> Asian Homosexualities

Birthday in Beijing:
Women Tongzhi Organizing in 1990s’ China
Up to the early 1990s, the word ‘homosexual’ (male or female) did not exist in the Chinese laws or media. In wrapped up condoms and sweets). Everyone started to ask
Research > the medical literature and in dictionaries, homosexuality was explained as a mental illness or as a sexual each other whose birthday it was. Those who knew about
China perversion. Before the 1990s, many homosexuals, especially lesbians, did not know that there were other Stonewall told those who did not, who then came and whis-
people with the same orientation; there was no one to share feelings with, and no place to find same-sex pered the answer to me: ‘Today is the commemoration day
partners. Many homosexuals got married (heterosexually), while hiding their same-sex partners from their of the American gay movement.’ A young man, having just
families. Because of the almost complete lack of information on the issue, many homosexuals were not even heard the Stonewall story for the first time, ran over to me
sure themselves about their own sexual orientation. (A woman, who was married and had a child, had never and whispered, ‘I know! I know! Today is the birthday of all
heard of, or even thought about homosexuality until she came across the English word ‘lesbian’ on the of us!’ I then whispered what he had said to other people:
Internet, and discovered that she herself was one.) Conversely, people who had no doubt whatsoever about ‘Today is the birthday of all of us.’ I thought, that is probably
their homosexual orientation still did not dare to be open about it. what the tongzhi movement ultimately means – we are unit-
ed; we have a common birthday. From that day on, that bar
By He Xiaopei ‘Nightman’, a disco where many homosexuals still like to go. became the first homosexual bar in Beijing.
(translated by Susie Jolly) Two coaches full of women came from the Women’s Con- Through mail networks, the tongzhi pager hotline, the Inter-
ference, and over a dozen Beijing women participated as well. net, the tongzhi bars and discos, and also through an Asian
began to participate in homosexual activities in the early However, openly organizing activities in the name of homo- lesbian email network set up by a Chinese woman in Ameri-
I 1990s. I once took part in a discussion session where
psychiatrists, volunteers from the Women’s Hotline, and a
sexuality attracted the government’s attention. That evening
the disco was full of plain-clothes and military police, and
ca, an increasing number of women tongzhi came to know
each other. Our activities also gradually increased and became
few individuals discussed homosexual issues; there were no afterwards Wu was detained. Also, in 1998 and 1999, two more regular. From just going out to eat and dancing togeth-
homosexuals who took part as such. One meeting was held activists were searched at customs when entering China, and er, we began to organize sports events and discussion ses-
in a factory on a Sunday afternoon, under the label of ‘men- all materials that they were carrying related to homosexual- sions. We elected a ‘Discussion Commissioner’, an ‘Eating-
tal health research’. In the main, the attitude of the psychia- ity were confiscated. Yet, the Chinese homosexual move- out Commissioner’, a ‘Sports Commissioner’, etc., and
trists and social workers was characterized by sympathy, albeit ments have continued to develop, slowly but steadily, over assigned the respective organizational responsibilities. We
mixed with non-recognition and a lack of understanding. the years. also gave our informal organization the name of ‘Women
The psychiatrists spoke of the homosexuals who had come Tongzhi spaces first appeared in Beijing in the summer of Tongzhi’. ‘Women Tongzhi’ neither had a fixed leadership nor
to the hospital to be cured, who were unhappy and some- 1995, when a Chinese man, the aforementioned Wu Chun- fixed participants in its activities. It also had no fixed place.
times suicidal. Encouraged by this atmosphere of debate, one sheng, and Susan Jolly, an Englishwoman, began to organize In the summer of 1998, after the First National Women
man ‘came out’ about his homosexuality. Afterwards, he and tongzhi get-togethers every Wednesday evening at a non- and Men Tongzhi Conference, I invited four women partic-
I started to use a different language, different experiences tongzhi bar. To counter the general hostility toward homosex- ipants to come to my house. We were still very excited and
and feelings, to demonstrate that not all homosexuals live uals, the Wednesday gatherings incessantly changed locations. felt there was much more to talk about. When I suggested
lives of tragedy and suffering. I met a few homosexual people Initially only men tongzhi came to the meetings, since women we organize a national women-tongzhi meeting, agreement
at that meeting. We realized that we needed our own space tongzhi faced more barriers to taking part in nightlife. But was nearly unanimous. We established a six-person organi-
to discuss and share our experiences, and help each other. women-tongzhi activities also began, involving small-scale pri- zational team. One Beijing woman had a list of about thirty
By the mid-1990s, two or three people began to organize vate get-togethers, with a few people eating together and danc- women tongzhi living in the rest of the country. These were
the first homosexual (or tongzhi, the word most commonly ing at someone’s home. We were very relaxed about who could contacts she had gathered through a letter-writing network
used nowadays) activities in Beijing. During the 1995 Unit- join us, and did not stipulate sexual orientation as the criteri- over the years. We decided to invite all those women to the
ed Nations Fourth World Conference on Women in Beijing, on for participation. In the beginning, the activities were most- meeting. I was in charge of organizing a fundraising party
the activist Wu Chunsheng organized a lesbian dancing party ly organized by Susan Jolly, and took place at her foreign res- at a club. To avoid police attention, it was officially my farewell
for both Chinese and foreign women. It was held at the idents’ compound. Later, activities were organized by Chinese party. We meticulously designed and printed the invitations,
Note > women and were held in Chinese people’s homes. which we gave out in all tongzhi spaces as well as on the street.
In 1996 there were still no homosexual bars in Beijing. On the invitation it said ‘Collecting donations for the First
* The riots exploded when the police raided a bar (the Stonewall) in New York’s An activity was organized by Susan Jolly and Wu Chunsheng National Women Tongzhi Conference’.
Greenwich Village in June 1969, and gays fought back. The riots lasted for a to commemorate the anniversary of the Stonewall riots.* To The first National Women Tongzhi Conference was held in
week, but their impact was powerful and long lasting – within less than a year avoid police attention, we told all the people we knew to go Beijing in October 1998. Altogether about thirty women
gay liberation groups sprouted in over three hundred cities throughout the US, to a very quiet bar in a small lane, for a ‘birthday party’. We tongzhi participated. After the Conference, a board of five mem-
and a political movement began in support of equal rights for sexual minorities. even bought a birthday cake. Sixty people came, among them bers was established, and an internal magazine, Sky, was ini-
eight women. This was the first time that this many women tiated. Since then, women tongzhi have started to use both inter-
tongzhi had ever turned up in a public place. Wu whispered national and national funds to organize their activities. <
Editors’ note > to me that there were plain-clothes police in the bar. We
thought of a way to get around them. We sang ‘Happy Birth- He Xiaopei, MA is a PhD student at Centre for Study of Democracy,
This paper is part of a chapter in Hsiung Ping-Chen, Maria Jaschok, and Cecilia day’ and cut the cake. I announced: ‘Can you guess whose University of Westminster, UK, whose research interests include
Milwertz (eds), Chinese Women Organizing, Oxford: Berg (2002). birthday it is today? Come and whisper it in my ear, and if gender, sexuality, culture, and HIV/AIDS.
you get it right, you get a present!’ (which consisted of [email protected]

Homosexuality in India: Past and Present

When I was active in the women’s movement in Delhi from 1978 to 1990 as founding co- and romantic friendship have flour-
Research > editor of Manushi, India’s first feminist journal, homosexuality was rarely if ever discussed ished in India in various forms, with-
India in left-wing, civil rights, or women’s movements, or at Delhi University, where I taught. out any extended history of overt per-
Among the earliest newspaper reports I saw on the subject were those about female couples secution. These forms include
committing suicide, leaving behind notes declaring their undying love. In 1987, the wedding invisibilized partnerships, highly visi-
of two female police constables, Leela and Urmila, in central India, made national headlines ble romances, and institutionalized rit-
and led to a debate on lesbianism. The women married each other outside the ambit of any uals such as exchanging vows to create
movement and with the support of Urmila’s family. lifelong fictive kinship that is honoured
by both partners’ families.
B y R u t h Va n i t a book on lesbian love in India, appeared to The Gay and Lesbian Literary Heritage We demonstrate the existence in pre-
in 1996, but is flawed by its erasure of (1995), editor Claude Summers claims colonial India of complex discourses
n 1990 the magazine Bombay Dost medieval, especially Muslim materials. that the silence of ancient and medieval around same-sex love and also the use,
I (Bombay Friend) appeared, and in
1991, AIDS Bhedbhav Virodhi
The popular belief persists that
homosexuality is an aberration import-
Indian literature on this subject ‘per-
haps reflects the generally conservative
in more than one language, of names,
terms, and codes to distinguish homo- ing in some medieval Indian cities. Like
Andolan (Anti-AIDS Discrimination ed from modern Europe or medieval mores of the people’. erotic love and those inclined to it. This the erotic temple sculptures at Khaju-
Campaign), known as ABVA, pub- West Asia, and that it was non-existent Saleem Kidwai and I had been sepa- confirms Sweet and Zwilling’s work on raho and Konarak, ancient and medieval
lished its pioneering report Less than in ancient India. This is partly because rately collecting materials for two ancient Indian medical texts, Brooten’s texts constitute irrefutable evidence that
Gay. In the 1990s many Lesbian, Gay, same-sex love in South Asia is serious- decades, and in 2000 we published recent findings from Western antiquity, the whole range of sexual behaviour was
Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) ly under-researched as compared to Same-Sex Love in India: Readings from and Boswell’s earlier argument that known in pre-colonial India.
organizations emerged in urban areas. East Asia and even West Asia. With a Literature and History, a collection of same-sex desire as a category was not British nineteenth-century adminis-
Several of them publish newsletters; few exceptions, South Asian scholars extracts translated from a wide range of the invention of nineteenth-century trators and educationists imported their
many now receive foreign funding, by and large ignore materials on homo- texts in fifteen Indian languages and European sexologists, as Foucault generally anti-sex and specifically
especially those that do HIV-prevention sexuality or interpret them as hetero- written over a period of more than two claims it was. We also found evidence of homophobic attitudes into India.
work. Sakhiyani, Giti Thadani’s short sexual. As a result, in his introduction millennia. We found that same-sex love male homoerotic subcultures flourish- Under colonial rule, what used to be a

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 > Asian Homosexualities

The Remaking of a
Cambodian-American Drag Queen
They returned to Cambodia to find family members they hoped had survived the Khmer Rouge purges. They engage in sexual liaisons. Their friend appeared to exploit
Research > went to meet their khteey counterparts, the term used in their first language to describe those men (or women)
ee the men’s poverty and to misinterpret a social system that
Cambodia who adopt the dress and comportment of the opposite sex. And, stuffed between the anti-malarial drugs and allows for male intimacy without the homosexual label com-
the Imodium, they packed their American sequin dresses, make-up, wigs, and lingerie to make their debut as mon in contemporary Western societies.
‘drag queens’ in Cambodia. Until these Cambodian gay group members could travel
to their homeland, they imagined being khteey through a set ee
a designation that describes my role as a confidante and of social and cultural symbols available to them. When they
researcher in the gay group since 1992. However, being a real returned to the USA they no longer held drag events as a way
woman travelling with five Cambodians who appear to be to portray their identities as Cambodian and gay. Rather,
men, provided a critical view of the expected separation ee
being khteey became a social responsibility to financially sup-
between men and women’s sexual worlds in Cambodia and port family members they reunited with in Cambodia, to
the power held by Westerners in a country in the grips of sponsor HIV/AIDS fundraisers for Cambodia, and in some
poverty. The events that unfolded during our trip changed cases to return to their homeland and to nurture relation-
how these self-described gay Cambodian men saw them- ships with Cambodian men they met on their first trip home.
selves, and how the group members expressed their being Stuart Hall (1990) describes identity as a ‘production’ con-
ee
khteey, as they saw videos and heard accounts about the con- stantly in flux as individuals and communities reinterpret
ee
ditions of their khteey counterparts in Cambodia. experiences in diaspora and from the homeland. By under-
In Battambang, the second largest city in Cambodia, the standing identity as Hall suggests, we gain an insight into how
Cambodian Americans discovered how their khteey counter- ee sexualities in Cambodia and in diaspora are influenced by
parts carve out social positions and sexual spaces. Shifting transnational relationships and the conditions of poverty. <
Karen Quintiliani

between gender representations and sex roles – like drag

requires – blurs the boundaries and the discreet way sexual Reference
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The Cambodian
ee
khteey live in a brothel and cook and clean for the women, only ford (ed.) Identity: Community, Culture, Difference, New York:
Americans (shown By Karen Quintiliani occasionally taking customers themselves. Mai Chaa, which New York University Press (1990), pp. 222–37.
with their faces means ‘the old mother’, is divorced and has grown-up chil-
or five Cambodian-American men the journey home in dren. He abandoned his family to fulfil his desire for male
concealed) pose with
their Cambodian
‘sisters’. The photo
F 1995 transformed their gay identities – identities imag-
ined through the collective activities and memories of a
companionship. He is poor, homeless, and ostracized for hav-
ing left his family, but not necessarily for having sex with other
Karen Quintiliani, MA is a PhD candidate in anthropology at
UCLA. Her dissertation examines the impact of an eroding welfare
state on Cambodian refugee families and the rise in neo-liberal forms
illustrates the Southern California Cambodian gay group they helped to ee
men. The other two khteey live in the temple compound and of governance to solve social problems. [email protected]
various ways in
ee
establish. ‘Real khteey’ in this group – or those who adopt have taken a vow of celibacy in order to serve the monks and

Mr Tek
which Cambodian transvestite lives – socialize with men who have sex with men honour the loss of partners during the Khmer Rouge years.
men who adopt the exclusively as well as married men who have clandestine sex- Sexual relationships between single men and khteey in Bat- ee
role of the khteeyee ual relations with other men. However, the group members tambang are either arranged or take place through random
present themselves. (like those taking the journey home) who successfully adopt ee
meetings; in either case the khteey provides the young men
However, the young a male appearance, work in male professions, attract (pri- with money or food as well as sexual gratification. The Cam-
man on the far right marily) Anglo-American partners, and resist family pressures ee
bodian Americans played the role of khteey through the sex-
is considered an to marry, are the ones that define drag as the cultural equiv- ual exchange system, rather than as Cambodian-American
eligible bachelor and
ee
alent to being khteey, thereby legitimizing their unique gay drag queens. Before they left Battambang, they gave up their
occasionally sociali- identities. During drag performances, the members of the ‘womanhood’ by giving their sequined gowns and accessories
zes with the khteey.
ee group depict Cambodian and American feminine cultural ee
to their khteey counterparts, realizing that ‘[the cost of ] one
symbols – the traditional Cambodian Apsara dancer and Miss dress could feed a family for a year [in Cambodia]’.
America – to temporarily embody their feminine selves. They The Cambodian Americans also reunited with a long-time Mai Chaa, the ‘old
also utilize drag performances to initiate ‘closet’ Cambodi- Anglo-American gay friend running a social service agency mother’, feels
ans into the group, and to educate non-Cambodians about in Cambodian villages in and around Phnom Penh, the awkward in high
ee
the cultural role and (tacit) acceptance of being khteey in Cam- largest and most urbanized city in Cambodia. Their friend heels and the black
bodian society. offered the Cambodian Americans the choice of any ‘macho’ sequin dress, but
The trip to Cambodia provided an opportunity to show Cambodian man at the agency. The Cambodian Americans enjoys the opportu-
their Cambodian ‘drag queen sisters’ how in America they bristled at their friend’s offer when they were told by some nity to dress as a
can transform themselves while maintaining the ‘heart’ of a of the Cambodian men that they feared losing their jobs or woman for the first
woman. I went on the trip as the ‘real woman’ of the group, access to English language classes if they did not agree to time in her life.

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