Atomic Habits
Atomic Habits
Atomic Habits
Atomic Habits
The Power of Incremental change
“You do not rise to the level of your goals.
You fall to the level of your systems.”
Create awareness
Developing Awareness
Habits Scorecard
1. List all your habits
wake up, turn off alarm, check my phone, go to bathroom, brush teeth, get
dressed etc.
2. Then rate: Is this an effective (+), not effective (-), or neutral habit (=)?
Just observe, no need for judgement, just notice
Is this a good habit?
Rate a particular habit by asking:
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Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be?
Does this habit cast a vote for or against my desired identity?
With enough practice, your brain will pick up on the cues that predict
certain outcomes without consciously thinking about it.
Cue! response
craving Reward!
Pick a particular habit that is not serving you, then break down:
- What are the cues that trigger the habit?
- What does the craving feel, sound, or look like in my body and mind?
- How do I react to that craving?
- What is my reward to that behavior?
Ch 7: The Secret to Self-Control
- List several activities that you enjoy, find rewarding, and are
constructive (i.e. do not include habits you are trying to change)
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One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a
culture where
(1) your desired behavior is the normal behavior and
(2) you already have something in common with the group.
What group or people do you know that fit this description?
Ch 12: The Law of Least Effort
A habit contract can be used to add a social cost to any behavior. It makes the costs
of violating your promises public and painful.
A. Write down a goal you want to achieve and break down the habits that will be
required to achieve it.
B. Then write the punishment you will incur if you don't do that habit.
C. Find an accountability partner and signing both your names on the paper.
D. Place paper somewhere you can see it every day.
Ch13: How to Stop Procrastinating by Using
the Two-Minute Rule
Many habits occur at decisive moment and
either send you in the direction of a
productive day or an unproductive one.
The more you ritualize the beginning of a process, the more likely it becomes
that you can slip into the state of deep focus that is required to do great things.
ACTION
Planning
TIPS:
1. Don’t break the chain. Try to keep your habit streak alive.
2. Never miss twice. If you miss one day, try to get back on track as quickly as possible.
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Pointing-and-calling
Say out loud the action that you are thinking of taking and what the outcome will
be.
i.e."I'm about to eat this cookie, but I don't need it. Eating it will cause me to gain
weight and hurt my health."
Ch10: How to Find and Fix The Cause of Your
Bad Habits
At a deep level, you simply want to:
What is your brain trying to
1. Reduce uncertainty and relieve anxiety achieve by creating your
2. Win social acceptance and approval current 'bad' craving/cue?
3. Achieve status.