Week 2 - The Giving Tree
Week 2 - The Giving Tree
Week 2 - The Giving Tree
(1930-1999)
BIOGRAPHY
SHEL SILVERSTEINb was born on September
25, 1930 in Chicago, Illinois, and began writing and
drawing at a young age. He became a cartoonist,
playwright, poet, performer, recording artist, and
Grammy-winning, Oscar-nominated songwriter.
Silverstein’s books, which he also illustrated, are characterized by a deft mixing of the sly and the
serious, the macabre, and the just plain silly. His unique imagination and bold brand of humor is
beloved by countless adults and children throughout the world. He died on May 10, 1999.
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THE GIVING TREE
By Shel Silverstein
Once, there
was a tree…
And she loved a little boy.
And every day the boy would come
And he would gather her leaves
And make them into crowns and play the king of the forest.
He would climb up her trunk
And swing from her branches
And eat apples
And they would play hide-and-go-seek.
And when he was tired, he would sleep in her shade.
And the boy loved the tree… very much…
And the tree was happy.
But the boy stayed away for a long time… and the tree was sad.
And then one day the boy came back, and the tree shook with joy, and she said:
–“Come, Boy come and climb up my trunk and swing from my branches and eat apples and play in my
shade and be happy.”
–“I am too busy to climb trees,” said the boy. “I want a house to keep me warm”, he said. “I want a
wife and I want children, and so I need a house. Can you give me a house?”
–“I have no house”, said the tree. “The forest is my house”, said the tree. “But you may cut off my
branches and build a house. Then you will be happy”.
And so the boy cut off her branches and carried them away to build his house.
And the tree was happy.
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-“very much…”
4. Do you think you could really be friends with a tree?
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-“but time went by…”
5. What’s happening to the little boy in the story?
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-“and the boy grew older…”
6. What do you think is happening here? (somebody else is there now- another friend?)
Do you have more friends now that you are getting older?
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7. Is the boy selfish? Why?
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8. What about the tree, is the tree selfish?
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9. Is there a word for someone who keeps on giving without thinking about him/herself or
expecting something in return?
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10. Why do you think the tree is not happy after giving her trunk?
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11. Have you ever given something away and later wished that you didn’t?
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12. Is it easier to give something away if the receiver truly appreciates the gift? Why?
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13. When we give something to someone, do we expect something in return? Why?
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14. When we are given something, do we feel that we owe something to the giver?
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15. Would you give something you really need if someone you love needed it, too?
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16. Why do we give?
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17. Is it right or wrong to keep on giving without getting anything in return?
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18. Are there limits to giving?
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19. Why did the tree love the boy in the beginning?
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20. Why did the tree keep on loving the boy?
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21. Did the boy love the tree? Why?
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22. Who do you love? Why do you love them?
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23. How do you know that you love someone?
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24. Do you treat differently people that you love and the ones that you don’t love?
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25. When you love someone, how do you show him or her that you love them?
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26. What is love?
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27. Can you love someone even if they are not with you?
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28. How could your love be different towards someone who is with you versus someone who is far
away?
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29. Have you ever been angry with someone you love because they were away for a while, or
because they did something you did not like?
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30. Can you be angry with someone and still love them at the same time?
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31. Is the boy happy at the end of the story?
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32. Is the tree happy?
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33. If you were the tree would you be happy? Why?
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34. How do you know when you are happy?
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35. Does it make you happy when others are happy?
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36. Have you ever done something just to make someone happy?
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37. Does doing things to make others happy necessarily make you happy?
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38. What is happiness? (Is it a feeling? Is it a state of mind? Or something else?)
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39. Do you need a reason to be happy (e.g. something good happens), or can you be happy without a
reason?
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40. Can you be happy and sad at the same time?
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41. What can you learn from “ the giving tree”?