Hieros Gamos PDF
Hieros Gamos PDF
Hieros Gamos PDF
by
KERRI RYAN
November 2008
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CONTENTS
Abstract ............................................................................................................................................4
Statement of Sources ........................................................................................................................5
CHAPTER 1.....................................................................................................................................6
Introduction ..................................................................................................................................6
Hieros gamos............................................................................................................................7
The Sacred Prostitute ...............................................................................................................8
Sacred sexuality past and present...........................................................................................10
Sacred sex for sale..................................................................................................................12
My personal journey...............................................................................................................13
CHAPTER 2...................................................................................................................................15
Evidence of Goddess based societies .........................................................................................15
The sacred feminine the eternal archetype ..............................................................................17
Embodying the sacred ............................................................................................................19
Sexual Revolution ..................................................................................................................21
Birth of a new religious movement ............................................................................................23
New Age Movement ..............................................................................................................23
Feminist / Goddess spirituality movement.............................................................................24
Influence of Witchcraft, Paganism and Magic.......................................................................25
CHAPTER 3...................................................................................................................................28
The Ancient ................................................................................................................................28
Inanna, Queen of Heaven, ancient Sumer ..............................................................................28
The Mystical Teaching of Tantra ...........................................................................................31
The Devadasis ........................................................................................................................32
Eleusinian Mysteries ..............................................................................................................34
Sacred Marriage in other cultures ..........................................................................................35
The Modern ................................................................................................................................37
The Goddess and the Great Rite.............................................................................................37
CHAPTER 3...................................................................................................................................39
Methodology ..................................................................................................................................39
Narrative Inquiry benefits and limitations .................................................................................39
Feminist Method ........................................................................................................................40
Situating myself......................................................................................................................41
The participants ......................................................................................................................42
CHAPTER 4...................................................................................................................................45
The modern day sacred prostitute ..................................................................................................45
Introduction ............................................................................................................................45
A sacred calling from the past....................................................................................................47
Sacred sex rituals........................................................................................................................49
More than a calling.....................................................................................................................51
Summary ................................................................................................................................53
CHAPTER 5...................................................................................................................................55
Analysis ......................................................................................................................................55
Introduction ............................................................................................................................55
Hieros Gamos .........................................................................................................................55
This thesis will examine the re-emerging interest in modern western society with the practice
of sacred sexuality, what it is, who are the practitioners, and what services are being offered.
Historical research of Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage rituals that occurred in the Goddess
religions of the past and elsewhere, provide the basis from which I compare and contrast what
influence those practices had (if any) on attitudes, values and behaviours of contemporary
practitioners of sacred sexuality. Using an ethnographic study of five women who I deem to
be modern day sacred prostitutes I explore their personal stories, discussing the services they
provide, their attitudes and relationship to sacred sex in a contemporary milieu
Signed:
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Kerri Ryan
University of Queensland 2008
Introduction
This research investigates the topic of sacred sexuality which in broad terms describes the use of
sexual energy as a tool for achieving transcendent spiritual states. The roots of these practices
can be found in the Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage rituals of ancient religions that worshipped
the Goddess as well as numerous other pre-Christian cultures. The rituals and practices of the
ancient past are being repackaged and westernized for a contemporary market where an
experience of the sacred is again being offered through sex.
A main focus of this study is the role of the priestess as she existed in the ancient temples of the
Goddess, offering her body as a sacrament to those seeking spiritual union with the divine. Often
referred to by historians as sacred prostitute, these highly educated holy women, represent an
archetype from an era where sexual energy was revered. Through the ritual act of sex, one could
experience the divinity of the Goddess herself, through the living embodiment of the priestess.
Many ancient Eastern religious traditions embraced sexuality as can be found in the tantric
teachings of Hinduism, Buddhism and Taoism. Sacred sexuality was also employed by the
Greeks and Romans in their mystery religions and the power of sexual energy has long been
utilised in Pagan, Wiccan and magic rituals. What appears to have been common in the pre-
Christian world as a means of accessing the numinous, is re-emerging into 21st century western
consciousness.
As I investigate a contemporary expression of sacred sexuality and the women who are offering
their services, my contention is that the modern Australian practitioner is drawing on a
reimagining of ancient rites and practices of various cultural traditions, and is finding an affinity
with the archetype of the sacred prostitute and succor in the burgeoning new religious movement
(NRM) known as feminist or Goddess spirituality.
Using the ceremonies associated with Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage that occurred in the
ancient Goddess temples and other pre-Christian cultures, I will compare and contrast what
In providing an ethnographic examination of five women who are currently practising as modern
day sacred prostitutes, I aim to identify their relationship to the sacred, their affiliations with the
feminist or Goddess spirituality movement, and their reasons and desire to work with sacred
sexuality.
My journey into the past has been vital to understanding and appreciating modern western
societys current resurgence of interest into sacred sexual practices. By investigating both the
ancient and the modern, this research will explore the question: How is sacred sexuality
manifesting in the current western milieu and what is the emerging role of the modern day sacred
prostitute?
Hieros gamos
It was in researching the Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage rituals performed in the ancient
Goddess temples that initiated my desire to locate the modern day women (and men)1 who call
themselves sacred prostitutes or who engage in offering sacred sexual services. The term Hieros
Gamos comes from the Greek whose etymology translates as hieros holy and gamos
marriage or coupling. The Concise Encyclopedia Britannica (accessed online) gives this
definition:
Sexual relations of fertility deities enacted in myths and rituals, characteristic of societies
based on cereal agriculture (e.g., Mesopotamia, Phoenicia, and Canaan). At least once a
year, people dressed as gods engaged in sexual intercourse to guarantee the fertility of the
land. The festival began with a procession to the marriage celebration, which was
followed by an exchange of gifts, a purification rite, the wedding feast, preparation of the
wedding chamber, and a secret nocturnal act of intercourse.
In ancient Mesopotamia, the lands known as Sumeria, Assyria and Babylon, from the 4th
millennium BCE, the people worshiped the great Goddess Innana, Queen of the Heavens and the
Earth. Here, the High Piestess of Inanna would unite with or marry the King of the land who
represented the young, virile vegetation God, in a public sexual ceremony that not only
1
While there are definitely men involved in modern day practices of sacred sexuality, for the purposes of this paper,
I will focus my research and interviews solely on women practitioners.
This ritual has been historically reconstructed mainly from Sumerian poetry which describes the
love between the Goddess Inanna and the God Dumuzi, but similar rituals were common in the
ancient Near East including Syria, Canaan and the southern Levant (Nissinen and Uro 2008).
Within the ritual sacred marriage, the High Priestess of the temple became the earthly
embodiment of the Goddess herself, joining with the masculine in the form of the King. This
represented the joining of the elements of earth and spirit to create a holy sacred union. Here,
sexuality was experienced as a pathway to the divine.
The priestesses who performed these rituals have been called sacred prostitutes because within
ritual space, they offered their bodies to men who wished to experience the sacred feminine
aspects of the Goddess. In contemporary writings of their time, these holy women, known as
Hierodule, Qadishtu or Heterae (Stone 1976) were held in the highest esteem. Whether in the
temples of Aphrodite, Astarte, Ishtar or Inanna, men could find an experience of the Goddess in
the body of a highly trained priestess and offer a payment for the privilege.
The temples of the Goddess have been home to the sacred prostitute for more millennium than
history records. The story of the legendary King Gilgamesh dates back to 7000BCE (Starbird
2005) and explains how the sacred prostitute tamed the hairy beast who was sent to rob the King,
turning him into a civilized companion through the act of sex. The Greek historian Herodotus
writes in the 3rd century BCE of the Babylonian custom that compels every woman of the land
once in her life to sit in the temple of the Goddess of love and have intercourse with a stranger
who must provide a payment for the temple. The practice is recorded to have taken place in
Egypt, Lebanon, Greece and Rome and the commonly known vestal virgin was not a virgin at all,
but rather she devoted her life to becoming a bride in the sacred marriage rituals in the temples
Fully and joyously sexual, Aphrodite remains virgin in that her sexuality is unbridled,
untamed and her own. Though married, she is neither submissive nor faithful Though
she is a mother, her child Eros is but a reflection of her sexuality.
What Christ is elaborating on is that Aphrodite, as Goddess of love and sexuality, is owned by no
man. She may be married but her archetype represents ownership of her own body, her own
choices and her own sexuality.
The term sacred prostitute is a mistranslation of Qadishtu or Hierodule which means holy woman
and is compelling because it evokes a clash of images sacred and profane, spiritual and sexual
all at once (Hutchins 1998:2). Whilst we know the role played by the sacred prostitute,
evidenced historically in the Hieros Gamos rituals of ancient Sumer, we have little detail of the
training undergone and the full extent of the role embodied by a priestess who engaged in sacred
sexual rituals. Was she a healer, teacher, therapist and spiritual guide? We cant know, but
Stubbs (1994) uses those qualities when he describes the modern day sacred prostitute who he
sees using her body in the role of sexual teacher, healer and initiator of transcendent sexual
experiences. Stubbs (1994:17) writes:
They are teachers of the heart, visionaries who step outside of constrictive, traditional
beliefs, using their bodies as their temples to which they invite others. Their purpose is to
support a deeper discovery of the spiritual flame that burns within us all. Sexual energy,
in a broad sense, is this flame.
While Stubbs speaks of the women who are drawn to the healing and teaching aspects of this
work, Gilmores research (1998) investigates sex workers who see themselves as contemporary
sacred prostitutes, emerging at the crossroad of a movement of womens spirituality and sex
workers rights, who find spiritual empowerment through relating to the temple priestesses of the
past. Gilmore (1998) states that in the U.S. and elsewhere, there are a growing number of
Goddess worshippers within the sex industry who are attempting to heal the split between the
profane and the sacred. They have created an identity by relating to the ancient mythology of the
temple priestesses who made love to men as a holy rite and spiritual service. She sees these
I now explore what is defined by the term sacred sex and examine the background and manifold
traditions that contribute to its current manifestation.
Sacred sexuality crosses many cultural boundaries and has existed not only in ancient societies
but occurred within Greek and Roman polytheistic cultures, in Hinduism, Buddhism and
Judaism. It can even be found in Christianity in the sacred marriage ritual of the bridal chamber
where Christ as Spirit kisses Mary as Matter so as to unify the material and the spiritual worlds as
one. Aspects of ancient fertility rituals are being re-enacted even today in the form of Beltane or
May Day celebrations. Here Morris Dancers perform while young ribbon toting women conduct
a fertility dance around a symbolic phallic pole, representing the joining of the masculine with
the feminine and celebrating the fecundity and regeneration of the coming summer season.
In attempting to define the term sacred sex in a modern western context, we are faced with a
variety of different practices, sourced from a diversity of cultural and religious backgrounds.
Sacred sex has gained considerable attention in the west over the last two decades as a catch-all
phrase encompassing practices and disciplines from western and eastern traditions and
philosophies that draw on teachings of Tantra, Taoism, yoga, Goddess spirituality, Neo-Pagan,
Wicca and shamanism (Albury 2001). Hutchins (1998:1) describes the US sacred sexuality
traditions as having influences ranging from Eastern to Native American, from European earth-
based and occultist forms to Afro-Caribbean.
Hutchins (1998:1) provides a definition of sacred sex, describing it as a set of beliefs and
practices which seek to heal the split between the mind and body, the erotic and the religious, and
to bring them together through daily practices and ritual experiences. Rabbi Schachter-Schalomi
(2001) sees sacred sex as:
an experience of ecstasy and love an overwhelming reverence for all embodied life
on whatever level of existence recovering our authentic being, which knows bliss
Berger (1974:2) says it is embodied in sub-cultural religious movements and sects, most of
oriental inspiration, diffused through upper-middle-class culture, which has become the ideology
of the sexual revolution.
Many of the modern sacred sexual practices employ aspects of Tantra in their teachings. My
research has shown that Tantra is a term often bandied around by advertisers who use it to
describe multiple practices that have no connection with the religious Tantric teachings of
Hinduism or Buddhism. Traditional Tantra refers to a specific set of beliefs and practices such as
meditation and breathing exercises intended to develop enlightened spiritual qualities and to
awaken pathways to the divine by arousing and harnessing energy within the body. It is unique
among religious beliefs and esoteric or spiritual practices in that it does not repress or ignore the
sexual nature, but fully embraces it. Tantra honours sexual energy and the sacred union of male
and female as a pathway to the divine, but its focus has nothing to do with intercourse. Modern
western Tantra takes aspects of these ancient teachings and uses them to aid couples or singles to
enhance their sexuality and lovemaking skills, and to heal relationship issues.
Whilst Albury (2001) speaks of the Tantric traditions which are generally recognized as
influencing modern sacred sexual practices, she explains that what many teachers or practitioners
utilise, are techniques that broadly aim to accumulate, store and focus sexual energy. What is
sexual energy? We all have sexual energy. It is simply our life force, found as easily as taking in
a breath. In eastern traditions this life force is know as prana, chi or ki. Prana is the Indian
terminology, Chi is the Chinese, and the Japanese use Ki. All refer to the same vital life force
energy that enters the body through the breath and circulates as an electrical energy or current.
Sexual energy, also known as kundalini in the Hindu tradition, is perceived of as laying dormant
and wrapped around the base of the spine like a coiled serpent. When harnessed through
meditation, yoga, dance or visualization practices, the kundalini can be transformed into high
potency chi or prana which not only energetically enhances the body, but can also cultivate
higher spiritual experiences. Albury (2001:208) explains that in sacred sexual practices, this life
force energy can be used in:
Many of the practices used to enhance and manipulate life force energy into achieving an
enlightened sexual experience, are focused on what Chia and Chia (in Albury 1996:41) describe
as:
having an inward orgasm where the orgasm actually travels through all the organs,
glands and nervous system, thrilling and revitalizing them with the life-force of sexual,
creative and regenerative energy.
Having defined what sacred sex is from its roots in multiple cultural and religious traditions,
through to how modern western practitioners are interpreting that information, I now turn to the
market place and explore how advertisers present their services to contemporary consumers.
As described above, the 21st century western experience of sacred sexuality can take many forms
and sacred sexual practitioners today are more likely to be seen as teachers, healers, therapists or
tantrikas (teachers of Tantra). Sacred sex does not necessarily require a physical sexual exchange
between two or more people either. In the modern context, sacred sex becomes a catch all term
that can incorporate aspects of dance, massage, Tantra, sex magic, Wiccan or shamanic rituals,
workshops, ritual drug taking, therapy, surrogates and indeed prostitutes. This is borne out in the
array of advertisements currently to be found in new age or spiritual magazines.
Three spiritual magazines I viewed in the month of June 2008 (Inner Self, Nova and Insight
magazine), all contained articles or advertisements on sexuality. Inner Self devoted a full page to
articles on The Healing Power of Sex and Keeping Sexual Desire Alive together with a
quarter page ad for Tantric Blossoming workshops for individuals and couples to transform
their sexual experience. Insight carried a three page article on Sacred Sex Tantra in the
Modern Age, with Nova offering six different advertisements for tantric and sacred sexual
workshops, massages, dance, CDs, books and teacher training. Following links to the Oztantra
My own experience and background is relevant to this exploration and I outline my personal
involvement and interest in the subject matter below.
My personal journey
The Goddess Spirituality movement (which I will explore more fully) has interested me from the
sidelines for up to fifteen years. My disenchantment with patriarchal religions in which I found
scant reference to the feminine, has seen me seek alternative expressions of the divine, immersing
myself in the manifold expressions of the new age movement throughout the 1990s.
For me, that involves finding meaning in a relationship with the sacred as it manifests in nature,
in other individuals and in God, Goddess, All That Is, rather than in doctrine or dogmatic belief
systems as set down by any one distinct religious practice. It also allows me to find the divinity
inherent within myself and heal the separation between body and spirit.
My own search for meaning saw me become a massage therapist, Reiki Master, cranio sacral
practitioner and indulger in numerous other healing therapies, but the Goddess remained an
underlying theme throughout, representing the divine feminine principle that had been missing in
my conventional Christian upbringing. It was in 2006, in conjunction with my Masters studies
that I joined an Order of Goddess women called the Pomegranate Grove. There I underwent the
teachings of Goddess Lore to become an initiated priestess of the Order on the Summer Solstice,
December 2007. I am now studying for my second level initiation and have become active
within the Order, dedicating myself to journey with the Goddess Inanna this year, and as the
Promotions Officer, am editor of the organisations newsletter.
2
http://www.oztantra.com/ (accessed 27.06.09)
3
http://www.tantragoddessdirectory.com/index.htm (accessed 13.08.09)
Soon after completion of my training I travelled to India, spending time in an Ashram cultivating
meditation techniques and working with kundalini energy. On returning to Australia, I have
taught kundalini dance workshops for three years, and have a theoretical, practical and personal
understanding of this powerful sexual energy and the transcendent spiritual states able to be
reached when employing techniques that raise this energy.
As a priestess of Goddess, kundalini dance facilitator and spiritual journeyer for more than 15
years, my background informs this work and provides an insider understanding to the research I
undertake and the women I interview.
The next chapter looks at the evidence of matriarchal societies which worshipped the Goddess
and discusses the way sexuality was viewed as evidenced through the archaeological discoveries
of Goddess imagery. It examines how the patriarchy which superseded worship of the Goddess,
created a schism between women, their bodies and sexuality as sacred.
The sexual revolution of the 1960s witnessed a social and cultural upheaval from which was
birthed the new religious movement known as the new age. This was later to give rise to the
feminist spirituality or Goddess Spiritual movement which itself was influenced by the rise of
interest in Witchcraft and Pagan practices.
In the beginning, people prayed to the Creatress of Life. At the very dawn of religion,
god was a woman. Do you remember?
Merlin Stone (cited in Christ 1997:50)
As more scholarly research is compiled and more interest given to the view that our primitive
societies were female centred, the rediscovery of the Goddess has provoked a new
reconsideration of the roles of women in the origin and history of the earliest religions. The
oldest images of the Goddess come to us from the Old Stone Age (c. 32,000 -10,000 BCE), small
carved female statues and reliefs, full of figure and usually unclothed including the Goddess of
Willendorf, Lespugue and Laussel (Christ 1997). Feminist scholarship has challenged the
popular view of early man as a savage club toting, hunter gatherer. Christ (1997) suggests that
women probably contributed to 80% of the food supply, playing a primary role in all cultural
activities. The small statues found from this period were round and hand held and probably
represented the status of women as birth givers, food providers and the essential religious
element of creation.
Cynthia Eller (1993) in Living in the Lap of the Goddess proffers the view that human society
from our earliest archaeological records to the rise of patriarchy in circa 3000 BCE was
matriarchal or Goddess worshipping. She claims these matristic, matrifocal or gynocentric
cultures emphasize the central role as female, reflecting a predominance of feminine values with
women responsible for the invention of agriculture, language, mathematics, medicine etc, with
the central deity worshipped being the Goddess in her myriad forms.
Stone (1979) in her work When God was a Woman examined numerous Goddess worshipping
cultures and cited the works of various academics such as James Frazer, Saggs and Seltman who
all formed the opinion that the dominant culture of the period always worshipped a deity of their
While modern western society is familiar with the depiction of God as a white male, it would be
incorrect to imagine Goddess as a direct feminine reinterpretation of God. It is more correct to
understand Goddess as alluding to a pantheon of different names and images, and the Goddess
could just as easily be a mountain or a river. In this multiplicity of representations of the
Goddess, Mantin (2004) offers the view that predating patriarchy, the Great Mother Goddess was
seen as the sacred made imminent in the natural world, expressed in the diversity of all forms of
life and death, in alignment with the cycles and seasons of the earth that her body is nature.
Likewise, Goodison (1992) does not view these societies as being the inverse of patriarchy with a
monotheistic Mother Goddess at the helm reigning over men, rather she sees a concurrence that
did not split the sexes, but rather men and women living harmoniously.
Here Eisler (1996) in Sacred Pleasure supports Goodisons views that Goddess worshipping
settlements produced a lack of archeological evidence of fortifications or weaponry with no
scenes of men killing each other in heroic battle. Eisler (citing Gimbutas 1982) writes that from
burial artifacts it appears that while women held more important religious roles, there is no
evidence that women played the oppressor role over men. Instead, what Gimbutas (1982) adds is
that the archaeological evidence supports or seems to support the theory that these prehistoric
societies were based on matrilineal kinship lines which suggests a female focused society as
opposed to a male dominated society.
It is important to note that what Graham Harvey (1996) in Contemporary Paganisms refers to as
gylany an egalitarian, woman respecting society, imaged and perceived to be female, with an
absence of war and male dominance, can easily become a romanticized version of a golden age or
utopian civilization that bears no resemblance to fact. So while the evidence points to the
existence of matriarchal societies, we have no knowledge of societal relations within them nor
that they represented some idealized version of feminine authority.
Indeed, while the historical evidence for the existence of such societies is primarily
archaeological and mythological with an abundance of huge breasted and hipped figurines of
So whilst there is debate about the exact nature of the Neolithic and prehistoric societies who left
behind artifacts of the female image across many cultures and eras, numerous scholars do believe
these finds show evidence of worship of a female deity, a Goddess based society that revered the
feminine, and where women held at least an equal balance of power. It is to this evidence of
Goddess based societies that I now turn, to examine the female body as it was depicted erotically
and spiritually and to trace how the physical body, so revered by the Goddess, became an object
of derision by the Gods.
Whether made from bone or shell, stone or pottery, the figures may be
depicted naked or wearing a skirt, could be pregnant, highly stylized or
basically round, but common to most is the clear portrayal of their sex
and reproductive function. Sometimes the slit or hole of the vagina is
clearly defined and sometimes the inverted pubic triangle is dominant
Fig 2 Goddess of Laussel (Goodison 1992). Often huge breasts and belly dominate the figure
hiding arms and legs which seem unimportant by contrast. What is unmistakable though is the
emphasis placed on the sexuality and fertility of these female figures.
These images very strongly indicate that the original creative source of life on earth was seen not
as a divine father, but as a divine mother. From her body sprung forth new life. In Goddess
worshipping societies, the creative sexual power resident in the body of woman was revered
because it could be seen and experienced, just as her menstrual cycles in alignment with that of
the moon, sun and seasons were all seen as wondrous manifestations of the creative and life-
giving powers of the universe. The male body didnt behave in the same way and its capacity to
be seen as fertile and life-giving didnt hold the same sacred value.
Goodison (1992:295) asks the question But are these figures actually representations of a
Goddess and does it evidence a Goddess religion and matriarchal society? She answers by
stating that some historians discount these figures in various ways, either treating the objects as
secular or primitive engaged in superstitious practices, or that they are cultic expressions of
fertility and nature worship, but hold no religious significance.
4
Figure 1 at http://www.edu.pe.ca/rural/class_webs/art/image_file.htm
5
Figure 2 at http://www.aztriad.com/laussel.html
Whilst Stone (1976) explains the difficulty for male scholars in the past to identify with
widespread matriarchal societies pre-Christianity, Eisler (1996) comments, that these images are
representations of the Goddess gifts of fertility, love and sexual pleasure. Here the female body
and her sexuality are worshipped as sacred, which is in blatant contrast to patriarchy which would
supersede her authority in the coming Bronze Age.
Within patriarchal religions, we find divinity vested in a masculine God. That God is also
transcendent, meaning he has no physical body to worship, his sacrality lives in an idea, a
concept of the mind. With all power, authority and divinity afforded to the masculine, many
women are finding a direct link between the feminine, the earth, their bodies and a refiguration of
the sacred as espoused in Goddess spirituality (Mantin 2004). Saiving (1992:25) explains that we
are left with a patriarchal legacy of the masculine God of Judaism and Christianity, who sees the
irrelevance of the body, sexuality and even the planet itself as an expression of dominance and
control over the natural world. She explains:
In a creation myth with a self-fulfilling God who acts alone, he creates a world-destroying
rather than GAIA-sustaining ethos that sees us dis-creating ourselves.
Radford Ruether (1992) describes patriarchal religions as world-negating religions that alienate
the mind from the body, with domination and rejection of nature by spirit. She sees the following
equation:
Plaskow and Christ (1989) explain that Christians (and other patriarchal religions) have
traditionally been taught that God created the universe out of nothing, and residing in heaven,
rules over the earth as a masculine King. By associating God with transcendence this describes
his spiritual state of non-body as unable to be corrupted by physical humanity and nature. The
mind is said to rule over the passions of the body and humans to rule over brutish nature. As
described earlier, woman and their bodies are then viewed as the source of sin, (as depicted in the
creation myth of Adam and Eve) with her sexuality tempting man away from God as higher mind
and spirit, into the passions of his lower physical sexual nature.
Likewise, Radford Ruether (1992) associates the beliefs of Christianity with the views of
Platonism which explains the ascendency of the intellect (masculine) over the physical body.
Here, she describes salvation as only being achieved in a purely spiritual realm. Body only
sullies the purity of spiritual intellectualism. This mind-body dualism which supports the idea of
mind as superior to body and masculine as superior to feminine, has not only oppressed women
because of their identification with body and sexuality, but has fostered a philosophy that
denigrates physical existence itself and supports abuse of the planet, its flora and fauna
(Goldenberg 1989).
This recontextualising of the female body as sacred is what I refer to as the divine feminine
womens bodies revered as a vessel to embody the essence of the Goddess, as she has manifested
eternally through nature, body, spirit. It is this intrinsic link between body, sexuality and the
sacred that informs this research.
Sexual Revolution
Whilst this research does not chart the changing attitudes towards sexuality that have evolved
since the decline of the sacred feminine through the rise of patriarchy, the 20th century did see
radical social change occur across western culture in Europe and the United States bringing with
it vastly more liberal attitudes towards sex .
The sexual revolution of the 1960s was significant in that it emerged out of a legacy of the
Victorian era of prudery in Great Britain of the late 1800s which saw repressiveness and
imbalanced gender roles that judged any sexual relations outside of marriage as sinful or
pornographic. These attitudes were largely attributed to the puritanical Protestant religion which
dominated Great Britain throughout much of the nineteenth century (Moore 2008). Foucault
(1990 1:4) comments on that era, saying the only places where non-procreative models of
sexuality were even tolerated were the brothels, and the madhouse. From this heritage of
austerity, a sexual revolution emerged, that would forever change the western worlds behaviour
and attitudes towards sex.
The invention of the pill was a huge contributing factor to the sexual revolution of the 1960a
which turned into a much larger social revolt against the conservatism of the period. This wider
Underpinning the radical changes in sexual attitudes that accompanied the arrival of the pill, was
the sexual research conducted in the first half of the 20th century by academics such as Krafft-
Ebing, Sigmund Freud and Alfred Kinsey (Weeks, Holland & Waites 2003). 1948 saw the
delivery of the Kinsey Report, a nine year study of human sexuality which opened the publics
minds to the diversity of sexual behaviour. Homosexuality became a much discussed topic, with
results from the Kinsey report indicating that 10% of the population was gay. Masters and
Johnsons clinical studies of the human sexual response opened the way for discussion on vaginal
orgasms and pre-come (Garton 2004), and Shere Hite (somewhat later in the 1970s) delivered her
Hite Report being a study on the female sexual response. But the single most sexually liberating
discovery for women became the contraceptive pill. This, together with other forms of birth
control like the IUD and spermicidal creams, allowed women to have sex without concern of
pregnancy, forever liberating attitudes and behaviour towards sex.
In late modern western culture, where contemporary society has a preoccupation with sexual
practices, identities and values, new forms of sexual experience such as online pornography and
phone sex are constantly emerging. The apparent breakdown of rules and regulations designed to
keep the obscene at bay has created an era where sex and access to it, plays an ever increasing
role in the lives of individuals (Attwood 2006 citing Plummer 1995). Attwood comments on how
sexual discourse is changing and how values and practices in the 21st century are characterized by
more permissive attitudes to sex despite the risk of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.
A huge increase in commercial sex services are available, from escort agencies to lap dancing
clubs and overseas sex tours, promoting a recreational model of sexual behaviour that offers the
erotic as a highly individualized form of hedonism through episodic and uncommitted
encounters. It seems that while sex is increasingly available to a consumer market, there is a
distinct lack of need to form intimate or traditional relationships and no love or emotional input is
required in the exchange. For many individuals, where sexuality has customarily gone hand in
As a backlash to the commodification of sex, there is an identified trend that people are
experiencing stress surrounding performance and point to an increase in media depictions of
sexual violence as the cause. Hutchins (1998) in response to this trend comments The current
interest in sacred sexuality represents a great hunger in our culture, part of a larger effort towards
mind/body healing Adherents of contemporary sacred sex like to emphasise practices which
include whole-body sensuality, gentle prolonged touching, deep breathing and visualizing oneself
and ones lover as divine. From an investigation of matriarchal societies where I posit that
sexuality and the body were held in high religious significance, we are experiencing modern
western 21st century culture where sexuality is devoid of any spiritual context and indeed
embraces the profane.
I now turn to discuss the New Age Movement and the Feminist / Goddess spirituality movement
both which emerged from the social upheaval of the 1960s, challenging conservative views on
religion and sexuality, and both important in laying the groundwork for the re-emergence of
sacred sexuality and its manifestation in the current western milieu.
The term New Age Movement derives from the 1970s and describes a spiritual revolution
associated with the Age of Aquarius and the legacy of the 1960s where societal attitudes and
norms were all challenged (Possamai 2005). Comprised of widely diverse individual beliefs and
practices, often drawn from eastern philosophy, the term has come to describe those who are
committed to an inner spiritual quest and a search for meaning (Heelas 1996). While Heelas
argues that the new age and new religious movements do not represent a rejection of modernity,
they do represent a powerful affirmation of the individuals right to free will, individualism and a
celebration of the self and rather, a sacralisation of modernity.
Not only did the 1960s birth a sexual revolution that aided in the revisioning of many societal
constructs, it was also an era that changed the way women viewed their power, their bodies and
sexuality. A new era of feminism emerged, embellishing the hard won gains of the suffragette
movement of the late 19th century and growing into the Womens Liberation Movement. As
women experienced a new found independence with their bodies, they also discovered a new
spirituality, one which sourced divinity in a female God.
In tracing the roots of Feminist / Goddess spirituality, feminist scholars see this movement as an
off-shoot of the wider Womens Liberation Movement of North America and Western Europe,
where women had become disenfranchised and alienated with what they perceived as an absence
of the feminine within Judeo-Christian religious discourse (Christ & Plaskow 1979, Radford
Reuther 1971). Wanting to reclaim their lost female cultural and religious agency, women sought
to discover evidence of a lost matriarchy or Goddess worshiping society, which was largely made
possible by the growing availability of information on the subject (Dufresne 2004). These works
were then reinterpreted by western feminists as evidence of a matrifocal, gynocentric culture
espousing life-loving, peaceful and gender equal qualities (Dufresne 2004, Stone 1979, Eller
1991).
Griffin (1995) speaks of the early roots of the Goddess movement recalling in 1972 in Los
Angeles, the first coven of feminist witches that practised Witchcraft as a religion, meeting under
the tutelage of Zsuzsanna Budapest. Within a few years, several hundred women were gathering
to celebrate their revisioning of female divinity through ritual practise. Griffins research
Two figures which emerge into the first half of the twentieth century which had a profound effect
on modern magic and the practice of Witchcraft are the occultist Aleister Crowley (1875-1947)
and Gerald Gardner (1884 1964). Crowley is more commonly known for his interests in ritual
sex magic and gained the title of the most wicked man in the world, often called the Beast.
Gardner claimed to have been initiated into a witches coven in the 1930s and is thought to be
responsible for the revival of what we know today as the modern practice of Wicca or Neo-
Paganism. He claims to have been initiated by a witch known as Old Dorothy who represented
a lineage of authentic witches who could trace their roots back to pre-Christianity (Urban 2006).
Whilst the British public up to the 1950s were not quick to accept the concepts of Wiccan
Paganism with its inherent references to a Christianised concept of devil worship, by the 1960s
many covens had been established across England and a proliferation of scholarly texts
investigating the crafts teachings and principles had begun to do much to de-demonize the
movement (Hutton 1999). Amongst these, was the works of Robert Graves and his White
Goddess (1948) whose particular writings examined Goddess mythology as a prototype religion,
analyzing it largely from literary evidence, in myth and poetry.
It was the United States in the 1970s that became the centre for modern Paganism and Witchcraft,
which energy became channeled into a different phenomenon - the rise of the womens
spirituality movement (Hutton 1999). As a witch was seen as a modern representation of
independent female power, this image was adopted in the United States to become the main
source of modern feminist thought and power. Two feminist writers of that era, Barbara
Ehrenreich and Deirdre English who published Witches, Midwives and Nurses in 1972, put
forward that some nine million women were killed in the witch trials across Europe and America
from the 14th to 17th centuries, contending that these women had been the healers, midwives and
holders of knowledge pertaining to natural medicine and earth wisdom. They believe their
destruction had been a desecration of female power and knowledge. (These figures of 9 million
deaths are said to have been wildly inflated and contemporary research now suggests figures
more like 60,000 witches died [Jones 2002]). Daly (1973) added that the over-throw of
prehistoric women-centre cultures had been the beginning of all the worlds ills, calling all
women to rediscover their true self in the image of the Goddess. By 1978 the first battle of the
feminist revolution had begun with its inherent belief in the supremacy of a female Goddess and
that Witchcraft was the vessel which had preserved the remnants of Goddess-centred religion
with the sacred status of women in tact (Hutton 1999). After all, Witchcraft in essence is an
earth-based or nature religion and the Great Goddess is its principal deity (Drury 1999).
Many individuals are drawn to earth-based spiritual traditions, to the celebration of the
seasonal cycles and the awakening of broader dimensions of consciousness, without an
analysis of the interplay of power and gender. But the feminist Craft has grown
enormously, including many men as well as women who are participating in many areas
of social and political struggle.
Hutton (1999) explains that Starhawk and Zsuzsanna Budbapest were the significant proponents
of feminist Witchcraft throughout the 1980s with the Goddess spirituality movement fully taking
root in the 1990s. This term became an umbrella that included the search for a prehistoric Great
Goddess who administered to ancient woman-centred cultures. It also came to represent a
movement aimed at recovering female spirituality, and by the late 1990s it signified the spiritual
power within women, whether they believed in actual deities or not. Goddess spirituality had
formed an identity that was greater than just Paganism or Witchcraft alone, it was a composite
that revered the feminine in all its manifestations and in all ages and parts of the world (Hutton
1999).
This next chapter investigates evidence of Hieros Gamos in Goddess worshipping cultures that
revered the sacred prostitute both in the ancient past and in a more modern context.
This chapter investigates the sacred marriage ritual of Hieros Gamos and how it existed in
different forms in different cultures of the ancient past as well as its more modern manifestations
in Wiccan and Pagan rituals. Here the sacred prostitute is depicted as the high priestess as she
becomes the physical conduit through which the spiritual is accessed.
The Ancient
Inanna, Queen of Heaven, ancient Sumer
The great and powerful civilization that once flourished in Mesopotamia around 4,000 to 2,000
BCE, now known as modern day Iraq, included the kingdoms of Sumeria, Akkadia, Assyria and
Babylonia. Samuel Noel Kramer (1983) the celebrated Sumeriologist, explains that Sumer was
the first great urban centre to emerge, and with it, the cuneiform or wedge shaped system of
writing on clay tablets that was Sumers greatest gift to modern civilisation.
The archaeological evidence of some 10,000 unearthed clay tablets brings to life the public rites
and rituals that dominated Sumerian religious practices. Central to this matriarchal religious cult
was the highly venerated Goddess Inanna/Ishtar, lunar Goddess of life and love, heaven and
earth, with her temple of attendant priestesses and priests, singers, musicians, castrates and
Hierodules (High priestesses) (Kramer 1983).
The New Year was the focus and centrepiece for the sacred sexual rite of Hieros Gamos or sacred
marriage which took place between the ruling King who married the Goddess Innana/Ishtar
amidst great celebration and feasting. Mann and Lyle (1995) explain that this rite took place
annually for thousands of years and had a profound influence on numerous later civilizations.
The New Year marriage celebrations took place at the time of the autumn equinox and heralded
the return of life when sexual reunion with the female deity made the fields and meadows
blossom once again. The King of the land would assume the mortal role of the dead vegetation
This Hieros Gamos ritual was such an important aspect of life that much was written in song and
hymn to attest to the greatness of the Goddess Inanna and her wealth of fecundity. It seems here
that the Goddess did hold the dominant authority over the masculine gender. Indeed emphasis is
placed on the greatness of the Goddesss regenerative powers with the King playing a secondary
role as consort to his Queen. Leick (1994:97) reviews one of the transcribed hymns to the
Goddess Inanna and makes reference to the status of the King which shows his secondary
authority:
She (Inanna) chooses the husband, continues her independence and has the greater divine
status. In fact, in most texts that refer to the relationship between King and Goddess in
marital terms, the King is said to be her consort, or her beloved husband, husband chosen
by Inannas heart, the selected husband and husband, ornament of the holy loins of
Inanna.
Whilst stated earlier by various authors that there is no evidence to suggest that matriarchal
societies demonstrated significant social power of women over men, there is documented
evidence in Sumer that the female divinity did in fact hold authority over the male King.
There are numerous Sumerian texts that dwell on Inannas love-life. They are collectively known
as the Bridal Songs and some feature Inanna preparing for her wedding. Some speak of the King
as her lover and others speak of Inanna as a professional lover. Below Leick (1994:91) quotes
one set of texts, in which Inanna rejoices in her vulva. She expresses her longing to be in the
presence of her beloved:
Reply:
She responds
These are quite explicit texts referring to the sex act itself and below is one of the most quoted
texts of the bridal songs, where Inanna calls out to her lover the shepherd King Dumuzi:
(Wolkstein & Kramer 1983:37)
These texts attest to the openness of sexuality expressed in the literature of the Goddess of the
time and paint a picture of how sexuality was viewed. The vulva is variously described in stages
of sexual excitement. The narrow curve of the new moon will be opened like a boat with its
mooring ropes. Inannas vulva is often called the holy lap and is used as an adjective that is
applied to numerous other deities, temples, places and artefacts and is usually translated as pure
or holy. The genitals are also associated with power and used apotropaically in magic rituals.
Inanna was said to have used her vulva and the power associated with it, to further the prestige
and divine status of her city. This attests to the countless figurines and terracotta models of
female nudes and vulva-shaped votive offerings have been found all over the ancient near East
representing the holy power of sexuality (Leick 1994).
In a similar era within another culture, teachings that recognized the power of sexual energy as a
universal creation theme were developed within the Hindu Vedas. Here all the elements common
to Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage are found in an entirely
different culture.
The central rite of the Tantric traditions is to create sexual union or maithuna to awaken the
kundalini or divine Shakti. The ancient Tantric texts that have survived place the emphasis on
the male, explaining that a man achieves union with the creative power of the Great Mother
through a womens body. By her sexual arousal and pleasure through non-ejaculation by the
man, prolonged and exquisite arousal of the kundalini generates a spiritual experience of ecstasy
for both (Eisler 1996). Tantric sex is intentionally designed for sexual pleasure and union, not for
procreation, with specific practices employed that allow the man to orgasm whilst retaining his
semen.
Ancient Tantric teachings were about awakening and raising kundalini energy to achieve spiritual
states of ecstasy either with a partner or solo. Whilst practitioners would often devote a lifetime
to these spiritual practices, modern western Tantra offers a hybrid of teachings often aimed at
having a better sexual experience rather than reaching nirvana. I will explore this topic further in
the next section.
The Devadasis
The term Devadasi originally described a Hindu religious practice in which girls were married to
a deity. Sir James Frazer (cited in Chakraborthy 2000) claims that this form of sacred
prostitution had origins in worshipping a great Mother Goddess who personified all the
reproductive energies of nature. The union of the divine mother performed in a sexual rite with
human agents, ensured the continued propagation of plants and animals and is another example of
Hieros Gamos. It is thought the practice came into existence around the second century CE
(Zaidi 2001).
Devidasis were a presence in traditional South India from the village to the major temples and
royal courts, which maintained large numbers of musicians and performers (dance is really too
restrictive a category). Not every Devadasi performed all of the arts, but taken together their
dancing, performing, singing, and playing of instrumental music ranged from temple ritual and
strict devotion, to seductive nautch dances, and satirical, comic numbers, even feats of gymnastic
The early 1800s saw the British enjoying the social entertainment and sexual services provided
by the Devadasi but by 1890 a fully fledged anti nautch (seductive dance) movement sprang up
fueled by the moralizing Christians and Indian reformers who targeted what they saw as corrupt
practices of prostitution and child marriages. An internal Indian reform movement that sided
with the British for a secularized state, began to expel the Devadasis from the temples into the
streets effectively making them beggars (Vijaisri 2005). As holy women, they were unable to
marry, and the arts for which they were famed were forgotten beside their new identity as
prostitutes.
By the 1920s and 1930s the South Indian social reform movement was unable to resist British
colonial intrusion and the issue of sacred prostitution became linked to Indias efforts for national
revitalisation. In 1934 the Devadasis Security Act was passed, banning the practice (Zaidi 2001).
Zoya Zaidi (2001) comments today of the banned practice that still flourishes in the poorer castes
of the untouchable (Dalit class) women, mainly in southern India. She calls it forced
institutionalised prostitution for women who have no rights. In one area of Southern India she
cites over 250,000 women who because of their Dalit caste, are forced into temple prostitution by
their uneducated families who dedicate their daughters in a religious act of appeasing the gods.
The sad case is that because of their dalit caste as untouchable, their options for employment as
labourers and even marriage are slim, and without begging and prostitution they are faced with
starvation.
While the young Devadasi were married to the temple in rites of Hieros Gamos from 2000CE,
the Hieros Gamos rituals performed in the Eleusinian Mysteries of the ancient Greeks occurred
from as early as 1700BCE.
In Ancient Greece the Eleusinian Mysteries were held at Eleusis in ancient Greece every year as
initiation ceremonies for the grain Goddess Demeter and her daughter Persephone (Kore). These
Mysteries and what occurred are still very much a mystery today, with the initiate threatened with
death if found to have breached the enforced silence. The Mysteries began approximately
1700BCE and lasted for two thousand years, where they later spread to Rome (Ouvaroff 2004).
Whilst there is much conjecture regarding what actually occurred within these rites, scholars have
pieced together fragments of information from the many paintings and pieces of pottery that
depict various aspects of the Mysteries. One belief about the Mysteries was that the initiation
was believed to unite the worshipper with the Gods, bestowing divine power and gaining rewards
in the afterlife. Another belief is that the Mysteries were intended "to elevate man above the
human sphere into the divine and to assure his redemption by making him a god and so
conferring immortality upon him (Nilsen 1947:42).
From what is understood of Hieros Gamos rituals, the sacred marriage is performed between a
mortal and a God or Goddess to confer sovereignty upon a King or Queen in order to ensure the
fertility of the land. Harline (2006) explains that Demeter was a grain-mother Goddess and her
daughter was stolen and raped by the God Hades who took her to become Queen of his
underworld. The myth explains the search by Demeter for her daughter who let the surface of the
earth die while she mourned her loss. Demeter petitioned Zeus to return her daughter to the
surface of the world, on the guarantee that she would once again bring life back to the land. Zeus
agreed and for six months Persephone would return to the surface, and the land would flourish
and for the other six months it would die. Here the elements of marriage by a mortal to a deity
are evident with the attendant outcome of fertility to the land ensured. If the Eleusinian
Mysteries included acts of sacred marriage, then the myth of Demeter and Persephone provides
all the symbolism necessary to accommodate this.
As Harline (2006) points out, what is actually known about the Eleusinian Mysteries comes from
a handful of quotes, mostly hostile Christian sources. Only the Greek poet Mesomedes could be
deemed friendly to Eleusis. Harline (2006) quotes Mesomedes who lists the various elements
that indicate an act of sacred marriage marriage underground, the birth of plants, the
Is there not the descent into darkness and the holy congress of the hierophant and the
priestess, of him alone and her alone? ...Are not the torches extinguished and does not the
vast assemblage believe that in what is done by the two in the darkness is their salvation?
The Mysteries performed in the name of Dionysus, the Greek God of wine, fertility, madness and
ecstasy, show the clearest form of sacred marriage that of the God to the ritual Queen of Athens
at the festival of Anthesteria: The feast of flowering, feast of the opening of the wine jars Harline
(2006). Here the union of Queen and God took place just after sun down. Images from a vase
painting show the Queen in a bygone act of sacred marriage to a bull, reminiscent of Minoan
Crete.
There are numerous works of art that point to acts of sacred marriage occurring within the
mystery rituals, and while there is no definitive evidence, there is much conjecture that ritual
Hieros Gamos was performed in the Eleusinian Mysteries.
James Frazer (1997) in his classic work the Golden Bough which was first published in 1922,
makes much of the sacred marriage ritual not only as it occurred in ancient Greece and Rome,
but in numerous other cultures. He makes reference to a ritual in Thebes, Egypt where the Queen
of Egypt marries the God Ammon who according to Egyptian law, must bears the monarchs
(children) who are begotten through union with the God.
Outside of the Mysteries, prostitution was common in ancient Greece and Rome and in many
instances little difference was drawn between the sacred and the profane sex act. Johnson and
Ryan (2005:63) relate that the Greek historian Strabo writes in the first century BCE of the
temple of Aphrodite at Eryx in Sicily:
The lofty hill of Eryx is also populated. It has a temple of Aphrodite that is particularly
revered and was, in earlier times, inhabited by female temple slaves who had been
dedicated in fulfillment of vows, not only by the Sicilian but by foreigners.
While these quotes from Strabo provide historic evidence of the temples of Aphrodite with their
attendant priestesses, nothing sacred is inferred in his reference to them as temple slaves. While
he may have reflected popular beliefs of the period, like the Mysteries themselves it is difficult to
know what actually took place and to what extent the sexual acts performed reflected any
sanctity. Carol Christ (1987:177) comments on just this topic when she speaks of the temples of
Aphrodite:
Like Ishtar and Astarte, she (Aphrodite) was served by priestesses who engaged in sacred
sexual rituals, which degenerated into sacred prostitution as the status of women declined
under patriarchy.
James Frazer (1999) explains that acts of sacred marriage were widespread among the nations of
antiquity and lists their occurrence amongst the peoples of Babylon, Egypt, Greece, England,
Russia, Peruvian Indians, North American Indians, Bengali Indians, various African tribes, the
Maldives, Japan, Scotland and Scandinavia. It is reasonable to believe then that in one form or
another, many cultures revered and worshipped an agricultural or fertility God or Goddess and
enacted rituals that saw the procreative act of sex as a metaphor for the continued fecundity of the
land.
I now turn to contemporary western culture, that of North America, Western Europe and
Australia to examine evidence of Hieros Gamos and sacred marriage. Whilst the emphasis has
changed from being an act that is a metaphor for continued fertility or the legitimizing of
sovereignty performed by sacred prostitutes, the focus has shifted to the invocation of a deity into
the sexual union, now with the intention of achieving transformation and union with higher states
of consciousness.
At the Great Sabbath the living body of a priestess does form the altar. We worship the
divine spirit of Creation, which is the Life-spring of the world Are we so abominable?
To us it is the most sacred and holy mystery, proof of the God in us whose command is:
Go forth and multiply.
Gerald Gardner
Book of Shadows
(cited in Urban 2006:186)
Neopaganism and Neopagan Witchcraft are new religious movements with beliefs reconstructed
or revived from indigenous and historic sources, that hold widely ranging views about the sacred
as it is found in nature, and worship a pantheon of Gods and Goddesses. Adherents believe that
the Great Rite of sexual intercourse pays homage to the male/female polarity that exists in all
things within the universe? It expresses the physical, mental, spiritual and astral union between
man and woman as well as the God and Goddess aspects of the Divine Force. Guiley (1989) uses
the term Neowitchcraft to describe a fertility religion, which is a modern western reconstruction of
ancient Pagan rites and beliefs, which include the ritual of sexual intercourse. Ritual sex was and
is considered a sacred rite.
The Great Rite can be interpreted as another form of the Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage ritual,
which in this case exemplifies union of the physical with a deity or god(dess)head. It is believed
that in Neopagan Witchcraft that the Great Rite releases enormous power, which may be directed
to achieve magical outcomes. It is one of the "Eightfold Paths" to magical power in the Craft
(Guiley 1989). Urban (2006:175) elaborates on the importance of this sexual union, referencing
Gardners Book of Shadows (originally compiled sometime before 1950) where it explains that the
great Rite holds such important status because it embodies the three basic principles of Witchcraft:
Here the human body becomes a sacred vessel for the manifestation of divine or incorporeal
energy and that is what occurs within the Great Rite when the priest and priestess become God
and Goddess joining sexually to experience powerfully heightened states.
The Great Rite is performed within sacred space at some sabbats and initiations, depending on the
tradition of the coven. Ideally, it is performed by a high priest and high priestess who are sexually
intimate as spouses or lovers. The rite is not always performed in actuality, but may be performed
symbolically, where the high priest plunges the athame, or ritual knife (the male symbol), into a
cup or chalice (the female symbol) held by the high priestess and which is filled with wine. Some
believe that when this rite is performed symbolically, it should also be performed in actuality in
private by the high priest and high priestess (Guiley 1989).
Gerald Gardner made the Great Rite the centerpiece of his third and final degree of initiation into
the Craft. A naturist himself with extremely positive views of the naked human body, Gardner
believed in the importance of practising communal nakedness during the performance of rituals as
a means of awakening and utilizing the power generated by the human body (Urban 2006).
Wilhelm Reich was another who researched the power generated by the human body with his
discovery of a biological and cosmic energy that he called orgone energy. This is the same
energy generated by the human body in ritual sex acts such as those spoken about by Gardner
(Brahinsky 1995). Reich identified this life force which he called orgone as free-flowing,
vertically streaming energy, also confirming what the ancient Hindus had identified as kundalini
energy (Silver 1998). Reich reasoned that it was natural for human beings to experience pleasure.
Flowing, sexually charged energy accompanies love. Pleasurable, loving energy expands and
radiates outward from the heart through the arms and hands, stimulating the body to the point of
orgasmic release (Silver 1998).
The next chapters explores the methods employed in compiling this research.
Methodology
This thesis comprises a research component together with an ethnographic study of contemporary
western women who identify themselves as sacred prostitute but who also name themselves
priestess due to the direct affinity they have with the Goddess and the temple rites and practices
that underscore the services they offer. My involvement in the Goddess Spirituality movement
has shown me that the ancient temple practices utilized specific rituals, symbol and language to
express this aspect of the sacred. My search then involved finding the links between the ancient
practices and their manifestation in a modern world and how the women who practise, embrace
the past in the present.
This chapter outlines the methodology of narrative enquiry employed to investigate five
Australian women who offer sacred sexual services in the name of Goddess.
In order to write the ethnographic accounts of the interview subjects, it is their voice, their lived
experience which conveys their world, their experiences and truths and not mine (Grills 1998).
Whilst I retain my own views, beliefs and theories, to understand point of view from my subject,
I must see as they do, and then with critical reflexivity, interpret their truth, their understanding
and views on the subject matter. Reflexivity engenders self-awareness where we have the ability
to notice our personal responses and be able to make choices about how to use them (Etherington
2004). Whilst striving for a personal level of engagement and enquiry, Hutton (2004) reminds us
that the reflexive approach requires an open awareness of how personal prejudices, traits and
preoccupations with the subject matter can influence the outcomes of a study. Indeed reflexive
self-monitoring is necessary, but it must not be made an excuse for lack of analytical assessment
of the subject. In reflexively understanding the practices, motivations and ideas of the self and
how they are mediated through wider social and symbolic structures, it can provide critical
insights into the construction of identity and ideology of the other (Weeks, Holland, Waites
2003).
Feminist Method
A feminist methodology seeks to create alternative traditions which acknowledge the religious
experience of women and men that provide a more inclusive voice for women and a revisioning
of the language and symbols that no longer marginalize women in theological discourse (Ruether
2002). Within the academic arena, the study of human behaviour and specifically the study of
religion has most often meant the study of men, not women. Since the 1960s it has become
widely recognized that a significant feature of the collected religious data was predominantly
androcentric, that is, dominated by or emphasizing masculine interests or a masculine point of
view. Womens studies have grown out of this recognition in an attempt to redress the balance
by recovering or reconstructing information as it pertains to women (Sharma 2002). Feminist
theology then examines the androcentric bias that arises within religious systems where
sociological origins, world views and symbols reflect a primarily male elite experience (Ruether
(2002).
Taking Fiorenzas hermeneutic from the broader context of religion, and focusing on the Goddess
Spirituality movement in particular, Griffin (1995) explores the use of mythopoeic images within
ritual. Mythopoeia describes how imitating and including real-world mythology, can add
credibility and depth to fictional worlds. In this case using the traditional icon of the mother
portrayed as the triple Goddess of maiden, mother and crone, played out within a ritual context,
can assist women to revision a new ethos of power, authority, sexuality and social relations. A
new relationship is being created within the Goddess movement which redefines the relationship
between spiritual and the material and which is firmly rooted in the female body, where the body
itself becomes a transformative symbol for the Goddess.
Situating myself
I come to this research on sacred sexuality as a priestess of Goddess initiated within an Order
located in the Gold Coast hinterland. As a researcher I am also a priestess and recognize that I
share belief systems, practices and to a great extent am a proponent of the work I am researching.
And it is this personal involvement that aids and weaves the relationship and respect building
required to investigate this most intimate of subject matter. When interviewing sex workers who
offer their bodies for money, in ways either sacred or profane, trust is an essential element in
breaking down barriers and obtaining in-depth and accurate data. Taking a partisan approach by
identifying with the goals and views of the subject (Shaw 2004), allows me to gather their stories,
to probe their past and understand the journey they have travelled to bring them to this point in
time in their roles as modern day sacred prostitutes.
One interview subject who teaches Temple Dance, impressed upon me that for her, the sacred,
which can be defined as that which is worthy of veneration or worship, lives within embodiment
of energy. She explains that to dance, to physically move, to open the centres of the body, to
activate and receive the energy, informs her experience of sacredness. Because I share the
physical experience of awakened sacred life force energy in my body, I can identify with this
practitioner or insider research which enables greater awareness of the issues than some other
methodologies. It enhances my understanding and expression of my interview subjects truth and
experience (Blain, Ezzy & Harvey 2004). The sacred is not something I know from observing;
an experience of the sacred or the divine is just that, experiential.
The participants
Through my connections within the Goddess Association, snowball sampling provided me with
the names of five women who I contacted and asked to interview about their work as providers of
sacred sexual services. Of these individuals only one directly identifies herself as a sacred
prostitute and she is a sex worker. Of the other four, one is a temple dancer, and the other three
Whilst I have attended performance and workshops of one of the women and read their
publications and articles, observation in a work environment was not possible in three instances.
Interviewing then, was the preferred means of information gathering and in a face-to-face
informal situation I interviewed four of the women and one session was conducted over the
phone. These interviews lasted anywhere between one hour and two and were recorded and
transcribed verbatim.
For these interviews to be open and honest, it required me to be transparent about my own
intentions, beliefs and religious affiliations as priestess. Harding (1987:9) opines that the beliefs
and behaviours of the researcher are part of the empirical evidence for or against the claims
advanced in the results of the research. Being a participant, practitioner, advocate and author
myself on the subject material, requires me to mediate a multiplicity of viewpoints which must be
reflected in my presentation of the information (Clifford 1986).
In engaging the interview subjects, awareness of the methodology of emic and etic viewpoints:
emic being from the viewpoint of someone living in that culture (the subjective), and the etic
arising from the viewpoint of the distanced observer using the filters of discipline (the objective)
must be held (Rosaldo 1986). In this task as an insider, I am taking on the outsiders role and
whilst I have nothing but my own subjective understanding of the experiences I am privy to,
While not all of the five women I interviewed are involved directly in offering sexual services,
one practises as a prostitute within the auspices of the sex industry, and the rest all work with and
teach the use of sexual energy. All five women also claim a distinct calling to do this type of
work. They come from varied backgrounds and age groups but have been drawn to work with
sexual energy either early in their lives like 31 year old Amy who is a tantric instructor or 65 year
old Suzie who has lived through a lifetime of judgments about sexuality before she realized that it
was her destiny to work with sexual energy for her own healing and others.
Introduction
As a massage therapist and yoga teacher for 16 years, Suzie says that spirit has pushed her into
this work by bringing her clients who challenged her programming and judgments about any kind
of erotic touch within massage. She realized that in her massage work, there is a whole part of
the body that is neglected. Her belief is that every cell contains an intelligence and a memory and
if someone has had some sexual wounding on a deeper level, then every time the body is
touched, there is a massive part that is not touched. The cells say what about me, what about
me? She believes that individuals are perpetuating more of the wounding when they go into
denial about using any erotic touching of the body. Suzie now sees herself as a sacred body
worker and admits that only six years ago, she had no concept of the sacred in the work that
she was eventually drawn to do. She felt like she had jumped into the deep end, trying to unravel
Shelly on the other hand is a sex worker who sees herself offering a service to men that is as
ancient as the Goddess herself. She works from home in an environment where she entertains her
clients and welcomes then into her beautiful private space. She says:
I am proud to say that I serve the Goddess of Love - Aphrodite, as well as men and
humanity in what I enjoy doing. To admit that we serve is a powerful concept, not a
subservient attitude whatsoever.
Linking herself and her work to that of sacred prostitutes of the past, Shelly sees the services she
offers as healing, emotionally nurturing and compassionate as well as sexual.
Sienna is a dancer a temple dancer. While she is a professionally trained dancer and teacher,
she deeply connects to the archetype of the devadasis, the Indian sacred prostitute who would
dance the sexual energy that rises through the body, riding the snaking kundalini as it expresses
in the art form of movement. A very beautiful and serene woman, Sienna says she has been
divinely connected to the spirit world since childhood. She believes all energy is sexual energy
and the way she demonstrates and teaches sacred communion to the women who attend her
classes, is through dance.
Tanishka is a priestess who runs the Star of Ishtar Mystery School and who sees herself as an
agent for the Magdalane. She has dedicated herself as a priestess in service of the Goddess who
at 37, has been teaching womens groups for over 12 years how to awaken their inner sexual gifts
through love arts training. Her journey to the sacred prostitute, began says Tanishka, when she
found herself in the unenviable financial position of having to choose between selling Amway or
stripping and thankfully says, she found stripping to be less of a prostitution.
With a background as a House Captain and School Prefect, this little Miss Good Girl quickly
found herself in the strip clubs of Melbourne. Believing she was a good dancer and that her
acting skills could pull this off, Tanishka said it came as quite a shock to realize the degree to
which she had entered the sex industry. At that time in her life, stripping was about making
money and part of that was hustling for lap dances in the clubs. Being a natural Tantrika,
Tanishka would tell her clients she would have energetic sex with them. She explains:
These five women share the commonality of having found a path that leads them to work with
sexual energy in a sacred context. Whether that is in sharing their bodies in a physical sense, or
in teaching others how to access their sexuality themselves, they all agree that they either
remember past lives as the sacred prostitute in the temple, or feel the Goddess has called them to
journey this path in this lifetime. Much of my instigation to do this research was to find the links
from the past that filter through and influence what I see as a modern day resurgence of the arts
of the sacred prostitute. The women now tell me how they felt called to do this work.
Amy has direct memories of a past life as a Venetian courtesan and as I talked to her about her
motivation to do this work, she shares her remembering of being an ancient healer working with
crystals in Atlantis. She utilizes the energy of the Goddess in her work, invoking not so much
particular deities such as Aphrodite, but the female creative force. She then channels this energy
through her body, in a session with a client, becoming the vehicle through which that Goddess is
made present.
Sienna is a fully open sacred channel for the energies she brings through in her dance. After
some performances she needs to ask if her dancing was okay because she has moved into golden
ecstatic trance states channeling what she calls sacred life force. She says I pull energy up from
The temples were set up with rooms with people coming and going with very specific
practices. It was always for healing. Like for example the soldiers would come back
from a terrible war. They come to the temples. Theyre not allowed back into the
community until theyre full of love again. And theyll be healed in whatever way they
need by those priestesses and those priestesses are taken care of by the community. They
are gifted women, talented women who will perhaps dance for them, perhaps massage
their bodies, perhaps have sex with them.
Tanishka says she can remember when she was nine years of age, mesmerizing the guest
choreographer from a Sydney Dance Company with her overtly sexual rendition of the Pink
Panther. She believes that even at that age, tantric energy would enter and ride her body. Like
Sienna, she has always been a channel for sacred sexual energy to express itself through
movement and dance. I observed Tanishka perform as Aphrodite at the Goddess Conference in
2007. She did the dance of the seven veils and in a sacred space in front of a hundred women,
performed what can only be described as a sacred ritual, sensually removing her veils one by one
to reveal herself gloriously naked. She says back stage that very night getting dressed, she had a
flash back to Babylon, to a time when she performed the dance in a previous life and time. She
explains:
I realized that it was a great honour for the High Priestess to perform the dance of the
seven veils on the day of the great rite for the King and people. So to perform the dance
(at the conference) and feel so much love, I was a waterfall. because you are bearing
your essence, you are not just bearing your flesh and so to be truly seen, which is
Aphrodites deepest need, that she is truly seen, because when as women we feel truly
seen, we feel truly loved. So to have bared my essence and to be truly seen by people
who were capable of seeing me, because they had met that aspect in themselves, was such
a deep healing.
Suzie, like the other women speaks in specific terms of being a channel for the sexual energy
which she uses in her body work. It is channeled through her hands and through her heart and
she describes it as intensely sacred and healing as well as sexual. In that aspect the women all
I know that I have worked in many temples in the past doing scribing, doing body work,
doing this sacred work, being a healer. But I work with a Goddess. I havent physically
seen it, but other people have really picked it up. Its a very strong, tantric energy from a
temple Goddess. Energy from the temple. I very strongly feel the Egyptian and Greek.
While the women speak of remembrance of past lifetimes that inform their calling to offer this
sacred work today, I wanted to enquire how that manifests in the rituals and the symbols of the
services they offer. Is this knowledge vested within their psyches or is it learnt from books?
When I made an appointment to meet with Amy, I entered her place of work, which was candle
lit and beautifully decorated with soft furnishings. There was incense burning and she had an
altar set up with her precious objects. The space was beautifully relaxing and comfortable but
most importantly the aspects employed such as candle light and incense to cleanse, invoke the
sacredness that reflects the spiritual aspects of this work. These exact techniques, from what we
know, were employed in the temples of the Goddess.
Interviewing Susie in her home, she describes how she prepares for a client and what she does to
create a sanctuary for the session. From the explanation below about her preparation of both
herself and her space, you can sense the sanctity with which she approaches this work and how
she enters into the ritual of Hieros Gamos, becoming the divinity of the Goddess, joining with the
masculine:
Everything is quiet and I put on music and candles and I invoke my guides and helpers.
When a client arrives, they will sit here with me for a couple of minutes and I get a gauge
Having invoked the healing energy, Susie comments on how she experiences the sacredness of
what she does.
So knowing how the sexual energy runs in the body, I do a massage which for me, feels
like poetry sometimes it feels like creating a composition of Bach or Beethoven on the
body. Its a series of light touch, firmer touch, sensual oils, warm oil, hot towels. Its like
going to every part of the body and waking it up with a prayerful touch.
Sienna, like Tanishka speaks of tantric energy that has been with her always. Neither of these
women have had any formal tantric training, and it is not something they have had to learn how
to invoke or use - it is part of who they are.
Sienna has done much ceremonial ritual work with one shamanic partner and they would together
hold space for up to 30 people. Holding space refers to the intentions set and the energy levels
held by those in charge of a ceremony who work with spirit to create a safe and open
environment where the people within the ritual can open their own energy fields to release
blockages, allow healing to occur and experience transcendent states. Using the analogy of a
Wiccan ritual, the priestess would cast a circle and call in the four directions, then she would
sanctify the space within as being safe from any negative energies. What Sienna does within the
ceremonial context to raise energy is to dance, her body becoming the conduit through which
high vibrational love energy can be transmitted to those present.
Im dancing and Im praying and Im offering whatever Im feeling for the highest good,
all for love. All these people that are totally open are sitting in ceremony and thats what
Id do. Id just pour with my hands this full tantric experience that Im feeling in my
body and that I experience in the in-between realms and I would just pour it like golden
light into as far as I can see into every world I can possibly travel into, over all this world
and through all the galaxies to every person in the space and that come into my vision.
Suzie most openly and courageously shared with me what takes place within a session with one
of her clients. In speaking to me, she affirmed that her intentions are to clear the judgments that
exist around sexual touch and to bring to light how damaged most men and women are within
For me, sexual energy is spiritual energy. We are wefting and weaving two beautiful
energies they are one and the same thing. Sexual energy is what we are born out of, its
our creative divine spark and our life force.
Suzie explains that once she is able to free up the blocked energy and raise it to a clients heart,
she can see the amazement on their faces. Soft feminine qualities are revealed in an ecstatic
experience they have never felt before. She believes a very deep healing occurs that connects the
person back to their soul. The sacredness attached to doing this work validates her own doubts
and judgments about the calling she has to continue to work within what some would call the
sex industry but what others would consider to be the work of the priestess.
While Suzie does not have physical sex with her clients, she offers them the option of hand relief
if they request it, but many clients have had a deeply profound experience with the raising of
their sexual energy to their heart that dissipates the desire for a physical release.
I wanted to gauge how each of the women saw themselves in terms of the work they offered and
whether they were out to change attitudes and elicit social reform. I also talked to them about
their vision for this work and how they saw their futures in relation to the work they are doing.
This next section looks to the future and explores their vision.
Tanishka as priestess is a sacred channel for the Goddess and receives downloads of information
that come through her, giving guidance and direction. While not knowing exact outcomes,
Tanishka works spiritually with the Goddess, bringing through information as and when required,
operating in love and trust, mediating her life as a priestess. What she is clear about is that while
women have been working on healing their lives around their damaged sexuality, it is time for
men to understand the sacredness of their own sexual energy and to open to a new level of
relationship with women, with themselves and with spirit.
Sienna couldnt deny her calling to this work even if she tried. She understands that she is here
to be of service and that dancing is not just her gift, she sees it as her devotion. She says If
youve got a gift then youre meant to share it. Sienna is a global priestess in that she offers the
high level vibrational energy that channels through her body as healing to the individual and to
the planet. While the temple dance workshops are offered to women as a means of healing, she
recognizes that with her male partner she sees the work evolving so that it can include men.
At the time of interviewing Amy, the majority of her clients were men, with only the occasional
woman. She now offers her services to women as individuals or in group workshops as well as
to couples wanting to learn how to enhance their love making skills. In her work Amy does not
have sex with her clients and discounts the inference that she is a prostitute receiving money for
sex. She sees herself as a teacher, a counselor and therapist, helping her clients to work within
the tenets of Tantra to manifest both the divine feminine and the sacred masculine within ones
being to achieve unity or bliss.
For some time now Shelly has been active in promoting change surrounding attitudes towards
prostitution and the sacred prostitute. She says she is very pro-family and pro-marriage and
believes that society in general is conditioned to view prostitution negatively. She sees the
services she offers as helping families stay together by providing men who love their wives, with
an alternative to divorce, when they are no longer sexually compatible. She has for some time
now been promoting different attitudes towards prostitution, informing women they have other
options in their lives.
Like the others, Suzie thinks that speaking out and gaining more awareness through the media is
necessary for changes in attitudes to take place. Suzie has written articles that try to address
some of the lack of information Australian men have around their sexuality. With media
coverage that bombards us with sexual imagery and messages, Suzie referred to a survey that
said:
Australian men are some of the worst lovers in the world. 35% of Australian women are
frustrated and the average length of intercourse by the time a man enters a woman is four
minutes and then he ejaculates. When weve got the most powerful, beautiful, sacred
energy in the world, wed rather sit in front of the tele and watch footy and waste it.
As a healer working with sacred sexual energy, Suzie becomes an educator that teaches men
about their own bodies and their own sexual energy. She understands the dismissive attitudes
many women take with Australian men who have grown up with no role models showing them
how to nurture or awaken a womans sexuality, or how to create true intimacy within a
relationship. She wants to let Aussie blokes off the hook and asks women to get involved in
teaching men about what they want and how to share this most sacred of energies.
Summary
Having now chronicled the lives of five contemporary Australian women who work with sacred
sexual energy, the next chapter examines the links between the practice of Hieros Gamos and the
temple priestesses of the past with their modern day counterparts. Not surprisingly, there is very
After presenting the ethnographic studies of five women who are currently practicing as modern
day sacred prostitutes, I now turn to examine the links between the ancient and the modern. Does
Hieros Gamos or the sacred marriage have any relevance to a contemporary expression of sacred
sexuality? How does the contemporary practitioner compare to the temple priestesses of the
ancient past through the use of ritual and altered states of consciousness? I examine these
questions and discover the links that aid in defining the emerging role of the modern day sacred
prostitute.
Hieros Gamos
What we know of Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage is that it has manifested in numerous
different expressions throughout a vast array of different cultures and time periods. Whilst one of
its most typical expressions is found in the form of a fertility ritual where the male monarch
marries the transcendent fertility goddess, legitimizing sovereign rule and ensuring continued
fertility for the community, this is but one illustration. The Eleusinian mysteries see a mortal
marry a God or Goddess in order to confer divine power and gain rewards in the afterlife (Nilsen
1947) and the Mesopotamian temple priestesses initiated men through erotic rites of pleasure in
order to raise consciousness and experience the divine aspects of the Goddess (Eisler 1996). A
20th century expression of Hieros Gamos is found in Neopagan Witchcraft in the Great Rite,
where the invocation of a deity into the sexual union, is done with the intention of creating power
and achieving transformation and union with higher states of consciousness (Guiley 1989).
Looking at the stories and lives of the women interviewed in the context of modern day sacred
prostitutes, there are definitely elements of the Hieros Gamos or sacred marriage rituals evident
in their work. In a modern context, Hieros Gamos is no longer about ensuring fertility or vesting
sovereignty, it is about invoking transcendental states of union with a spiritual entity. The sacred
marriage has always carried the explicit intention of marrying the physical with the spiritual
whether that be metaphorical (as in the ritual of the Great Rite), or factual as in the physical act of
Prostitute or priestess
Just as the temple priestesses of Biblical times were called sacred prostitutes, the term prostitute
used today invokes the same negative attitudes towards sexuality as it did then. As discussed
earlier in this thesis, patriarchy views sexuality and the physical body as spiritually unworthy and
that engaging in sexual acts further separates man from transcendent spiritual states. In this
research, what has been revealed is quite the opposite. Sex can actually be a gateway through
which spirit is accessed. Ken Wilbur (cited in Wade 2004: xi) adds:
That the sacred holy women known as Qadishtu and Hierodule were debased by being named
prostitute, speaks of an era when matriarchal based societies with their connection to body and
nature were waning and the new patriarchal order brought with it an ideology of power over body
and nature. The women of the temple who initiated men through erotic rites of pleasure in order
to raise consciousness and experience the divine aspects of the Goddess were far from prostitutes.
So too, the women who have shared their stories for this research. All of these women in their
work, to a greater or lesser degree, operate as priestesses, teachers that mediate between the
realms of matter and spirit, offering an experience of sex as something sacred rather than profane,
which engenders desecration and abuse.
To name these women sacred prostitutes, is as much a misnomer now, as it was then. While
Tanishka names herself priestess, the four other women who may not openly claim that title, all
operate within the auspices of the priestess and bring the sacredness of the temple to their work.
Whether ritually creating sacred space prior to a client arriving, or dancing to raise energy in a
ceremonial ritual, these women, as priestesses, understand the essential elements that ritual
invokes when working with sacred sexual energy. Eller (1993:84) when speaking about ritual in
the practices of Goddess spirituality, explains that:
When I interviewed Tanishka, we met in the sacred space of a Goddess temple, and like a true
priestess, she smudged6 us both and said a prayer of invocation which voiced our intention that
the Goddess oversee the communication. A candle was lit and an incense stick burned. These
small symbols of ritual sanctified the space we were in and invoked the presence of Goddess.
As stated by Starhawk above, one aspect of ritual is about manipulating energy to achieve certain
outcomes. It was in the ritual state invoked above that Tanishka channelled a higher level of
consciousness.
Several times during the interview with Tanishka, she became a channel for words to be spoken
through her, which offered wisdom that touched me very deeply. Whilst I am familiar with this
manifestation of spirit and have witnessed it personally in numerous individuals, authenticating
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Smudging uses a bundle of dried herbs such as sage and lavender bound together and lit, which resultant smoke is
then passed through the auric field of an individual or a space to cleanse stuck or negative energies. This is a
practice used by North American Indians and even the Australian Aborigines who use the smoke to cleanse a space
and free it from bad spirits.
The Glossolalist speaks in tongues while in a state of ecstasy or emotional exaltation and
shows symptoms, depending upon the individual and his social environment, associated
with one or more of the following: somnambulism, hypnotism, catalepsy or hysteria.
The term glossolalia derives from the Pentacostal Christians where the individual expresses
unintelligible sounds in a religious ecstatic trance state with no awareness of the experience
afterwards. Samarin (1972) (cited in Castelein (1984)) revealed that linguistic studies found
glossolalia to be neither supernatural nor a language, but a phenomena that served to symbolise
the presence of God for the believer. Whilst this phenomena is widely reported to have occurred
both in religious communities and shamanic cultures, in comparing this to Tanishka, the only
commonality would be the light trance state we had both entered into. If anything, Tanishkas
verbal communications became enhanced and she was in full control of her faculties.
Investigating further the trance state entered into by Tanishka, analysis of the ergotropic and
trophotropic systems may offer an enhanced explanation for the occurrence of chanelling spoken
communication. Ergotropic refers to the excitation of the body and mind whereas trophotropic
refers to the slowing and stillness of the body and mind. It is the interplay of these two states that
researchers have looked into in relation to experience of altered states of consciousness and
mystical or religious experiences. Gellhorn and Kiely (1972) observed that the physiological
changes that occur (via EEG results) in meditation are due to a shift from the ergotropic state into
the trophotropic. Whilst the move into a trophotropic state does not lead to sleep, Gellhorn and
Kiely suggest there is a partial activation of the ergotropic system as well and it is the balance
between the two that leads to experiences of ecstasy and bliss. Fischer (1971) examined the
ecstatic rapture experienced by a Zen master when moving between extreme ergotropic and
trophotropic states which produced an experience of self, characterized by a oneness with the
universe and perception beyond the confines of the physical time-space world. Is this not the
altered state that could makes communing orally with higher states of consciousness possible?
Whilst there is a paucity of writing on the topic of channelling, I bring it up here, because the
subject is covered by four of the women I interviewed. Whilst Amy spoke about channelling the
healing energy of the Goddess through her hands when working with a client, Sienna becomes
Bonheim (1997) comments on channelling saying that while many women working with sacred
energy have experienced ecstatic states of transcendence and opened to channelling high
vibrational energies, it is not available to be put under the spotlight and often cant be explained.
Bonheim (1997:299) comments on an interview subject (Naomi) who channelled what she
describes as the primordial archetype of Goddess sexuality in a bodywork session:
Naomis story highlights the difficulty of embodying the priestess outside of temple
space. Priestesses have always invoked and embodied divine energies. They have always
served as channels through which the goddess might appear to bless the community. The
worship of the divine presence within us always occurs in a ceremonial and ritualized
context and does not encourage ego inflation. Because our religious traditions discourage
identification with the divine, we have no experience in relating to a person through
whom a deity speaks and acts.
History records the visions of three well-known Christian Nuns of the Middle Ages, Hildegard of
Bingen, Julian of Norwich and Teresa of Avila, who could be likened to the priestesses
referenced above, and all of who experienced mystical visions and profound wisdoms visited
upon them from God. In an era when only men were vested with the authority of communicating
with God, these women were plagued with illness and suffered much condemnation from Church
hierarchy before acceptance of their abilities. Having experienced many visions throughout her
life, it was not until her fortieth year that Hildegard felt compelled to share her experiences.
Marvelly (2005:142) writes:
Hildegard was keen to stress that her insights were nothing to do with dreams or
hallucinations or trance her experience was viewed with her inner eye whilst she
remained perfectly lucid throughout.
Whilst it is impossible to know the states under which these visions occurred, for Hildegard at
least, it appears that full consciousness and clarity was maintained in what appears to have been
instances of channelling mystical visions.
I now turn to dance which is employed by both Tanishka and Sienna as another means of
achieving an altered state of consciousness.
Both Sienna and Tanishka experience the awakened sexual energy that tantrically flows
throughout their whole bodies, opening them to higher ecstatic states of transcendence. As
Sienna explains, she often dances into golden energetic trance states where she loses conscious
awareness. When Tanishka dances the dance of the seven veils, she becomes Aphrodite,
channelling her energies, allowing her movements and expressions to be directed by that force.
Dance has long been known as a sacred agent to assist with healing or entry into states of trance.
Serlin (1993:64) explains:
Originally, there seems to have been no split between sacred and profane movement.
Once, dance expressed the human relationship to creation and to the Gods, it was already
mythological.
Serlin describes the earliest styles of dance as echoing the patterns of all sacred forms, the
celestial bodies, the mysteries of creation, birth, death, breath and sexuality were all thought to be
sacred channels for power to enter the body. The movement itself would reconnect the person
back to a sacred understanding, healing any schism.
Within a shamanic context, dance becomes the sacred gateway through which trance states are
achieved and healing can be activated. Katz (1976) has studied the !Kung Bushmen who are a
band of traditional tribesmen who live in the Nyae Nyae Kalahari region of South West Africa.
A major part of the !Kung cultural practice involves a ritual known as the curing rite where the
medicine men or shaman dance themselves into trance over a period of the whole night, and
The analogy can be drawn between rising n/um of the !Kung bushman and awakened kundalini
referred to in eastern philosophies, as activated energies utilized to achieved transcendent states
of consciousness and healing. As a teacher of Kundalini Dance, I have experienced altered states
of consciousness accessed through awakened kundalini, that is achieved through extended
periods of dance. This energy is inherently sexual, tantric energy, rising as it does from the
genital region through the lower physical centres or chakras of the body and becoming
transmuted as it reaches the head or crown chakra into ecstatic states of bliss.
The spirit possession cultures of Vodou, Yoruba, Santeria and Candomble also use dance to enter
into trance states which allow the spirits of ancestors to ride their bodies. Daniel (2005) calls
these spirits divinities, the gods and Goddesses of their religion who enter into the bodies of the
dancers so that they may ritually commune with their worshippers. Tanishka references this type
of trance state occurring as the Goddess Aphrodite enters and rides her body in the dance of the
seven veils.
As priestess, Sienna working in a ceremonial ritual with up to 30 people sitting in sacred space,
uses dance firstly to raise energy within the group and then she becomes the channel though
which healing for herself and the group occurs. She explains that in this environment, a very
tangible tantric (sexual) energy is exuded through her body, through her arms and directed to the
group. Often she will receive an awareness that an individual in the group requires specific
healing, and while she says this is not a mental understanding or thought process, the healing
energy is channelled directly from her body to that person. This is the same practice that is
reported to occur with the !Kung bushmen. Through dance, an optimum level of energy is raised
and trance state achieved, that facilitates healing properties to be invoked and used.
What happens to Sienna as she becomes the vessel for sacred energy to enter her body, has been
happening to dancers forever. Whatever culture, ancient or modern, dance opens the body and
allows for the raising of sexual energy to create a conduit through which transcendence occurs.
However it is named, kundalini, tantra or n/um, it is the powerful life force of sexual energy, that
when raised through the body, can transcend the physical and open the consciousness to
expanded states of awareness, and as Suzie explains, has the power to reconnect us back to our
souls, creating the most intense healing.
Summary
This chapter has examined the contemporary expression of Hieros Gamos and found that it does
indeed exist in the form of the sacred marriage which uses sexual energy to unite the physical
with the transcendent. Performed by the modern day sacred prostitute in a ritual context, she
enters into trance, raising her sexual energy to become the conduit through which ecstatic
transcendent states are accessed. Teacher, healer, facilitator or sacred prostitute, these women
reference the Goddess as did the temple priestesses of old, using their sexual energy to mediate
between the realms of matter and spirit in a contemporary expression of Hieros Gamos.
This aim of this thesis is to explore contemporary expressions of sacred sexuality as they are
manifesting in the current western milieu. Using the ritual of Hieros Gamos as an investigatory
tool, I have compared ancient and modern models of the sacred marriage, prefacing the role of
the sacred prostitute as she appeared in the ancient Goddess temples as an archetype from which
to draw analogies to her modern day counterparts.
So how is sacred sexuality manifesting in our modern western culture? Generally speaking, to
those individuals who are involved in traditional patriarchal religions, I would imagine it does not
register on their radar yet! For those seekers who are exploring alternative spiritualities as
described by the new religious movement known as the New Age, then how could they miss it?
The media aimed at this group is absolutely filled with advertisements and articles that promote
enhanced sexual relations as a means to greater fulfillment and joy in life. Sex sells! It always
has. Sacred sex sounds great, but the catch is the uninformed individual often enters this realm
unaware of the physical growth and deep work required to clear personal issues such as sexual
abuse and incest, that is necessary if they wish to work with sexual energy. That there is an
awareness of how sexually damaged many individuals are, means this work is greatly needed and
the women who I interviewed step into the roles of teacher, healer and facilitator of this work. I
conclude that this is a growth area that will continue to change attitudes towards sexuality.
Altering views that reconnect the body, let alone sexuality, back to the sacred, move us towards a
more holistic perception of ourselves that engenders greater healing.
In comparing the women I interviewed to the Qadishtu or Hierodule of the ancient Goddess
temples, then I do find many commonalities. Knowing as little as we do regarding the actual role
of priestesses who used sexual energy to commune between the physical and spirit, and the
The sacred sexual practitioners who I interviewed all speak of lifetimes that they remember being
priestesses in the temples, working with sacred sexual energy. They speak of the irresistible
calling that compels them to do this work. This has no proof in evidence to suggest any links to
past lives, nor can the fact that four of them speak of channelling the Goddess in their work be
proven. We are dealing with trance and altered states of consciousness and transcendent religious
experiences. Validating, measuring and quantifying are most difficult. That they all use their
bodies and sexual energy to help others have an experience of the sacred, that they all work with
the divine feminine energy of the Goddess as a healing agent absolutely aligns them with the
archetype of the priestess. They are modern day sacred prostitutes assisting in changing attitudes
around sexuality, assisting to heal the split between body and spirit.
Whilst being drawn to the new religious movement known as Feminist or Goddess Spirituality, I
had no intrinsic understanding of its roots in the Womens Liberation Movement that grew out of
the late 1960s nor that it has only solidified into a recognized movement since the early 1990s.
That I am adherent of its tenets, without having any knowledge of its formalized structure, stands
true for all the women I interviewed. That women are reclaiming agency over their bodies and
finding divinity vested in a female god speaks of increasing disenfranchisement with patriarchal
religion and authority in general and a return to more nature based awareness with ideals of
community and non-competition as a pervading preference for continued growth. I conclude that
this movement will find greater popularity amongst women, who, whilst unaware of its
formalized existence, will be in support of its ideology.
As stated before, it has been my personal interest in this topic that has fuelled my research and
now at the end of the project I appreciate all the background material I have gathered in relation
to Hieros Gamos and the research done into matriarchal societies, but I would have included less
historical research and focused more on the contemporary practitioners and their work with
sacred sexuality. I have found their personal stories and work practices to be of more relevance
to my investigation of the contemporary sacred prostitute than the historic, and could I have
chosen again, would have widened my ethnographic study to include increased numbers of
interview subjects, and also include the men I found working in this field.
One area of academic enquiry that I find difficult to appease is the quantification of trance states
inducing instances of channelling that I encountered in research subjects and elsewhere. Whilst
this manifestation of spirit is a valid experience for myself and many women I know involved in
Goddess Spirituality, its existence is difficult to prove. Speaking with Tanishka on this very
subject, she summarises the views of many spiritual practitioners who dismiss academic enquiry
in favour of just getting on with it in the real world. Whilst reporting her lived experience
which conveys her views and truths, Hutton (2004) reminds me of the reflexive approach I must
take to ensure I dont lack analytical assessment of the subject matter. Whilst finding research
that does supports trance inducing channelling states to verify this phenomena, I believe that
more acceptance of this altered state of consciousness would assist discourse in this area in the
future as a means for explaining how the transcendent can be made imminent. After all, I
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