Art 2 Comm. in Cultures
Art 2 Comm. in Cultures
Art 2 Comm. in Cultures
Communication
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Communication Across
Cultures
Communicating Across Cultures
By Herbert Lee
The main criterion for understanding other cultures is simply to know your
own
Every country has its own way of saying things. The important thing is
that which lies behind people’s words.
- Freya Stark, The Journey's Echo
Many years ago, I asked a friend, (now my wife), from Hong Kong to
visit me in Macau (on the south coast of China). She agreed to come
the next Saturday afternoon.
So I sat around and waited. Two o’clock turned into four o’clock and I
finally called her. “I thought you were coming over to visit.” She
replied, “I am coming – next Saturday!”
What I didn’t realize was that in the Chinese way of counting time,
“next” means “the Saturday following this one.” That was my first
lesson in communicating across cultures.
These days, people are traveling more than ever. Your next-door
neighbor is as likely to be from Armenia as Arkansas. And your next
business trip may take you anywhere from Mexico to Madagascar.
Communicating across cultures begins with the basic understanding
that one size does not fit all. Simply because you practice certain
cultural habits or patterns does not mean the rest of the world does.
“When in Rome, do as the Romans do” makes perfect sense in
Rome, Romania or Rio de Janeiro.
Culture usually refers to the diverse ways in which people think, act
or behave – toward themselves, with their families and with people in
their own society. Culture includes customs related to religious, social,
political and family values. Various cultures have divergent values for
time allocation and use, for family values and conversation, and for
“personal space.”
The more you know about your own culture and other cultures, the
greater your chances are of bridging these differences. Having an open
mind and being sensitive to differences are key factors in making you
a better communicator.
Verbal and nonverbal behavior
Language is much more than words. And every language has linguistic
preferences. These linguistic preferences can often give clues about
the behavior, manners and thinking of that particular culture.
Look for the nuances in the way people from different cultures use
language. For example, the English use understatement and modesty;
they are sometimes deliberately vague to avoid any confrontation and
extremely polite. Spaniards and Italians on the other hand like to be
flowery with their language, preferring eloquence and expressiveness
over exactness. Germans are very logical in manner and words.
Asians, including Japanese and Chinese, consider harmony an
important virtue and will avoid confrontation at all costs. For that
reason, they will often say "yes" to many things with the
understanding of “Yes, I hear you” or “Yes, I understand”, and not
necessarily “Yes, I agree.”
Gestures
As Toastmasters, we realize the value of gestures. However, there are
no universal gestures. (The only universal one would be a smile. A
warm, friendly smile goes a long way toward conveying sincere
interest in others).