Talking Stick
Talking Stick
Talking Stick
Overview of lesson:
Students will learn about the Sioux people and how they used a talking stick. By gaining this
insight, students should develop deeper understanding of respect for each other’s voices and
allow each of their classmates the time to talk about what they want. They will create their
own talking sticks, which they can later use in their family meetings. Students will also learn
about oral storytelling and have an opportunity to make up their own stories and listen to what
their peers come up with.
Program of studies (Goals and Objectives (Maximum 3 each) Be attentive to the terminology of the
Program of Study you are using.)
GLOs/GLEs SLOs/SLEs
Assessment
Preparation
● Ask grade ones during recess to collect sticks about the length of their arm
● Make one talking stick to show as an example.
● Get materials ready in dishes
● Remind marie that I need to talk to students before recess
Material and equipment (Art supplies, manipulatives, smartboard, online whiteboard etc…)
● Small diameter sticks or dead branches from trees or bushes, or dowels cut to 12-inch
lengths - one for each participant plus a few extra
● Small feathers, real or synthetic
● String, yarn, or cord in assorted colors and textures
● Buttons
● Markers, glue, and scissors (including left-handed scissors)
● Optional: Small bells and seashells
● Wolf puppet
● Writer’s workshop books
Resources
https://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/lovesurrounds/session10/170187.shtml
Lesson Procedure
Introduction (20 min.) (Description of Hook/Attention Grabber; Expectations for Learning and
Behavior; Transition to Body, etc.)
● Tell the children you will tell them a very old legend from the Sioux tribe of American
Indians. This story doesn’t have pictures, so I bought a wolf to act as the narrator.
● This story explains how the Sioux began using talking sticks in their tribal meetings.
● (Conceal the talking stick until the end of the story when the grandmother makes the
first talking stick.)
● Whoever is holding the stick at their meetings, is the only person who is allowed to
talk. When someone is holding the stick that means they deserve the respect of
everyone else, who should be quiet and paying close attention to whatever the person
holding the stick is saying.
● When the government began settling on the native peoples' homelands, the Sioux,
including the Dakota, Lakota, and Nakota tribes, occupied the Great Plains, a part of
North America that includes grasslands, hills, and streams but not a lot of forests.
Summers for them were hot and the winter was long and cold. The Sioux culture
centered on using horses to hunt buffalo for food.
Closure (5 min.)
(Consolidation Learning; Indicate clean up protocol, material management etc.
Transition to Next Lesson. How do you plan to prepare students for the next period?
Are they changing classes? Is another teacher coming in to the room.)
Clean up (3 min.)
● Put materials back into containers, put away markers/glue
● Leave sticks to dry
Consolidation (2 min.)
● Ask students what a talking stick is used for
● What are the rules when someone is holding a talking stick?
● What is something you noticed about/learned today?
● Homework : Tell students to bring home sticks and call a family meeting to talk
about their day. Tell their parents that whoever has the stick has the floor, and
have them pass it around to each family member
Reflection : How did it go? What should you change? What did you forget?
This story was given to the native people many winters ago. When it was time for all of
the young mothers in the village to go out to gather fruit and berries, the old
grandmothers, whose legs could no longer walk quickly, were left to care for the young
children of the village. The young mothers honored the grandmothers by giving them
this great responsibility.
It is believed that young children have many dreams and visions to collect before they
are grown. With the grandmothers close by, all the children took naps in the warmth of a
darkened lodge before Sun had traveled his full path each day. On one of these days
while the young children slept, Crow and Magpie, two noisy winged ones, were having a
terrible argument outside the lodge of the sleeping children.
"Caaaw-caaaw," screamed Crow. "Kaaack-Kack," yelled Magpie.
They were both speaking at once and they could not hear each other's point of view on
the subject of which tree belonged to which bird.
One of the grandmothers went to quiet the voices outside so they would not wake the
children. She tried to scare the birds away. When she could not get the attention of the
screaming Crow or yelling Magpie, she called on Eagle for help. Eagle, the great
winged one, was a sacred bird for both the native people and all the other animals of
the earth. He was also full of much wisdom and everyone looked to him to help them
with their problems.
"Oh, brother Eagle, can you chase off these two noisy ones so our children can
dream?" asked the grandmother.
With a mighty flap of his wings, Eagle sailed towards the noisy pair. He gave a call of
warning to the Crow and Magpie as he came close, but they were so busy fighting they
did not even hear him. When Eagle saw this he yelled louder and came closer, and that
is when it happened.
Suddenly they both realized that they had flapped their wings so hard without looking at
what they were doing, they hit one of Eagle's wings. What is worse, one of the sacred
feathers from Eagle fell out and landed on a small branch, suspended above Mother
Earth. It was a great offense to touch Eagle, much less cause one of his feathers to
come off. Magpie spoke to Eagle.
"Oh, brother Eagle, we did not hear you so near. I am truly sorry for the injury I have
caused you."
Now, Crow was surprised to hear such an honorable thing come from the mouth of this
rude neighbor. He spoke to Eagle with dignity.
"I have many times been a naughty bird but, brother Eagle, I think this may be the worst
I have done in many moons. I am very sorry you have lost a sacred feather."
Crow and Magpie both went to retrieve Eagle's feather and their eyes met and with no
words at all they both knew that this mistake would not have happened if they had not
been fighting. Magpie took the feather in his beak and spoke.
"I am ashamed, brother Eagle, that my loud talk and harsh words were more important
to me than solving our problem."
Crow took the feather from Magpie and said, "We have disturbed the two-legged
children and torn from your wing a sacred feather and now we return it to you with a
request for your forgiveness."
Eagle had watched all this with wise eyes and an open heart. He knew the lesson of
listening had been learned by his little brothers and he saw that the grandmother looked
on with learning eyes also.
So he said to Crow and Magpie, "Give my feather and the branch it rests on to the
grandmother. Grandmother, connect to my sacred feather to the branch. Dress the
branch with beads and leather and fur to make it even more beautiful. Keep it in your
lodge and teach others to create this fine looking stick."
Eagle said, "We will call this sacred item a Talking Stick. Tell all the people that when
they come together at any gathering where ears might be shut, to bring out the Talking
Stick and let only the holder speak. This will be done in an honorable manner letting
everyone have his say. Pass the stick until all have spoken. Then a vote can be taken
and the side who gathers the most votes will make the final decision," said Eagle.
Grandmother gathered up the branch and the feather. She was very honored to have
learned this lesson and every grandmother from that day on has told this story and
helped the young ones to make Talking Sticks.