Raising Resilient Kids: Key Ways To Support Your Child's Mental Health During The Coronavirus Pandemic

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HOLDING HEARTS THERAPEUTIC SERVICES CIC

MARCH 2020 - VOL 1

RAISING RESILIENT KIDS


key ways to support your child's mental
health during the Coronavirus pandemic

Let's be honest; This is scary. Our brains are


detecting a very real threat and so of course
we are responding emotionally (and
physically). Isolation brings a whole
rollercoaster of emotions too.

These are normal responses.


These feelings are normal!
It's important to normalise these feelings for
your child. Be honest about what is
happening using child appropriate language,
this might feel a little unnatural, surely to
SNEAK PEEK OF WHAT'S protect our children we should shield them
INSIDE: from the dark? but this isn't the case.
Children are very perceptive, they see and
Emotional Meltdown? they hear. If they sense something is hidden
this makes it far more scary, they will come
5 steps to "calm" to their own conclusions (sometimes even
every parent should scarier) and they will lose trust.

know!
Whats important next is finding ways to
manage those overwhelming feelings so we
can teach our children how to cope with
theirs.

©2020 - Holding Hearts CIC


How to explain the
Coronavirus
Be mindful of your child's age and
understanding when talking about the corona
virus. Try to keep it honest but simple.

Example 1: "The virus is a bit like the flu, some


people will get very poorly but most people will
be ok. Our job is to stay at home so we can help
the people that might get very poorly. It's
important we do our job so the Doctors at
hospital don't get too busy"

Example 2: "Its nasty germs that can make us


poorly. Those germs like to live on things that
poorly people have touched. We can protect
ourselves by washing our hands with lots of
soap and warm water. The soap has
superpowers to get rid of the germs."

How might your child respond?


Depending on age/stage of development your
child might respond to the information about
corona virus in many ways such as; becoming
upset, tearful, sad. They may appear not to
react at all or they may have lots of questions
.
All of these reactions are totally normal,
sometimes children need time to process
information given to them. Acknowledge their
feelings though and answer their questions as
best you can, its ok if you aren't sure how to
answer and need more time, explain this and
say you will get back to them soon or if its
appropriate find the answer together.

© 2020 - Holding Hearts CIC


Managing Emotions
What does it mean?
This is simply a way of describing the things we
do when we are overwhelmed with feelings to
keep ourselves safe or reduce our stress levels.
When Children observe their grownups doing
these things they learn to do it too!

Emotional Meltdown?
5 steps to "calm" every
parent should know!
Pause
Take a deep breath, Your child is struggling.
Consider how they are feeling? Wonder why?
What might they be telling you? All of their
behaviour is simply a way of communicating
their needs to you, be open to what they are
showing you. 

Connect & Empathise


Be gentle and kind, acknowledge that your
child is having a really hard time and explain
that you are there. Saying things such as “I
hear you...” “I see this is really hard for you.”
“I’m with you...” “Let it out... I’m here.” Model
nice deep breathing during this time to help
your child to calm.

Label the Emotion 


What is your child feeling? Do they know?
Support them to understand what they are
feeling and what is happening inside their
body.

© 2020 - Holding Hearts CIC


Give Time & Space 
Give them time to ride that emotional wave
and to come through the other side when they
are ready. This is far more beneficial than a
“quick fix” because these feelings will only
build up and erupt again.

Be Playful & Reflective 


When your child is no longer feeling
overwhelmed be creative together and talk
about what happened... how do they feel now?
What could they do next time? Think of other
ideas together about what they need.

Be Playful
play relieves stress
Please do not put pressure on yourselves to
recreate your child's classroom in your
home. You do not need to become their
teacher.
YOU as their grownup are enough, the
relationship you have, and time you spend
TOGETHER is all your child needs right now.
Your love, connection and playfulness are
what your child will remember and is what
will most greatly impact their wellbeing and
mental health.

So Play! Play! Play! Make time everyday for


free play, follow your child's lead they know
what they need, join them in their world of
play.

© 2020 - Holding Hearts CIC


Playful Ideas that will
reduce stress in children
Develop a daily routine with children
Exercise together - (Stretching,
walking/running, Jumping/Skipping,
Hop scotch, treasure hunts.)
Play music, Sing and Dance together.
Check in with your child, "what’s on
your mind today? What do you need
today?"
Connect with family and friends via
telephone, face time, letters
Express feelings creatively through
drawing and painting.
Relaxation & Deep breathing.
Focus on what you can control.
Watch and notice things in nature.
(Animals, Flowers, Trees, Rocks etc) Taking
the time to be still and observe helps your
mind feel calm.

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© 2020 - Holding Hearts CIC

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