Question
Question
Question
a) Traumatized
b) unprepared
c) excited
a) in Montreal
b) with her sisters
c) in summer
a) cold
b) warm
c) homesick
a) Europe
b) south America
c) Asia
a) hard in ways
b) worth it
c) what she imagined
Jeremy: So Abidemi, you were born in Nigeria, but you moved to Canada
and did most of your schooling in Canada.
Jeremy: Can you tell me a little bit about what the transition was like coming
from Nigeria to Canada and doing a Canadian education system?
Abidemi: Sure. For me, it was an interesting experience. Both great and at
the same time—hmm, I don’t want to say traumatic, but very different in
terms of lifestyle. Since I was very young, I’d loved traveling. I wanted to
travel. So when my family decided to make the move to Canada, I was really
excited. But I have to say, I wasn’t really prepared. I had no idea where is
Canada, America, England—they’re all the same to me at that age.
So when we moved and my dad had initially made the move. He went ahead
of us. He got a job. He found a place for us to live. And then, I arrived with
my mom and my other sisters. There were five girls and we arrived at the
airport. And my first memory is looking out, mid-December in Montreal—we
arrived at Montreal airport—, looking out, and seeing this white thing
covering the ground and thinking, “What is that? Why is it so white?” And I
remember saying to my dad as he drove up to drive us home, “Let’s play in
that. I want to play in that. What is that?” So that was my first memory of
Canada of the snow.
And it was fun. It was great arriving in December but at the same time, it
was very cold. Personally, I’m not somebody that likes the cold too much,
but having the warmth of my family in the midst of that cold made it worth it.
It was awesome.
And then at school, making the transition was a little harder. At that time, the
school we went to, there were not a lot of minorities. So, I think some of the
teachers and some of the students weren’t sure how to get accustomed to
us, and we weren’t sure what to expect either. But everyone tried their best
and we flourished. And I went on to high school and then to university. And
one of the things was having my teachers—like we were talking about before,
recognized the potential in me and my sisters and really encouraging us, and
being with my classmates and making friends and having fun with them .
And during that time, it was the late ‘90s, and there were a lot of transitions
going on in other parts of the world. So people from different countries, like I
remember we had a lot of people from Bosnia because of the war coming to
my high school, and from other parts of the world, from Asia, so it was a
really multicultural school—high school that I went to. So learning about
other cultures through my friends, too, made it really worth it.
So I’m certainly glad that my family made the move. It’s opened up amazing
opportunities for me as well. And being able to come now to Japan and
teach English, that was because of that. So yeah, although it was hard in
ways that I hadn’t imagined, but it was so worth it. And I’be grown and I’be
had so many awesome experiences that yeah, I’m really thankful for it.