Sonnet 116
Sonnet 116
Sonnet 116
Most likely
written in 1590s, during a craze for sonnets in English literature, it was not published until 1609.
Although Shakespeare's sonnets were not popular during his lifetime, "Sonnet 116" has gone
on to become one of the most universally beloved and celebrated poems in the English
language. In magnificent, moving terms, the poem describes true love as an enduring,
unbending commitment between people: a bond so powerful that only death can reshape it.
Though the poem is moving and romantic, it risks at times falling into hyperbole or cliché: some
readers may doubt the plausibility—or the sincerity—of its depiction of love.
Literary Context
"Sonnet 116" was most likely written in the 1590s, during a craze for sonnets. Though poets like
Thomas Wyatt began to write sonnets in English in the 1530s and 1540s, the form did not
become widely popular until the 1590s, after the posthumous publication of Sir Philip Sidney's
Astrophil to Stella.
This means that the sonnet arrived in England relatively late: by the time Wyatt began writing
sonnets in the early sixteenth century, the form had been popular in Italy and France for several
hundred years. The form thus came to English with baggage, in the forms of many tropes and
clichés associated with it. For instance, sonnets were usually organized in long sequences—
chains of many related poems which, in a certain light, would tell a story (usually a story of
unrequited love). Almost all Renaissance sonnet sequences are narrated by a male speaker who
is passionately in love with an unattainable woman—so much so that he seems on the verge of
madness, out of control. Poets also often used nautical metaphors to express this state of semi-
madness: describing themselves as doomed ships, whose captains were negligent or drunk or
forgetful.
This context is evident in Shakespeare's poem, though he has worked to reverse them. Instead
of describing a desperate, unrequited love, Shakespeare's speaker describes a union that binds
together two willing participants in a long-term, stable union. And instead of an out-of-control
ship, the speaker presents his readers in lines 5-8 images of safe, responsible navigation.
"Sonnet 116" is thus a poem that's highly self-conscious about its own literary context: it relies
on the reader's knowledge of that context for some of its effect. The poem is all the more
moving and beautiful because it refuses a tradition of desperate, unrequited love to instead
depict what stable happiness might look like.
Summary
I don't want to accept that anything can come between two people who truly love each other.
Love isn't true love if it changes when things get tough, or if it lets itself be diminished. No,
instead love is a steady guide, like a lighthouse that even during a storm is never shaken. It is
the star that guides ships as they wander at sea: its value is too great to be measured, but it is
still used by sailors to help them navigate. Love is not fooled by time, though pink lips and
cheeks are diminished in time. Love doesn't change as hours or weeks go by, but continues on,
unchanged, until death itself. If I'm wrong—and if my own behavior serves as evidence that I'm
wrong—then I've never written a poem and no one has ever loved.
THEMES
Love and Change
Over the course of Sonnet 116, the speaker makes a number of passionate claims about what
love is—and what it isn’t. For the speaker (traditionally assumed to be Shakespeare himself,
and thus a man), true love doesn't change over time: instead, it goes on with the same intensity
forever. The speaker establishes this argument from the poem’s opening lines, boldly declaring
that love isn't really love at all if it bends or sways in response to roadblocks. Instead, he argues
that love weathers all storms. It's like a star that sailors use to navigate, providing an unmoving
reference point they can use to plot their course across the globe. Love, then, is something that
perseveres through "impediments," obstacles, and difficulties without losing any of its passion
or commitment.
As the poem progresses, the speaker considers more kinds of change and extends his initial
argument. In lines 9-10, he adds that true love doesn't falter even as beauty fades—
represented in the poem by the image of youthful, rosy cheeks losing their vitality. Because
love isn't primarily concerned with the body, it's not affected by aging. In lines 11-12, the
speaker generalizes his argument even further by claiming that love doesn't change under any
circumstances. It goes on, he claims, “to the edge of doom.” In other words, only when a lover
dies does love finally change or end.
The speaker is so confident in his argument that he’s willing to issue a bet: if he’s wrong, then
love itself is impossible, and “no man [has] ever loved.” In making this bet, he puts up his own
behavior as evidence. Here, the speaker acknowledges that he isn't simply an observer of love,
but himself a lover. His own relationships might be measured against the standard he's
advanced here—and he offers confident assurance that his love does live up to this standard.
This means that, beneath the sonnet's generalizations about what love is and isn’t, the poem is
itself a declaration of love.
At this point it's important to note that this sonnet is part of a sequence of love poems,
traditionally believed to be addressed to a young man. Their relationship, as depicted in the
Sonnets as a whole, is tumultuous, full of infidelity and gusts of passion. There is considerable
disagreement among scholars as to whether this context should affect the interpretation of
Sonnet 116. If it doesn’t, the poem is a powerful statement about love, addressed to all readers
in all times. But if it does, the poem comes across instead as an attempt to repair a damaged
relationship, a personal plea directed to a particular person; the speaker is trying to prove to
the young man that he does love him in spite of everything, and that his love won't change.
For a generous reader, this will be a romantic statement of affection. For a more skeptical
reader, it raises some questions. The speaker hasn't just described love as something
unchanging; the poem paints a picture of love as a sort of eternal ideal far from the messy
reality of real people's lives. It's a star—unattainable and inhuman. In a way, this image of love
ceases to be something that humans can actually build and instead becomes something they
can only admire from a distance.
The speaker has engaged in hyperbole to defend his position, invoking all lovers in all times in
line 14. This, along with the poem’s idealism, might make the speaker feel a bit unreliable;
some readers may wonder how realistic the speaker’s account of love really is, and find it
grandiose instead of intimate. The poem’s claims about love can't necessarily be taken on face
value, then: they should be evaluated for their sincerity and plausibility—and in these respects,
they may be found wanting.
Real Beauty vs. Clichéd Beauty
To express the depth of their feelings, poets frequently employ hyperbolic terms to describe
the objects of their affections. Traditionally, sonnets transform women into the most glorious
creatures to walk the earth, whereas patrons become the noblest and bravest men the world
has ever known. Shakespeare makes fun of the convention by contrasting an idealized woman
with a real woman. In Sonnet 130, Shakespeare directly engages—and skewers—clichéd
concepts of beauty. The speaker explains that his lover, the dark lady, has wires for hair, bad
breath, dull cleavage, a heavy step, and pale lips. He concludes by saying that he loves her all
the more precisely because he loves her and not some idealized, false version. Real love, the
sonnet implies, begins when we accept our lovers for what they are as well as what they are
not. Other sonnets explain that because anyone can use artful means to make himself or
herself more attractive, no one is really beautiful anymore. Thus, since anyone can become
beautiful, calling someone beautiful is no longer much of a compliment.