183 Pleasurable Activities To Choose From
183 Pleasurable Activities To Choose From
183 Pleasurable Activities To Choose From
The bottom line is that when were not feeling well we also often dont feel like
doing anything. A simple fact is that getting out to do something often makes us feel a bit
better. So were in a catch 22 here. How do we get out to do anything if we dont have
the motivation to do it. Ah ha! We often hold the common misconception that we need
motivation in order to actually do something. The truth is, it is often the opposite. We
have to do something, in order to get the engines moving to spark motivation. The first
step is often the most difficult.
Just like our minds and bodies can work to spiral downwards when were
depressed, they can also work to spiral upwards. The trick here is to ask yourself, what do
I feel like I actually can do in this moment. Maybe its something small, and whatever
you choose, scale it back a bit. For example, if you feel like you can go on a walk, ask
yourself for how long. If 20 minutes pops up, plan on going for a 15 minute walk. The
idea is not to push yourself and not to overdo it. If you push yourself and its too much,
youll get disappointed, then start think negative thoughts about the experience, which
will turn to shame or guilt, and then to more lethargy. If you think you can go on a 20
minute walk and plan on 15, then you are likely to accomplish that. If you can
accomplish that, then often times good thoughts and feelings will arise because you did it.
Learning how to be present to the moment, or mindful, with your thoughts, feelings, and
physical sensations can help you better recognize these good feelings that may seem like
distant strangers who have been gone for too long.
So how to do we do it? Often times when were not feeling well, our brains dont
seem to function and the first barrier is to actually think of something pleasurable to do.
Well bypass that hurdle by providing a list of 183 things that are possible to do as a
pleasurable activity. Some of these will resonate with you while others will not. First,
simply note the things on the list that have been pleasurable to you in the past or seem
like they might be now. Second, choose which ones you think you are able to do. Third,
whatever time frame you think you can do it for, scale it back (If 20 minutes, plan on 15).
Fourth take that first step, knowing that it is the first step that gets the engines moving
and later you may realize the motivation arise to do more, along with positive thoughts,
emotions, and physical sensations. When these do arise, simply acknowledge them as
they are, and let them be. No need to analyze them or figure them out, acknowledging
them is enough. One last note, we have to apologize, we have lost track of where this list
came from originally, so there is a reference to it.