ISE II. Task1. Play Makes Children Very Happy
ISE II. Task1. Play Makes Children Very Happy
ISE II. Task1. Play Makes Children Very Happy
Play Makes
Children Very Happy
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Play makes children very happy. When asked, they say they are happier when playing
with friends than in any other situation. Yet the amount of time children play together
without parents or teachers watching them or telling them what to do (what the
experts call ‘free play’) is getting less and less. This trend has started to worry a
number of senior psychologists and child experts. They argue that without adequate
time for free play children cannot develop into confident and fully mature adults,
which will eventually have a negative effect on society as a whole.
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Part of the problem lies with parents. They recognise that their children play by
themselves less frequently than they did, but admit that they restrict the amount of
outdoor play because they worry about their safety. But another part of the problem is
that we now want school to start at a very early age. Preschools and nursery schools
have introduced more academic activities and many schools have even reduced break
times. This doesn’t mean we are against the idea of play, but it does show that we
don’t value play enough as part of a child’s development.
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Play is important because it gives children a chance to find and develop their own
interests without being instructed by adults. It is here that children first learn how to
make decisions, solve problems, use self-control, and follow rules. Children who don’t
go through this stage are likely to grow up feeling that they are not in control of their
own lives and are much more likely to feel anxious as a result.
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As well as making decisions, children also learn how to deal with emotions such as
anger or fear when they are playing. Things like role playing and climbing trees can be
a little frightening but it is the children themselves who decide how far they want to go
with each activity. People who do not have the opportunity to experience and cope
with such feelings will be less able to manage when they are faced with emotionally
challenging situations in adult life.
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Finally, play is a natural means of making friends through learning to cooperate with
other children and treating them fairly. Children must think about the needs and
wishes of those they play with as well as their own. If they don’t, they will not be
allowed to stay in the group (largely because their behaviour will cause the game to
fail). Those who miss this early form of social interaction are more likely to feel socially
isolated in later life