25 Manners Every Kid Should Know by Age 9

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The key takeaways are 25 manners every child should learn by age 9, including saying please and thank you, not interrupting, asking permission, and being polite.

Some important manners to teach children include saying please and thank you, not interrupting others, asking permission first before doing something, and keeping negative opinions to yourself.

Some manners children should use when interacting with others include introducing themselves on the phone, saying excuse me when needing to get someone's attention, and not making fun of or calling mean names to others.

25 Manners Every Kid Should Know By Age

 by Parents.com, on Tue May 3, 2011 1:21pm PDT

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Helping your child master these simple rules of etiquette will get him noticed -- for all the right
reasons.
By David Lowry, Ph.D.

Your child's rude 'tude isn't always intentional. Sometimes kids just don't realize it's impolite to
interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe that the lady walking in front of them has a large
behind. And in the hustle and bustle of daily life, busy moms and dads don't always have the
time to focus on etiquette. But if you reinforce these 25 must-do manners, you'll raise a polite,
kind, well-liked child.-

Manner #1
When asking for something, say "Please."

Manner #2

When receiving something, say "Thank you."

Related: Kid-Made Thank You Notes

Manner #3

Do not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency. They
will notice you and respond when they are finished talking.

Manner #4

If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase "excuse me" is the most polite
way for you to enter the conversation.

Manner #5

When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from
many hours of grief later.

Manner #6

The world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between
you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.

Manner #7

Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics unless, of course, it's to compliment
them, which is always welcome.

Related: Raise Polite Kids

Manner #8

When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.

Manner #9

When you have spent time at your friend's house, remember to thank his or her parents for
having you over and for the good time you had.

Manner #10
Knock on closed doors -- and wait to see if there's a response -- before entering.

Manner #11

When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the
person you are calling.

Manner #12

Be appreciative and say "thank you" for any gift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten
thank-you note can have a powerful effect.

Related: Print and Color Cards for Birthdays, Thank-Yous and More!

Manner #13

Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they
find them boring and unpleasant.

Manner #14

Don't call people mean names.

Manner #15

Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up
on someone else is cruel.

Related: Raise a Compassionate Kid

Manner #16

Even if a play or an assembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested.
The performers and presenters are doing their best.

Manner #17

If you bump into somebody, immediately say "Excuse me."

Related: Quiz: What's Your Parenting Style?

Manner #18

Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don't pick your nose in public.

Related: How to Handle Inappropriate Behavior


Manner #19

As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else.

Manner #20

If you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on something, ask if you can help.
If they say "yes," do so -- you may learn something new.

Manner #21

When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile.

Related: Use this Table-Setting Map as a Guide

Manner #22

When someone helps you, say "thank you." That person will likely want to help you again. This
is especially true with teachers!

Manner #23

Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or
watch what adults do.

Related: Mrs. McVeigh Weighs in on Proper Utensil Use and More!

Manner #24

Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary.

Manner #25

Don't reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed.

See more on teaching manners to your toddlers and preschoolers. 

Originally published in the March 2011 issue of Parents magazine.

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