Summary: One Size Doesn't Fit All - Gary McIntosh
Summary: One Size Doesn't Fit All - Gary McIntosh
Summary: One Size Doesn't Fit All - Gary McIntosh
6 implications:
- Church size more important than denominational label in planning mission and ministry
- When a pastor changes church, size changes requires most adjustment
- Training seminars are more productive if they bring together people based on church size
- Cooperating among churches of same size from different denominations is easier than
churches of different sizes in same denomination
- A change in size causes feelings of insecurity, unrest and frustration among members
- Leaders find it more useful to learn from churches of similar sizes regardless of
denomination
Full table
Medium church are transition sizes, hard to remain at that size. Tend towards small again if it
doesn’t adjust.
Multiple-cell (large)
- Leadership still have key families instead of transition to governing board (pple from
different groups)
- New programs and ministries are effective in bringing newcomers into the church
4. Who sets the direction?
Effective leadership power made up of 4 factors: Control (ability to do it), Position (responsibility),
Authority (power to decide), Influence (power to sway)
If you work in small church, you need to work with the key families; for medium church, the
committees who have the power! They’re not your enemies.
Church often attracts pastor that fits its perspective. This helps pastor to decide whether the church
is suitable for him. Changes in church size leads to mismatches of pastor unless he adjusts his style to
match the church dynamics.
- Love the Lord. How are you showing God you love him in your life and ministry?
- Grow the people. What process do you have in place to disciple the people in your church?
- Dream a big dream. What passion do you have for the future development of your church?
- Lead by example. How are you modeling God’s truth to your family and ministry team?
- Take initiative. Are you taking steps of faith to accomplish God’s vision for your church?
- Take risks. Are you willing to struggle and fail sometimes before you see signs of growth?
- Trust in the Lord. Are you planting and watering, trusting in God to bring in the harvest?
Small church – decisions by major families not pastor, concerns more inward, decisions made
informally. Pastor must influence by creating trusting relationships with key people and help them
discover the needs. Can’t just tell them what to do.
Medium church – decisions by board first before congregation. Pastor meets with board members
instead of key families.
S M L
Five guiding principles of effective ministry: (Questions to ask when making decisions)
Does it provide the staff, leadership and resources needed to focus on outreach? Usually one full-
time pastoral staff for every 150 pple.
3. Open doors
Does it create opportunities for new people to enter into the life of the congregation? Sufficient kind
of programs for people?
4. Incorporation
Does it create ways to incorporate new people into the social circles of the membership?
Newcomers don’t stay long if they feel like outsiders. Help them feel wanted and sense of belonging.
5. Finance
Does it adequately finance local outreach activities? Spend 5-10% of budget for local outreach.
The leadership team in a small church is like a duet, medium church like a quartet, large church like
an ensemble.
Large church – instruction and assignment must be formal in writing. Pastor learns to lead and
delegate well to staff.
Church should add a second staff person before it hits 200 to reach 300, then another around 300 to
reach 400. Must add new staff in anticipation of future growth. The hardest increase is from 3 staff
to 4, better to increase 3 to 5 directly!
Declining church priorities: Facilities, programs, staff
You don’t push people, you pull them. In early years of ministry in a new church, keep moving but
don’t make any sudden jerks. Only implement large changes when God opens the door with
teachable moments:
Church growth limit based on the church’s community (responsiveness of area). Potential declines
with church age. Every church can grow a little even in low growth areas.
Small churches – attraction model. Healthy relationships, show love and care. Usually grow from
invites. Start by praising your people for showing love to those inside, ask them if God wants them to
share their love with others, discuss how they can show love to others.
Medium church – program model. Some new programs become a star ministry. Based on Pareto
Principle, focus on ministries that produce most results, attended by most people.
Large church – proclamation model. Thru preaching, advertising programs, word of mouth due to
large number of people there.
Small-church image can lead to low morale. Happens when leaders set unreachable goals, don’t
celebrate victories, lose the trust of congregation, manipulate church-wide decisions, don’t fulfill
promises.
Small churches think of the bigger is better mentality so they believe they can’t evangelise. Not true,
as small churches can be effective through better relationships built. They must have a sense of
mission, urgency and an open fellowship.
Small churches suffer from cutback syndrome and have lesser programs. Problem is that it stagnate
or decline. This can lead too downward momentum and church become survival mode.
We cannot cause growth, we can only create a climate in which growth can take place.
Small church
- Renew a sense of purpose: focus on the work of Jesus Christ and that he came to seek and
save the lost.
- Begin new ministries: Most fellowships are ingrown and saturated. Only add one new
ministry each year to main open to new persons. Develop new ministries around Events,
Experience and Education. If we don’t meet people’s felt needs, we will never meet their
real needs. You may need to add a second worship service as it provides options, expends
space, increases church’s faith, enlarge ministry and reach new people.
- Cultivate evangelism: The pastor needs to be active in outreach and take advantage of key
situations when people are most receptive to Jesus – death, illness, need for counseling,
child ready for Sunday School, wedding. Hard to do church-wide evangelism training class so
1) to train one or two interested key people, 2) train in small peer group, 3) help
congregation develop evangelism consciousness by preaching and teaching, 4) retool some
ministries to be outward focus, 5) challenge members to make a prayer list of unchurched
friends of family and pray for one year 6) establish a group solely for outreach, 7) develop
2/3 outreach events a year where members can invite pple they praying for.
- Celebrate victories: Focus on positives to improve self esteem. Report good results of
ministries, focus on strengths and praise God for each victory.
- Start new groups and classes: Usually churches have a membership circle and a fellowship
circle. Newcomer welcomed as member but not the fellowship one until they spent a few
years there. Most leave the church. So, the church must create new groups for new growth.
Instead of forcing new people into an old group, create a new group for them. Slowly add
new groups for those who are not participating in one.
- Involve new people: Get newcomers involved in serving within first 6 months of their first
visit.
Medium church
- Develop a distinct identity: Build on key ministry to be unique. Find your uniqueness by
finding which ministry is best known by people in the community or newcomers. Once you
know, intentionally highlight it inside and outside church.
- Add more staff: Add 2nd staff before you reach 200 pple.
- Use facilities multiple times: you’ll run out of space quickly but don’t go out to purchase
more land! This will be very expensive. When 50% of budget goes to facility payment etc,
you become servant to the building. Use your building more times to reach new people,
increase income but not expenses, add new units, involve more people. Also, keeps people
together in the same church building.
- Multiple worship services: Don’t build new building until your current building has 3 or 4
worship services. You can add services on nights not used by church.
- Write long-range plans: Learn to think big.
- Improve quality of ministry: Should be excellent in facilities, worship, children’s ministries,
leadership and staff.
Large church
- Renew the vision: Communicate vision at least once a month from pulpit as well as five
other ways so everyone knows it
- Design an assimilation plan: What is the income-outgo numbers of visitors?
o Pastor responsible for organizing, deploying and maintaining the assimilation
process
o A team is put in place to work under this pastor. Regularly monitors the process.
o A clearly defined process for becoming involved in the life of the church is
established. An orientation class, involved in a care group, how they can serve.
o Uniting of new people is celebrated regularly
o Continuous evaluation of process
- Streamline procedures: Use temporary taskforce instead of committee to speed up
decisions.
- Offer needs-based events
- Adjust leadership roles: Allow chosen leaders to lead rather than congregation, governing
board changes from decision making to policy setting board, senior pastor exercise directive
leadership.
- Increase number of small groups: To get bigger, you have to get smaller.
Add: Add a few new pple, focus on relationships. Help church to accept and love newcomers. Preach
and teach on hospitality. Organise a plan for all members invited each other to their homes for
dinner to get to know each other. Cultivate practice of hospitality to newcomers also.
Divide: Added second worship service. 1) Convince leaders to try it out for 6 months, 2) establish a
common fellowship time between two services, 3) privately ask some long term members to attend
the different services.
Insights:
- Some people say they want the church to grow but what they really mean is they do not
want the church to die. Some want the church to grow without changing!
- Problem start when leaders forget what the church is all about. QN: What was our church’s
original dream, has that been changed or reached, what is God’s dream for us today?
- Church leaders usually see problems but they don’t realize how severe the problems are.
Pastor must check if the problem are temporary or permanent to deal with it.
- Growing churches are full of paradoxes. Win some, lose some (some can’t adjust to growth).
Tune in, tune out (not need to respond to every complaint). Tear down, build up. Good dyas,
bad days. (focus on longterm plans).
- Any size church must have Home Base ministries before it can add a lot of newer creative
ministries. 6 Home Base ministries are: Children, Youth, Christian education, Worship,
Administration, Finance.
- Give people a wide latitude in developing ministry ideas. If members have idea, find 5
people to work with them, develop a plan how it will fulfill church’s mission statement, and
present it to the board.
- Always have a plan for the future.
- Keep praying: Assign people to pray for each block or area. Pray for salvation
- Face the facts
- Communicate your vision.
- Expose your leaders to one size doesn’t fit all.
- Maintain care. Find ways to care for new people and existing ones.
- Wait patiently. Success if not how many games you win, but how hard you practice after you
lose.