Handout Teens and DV Restraining Orders
Handout Teens and DV Restraining Orders
Handout Teens and DV Restraining Orders
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• Most states allow you to get a restraining order against someone you are married to or
live with. But many teens are not married to or living with their abuser. There are states
that allow teens to get restraining orders against someone they dated or had a child with.
If you don’t think you’ll qualify for a restraining order in your state, don’t give up. There
may be other ways to use the law to help you stay safe.
• If you are under 18, you may need an adult to help you get a restraining order. While
there are several states that allow teens under 18 years old to apply for protection by
themselves (without their parent or guardian’s help), many states require teens to have
an adult involved in the process. In these states, teens generally need the help of their
parent or guardian to apply for a restraining order. If a teen does not want their parent
involved, they may be able to have another adult help them with the process. This adult
may be a friend or relative, and is sometimes referred to as a guardian ad litem.
• Often the abusive partner is a teen attending the same school as the victim. The court
may not automatically make orders to adequately protect the victim at school. Teens
should remember to ask the court to address school issues in the restraining order.