Adult Consensual Spanking
Adult Consensual Spanking
Adult Consensual Spanking
by Jack
Update
Consent and adult are the two key words. It is not - in any
way - about the use of corporal punishment in the more
common manner. Nor is this paper about physical abuse of
any type. The writers of this essay abhor any type of abuse
or use of corporal punishment that is not between
consensual adults.
Introduction:
Why me?
Are you one of the many women who have long wanted a
relationship with a man who cares enough to set limits, to set
them down in a sensitive manner and to enforce them by the
use of corporal punishment usually in the manner of an
over-the-knee, bare bottom spanking? Does the use of the
word "spank" alone start to give you "funny" feelings? Do
you like to act like a brat and long for someone to "put you
in your place"? Do words like "brat," "naughty,"
"misbehave," and "spanking," all send all kinds of thoughts
to be generated? If so, you are not alone.
Increasingly women are realizing that many other women
share this most secret feeling. Look in the back of
Cosmopolitan some time and you will see one, two, possibly
three ads for people interested in "over-the-knee" discipline;
the ads offer stories and videos dedicated to "over-the-knee
erotica." Other mainstream publications also include such
advertisements including Romantic Times. They are in these
publications because they cater to middleclass women who
often have such a private interest.
Setting limits:
Long before the 'young lady' takes a trip over one's lap, the
seductiveness of the spanking begins. It has much more to do
with the brain than the bottom. The physical play that takes
place as mentally positioning a willing lady for a spanking is
even more powerful than the physical play that must later
take place her in position.
Videos
Other people are much more visual oriented. The good news
is that many of the same sources that provide the written
word on adult, consensual spanking, also produce quality
"spanking videos." There is something for everyone's taste,
but most of these videos are more PG rated than anything
else. Some are more R rated, but few are more explicit.
Meeting Others
Some people have also met over the computer. Either people
decide that they will meet after talking for some time on the
computer or some people have advertised on the computer
through on-line services or with ads on the net. Again,
precaution is the key word. Make sure that the person
shares the interest in spanking and not just looking for
companionship and ended up in the spanking area. Enjoy
on-line discussion and correspondence. People can find it
exciting to meet others this way so enjoy the apprehension
and building friendship.
Standing with her arms to her side or over her head while
getting scolded might start the actual punishment. 'Corner
time,' quiet contemplation while she stands in the corner
thinking about the spanking that will take place might be
used before the spanking. Other couples have more
innovative ways to start the spanking.
The End
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