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Name_____________________________Date_____________
INSTRUCTIONS:
Listed below are statements that you might use to describe your
parents. Please read each statement and decide how well it
describes your parents. Choose the highest rating from 1 to 6
that describes your mother, then your father, when you were a
child and write the number in the spaces before each statement.
If someone substituted as your mother or father, please rate the
scale for that person. If you did not have a mother or a father,
leave the appropriate column blank.
RATING SCALE:
1
2
3
4
5
6
MOTHER
FATHER
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Completely untrue
Mostly untrue
Slightly more true than untrue
Moderately true
Mostly true
Describes him/her perfectly
DESCRIPTION
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Loved me, treated me as someone special.

Spent time with and paid attention to me.
Gave me helpful guidance and direction.
Listened to me, understood me, shared feelings with me.
Was warm and physically affectionate.
*ed
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6.
7.
8.
9.
Died or left the house permanently when I was a child.

Was moody, unpredictable, or an alcoholic.
Preferred my brother(s) or sister(s) to me.
Withdrew or left me alone for extended periods.
*ab
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10.
11.
12.
13.
Lied to me, deceived me, or betrayed me.

Abused me physically, emotionally, or sexually.
Used me to satisfy his/her needs.
Seemed to get pleasure from hurting people.
*ma
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14.
15.
16.
17.
Worried excessively that I would get hurt.

Worried excessively that I would get sick.
Was a fearful or phobic person.
Overprotected me.
*vh
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18. Made me feel I couldn't rely on my decisions or judgment.

19. Did too many things for me instead of letting me do things on my own.
20. Treated me as if I were younger than I really was.
*di
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21.
22.
23.
24.
Criticized me a lot.
Made me feel unloved or rejected.
Treated me as if there was something wrong with me.
Made me feel ashamed of myself in important respects.
*ds
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25.
26.
27.
28.
Never taught me the discipline necessary to succeed in school.

Treated me as if I was stupid or untalented.
Didn't really want me to succeed.
Expected me to be a failure in life.
*fa
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29.
30.
31.
32.
Treated me as if my opinions or desires didn't count.

Did what he/she wanted, regardless of my needs.
Controlled my life so that I had little freedom of choice.
Everything had to be on his/her terms.
*sb
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33.
34.
35.
36.
Sacrificed his/her own needs for the sake of the family.

Was unable to handle many daily responsibilities, so I had to do more than my share.
Was unhappy a lot and relied on me for support and understanding.
Made me feel that I was strong, and should take care of other people.
*ss
37.
38.
39.
40.
41.
42.
43.
Had very high expectations for him/herself.

Expected me to do my best at all times.
Was a perfectionist in many areas; things had to be just so.
Made me feel that almost nothing I did was quite good enough.
Had strict, rigid rules of right and wrong.
Became impatient if things weren't done properly or quickly enough.
Placed more importance on doing things well than on having fun or relaxing.
*us
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44.
45.
46.
47.
Spoiled me, or was overindulgent, in many respects.

Made me feel I was special, better than most other people.
Was demanding; expected to get things his/her way.
Didn't teach me that I had responsibilities to other people.
*et
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48.
49.
50.
51.
Provided very little discipline or structure for me.

Set few rules or responsibilities for me.
Allowed me to get very angry or lose control.
Was an undisciplined person.
*is
52. We were so close that we understood each other almost perfectly.

53. I felt that I didn't have enough individuality or sense of self separate from him/her.
54. I felt that I didn't have my own sense of direction while I was growing up because he/she
was such a strong person.
55. I felt that we would hurt each other if either of us went away from the other.
*em
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56.
57.
58.
59.
Worried a lot about the family's financial problems.

Made me feel that If I made even a small mistake, something bad might happen.
Had a pessimistic outlook; often expected the worst outcome.
Focused on the negative aspects of life or things going wrong.
*np
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60.
61.
62.
63.
64.
Had to have everything under control.

Was uncomfortable expressing affection or vulnerability.
Was structured and organized; preferred the familiar over change.
Rarely expressed anger.
Was private; rarely discussed his/her feelings.
*ei
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65.
66.
67.
68.
Would become angry or harshly critical when I did something wrong.

Would punish me when I did something wrong.
Would call me names (like stupid or idiot) when I made mistakes.
Blamed people when things went wrong.
*pu
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69.
70.
71.
72.
Was concerned with social status and appearance.

Placed strong emphasis on success and competition.
Was concerned with how my behavior would reflect on him/her in the eyes of others.
Seemed to love me more or pay more attention to me when I excelled.
*as
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Loved me, treated me as someone special.

Died or left the house permanently when I was a child.

Lied to me, deceived me, or betrayed me.

Worried excessively that I would get hurt.

18. Made me feel I couldn't rely on my decisions or judgment.

Never taught me the discipline necessary to succeed in school.

Treated me as if my opinions or desires didn't count.

Sacrificed his/her own needs for the sake of the family.

Had very high expectations for him/herself.

Spoiled me, or was overindulgent, in many respects.

Provided very little discipline or structure for me.

52. We were so close that we understood each other almost perfectly.

Worried a lot about the family's financial problems.

Had to have everything under control.

Would become angry or harshly critical when I did something wrong.

Was concerned with social status and appearance.

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