Cultural Approaches To Parenting - Bornstein
Cultural Approaches To Parenting - Bornstein
Cultural Approaches To Parenting - Bornstein
SYNOPSIS
This article first introduces some main ideas behind culture and parenting and next addresses
philosophical rationales and methodological considerations central to cultural approaches to
parenting, including a brief account of a cross-cultural study of parenting. It then focuses
on universals, specifics, and distinctions between form (behavior) and function (meaning)
in parenting as embedded in culture. The article concludes by pointing to social policy
implications as well as future directions prompted by a cultural approach to parenting.
INTRODUCTION
Every culture is characterized, and distinguished from other cultures, by deeply rooted
and widely acknowledged ideas about how one needs to feel, think, and act as a
functioning member of the culture. Cross-cultural study affirms that groups of people
possess different beliefs and engage in different behaviors that may be normative in
their culture but are not necessarily normative in another culture. Cultural groups thus
embody particular characteristics that are deemed essential or advantageous to their
members. These beliefs and behaviors tend to persist over time and constitute the val-
ued competencies that are communicated to new members of the group. Central to a
concept of culture, therefore, is the expectation that different cultural groups possess
distinct beliefs and behave in unique ways with respect to their parenting. Cultural
variations in parenting beliefs and behaviors are impressive, whether observed among
different, say ethnic, groups in one society or across societies in different parts of the
world. This article addresses the rapidly increasing research interest in cultural dif-
ferences in parenting. It first takes up philosophical underpinnings, rationales, and
methodological considerations central to cultural approaches to parenting, describes
a cross-cultural study of parenting, and then addresses some core issues in cultural
approaches to parenting, namely, universals, specifics, and the form-versus-function
distinction. It concludes with an overview of social policy implications and future
directions of cultural approaches to parenting.
Culture is usefully conceived of as the set of distinctive patterns of beliefs and behaviors
that are shared by a group of people and that serve to regulate their daily living. These
beliefs and behaviors shape how parents care for their offspring. Thus, having experienced
The move toward a culturally richer understanding of parenting has given rise to a set
of important questions about parenting (Bornstein, 2001). What is normative parenting
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and to what extent does it vary with culture? What are the historical, economic, social,
or other sources of cultural variation in parenting norms? How does culture embed into
parenting cognitions and practices and manifest and maintain itself through parenting?
There is definite need and significance for a cultural approach to parenting science.
Descriptively it is invaluable for revealing the full range of human parenting. The study
of parenting across cultures also furnishes a check against an ethnocentric world view
of parenting. Acceptance of findings from any one culture as normative of parent-
ing is too narrow in scope, and ready generalizations from them to parents at large are
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culture. For example, culture influences teaching and expectations of children in moth-
ers of Australian versus Lebanese descent all living in Australia apart from child gender,
parity, and socioeconomic class (Goodnow, Cashmore, Cotton, & Knight, 1984).
Other methodological questions threaten the validity of cultural comparisons
(Matsumoto & van de Vijver, 2011). For example, it matters who is doing the study, their
culture, their assumptions in asking certain questions, and so forth. Whether collaborat-
ing scientists are on the ground in the culture and undertake adequate preliminary
study to generate meaningful questions are also pertinent.
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This kind of study continues the story of cultural approaches to parenting in terms of
their traditional dual foci on similarities and differences. Mothers in different cultures
differ in their mean levels of different domains of parenting infants, but mothers and
infants in different cultures are similar in terms of mutual attunement of caregiving
on the part of mothers and development in corresponding domains in infants. A shift
in focus to the meaning of those similarities and differences advances the culture and
parenting narrative.
standards of living and so forth, but U.S. American and Japanese parents value differ-
ent childrearing goals which they express in different ways (Bornstein, 1989; Bornstein
et al., 2012a; Morelli & Rothbaum, 2007). American mothers try to promote auton-
omy, assertiveness, verbal competence, and self-actualization in their children, whereas
Japanese mothers try to promote emotional maturity, self-control, social courtesy, and
interdependence in theirs.
Many parenting cognitions and practices are likely to be similar across cultures;
indeed, similarities may reflect universals (in the sense of being common) even if they
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vary in form and the degree to which they are shaped by experience and influenced
by culture. Such patterns of parenting might reflect inherent attributes of caregiving,
historical convergences in parenting, or they could be a by-product of information
dissemination via forces of globalization or mass media or migration that present par-
ents today with increasingly similar socialization models, issues, and challenges. In the
end, all peoples must help children meet similar developmental tasks, and all peo-
ples (presumably) wish physical health, social adjustment, educational achievement,
and economic security for their children, and so they parent in some manifestly sim-
ilar ways. Furthermore, the mechanisms through which parents likely affect children
are universal. For example, social learning theorists have identified the pervasive roles
that conditioning and modeling play as children acquire associations that subsequently
form the basis for their culturally constructed selves. By watching or listening to oth-
ers who are already embedded in the culture, children come to think and act like them.
Attachment theorists propose that children everywhere develop internal working mod-
els of social relationships through interactions with their primary caregivers and that
these models shape childrens future social relationships with others throughout the
balance of the life course (Sroufe & Fleeson, 1986). With so much emphasis on identifi-
cation of differences among peoples, it is easy to forget that nearly all parents regardless
of culture seek to lead happy, healthy, fulfilled parenthoods and to rear happy, healthy,
fulfilled children.
leads to positive outcomes in African American and Hong Kong Chinese school chil-
dren (Leung, Lau, & Lam, 1998). When different parenting cognitions or practices serve
different functions in different settings, it is evidence for cultural specificity. Many dif-
ferent parenting practices appear to be adaptive but differently for different cultural
groups (Ogbu, 1993). Thus, cultural study informs not only about quantitative aspects
but also about qualitative meaning of parents beliefs and behaviors.
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It is imperative to learn more about parenting and culture so that scientists, educators,
and practitioners can effectively enhance parent and child development and strengthen
families in diverse social groups. Insofar as some systematic universal relations obtain
between how people parent and how children develop, the possibility exists for identify-
ing some best practices in how to promote positive parenting and child development.
Differences attached to the cultural meanings of particular behaviors can cause prob-
lems, however. For example, immigrant children may have parents who expect them to
behave in one way that is encouraged at home (e.g., averting eye contact to show defer-
ence and respect) but then find themselves in a context where adults of the mainstream
culture attach a different (often negative) meaning to the same behavior (e.g., appearing
disinterested and unengaged with a teacher at school).
Other possible future directions for a cultural parenting science would consti-
tute a long agendum. Some will be procedural. Many studies rely on self-reports,
and many survey parenting at only one point in time. Observations of actual prac-
tices constitute a vital complementary data base (Bornstein, Cote, & Venuti, 2001),
and a developmental perspective offers insights into temporal processes of encul-
turation, parents tracking differential ontogenetic trajectories, and highlights inter-
generational similarities and differences in parents and children from different cul-
tures (Bornstein et al., 2010). Parenting modifies social and cognitive aspects of the
developing individual and so the design of the brain. For example, assistance con-
stitutes an important feature of family relationships for adolescents but has distinc-
tive values in Latino and European heritage cultures. Youth in both ethnic groups
show similar behavioral levels of helping but, via functional magnetic resonance
imaging (fMRI), different patterns of neural activity within the mesolimbic reward
system: Latinos show more activity when contributing to family, and European
Americans show more activity when gaining cash for themselves (Telzer, Masten,
Berkman, Lieberman, & Fuligni, 2010). A future behavioral neuroscience of parent-
ing will profitably include cultural variation (Barrett & Fleming, 2011; Bornstein,
2012).
Parenting is thought to differ in mothers and fathers (and for girls and boys), but
most parenting research still focuses on mothers. In many cultures, children spend large
amounts of time with caregivers other than parents, and all contribute to the caregiving
environment of the child. How caregiving is distributed amongst different stakeholders
across cultures is not well understood, and future cultural research in parenting will
benefit from an enlarged family systems perspective (Bornstein & Sawyer, 2006).
Thinking about parentchild relationships often highlights parents as agents of
socialization; however, caregiving is a two-way street. Parent and child activities are
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CONCLUSIONS
generation in their cultures, can live on, intact, long after their genes dissolve in the
common pool.
Marc H. Bornstein, Child and Family Research, Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute
of Child Health and Human Development, Suite 8030, 6705 Rockledge Drive, Bethesda
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Research supported by the Intramural Research Program of the NIH, NICHD. I thank
P. Horn and C. Padilla.
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