This is only the second South African movie that I've watched (the first being the engrossing 2021 film "I am All Girls"). Like the first, this film is equally compelling.
It's a tragic, heartbreaking story that could happen to any family. The viewer gets up close to a family that undergoes all the pain, frustration and anxiety in dealing with an autistic child/brother. What makes it worse is that, for a time, they didn't know exactly what's ailing young Alexander. His arrival in this world was eagerly awaited by parents who are expecting their first son at last.
Slowly but surely, the family disintegrates: husband Dawid resorts to drinking, the elder daughter wants Alexander committed to an institution. On top of these, expenses for Alexander's care mounts which makes Dawid understandably worried. Outside, Ingrid loses her friends. The only constant in this situation
is Ingrid's unconditional love for her son, whatever or whoever he is.
A bright spot in Ingrid's life comes
In the form of a household help doubling as Alexander's substitute caregiver--Miriam (Kune Van Merch).
The story unfolds as a series of flashbacks prompted by the police investigation. This approach works as a device in storytelling, an effective substitute to a linear exposition of events.
It's a simple story but which definitely tugs at our heartstrings. The actors perform well. Young Ian Roelofs ably portrays the autistic Alexander, quite a demanding role for a young actor indeed. Bravo.
The haunting, melancholic musical score adds a gloomy tone to a depressing story.
Watch this film to be reminded how precious
life is. That whatever life dishes out, we must be prepared to play the cards we are dealt.
