Assertive in Classroom
Assertive in Classroom
Assertive in Classroom
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Copyright 2009-2013 by Bill Alexander, classroom-management-success.org Accessed on March, 27th 2013.
Assertive Behavior By Teachers Reduces Discipline Problems And Makes Effective Learning Possible
Assertive behavior management is often the key to success in the classroom, and it's worth learning how to use assertive discipline techniques with students. Let's get rid of a common misconception: assertive does not mean aggressive. Teachers who use assertive techniques are not hostile or threatening, they don't use sarcasm, and they are are not excessively demanding or overbearing: instead, they take control and use techniques that meet students' behaviour needs. Assertiveness means stating clearly what you want to happen, while respecting the rights of both students and teacher.
promotes effective learning, they act quickly and decisively in calm, well-rehearsed ways that encourage compliance.
punishment. It's worth saying here that punishments are not disrespectful, hostile or humiliating. They are designed to inconvenience and discomfort students, and focus on showing students that they have made the wrong choices that have affected their own and other students' learning. 6.In an assertive behavior management program teachers offer students choices - either to comply or not - and follow through with the consequences of the students' choice, positive for those students who comply, negative for those who don't. The concept of choice is key because it makes students take responsibility for their actions.
7.Assertive teachers are not out to 'score points' off students - they don't lie in wait trying to catch students out in order to punish them. In fact , the opposite is true: assertive behavior management programs encourage teachers to 'catch their students being good', in order to be able toacknowledge and reinforce positive interactions and remind students how positively they contribute to their own learning. In this sense, assertive teachers want to show students that they are equal partners in learning, not adversaries, although it is the teacher's job to lead the way. 9.Assertive behavior management programs promote student safety and security, both in the physical and psychological sense. Learning cannot take place in a climate of insecurity or fear. Students feel higher levels of personal security when their teacher is competent at directing the workings of the classroom. 10.Assertive behavior on the part of teachers also promotes social responsibility. Parents have the right to expect that their children will be allowed to learn in peace when they are in school, and it is in nobody's interests to allow some students to behave inappropriately when that affects the rights of others.
It's really important that the teacher follows through with the consequences every time. The whole system depends on the teacher being in control of a clearly understood sequence, and failure to follow through will devalue the system in the eyes of the students, and diminish the teacher's position.
Some students, especially as they get older, feel uncomfortable with public praise, so it may be wise to find ways to praise students privately, perhaps after the lesson.
Even those students who are uncomfortable with praise do appreciate acknowledgement. So for example, assertive teachers can communicate their appreciation to students by saying things such as: 'I see that all the students in the back row are listening and are ready to learn thank you - and the students to my left are almost ready - thank you.' This acknowledgement reminds students thay have met the teacher's expectation, and the teacher respectfully expresses appreciation.
Rewards other than verbal praise are more problematic because there is the risk that students
will associate doing as they are told because they receive a tangible reward, rather than behaving because it's the right thing to do.
It's a fine line, but most students respond to modest tangible rewards, such as, stars, stickers, phone calls and letters home, letters of commendation etc. I worked in one school where each teacher was required to give out 5 'Fantastic Student' cards each lesson, these cards could be cashed in for small prizes such as school stationery, free cinema tickets and iTunes tokens etc. The students and parents liked this system, and the school was complimented by government inspectors on their use of the scheme.
In particular, teachers need to practise giving instructions assertively. So, if a student is misbehaving, you can express respectfully your displeasure, but you must then state clearly what you want the student to do: eg 'Jack , I don't appreciate you not listening to me - I want you to stop talking, and then I want you to listen to me in silence and then answer my question if I direct it at you.'
Another effective assertive discipline technique is sometimes referred to as the 'broken record' technique: you repeat the instruction several times to make the instruction clear to the student and also to let the student see that the teacher is giving the student a choice either to comply or not. Three times is probably enough for the instruction to be repeated, and sometimes there is a powerful phrase you can use before you reach the final repetition - 'I've asked you twice now to......, if you don't follow this instruction I will have to...[whatever the consequence is...], is that really what you want? - this final phrase often lets the student see the decision to continue to misbehave really is their choice