this non¬
speech is precarious, it seems, for the document sternly proclaims that
"children . . . need the care of their mothers at home.” Again,
Daly rejoices that Vatican II’s Declaration on Christian Education
"has nothing to say against coeducation” (p. 121, italics mine), even
though she notes that it has regressive passages, such as those insist¬
ing that teachers "pay due regard to sex role differences.” In sum,
Daly is aware of what she calls the "three steps forward, one step
backward” movement of the church in her time. She does not seem
aware of the possibility that the real pattern of the dance may have
been "one step forward, three steps backward.”
There are indications, however, that Daly had a sense of forebod¬
ing when Pope John’s successor, known as "Pope Paul,” climbed
into the papal throne and began making statements that could not
be read as other than oppressive. Our author summons up her
optimism and manages to say that this Pope Paul "has given some
evidence of an evolution beyond the attitudes of the popes who
preceded John (p. 121, italics mine). With evident depression, she
notes some of his remarks and then moves on to another section of
her chapter. For the benefit of the lay reader I should point out that
this "Pope Paul” was the last of the popes whose name we find
recorded in any of the sources. Since in 1975 A.F. there is little
serious scholarly or popular discussion on the subject of popes, I
simply offer this information for those with antiquarian curiosity and
to illumine better the setting of Daly’s labors.
Today, the arguments in some of the petitions sent by women
theologians to the "Council fathers” appear hardly less strange than
the documents of the "fathers” themselves. One of these women,
for example, is mentioned by Daly as presenting reasoned argu¬
ments that "Canon 968, which limits ordination to men alone, is of
human tradition rather than divine origin” (pp. 124—125). Ap¬
parently Catholics believed that some of their rules were written by
men (males) and some were written by God. This belief posed some
obscure, convoluted problems concerning who had written which.
In any case, the primary focus of the "radical petitions” was the
ordination of women to the priesthood, and, of course, none of the
petitioners, any more than Daly herself, could see that the idea of
"equality” within a patriarchal institution was doomed. In fairness,
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137). This pattern of emergence was not totally dissimilar from that
of other women, most of whom were imprisoned in marriage and/
or demeaning jobs. A significant number of women in that epoch,
including such apparently submerged beings as the "sisters,” were
beginning to move together, without realizing it, into the emerging
sisterhood of women.
The final section of the chapter, "Changes in fact,” lists some
events which appeared spectacular in that epoch, such as women
"serving Mass” and "distributing Holy Communion.” Daly’s
chronicle of the repressive measures against such activities is im¬
portant for understanding women’s history. Discussing the role of
Protestantism in countering the conservative influence, she gives us
insight into an important dialectic within Christianity. Understand¬
ably, she took an overly optimistic view of the Protestant influence,
attributing to Protestantism a greater dissimilarity from the Catholic
church than the facts warranted—the facts, that is, as perceived
more clearly now, seven woman-light years removed from the scene.
CHAPTER FOUR
If I could dialogue with the author of The Church and the Second
Sex today, I think we might have an enjoyable chat about this
chapter. I might be tempted to tell her that some of her readers
today must surely suspect that she had a unique talent for unearth¬
ing bizarre literature and then refuting it. I might point out that my
contemporaries who have not studied the history of her time can
be expected to wonder if she had access to some astonishing collec¬
tions of rare books. But I think I can accurately anticipate her reply.
"Rare books?” she would ask, astonished. "I found these in the local
bookstores. They were representative of a whole genre of writing
that was very common.” And, given my historical knowledge of
that period, I would be obliged in honesty to concede her point. But
I must return to the concrete reality before me: the book itself.
Discussing the phallacies of the "eternal feminine” ideology, Daly
does an acute analysis of one "Gertrud von le Fort.” Von le Fort was
FEMINIST POSTCHRISTIAN INTRODUCTION 31
4 Phrase originated by Robin Morgan in her poem ''The One That Got Away
or The Woman Who Made It” in Monster (Vintage Books, New York: Random
House, 1972, A.F.), p. 70.
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5 See Elizabeth Gould Davis, The First Sex (Baltimore, Md.: Penguin Books,
1971 A.F.).
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CHAPTER FIVE
7 From "Waking in the Dark” in Diving into the Wreck (New York: W.
W. Norton and Company, 1973 A.F.), p. 8.
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profession. You know that not only clerics but also most analysts
and therapists have promoted exactly the kind of nightmarish
marital situations that you—and this Lussier—deplore.”
If I thought I still had her attention, I would continue: "Now,
about that quote from Betty Friedan on page 176: Why did you let
the implied negative value judgment on homosexuality go by with¬
out serious questioning? I realize that this issue was not your pri¬
mary focus of concern when you cited this passage. Rather, you were
pleading the cause of married women who also have careers (which
was Friedan’s intention, as well). But why did you allow to go un¬
criticized the implication that homosexual preference is a sign of
defect or failure on anyone’s part? Negative judgments upon homo¬
sexuality stem from a patriarchal social system which has a vested
interest in the nuclear family as the only 'legitimate’ life-style. In a
postpatriarchal culture, the labels 'homosexual’ and 'heterosexual,’
if retained at all, will be value-free.”
It is my opinion that Daly would have listened to these views and
considered them, were I able to make such a time trip into the past
and make myself visible and audible. But unfortunately, voices from
the future are harder to hear than those of the past. Here is her book,
solid and visible before me. I have the distinct advantage of under¬
standing her better than she could comprehend me.
Before I leave this chapter, I must say that the last section, "the
task of exorcism,” really pleased me. The author shows the phallacies
of tokenism and points out that the way to exorcism is changing
women’s image by raising up our own images in our lives. It is un¬
fortunate, however, that in the last paragraph she claims that this
will not happen "until favorable conditions are not only allowed
but also encouraged” (p. 178). I certainly do not know who will
"allow” and "encourage” women to raise up our images if not
women ourselves. And who will "remove impediments” and "foster”
the right atmosphere, if not us! It is evident that she was still hoping
for institutional, even churchly, encouragement. In 1975 A.F. we
know that women must recapture our own energy, our own lives.
We must do it ourselves.
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CHAPTER SIX
Naturally, I vainly wish that it had been possible for her to move
even further in that direction. She expressed the view that mis-
ogynism should be seen both as "symptom” and cause of "doctrinal
disorders.” As I was reading, it struck me as truly unfortunate that
she explicitly chose to place primary emphasis upon the idea of anti¬
feminism as a symptom, even though she did state that it was also
at the origin of the "doctrinal disorders” which perpetuate it (p.
179). I cannot refrain from pointing out that "doctrinea dis¬
order. I would say that sexism is the basic disorder, the cause of
further disorders, and that we may count among its effects the
existence and content of dogmatic "doctrines.”
Yet a careful reading convinces me that Daly was moving in the
direction of saying exactly this herself. She explicitly states that the
cause-effect relationship between misogynism and distorted "doc¬
trines” is not "one-way,” that it is more accurately described as a
"vicious circle” (p. 180). Moreover, even when she discusses anti¬
feminism as a "symptom” having roots in "the problem of con¬
ceptualizations, images, and attitude concerning God” (p. i8off),
she shows that these "conceptualizations, images, and attitudes” are
male-centered. Thus, even when she is allegedly writing of mis¬
ogynism as a "symptom,” the disorder of which it is a "symptom”
turns out to be really a more deeply hidden form of misogynism, or
at least androcentrism. Even when she writes of distortions in tradi¬
tional notions of divinity which she describes as "quite distinct from
vague identifications of God with the male sex,” she says in the same
breath that such warped ideas "may well be connected with these
[male] identifications” (p. 181). Fortunately, in our time, the
problem can be described more directly and unequivocally: I would
say that sexist conceptualizations, images, and attitudes concerning
God, spawned in a patriarchal society, tend to breed more sexist
ideas and attitudes, and together these function to legitimate and
perpetuate sexist institutions and behavior. Briefly, if God is male,
then the male is God.
Daly rightly claims that such concepts as "divine immutability”
and "divine omnipotence” function to justify misogynism. I would
add that since these very notions of "divine attributes” originated in
a patriarchal society, of course they do support the vested interests
of such a society. Basic changelessness, or what she calls "the static
world view,” is essential to patriarchy, no matter how much the
FEMINIST POSTCHRISTIAN INTRODUCTION 39
patriarchs may prattle about "progress,” "revolution,” and "change.”
This is inevitably so, because the only genuinely radical progress,
revolution, and change would be the upheaval of patriarchy itself—
movement beyond patriarchy. As for the idea of a unique, closed
"revelation” in the past, which she discusses on page 184, that too
is a product of the sexual caste system, and it functions to perpetuate
that system, to keep it closed. I agree with Daly, then, that there is
a vicious circle, that there are circles within circles, that misogynism
breeds misogynism, but I think it is misleading to write of mis¬
ogynism as a "symptom.” Sexism is the disease, the planetary
disease. It is also the demon she was trying to name.
The section entitled "Other theological developments required”
made me uncomfortable. Daly wanted to see the church not merely
as an institution but also as a movement in the world. This bifocal
vision of course allowed her to perform a delicate balancing act—
seeming to be both in and out of the church. Whatever she thought
of the institution, she could still hopefully identify with the church
as movement. This was a common enough approach in her time,
and strange though it may seem to us in the now/here, it did not
involve conscious or intentional dishonesty. Since I have some under¬
standing of her situation, I realize that it was virtually impossible
for her then to recognize the implications of the fact that the church
was an oppressive social reality. If my voice could carry back into
her world I would cry out as loud as possible: "Listen! When you
can say 'No’ to the institution you can begin to say a clearer and
more effective 'Yes’ to real movement in the world, your movement,
the movement of your sisters—past, present, and future. Then you
will really be able to talk about "Incarnation”—not some sup¬
posedly unique, male-deifying event locked forever in the past—but
the incarnate movement of your sisters. Then you will think and
speak about a Fall that matters, that is here and yet still on its way
—a Fall into freedom.”
But Daly was writing about traditional concepts and trying des¬
perately to do something about them. Nor was she totally unsuc¬
cessful. It was her critique of the story of the Fall that led me to
think of the women’s revolution as a Fall into free space, beyond
patriarchal good and evil. It seemed to me, as I meditated upon her
obviously difficult struggle to undistort all the "doctrinal distor¬
tions,” that I myself might as well continue to go all the way.
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There was strong pressure from this environment which made her
feel that the subject of her entire book still had to be seen in a
"broader theological context.” Understanding this atmosphere, I
find the section understandable. In fact, I find it valuable, since in
fact she gives here a strong, though cautiously worded, argument
that this "broader theological context” was rooted in patriarchy and
was therefore warped (read: sexist) at its roots. Moreover, her
analysis of the ill logic involved in the "theology of woman” is not
only very credible to such a critic as myself, but also useful, since
this ideological monstrosity was later superseded in patriarchal uni¬
versities by a similarly phallacious ideology, known as "the psy¬
chology of woman,” to which her critique is applicable.8
Daly concludes the chapter by clearly indicating the obstacles to
the development of a "liberating theological anthropology”—ob¬
stacles which still exist outside feminist now/here. Although I
would not of course choose the expression "theological anthro¬
pology,” I will not indulge in a lengthy quibble over her choice of
an expression which surely was one of the better semantic options
available for expressing her idea. Today we are creating feminist
theory out of women’s experience. This is, after all, what she was
striving toward.
CHAPTER SEVEN
Daly correctly sensed that some of her more modest proposals for
Catholicism would grudgingly be granted and that a more adequate
test of Catholic sincerity about "equality” would be the issue of
women priests. Hence there is a rather lengthy section devoted to
this subject. If by a stretch, or rather a shrinkage, of my imagination
I were to accept her basic premise that "reform” of the Catholic
church might have been possible and desirable, I would have to
agree with this priority as well as with her arguments. Yet I cannot
easily overcome my sense of dismay that the integrity of her position
required such an expenditure of energy in the refutation of bigots
who deserved no reply. Feminists of our time, of course, are careful
about wastage of energy. We have learned from our study of history
that "dialoguing” with the mindless ideologists of patriarchal reli¬
gion is useless bloodshed, timeshed, spiritshed.9 We have learned to
use a kind of power which I have named power of absence, which
is possible because we are present to each other.
I think that a key to the apparent puzzle of why Daly kept trying
can be found in her response to the argument that "the priest
represents Christ and therefore must be male.” She countered this
by claiming that such a statement "betrays a distorted understanding
of the meaning of Christ . . . giving prior importance to his male¬
ness rather than to his humanity” (p. 199). I am afraid that it was
Daly, and not the conservatives, who had missed the point about
the Christ symbol. She was trying to transcend the untranscendable,
that is, the message of male supremacy contained in the symbolic
medium itself. That did not work, as history has shown.
At the same time, our author was prophetic, without realizing
the full implications of what she was saying, when she wrote that
"the very suggestion that the same individual could be the bearer of
these two images ["woman” and "priest”] is a declaration that an
age has ended and another has begun” (pp. 206-207). If my read¬
ing is accurate, the age which she perceived—at least on some level
of consciousness—as moving toward its end was the patriarchal
epoch. But the implications of this insight were too overwhelming
to be understood all at once, in an era in which no recognizable
"cognitive minority” was there to support a vision that would run
9 "Timeshed” and "spiritshed” are new words created by Virginia Woolf. See
her book Three Guineas (New York: Harcourt, Brace, and World, 1938 A.F.),
p. 64.
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CONCLUSION
I sighed when I read this title, asking myself if she really had to
choose the word "seeds.” It struck me as curiously fitting that the
lead citation was from Joan of Arc. Joan had at least made a partial
escape from patriarchy (as had Daly, in her own way). Joan’s
escape was significant enough to require that the church kill her
(and later make her a "Christian saint”—the ultimate conquest of
her independence), but it was indeed partial, since her stature was
reduced to that of the Virgin-Warrior who aids men to fulfill men’s
goals. The ambiguous and partial quality of Joan’s escape is sug¬
gested by the content of the lead citation itself: "I do best by obey¬
ing and serving my sovereign Lord—that is, God” (p. 220). It
seems that Joan was able to defy the earthly "lords” because of an
ultimate—and ultimately masochistic—dependence upon the super¬
latively sadistic Lord-God who willed her torture and death.
Of course, Daly’s attention was focused not upon this ultimate
"obeying and serving” but upon Joan’s escape from the earthly
masters. However, as I read the title of the conclusion and this cita¬
tion together, it did concern me that the "seeds of transcendence”
might subintentionally have been envisaged (either by Daly or by
FEMINIST POSTCHRISTIAN INTRODUCTION 47
her readers) as this sovereign Lord’s product. In that case, the
Second Sex, dreaming of transcendence, would find itself forever
supine on the Procrustean bed of "the Sovereign Lord.” (It is no
accident that some of our sisters today have chosen to name their
feminist newspaper "Off Our Backs.”)
It may be objected that I am seeing too much in the imagery
here, which was, after all, the ordinary language of Christians. But
the problem, as I see it, is that Daly herself was not in a situation
which could enable her to examine this imagery closely enough.
Nor, to my knowledge, was anyone else of her time. However, the
most important point of her book’s conclusion is not its archaic
imagery but rather her affirmation that "the world is moving” (p.
220). The difference between de Beauvoir and herself, as she per¬
ceived it, was a difference between despair and hope. While I am
not so sure that de Beauvoir was totally despairing, I am convinced
that Daly’s hope was real, although it was not focused clearly
enough. Like de Beauvoir, she expressed the wish that "men and
women can learn to 'set their pride beyond the sexual differentia¬
tion’ ” (p. 223). The time had not yet arrived when women would
learn to set our pride not only beyond but also in the sexual dif¬
ferentiation—not in the differentiation as defined by the patriarchs
("the eternal feminine”), but as defined by us. This pride, we now
know, is rooted in Amazon power.
with timidity; yet it did seem that I had been called, both by train¬
ing and circumstances, to take on this work.
I realize, too, that others may criticize me for "attacking” a
feminist, for even though her work dates from another period, the
fact that her book has been brought into the limelight again may
make it appear to be in "competition” with my own. I can only re¬
peat that I feel no unsisterly sense of competition, but rather only
gratitude for her influence over my own formative years.
Let me make it perfectly clear that I can foresee some of the com¬
ments that may appear in reviews of this review, or at the very least
in the conversations of my critics. Perhaps in this time of paper
shortage I can prevent some unnecessary use of these resources by
anticipating what some will feel compelled to say:
"I fear that she will not be taken seriously by the male theological
establishment.”
—Catholic Feminist
10 Meaning: "Ultimate weapon in the hands.of the boys.” See Robin Morgan’s
poem, "The One That Got Away,” in Monster, p. 70.
FEMINIST POSTCHRISTIAN INTRODUCTION 49
yy
"Tasteless.
—Anonymous
"Stunning! ”
—Myself
deviance from the "norm” which was first imposed but which can
also be chosen on our own terms. This means that there has td be a
shift from "acceptable” female deviance (characterized by triviality,
diffuseness, dependence upon others for self-definition, low self¬
esteem, powerlessness) to deviance which may be unacceptable to
others but which is acceptable to the self and is self-acceptance.
For women concerned with philosophical/theological questions,
it seems to me, this implies the necessity of some sort of choice. One
either tries to avoid "acceptable” deviance ("normal” female idiocy)
by becoming accepted as a male-identified professional, or else one
tries to make the qualitative leap toward self-acceptable deviance as
ludic cerebrator, questioner of everything, madwoman, and witch.11
I do mean witch. The heretic who rejects the idols of patriarchy
and therefore refuses to bow down before the God"Method”is the
blasphemous creatrix of her own thoughts. She is finding her life
and intends not to lose it.
The witch that smoulders within feminist philosophical and
theological questioners can blaze forth. In spite of our Ph.D.’s (our
disease of degrees), it is possible to refuse intellectual servitude and
the degrading "honors” that are its rewards. To borrow from Nazim
Hikmet (courtesy of Roger Garoudy):
If I do not burn,
If you do not burn,
If we do not burn,
How shall the shadows
Become light?
The witch that smolders within every woman who cared and
dared enough to become a theologian or philosopher in the first
place seems to be crying out these days: "Light my fire!” The
qualitative leap of those flames of spiritual imagination and cerebral
fantasy can be a new dawn. I hope that we won’t trade this birth¬
right (the right to give birth to ourselves) for a mess of professional
respectability.
Virginia Woolf knew of the need for a feminist tradition, when
she wrote of her hope for the eventual arrival of Shakespeare’s
II Another way of expressing "questioner of everything” is to say “Non¬
questioner”—an expression which I frequently use to convey the fact that
women’s most important questions are treated as nonquestions by those in
patriarchal A.D. time, especially academics. See Beyond God the Father, Intro¬
duction.
FEMINIST POSTCHRISTIAN INTRODUCTION 51
sister.12 I hope for the arrival also of the sisters of Plato, of Aristotle,
of Kant, of Nietzsche: sisters who will not merely "equal” them,
but do something different, something immeasurably more. I dream
of these, my sisters, as drawing from the vision of our past and future
foremothers, waking the human species to glimpse still further stars.
12 See A Room of One’s Own (Harbinger Books, New York: Harcourt, Brace,
and World, 1929 A.F.), pp. 48-50, 117-18.
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CHAPTER ONE
‘The curse that is upon woman as vassal consists ... in the fact
that she is not permitted to do anything; so she persists in the vain
pursuit of her true being through narcissism, love, or religion.
When she is productive, active, she regains her transcendence;
in her projects she concretely affirms her status as subject; in con¬
nection with the aims she pursues, with the money and the rights
she takes possession of, she makes trial of and senses her respon¬
sibility.’1
JPp. 679-80.
2P. 231.
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That is, even gifted women who have broken through the
myths are handicapped; their capacity for objectivity and
creativity is partially worn out in the struggle to break the
webs of delusion. ‘Women do not contest the human situation,
because they have hardly begun to assume it.’2
own attitude: the cult of the Virgin, confession, and the rest
lead them towards masochism.”1 In this way, de Beauvoir sees
Catholic dogma as contributing to the conditioning of women to
adore and serve man.
ip. 167.
2P. 168.
3p. 89.
«P. 83.
5P. 102.
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‘the only recourse for women unwilling to bring into the world
children doomed to misery and death. Contraception and legal
abortion would permit woman to undertake her maternities in
freedom. As things are, woman’s fecundity is decided in part vol¬
untarily, in part by chance.’3
]P. 117.
2P. 679.
3P. 29O.
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ip. 676.
2P. 677.
3P. 674.
68 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
!P. 130.
2P. 714.
THE CASE AGAINST THE CHURCH 69
This astonishingly lyrical passage in a clinical and unrelentingly
critical work reiterates the idea that here was a unique case of a
woman who was a free person, who ‘lived out the situation of
humanity’ more totally, perhaps, than the greatest of monarchs.
As for the psychological leverage which produced this pheno¬
menon, de Beauvoir does not explain further. The one indisput¬
able fact is that Teresa of Avila was a Christian mystic.
i. Scripture
Old Testament
The Bible contains much to jolt the modern woman, who is
accustomed to think of herself as an autonomous person. In
the writings of the Old Testament women emerge as subjugated
and inferior beings. Although the wife of an Israelite was not
on the level of a slave, and however much better off she was
than wives in other near-eastern nations, it is indicative of her
inferior condition that the wife addressed her husband as a slave
addressed his master, or a subject his king.
According to Fr Roland de Vaux:
their father, except when there is no male heir. (Nb 27:8). A vow
made by a girl or married woman needs, to be valid, the consent
of father or husband and if this consent is withheld, the vow is
null and void (Nb 30:4-i7).n
Whereas misconduct on the part of the wife was severely
punished, infidelity on the part of the man was punished only
if he violated the rights of another man by taking a married
woman as his accomplice. In the rabbinical age, the school of
Shammai permitted a husband to get a divorce only on the
grounds of adultery and misconduct. However, some teachers
of the more liberal school of Hillel would accept even the most
trivial excuse. If the husband charged that his wife had cooked
a dish badly, or if he simply preferred another woman, he could
repudiate his wife. Even earlier than this it was written in
Sirach 25:26: ‘If thy wife does not obey thee at a signal and a
glance, separate from her.’
Respect for the woman increased once she became a mother,
especially if she produced males, since these were, of course,
more highly valued. A man could, indeed, sell his daughter as
well as his slaves. If a couple did not have children, it was
assumed to be the fault of the wife. Briefly, although Hebrew
women were honored as parents and often treated with kindness,
their social and legal status was that of subordinate beings. It is
understandable that Hebrew males prayed: ‘I thank thee, Lord,
that thou hast not created me a woman.’ From the point of view
of the modern woman, the situation of women in the ancient
Semitic world—and, indeed, in the ancient world in general—
has the dimensions of a nightmare.
Christian authors through the centuries have made much of
the Genesis accounts of the creation of Eve and the geographical
location of the rib. This, together with her role as temptress
in the story of the Fall, supposedly established beyond doubt
woman’s immutable inferiority, which was not merely physical
but also intellectual and moral. So pervasive was this interpreta¬
tion that through the ages the antifeminist tradition has justified
itself on the basis of the origin and activities of the ‘first mother’
of all mankind. In a somewhat more sophisticated and disguised
vein this is continued, even today, particularly by preachers and
theologians who are unaware of developments in modern bibli¬
cal scholarship. Such misunderstanding of the Old Testament
has caused immeasurable harm.
Most of the usage of Old Testament texts to support sex
prejudice reveals a total failure not only to grasp the fact of the
evolution of human consciousness in general but also to under¬
stand the fact and meaning of the evolution of thought in the
Old Testament itself. The foundation upon which the case for
the subordination of woman is built lies in the older of the two
accounts of creation. The earlier creation story (J document),
found in Genesis 2, has been stressed as a basis for Christian
thinking about women, while the P document account, found
in Genesis 1—written several centuries later—has not been
stressed, nor have its implications been understood.
Contemporary scriptural exegetes of all faiths, having the
tools of scholarship at their disposal, as well as insights of psy¬
chology and anthropology, are enabled to look critically at the
first chapters of Genesis. The two creation accounts, which
differ gready from each other, have been carefully scrutinized.
The later creation story gives no hint that woman was brought
into being as an afterthought. On the contrary, it stresses an
original sexual duality and describes God’s act of giving
dominion to both. The plural is used, indicating their common
authority to rule: ‘And God said, Let us make mankind in our
image and likeness, and let them have dominion . . .’ (Gen 1:26).
The following verse says: ‘God created man in his image. In
the image of God he created him. Male and female he created
them’ (Gen 1:27). This is understood by exegetes to mean
that the image of God is in the human person, whether man
or woman. Moreover, the plural is used in the following:
‘Then God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and multi¬
ply, fill the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of
the sea, the birds of the air, the cattle and all the animals that
crawl on the earth” ’ (Gen 1:28).
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New Testament
In the New Testament it is significant that the statements
which reflect the antifeminism of the times are never those of
Christ. There is no recorded speech of Jesus concerning women
‘as such’. What is very striking is his behavior toward them.
In the passages describing the relationship of Jesus with various
women, one characteristic stands out starkly: they emerge as
persons, for they are treated as persons, often in such contrast
with prevailing custom as to astonish onlookers. The behavior
1 Theodor Reik, The Creation of Woman (New York: George BraziUer, Inc.,
i960), p. 124.
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‘[I desire] also that women should adorn themselves modestly and
sensibly in seemly apparel, not with braided hair or gold or pearls
or costly attire but by good deeds, as befits women who profess
religion. Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness.
I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is
to keep silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam
was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a trans¬
gressor. Yet woman will be saved through bearing children, if she
continues in faith and love and holiness, with modesty’ (I Timothy
2:9-15)-
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‘This does not mean that the kingdom of heaven has to do with
non-sexed beings. Paul is enumerating the relationships of domi¬
nation: these are radically denounced by the Gospel, in the sense
that man no more has the right to impose his will to power upon
woman than does a class or a race upon another class or another
race.’1
It is not surprising that Paul did not see the full implications
of this transcendence. There is an unresolved tension between
the personalist Christian message and the restrictions and com¬
promises imposed by the historical situation. It would be naive
to think that Paul foresaw social evolution. For him, transcen¬
dence would come soon enough—in the next life. The in¬
consistency and ambivalence of his words concerning women
could only be recognized at a later time, as a result of historical
processes. Those who have benefitted from the insights of a
later age have the task of distinguishing elements which are
sociological in origin from the life-fostering, personalist elements
which pertain essentially to the Christian message.
‘As long as woman is for birth and children, she is different from
man as body is from soul. But when she wishes to serve Christ
more than the world, then she will cease to be a woman and will
be called man (vir).’1
He continues:
‘In the begetting of man, the mother supplies the formless matter
of the body; and the latter receives its form through the forma¬
tive power that is in the semen of the father. And though this
power cannot create the rational soul, yet it disposes the matter
of the body to receive that form.’1
Thus, the role of the woman in generation is purely passive;
she merely provides the matter, whereas the father disposes
this for the form. This view of woman as a purely passive prin¬
ciple which merely provides the ‘matter’ of the offspring is, of
course, linked to an entirely outdated and false biology: that
the mother is, in fact, equally ‘active’ in the production of the
child was unknown in the thirteenth century.
This idea of women as ‘naturally’ defective, together with
the commonly accepted exegesis of the texts concerning woman
in Genesis and the Pauline epistles, and the given social situa¬
tion of women in a condition of subjection are three factors
whose influence can be detected in Thomas’s arguments
supporting the traditional androcentric views. Thus, in regard to
marriage, he judged that, although there is proportional equality
between man and wife, there is not strict equality; neither in
regard to the conjugal act, in which that which is nobler is due
to the man, nor in regard to the order of the home, in which
the woman is ruled and the man rules.2 Moreover, the exclusion
of women from Holy Orders is upheld on the basis that a sacra¬
ment is a sign, and that in the female sex no eminence of degree
can be signified, since the woman has the state of subjection.*
There is no probability at all that Thomas was able to see this
‘state of subjection’ as merely the result of social conditioning,
of a situation which could change. He believed that social in¬
feriority was required by woman’s ‘natural’ intellectual in¬
feriority: ‘So by such a kind of subjection woman is naturally
subject to man, because in man the discretion of reason pre¬
dominates.’4 This, he thought, would have been the case even
1 Ibid., II—II, 26, 10, ad 1.
2 Ibid., Suppl., 64, 3 c.
3 Ibid., Suppl., 39, 1 c.
4 Ibid., I, 92, 1, ad 2.
HISTORY: A RECORD OF CONTRADICTIONS 93
if sin had not occurred, i.e. even before the Fall. Thus, in
Thomas’s view, the question of woman’s autonomy is hopelessly
closed. The best she could hope for, even in the best of worlds,
would be a kind of eternal childhood, in which she would be
subject to man ‘for her own benefit’.
The puzzlement which characterized patristic thought on
women is again starkly evident in Thomas’s writings. This is
all the more striking because his thought is worked out in an
ordered synthesis; it is not a collection of disconnected snatches
of rhetoric, as is sometimes the case with the Fathers. The very
existence of women seems to have been an awkward snag in the
orderly universe which he envisaged. For the modern reader,
it is starding to read the question posed in the Summa Theo-
logiae: ‘Whether woman should have been made in the first
production of things?’1 The very existence of the question is
significant. Although Thomas argues that human bi-sexuality
should have been ‘from the beginning’, his whole mode of
argument reveals a naively androcentric mentality which assigns
what is properly human to the male and views sexual union
as merely ‘carnal’. Woman is seen as a sort of anomaly.
The anomaly of woman had nevertheless to be assimilated
into the system. A striking ambiguity, which looks very much
like a contradiction, resulted. It was necessary to admit, for
example, that the image of God is found both in man and in
woman, for this Thomas recognized to be the teaching of
Genesis. Yet Paul had said that ‘woman is the glory of man’,
and indicated that she was not the image of God. Thomas con¬
cludes that
‘in a secondary sense the image of God is found in man, and not
in woman: for man is the beginning and end of woman; as God
is the beginning and end of every creature.’2
1 Ibid., I, 92, 1 c.
3 Ibid., I, 93, 4, ad 1.
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‘During the very sorest trials that I have suffered in this life, I do
not recall having uttered such expressions, for I am not in the
least like a woman in these matters but have a stout heart.’8
‘When thou wert in the world, Lord, thou didst not despise
women, but didst always help them and show them great com¬
passion. Thou didst find more faith and no less love in them than
in men. ... We can do nothing in public that is of any use to thee,
nor. dare we speak of some of the truths over which we weep in
secret, lest thou shouldst not hear this, our just petition. Yet,
Lord, I cannot believe this of thy goodness and righteousness,
for thou art a righteous Judge, not like judges in the world, who,
being after all, men and sons of Adam, refuse to consider any
woman’s virtue as above suspicion. Yes, my King, but the day will
come when all will be known. I am not speaking bn my account,
for the whole world is already aware of my wickedness, and I am
glad that it should become known; but, when I see what the times
are like, I feel it is not right to repel spirits which are virtuous and
brave, even though they be the spirits of women.’2
While both husbands and wives are told to love tenderly and
cordially, the wife’s love for her husband should be ‘respectful
and full of reverence’. In creation woman was taken from man’s
side, under his arm, ‘to show that she should be under the
hand and guidance of her husband’. The intellectual superiority
of the male is taken for granted in these passages. De Sales’
remarks on marital fidelity suggest by their choice of wording
a moral superiority of the male as well. He wrote: ‘Husbands,
if you want your wives to be faithful to you, make them see the
lesson by your example.’ These passages reveal that the andro¬
centric assumptions of the Fathers and medieval theologians
had been preserved intact. In fact, the tone of unctuous con¬
descension does not disguise, but rather reinforces these
assumptions (the compassion of the husband is balanced by a
corresponding reverence on the part of the wife). An essentially
alienating and de-personalizing form of man-woman relation¬
ship is exalted as the Christian ideal.
daring for the time were Mary Ward’s ideas on the education
of girls. A strong advocate of the emancipation of women, she
planned to teach girls Latin and other secular subjects which
heretofore had been reserved largely to men. She insisted
that
‘there is no such difference between men and women that women
may not do great things, as we have seen by the example of many
saints.... For what think you of this word, “but women”? As if
we were in all things inferior to some other creature which I sup¬
pose to be man! ... And if they would not make us believe we can
do nothing, and that we are but women, we might do great
matters.’1
‘The husband is the chief of the family and the head of the wife.
The woman, because she is flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone,
must be subject to her husband and obey him; not, indeed, as a
servant, but as a companion, so that her obedience shall be want¬
ing in neither honor nor dignity.’8
The other side of the picture was simply ignored; the fact that
many women desired nothing more than to be freed definitively
From the last words it appears that Pius XI was even more
horrified at the idea of equality than of promiscuity. It is note¬
worthy that he linked coeducation with equality and therefore
opposed it. Separate and ‘different’ education is, in fact, one
of the surest ways of supporting the illusion that women are
inferior in ability. In proclaiming that the ‘differences’ should
be ‘maintained and encouraged’,2 Pius XI unconsciously con¬
ceded that these differences are not as natural in origin as he
would want to believe.
In his encyclical on Christian marriage Pius XI, citing Paul,
repeated the familiar ideas on the ‘order’ of domestic society:
‘This order includes both the primacy of the husband with regard
to the wife and children, the ready subjection of the wife and her
willing obedience.’1
‘It is part of the office of the public authority to adapt the civil
rights of the wife to modem needs and requirements, keeping in
view what the natural disposition and temperament of the female
sex, good morality, and the welfare of the family demands, and
provided always that the essential order of the domestic society
remain intact.’2
1 Ibid.
3 Ibid.
3 Address to Married Couples, io September, 1941.
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gives to the Christian family the power ‘to avoid the perils which
are doubdess hidden in [such a state]’. He praised
‘During the hours and days which you can dedicate entirely to
your dear ones, add zealous attention to redoubled love.’1
‘Your entry into public life has come about suddenly, as an effect
of the social events of which we are being spectators; that does not
matter! You are called to take part in it.’2
‘The creator has disposed to this end the entire being of woman,
her organism, and even more her spirit, and above all her exquisite
sensibility. So that a true woman cannot see and fully understand
all the problems of human life otherwise than under the family
aspect.’1
1 Ibid.
8 Address to Newlyweds, 8 April, 1942.
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114
surprising that he showed little sensitivity for their problems
and personal aspirations. The following statement is revealing:
‘A cradle consecrates the mother of the family; and more cradles
sanctify and glorify her before her husband and children, before
Church and homeland. The mother who complains because a new
child presses against her bosom seeking nourishment at her breast
is foolish, ignorant of herself, and unhappy.’1
There is in the context no suggestion of sympathetic under¬
standing or of compassion for another’s situation. The possibility
that the woman is overburdened and exhausted by repeated
pregnancies is not considered. To quote again:
‘Even the pains that, since original sin, a mother has to suffer to
give birth to her child only draw tighter the bond that binds them:
she loves it the more, the more pain it has cost her.’2
Such statements could well lead one to agree with Simone de
Beauvoir’s idea that there is an unconscious sadism at the root
of certain moral attitudes concerning women. At the very least,
there is in evidence an insensitivity and one-sidedness which is
astonishing.
Pius XII perpetuated the custom of giving a double meaning
to ‘equality’. Having granted the equality of women with men
‘in their personal dignity as children of God’, he repeats the
familiar jargon which serves to nullify the practical implications of
real equality. Thus he wrote of ‘the indestructible spiritual and
physical qualities, whose order cannot be deranged without
nature herself moving to re-establish it’, affirming that ‘these
peculiar characteristics which distinguish the two sexes reveal
themselves so clearly to the eyes of all’, that only obstinate
blindness or doctrinairism could disregard them.® The diffi¬
culty with this is, of course, that not only physical qualities but
also ‘spiritual’ ones are presumed to be linked universally and
exclusively to members of one sex. It is precisely this bridge
from the biological differentiation to the level of personality
1 Ibid.
2 Ibid.
II6 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
‘Used to seeing her mother always absent and the home dismal in
its abandonment, she will find no attraction in it, she will not feel
the slightest inclination for domestic occupations, and she will be
unable to understand their nobleness and beauty or desire to de¬
vote herself to them some day as a wife and mother.’
Moreover, she
1 Ibid.
2 Ibid.
history: a record of CONTRADICTIONS 117
strongly upon it. It would seem that people would not have to
be told authoritatively to behave ‘naturally’. The opposition of
these popes to birth control, which becomes ever more acutely
embarrassing to a Church endeavouring to face up to the neces¬
sity of change, was also rooted in a rigid and inadequate con¬
ception of ‘nature’.
Hopefully, Church leaders will profit from the mistakes of
the past, and not continue to repeat them.
CHAPTER THREE
Winds of Change
‘Human beings have the right to choose freely the state of life which
they prefer, and therefore the right to set up a family, with equal
rights and duties for man and woman, and also the right to follow
a vocation to the priesthood or the religious life.’2 3
1 Ibid., n. 43.
2 Ibid., n. 15.
3 Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modem World (Gaudium et Spes),
Introductory Statement, n. 9. All quotations from Council Documents are
taken from The Documents of Vatican II, edited by Walter M. Abbott, S.J.
(New York: America Press, 1966).
120 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
1 Ibid., n. 29.
2 Ibid., n. 52.
’ Ibid., n. 60.
WINDS OF CHANGE 121
‘Since in our times women have an ever more active share in the
whole life of society, it is very important that they participate more
widely also in the various fields of the Church’s apostolate.’2
Overall, Vatican II did not have much to say concerning
women specifically. Under the circumstances and at that point
in history this may have been better than saying too much;
from the liberal’s point of view, a minimum of official state¬
ments is usually preferable to too many. It is also true that the
modifications attached to some of the statements give the im¬
pression of ‘three steps forward, one step backward’. Yet this
can hardly be described as anything other than progre*ss.
Pope Paul has appeared to try to maintain an openness to
progress on the question of women, and has given some evi¬
dence of an evolution beyond the attitudes of the popes who
preceded John. Addressing members of the Italian Women’s
Center during their jubilee celebration in 1965, he congratu¬
lated them for preparing themselves and others for new public
duties. Saying that the social processes which assure women of
their rights and obligations are not yet completed and that
women should explore and formulate the principles which
1 Declaration on Christian Education (Gravissimum Educations), n. 8.
2 Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity (Apostolicam Actuositatem), n. 9.
122 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
1 Pope Paul VI, Address to Italian Women’s Center, 30 May, 1965. Cited in
La documentation catholique, t. LXII, n. 1450, 20 juin, 1965, col. 1065.
* Pope Paul VI, Address to Delegates of the Italian Society of Obstetrics and
Gynecology, 29 October, 1966.
WINDS OF CHANGE 123
Beginnings of ferment
While the statements of recent popes and of the Council are
important, they are not more significant than a number of other
evidences of change in oudook. In fact, the ferment concerning
women in the Church began to manifest itself in a variety of
ways shordy after the opening of the Council. Discrimination
against women, which formerly would have passed unnoticed
except by a few, received careful scrutiny in the press. An ex¬
ample is the case of the woman journalist who, because of her
sex, was physically prevented from approaching the altar railing
to receive Holy Communion at a Council Mass during the second
session of Vatican II. (During the first session, women journa¬
lists had not even been allowed to attend the Council Mass, a
restriction which moved their male colleagues to send in a peti¬
tion on their behalf.) The event was significant in at least two
ways. First, it showed the persistence of a strange mentality
which seems to regard half the human race as not quite human.
Second, the widespread criticism of this incident showed that
124 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
‘letters to the editor’, pro and con. Most of the letters from
women showed a keen awareness of the problem; by contrast,
many letters from clerics manifested strong conservatism,
failure to see the problem, and sometimes disdain. A frequent
target of those on the pro-feminist side was the use made by
preachers of texts of St Paul on the ‘place of women’, which may
have been appropriate to the social situation in which he lived
nineteen hundred years ago but which no longer apply.1 The
ecclesiastical custom of addressing mixed audiences as if there
were no women present was also criticized. A prominent
German woman pointed out that in a papal audience the Pope
addressed a mixed group as ‘My sons’ and another mixed
gathering simply as ‘Messieurs’. The letter of an American
woman expressed her dismay that when Pope Paul visited
New York he addressed a mixed audience as ‘Sons and brothers’.
These objectors were not preoccupied with etiquette for its own
sake, but with the thought-patterns reflected in an outdated
protocol: they saw the omission as symbolic of the failure of the
hierarchy in thought and action to take into account the real
existence and importance of women in the Church.
On the level of serious scholarship, works dealing with the
problem of women began to appear during the years the Council
was in session. These generally exposed the strong antifeminist
strain embedded in the Christian tradition and the need to
purify theological thought of distortions. These writings also
showed that the elements of a more authentic Christian doctrine
had existed and had found expression in all ages, although the
implications had not been fully understood and applied.
The emergence of this literature is the outcome of the rapid
social changes of modern times, together with advances in
science and scholarship. For once authors have the perspective
necessary to begin to distinguish the authentic, personalist strain
from the oppressive elements in Christian writings and prac¬
tice. Among Catholic scholars whose books have opened new
perspectives are: Elizabeth Schiissler, a young German
‘conviction that should the Church in her wisdom and in her good
time decide to extend to women the dignity of the priesthood,
women would be willing and eager to respond.’
In regard to the liturgy, it asked that the prayers said over the
bride and bridegroom at the Nuptial Mass after the Pater Noster
128 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
1 The Catholic Citizen, vol. XLIX, n. io, 15 October, 1963, p. 66. (The
Catholic Citizen is the organ of St Joan’s Alliance, i7d Dryden Chambers,
119 Oxford Street, London W.i.)
2 Ibid., vol. L, n. 10, October, 1964, pp. 72-3.
3 Ibid., vol. LI, n. 9, October, 1965, pp. 74-5.
WINDS OF CHANGE 129
1 Cited in The Catholic Citizen, vol. LI, n. 1, 15 January, 1965, pp. 4-5. Cf.
also Eva-Maria Jung. op. dr., pp. 283-4.
WINDS OF CHANGE 131
This drama was not new or unique, of course. But what was
new was the public attention drawn to a smouldering problem.
Also in recent years we have heard the public expression of a
troubled conscience on the part of priests themselves. It is ob¬
vious that not all are as traditionalist as those Dr Biezanek
encountered. Some have openly opposed the traditional teach¬
ing and others express dismay. A Boston pastor is reported to
have said that ‘some of the fire went out’ of his sermons when he
1 Newsweek, 6 July, 1964, p. 42.
WINDS OF CHANGE 133
handled the case of a poor, hapless sort of mother who bore her
fifth set of twins in as many years and whose husband deserted
her.1
All this discussion has underlined the fact that the current
crisis in the Church over birth control cannot be understood
merely in terms of expediency in the face of the world’s popu¬
lation problem. There is growing public concern over the pitiful
condition of many women who are without an adequate safe¬
guard against successive pregnancies. There is a development
of awareness in the Catholic consciousness that women are per¬
sons with rights and not mere instruments for the perpetuation
of the species.
Married Catholics have written articles expounding the same
basic issue. Daniel Sullivan, in an enlightening historical essay,
pointed to the conclusion that the misogynistic strain in the
Christian tradition, linked with anti-sexuality, is largely re¬
sponsible for the present crisis over birth control in the Church.2
Rosemary Ruether, theologian and mother of three children,
has presented the problematic on a personal plane, pointing out
that she could not give up her studies and professional interests
in order to have an unlimited number of children.
‘Such a request is simply a demand that I scuttle my interests, my
training, and in the last analysis, my soul. This, I feel, is not only
shockingly wrong, but, for me, psychologically impossible.’
1 Ibid.
t Daniel Sullivan, ‘A History of Catholic Thinking on Contraception,’
What Modem Catholics Think about Birth Control, edited by William Birming¬
ham (New York: New American Library, 1964), pp. 28-69.
134 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
‘that this is the way to realize the values to which you are com¬
mitted. The hardness of the Church’s position, on the other hand,
produces weariness and disgust, rather than joy, because it rests
on a rationale that is not convincing, because it contradicts the
emotional dynamics of the marital relationship, and finally because
it becomes an intolerable thralldom lived out of a social intimida¬
tion extrinsic to oneself.’1
Changes in fact
Although the Code of Canon Law has not been officially
revised, changes are taking place in practice. In Latin America
women have in some instances preached at Mass: in Uruguay,
for example, in the fall of 1965, on one occasion an eighteen-
year-old girl ascended the pulpit following the Gospel to preach
at all the Sunday Masses in the Basilica of Our Lady of the
Rosary in Paysandu, the country’s largest city.1 That same year
the Sacred Congregation on the Sacraments gave permission to
an order of missionary sisters to distribute Holy Communion.
In 1966 the Holy See gave bishops the faculty to allow mother
superiors of convents to distribute Holy Communion to their
communities when no priest is available. Although limited
1 NCR, 24 November, 1965, p. 12.
WINDS OF CHANGE 139
Conservative resistance
As in the case of almost any movement that is gathering
momentum, there has been a conservative resistance. In 1965
the Vatican post-conciliar liturgical commission issued a state¬
ment to the effect that women should not serve as lectors and
commentators at Mass. Many considered the statement as a
confusing and inconsistent step backward, but timidly complied,
not realizing that the statement was not binding. Actually, it was
purely advisory and was ignored in many places.
1 NCR, 24 November, 1965, p. 1, 12.
2 NCR, 8 December, 1965, p. 3.
3 NCR, 15 December, 1965, p. 4.
4 NCR, 16 March, 1966, p. 1.
WINDS OF CHANGE 141
Continuing momentum
Although some of the data we have presented may be in¬
terpreted in various ways, the indisputable fact is that the ques¬
tion of women’s situation vis-a-vis the Church has been raised
and that momentum continues.3 During the Council and within
a short period of time thereafter a number of theologians in¬
cluding Fathers Bernard Haring, Jean Danielou, Georges
Tavard, and Gregory Baum all publicly stated that they thought
For the most part, these authors would keep woman on a pedes¬
tal at all costs, paralyzing her will to freedom and personhood.
A classic of this brand of Catholic thinking is Gertrud von le
Fort’s book, The Eternal Woman, first published in Germany
in 1934. Over one hundred thousand copies of the German
original were sold, and the book was translated into French,
Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, and English. Its influence can be
traced in a number of derivative works which perpetuate its
basic fallacy, namely the confusion of ‘symbolic significance’
with concrete, historical reality.
Gertrud von le Fort’s book develops many of the key themes
of the ‘eternal feminine’ school. It claims to interpret
‘the significance of woman, not in the light of her psychological or
biological, her historical or social position, but under her sym¬
bolic aspect.’2
Thus on all fronts the Eternal Woman is the enemy of the indi¬
vidual woman looking for self-realization and creative expansion
of her own unique personhood. As Von le Fort admitted: ‘The
mother as such does not bear the individualizing marks of the
person.’4
A clue to the fears and motivations behind the opposition
to emancipation can be seen in the repeated use of the term
‘masculinization’. It is indeed characteristic of the opposition
that it interprets woman’s efforts to become more completely
human as efforts to become ‘masculine’. Nicholas Berdyaev, for
example, thought that the modern movement for the
emancipation of women ‘seeks to lead them along masculine
ways’. This interpretation has been applauded by Catholic
1 Ibid., p. 53.
2 Ibid., p. 66.
a Ibid., pp. 94-5.
4 Ibid., p. 64.
THE PEDESTAL PEDDLARS 151
authors. Such confused thinking arises from the fact that in the
past and still today many functions and activities which are
quite naturally human and which have nothing specifically sexual
about them have been appropriated by the males. Yet there is
more involved than a mere naive confusion based on custom.
This can be seen from Berdyaev’s remark that the drive for
emancipation is ‘an anti-hierarchic, a leveling movement’. The
opponents of emancipation have always wanted to keep the
hierarchical form of man-woman relationship, which implies all
the not all easily relinquished privileges of male headship.
A similar theme is found in the writings of Teilhard de
Chardin. Though he was a vigorous evolutionist with many
optimistic and liberating ideas about sexual relationship,
Teilhard failed to extend the implications of his dynamic vision
to the feminine half of the human race. Thus, while he favored
‘a certain emancipation’, he was fearful lest this go so far as to
‘masculinize’ her, or ‘take away the character of illuminating and
idealizing power which she exercises by the simple action of
presence and as at rest’. He even praised—as ‘the most per¬
spicacious of all’
1 Teilhard de Chardin, Genese d'une Pensie (Paris: Grasset, 1961), pp. 154-5.
152 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
1 Ibid., p. 149-50.
2 Ibid., p. 9.
3 Ibid., p. 49.
4 E. Danniel and B. Oliver, Woman is the Glory of Man, translated by Angeline
Bouchard (Westminster, Maryland: The Newman Press, 1966), p. 21.
4 Ibid., p. 24.
• Ibid., p. 81.
THE PEDESTAL PEDDLARS 155
1 Ibid., p. 12.
2 Ibid., p. 10.
3 Ibid., p. 8.
4 Ibid., p. 12.
156 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
Theological distortions
Another aspect of the ‘eternal feminine’ phenomenon must be
considered in this context, and this is the use of Catholic
doctrine to perpetuate the symbol syndrome. Before we do so,
we need to agree that there are many other contributing sources
which have nothing direcdy to do with the Church, although
they undoubtedly influence Catholic authors. These non-church
sources include the myths of advertisers who reduce the image
of woman to that of sex object; the theories of educators
1 Ibid., p. 27.
2 von le Fort, op. cit., p. 7.
8 Ibid., p. 54.
THE PEDESTAL PEDDLARS 157
‘At first, indeed, the words might have occasioned ideas that were
fitting to produce those emotions; but, if I mistake not, it will be
found that when language is once grown familiar, the hearing of the
sounds or sight of the characters is oft immediately attended with
those passions, which at first were wont to be produced by the
intervention of ideas, that are now quite omitted. ... For example,
when a schoolman tells me, “Aristotle hath said it”, all I conceive
he means by it is to dispose me to embrace his opinion with the
deference and submission which custom has annexed to that
name.’1 2
1 Very Rev. James Alberione, S.S.P., S.T.D., Woman: Her Influence and
Zeal as an Aid to the Priesthood, translated by the Daughters of St Paul (Boston:
St Paul Editions, 1964), p. 40.
2 George Berkeley, A Treatise Concerning the Principles of HumanKnowledge,
n. 20.
THE PEDESTAL PEDDLARS 159
‘In Mary are revealed the intentions of the divine plan concerning
the whole of femininity.’1
1 Ibid., p. 57-
2 Ibid.
s Ibid., p. 200.
164 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
'Ibid., p. 79.
THE PEDESTAL PEDDLARS 165
Symbols ‘like living beings, grow and die’, as theologian Paul
Tillich pointed out. ‘They grow when the situation is ripe for
them, and they die when the situation changes.’ It is no secret
that the ‘eternal feminine’ is fading. Berdyaev and Rilke have
written hopefully, but without evidence, of its future resurrec¬
tion. Some persist in advertising a remodeled pedestal, but their
success is comparable to that of antique dealers who manage to
do a thriving business with a narrow range of customers, but
hardly can be said to be altering the course of history.
CHAPTER FIVE
‘I began to marvel at how smoothly the black boys acted out the
roles that the white race had mapped out for them. Most of them
were not conscious of living a special, separate, stunted way of life.
Yet I knew that in some period of their growing up—a period that
they had no doubt forgotten—there had been developed in them
a delicate, sensitive controlling mechanism that shut off their
minds and emotions from all that the white race had said was
taboo. Although they lived in America where in theory there
existed equality of opportunity, they knew unerringly what to
aspire to and what not to aspire to. Had a black boy announced
that he aspired to be a writer, he would have been unhesitatingly
called crazy by his pals. Or had a black boy spoken of yearning
to get a seat on the New York Stock Exchange, his friends—in
the boy’s own interests—would have reported his odd ambition to
the white boss.’
tion’, by which the ‘inferior’ accepts the role imposed upon him.
Sartre has illustrated this in describing what happened to Jean
Genet, who as a child was accused by the ‘honest’ villagers of
being a thief. Thus the ‘honest’ people were able to use Genet;
they could hate in him that part of themselves which they had
denied and projected into him. As Genet became the ‘thief’
which the villagers wanted him to be, so a Negro child becomes
the ‘lazy nigger’ which the white citizens want him to be. So, too,
do girls accept a limiting and stunting role for themselves in a
society which expects this of them. This whole process of ‘role
psychology’ or ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’ involves a vicious circle.
Members of the oppressed or minority group have no other
images with which to identify than those forced upon them by
the dominant class. Slowly these persons learn to live out what is
expected of them. Since they do, in fact, become inferior in just the
way society desires, the prejudice is reinforced. If someone ques¬
tions the prejudice, numerous examples can be pointed to as
‘evidence’ that the stereotype is well grounded in ‘nature’. The
‘niggers’ who are thieves, the Jews who are sly and greedy, the
‘true women’ who are naively spontaneous, self-abasing, and
narcissistic are there in abundance, frustrating attempts to break
out of the magic circle. Which is to say that the images are self-
perpetuating.
Demonic distortions
In his stimulating book, The Secular City, theologian Harvey
Cox has described with logic and power the need for the Church
to fulfill its role as cultural exorcist. This means that the Church
has the duty of exorcising the ‘demons’ which are born of the
projection-introjection mechanisms.
‘men must be called away from their fascination with other worlds
... and summoned to confront the concrete issues of this one.’1
1 Harvey Cox, The Secular City (New York: Macmillan, 1965), p. 154.
DEMON OF SEXUAL PREJUDICE: EXERCISE IN EXORCISM 171
‘We are beginning to know a good deal about the effects of anxiety
on thinking: it is especially damaging to creative thinking, for it
narrows the range of solution efforts, interferes with breaking set,
and prevents scanning of the whole range of elements open to
perception. When anxiety facilitates performance, as it sometimes
1 Dan Sullivan, ‘Beast in the Belly vs. Union with the Beloved’, NCR
29 June, 1966, p. 6.
“Andre Lussier, ‘Psychoanalysis and Moral Issues in Marital Problems’,
Cross Currents XV, Winter, 1965, p. 59.
DEMON OF SEXUAL PREJUDICE: EXERCISE IN EXORCISM 175
normal, attractive persons are in fact doing the things they want
to do.
Despite the fact that the answer lies in the ‘raising up’ of new
images, it is doubtful that women will rise to the task in
sufficient numbers until favorable conditions are not only
allowed but also encouraged. As far as the Church is concerned,
this will require a work which has both a negative and a positive
aspect. The work of removing impediments to evolution of per¬
sonality and of fostering an atmosphere in which such evolution
can best take place is equivalent to the task of exorcism, which
is an essential part of its ministry. Furthermore, this changing
of atmosphere must take place on the two levels of theory and of
practice. The following chapters examine some dimensions of
the work ahead.
CHAPTER SIX
1 See Leslie Dewart, The Future of Belief (New York: Herder and Herder,
1966).
ROOTS OF THE PROBLEM: RADICAL SURGERY REQUIRED 183
1 Arnold Toynbee, Christianity among the Religions of the World (New York:
Charles Scribner’s Sons, Scribner Library Books), 1957, p. 19.
ROOTS OF THE PROBLEM: RADICAL SURGERY REQUIRED 189
‘Picture the relations between priestesses and men, if you have any
experience of life, any acquaintance with human nature, above all,
any imagination. What a kaleidoscope of situations • we should
have—embarrassing, grotesque, delicate, amusing, and quite in¬
tolerable. Supposing there were no theological argument, I cannot
see a single reason for discarding the logic and religious experience
of thousands of years in order to gratify the longing a handful of
women have for recognition and power.’1
‘the question of women’s place in the cult and ministry and in the
Christian home and in society is dealt with on the selfsame prin¬
ciple: the subordination in creation’.1
1 Krister Stendahl, The Bible and the Role of Women: A Case Study in
Hermeneutics, translated by Emilie T. Sander (Philadelphia: Fortress Press,
Facet Books, Biblical Series 15, 1966), p. 39.
TOWARD PARTNERSHIP: SOME MODEST PROPOSALS 199
century. Professor Stendahl summarizes the case succinctly:
equal rights and duties for man and woman, and also the right
to follow a vocation to the priesthood or the religious life.’
‘Pope John might object to my taking his words literally but they
deserve meditation. He noted with approval the fading of a strati¬
fied society, in which some persons are put in an inferior condition,
and others assume superior position, “on account of economic and
social conditions, of sex, of assigned rank”.’1
which chooses to ‘wait and see’ what will happen. On the con¬
trary, it is essential to see that man is the being who shares in
the shaping of his own destiny. Thus it is necessary to work
within the existing situation, to rectify injustice within existing
structures insofar as this is possible, and at the same time to
anticipate and direct toward future developments.
It is most important, then, to go beyond thinking in terms of
the institutional Church as it has existed until the present time.
We are living in a time of social upheaval. Indeed, it appears
that we are entering upon a new stage in human evolution, and
it may be that many social structures which are still with us and
many accepted patterns of behavior are really dead remnants of
an earlier stage. Characteristic of our age is the breakdown of
class distinctions which have persisted for thousands of years—
indeed, since the human race moved from its infancy, the state
of primitive society, into its adolescence. These class distinc¬
tions have been expressed in hierarchical patterns of society.
Master and slave, feudal lord and serf, husband and wife—all
lived out their existence in fixed roles, more or less modified
according to circumstances and individual disposition. The fun¬
damental dialectic was between oppressor and oppressed. This
hierarchical vision of the world was reflected in the structures
of the Church and justified by her theology. Today these struc¬
tures remain, but modern man is experiencing them more and
more as suffocating anachronisms.
At the same time, modern man experiences an anxiety about
the disappearance of these structures. There is an awareness, in
some cases, explicit, in others half-buried in the unconscious,
that we stand at a turn in the road and that there is no going
back. This is the reason for the strange power of the women
priests issue to arouse violent and irrational responses. In fact,
the very expression ‘women priests’ juxtaposes in the most
striking way two symbols which in a former age, the age from
which we are emerging, had been understood as occupying
opposed positions in the hierarchical scheme of things. The
very suggestion that the same individual could be the bearer
TOWARD PARTNERSHIP: SOME MODEST PROPOSALS 207
The nun
We have not yet discussed one of the most fascinating and
paradoxical figures involved in the drama of transition from the
era which is ending to the new age which has begun. This is the
figure of the religious sister, the nun. There is a sense in which
the nun appears to embody the eternal feminine, the stereotype
of woman. She wears a veil and fives under a vow of obedience.
Traditionally, she has led a fife of silence, except when speech
is necessary, demurely carrying out the humble tasks appor¬
tioned to womanhood.
Yet, individual nuns have transcended the eternal feminine
to a greater degree than most of their married sisters. We have
seen that there were extremely powerful abbesses in the Middle
Ages, who ruled vast territories with skill and authority. There
was the brilliant and active figure of Teresa of Avila, and there
were the daring women such as Mary Ward, whose struggle we
have described, who established the first active communities of
toward partnership: some modest proposals 209
religious women away from the cloister. In our own time, a large
proportion of Catholic professional women are religious sisters.
Among their numbers are outstanding scholars, scientists, artists,
administrators. Some of these have recendy come into the
limelight, and one speaks of ‘the emerging nun’. Indeed, more
and more frequendy these very modern women are to be seen
at professional gatherings, or on the campuses of great secular
universities, attired in medieval garb, vividly exemplifying the
paradox of the Catholic nun.
Throughout centuries in which women were under the
tutelage of father, guardian or husband, the nuns enjoyed a kind
of liberation from subjection to the male. True, they had vows
of obedience and were subject to masculine jurisdiction on the
higher and more remote levels, yet there was also always a kind
of autonomy which even Thomas Aquinas acknowledged. These
consecrated virgins were recognized as symbolizing the value
and dignity of the human person, which transcends sex roles and
functions, and at least in some individual cases they actually
realized this transcendence in their thoughts and activities. The
nun has always been the image of the old and of the new woman,
bearing in an extraordinary way the burden of the eternal femi¬
nine mystique, yet at the same time anticipating symbolically and
sometimes in concrete reality the emancipation which has only
recently begun to take hold in the world.
It it not by accident that none of the outspoken advocates of
women clergy are nuns, even though some of them privately
favor this movement. Leaving aside the psychology of vested
interests, which may help to explain this lack of enthusiasm,
there is the fact that the sisterhoods have introjected to a great
extent the attitudes of the eternal feminine. Still wearing veils,
still partly cloistered, nuns are, symbolically speaking, the
antithesis of women in the active ministry. Many still
seek fulfillment in ways which are as anachronistic as the
garb which symbolizes their ancient bondage. At the same
time, the tremors of change are being felt in even the most
conservative of convents. Even in these isolated places the
message that an age is coming to an end is being heard.
210 THE CHURCH AND THE SECOND SEX
1 Eugene Kennedy, M.M. ‘The Women who are More than Poor’, Th*
Critic, December, 1966-January, 1967, pp. 31-9.
TOWARD PARTNERSHIP: SOME MODEST PROPOSALS 211
been thought attainable only in the next. When this occurs, the
apparent opposition between ‘religious women’ and ‘women in
the sacred ministry’ will be overcome. Indeed, in a humanized,
democratized Church of the future, in which systems of caste
have been transcended, it may be discovered that men and
women, married and celibate, are called in abundance to min¬
ister to the people of God.
affairs. The first and most essential way, then, in which the
Church ideally should carry out its mission to bring about a
development toward right relation between men and women is
by demonstration through reform of itself, in its theology and in
its life. If it did this, it would present to ‘the world’ a model and
an ideal.
However, there is a sense in which it may be too late to expect
the Church as institution to act as model. ‘The world’ is already
far ahead, and there are many who think, as does Karl Rahner,
that the Church is already in diaspora, or at least well on its way.
Thus, while total reform ‘at home’ would seem logically to pre¬
cede the reform of the secular milieu, in practice it is not advisable
for individual Christians or groups to wait for this transformation
before directing their efforts toward bringing about desirable
reforms in society. This is not to say that they should neglect
the Church, but that it can be considered as one cultural institu¬
tion among others in need of reform. Moreover, they can be
reasonably certain that in bringing about reform in the wider
milieu, their efforts will ultimately have an effect upon the insti¬
tutional Church.
The people of God as the Church in diaspora have a mission,
then, to bring about in society what the Church as institution has
failed to do within its own doctrine and structures. This will in¬
volve many different tasks and procedures, some requiring highly
specialized training, others not. We shall consider some of these.
Since the most theoretical work is sometimes the most prac¬
tical in its results, it is important to emphasize the work of re¬
search in various branches of learning which contribute to our
understanding of the sexual relation. It is important that special¬
ists in such disciplines as biology, psychology, sociology,
anthropology and philosophy bring the fruits of their labors to
bear upon our understanding of the problem, especially upon the
problem of the effect of environment in producing psychological
differences between the sexes. Without such stimuli from other
sciences, theology will not advance.
Furthermore, those who are in the field of education have
opportunities not only to communicate understanding of the
toward partnership: some modest PROPOSALS 215
Council, Second Vatican, 9f, 2^{, 55, Quod Apostolici Muneris, io8n
118, 123, 125, i28f, 132, 137, Rerum Nov arum, io8n
141, 195, 204 English Ladies, 103
Constitution on the Church, 129, equality, 53, 59f
162, 207 Eve, 22, 62, 76, 78f, 81, 86f, 164,
Constitution on Liturgy, 128 185, 193
Declaration on Christian Education, existentialism, 18, 7 of
121
Decree on Apostolate of Laity, 121 Fall, the i85f, 194
Pastoral Constitution on Church Fathers, the, 85f, 186
in Modern World, ii9f, 13 of, Feminine, Eternal, see Woman,
200, 213 Eternal
post-conciliar Liturgical Commis¬ feminism, 54
sion, i4of Fichter, J., 146
Council of Trent, 103 Freidan, B., 11, 36, 134, 176
councils, lay, 195 Freud, S., 147, 168
Cox, H., 166, i69f, 222 Frotz, Bishop of Cologne, 130
Culpepper, E., 7n
Gage, M. J., 33
Daly, M., i25n Galot, J., i62f
Danielou, J., 145 Gandhi, I., 177
Danniel, E., 31, 154! Garoudy, R., 50
Daughters of Charity, 103 Genesis, 8 if, 86, 92f, 108, 184,
Davis, E. G., 32n 192
de Beauvoir, Simone, 11, 16, i7f, 47, Genet, J., 169
56f, 114, 147, 177, 220 Girl, the, concept of, 170
de Chantal, J., 103 Glenmary order, 138
de Paul, Vincent, 103 God, masculinity of, 37f, i8of
de Sales, Francis, ioif omnipotence, 38, i82f
De Vaux, R., 75 Goffi, T., 142
deaconesses, 89f, 128, 131 Gousset, Cardinal, 107
Deneuville, D., 98n Govaart-Halkes, Dr., 127
Deutsch, 147 Gregory XV, Pope, 104
Devaux, A. A., I53n, 160 Gregory the Great, St., 850
Decter, Midge, 31
Grennan, J., 137!
Dewart, L., i82n
discrimination in employment, 219
Hakim, Melkite, Archbishop of Gali¬
distortions, demonic, 169!
lee, 129
divine plan, i57f, 183
Hallinan, Archbishop of Atlanta, 27,
divorce, 122, 135
Drinan, R. F., S.J., I35n 131
142
Maccoby, E., 17if
Paul, St., 22, 62, 8of, 86, 92f, ioof,
McGinley, P., 167
McKenna, Sister M. L., I36n iosf, 109, 126, 174, 184, 198
McKenzie, J. L., 78, i8in Peter the Lombard, 90
Malula, Archbishop of Leopoldville, Pike, J. A., Episcopal Bishop, 145
130 Pius V, Pope, 103
228 INDEX
MARY DALY
“In this new edition of The Church and the Second Sex,
Mary Daly, postchristian feminist philosopher of 1975,
unearths and criticizes the work of Mary Daly, radical
Catholic theologian of 1968. Only galactic combustion can
result. The feminist philosopher triumphs, and it is a vic¬
tory for revolutionary vision.”—Robin Morgan