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The key takeaways are that body language conveys a large amount of communication beyond just words, it is important in both personal and professional interactions, and it can be influenced by emotions, situations, culture and other factors.

Some examples of body language discussed include handshakes, facial expressions like smiling, gestures with the hands, arms, and legs.

The document discusses how factors like emotions, the situation, age, whether gestures are consciously or subconsciously performed, and cultural influences all impact how body language works and is interpreted.

Body Language

A Study on Human Behaviour

We’ll talk about…


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What, Why and How Body Gestures

Situations
1.What, Why and How

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations What?

• What is BODY LANGUAGE?


• Examples: OK. Good. Drink. Eat.

• Depends on
Situations: Scuba Diving
Culture: OK=Zero=Money
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Why?
• Why is it IMPORTANT?
1960.Darwin. Eckhart. Julius. Pease

• Personal: Social Interaction, Party, Flirt


• Professional: Interviews, Meetings, Business

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Why?
Body Language Vs. Words

Words
7%

Voice Tone
38%

Body Language
55%

According to Albert Mehrabian, in his


Psychology Today article
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations How?

• How does it WORK?


Emotions + Situation + Age

• Appearance communicates how we feel


and how we want to be viewed

• First impression made in 90” or less

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations How?
• Conciously Vs Subconciously

• Inborn-Instinctive Vs Cultural

• Women Vs Men
2.Body Gestures

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Body Gestures

THUMB RULES

1. Isolated Gestures Vs Clusters


2. Congruence Words vs Bodylanguage
3. Read Clusters in Context
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Body Gestures

• Body parts:
Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Hands Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Directions and Commands


• Handshakes
• Other Gestures

• Transmit Dominance
Submission
Equality


What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Directions Hands
• Situations Face

and Commands Arms


Legs
Feet

Open

Autoritary

Agressive

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Handshake Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Dominace

Submission

Equality
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Handshake Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Dead Fish Finger Tip Grab

Squeezer The Glove

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Handshake Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Wrist Hold Elbow Grasp

Upper Arm Shoulder


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Other Gestures Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

holding back a negative attitude

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Other Gestures Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Confident or ‘know-it-all’ attitude


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Face Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Smile: Eyes + Mouth


• Influences other’s attitude

• Transmit Non Threatness


Bonding
Positive Feelings

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Mouth Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Telling lies: Changes with Age


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Hand to Face Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

I wont say it I don’t believe it

It’s not true

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Hand to Face Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

I’m not sure I’m bored

I’m thinking about it


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Hand to Face Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

I dont think so It’s interesting

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Eyes Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Basic to catch lyers


• Read Attitudes & Thoughts

Look away= Lie

Flirting

Critical Attitude
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Eyes Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Memory Access:

Future Past

Visual

Audio

Talking to Oneself
Recalling Feelings

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Arms Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

• Is crossed arms an Inborn gesture?

• Transmit Negative Attitude


Defensiveness
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Arms Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Standard Partial

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Arms Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Self Hold Arrogant


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Arms Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

I’m Ready Let’s End

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Legs Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet
Read in Context
! Social Behaviour Men Vs Women

Attention Stand Confident


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Legs Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet
Read in Context
! Social Behaviour Men Vs Women

Pointing Interest No Comments

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Legs Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet
Read in Context
! Social Behaviour Men Vs Women

Shyness Femenin
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Feet Hands
Face
Arms
Legs
Feet

Holding back Showing interest

3.Situations
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Situations
• Kinesic code cover aspects of how
we stand or sit in different situations

• Proxemics : Distance

• Mirroring creates Rapport

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Proxemics Proxemics
Mirroring

• Space between us and others


• Communicates type of relationship
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Mirroring Proxemics
Mirroring

• Each person copies the other’s

Breathing
Gestures
Posture…

• Means: I also agree

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Situations

• Interview

• Business briefing/meeting

• Social gathering
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Interview Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• Firm handshake when requested


• Confident warm smile
• Good eye contact

• Let interviewer examine you

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Interview Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• Open hands postures

• Avoid tapping or crossed arms

• Do not hurry any movement


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Interview Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• Slower nodding

• Don’t overdo eye contact

• Tilting the head slightly



What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

• The roles we play in Conferences

• Best communicating position at a table

• Power plays


What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active

B: Passive

C: Interviewer



What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active
B1: Corner
B2: Co-operative
B3: Competitive
B4: Independent


What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active
B1: Corner
B2: Co-operative
B3: Competitive
B4: Independent

Best position for selling ( A Buyer)



What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active
B1: Corner
B2: Co-operative
B3: Competitive
B4: Independent

Best position for teamwork




What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active
B1: Corner
B2: Co-operative
B3: Competitive
B4: Independent

Worst position for negotiating



What, Why and How
Body Gestures
Business Interview
• Situations

Meeting
Business Meeting
Social

A: Active
B1: Corner
B2: Co-operative
B3: Competitive
B4: Independent

Worst position for interaction


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Social Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• When being around people

• Introducing oneself to others

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Standing Interview
Business Meeting
Social

Join Us! Time to Leave!


• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Standing Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Standing Interview
Business Meeting
Social
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Standing Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Seating Interview
Business Meeting
Social
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Seating Interview
Business Meeting
Social

• What, Why and How




Body Gestures
Situations Seating Interview
Business Meeting
Social
• What, Why and How


Body Gestures
Situations Seating Interview
Business Meeting
Social

Conclusion

• Body Language is

Interesting and Funny


Helpful and Useful

• Kept hidden if unknown


Bibliography
• Definitive Book Of Body Language (Allan & Barbara Pease)
• Book Of Body Language (Allan Pease)
• Masters of Body Language (Dr. Gabriel and Nili Raam)
• Body Language In The Workplace (Julius Fast)
• Body Language (Julius Fast)
• Body Language Secrets (R Don Steele)
• Body Language (Sheldon Press)
• The Nonverbal Dictionary Of Gestures (David B. Givens)
• Reading body language (Ross Jeffries)
• …

Questions…

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