Masochism and Male Subjectivity PDF
Masochism and Male Subjectivity PDF
Masochism and Male Subjectivity PDF
34 seems to lie in the need for overcoming the resistance of the sexual object
by means other than the process of wooing. Thus sadism would correspond
to an aggressive component of the sexual instinct which has become in-
dependent and exaggerated and, by displacement, has usurped the leading
position. (23-24)
38 observes that whereas the sadism of the super-ego “becomes for the
most part glaringly conscious,” the masochism of the ego “remains as
a rule concealed from the subject and has to be inferred from his
behavior.”30 With the feminine masochist, on the other hand, the
beating phantasy assumes a shape which is available to consciousness,
albeit not necessarily to rational scrutiny.
Let us look rather more closely at these two categories of masochism,
and at the forms they assume in both conscious and unconscious life.
the super-ego with which Freud conflates it, without at the same time 39
denying the close connections between those two agencies. I will con-
sequently be using the term “super-ego” in two ways in this essay-
as a portmanteau category, encompassing all of the functions resulting
from the phantasmatization and assimilation of the parents, and as a
more restrictive category, designating what results from symbolic in-
trojection. I will reserve the category of the ego-ideal for imaginary
introjection.
Because the subject usually goes through a negative as well as a
positive Oedipus complex, he or she enters into two sets of identifi-
cations at the end of the complex: one with the imago of the mother,
and the other with the imago of the father.32One of these identifications
is generally much stronger, and so tends to eclipse the other. If all goes
according to cultural plan, the stronger identification conforms to the
positive Oedipus complex. Nevertheless, both have a part to play in
the “precipitate” which they form within the ego, a precipitate which
Freud describes as the “ego-ideal or super-ego,” but which is more
usefully designated by the first of those appellations.
The ego-ideal, I would maintain, represents one area or function of
the super-ego but not its entirety, that “face” of each parent which is
loved rather than feared. It articulates the ideal identity to which the
ego aspires, and by which it constantly measures itself, but in relation
to which it is always found wanting. It is the mirror in which the
subject would like to see itself reflected, the repository of everything
it admires.
The introjection of these parental images desexualizes them, with
the positive Oedipus complex cancelling out the object-choice of the
negative complex, and the negative Oedipus complex cancelling out
the object-choice of the positive complex. Desire for the father, in other
words, gives way to identification with him, and desire for the mother
to identification with her:
The father-identification will preserve the object-relation to the mother
which belonged to the positive complex and will at the same time replace
the object-relation to the father which belonged to the inverted complex:
and the same will be true, mutatis mutandis, of the mother identifi~ation.~~
This desexualization has grave consequences for the ego, since it results
in an instinctual defusion; when object-libido changes to narcissistic
libido (that is, when love changes to identification), the aggression
which was earlier commingled with that libido also loses its purchase,
and turns around upon the subject’s own self. No longer in the pro-
tective custody of eros, that aggression falls under the jurisdiction of
the super-ego, which directs it against the ego. But I have not yet
relationship of the male ego to the super-ego would seem to grow out 41
of the romance between the father and son, or to be more precise, out
of the romance between the father in his symbolic guise and the son
whose subordination is a substitute for love- that the “exemplary”
male subject can be produced only through the negative Oedipus com-
plex.
The situation is even more explosive than I have so far shown it to
be. There is a fundamental impossibility about the position in which
the male subject is held, an impossibility which has to do with the
self-cancelling structure of the Oedipal imperative. The only mecha-
nism by which the son can overcome his desire for the father is to
transform object-libido into narcissistic-libido, and in so doing to at-
tempt to become the (symbolic) father. However, this metamorphosis
is precisely what the super-ego prohibits by decreeing: “You may not
be like [your father] . . . you may not do all that he does; some things
are his prerogative.” The paternal law thus promotes the very thing
that its severity is calculated to prevent, a contradiction which must
function as a constant inducement to reconstitute the negative Oedipus
complex.
It is hardly surprising, in view of all this, that the relationship of
the ego to the super-ego should be susceptible to sexualization; eros
is in fact never far away. But what form does this “sexuality” take?
Freud leaves us in no doubt on this particular point. In Civilization
and its Discontents he describes a situation where the ego comes to
take pleasure in the pain inflicted upon it by the super-ego-where
fear of punishment gives way to the wish for it, and where cruelty and
discipline come to stand for love:
The sense of guilt, the harshness of the super-ego is . . . the same thing as
the severity of the conscience. It is the perception which the ego has of
being watched over in this way, the assessment of the tension between its
own striving and the demands of the super-ego. The fear of this critical
agency (a fear which is at the bottom of the whole relationship), the need
for punishment, is an instinctual manifestation on the part of the ego, which
has become masochistic under the influence of a sadistic super-ego; it is a
portion . . . of the instinct toward internal destruction present in the ego,
employed by forming an erotic attachment to the super-ego. (83)
48 that is, to having fabricated that sequence in the phantasy upon which
he bases his entire interpretation:
This second phase is the most important and the most momentous of
all. But we may say of it in a certain sense that it has never had a real
existence. It is never remembered, it has never succeeded in becoming
conscious. It is a construction of analysis, but it is no less of a necessity
on that account. (179-80)
twice, but both times he pulls back from what he is on the verge of 49
discovering. At the end of section IV he observes that
when [girls] turn away from their incestuous love for their father, with its
genital significance, they easily abandon their feminine role. They spur their
“masculinity complex” . . . into activity, and from that point forward only
want to be boys. For that reason the whipping boys who represent them
are boys too. (186)
Here the contradiction between having a “masculinity complex” and
representing oneself as a group of “whipping boys” goes unnoted by
Freud. In a subsequent passage, however, he points out that the girl’s
identification with the male position does not imply an identification
with activity (“[the girl] turns herself in phantasy into a man, without
herself becoming active in the masculine way”), but he draws a sur-
prising conclusion from this new perception. He claims, that is, that
the insertion of “whipping boys” into the scenario marks the extinction
of the girl’s sexuality rather than its reconfiguration (“[she] escapes
from the erotic demands of her life altogether”). He reiterates that
assertion a moment later with the even more puzzling remark that in
the third stage of the beating phantasy the female subject “is no longer
anything but a spectator of the event which takes the place of a sexual
act” (196).
One hardly knows where to begin responding to these two state-
ments. Since when is voyeurism a-sexual? (When it involves girls rather
than boys, women rather than men?) And since when does being an
onlooker in a phantasy preclude a simultaneous identification with the
object of the gaze? Does Freud mean to suggest that the girl “is no
longer anything but a spectator” at the manifest or at the latent level
of her phantasy? He can only mean the manifest level, but that is not
entirely clear from the passage itself, which I will now quote in its
entirety:
.. . the girl escapes from the demands of the erotic side of her life altogether.
She turns herself in phantasy into a man, without herself becoming active
in a masculine way, and is no longer anything but a spectator of the event
which takes the place of a sexual act.
Does the masculine position to which Freud refers involve the whipping
boys, as the first two clauses of the last sentence seem to indicate, or
the spectator, as the final clause seems to suggest? Freud moves in a
very confusing way here between manifest and latent content, retreat-
ing from the latter to the former as the sentence progresses, and in so
doing he deflects attention away from the burning question of what
it might mean, apart from simple disguise, for a female subject to
represent herself in phantasy as a group of passive boys.
54 precise moment that the suspense becomes unbearable, and the victim
with whom he identifies finally surrenders himself or is subjected to
death. Like the other feminine masochists discussed by Reik, this pa-
tient seems to increase the psychic tension until there is a veritable
physiological explosion. Representation fails immediately prior to this
explosion, a point to which I will return in a moment. First I want to
note that this dramatic escalation of anxiety and apprehension violates
Freud’s notion of the pleasure principle fully as much as does the actual
implementation of sexual or religious torture, suggesting once again
the shortcomings of any theoretical account of pleasure which stresses
constancy over rupture, and coherence over “shattering.” (It is no
wonder that the patients whom Reik actually managed to “cure”
complained to him afterwards that life had lost all its color and intensity
[378].) The elaborate preparations which make up the early stages of
the Moloch phantasy and the seemingly interminable delay in reaching
a conclusion produce an erotic narrative which conforms closely to
Freud’s definition of perversion; here as there, libidinal interest extends
far beyond “the regions of the body which are designated for sexual
union,” and the “path” leading toward “the final sexual aim” is tra-
versed far from quickly. Moreover, although ejaculation does occur,
there is no representation of it within the phantasy, which always ends
immediately prior to that event. (This is regularly the case with the
masochistic fantasies Reik describes, as well as the masochistic prac-
tices Krafft-Ebing enumerates; there seems to be no place within either
script for the ostensible goal of all foreplay.) The male genitals do
figure prominently here, but not at the grand finale; that part of the
phantasy which is given over to their inspection and excision occurs
around the middle, and constitutes at most a “false climax.” Thus the
Moloch narrative does more than linger over “the intermediate rela-
tions to the sexual object”; it actually relegates castration to the status
of fore-play.
In pondering the relevance of Freud’s definition of perversion to the
Moloch phantasy, or for that matter to any of the other sexual fantasies
included in Masochism in Sex and Society, one cannot help but notice
that the individual producing the phantasy is his “own” sexual object-
that the body over which he lingers belongs to himself (or his imaginary
twin). Feminine masochism would thus seem to evince the same quality
of auto-eroticism-the same reflexivity and close economy-as moral
masochism. Indeed, the masochistic pervert might almost be said to
beat himself. Even when another person is installed in the punitive
position, as is the case in the novels of Sacher-Masoch, or many of
the cases cited by Krafft-Ebing, the masochist establishes the conditions
56 this question above, when I suggested that the most important and
pervasive of all the pads assumed by the feminine masochist-that of
c6woman77 -can come to assume the reality of a ‘(subjectivecondition.”
60 painful experience for most women thus becomes the vehicle for an
extreme and highly irregular pleasure -one inimical, moreover, to the
medical establishment.
Although the woman in Case 86 manifests not the slightest interest
in transcending the role of patient, she completely redefines that role
by initiating and controlling all exchanges with the doctors, and by
subordinating medicine’s discursive ends to her own libidinal economy.
She also foregrounds to a culturally intolerable degree the erotic basis
of the doctor/patient relationship. Not surprisingly, the medical as-
sistants attempt to contain the disruption and to normalize the situation
by offering either to sleep with the woman, or to pay her for her visits
(i.e., either to substitute heterosexual coitus for perversion, or to clas-
sify her as a prostitute, and so subordinate her to male desire). How-
ever, she refuses both propositions, preferring the speculum to the
penis, and pleasure to profit ( 180-1 8 1).
Case 84 involves a series of beating fantasies which have their in-
ception in an actual whipping situation, and so seems to conform more
closely to the Freudian paradigm than does the previous one. However,
the earliest of these phantasies feature female rather than male dis-
ciplinarians, specifying in certain situations that the beating be per-
formed by a “severe schoolmistress,” and in others by the “brutal,
uneducated female warders” of a mental institution. The first of these
figures obviously derives from classroom experience, but the evolution
of the second is rather more complex and interesting. Miss X, as Krafft-
Ebing calls her, comes across the inspiration for it in a story about
the abuse of mental patients, but in weaving her phantasy she changes
the figure of the abuser from the male director of the asylum to a
cluster of female subordinates. This alteration, which involves gender,
class and number, is motivated at the manifest level by the phantasizing
subject’s desire for a more complete degradation (as we will see in a
moment, Miss X has some very definite views about sexual difference);
to be beaten by a group of “rough” and “ignorant” working class
women is-for her-to sink infinitely lower in the general scheme of
things than to be beaten by an educated middle class man. Otherwise
the identity of the person administering the punishment seems a matter
of complete indifference to her, at least consciously; indeed, at times
she pictures only a disembodied hand hitting her. Krafft-Ebing also
indicates that merely to hear the words “rattan cane” or ‘‘to whip”
is enough to arouse Miss X. Here the closed economy of masochism
doesn’t even seem spacious enough to admit of a second person, a
constriction which is also implied in a way by the title of the essay
“A Child Is Being Beaten.” The punishment performs itself, as it were,
independently of any human agency. (This has radical implications,
62 upon woman in general as low, far below man; but I am otherwise quite
proud and indomitable, whence it arises that I think as a man (who is by
nature proud and superior). This renders my humiliation before the man
I love the more intense. I have also fancied myself to be his female slave;
but this does not suffice, for after all every woman can be the slave of her
husband. (179)
This passage points to the basic “dilemma” of female masochism-
to the fact that woman’s position within the symbolic order is already
so subordinate that further degradation changes nothing. It also hints
at what Freud would later suggest, that insofar as female masochism
reaches pathological proportions, becomes a perversion, it necessarily
includes a “masculinity complex.” However, like the girls in “A Child
Is Being Beaten,” Miss X’s “masculinity complex” entails the wish to
be passive and masochistic, rather than the aspiration to be active and
sadistic. It implies the desire for castration or divestiture, a desire which
can only be realized at the site of male subjectivity, because it is there
that the paternal legacy is stored. As in “A Child Is Being Beaten,’’
the female masochist here makes herself into a homosexual man, and
thereby gains access to what Freud would call “femininity”-a con-
dition which, as we have seen, has more to do with male than with
female masochism. In so doing, she sidesteps not only “normalcy,”
but classifiable deviancy.
Because the male subject himself enters into the condition of femi-
ninity only through an identification with the mother -by giving pref-
erence to the maternal over the paternal ego-ideal- this imaginary
network ultimately works to exclude the father. While it is true that
the latter figure is left holding the whip, it is also the case that no one
wants to be in his boots any longer. The male masochist prefers the
masquerade of womanliness to the parade of virility, and he becomes
what he displays himself as being. And although he seems to subor-
dinate himself to the law of the father, that is only because he knows
how to transform punishment into pleasure, and severity into bliss.
He deploys the diversionary tactics of demonstration, suspense and
impersonation against the phallic “truth,” or “right,’7substituting per-
version for the pike-version of exemplary male subjectivity.
Although I have stressed the heterocosmic tendencies of “feminine”
masochism, I do not mean to erect it as the model for a radically
reconstituted male subjectivity. As I have already remarked more than
once, masochism in all of its guises is as much a product of the existing
symbolic order as a reaction against it. This essay is, moreover, less
concerned with articulating new forms of male subjectivity than with
complicating our understanding of the forms which it presently takes.
Male subjectivity is far more heterogeneous and divided than our
NOTES
selves, to find a way out into consciousness and action, and they are 65
constantly drawing in new material”: 137.
30. Freud, “The Economic Principle of Masochism” 169.
31. See N e w Introductory Lectures on Psycho-Analysis, The Standard Edi-
tion, Vol. XXII: 66.
32. Freud, The Ego and the Id 20-24.
33. Freud, The Ego and the Id 24.
34. Freud, “The Economic Problem of Masochism” 167.
35. Freud, The Ego and the Id 24. For an extended discussion of the female
version of the negative Oedipus complex, and its relation to feminism,
see Chapters 4 and 5 of The Acoustic Mirror: The Female Voice in Psy-
choanalysis and Cinema (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1988).
36. “Instincts and their Vicissitudes,” The Standard Edition, Vol. XIV: 128.
37. Reik 358. There are striking similarities between the degradations Reik
here associates with Christian masochism, and those Krafft-Ebbing links
with the sexual perversion of masochism. See, for instance, Cases 80, 81,
82 and 83 in Psychopathia Sexualis.
38. Freud, Beyond the Pleasure Principle, trans. James Strachey (New York:
Norton, 1961) 3.
39. Bersani, The Freudian Body 38-39. This extremely interesting and pro-
vocative book is rendered more than a little problematic by the insistence
with which it traces masochism back to an instinctual level of human life,
and by the continuity it posits between that dimension and culture. Bersani
also conflates sexuality with the instincts in a disquieting way. However,
I am in fundamental agreement with his notion that in extreme forms
masochism can be inimical to the stability of a “healthy” ego, and have
throughout this essay appropriated the word- “shattering” -with which
he designates the effect of the former upon the latter.
40. Freud, The Ego and the Id 44.
41. “A Child Is Being Beaten” 184-85. Later in the essay it becomes clear
that Freud constructs phase 2 of the girl’s beating fantasy by inverting
phase 3 of the boy’s fantasy, a discursive action that points to the asym-
metrical symmetry of the two sequences.
42. For a different account of “A Child Is Being Beaten” in general, and phase
3 of the girl’s fantasy in particular see David Rodowick, “The Difficulty
of Difference,” Wide Angle vol. 15, no. 1 (1982):4-15.
43. See Life and Death in Psychoanalysis 85-126.
44. For a discussion of the primal scene and its implications for male sub-
jectivity, see Kaja Silverman, “Too Earlyfloo Late: Subjectivity and the
Primal Scene in Henry James,” Novel vol. 21, nos. 2-3 (1988).