Hijab - Expects Woman To Act Modest!

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Women are taught from early childhood that their worth is

society’s
hijab
proportional to their attractiveness. We feel compelled to pursue

view of
abstract notions of beauty, half realizing that such a pursuit is
the
hijab
futile.

When women reject this form of oppression, they face ridicule


and contempt. Whether it’s women who refuse to wear makeup,
shave their legs, or expose their bodies, society-both men and
women-have trouble dealing with them.

MY BODY IS MY OWN BUSINESS BY NAHEED MUSTAFA In the Western world, the hijab has come to symbolize either
forced silence, or radical, unconscionable militancy. Actually,
I often wonder whether people see me as a radical,
it’s neither. It is simply a woman’s assertion that judgment of
fundamentalist Muslim terrorist packing an AK-47 assault rifle
her physical person is to play no role whatsoever in social
inside my jean jacket. Or maybe they see me as the poster girl
interaction.
for oppressed womanhood everywhere. I’m not sure which one
it is.
Wearing the hijab has given me freedom from
I get the whole range of strange looks, stares, and covert
glances. You see, I wear the hijab, a scarf that covers my head,
constant attention to my physical self.
neck, and throat. I do this because I am a Muslim woman who Because my appearance is not subjected to public scrutiny, my
believes her body is her own private affair. beauty, or perhaps lack of it, has been removed from the realm
of what can legitimately be discussed.
Young Muslim women are reclaiming the hijab, reinterpreting it
in light of its original purpose to give back to women ultimate No one knows whether my hair looks as if I just stepped out
control of their own bodies. of a salon, whether or not I can pinch an inch, or even if I have
unsightly stretch marks. And because no one knows, no one
The Qur’an teaches us that individuals should not be judged
cares.
according to gender, beauty, wealth or privilege.
Feeling that one has to meet the impossible male standards of
beauty is tiring and often humiliating. I should know, I spent my
Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is
entire teenage years trying to do it. I was a borderline bulimic
the most righteous of you. (Qur’an 49:13)
and spent a lot of money I didn’t have on potions and lotions in
hopes of becoming the next Miss World.

reflections
Nonetheless, people have a difficult time relating to me. After all,
I’m young, Canadian born and raised and university educated, The definition of beauty is ever-changing; waifish is good, waifish
so why would I do this to myself, they ask? is bad, athletic is good - sorry, athletic is bad. Women are not
going to achieve equality by putting their bodies on display, as
by muslim
women
Strangers speak to me in loud, slow English and often appear some people would like to have you believe. That would only
to be playing charades. They politely inquire how I like living in make us party to our own objectification. True equality will be
Canada and whether or not the cold bothers me. If I’m in the had only when women don’t need to display themselves to get
right mood, it can be very amusing. attention and won’t need to defend their decision to keep their
But, why would I, a woman with all the advantages of a North bodies to themselves.
American upbringing, suddenly, at 21, want to cover myself so
that with the hijab and the other clothes I choose to wear, only

learn
my face and hands show?
“Allah has promised those who believe and do good deeds that
for them there is forgiveness and a mighty reward.” Qur’an 5:9
Because it gives me freedom! the
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my journey to What the Hijab is...
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BY SUmAYYAH JOAN Since the heyday of the feminist
movement, there has been an increasing An act of Obedience to The Creator

It will be three years since I stood before two Muslim sisters and amount of scrutiny placed on the dress An Act of Honour & Dignity
declared openly my belief in God (Allah) and His Messenger,
peace be upon him, and thus freeing and liberating myself from and status of Muslim women. An act of Belief & Faith

my former self-imposed bondage. Stepping out of the darkness An act of Modesty


According to these “liberated” women, the hijab not only covers
of disbelief into the light of Islam, it’s funny that I found such An act of Purity
the head, but also covers the mind, will and intellect. They say
freedom in the very thing that was keeping me from Islam in the
that our dress code is outdated and oppressive, and it stops An act of Bashfulness
first place - the hijab.
us from being productive human beings. They speak out of
Even though I get the wide gamut of strange stares, points and ignorance when they say that our hijab does not belong in these An act of Righteousness
comments, this covering makes me feel honored, safe and modern times, when due to the constant decrease in moral A Shield
cherished. values in the world today, circumstances make the hijab even
more necessary.
The word hijab comes from the Arabic word “hajaba” meaning
to hide from view or to conceal. Women who don’t reveal their
beauty in this society and give in to this oppressive system, are
From the dawn of civilization, flowing dresses and headscarves
have always been associated with “Godliness” or “God What the Hijab is NOT...
looked upon as invisible, without sexuality and backward. consciousness”. Even the Christian pictorial representation of
It is NOT something new. Muslim women follow the example
the earlier prophets and their womenfolk bear familiar likeness to
Because I’m often mistaken for a nun, or terrorist, I feel the of righteous women in the past such as Mary, the mother of
the dress ordained for Muslim men and women (e.g. Mary). This
reactions to the hijab for many women, is the truest test of being Jesus.
tradition of modesty is reflected in the Qur’an (7:26), wherein
a Muslim.
Allah says: It is NOT a symbol of oppression.

But in reality, the hijab is easy! It is NOT required in non-public places where there are only
muslim females and close male relatives.
O Children of Adam! We (God) have bestowed clothing
In instructing us to wear the hijab, Allah has given Muslim
upon you to cover yourselves and as an adornment (for It is NOT a means to restrict a woman’s freedom to express
women what they can bear of injunctions and obligations. For
beauty); and the clothing of righteousness – that is best. her views and opinion, or to have an education and a career.
Allah says:
It is NOT an act of defiance, confrontation or protest to non-
Muslims.
And we do not lay on any soul a burden except to the
extent of its ability, and with Us (God) is a Book which
Allah enjoined hijab on the Muslim It is NOT a portable prison.
speaks the truth… (Qur’an 23:62) woman to protect her from harm.
Indeed, the men who submit and the women who submit,
He knows His creation, and knows that when women make the believing men and the believing women, the obedient
Unfortunately, Satan and his cohorts are calling the Muslim
a dazzling display of themselves, with immodest clothes, men and the obedient women, the truthful men and the
woman to enslave her to the creation, and to forget about
perfumed bodies and made-up faces, it serves to increase truthful women, the patient men and the patient women,
her servitude to her Creator. Chastity, modesty and piety are
the sexual deviance of the overall society. Many of those who the humble men and the humble women, the charitable
deceptively marked as shackles on personal freedom.
are misguided however, would have us think that the hijab is a men and the charitable women, the fasting men and the
Allah warns the believers that they should not let Satan deceive portable prison that restricts our minds, lives and hearts. It is fasting women, the men who guard their private parts
them, as he deceived their parents, Adam and Eve. Under none of these things, and in order not to fall victim to their plots, and the women who do so, and the men who remember
the guises of fashion, culture, and modernism, Satan has we must begin to understand what the hijab truly is- a source of Allah often and the women who remember - Allah has
succeeded and is succeeding to lead the Muslim woman –and liberation, dignity and protection. prepared for them forgiveness and a mighty reward.
all women- into immodesty.
(Qur’an 33:35)

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