101 QUESTIONS

TO ASK ABOUT YOUR LIFE

LUNA & SOL

WWW.LONERWOLF.COM
 TABLE OF CONTENTS

Love - 3
Self-Love - 4
Mindfulness - 5
Solitude -
TO ASK ABOUT YOUR LIFE 6
Happiness - 7
Self-Esteem - 8
Pain - 9
Death - 10
Hate - 11
Self-Fulfillment - 12
Wisdom - 13
Afterword - 14
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Introduction

Answers. We all search for them, we all want them,

and we all need them. But ask yourself, how often do
you sit down to ask questions about your life?

Are T O giving
you ASK ABO
yourself U T time
enough Y Oto
Ufind
R LtheI F E
knowledge and solutions you need to live a life from
the heart and soul? This compilation of 101 questions
will, at the very least, give you a new direction to look
in, a variety of trails to follow, and multiple thoughts
to pursue. At the very most, these questions might
help you to connect to the very core of the person you
are, bringing about profound and long-lasting
changes in your life. 

An idea is a powerful thing. Whole countries, races,

religions, and lives are ruled by them, exalted by
them, and destroyed by them. To explore the ideas we
carry around with us every day is one of the greatest
gifts we can give ourselves in life. For this reason,
asking the question “why?” is so important for us to
do.

Many say that a picture is worth a thousand

If that is the case, questions are worth even more!
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Our hope is that you will find the questions in this

eBook practical, thought- provoking, and relevant to
the different needs and areas in your life. 

May your journey of self-inquiry be joyful and

revealing.

Aletheia Luna & Mateo Sol

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Love
“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
— Stephen Chbosky

1. Am I in love with the "idea" of love?

TO ASK ABOUT YOUR LIFE
2. Does my love have conditions, or is it
unconditional?
3. Is my affection derived from neediness, or is it
given as a gift?
4. Am I wholeheartedly giving all the love I have?
5. Do I completely accept the people I love, good and
bad?
6. Do I “love” someone in order to escape from a
problem in my life?
7. How can I cultivate love in everything I do each
day?
8. Am I in love with illusions and fantasies, or truths
and realities?
9. Am I motivated by fear, or love, in my life?
10. Am I loving in a healthy way?
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Self-Love
“We rarely see ourselves as perfect just the way we
are. We often base our worth on who loves or doesn't
love us” — Heatherash Amara

11. What
T O does
A Sself-love
K ABO mean
U Tto Y me?
OUR LIFE
12. How can I benefit from giving myself love?
13. In what ways can other people in my life benefit
from my self-love?
14. Do I treat myself the way I treat other people?
15. Do I look for ways to nurture myself daily?
16. Am I self-depreciating and/or self- destructive?
17. Am I friends with myself?
18. Do I always put my needs and desires last? If so,
how does this affect me?
19. What 3 self-loving deeds can I do for myself
today?
20. Have I forgiven myself of my flaws, failures, and
limitations?
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Mindfulness
"Few of us ever live in the present. We are forever
anticipating what is to come or remembering what has
gone.” —Louis L’Amour

21. What
T O isAhappening
S K A Bright
O U now?
T YOUR LIFE
22. How aware of my thoughts, emotions, and
surroundings am I during the day?
23. Do I live mostly in the past, present, or future?
24. What can I do each day to stimulate mindfulness?
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Solitude
“If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad
company.” —Jean-Paul Sartre

25. Do
T OI spend
ASK enough
A B time
O UbyT myself?
YOUR LIFE
26. How could I make more “alone time” for myself?
Do I need to negotiate, simplify, or prioritise anything
in my life to bring this about?
27. How can solitude help me find peace and
contentment?
28. Am I afraid of being alone? If so, what prevents me
from facing myself?
29. How could I use solitude to cultivate inner
strength and positive self- esteem?
30. Is solitude the same as loneliness to me? Why?
31. What 3 issues can I reflect on in solitude?
32. How can I use my solitude to become more
mindful and appreciative of life?
33. How much solitude do I require in life, and how
often?
34. Do I feel guilty about spending time by myself? If
so, why?
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Happiness
“No medicine cures what happiness cannot.”
—Gabriel Garcia Marquez 

35. How
T O happy
A S Kdo AI feel
BO onU
aTdaily
YO basis?
UR LIFE
36. How often do my desires and expectations limit
my ability to be happy?
37. What 3 things make me the happiest, and how can
I include these things in my life more?
38. Am I happy with myself? Why or why not?
39. Do I regularly make other people happy? In what
ways? If not, why?
40. Do I pursue happiness, or do I live in joy and
appreciation of the present moment?
41. Do I easily become happy, or does it take a lot to
"make" me happy?
42. Am I happy for the small, momentary things in my
life?
43. If I’m hard to please, how can I open myself to
more thankfulness and gratitude?
44. Have I found my own personal meaning that
brings me joy and fulfilment?
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Self-Esteem
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire
universe, deserve your love and affection.” —
Siddhartha Gautama

45.Do
TO I place
A SaKlot A
of B
value
O UinTwhat
YO I do?
UR LIFE
46. Do I find my self-worth from myself, or do I base it
on the opinions of others?
47.Do I take care of my body, as well as my mental
and emotional needs?
48. Am I satisfied with myself? Or do I always feel the
need to be better?
49. When I make a mistake, do I simply accept it, or
do I judge and victimise myself?
50. How well do I deal with criticism?
51. Am I confident “walking to the beat of my own
drum,” or do I need other people’s validation?
52. Do I like to make fun of myself in order to amuse
other people?
53. Do I tend to enlarge the positive qualities I believe
I have, and flaunt them to gain other people’s
approval?
54. Do I value my intelligence, or do I rely on other
people to make my decisions for me?
55. Am I overly critical of other people?
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Pain
“Pain is only what you allow it to be.” —C. Clare 

56. How
T O doAI Sperceive
K A Bpain?
OUT YOUR LIFE
57. How much faith do I have in my ability to cope
with pain?
58. How could I approach my pain in a healthy, self-
loving way?
59. Is my pain an unconscious reaction to something
happening in my life?
60. Am I treating my body with respect? If not, why?
How can I change this?
61. Am I overloading myself with other people’s
burdens?
62. Do I need more solitude or more social contact to
help me deal with my pain?
63. Do I accept pain as a natural part of life?
64. Am I creating tension for myself by fighting my
pain?
65. What lessons has pain taught me that I can pass
on to benefit others?
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Death
“The fear of death follows the fear of life. A man who
lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” —Mark
Twain

66. Do
T OI fear
A Sdeath?
K AWhy?BOUT YOUR LIFE
67. Am I prepared to face death?
68. Does my perception of death impact the way I live
my life?
69. In what ways can I embrace the impermanence of
life?
70. Is death necessary to me? Would I take life for
granted if I lived forever?
71. When I think of dying, what words do I use? What
do they say about my perception of death?
72. In what ways can I use the inevitability of death to
enrich my life?
73. What truths do I hold to that will help me face
death?
74. What has society conditioned me to believe about
death?
75. If I died tomorrow, would I feel as though I had
lived a fulfilling life?
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Hate
“Hatred is the coward’s revenge for being
intimidated.” – George Bernard Shaw

76. What
T O isAthe
SK biggest
A Bthing
O Uthat
T Yprovokes
O U R me L Ito
FE
anger? Why?
77. Do I passively hate, or aggressively hate? Why?
78. Do I hate more easily than love? Why?
79. How does my hatred impact the quality of my
life?
80. Does hatred serve me any useful purpose? Why,
why not?
81. What is the root of my hatred (e.g.
disappointment, jealousy, grief, etc.)?
82. Am I more hateful towards myself, others, or both
equally? Why?
83. Do I blame my problems and failures on others?
84. Do I derive my daily energy from hatred, fear, or
love?
85. How can I learn to accept my hatred and develop
self-forgiveness?
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Self-Fulfillment
“Just as light brightens darkness, discovering inner
fulfilment can eliminate any disorder or discomfort.”
—D. Chopra

86. What
T O waysASK do IAexpress
B O Umyself
T YO creatively?
UR LIFE
87. Am I satisfied with my accomplishments each
day? Why? Why not?
88. What 3 things are the most important to me? How
can I fulfil them?
89. How can I develop more motivation, inspiration,
and passion in life?
90. How can I change my daily routine in order to be
responsible for my self- fulfilment?
91. Does my life have enough meaningful direction
and purpose?
92. Is finding self-fulfilment secondary to other things
in my life right now?
93. Can I experience fulfilment solely by myself, or
do I require others?
94. Is my idea of fulfilment idealistic and unrealistic,
or truly attainable?
95. Can I find my self-fulfilment right now? If not,
am I looking in the wrong place for happiness?
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Wisdom
“It’s better to know some of the questions than all of
the answers.” —Anonymous

96. Do
T OI learn
A Sfrom,
K AandBO embrace,
U T Ymy OU mistakes?
R LIFE
97. Do I listen more than speak?
98. Do I let my ego get in the way of how I see, listen
to, and value other people?
99. Where does the root of my wisdom come from? 
100. Do I ask “why?” enough in order to find truth?
101. Is questioning myself, other people, and the
world a big part of my life? Why, why not?
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Afterword

Life is not only a physical evolution of our external

bodies and environments, but also an inner evolution
of our hearts, minds, and souls. For this reason, we
hope that you have found the 101 questions in this
T Oconducive
eBook A S K toAgreater
B O Uinner
T Yknowledge,
OUR LIFE
understanding, and growth. The greatest journeys
often start off with a simple “why?”

May you continue using self-inquiry to deepen your

connection with the truth of who You are. 

With love,

Luna & Sol

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