Brian Afecto - Daily Journal 1
Brian Afecto - Daily Journal 1
Brian Afecto - Daily Journal 1
There is no point in worrying about an entire different world when we already have so
many problems with the one we currently live in. Especially when we have no control over it.
Death is inevitable, it is going to happen to each and everyone of us no matter what. Why worry
about the afterlife if we cannot do anything in our power to stop it? Why not instead make the
most of our lives on Earth rather than wasting our time stressing about something we cannot
change. People waste too much of their lives worrying about things they cannot control, what
happens after we die is irrelevant. The honest truth is no one knows what heaven is like, or if it
even exists. To be completely honest, it doesn’t matter, even if we did know what heaven was
like, so what? That still does not change the fact that we’re going to die, so why worry about it?
Live in the moment, enjoy your life now because you never know what could happen tomorrow.
"In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, in the expert's mind there are few..."
Shunryu Suzuki
When you do not know much about a subject, you have a fresh mind on the topic and can
still decide what you think. While if you think you already know everything about the topic, you
will already have your mind set on what you think is right and will most likely not let anyone or
any information change your mind. You should always have an open mind about everything
because what you may have believed to be correct may be wrong. If you think you already know
everything about a subject, you are limiting yourself to discovering more information. For
example, if a professional basketball player just thought they were the best and didn’t need to
train anymore, eventually they would become worse or other players would surpass them. Even
the best sports players may acknowledge that they are really good at the sport, but are still
constantly trying to get better. This does not just go for athletes, you should try your best to have
this mindset with everything you do because if you're constantly telling yourself you know
“Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.”
Norman Cousins
The greatest loss in life is not living our life to the fullest. We don’t have that much time
on Earth, so make use of it. Don’t waste your life doing nothing, make something out of
yourself, make the world a better place. You cannot wait around to be inspired by other people,
be the person to inspire others and more importantly, inspire yourself. A waste of a life is worse
than death, because you're never going to get that time back. At least if you die, you can die
knowing you made this planet a better place and you made the most of your time on Earth.
What’s the point in living if you're not going to do anything with your life? All we have is that
small time window between when you're born and when you die, but what matters is what you
do in that time. Don’t wait around telling yourself you’ll do it when you're older, do it now.
Poetry is not music, it is not just words that happen to rhyme and sound cool when you
sing them aloud. Real poetry should reach deep down and bring out your feelings. Good poetry
makes you feel joyful, depressed, upset, and other feelings, but great poetry makes you feel
feelings you didn’t even know you had inside you. Poetry is a way of expressing one's feelings
through writing and in return makes the reader feel a wave of emotions as well. Poetry should
make you understand the poets thoughts and emotions as well as feel those thoughts and
This pandemic truly sucks, because of covid my classmates and I were not able to go on
our overnight graduation trip at the end of grade 8. Not only that, but we also never got to have a
proper goodbye because we were not aware that we wouldn’t be able to see each other anymore
for the rest of grade 8. Additionally, I missed my grade 9 orientation trip and never got to have a
proper grade 9 experience. I usually try my hardest to live everyday to its fullest potential but
that’s quite challenging to do when we are not allowed to have anyone over and everything is
closed.
If you don’t know how to take a loss you will never be able to truly win. Everyone loses,
and that’s okay, what matters is how you are able to bounce back from that loss and use it to get
better. Losses help us get better at what we do so we can win the next time around. If every time
you lost you cried about it and gave up you’ll never get better resulting in you losing again. Even
the best sports players of all time lose, losing helps us because it motivates us to keep training
and get better so we can achieve our goals. If you’re always winning at everything you do you’ll
never see what it feels like to lose so you won’t have any motivation to get better. Also, when
you do eventually lose, you're going to most likely handle it horribly because you were so used
to always getting easy wins without trying. Thus, you should always challenge yourself with
anything and everything you do because sometimes setting yourself up for failure isn’t always so
“I have discovered in life that there are ways of getting almost anywhere you want to go, if
― Langston Hughes
Walt Disney once said, “All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue
them.” If you want something but are telling yourself you cannot do it and do not even try it’s
probably because you do not want it bad enough. I know this for a fact because if you really
wanted something you would do anything and everything in your power to get it and achieve that
goal. For example, if you wanted to be a professional soccer player but every day instead of
training or working out, you just sat on your couch and played video games all day, do you truly
want to become a soccer player? The truth is, no, you don’t. You may like the idea of being a
professional soccer player, but you do not actually want it. This is because if your dream was
truly to become a soccer player you would work your ass off every day to achieve that goal. At
the end of the day, “If you don’t try to make your dreams a reality, that’s all they are.. dreams.”
Friday, November 27, 2020
“If you want to be a writer, you must do two things above all others: read a lot and write a
lot.”
~ Stephen King
The only way you can become better at something is by practicing. Even the best of the
best are constantly practicing what they do and trying their absolute hardest to get better. No
matter how good at something you may think you are you must always aim to get better and
excel. This is because if you don’t put in the work to get better, someone else will. If you're not
training as hard or even harder than everyone else they’ll inevitably surpass you. Even the best
athletes such as LeBron James or Lionel Messi are constantly training with no days off to get
better than they were the day before. No matter how naturally good you may be, always
You cannot have fun in this world if you are always scared to put yourself out there and
try new things. You must never be scared to begin new things and start new chapters of your life.
For if you are too scared to start new things in your life, you will regret it once you reach the
end. For instance, if you always told yourself you were too scared to ride a roller coaster, you
will never let yourself experience the joy and excitement of riding one. Then once you reach the
end of your life you’ll regret never giving yourself that experience. So if you want to live a full
I believe it's our responsibility to show our communities the value of all people, to celebrate
J. Foudy
You should always try your hardest to give everyone a chance because you never know
who they truly are on the inside. If everyone keeps staying away from someone calling them
dangerous, mean, or they steal, eventually that will start to get to them and they’ll embrace all
those characteristics. Eventually you would have created a person who is dangerous, mean, and
“The human race is a strange race.” Humans are a complicated race and are hard to
understand. Not two humans are the same yet none are too different. Although all humans are
similar in some ways, most choose to exclude others and hate on them for how they are on the
outside. Many of them die to the hands of other humans, sometimes for no specific reason. All
are born to love, but many grow to hate. The human race is truly a strange race.
Wednesday, December 2, 2020
Death is natural. Unfortunately, we will all experience it and may see it happen to loved
ones too. Death is a part of life and is just another chapter in our lives, more specifically the last.
acknowledge and discuss it. This is so it will be easier when we witness it happen to others and
even ourselves.
When I had originally wanted the PS4 Pro, my parents and I had made a deal that we
would split the price. My parents took a lot of time out of their day to find one for sale even
though they had better and more important things to do. This is because it was constantly sold
out everywhere we looked. Then, once we finally found one for sale, they told me the two of
them would pay the full price for it. I tried to convince them to go through with the original deal
but they insisted on paying full price. I appreciate not just the fact that they bought the console
for me, but also that they took so much time out of their day when they could have been doing
things they actually enjoy doing. I try everyday to not only repay them for what they did that
day, but also what they both constantly do for me everyday of their lives.
Catholic, we only go to church about two times a year but I do believe in the things in the Bible
and in God. But I do not truly know why I am Catholic. Though even if I do not know why I am
Catholic, I do still think it is very good because it gives people hope and makes us better humans
in general. For instance, the ten commandments are great moral rules and I believe it is amazing
I would give money to my grandmother. Her and my grandfather cannot work anymore
so instead only get a little bit of money from the government. They do not have much and their
house is very old. Although, she still has a big smile on her face everytime I see her. Even
though she does not have much money, she always tries to give so much to us. I am so grateful
for her and everything she does and would be so delighted to help her out with some money.
“A story has no beginning or end: arbitrarily one chooses that moment of experience from
― Graham Greene
You choose how to live your life and how to write your story. Never let anyone tell you
how to live your life, be the author of your own story and live in the moment. All that ever
matters is whatever is happening now, don’t waste your precious time stressing about things in
the future or about things that happened in the past. No one knows what will happen in the
future, and you cannot change what happened in the past so those are irrelevant. The past is just
another part of your story leading you to where you are now, so live now and worry about the
future when you get there. Everyone's life is a story, only you get to choose how yours will go.
“The difference between something good and something great is attention to detail.”
Even the little things count. When you show that you truly care about something and pay
attention to even the smallest details, it makes whatever you are doing extraordinarily better.
This is because it shows that you are passionate about whatever you are doing and that you do
not want it to be good, you want it to be perfect. You should always try your absolute hardest to
have this mentality with anything and everything you do because why be good, when you can be
the best. This is extremely important because if you do not care enough about what you are doing
to make it perfect, no one will. Also, this work ethic inspires others to work just as hard as you
knowing and before you know it you do not want to go anywhere and instead just stay alone
depressed. Sometimes it comes up on you slowly, and other times it can hit you quick and
abruptly. Despite the fact that you can become depressed quickly, sadness takes a lengthy time to
heal. The only way to heal a broken heart is by surrounding yourself with others who care about
you but this can be quite difficult when you are sad because you want to isolate yourself from
everyone. Although it may be challenging, you must fight the pain with love. That is the only
“A great book should leave you with many experiences, and slightly exhausted at the end.
A good book keeps you intrigued the whole story, but a great book makes you feel a
wave of emotions and allows you to understand the characters as well as feel their emotions. A
great book makes you envision the setting but gives you every smallest detail so you envision it
just as the author wants you to. In a great book, every little detail counts, this is why Steinbeck
must be careful how you choose to live your life because once you do it you cannot go back as it
will be in the past. The past is irreversible so rather than worrying about all the mistakes you
have made, you must focus on learning from those mistakes to make better decisions in the
present and future. Rather than worrying about everything in the past, you should instead
acknowledge those mistakes and learn from them. For every mistake in the past, makes a new
"A man is like a novel: until the very last page you don't know how it will end. Otherwise it
There is no point in living if you live everyday the same as the previous one. Live life the
way you want to live, rather than following what everyone else chooses to do. Life is short so
there is no point in doing things you do not want to do. Instead, go out of your comfort zone and
try things you have never done before. If you never try anything new you will never have any
new experiences and will regret it when you die. No one knows when they will die, and to be
honest it does not matter. All that matters is that you do not waste any time and instead do the
things you want to do now, so when you do eventually die, you can die knowing you lived your
“Having a clear mind and a clear space allows you to think and act with purpose.”
The only way to be creative and come up with original ideas is by doing nothing but
thinking. In order to truly think you must disregard yourself from any and every possible
distraction. You need to relax your mind and allow all the creative ideas to flow through your
mind. Several people lie to themselves by saying that music or other distractions helps them
think, but this is far from true. All music does is distract your brain from discovering new ideas
because you will become more focused on the song than thinking.
“As you get yourself back to work remember that the harder you work in this life, the
You can never expect to do well in life if you are not willing to give your best effort in
any and every opportunity you have to do so. What you put into something is what you will get
out of it and this relates to life as well. If you are constantly trying your absolute hardest to be the
best person you can be, you will eventually get the fruit of your labour and all that hard work
will pay off. If you wish to accomplish your goals you must always have a good work ethic and
dedication. With these two factors you can accomplish almost any goal.
This bridge will take you halfway there - the last few steps you will have to take yourself.
You cannot expect everything in life to be handed to you, you must earn some things
yourself. No matter how many people you have helping you along the way, those people can
only take you so far. It is incredible and important to have multiple people in your life that help
you achieve your goals and be the best person you can be. Although, some things you must do on
your own. For instance, you can have people to help you study how to drive such as a driving
instructor, family, or friends. But when it comes to the actual driving test, you must take what
they taught you and pass the test on your own. All those other people cannot help you with
“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a
Too many people waste their lives trying to be someone they are not. They find whatever
is considered popular and copy it in hopes of becoming popular as well or being included. No
matter who you are or how old you are, everyone wants to be included and accepted by the
people around them. No one wants to be alone or excluded. Especially now, due to social media
being so accessible by everyone, many people become brainwashed from the things they see on
the internet leading them to believe that is the way they must act and be.
The most valuable things in life are things you worked hard getting. Even the smallest
things in life feel so incredible to obtain when you worked hard for them. If you just have
everything handed to you in life, you will never appreciate anything making your life miserable.
I believe no matter how wealthy your family is, people should teach their children to work for
their belongings so they can learn to appreciate the small things in life. This is because, if you do
not appreciate the small things, you will never be truly happy.
There is no excuse for failure, you can only blame yourself. If you cannot finish
something you started, you are the only one to blame. The fact that you took the time and had the
courage to begin something shows that you truly wish to finish it. And if you really want to
accomplish something, you will. This is because if you put your mind and hard work into
something, you can do it and even if you cannot, you can ask for assistance. If you are unable to
finish something, there will most likely be at least one person willing to help you accomplish
your goal.
Despite how insignificant you may think they are, the smallest details are what takes
something from good, to great. For instance, if you are writing an essay it is important to perfect
it to the smallest details because sometimes the smallest details are what impresses the reader the
most. An example of this is making sure your essay has a good format and looks neat. You can
do things such as trying your best to avoid cutting a paragraph in half between each page or
having an attention grabbing title. Adding these small details is crucial because they end up
"If you lay down, people will step over you. But if you keep scrambling, if you keep going,
someone will always, always give you a hand. Always. But you gotta keep dancing, you
People recognize and admire others who work hard. But contrary to that, people also
recognize weakness and sometimes in order to feel better about themselves, they will prey on the
weak. If you appear weak to others, they will take advantage of those weaknesses to make
themselves seem stronger. In this world, everyone is always trying to be better than everyone
else by all means, almost as if it is a huge game of predator and prey. We all become so obsessed
with power and becoming recognized and dignified, that we forget to dignify others.
"To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best."
Love is an incredible feeling and can lighten up our lives. If you truly love someone,
despite how stressful it may be, you should always tell them how you feel or you will never
know if your relationship with that person would work. If you never confess your feelings, you
may lose your opportunity to be with them because they may start dating someone else. Even if
the relationship between you two does not work out, at least you will know you tried and you
will still have the great memories of your relationship together. Although if you never try, you
will never know how far your relationship with that person could have gone and will be left in
“Great theatre is about challenging how we think and encouraging us to fantasize about a
Great theatre not only makes us feel several emotions, but also forces us to think about
what the playwright truly meant about some lines as well as makes us envision the world in the
story. Some lines may be interpreted differently depending on who's reading the play. The
playwright does this intentionally to challenge our minds and make us truly think about each and
every word in the play as well as its true meaning. This way, even when we are not reading or
watching the play, we continue to think about the words spoken and what message the
playwright is trying to get across. I believe this way of writing is incredible because you can
learn a lot about yourself from the way you choose to interpret certain words. The playwright not
only forces us to think about the words in the play, but also in return think about ourselves.
If we can never learn to cooperate with the people around us, we will never succeed as a
community. In order to evolve and advance our technology, we must learn to cooperate as well
as combine our individual skills with our peers. If we all refuse to get along and instead work
alone we will never get far with our research, causing us to hit many dead ends. Although this
does not only relate to modern studies and evolving our world, we must also cooperate with
others in several things we do if we wish to succeed. For example, if you are on a sports team but
none of the players are getting along or cooperating, there will be no teamwork and the team is
destined to fail. If the team wishes to win, they must set aside their differences and respect each
other. Only then can you work together as a team and succeed. Whatever you are doing, you
must always respect the people around you even if deep down you do not like them.
Anyone can start something strong, but only the truly skilled ones can finish off with the
same strength. When starting something, many people try to jump in using their full strength
causing them to finish off weak or not finish at all. For instance, if you are in a boxing match and
decide to use up all your energy in the first few rounds, your opponent will dominate you
towards the end of the match if they preserved their energy. Whatever you are doing, you must
always stay calm and never get too eager. Instead, always keep your composure and analyze the
situation first, before acting irrationally. When you act without thinking you are bound to make a
mistake and fail. This goes for anything and everything you do such as a test or even a job
interview. Whatever you do, think before acting and never get too eager. This way you can start
off strong, whilst still ensuring that you finish just as great.
Wednesday, January 20th, 2021
"Keep going, because you didn't come this far to only come this far."
If you truly want to do something and you trained or practiced for it, never quit. If you
spent time training hard for something, you owe it to yourself to at least finish it. If you cannot
finish, all that hard work and training will be for nothing. Even if you fail, you must keep
training and try again until you succeed. If you want something, never stop training until you
achieve that goal. If you are not willing to put in the work for anything, you will never succeed
"Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies."
Hope is one of the strongest things in our lives, it keeps us fighting and allows us to
surpass our limits. If you never have hope, you can never succeed and you are setting yourself up
to fail. No one else can have hope in you if you do not have hope in yourself, if you always
believe you will fail, the people around you will begin to feel the same way about you, and
possibly themselves as well. Hope and determination are contagious, if you constantly have hope
and show determination, you will start to inspire the people around you to do the same. You will
begin to not only inspire yourself, but the people around you as well. Contrary to that, if you
always give up whenever you are faced with a challenge, the people around you may lose their
hope and determination due to your negativity. You should always have hope and show
determination because you will not only help yourself, but you may also help others you do not
even know.
If you are constantly worrying about how much time is passing by, or how much time
you have left, you will never focus on making the time you have count. How much time you
have left in this world is irrelevant, what truly matters is how you spend that time. There is an
island in the middle of nowhere called Saba. The island has a huge volcano which the people
who inhabit the island know can erupt at any minute killing every last one of them. Although,
instead of living in constant fear, it is said that the people have become experts at having fun and
live every day like it is their last. They do not care about insignificant things such as petty drama
or hold grudges on one another. Instead, they all simply live in peace and have fun with their
lives while still having jobs to make money. I believe if everyone in the world lived with the
same mentality as the people of Saba, we could all live happier lives and not stress about things
“Let this Monday be kind to you: be happy with what you have and accept the things
death. Instead, we should all try to live our lives trying to fix the things we can change about
ourselves such as our health and all around enjoy life's treasures instead of living in constant
stress. Enjoy today, and cherish every moment of your life instead of worrying about tomorrow.
No one knows what will happen in the future so it does not matter, all that matters is what is
happening right now. Countless people live their lives in stress, constantly worrying about what
will happen in the future or mistakes they made in the past. No one has the ability to change the
If you don't plant the seeds of the result you want in life, in your mind, weeds will grow
automatically. What are you planting in your mind this Tuesday - results or weeds?
If you constantly think negative thoughts, calling yourself dumb or stupid and never
believe in yourself, you will begin to embrace those words and believe they are true. Contrary to
that, if you constantly believe in yourself and always have faith you will succeed, you will feel
better about yourself and have more confidence. Never let anyone else’s words get to you,
whether they are good or bad. If you constantly let insults get to you emotionally, you will never
have any self confidence and you will believe those insults are true. Also, if you always let
complements get to you emotionally as well, you may become too confident to the point where
you are arrogant and believe you are the best at everything which is not true. Never let something
as simple as words get in your way of being the best you, you can be. Instead, acknowledge
those words mentally, and never take them to the heart emotionally.
Wednesday, January 27th, 2021.
"Each morning is the open door to a new world – new vistas, new aims, new plans, new
things…Wednesday morning is no less." So, what are you going to do today, with this
Wednesday?
Each day has the opportunity and potential to be an incredible or memorable experience.
There is no point in waiting to do the things you love when you can do them today. Stop lying to
yourself, saying you will be productive tomorrow, or on the weekend. Those are all lies because
if you really wanted to be productive you would do it the second you had the opportunity to
rather than telling yourself you will do it later. By saying those phrases all you are doing is both
lying to yourself, as well as the people around you. Stop lying to yourself and do things you love
“Thursday …Nothing more pleasurable than opening our eyes and realizing that every
day, God gives us a chance to try again. Of not looking back. To love, smile and live!”
Despite what negative things may have happened in the days leading up to now, each and
every day is an opportunity to start new and redeem ourselves. Treat each and every day as an
opportunity to be the best you can possibly be, and to make up for the wrongs you may have
done in the past. Do not worry about what happened in the past, all you need to focus on is the
present. Use the past as knowledge to learn from, and use that knowledge to do better in the
present making yourself a better person every day. Do not stress over small mistakes, instead
learn from them and move on. If everyone could always have this mentality we would all