When a man begins to fall in love with you, he’ll notice why the songs he listens to suddenly have a

much deeper meaning.

He’ll constantly wonder how your day is going, who you’re with, or where you are.

He cant help but talk about the future. he shows some interest in your interest. He may not share the
same love for every hobby or passion that you vae, but he love you, and because of that he;s not only
willing to learn about your interests, he want to. He never cared about ____ before he met you but
that’s because he was never inlove.

He worries about you when you need to be worried about.

He doesn’t make you feel unwanted or left-out, because the way he includes you in his life confirms that
he wants you in it. He shares every part of his life that matter because he wants you to be a part of it,
because he wants you to stay a part of it, forever.

He’ll be there to remind you that you should never give up on life. Hell be there to remind you that life
goes on and you should keep trying.

Fall in love with someone

Fall in love with someone who doesn't give you more reasons to be insecure. Someone who lifts you up
when you're down . Fall in love with someone who isn't afraid to cry. Who isn't afraid to show you the
realness of life. Fall in love with someone who accepts your flaws. Someone who accepts your
imperfections. Fall in love with someone who can deal with your mood, attitude and your tantrums. Fall
in love with someone who shares his views about the world. Someone who has a heart for humanity.
Fall in love with someone whom you can have fight with, whom you can cuss, whom you can piss, but
can still love you the same.

He’s In Love With You

He sends you a message almost every morning.

When the first thought he has in the morning is you, that’s when you know that he’s in love.

Love is a form of obsession — it can be very healthy and incredibly rewarding. When you’ve infiltrated
his psyche to the point that he wakes up thinking of you, that’s when you know you’ve got him. Of
course, not all guys are open about the way they feel — some are even doing their best to resist the
urge to contact you and wish you a good morning.

But when you’re in love, you have only so much self-control. Even the strongest-willed man will break a
few times a week and show you that you’re his weakness.

He checks up on you randomly just to see how you’re doing.

People — both men and women — are egocentric beings. Women do have a tendency to be more giving
and caring, but generally speaking, we’re our own favorite people.
Until, that is, we fall in love.

Once you fall in love, you begin to care just as much about this other person as you do yourself. Men can
be especially funny when it comes to checking up their girlfriends … some will try and play it off as if
they don’t care as much as they really do (we can be silly like that), but if he’s hitting you up multiple
times a week, for seemingly no reason at all, that’s when you know he’s hooked.

He doesn’t mind going out of his way to make your life easier.

You know how a woman will often complain about her husband being lazy and not wanting to help out?
Well, she’s only complaining because, once upon a time, that same man went out of his way to make
her life easier. He used to inconvenience himself just to help her out. He would pick her up from out of
his way when she needed a ride. He went to the store and picked up whatever she needed without her
having to beg or argue with him. He didn’t mind being worse off as long as she was better off.

If that’s your boyfriend, then chances are he loves you. How do you keep him from turning into a lazy
husband, you ask? Well, let’s leave that for another article.

He lights up when he sees you.

Love is happiness. Love is joy. Love is a mind filled with great memories and thoughts of a wonderful
future together. You can’t possibly have all that on your mind and not smile.

If he grins from ear to ear — if his eyes light up at the sight of you — he’s in love with you. If he loves
you, you’ll receive just about all of his attention.

He asks you about your day, and then he actually listens.

I remember being in love and caring so much about my ex’s day that I even wanted to know what she
ate (to make sure she was staying healthy). That’s love.

When your man cares about you so much that he wants to know what’s going on in your life — in the
finest of details — wants to know what you did, what you saw, how you succeeded and failed, the
adventures that you went on, he loves you. He wants to know about your day because he wants to be a
part of it in some way or another — even though he wasn’t there by your side to actually experience it.

He asks you for your opinion.

And this isn’t just so that you feel like you’re giving your two cents. He wants to know your thoughts on
the matter because he values your opinion. He values the way that you see the world and wants to
make sure that his life aligns with yours as much as possible.

When a man loves you, he wants your input on his life because — maybe without even knowing it — he
is trying to merge his with yours. And what better way than to start seeing the world through your eyes?
He gives you the better pillow.

He gives you the side of the bed you like to sleep on, even though it’s the same side he likes to sleep on.
He gives you the bigger half of the sandwich, the last bite of cake, the movie theater seat closer to the
center. He gives you the better half because he believes that you are his better half.

As kids, just about all of us were taught to share. But this isn’t just sharing; this is giving. To him, giving
you more is just the same as if he were taking more himself. It’s better, even, because it makes him even
happier.

He protects you. Or, at the very least, he tries.

He walks on the outside of the sidewalk, because if a car were to swerve, he would get hit instead of
you. He feeds you. He checks up on you. He is always there when you’re feeling down or under the
weather.

When a man cares for you better than he cares for himself, he loves you. He may not be a fighter, but
seeing you in danger flips a switch. He turns from a teddy bear to a grizzly in zero seconds flat.

There’s You, And There’s Me, But This Is What Makes Us

I guess I’ll call it luck, because sometimes it feels more like disbelief. Sometimes I can’t believe that I
met someone like you, that I’m lucky enough to have someone like you in my life, and even though
sometimes I can’t believe it, there will never be a day when I’m not grateful that you’re here.

Because I’ll always feel lucky to fall asleep next to you. To feel your hand cover mine and your kiss on
my forehead like an unspoken, ‘I love you,’ that makes me feel like I’m exactly where I’m supposed to
be. I’ll always feel lucky to close my eyes without that terrible feeling that you’ll be gone in the morning
with no goodbye. And I’ll always feel lucky that I can drift into my dreams knowing that you’ll stay.

I’ll always feel lucky waking up next to you. To start my morning seeing your eyes meet mine, and
seeing your smile directly after. I’ll always feel lucky to have my days begin with laughs that smell like
morning breath and look like sleepy, tired eyes. And I’ll always feel lucky that the idea of getting out of
bed feels a lot less exhausting because it’s another day of my life that I get to spend with you.

Because every day spent with you is a day I’ll always feel lucky to have. For every wonderful hello when
you walk through the door and call me that stupidly sweet nickname you always do. And for every eye
roll that tries to hide the smile I have after you say it. For every night spent cleaning the kitchen after a
messy home-cooked meal that made our clothes and couch cushions smell like curry. For every hour of
every episode we’ve binge watched of that show you’ve already seen but are watching again just for
me, and every time I’ve relentlessly tried to get you to tell me what happens next because I can’t wait
five more seconds to find out for myself.

For every day spent out adventuring in the city where our love first grew. For every weekend retreat to
that special place where our phones don’t get service and we’re disconnected from the rest of the
world as if it were made up of only you and me (and the dog). For every new thing I’ve showed you and
every new thing you’ve showed me. For the very different yet equally interesting worlds we’ve both
opened up for one another and for the life we’ve made together traveling between them, existing in
both, growing in both, adapting and changing in all the best ways in both of these worlds, yours and
mine, and making them ours.

These are the little moments that make up the grand scheme of who we are, you and me together.
These are the little moments that make us, us. Because before us, there was you and there was me,
each in our own little lives never knowing the other even existed. And then there was that day when I
met you, the day when we met each other. And that will be a day I’ll never forget. But on that day when
the weather was warm and your hand shook mine and our eyes met for the very first time, recognizing
immediate attraction before acknowledging it, on that day we never knew there would be an ‘us.’
Because how could we?

How could I have known that from that day on you’d continue to surprise me? To make me laugh in
ways I didn’t know I could, to make me feel happiness in ways I didn’t know that I could feel it. How
could I have known that we’d grow to be best friends? To be the person we each share our proudest
moments with, our accomplishments and celebrations, and to be the person we share our hardest
moments with, our losses and our failures, our struggles and our flaws.

There was you and there was me, and now there’s us. And I love us. I love who I am when I’m with you
and who we are together. And I’ll always feel lucky to have someone like you in my life. I’ll always feel
lucky to be a part of us. I’ll always feel lucky to be with you.

Little Gestures Mean More Than Anything Else

The best boyfriends are the ones who comment on your Instagram pictures. Not because it matters, but
because they love you and want to remind everyone you know that they do. The best boyfriends are
the ones who are willing to take selfies with you and of you, who happily give you time to “do your own
thing,” who want to impress your parents.
They’re the ones who will tuck your tag into your shirt, who will plan a date day every now and again.
They’re the ones who will walk you to the bathroom in the middle of the night when you’re sick, the
ones who say “what do you need?” and take care of you as you do them.

The best boyfriends aren’t the “cool guys,” they aren’t the bros who are too detached to care about
love. They’re the ones who want to try. The ones who would do for you everything that you’d do for
them. They’re the ones who text you to make sure you got home alright. Who will listen to you analyze
your friend drama. Who call you a car so you don’t have to walk. Who will help your sister lift her bags
from the car when she visits. Who tag you in memes and is proud to make your status social media
official.

The best boyfriends aren’t the sweet talkers who never take action. Anybody can text sweet nothings,
but not everyone is going to show up for you at 3 a.m. when you’re crying about work and nobody else
wants to listen.

The best boyfriends are not the ones who make sweeping statements and grand gestures, they’re not
the ones who act passive and then try to say sorry with a nice dinner. They’re the ones who are there
for you, today, tomorrow, whenever you need them. There’s no putting you on hold, there’s no second
guessing, there’s no wondering about your worth or what you mean in their lives.

The best boyfriends are not the ones who sacrifice their “fun, single lives” for a relationship, they’re the
ones who couldn’t care less about changing their lives if it means getting to have you around.

The best boyfriends are the ones who will talk about commitment. Even if it’s something that freaks
them out, even if they’re not clear about the timeline, being afraid to talk about something that is so
important is such a poor reflection on someone’s character. So they do – they talk about it.

These people aren’t anomalies. They exist. At this point, so little is required of men to place them into
“good boyfriend” terrain that it’s almost mystifying. It’s because, of course, so few actually try in the
ways that it matter.

And because so many boyfriends have gotten away with doing so little for so long, it’s unfortunate that
we even have to laude them for these simple things, because we’d never commend a girlfriend for it.
We expect that of them. We know that they will show love. Whether or not the effort will be matched
is the question.
The best boyfriends know that the little gestures are what mean the most. They know that the way to
love someone is to show them in little pieces.

Most importantly, the best boyfriends are the ones who are tough enough to actually try. They are the
ones who are sure of themselves enough to not be afraid to let you know they care. They are not the
ones who are dismissive and cowardly in the face of vulnerability, but the ones who will do the smallest
and bravest thing of all: love you, in tiny ways, in ordinary moments.

This Is What He Notices When He Falls In Love With You

When a man begins to fall in love with you, he’ll notice why the songs he listens to suddenly have a
much deeper meaning; the sort of nostalgia you get when you taste mom’s homemade cooking after a
long time.

He’ll begin to wonder why he feels at home whenever he’s with you, whenever he’s texting you, or even
when something reminds him of you. He’ll notice how your nose flares up whenever you laugh at his
corniest jokes, or even his most sincere compliments.

He’ll notice how your eyes crinkle at the edges when you smile, and how his heart flutters when you do.

He’ll feel annoyed, in the most positive of senses, when it hits him that a simple text message from you
is enough to make his day exponentially better.

He’ll constantly wonder how your day is going, who you’re with, or where you are. He’ll notice how your
eyes glimmer in the fluorescent light of the dimly-lit restaurant; how it matches your smile that always
seems to capture his heart one way or another. He’ll prefer your look without makeup, rather than
when you’re all dolled-up.

He’ll find himself gushing about you every opportunity he gets, even with the most random people. He’ll
come to realize that you’re his first thought in the morning and his last thought before he goes to sleep
at night, no matter how cliche that may be.
The thing is, you’re every thought in between as well. He’ll begin to feel the urge to surmount any
obstacle; to commit himself to anything if it would be able to put a smile on your face, or even make you
feel the slightest hint of happiness. He’ll feel the need to go to church, or a house of prayer, whichever
religion he may have, just to pray; to thank the higher entities that he’s been given the opportunity to
meet you.

He’ll realize that the way you look when you’re smiling, the way you make him feel like his problems are
so little because you will always be there by his side, is everything to him. And then it’ll hit him, yet, he’ll
deny it. But one thing’s for sure: he’s hopelessly and irretrievably in love with you.

True love

True love does exist in the reality that we thought would be impossible. True loves comes in variations
and as wide as the universe can be. But one thing you should keep in mind is that loving comes with an
inevitable reason to get hurt . Like I always say to everyone, there is no one in the world that loves
without getting hurt. Those pain that made you vulnerable and sometimes made you cynical, are a
counter part of every happiness you'll experience. Because happiness would be more valuable when you
have experience what pain felt like. So believe me when I say that it's all going to be worth it.

Love isn't a stable ground and yet a battle field. Sometimes you have to fight if the other person is
willing to fight. You fight all the odds, all the hindrances, and all the the circumstances that brought up
the negativeness of everything. Just to be with the certain person that completed your universe.

Love is a complex word, a broad meaning and often confusing. Though as much as it can be tough. Love
is also made to be understood. It is art to understand and validate what happiness is, to value the
importance of loving someone with every ounce of your being. It is indeed crazy, how one word with
four letters can brought you so much feelings that ignites your body and soul. But the love will and
would always be rational towards everything that is going on with your life. If you chose to love the right
person, then love can never counterfeit anything.

Love is not how you think it is when the sparks are gone. When people have been together for years
sometimes things becomes different. But it's not always about the spark. You see, love isn't something
that is based on how much sparks you had but rather how much love you have. And most importantly
how you wanted to be with that person. It's a choice that you have to work on everyday. A thing that
will always caress you reminding the warmth rather than the sparks when you love a person selflessly.

Love isn't only a commitment but a choice. A choice to love that person despite whatever
circumstances. A choice to love a certain human being with all your heart, and to understood that love is
also to be vulnerable. Love is a life long commitment, a love that can withstand the best and the worst
things in life. To be steady even if a thousand hurricanes have passed by. To commit is to accept a
person based on their flaws, and see them as a master piece that is captivating to one's soul.

We Can't Escape From Everything But Instead We Have To Face It Together

I wish we could escape from everything. Not think about how the future will go, or how the present will
face. I wish we could escape from everything so that I can enjoy every bit of you-- perfectly imperfect
bits of you. I wish we could escape so that you won't think about the boys flirting around me. So that
you will be assured that you're the only one who'll I love for the rest of my life.

But we can't...

I can still remember vividly when I first saw you-- you were sparkling and your smile killed me inside. I
still remembered how the first kissed went, it was so magical and from there I knew it was you who I
was looking for. You smiled at me and you told me that you love me. Again, I died inside.

Months pass by, predicaments and sufferings became a major issue to us. You loved me less because of
the times that I want to give up. No. I don't want to lose you, I just want you to be happy and everything
felt blue. But love and time helped us. It healed us, and we blew everything out of the water. We loved
each other much more than we are giving before-- so much than before.

Last night, I told you everything I feel-- every single fear. You didn't say anything but instead you hugged
me. You wiped away my tears, all of my fears and that is also why I'm here by your side right now-- I'm
ready to wipe your fears away. I'm ready to love you for everything you do, every ups and downs, every
night that you're drunk, every sad morning, every tear I will be there for you, every single success no
matter how big or small it is, I'll be there to celebrate it with you, every single rejection I will be there to
make you happy, every single mistake I will be there to correct you and help you.

I wish we could escape from everything, but we can't. But we need to face it together, we should face it
together.

To the guy I am going to spend my life with

I don't know when are you arriving yet, but I hope wherever you are you are also seeking for me. I have
to warn you though, loving me would not be easy. It's a conflagration. You will me handed different
kinds of weapons and I'll be standing in front of you blindfolded. The thing is, I will be the one handling
the weapons to you. Loving me would be a war, a battlefield, and it's either you'll have me as your ally
or I will be on the other side of the barricade.

There are so many things that are going on on my mind at the same time. From how significant atoms
are to how the existence of aliens can be true. I think, I think, I think, my brain never ceases. And when
these thoughts just become too heavy for me to take, you will hear me say "I am going crazy", which by
the way happens a lot. You must be ready for all the crazy things that will spill out of my mouth, you
must be ready to answer outrageous questions and you must be ready to have these unusual
conversations.

I am emotional and ocassionally you'll find me crying over the smallest things. A beautiful poetry, a
heart-wrenching novel, a soul-touching song or even a ravishing art. That's just how I am. Maybe you'll
find me sobbing at my room past 3 am because a character from a book died. These things, these are
the ones that deeply touched my heart. I want to let you know how vulnerable my heart can be, I want
to tell you how I am easily moved and how small things also keep me awake. I like you to be one of
these small things, I want you to touch my heart, I also want you to keep me awake at 3 am. Make me
feel all sorts of describable feelings because of you.

Explore my deepest abyss and find my scattered fragments littered there and tell me if you still want to
spend your life with me.

Days will come where I will question your love to me. I will tear your heart and crawl inside it to prove if
it's true. I will be confused, lost and sure as hell be stubborn. On these days please hold me close and I
swear your presence will be enough. Kiss me like your life depends on it. Kiss me as if I'm someone who
will fade if you don't.

I am like a hurricane, I am destructive and sometimes I leave a chaotic remnant. So please, if you are
going to kiss me, be ready for the havoc that lies ahead.

"Love is patient, love is kind..."

That's how I knew that you're the love I was waiting for—you were patient with me whenever my mood
swings hit and you were kind enough to accept me for who I am, who I am yet to become and who I was
before.
"It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud..."

You were never envious, never boastful and you were never proud—you never envied my guy friends
nor did you boast of how much greater you are than them, even though we all know that you are the
greatest amongst every guy I have known and you were never proud of that, you're too humble and
never vain. This is why knew.

"It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records..."

You never dishonoured anyone you'd stumble up on. You were never selfish, it's always teamwork
between us—always a 'we' and never an I. You never stay mad at me, you forgive me quickly whenever I
make a racist or a inappropriate joke. You never point out my mistakes and use it on me. This I when I
knew

"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth..."

You told me before that you wanted an honest relationship, so you never lied to me, not even once.
Even with your surprises, you never lied. This is where I knew

"It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres."

In the mall, on the sidewalk, on the ferry or wherever we are at, you'd protect me from anything that
will bump, hurt, squish or splash me. Wherever I am or whatever I do, you believe in me and trust me
with all your heart. Whatever we are now, you'd always hope for the future, that in the next years, it'll
stay as you and me. Whoever we may become, I know we'd be persistent—especially you, even though
you're tired from work, you're persistent to come over and see me, wherever you are or whatever
you're doing, you'd be persistent enough to pick your phone up and check if I'm okay.
This is how I knew that you were the love I was waiting for, you are my '1 Corinthians 13 : 4 - 7'.

That Man who loves you so much

When you are upset, he's that man who first know about it. He instantly know what you are feeling just
on how you talk and act when you're with him.

When you're upset, he's that man who comfort you in most comforting way. He's that man who'll do
stupidity or deliver corny jokes just to make you laughed.
When you suddenly feel anxious about something, he's that man who pulls you into a tight hug and
would let minutes to pass by just you inside his arms.

When you feel nervous, he's that man that would hold your hands and run his hands on your arms just
to calm you down. He would even say words just to cheer you up.

When you feel sleepy, he's that man that would love to give his shoulder just so you could lay your head
on it.

When you're hungry and feeling you could eat the whole table, he's that man who'll let you eat as much
as you want until you're satisfied. He's that man who don't give a darn if you gain more weight and have
layers of belly.

When you're feeling crazy, he's that man who'll do craziness with you. He's that man who'll laughed
from your cranky jokes and will make stupid faces just to make you teared up because of laughing.

When you feel lonely and down, he's that man who'll give all his time to you until you feel great again.

He's that man who wants to spend his free time just the two of you, laying on your bed and hugging you
on his chest. He would love to spend time with you, watching movies or Netflix rather going out with his
friends.

He's that man who'll make you feel comfortable even only wearing PJ's when your around. He's that
man who love to see your face without any make-up. He's that man who would love to eat popcorns
and chips with you at home rather eating out on a fancy restaurants.

He's that man who always do so much effort just for you.

He's that man who don't care and doesn't get pissed or disgusted even if you walk around the house
with a period stain on your shorts.
He's that man who'll say I love you's a thousand time. He's that man that would give you sweet warm
kisses all the time. He's that man who loves to cuddle at cold nights. He's that man who loves to pinch
your layers of belly and would still say "I love You and You're mine."

He's that man who don't care if you gain weight and would still tell how you look "Gorgeous and sexy" in
his eyes as always.

That man surely loves you. He loves you despite of your insecurities. He truly loves you whatever
happens. He loves you more than words could explain.

He loves you for who you are and what you are made of.

If you have this kind of man, Keep him. You deserve all his love and surely he deserve all your love. Love
him how he loves you.

Keep that man and love him because that man love you so much.

To that one guy that made me believe that true love exist

To my love, thank you. Thank you for never giving up on me. For being there through the good and the
bad. Thank you for unlimited hugs and kisses from you that makes me feel so loved. For all those words
that made my heart melt those things that made me love you more each day that passes. Thank you for
being patient with me. For being able to handle me on those times that I was hard to understand. Thank
you for letting down your guard for me to enter. There is so much to say my love for you are definitely
the most breath taking person I’ve ever known

I am afraid to lose you my love. It feels like being brought back to the deepest darkest place and having
no love, no strength no you. And so I always wish up there every night that you would be the one. The
one together with me in the aisle facing our creator and saying our vows.
I have felt real love from you and it made me believe that there is really someone worth the tears,
arguments and especially someone worth fighting for. I won’t stop fighting, I won’t stop holding your
hand. I’ll never let go of it.

I will always be here for you know matter what. Whatever storm, I’ll be staying fighting with you. We
aren’t perfect but why are you perfect despite your imperfections? I love every piece that makes you,
you. Every detail every flaw I love and accept because it’s who you really are.

I am blessed to have someone like you. Who made me a better person and taught me that love, real
love exists. So please don’t let me go, hold my hand till the end. And I’ll hold yours. I’ll give my all,
loyalty, trust and all the love I can give. You are my happiness and I’m thankful that it went to the right
person.

To My Long Term Partner

My love, I just want to thank you for all the things you do for me, for waking me up everyday and
making me realize how special and valued I am, for making me feel safe and secured despite the
distance, for being considerate with me at most times, for being so generous when it comes to my
emotional demands, for staying up late just to talk to me, for giving me the love I didnt know I deserve
without asking for anything in return, for putting up with my bad sleeping habits, for giving me the
freedom to do what I love, for making me laugh everyday, for understanding me even though Im the
one who's at fault, for listening to my rants and complaints, for being my best friend whenever I need
one, for being the sweetest since day one, for giving me compliments I never knew I needed, for
choosing to be with me every day, for telling me things you would rather keep to yourself, for always
making time for me, for calming my heart and mind when Im in storm inside, for being the best partner
any girl would ever dream of, and especially, for helping me know more about myself through loving me
unconditionally and abundantly, in that way I get to learn how to love myself.

You mean the world to me my love. You're my lifetime necessity, my person, and the love of my life. I'm
very blessed to have someone so amazing like you.

Take Time to Find

Find a man who won't let you sleep not unless you're not mad at him anymore. Find a man who'll
whisphers I Love You's a thousand times as if they still haven't told you that before. Find a guy that
would support you in every decisions that you do but won't tolerate you if you're doing wrong. Find a
man that's willing to stay with you over the phone late up night until sunrise just listening over your
nonsense talks. Find a man that'll help you reach you goals in life. Find a man that'll hold your hands at
public as if telling everyone else that you're only HIS. Find a man that can make those butterflies on your
stomach to come fully alive. Find a man that will do craziness with you. Find a man that is worth of your
loving. Find a man that would do everything just to find solution in a problem rather than a guy who
gave up easily. Find a man that can cheer you up and can make you laugh and smile when you're down.
Find a man that can make you feel his deep pure loving for you just by his kisses and hugs. Find a guy
that'll stand for you.

Find a guy that could see you in your worst yet decided to stay because you mean the world to him. Find
that imperfect guy that'll shower you kisses at cold nights until you two ended up hugging or kissing.
Find a man that can worship and praise God with you.

Love is worth the wait. Don't rush things. You're Man might just be around. Maybe you won't get to
know him now, maybe not even tomorrow or the next day. But time would eventually come where your
beautiful worlds will collide.

This one

This one isn't easy to sit down and write because nothing I could say would do all of you justice in the
way that I would hope I could. These are just words, but I hope that I am able to always show my thank
you to you by treating him like the prince he is.

I can replay the moment of meeting each and everyone of you all over and over in my head like it was
yesterday. I was so extremely nervous every single time and I was trying to gather all the "right" things
to say that would leave a good, first-lasting impression and that at the end of the day, you all would like
me. I think one of the most important basis and hopes in my relationship is that my significant other's
family likes who I am. This is so important to me because whatever is important to him is equally
important to me and your thoughts of me are crucial to our relationship. The second I walked in the
door, I was overwhelmed—overwhelmed with such a love. I had no idea at that point in time just how
much you would all mean to me and how thankful I am for all of you!

Thank you for constantly making me laugh and feel at home.

Whenever I'm coming over for a family gathering or just to hangout, I know right off that I am walking
into a world of laughter and good times are right beside that. You are all so entertaining and always
have a good story to tell me. I can't name one time where I didn't feel like I was home. And I appreciate
the sweet, embarrassing photos and stories about my boyfriend that you all share with me! Even if it is
by a photo, I have a glimpse of what his life has always been like thanks to each and every one of you
individually.

Thank you for sharing your special moments in life with me.

You don't ever have to, but you invite me anyways. Wether it's just a family gathering, a birthday, or a
holiday, I am thankful to have spent those times celebrating these moments in life alongside such
amazing people. It's humbling and heartwarming to be apart of memories so unforgettable that you all
share and that you have welcomed me to be a part of. They are days that I will never forget and have a
place in my heart forever.

Thank you for always being there for him.

Since we have started dating, I have watched the way that you guys love him. I have watched the
individual relationships and moments that you share with him make a difference in who he is. I have
seen you all love and support him, no matter what he was doing. With everything that comes along in
life, this has been a simple reminder of an unconditional, loving, sacrificing family that is also the best
support system. You are not only impacting him, but me, too.

Thank you for welcoming me in like your own.

Whenever you have to brave up and meet your significant other's family, I can say, for myself, that I
didn't know what to expect. As I'm sure, none of you did when meeting me. Today, I catch myself
wondering why I even worried in the first place. You all have welcomed me in your own ways and made
me feel right at home. It is not always easy to do that with just anyone, but you have all taken the time
to get to know me. And now I know that if I ever needed anything, I can call one of you.

Thank you for letting me date him.

I am most thankful for this. Thank you for sharing him with me and giving me a chance to show you all
how important he is to me. I never thought that I would luck out and meet someone as special, kind,
and wonderful as he is, but I did. You have supported our relationship, given me a chance to love him,
and welcomed me to new adventures in love and family. I have the upmost gratitude for each of you.
You are the most wonderful, welcoming, and loving family. I am overjoyed to be able to experience just
a glimpse of this life with him and with all of you.
Maybe I had a bad day at work. Maybe I’m sick of the rain. Maybe I’m having the period from Hell. Or
maybe I just need to be fed. But the root of my mood is the least important thing right now . . .
Remember that I’m sorry. If anything I said hurt you, I’m sorry. I tend to say cruel things I don’t actually
mean when I’m in a mood, but just because they’re fueled by anger doesn’t mean that they don’t hurt
you. But remember that I’m also not sorry. I won’t apologize for having feelings . . . for being a person.
Let me be. Let me feel. I know it sucks, but in this moment, I’m moody. And there’s nothing you can do
to change that, except let me let it all out, so it can go away. Remember that I’m human. We all have
good days, and bad days. And sometimes I have good days for absolutely no reason. And sometimes I
have bad days for absolutely no reason. Remember that it’s not you. If you were the problem—if you
were the reason why I’m moody right now—trust me, you would know. Whatever it is, you need to let
me feel it. No judgments. Remember that I love you, and that you love me. And even though I’m in one
of my moods, even though I’m being a total pain in the ass right now, remember that this is a part of
me. This is a part of the woman you love, the person you fell for. Remember that you get into moods,
too. I’m not crazy. I’m just being crazy for the time being. And, like me, you’re human. You do the same
thing. While you don't have PMS, you definitely have a time of the month where you get moody as hell.
So put yourself in my shoes—when you’re in a bad mood, how do want to be treated? Remember that if
I wanted to be alone, I would be alone. You’re here, because despite my mood, I need you by my side. I
want you by my side. While it may not show, knowing you’re here with me makes me feel better.
Because you make me feel safe, like everything’s gonna be ok.

Let's get something perfectly clear, okay? Relationships only get boring when someone isn't trying
anymore. Relationships only get boring when someone isn't putting in as much effort as before.
Relationships only get boring when someone's heart isn't in it like it used to be. Relationships only get
boring when someone is starting to outgrow you. Relationships only get boring when someone has
gotten too comfortable and too complacent. Relationships only get boring when someone constantly
argues with you over every little thing. Relationships only get boring when someone has met someone
else who made them wish they were single again. Relationships only get boring when someone is no
longer afraid to lose you. Relationships only get boring when someone is slowly getting to the point
where they can see a life without you. Relationships only get boring when someone doesn't feel the
need to fight for you any longer. Relationships only get boring when someone has fallen out of love. So
if you think your relationship has gotten boring, that's because you're the one who's still paying
attention, who's still emotionally invested, and who's still wanting to make it work. The thing is, you're
the only one and somewhere along the way, you've already lost them. Relationships only get boring
when someone has given up, and that's something you need to understand.
To you who makes me feel safe

When I say "safe", it's more than how your arms keep me safe. It is how you assure me that things will
turn out just right. It is how you protect me from my fears and accept my vulnerabilities. It is when you
tell me I'm stronger than I think I am. For the fact that you can take my worries away, makes me feel
secured. Certainly, there is nothing more compelling than a man who looks after your safety more than
his own. Yes, tight hugs and cuddles may soothe the anxieties I am feeling, but I guess it's ephemeral.

I am now less afraid, knowing that you got my back all the time. Thank you for guarding what you own,
and own me forever. What I am only scared of now is losing you. For when I say "safe", it's because of
you.

After the years have passed, it all disappears.

This is what some couples fail to see.

After how many years, the spark will go. The reasons why you loved the other person will be unknown.
The butterflies in your stomach will soon disappear. You will forget why you liked that person in the first
place. You'll start to see all the wrong and the ugly you chose to look blindly in your beginnings. Now,
going home to each other's arms is not as exciting to look forward to as before. Cuddling and those
exchange of sweet words become rare and all the fightings will take over.

Sex will become less and less. You'll be shocked that one day, those nights and hours you spend in sex
will now be spent in silence and arguments. You'd rather cover your partner up rather than take their
clothes off. Appreciation goes less and less too. You have to accept that.

This is the sad reality of long term relationships.

You become familiar with each other rather than staying "in love" with each other. You become more of
friends rather than lovers. This is the stage where you choose, is being with this person worth it
anymore? Are the fights worth it or is it easier to just get out and leave? Some couples make it, some
don't. Why? Because they all made the choice some didn't make. They chose to stay, maybe because of
some strong roots or maybe because they don't want to start again.
I once came across someone who has been married for 30 years. I asked her, "did you ever caught your
husband cheat?" She said, "ofcourse, it is normal. After some time you'll just get used to it and think
that the most important thing will be that he goes home to you every night." That is how their
relationship worked for so many years. But isn't it sad? To be used to some habits that die hard? Well if
that's their case, I respect that. I also came across a man who has been married for 10 years and decided
to end it after he caught his ex wife cheating. I asked, how come you ended it when others would just
forgive? He said "a man's ego will always be there. Maybe the double standards of the society added
factors or maybe I realized she wasn't worth it anymore." It was a sad ending but hey, he's happier now
with someone and I guess it all comes down to one vital thing, happiness.

"Don't sleep mad at each other" -- one of the lines I always hear from commercials, blogs and the likes
but I tell you this. Sometimes sleeping off an argument is better rather than facing it while everything is
hot. You respect each other enough that when they're not ready, you give them space to think things
through. You don't need to fix it outright. Sometimes it causes more damage. Time out is also good for
each other. Time out to think and meditate not time out to go message other people and flirt!

The society has so much influenced us that having a long term relationship is easy, just forgive and
forget and it's done. Road to forever! But that's not it. There will be a lot of unspoken words, a lot of
unnecessary words thrown at you, and a lot of pride and changes to adapt to. Being in a road to a long
term relationship is good but never forget to not lose yourself while in it. Be with a person who will not
mind if you get fat or your skin sags or you lose the beauty that once made him fall for you, after all you
are not a timeless beauty. Make sure that you're in that road with someone who will be worth your
love, pain and anger, worth your time and effort and most of all, worth of that kindness your heart has
yet to unleash.

To my current relationship, I'm not the prettiest girl, but you never fail to tell me every single day that
I'm beautiful. I'm not anyone's dream girl, but you never fail to make me feel like you've won the
jackpot. Fact is, I have a lot of insecurities, but you never cease to break down the walls of insecurity
that I built just to constantly remind me that I'm perfect. I just want you to know that I thank God for
giving me someone who can and will always be ready to handle my mood swings, rants, tantrums and
dramas in life. I thank Him for giving me someone who will always be there for me 24/7. I thank Him for
giving me someone who will never give up on me. And above all, I thank Him for giving me such a
wonderful blessing. To my current relationship, I just hope you're my last.

Don't let go of the man who shows you that you are always worth it.

Accept it, you are not perfect. There is always someone who is prettier, sexier and smarter than you. In
this world, there is always someone who's better than you. You have your own strengths and flaws. All
you need is someone to tell you that you are more than enough for him and that nobody can be
compared to you.

There will be days that you'll cry, you'll break down, you'll get mad, you'll feel as if you're a failure or
disappointment and you'll feel as if you're not enough for anyone... That's a real challenge for any man
that you'll meet. It is not easy to calm the storms in the head of someone who is feeling like crap.

As they say, "people come and go". Yes, it's true. Most people will leave you once you start showing
your vulnerable side. It's very rare that people will stay in your life, trying to make you feel better and
trying to untangle you from all the mess that you're in... so when a person stays with you after all the
shit that you've put him through, please don't ever let him go. Meeting that type of person is a destiny
and a blessing.

Once you meet that person, he'll be there to remind you that you should never give up on life. He'll be
there to remind you that life goes on and you should keep on trying. He'll make you realize that life is
beautiful and so are you. He'll be there to comfort you and squeeze you into a tight hug when you have
those crazy meltdowns. He'll be there to show you a thousand reasons to smile when you can't even
find one. He'll be there to kiss away your sadness and fears. He'll be there to love you even if you're a
mess.

He'll accept you for who you are and what you're not. He'll see you as the most wonderful girl he's ever
met and he'll make you feel like it every single day. He'll show you that you deserve every love in the
world. He'll show you that you are always worth it no matter what happens. For once in your life, you'll
feel as if you're more than enough for someone. You'll be happy because of him.

He is the one who will show you that life may be hard but it's always worth it so please keep him at all
costs. Fight for him. Love him in all the ways that you know. Tell him that's he's wonderful. Take care of
him. Don't ever let him go because a man like him is hard to find.
I love you for so many reasons though you are so unaware of it. You always ask me why I keep on
choosing you if I could go for all people who could possibly want but little do you know, you are the only
person I can see in a crowd no matter how countless the number of people can get. I love you because
of your willingness to sacrifice every single piece of you just so I could be happy is more than I could ever
ask for, I merely love you because you are the only person who made sense of me. You always think that
you are so lucky to have me and I want you to know that I am more than lucky to have all I ever wanted
about someone in you, too. I love how we never care for expensive and fancy things as long as we got
each other’s back. I love the way you intertwine your fingers with mine. I love how you learnt to watch
kdrama just because I do. But I want you to know still, that I love you simply and that’s all that counts. I
love you and I will continue to love you no matter how many pain we can possibly feel in the future.

Im so proud of you, with the things you can do, with the achievements, your humbleness, the genuine
passion you have for your profession.

One thing I realized now, its easier to show love to someone who appreciates the things that you do
even the little efforts that you make, it easier to break walls when you know that someone you love
needs you because they love you as much as you do, or maybe even more than you do. It is so
fascinating how love can bring out the sweetest kid inside of person inside of me.

When you’re finally with the right person, no battle will ever be too much. No fight will ever be too hard.
Because when you’re finally falling in love with the right person, you twi will do whatever it takes to fall
in love over and over again with one another.